1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: My name is Tatasha Bamblet. I'm a proud First Nations 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: woman and I'm here to acknowledge country t Glenn Young 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: Ganya Niana, kaka ya Ya bin Ahaka nian Ar gay 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: In Mbina yakarum jar Dominyama, Domagahawakaman, damon Imlan Wumba bang 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: Gadabomba in and now in wakah ghana on yakraum jar Watnadaa. Hello, 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 1: beautiful friends, we gather on the lands of the Aboriginal people. 7 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: We thank I acknowledge and respect the Aberiginal people's land 8 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: that we're gathering on today. Take pleasure in all the 9 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: land and respect all that you see. She's on the 10 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: Money podcast acknowledges culture, country, community and connections, bringing you 11 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 1: the tools, knowledge and resources for you to thrive. 12 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 2: She's on the Money. She's on the Money. 13 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 3: Hello and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 14 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 3: that makes personal finance fun. 15 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: Especially on Fridays. It is our favorite day of the 16 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 2: week because we. 17 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 3: Get our team together and it is our whole like 18 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 3: Little Friday's team, and we get to celebrate you the 19 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 3: incredible She's on the Money community. Miss Jess Gricci she's here. 20 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 3: She's sharing our favorite money wins. Miss Becksayed is back 21 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: from her gallivanting around Thailand, and we'll be sharing her 22 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 3: broke tips and we're going to be helping to answer 23 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 3: a money dilemma, which this week is asking what to 24 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 3: do when you can't get the insurance you want and 25 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 3: something that you lead into our dms about whether you 26 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 3: should leave your toxic workplace before you have another job 27 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 3: lined up. How have your week's been thus far? 28 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 4: Mine's been good, if you can tell. I am coming 29 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 4: off the back of being sick, so I am thrilled 30 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 4: to be up. But it is quite bad because my 31 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 4: boyfriend got sick. First, he got me sick, and I 32 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 4: was like, ah, the man flew. And then I got 33 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 4: a really nocked for six and he was like, oh 34 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 4: the man flew. So yeah, man flu, you get man flu, 35 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 4: don't eat. Karma came for me, as did the man flu. 36 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 4: But I'm feeling back and better than ever. I'm just 37 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 4: a little bit a little croky still, So sorry annoying, No, 38 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 4: you sound great. 39 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 2: Annoying. 40 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 3: In fact, I don't think anyone will be able to 41 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,399 Speaker 3: tell you just pointed it out because you're probably self 42 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 3: conscious absolutely. Yeah, you sound absolutely fine. 43 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 2: And missfecs that nice. Yes, she's that. I'm back. 44 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 5: I had a gorgeous time. We were seeing Bangkok and 45 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 5: I hadn't been there before, so it was just so fun. 46 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 5: And I went like I went to Japan last year 47 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 5: and I was like, oh, nothing, we top that. But 48 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:46,519 Speaker 5: then Bangkok honestly really came close. It's really really fun, 49 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 5: great food. There wasn't even a nano second where I 50 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 5: was hungry. I just did not stop eating. I didn't 51 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 5: let myself be hungry, you know. So I feel like 52 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 5: you might notice I'm a little bit chunkier. 53 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 2: I did not notice. 54 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: And I don't think that that's an accurate depiction of 55 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 3: how you've come home. I'm glowing and happy and ready 56 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 3: to take on the world. 57 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: They're so nice. Thank if you do. 58 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 6: And on that. 59 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 2: How is Yuie? 60 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 3: Oh honestly been live, love loving my way through October life. 61 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 3: I just I'm getting a bit tired. 62 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: I'm not going to lie. 63 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 3: I just feel like we have had a lot on 64 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 3: We've been doing a lot, working a lot. It feels 65 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: like Christmas is creeping up. I mean we've just been 66 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 3: recording some Christmas episodes and that feels honestly exciting because 67 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 3: like Jess loves Christmas. 68 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 2: We're all festive girl is. 69 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 3: But you know when you're like, oh, this is just 70 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 3: all happening too quick. What do you mean didn't twenty 71 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 3: twenty five just start? So I'm feeling a little bit 72 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 3: like and this is so silly. I feel like we 73 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 3: all go through this, this feeling of have I done 74 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 3: everything that I said I wanted to do this year? 75 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 3: And then I'm like no, oh my god, like what 76 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 3: have I got to finish? Which is so silly, so silly, 77 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 3: it's silly. It just feels like the years catching up. Yeah, 78 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 3: I totally get it, all right, would you hypothetically like, 79 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 3: get this, it's going to shock you. 80 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 2: A five star review? 81 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, you didn't see that happen, But Renee Louise ninety 82 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 3: four did. She sent us a five star review via 83 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 3: Apple and it was entitled Empowered, and I was like, well, 84 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: this is the one for this week. Hi, she's on 85 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 3: the money. I've been listening to your podcast every day 86 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 3: now for the past month or two, and it's so 87 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 3: good to learn about money that is easy to understand. 88 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 3: We have done something similar a few years ago through 89 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,799 Speaker 3: someone else and we were able to pay for our wedding, 90 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 3: pay off our credit card loans and other debts, have 91 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 3: savings and it was really good until I had medical 92 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 3: issues and had our daughter two and a half years ago. 93 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 3: As life goes on, we fell into a little bit 94 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 3: of debt again and we've gone back to some bad habits. 95 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 3: But after friends telling us about you guys and how 96 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 3: simple and easy you make it, I've just joined shares 97 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 3: this signed up to your money course and I've been 98 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 3: mapping out the next twelve to twenty four months, which 99 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 3: is so exciting. I feel motivated and happy to be 100 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 3: back on track. 101 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: Thank you. I really needed this. That's amazing, so cute, 102 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: that's lovely. 103 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 4: It just shows life is in seasons, and you know, 104 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 4: sometimes you're going great, sometimes you're going on as well 105 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 4: as you want, and it's okay totally. 106 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 2: Do you know what else? I thought? 107 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 3: And this is like maybe just me being a little 108 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 3: bit special, a little bit adhd, a little bit side questy. 109 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 3: Her name was renee Louise ninety four, and I was like, 110 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 3: that's such a ninety four middle name, Like my sister's 111 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 3: middle name is Louise. Every second person I know that 112 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 3: was born in nineteen ninety four, has a middle name Louise. 113 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 4: Just happens, true, just happens. One of my this is 114 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 4: so random. One of my most favorite teachers in primary school. 115 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 4: Her name was renee Louise oh renee Louise Cunningham. I 116 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 4: think it was her surname, but I think she got 117 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 4: married in a changed I can't remember. 118 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 2: But she was your favorite. 119 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 4: She was literally isn't it so funny how your favorite 120 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 4: teacher is like stick? Like I bet if I said 121 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 4: to who's your favorite teacher? 122 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 2: You guys, I got I remember. Oh yeah, it's mister 123 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 2: Simmons from grave Ve. You go, I have a least 124 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: favorite teacher. 125 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 3: His name's Matt Simmons. By the way, I think everybody 126 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 3: loved Dimbo. You know those teachers that like just were 127 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 3: everybody's favorite teacher. 128 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I reckon life by who missus derwent. 129 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 5: She was really mean to me and my brother, and 130 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 5: I don't want to play the card, but I think 131 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 5: it's because we're both Indian looking, but we're not Indian. 132 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: We're Bangladeshi. Actually it was about to say, you're not 133 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 2: even Indian, I know. 134 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 5: But she's still I think she thought that and she 135 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 5: didn't like us, so she was maybe a little bit racist. 136 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 5: She's on my hate list, not in being Indian, you know, 137 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 5: we were all India at one point, but she just 138 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 5: had like a real distaste for this. 139 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 2: Like I don't like her either. 140 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 3: I feel like there are like two types of people 141 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 3: in this world, and I'm type B. I think Jess 142 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 3: is also type B. Don't know, I think that you. 143 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 2: I don't know. 144 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 3: There are those people that would have been like, oh, well, 145 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 3: she was actually a really nice teacher. She didn't do 146 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 3: anything to me. She was so nice, And then there 147 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 3: are type B people where I'm like, we riode at Dawn. 148 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was nice to me. She did what to you? 149 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 2: That's so nice? 150 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 7: Oh my god. 151 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: So she's on my cancel list as well. Thank you, 152 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 2: thank you you waiting thirty years I've been waiting to 153 00:06:58,320 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 2: put her on your list. 154 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 3: Let's jump back into the show. No more side quests 155 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 3: and it's just greachie. Can you share your favorite money 156 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 3: with absolutely? 157 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 2: I can. 158 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: So. 159 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 4: Firstly, this week I've got a money win from Ann 160 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 4: who said I returned to shampoo to Mecca that was 161 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 4: causing me to have an itchy scalp, and. 162 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 2: I got a refund. 163 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 4: Oh good, Just to remind everyone, Mecha, lets you do that, like, 164 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 4: you can test it if it's not for you. I 165 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 4: believe there are some t's and z's check the tz's, 166 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 4: but you can take things back, which I think is great. 167 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 2: But also it's so expensive these days. 168 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 3: And if you were like I'm going to buy a 169 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 3: shampoo at Mecca, like you're putting some pretty cold hard 170 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 3: cash up front. Absolutely, so good on you for standing 171 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 3: your values, because I'm not gonna lie. I would feel 172 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 3: awkward and put it in the back of my cupboard 173 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 3: and forget. 174 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: I owned it. Absolutely. 175 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 4: Next I've got a money in it from Amy, who 176 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 4: said she needed to buy all new plants on the 177 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 4: weekend as she was re landscaping her front yard. It 178 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 4: was going to be around four hundred dollars of plants 179 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 4: from Bunnings or the local nursery. 180 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 2: But then she found a. 181 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 4: Guy a marketplace get a little plant business from his garden, 182 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 4: and she bought most of the plants she needed for 183 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 4: two hundred and twenty dollars. 184 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 2: Also, that's really cute supporting to all business. It's how fun. 185 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 4: Next week, money went from Caitlind, who said money Win 186 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 4: had a successful no spend week. All I bought was 187 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 4: groceries and breakfast out with a friend. Well done, well done. 188 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 4: It's hard, you know what. 189 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 2: It's small, but it's hard. 190 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 4: And then I've got a money win this week from Tracy, 191 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 4: who took a leave out of bextbook and said she 192 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 4: changed her Netflix from a standard plan to the cheapest. 193 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 2: Yes, you're a reminder. Ads are not that bad. 194 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: I like what we're willing to compromise on, because if 195 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 3: I'd asked you that two years ago, you'd be like, 196 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 3: absolutely not. 197 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: You know, you're like, as on that bad. They're pretty nice, 198 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 2: you know what. 199 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 4: I'm hard up enough that I've taken out here at 200 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 4: the absolutely and honestly they don't come up often. 201 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, times are changing that absolutely feto. We'll be watching 202 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 2: free to air TV so with a bad time. 203 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 4: Next, I've got a money win from Grace, who said 204 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 4: her new office building runs free fitness classes. She signed 205 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 4: up for her first pilates class on Tuesday morning. 206 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 2: Also, sorry, free pilates. 207 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 3: I thought you were thinking like it would just be 208 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 3: like the Les Mills old school fitness lass, so maybe 209 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 3: you weren't that interested in that's school. 210 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 4: That's a good office perk. I would say, whoever's office 211 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 4: is doing that, absolutely. 212 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 2: Signed me up. 213 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 4: And then lastly, this week, I've got a money win 214 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 4: from Rebecca who said counsel withdrew two parking fines because 215 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 4: she received them while their baby was in the nicqueue. 216 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 4: Oh god, it is not nice. 217 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 2: Good people. 218 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 4: Iby is okay, me too, and the saves are around 219 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 4: three hundred dollars. So money win for the pocket, hopefully 220 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 4: a life win for you guys because a bit of 221 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 4: stress gone and hopefully Bubba's doing okay. 222 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 2: Yes, well that's a good place to leave it. 223 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, I love it, Miss Beck say ed, yes, 224 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 3: have you come back raging with some good broke tips 225 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 3: because I have had to carry this. 226 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 2: I don't want you to listen to the episodes, though, 227 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 2: so I should. I did my best, and sometimes you 228 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 2: know what your best is just not good enough. And 229 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 2: that's okay. But I think Beck would tell me it 230 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 2: was a good job, even if it was terrible job. 231 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 6: Yeah. 232 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:50,599 Speaker 5: I haven't listened, but I'm sure you did do a 233 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 5: good job. But I will be listening and I will 234 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 5: be critiquing. 235 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: Can we toxically supportive? 236 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,839 Speaker 3: That's so nice of coll like Beck could come into 237 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 3: this office and be like, man, I just hit someone 238 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 3: with my and I'd be like, babe, why were they 239 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 3: in front of your car? 240 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 2: Exactly? But I was on the path, the footpath. Yeah, 241 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 2: well why were they? Why were they there? Begs like 242 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 2: oh I failed to test, and I'd be like, oh 243 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: my god, why did they make it so hard? 244 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 4: Rude? 245 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 2: I really appreciate that, Okay, Jess. 246 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 5: I was a bit cheeky this week and I was 247 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 5: scrolling through the money wins color, but some of them 248 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 5: were really good, and so I just wanted to share that. 249 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:26,839 Speaker 5: This first one comes from La, who says she was 250 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 5: unwell earlier this year. I do apologies. I hope you're okay. 251 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 5: She had to travel to and from Melbourne for treatment 252 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 5: quite a number of times. But there is a Victorian 253 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 5: Patient Travel Assistance Scheme VPTAS, so just rolls off the 254 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 5: tongue which provides some financial assistance for patients who have 255 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:45,559 Speaker 5: to travel more than one hundred committers to access treatment. 256 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,599 Speaker 2: I did not know about this, that's right that and 257 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:50,199 Speaker 2: I'm glad that the community does now. Absolutely so. 258 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 5: I guess it's really also great for regional people because 259 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 5: I'm sure we have to come to and from Melbourne 260 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 5: every now and then. 261 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 2: And so the processing times are not super quick. 262 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 5: But she finally received the money and put us into savings, 263 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 5: which I think is great. It's kind of nice when 264 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 5: you can afford at the moment you know it's coming back, 265 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 5: and then it kind of just comes back when you 266 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 5: don't expect it. 267 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, oh my god, a bit of free money. 268 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 5: So it's the Victorian Patient Travel Assistance Scheme. 269 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: I love p t as Ye, you're right it does. 270 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 5: And this next, but also I do hope you're feeling 271 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 5: a lot better now, Ella. And so then I dipped 272 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 5: into my own thread, I say, little thread. This one 273 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 5: comes from Katie, who says I don't have a Seati 274 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 5: mobile or home internet plan. Instead I buy start simpacks 275 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 5: at woolorves or calls when they go on sale, usually 276 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 5: about nine to thirteen dollars for twenty eight days with 277 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 5: unlimited international calling. As I've got family overseas, as long 278 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 5: as I trade between providers every month, I can keep 279 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 5: the same number. It's a tiny bit cumbersome, but very cheap. 280 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 2: That is cheap. 281 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 5: That's nine dollars, say, for example, for a month. That's 282 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 5: your home and mobile because you just hotspot everything. 283 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, and if you're willing to do the admin, that's 284 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 3: actually a really good money we need crazy Sorry, that's 285 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 3: so good. Oh do you know what I'm willing to do? 286 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 3: The admins sometimes to say unlimited you could run an empire. 287 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 5: Seriously, that's actually fantastic. My phone is ninety nine and 288 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 5: in today is seventy. So if you get rid of those, 289 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 5: Oh my god, that's genie. 290 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 2: Ninety nine dollars a month for your phone? 291 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,719 Speaker 3: Is it like your phone and your phone bill like 292 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 3: the handset? Okay, all right, that's all reasonable. What do 293 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 3: you pay for your phone every month? 294 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:33,559 Speaker 2: Jess? Thirty five dollars? Yes, same Aldi, No, no, Optis. 295 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 2: I'm with a voter phone. We do an annual team everyone. 296 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 4: If we did it once and then every yes, one goes, 297 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 4: hey guy, it's been about a check again. 298 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 2: Call your provider. 299 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 6: Get on the chat. 300 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,079 Speaker 2: One day we were all literally, yeah, we were all 301 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: in the office. We weren't doing work. We were all 302 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 2: talking to like Optius chat, like Telstra chat. One of us. 303 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 2: I was on the voteraphone chat at that time, and 304 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 2: I was like, no, no, no, sorry, my friend is 305 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 2: actually talking to OPTAs she just got thirty five dollars. 306 00:12:59,360 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 2: I want thirty five. 307 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 3: They're desperate to keep you, yea, as they should be, 308 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:05,719 Speaker 3: as they should be, because I'll leave. 309 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 2: It's not that deep for me. 310 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 3: Loyalty runs very shallow in my Yeah. Yeah, nine dollars 311 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 3: is great, that's incredible. My broke tip's quite topical right. 312 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 5: Now for me personally, because I just came from an island. 313 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 5: So this is for people traveling to Southeast Asia. There 314 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 5: is currently a clinical trial happening called Understanding the Causes 315 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 5: of Diary in Australia in Australian adult tourists traveling to 316 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 5: Southeast Asia, which I think we all have been very 317 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 5: curious about. 318 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: Do you know what? 319 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 3: A while ago I went to Bali and I posted 320 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 3: on my Instagram that I have never gotten Ballei belly 321 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 3: and still have never gotten Balley belly because I believe 322 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 3: you have to have one full fat coke every single 323 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 3: day because in my head, this is a complete side quest. Again, 324 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 3: I do apologize, Beck, I'm feeling very extra DHD spicy today, okay, 325 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 3: because in my head, if you put coins into a 326 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 3: cup with some coke, it like fully strips them gets 327 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 3: rid of all of the rust. 328 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 2: I think it does that to my insides, but with 329 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 2: the bugs. Not a word of a lie. 330 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 4: I went to a doctor once and they said, have 331 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 4: you tried having like I am not made I know 332 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 4: that sounds made up. 333 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 2: It's not made up any I think it was something. 334 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 3: So my sister gets migraines and her doctor tells her 335 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 3: every single time one can of full fat coke as 336 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 3: like a pre empty of Like, you know, it doesn't 337 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 3: save her, but it does make things a lot easier. 338 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 2: Really, why not coke zero? 339 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 3: I think you need the mix of the carbonation, the 340 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 3: caffeination and the sugar. Okay, I think it's like, I 341 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 3: don't know. I'm not a doctor. 342 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 2: I am a hypothesist. I feel like we'rening fake news. 343 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 4: To me. 344 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 2: Fake news. But you know what did I get? BALI belly? 345 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 2: Tell me more about your diarrhea story? 346 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 4: True? 347 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 5: That's so true, and also a placebo even if it does, 348 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 5: this does call plus Potentially it is just as effective. 349 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 2: You know, I'm going to start selling jelly beans that 350 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 2: help you save money. You never know, No, the brain 351 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 2: is powerful. 352 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you eat a jelly bean a day, you 353 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 3: can actually save like a thousand dollars a month's crazy. 354 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, buy my jelly beans? Yeah yeah yeah, tell us 355 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 2: a study. 356 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 5: Sorry, tell me about So this is quite topical because 357 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 5: I just came back from Thaighland. So this is for 358 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 5: people traveling Southeast Asia. There is currently a clinical trial 359 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 5: happening called Understanding the Causes of Diary and Australian adult 360 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 5: tourists traveling Southeast Asia. You can sign up and you 361 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 5: get one hundred fifty dollars. Whether you get diary or not. 362 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 5: You do have to give a still sample though, which 363 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 5: is uncomfortable. But whether or not you get diarrhea, you 364 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 5: will be receiving one hundred fifty dollars if you sign 365 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 5: up and get chosen, is the main thing. 366 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 2: That's a perfectly good way to make money. Oh no, 367 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 2: and she's been sitting time, just like the toilet. If 368 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 2: you've got you can soon. I've got a few more 369 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 2: than a I'm scared, all right. Well that's the bottom 370 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 2: end of this side. 371 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 7: So we're gonna go to a really quick break and 372 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 7: on the flip side, we're gonna be answering a more 373 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 7: vanilla money dilemma, which asks what do you do when 374 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 7: you can't get insurance that you want to have. 375 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 2: And something that you slid into. 376 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 3: Our dms about whether you should leave your toxic workplace 377 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 3: before you've solidified another job and lined that up, so 378 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 3: guys don't go anywhere. 379 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 2: Welcome back, everybody. Let's take a listen to this week's 380 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 2: money dilemma. 381 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 6: Hi. There, have you got a money dilemma you just 382 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 6: can't solve? The Sheese on the Money team is here 383 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 6: to help. Every week we tackle your dilemmas, both big 384 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 6: and small, to answer your most burning money, career and 385 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 6: life questions. To get involved, simply head to our website 386 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 6: and leave us a short voice recording and you might 387 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 6: just find yourself on the show. 388 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 2: Now, let's take a listen to this week's money dilemma. 389 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 8: Hi, She's on the Money. I absolutely love the pot 390 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 8: on everything with the community, especially for women. My question 391 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 8: is about life insurance TPDIP, death cover, etc. Unfortunately, due 392 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 8: to a myriad of health conditions, I'm ineligible for life insurance, 393 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 8: including through my super Even though I don't expect insurance 394 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 8: to cover my pre existing conditions, I understand it's part 395 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 8: of the underwriter's job. However, do you have any tips 396 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 8: to what I can do to prepare myself otherwise. Obviously 397 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 8: having an emergency fund is super important, but it's never 398 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 8: going to give me the same protection as life insurance 399 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 8: in terms of the actual amount of money. Is this 400 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:37,239 Speaker 8: just bad luck? Or is there another way I can 401 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 8: future proof myself? 402 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 2: Thank you? All right? Just first, cab off the rank. 403 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I don't know if this person has seen 404 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 3: a financial advisor or not, but that would be my 405 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 3: first port of call. You guys know that I will 406 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 3: harp on day and night about sky Wealth. They are 407 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 3: literally my financial advisors when it comes to insurance. Jess, 408 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure you're with them. Yeah, I'm pretty sure. 409 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 3: Like a producer, like everybody in our team has gone 410 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 3: through sky Wealth to do their insurance is just because 411 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 3: they do good. They know literally everything about it, and 412 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 3: we feel really confident. So I would go and talk 413 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 3: to their team, because if you've been declined just by 414 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 3: one insurer, you can talk about you know what other 415 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,959 Speaker 3: insurers could I potentially go with? You know, she might 416 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 3: have actually gone and talked to Phil literally one on one, 417 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 3: and he said, look, we can't insure you. I just 418 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 3: don't know the semantics of this situation, but often you 419 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 3: could potentially talk to a different insurer that will either 420 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:33,360 Speaker 3: exclude your pre existing conditions or get you to pay 421 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 3: a loading on your insurance so you pay more insurance 422 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 3: to still solidify it. And I would be having those conversations, 423 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 3: so it's not completely ruled out if you aren't able 424 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 3: to solidify insurance at all. And there are some people 425 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 3: that can't get insurance. So whether it is pre existing 426 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 3: conditions or you have certain occupations. Did you know that 427 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 3: some pilots can't get life insurance, Oh, because of the 428 00:18:56,600 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 3: risk of there's too much risk. Flight controllers also have 429 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 3: a lot of issue with it, even though they're that's 430 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 3: what I used to say crazy, but I ended up 431 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 3: with a lot of clients who are traffic flight controllers 432 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,399 Speaker 3: right anyway, So there are a lot of people who 433 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 3: might not be able to get it. And at that 434 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 3: point you are trying to obviously future proof your finances 435 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 3: in a way that you still again she mentioned it 436 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 3: like having an emergency fund. That would be the number 437 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 3: one thing that I focus on. What other insurances could 438 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 3: you get that support you? So, yes, you haven't been 439 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 3: able to get the life insurance, but what about total 440 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 3: and permanent disability? Or TPD. What about income protection? What 441 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 3: about trauma insurance? Do you have any of those accessible? 442 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,640 Speaker 3: Like what's that going to look like? Also making sure 443 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 3: that if you're in a couple, your partner is inshure 444 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 3: WOD well, just because you can't get it doesn't mean 445 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,640 Speaker 3: they shouldn't be going in and exploring it. Like there's 446 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 3: just there's a few things that you can do. And 447 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 3: I'm really sorry that that's the case, but that is 448 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 3: honestly the reality for some people where you just can't 449 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 3: solidify it. And I'm not saying that's okay. I think 450 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 3: it really sucks. It actually often is the people that 451 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 3: need it so so so much. Yeah, but get advice 452 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 3: and get good advice. But if you are speaking to 453 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,640 Speaker 3: a financial advisor and they have said I'm so sorry, 454 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 3: miss jessic Ricci can't ensure you, they will give you 455 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 3: a plan of what else you should be doing to 456 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,879 Speaker 3: protect yourself. So it's not That's why I'm kind of like, 457 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 3: so did you get advice, because any good financial advisor 458 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 3: would be like, I'm so sorry, I can't insure you 459 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 3: for this, but this is our fallback plan. 460 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 2: This is what you should be doing. 461 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 3: I would love to see you save x amount per month, 462 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 3: or your emergency fund needs to be this percentage more 463 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 3: than normal people's or whatever. So that's why I was 464 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 3: kind of effy about whether they've gotten advice, because any 465 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 3: good advisor would never leave their client hind dry. 466 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 2: They wouldn't be like, sorry, can't get it. 467 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 5: Have a good day by Like yeah, I would say, 468 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 5: like if it is the case that you can't get 469 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 5: any at all, then I mean, I think Victoria would say, 470 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 5: don't put your money where you can't act says it immediately, 471 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 5: like investments would say. 472 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: That, yeah. 473 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,360 Speaker 3: I would say that, yeah, your emergency fund should never 474 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 3: never be invested. 475 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 2: Put it in savings. 476 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 5: And then also I would say, like you know, as 477 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 5: if you can savings and then also maybe like super 478 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 5: and maybe a little bit investments if you can afford 479 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 5: to have like multiple sources of financially securing. Yeah, And 480 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 5: then I would also just like be really up to 481 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 5: date with like sendlink and ndis and all these kind 482 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,919 Speaker 5: of things, like just in case, because it's. 483 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:31,400 Speaker 2: Really sucks when you touchwood. 484 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 5: If you were to get to a place where you're like, oh, 485 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 5: I don't have any InCom and I can't get any 486 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,719 Speaker 5: income and I also don't have insurance, and then you're like, okay, well, 487 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 5: let's see what sendlink has. 488 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 2: It's so overwhelming at that point because. 489 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:42,640 Speaker 5: It's like, I mean, I don't know about everyone else, 490 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 5: but I find it so hard to like read and 491 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,200 Speaker 5: take in what's on the Gay Too website. 492 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 2: I'm really grateful that it's there. I'm really grateful we 493 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 2: have these. I love reading that website. Perfect. That's perfect. 494 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 5: But I would say look up beforehand as well, because 495 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,439 Speaker 5: even if you were like, Okay, well, if worse came 496 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 5: to worst, Touchwood, I could get five hundre dollars a 497 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,719 Speaker 5: week or five dollars a fort nite, whatever, then at 498 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 5: least you can start preparing your budget for that amount 499 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 5: if anything were to happen. You can start preparing for 500 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 5: what you can get in the future if you were 501 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 5: to ever need it. And then you can also figure 502 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,439 Speaker 5: out where the hell the forms are, what the hell 503 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 5: you do with the forms? 504 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 2: What do I need? I need by a scan of 505 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 2: my idea or something I don't know, So it's really 506 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:23,640 Speaker 2: good to just have that at the back of your mind. 507 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 2: I think you can need Also. 508 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 3: While I'm thinking about it, the additional thing I would say, 509 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 3: is this is a really good flip in reminder to 510 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 3: get your insurances in place before you even think you 511 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,959 Speaker 3: need them. Yes, because yes, you might have a pre 512 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 3: existing condition now. But there's and I don't know what 513 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 3: it is, it's none of my business, but there is 514 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 3: a very big likelihood if you are young and fit 515 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,360 Speaker 3: and healthy, you think you don't need insurances, and that's 516 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 3: the point at which you need insurance the most, and 517 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 3: it is the most valuable to pick up because you 518 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 3: won't have any pre existing conditions. 519 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 2: We see it often in our community. 520 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,680 Speaker 3: You know, you'll go and see an advisor and they'll 521 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 3: be like, so sorry, you had this health issue, or 522 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,239 Speaker 3: you might have had a melanoma cutout, or you might 523 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 3: have had just literally anything happen. You used to play 524 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 3: netpul and you've got a bung knee and they just 525 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 3: won't cover these things. And you go, well, that's really 526 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 3: annoying because what if I do my other ACL I 527 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 3: won't be covered for that. 528 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 2: And you'll be like, well, no, you won't be. 529 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 3: So the younger you are, the more important it is 530 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 3: to solidify insurance while you can get it, because even 531 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 3: though abung knee or whatever you might go, they wouldn't 532 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,640 Speaker 3: not ensure me. But you add that to a list 533 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 3: of pre existing conditions, like let's say you've got a 534 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,399 Speaker 3: bung knee. You know, you had a heart issue at 535 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 3: some point, and you also have mental health. Insurers are 536 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 3: cracking down and they're not doing it to be awful 537 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 3: and mean, like they have underwriters whose job it is 538 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 3: to measure risk and go, okay, well, actually I don't 539 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 3: want to give Jess a policy because. 540 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 2: She's very very likely to claim on it. And at 541 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 2: the end of the day, we're insurance, and yes, insurance 542 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 2: is there to. 543 00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 3: Protect you, but they are also betting people, and they're 544 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 3: betting that the people that they are ensuring hopefully don't claim, 545 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 3: so that their business stays profitable. And if they go 546 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,120 Speaker 3: insure all these people who arguably need it and from 547 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:14,159 Speaker 3: my perspective, deserve it and I want to have it 548 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 3: because it keeps their finances healthy. They're like, sorry, we'd 549 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 3: be paying out left, right and center and become a 550 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,880 Speaker 3: non profitable company, and that's actually a really bad business. 551 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 2: Decision for them. 552 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 3: So it's more than personal, if that makes sense, And 553 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 3: I think you understanding that is also important as well, 554 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 3: because they've deemed you too high risk, but that doesn't 555 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 3: mean another company might not setting your lots of love. 556 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 2: I hope that whatever you're dealing with is, you know, 557 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:37,120 Speaker 2: not too hard. 558 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,400 Speaker 4: I know it can be a lot when you're trying 559 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 4: to get your finances and stuff in order and dealing 560 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 4: with all of those things as well. 561 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 2: So where I was sending you good thoughts, lots of love. 562 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 2: But should we get into the juicy DM? All right, yes, 563 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 2: of course. 564 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 3: So we've got a juicy DM, which I think is 565 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,199 Speaker 3: it's not It's obviously juicy because it's about a toxic workplace, 566 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 3: but I also think it's a really relevant question, especially 567 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 3: at this point in time, so our community members help. 568 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 2: I need some advice. 569 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 3: I'm a pastry chef working sixty plus hours a week, 570 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,360 Speaker 3: but I'm only paid for forty five, and overtime becomes 571 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 3: time in loo. 572 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 2: As I'm on a salary. It's physically exhausting. 573 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 3: The vibe is toxic, constant negative feedback like work harder, 574 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 3: do better, with nothing actually helpful being contributed to the conversation. 575 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 3: They swapped me to night shifts without extra pay and 576 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 3: extended my probation and said I'd be let go if 577 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 3: I didn't improve. I'm halfway through and haven't heard a word. 578 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,640 Speaker 3: Since there are no jobs in my field where I live, 579 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 3: and I've had no luck in other industries. I've got 580 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 3: a mortgage and around twenty thousand dollars saved, and I'm 581 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 3: honestly just ready to walk with no job lined up. 582 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 3: Parts of me feel like I shouldn't waste my savings 583 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 3: just because I hate my job. That said, I don't 584 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 3: know how much longer I can take it. I'm just 585 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 3: after the community's input. Whether I'm being silly or smart 586 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 3: by putting me first, I'm. 587 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 2: Really sorry that's happening to you. 588 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 4: That sounds super stressful. I, as you know, guys know 589 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,199 Speaker 4: quite risk adverse, I would say, especially with the mortgage 590 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 4: over your head, I would be walking. I really want 591 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 4: you to be able to prioritize your mental health, and 592 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 4: that's so important and so valid, But pragmatically speaking, your 593 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 4: emergency fund, your savings will only last you for so long. 594 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 4: It's a tough job market out there, and particularly because 595 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,200 Speaker 4: you've just told me, you just said that there's no 596 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 4: jobs in your area, you're having a hard time. That 597 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 4: money will disappear more quickly than you think. And my 598 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 4: concern would be that the financial pressures of having to 599 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 4: pay a mortgage and not having money coming in could 600 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 4: also put I would argue the same level of strain 601 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 4: on you that you're already experiencing. Its kind of like 602 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,119 Speaker 4: you'd be training one negative thing for another negative thing. 603 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 2: I would be it sounds like you might be already 604 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 2: but actively looking for jobs. 605 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 4: Also, speaking to fair work, I'm pretty sure depending on 606 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 4: your award and depending on what your previous pay rate was, 607 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 4: night shift generally means that you do need to be 608 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 4: paid a higher rate unless your previous rate was above award, 609 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 4: So I would be looking into that. If there's a union, 610 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 4: feel industry looking into that as well. Just making sure 611 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 4: that everything's above board, because a few of the things 612 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,399 Speaker 4: you've said have kind of flagged to me that your 613 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 4: workplace might not be doing all the right things, So 614 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 4: you can give fair work call they exist for that 615 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 4: exact reason. Talk to them about your probation extension, talk 616 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,360 Speaker 4: to them about the fact that you're not getting actionable feedback, 617 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,920 Speaker 4: because that then also builds a historical chain of events, 618 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 4: so that if you were to be let go unfairly 619 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 4: or unfairly dismissed. You've got that evidence already supported and 620 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 4: noted within fair work, which I think is important. But yeah, 621 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,400 Speaker 4: I know that that's probably not the answer that you're 622 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 4: looking for, and maybe I feel like beck might have 623 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:35,920 Speaker 4: a different take on it. 624 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 2: Thought I'll give you the answer. She looked like she 625 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 2: was ready for her thoughts. Yes, because this is my thing. 626 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 5: As you guys know, I quit my job randomly to 627 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 5: do like literally four weeks at a job that I 628 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 5: wanted to do, and then I was. 629 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 2: Unemployed, and which she's not unemployed, by the way. No, 630 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 2: I just I only just got a part time job. 631 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 5: But what I'm saying is like, if you quit and 632 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 5: you don't have a job at the end of it, 633 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 5: you will never not make it work. I'm somehow made 634 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 5: it work. I still got rent money because I was like, oh, 635 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 5: I'm going to do this and this and this that 636 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 5: will just make rent money. 637 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 2: You're very resourceful. Well, thank you so much. But I 638 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 2: do think that, like, I don't think you will. 639 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,159 Speaker 5: Have to worry about not having a job and not 640 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 5: being able to pay the bills, because I know that 641 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 5: would stress me out. I think it is so fun, 642 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 5: It is so exciting and there's something so chill about 643 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 5: being like, oh, I'm just I'm doing this little thing 644 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 5: that's temporary that I'm just doing because I need to 645 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 5: make money to pay the rent this month. It's like 646 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 5: when you have a full time job that you really hate, 647 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:34,960 Speaker 5: you know what's paying the bills, but you're not like 648 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,399 Speaker 5: you're not doing it to pay the bills. It's almost 649 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 5: like you're doing it because it's just part of your 650 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 5: life and you just hate it. But when you quit 651 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 5: your job and you're like, leave yourself a week or 652 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 5: two to just be unemployed, and then after that, don't 653 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 5: even if you can't find work in your field, then 654 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 5: do whatever the hell I've emailed recruiters and being like, hey, 655 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 5: I'm happy to do temp work. Sometimes that literally means 656 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 5: sitting at a desk with twenty other people who are 657 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 5: there to do temp work and literally uns stapling paper 658 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 5: and putting those papers in folders, and you do that 659 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 5: for eight hours a day, and it's like mind numbing. 660 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 5: You chuck your headphones in. You know that you're only 661 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 5: there so that you can make money. Everyone's only there 662 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 5: so they can make money. You don't have to put 663 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 5: on this whole like you know, when you go into 664 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 5: interviews and they're like, why do you. 665 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 2: Want to work here? 666 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 5: And you know it's because you want money, but you 667 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 5: have to be like, oh, I'm so passionate about I 668 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 5: don't know ice, creameres, you know, like. 669 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 2: Random places that you're trying to get jobs at so 670 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 2: you make money. Don't do any of that. 671 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,239 Speaker 5: Just get temp jobs, just to like pickpacking, just get 672 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 5: a little kitchen hand job, whatever you can do to 673 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 5: make money in the meantime when you start needing to 674 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 5: make money again. 675 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 2: But I think put in your notice now. 676 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 5: In the meantime, be looking for really quick and easy 677 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 5: temp jobs. 678 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 2: Whatever you want to do. It doesn't have to be 679 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 2: in the same field. You're going to make it work. 680 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 5: And because you've quit your job, you're going to have 681 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 5: to make it work, and that there's something very exciting 682 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,719 Speaker 5: about that. So put in your resignation and then make 683 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 5: it work, and I trust that you will. And then 684 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 5: you're going to find something slowly, slowly, you're gonna be looking. 685 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 5: You're going to find something you love, but you're just 686 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 5: gonna be making it work until you do. So don't 687 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 5: be sad for a moment longer. 688 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 2: You terrify me. Don't terrify me. I couldn't do that. 689 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 2: You will make it work, you would. I'm not disagreeing. 690 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:13,960 Speaker 2: I'm not saying. 691 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 3: It's like two things can be true at one time, 692 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 3: Like that can be true, and then it can also 693 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 3: be true that for me that wouldn't work, and that's fine. That, 694 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 3: oh my lord, knowing that I would quit a job 695 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 3: and have a mortgage already sending me over the edge, 696 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 3: Like my anxiety is through the roof. Like I think 697 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 3: I would have more anxiety not having a job than 698 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 3: being in a shitty job with shitty people. Like just oh, anyway, 699 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 3: I think first things first, you are not being silly 700 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 3: at all, Like what you're describing sounds really unsustainable and 701 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 3: really unfair. As an employer of people, I have so 702 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 3: many questions. So one of the things you said is 703 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 3: like they extended my probation. Never heard another thing about it. 704 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 3: What if I extend someone's probation, which by the way, 705 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 3: hasn't ever happened, But you're gonna hear from me weekly 706 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 3: because I'm essentially saying, and I don't know how your 707 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 3: business is working this, but if hypothetically I needed to 708 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 3: extend someone's probation, The reason is because I'm not sure 709 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 3: I want them in my business. So I've had six 710 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 3: months with you and you have not proven to me 711 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 3: that you are. 712 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 2: The right fit. 713 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 3: And I go, well, I'm still not sure. I just 714 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 3: want a bit more probation time. Sorry, where's the plan? 715 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 3: Where are the landmarks that I can work towards that 716 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 3: show that I am the right person? Is it output? 717 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 3: Is it being on time to work? 718 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 1: Is it like? 719 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 2: What are these things? 720 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 1: Like? 721 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 3: Why was your probation extended? And that goes back to 722 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 3: what you said, Jess, call fair work. Explain your situation, 723 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 3: not just that like you feel uncomfortable in that it's toxic. 724 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 2: That's a very important factor. But they extended this. 725 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 3: What does this mean You're meant to have a plan 726 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 3: for that period of time because essentially you're on notice 727 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 3: because they're going to extend your probation and then go, hey, sorry, 728 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 3: now we've done another three months. 729 00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 2: This really isn't working. 730 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 3: I think it's very reasonable and very valid to prioritize 731 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 3: your health in your well being over a toxic workplace. 732 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 3: So if that's the reason you're quitting, I think you 733 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 3: know it's money well spent. We have emergency savings for 734 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 3: a reason. And sometimes the emergency is getting out of 735 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 3: a situation we no longer want to be in, and 736 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 3: that is completely valid and completely fine. That said, you've 737 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 3: got a mortgage, and I think we need to balance 738 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 3: financial security and self care. Like where's the middle ground there? Like, yes, 739 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 3: you don't want to be there, go what are you 740 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 3: doing to get out of there? Are you applying for 741 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 3: heaps of other jobs? Are you looking at temp jobs? 742 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,640 Speaker 3: Because you had some really really good suggestions you could 743 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 3: do six million things And if those things sound better 744 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 3: than your current workplace, go apply for them, solidify them, 745 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 3: then quit your job, go to another job where. 746 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 2: It's not toxic. 747 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 3: And yeah, you're not doing something that you love, but 748 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 3: at least you've got a job, You've got cash coming in, 749 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 3: and we can still be applying for your dream jobs 750 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 3: and the jobs that you want to be doing, because 751 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 3: like even if you're doing unstapling and putting stuff in 752 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 3: folders slagh, you're still getting money in the door. 753 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 2: And then when you get home you can apply for jobs. 754 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 3: And you know, even if you work there for two 755 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,280 Speaker 3: weeks and then quit, at least you weren't ever in 756 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 3: a worse off financial position, and I think that's a 757 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,480 Speaker 3: good thing for our mental health as well. So I 758 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 3: think I would be what's your exit plan. You've decided 759 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 3: you're leaving this job, are you applying for new jobs? 760 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 3: Are you making a plan? 761 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 2: What does that look like? 762 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 3: Is probably where I would come from with that. What 763 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 3: everybody else say, mostly you deserve better, but would you 764 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 3: like their two cents? 765 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 2: Absolutely so. 766 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 3: The first question I asked on the stories was, have 767 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 3: you guys ever worked in a toxic workplace? Seventy percent 768 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 3: seventy percent of you said yep, and I left. Sixteen 769 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 3: percent said no, thankfully, But then fourteen percent of you said, yep, 770 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:45,200 Speaker 3: I'm still there. 771 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 2: Oh that's really sad, so sad because that's eighty four 772 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 2: percent of people who have or are in toxic I know, 773 00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 2: I'm not surprised. No, No, definitely get out of there. 774 00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 3: Next question we asked if you had twenty thousand dollars 775 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 3: in savings and a job like this with no other options, 776 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 3: would you leave? 777 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 2: Thirty nine percent of you said I'd stay with a 778 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:06,720 Speaker 2: time limit. 779 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,879 Speaker 3: Thirty one percent said yes, that's what savings are four 780 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 3: and thirty percent said no, I'd need to have another 781 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:12,720 Speaker 3: job first. 782 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 2: Again, we're all just different people. 783 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 3: Like, that's a really, that's the annoying thing about money 784 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 3: and life, right Like Beck would just happily be like, nah, 785 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 3: I'll work it out, and I'd be like, I have 786 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 3: too much anxiety. We then said what's your two cents? 787 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,360 Speaker 3: And I've got a little collection of these because I 788 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 3: know we're running out of time. First person said, keen 789 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 3: to hear your thoughts. My partner is a chef and 790 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 3: they routinely underpay him. 791 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 5: Yeah. 792 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 3: Next person said, don't quit until you speak with fair 793 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 3: work and get fairly compensated for your work. 794 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:41,839 Speaker 4: Sam. 795 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 3: Next person said, I'd go back to only working the 796 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 3: hours I'm getting paid for until I can find another job, 797 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,399 Speaker 3: which I think is important too. Like if they're only 798 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,439 Speaker 3: giving you time in lou and then you can't take 799 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 3: the time in Lou off, it is actually no financial benefit. 800 00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 3: Maybe you could be like, hey, I need all of 801 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,719 Speaker 3: that time in lou and then use that time to 802 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 3: apply for other jobs. Yes, ye still getting paid. Someone 803 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 3: said staying in a toxic job can cost you more 804 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 3: than leaving. 805 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:09,840 Speaker 2: It's true too, Vallad. 806 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 3: Another person said, I have a side hustle for this reason. 807 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,919 Speaker 3: I can leave a toxic main job at any time, 808 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 3: they don't own me. Next person said, start taking your 809 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 3: time in lou surely you have some weeks accrued by now. 810 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,799 Speaker 3: And then the last person said, your mental well being 811 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 3: is worth more than twenty grand. Aka, I think it's priceless. 812 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 2: Also a great point, so true. Great place to leave it, guys. 813 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 3: I hope you have a beautiful weekend and we will 814 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 3: see you bright and early on Monday morning for a 815 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 3: money diary. 816 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:45,840 Speaker 2: Bye, guys, Bye? Did buy shared on? 817 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,399 Speaker 6: She's on the Money is general in nature and does 818 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 6: not consider your individual circumstances. 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