WEBVTT - Low libido? Try Cliterature 💦 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.400 Life on Cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:06.160 lands were never seated. We pay our respects to their 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:10.280 elders past and present, Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:23.000 This episode was recorded on gadigal Land. Hi, guys, and 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:25.160 welcome back to another episode of Life on Cut. 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:29.120 I'm Laura, and I'm kay sure, and I'm still it. 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:31.639 Sorry toler that you who were really looking forward to 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:34.320 being finished with I'm a Celebrity, get me out of 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:36.760 here and being back on the podcast, you're stuck with 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:37.920 me for another week where. 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:38.519 It's on Safari. 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:40.839 She's having some time off, she's having some R and 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:43.440 R after what seems like a truly hectic ordeal. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:45.000 I mean she was in the jungle for a month, 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:47.239 and if you don't know how the show works, like 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:49.720 towards the end, they fly a loved one over so 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.120 that they can be there for the finale. 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:51.960 But because it kind. 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:54.840 Of all plays out so quickly off the back of 0:00:54.880 --> 0:00:58.080 the eliminations, her mum was flown over to South Africa. 0:00:58.240 --> 0:00:59.880 So they're spending the week going on game drives to. 0:00:59.880 --> 0:01:03.360 Get which you would be pretty pissed if you flew 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:05.319 all the way over there, your kid got kicked out, 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:06.880 and then you just had to fly straight home. 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:11.399 Water waste. It's pretty long journey to South Africa hours. 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:14.240 I think there are some flights that go like relatively direct, 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.200 but the one I took went up to Abu Dhabi 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:17.520 and then down to South Africa. 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:18.760 It was a really long journey. 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:20.800 What did you do when you were in Africa? Kisha, 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:24.280 let's just play that audio again for anyone who missed it. 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:31.160 It went fun jumping, Okay, it was great experience. 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:33.520 Anyway, we've got one more week, so Britt is not 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:36.280 going to come back until next weekend, which means she 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:38.919 will be back on the podcast next week. Produce Keisha, 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:40.640 I'd just like to take this opportunity to say you 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:42.560 have done a fucking fantastic job. 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:48.280 Thank you, well done. I've had so they probably don't. 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:51.120 They probably like, wait, so one more episode. 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:53.800 I actually had so much fun recording with you over 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:55.200 the past month, so I'm glad I get to do 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:58.520 it for another week. But something that you mentioned last week, 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:01.680 I'm deeply invested in how Raspberry is going in your house. 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:03.880 What I'm not deeply invested in is that we brought 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:09.680 it up on the podcast last week, and I potentially 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:12.160 made the mistake of saying, hey, guys, if you've got 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:14.680 a cat and you don't think your cat's pee smells, 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:16.880 you're wrong and you need your friends to tell you. 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.720 Because we have been inundated with messages and one of 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:21.200 them was pretty full on. 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:23.440 There's been a couple of people who are deeply offended 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.840 by that, Like Kisha did say that if you have 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:27.760 a cat, then ninety nine point n percent of the 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:29.400 time your house smells like cat piss, and if you 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:32.440 think it doesn't, it's probably because it does. And some 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:34.960 of you guys were really offended. And I understand that 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:37.079 because I'm a cat person, so I know how that 0:02:37.120 --> 0:02:39.600 would have upset you. But also it probably does because 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:44.519 my house stinks. It fucking stings every day. Man, you 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:46.240 got to clean that kitty litter every day. I already 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:48.160 got a white two asses a day. Now I've got 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:48.680 to clean kitty. 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:52.880 If you include your own, I forgot about line. Just 0:02:52.919 --> 0:02:56.000 snap it off, don't on the go. Actually I have hemorrhoids. 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:58.120 Nothing snaps off these days. Is that too much? 0:02:58.160 --> 0:02:58.840 That's too much? 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:00.519 Sorry, I would like to put it on the record, 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.600 though I'm not not a cat person. Like I like cats, 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:06.000 I have nothing against them. I'm more of a dog person. 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:07.799 But you're not a kitty litter person. 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:10.480 That's the thing, because the Life on Cut dms have 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:14.560 truly migrated over the past week. A week ago, every 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:17.720 single one of you would send us reels about plants, 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:19.920 like the amount of times I have been sent propagation 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:23.320 reels or that one old woman who's like outside holding 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:25.040 a tree in a storm like that reel. 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.600 I get sent it at least fifteen times a day. Yeah, 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:30.320 but at least you're into the plant content. They send 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:32.320 it to the Life one cut Instagram, which it's my. 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:36.160 Job to check the messages off, and I'm like, haha. 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:36.440 So funny. 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:39.839 So now Keisha only gets recommendations for kitty litter. One 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:42.240 person sent me a recommendation for a kitty litter that 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:43.920 we should purchase, like a kitty litter tray. 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:45.480 I shit you not. 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:48.720 It was five hundred and eighty dollars and I was like, guys, 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:51.680 I don't know who you think I am, but currently 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:54.680 she's shitting in a cardboard box. A recyclable kitty litter 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:56.320 tray that I just would into the recycling bin. 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.320 Every three days. I'm not buying. I refuse. 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:04.360 I refuse to spend five hundred dollars on a cat toilet. 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:08.640 I'm trying to evaluate how much I detest the smell 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:13.360 of cat piss, because if it works, it's a real gamble. 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:15.320 It's a roll of the dice in an investment, you 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:17.800 expect that if you're paying five hundred and eighty dollars 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:19.880 for something to remove the smell of your cat piss, 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:23.520 that it will. If it worked, you would do it 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:27.280 cost of living bab Yeah, but I'd make sacrifices in 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:32.479 other I think I think that would be my upper limit. 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:34.520 But I think I would be like, this is an 0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:36.680 investment because it will bring me a lot more joy. 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:38.400 I won't have to just see this. 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:40.080 I'd just like to point out that the kitty litter 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:41.960 tray cost twice the amount of the cat. 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:43.880 The cat cost half. 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:47.760 We've also seen quite a lot of content about how 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:50.160 to train your cat to poo win the toilet, which 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:52.080 I'm for and I am going to keep you guys 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:55.440 abreast of this situation because when she at the moment, 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:57.320 I don't think she could get onto the toilet without 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:57.840 falling in. 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:59.480 But as she gets a bit bigger. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:01.920 I am going to have one of those households where 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:04.600 the cat just book just goes straight into the loo. 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:06.120 And I know we talked about it on Thursday, but 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:09.200 I'm this is happening. Follow along, Hey guys, lady in 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:12.240 a cat and follow my adventures. He document this, Yeah, 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:14.680 I will. I will be incremable. But also I think 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:18.279 from like an update perspective. So Matt, he's not a 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.920 cat person. He will outwardly and happily say he prefers dogs. 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:23.960 He had no interest in getting a cat, but if 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:25.920 I wanted one, it was fine. I was you know, 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:27.240 he was like, you do what you want to do. 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:29.320 But I'm not taking care of it. I'm not going 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:31.680 to pat it. I'm not going to feed it. He's like, 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:33.919 it will just live alongside me, but I'm not going 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:34.919 to show it any interest. 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:35.560 Ah. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:38.840 How the tables have turned Matt now is every night 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:41.040 the cat sits on Matt's lap. We wake up in 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:42.640 the morning and he's like, have you fed her yet? 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:45.800 She seems like she needs more food. She's meowing. Like 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:49.200 he's so invested in the cat. For everything to do 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:51.400 with the cat now, even like I left the door 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.080 slightly a jar because I went outside. I was putting 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:54.599 the clothes on the line, so I was right in 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:56.520 front of the door, and he was like, Laura, you 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:57.360 need to close the door. 0:05:57.360 --> 0:06:00.360 The cat could get away. Like I thought you would 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:00.880 have been thrilled. 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:04.320 I'm not shocked by this evolution, but I am surprised 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:06.480 by the time it's taken one week. I thought it 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.200 would be a bit longer. I thought it would kind 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:09.839 of be a gradual wearing down. 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:12.640 Process, but it seems it would be happening. Is it 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:14.480 because she's really she is very cute. 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.960 It's happened faster than what he managed to take to 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:18.960 our own children. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.200 They're easier than children. It's true. 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:23.880 That's fine, yeah, but also it's kind of one of 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:26.520 those things that's annoying because I have done everything. I'm 0:06:26.600 --> 0:06:29.600 like the enthusiastic cat person, but the cat chooses the 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:32.080 one who's disinterested in him, Like that's the thing. The 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:35.520 cat prefers Matt, who doesn't show as much interest as 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:37.839 I do. But then I get rejected. Anyway, that's probably 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:39.960 enough catchat No. I think that that's for all pets. 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:41.839 I think when you play a little hard to get 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:44.520 Delilah does this with me, and I know she's manipulating me. 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:46.080 This is for anyone who doesn't know. 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:49.200 Britz Dog Delilah I often look after and I love it. 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:52.920 She prefers my boyfriend because he's a bit like indifferent 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:54.720 to it, like he likes her, but he will also 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:56.160 be like, get off the lounge and show a bit 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:56.920 more authority. 0:06:57.040 --> 0:07:00.880 She's like, yeah, treat me mean. Baddy like it. I 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:03.120 think that animals like it, especially cats. 0:07:03.160 --> 0:07:05.560 This is how they got the Egyptians, the ancient Egyptians, 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:06.320 to worship them. 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:08.080 They played hard to get That kind of works in 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:10.800 relationships as well, doesn't it. Anyway, Kish, there was something 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:12.400 I want to talk to you about, and it's something 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:15.280 that you have taken a real interest too recently. It 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:17.960 has been showing up in the Facebook group. It's something 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:20.440 that you have started your own little book club around, 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:24.520 and that is well, it's literature, but more so specifically 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:28.240 as you like to call it, literature, romance and sexy novels, 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:30.200 which I didn't realize that they'd made such a comeback, 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:31.600 and that this is a thing that this is like 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:34.600 a genre of books that people are deeply into. But 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:36.760 there's a whole subcategory for it on TikTok at the 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:37.400 moment as well. 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:40.400 Yeah, just to be clear, this is not a new thing. 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:42.520 It's just a new thing for me, and I am 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:46.320 a beginner to this. There is such a fierce culture 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:49.480 behind smut book talk, and I'll get into. 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:51.680 That smutty talk that I feel a little bit like. 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.200 Me talking about on a podcast is like the most 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:59.280 beginner entry level, like not even toenail being dipped in. 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:01.520 And there will be people who are experts in this 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:04.600 field who are like, oh my god, so please don't 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:07.040 message me telling me that everything that I'm saying is wrong. 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.040 I'm mute to this and I'm just having a lot 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:09.640 of fun in it. 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:11.560 I'm sorry about how can you be wrong when it 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:13.040 comes to reading smutty literature. 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:14.720 I don't understand how there's a right or wrong. 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:16.920 I didn't know that there's such a deep subcategory or 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:19.000 subculture of smuttiness out there. 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:21.720 Well, because even when I posted in the Facebook group 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:23.880 about it being called literature, I was told that that's 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:25.560 not the most appropriate term, but. 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:26.160 I really like it. 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:30.320 It's like an amalgamation of clit and literasy literature. 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:33.680 What is the most appropriate term well, it seems to be. 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:36.000 And I don't know whether this is because of algorithms 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:38.720 like censoring certain words, but it seems to be as 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:41.679 though smut and hashtag spicy. 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:44.080 Book talk are the most used or smut books. 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:46.320 Can I just say if people are getting offended by 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.160 the word litera chart because they're saying it's not the 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:50.679 most on trend, people need to stop being offended by 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:53.480 things or go touch grass, Like, we get offended by 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.000 a lot, and I'm okay with it, but I draw 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:56.000 the line at smut talk. 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.480 I think there might be a little bit of a 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:00.920 like a Again, don't the best way to describe this. 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:03.480 Essentially, authors who are prolific. 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:05.360 In this space and are very very successful have been 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:09.040 slightly diminished in the authoring world because of the type 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:09.920 of content that. 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:12.240 They write, and it because they're writing pornos. 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:13.600 Well kind of, and people are like, it's a bit 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:17.760 patronizing to not recognize their success as great as we 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:19.880 should because they are just as you know. So I 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:21.760 do understand that there could be something a little bit 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:23.880 more deep behind it, But I. 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:25.240 Really like the word and I think it's fun. 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:27.440 Okay, So for someone who sits on the other end 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:29.280 of the spectrum. Like, I love reading, and when I 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:31.280 have time to do so, I always get reminded by 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:33.880 how much I enjoy it. But I don't have the 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.400 time at the moment, and I certainly haven't invested into 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:39.040 anything that smutty. And what I mean by that is like, 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:41.160 probably the smuttiest thing that I read at the time 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:44.120 was Fifty Shades of Gray, like the series. 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:45.960 Which I don't even think was that. I think it 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:48.920 was pretty vanilla really well. I mean, I've never read it, 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:51.320 and I've also never seen the movies. Very vanilla. 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:53.520 I think that that was like the world's introduction to 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:56.400 that type of content. I think it existed long before it, 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:59.520 but it became very popular at the time, and now 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:00.840 on tik talk, over. 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:02.760 Four point eight billion. 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:06.559 People use the hashtags either smart smart books or spicy 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:08.920 book talks. So it's like this whole genre of erotic 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:13.640 romance and it's specifically centered around female pleasure. So the 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.560 reason I actually initially kind of decided that I wanted 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:18.959 to dip my toe in smart books is because I 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:21.200 saw this post in the Life on Cut discussion group, 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:24.040 and it was from a woman who was saying she 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.520 was a couple of months postpartum, she was basically saying 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:28.640 that her libido had gone to shit, and she was like, guys, 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:30.959 I need to help. How do I get my sex 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:34.680 drive back? And quite a few of the comments from 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:36.760 people were saying, you need to get into these types 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:39.640 of books because they will absolutely turn you on, and it. 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:42.760 Will your libido will be back, just believe me. And 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:44.920 I was like, wow, that's kind of is this the 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:46.679 secret sauce to the Tingles? 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:49.839 Well, in my own life, like I have seen, I've 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:51.840 felt a little bit of a decrease in my sex drive. 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:53.040 Could be hormonal. 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:56.080 Not sure what's going on there, but I was like, Okay, 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:58.439 I would like to get into this, but I'm not 0:10:58.520 --> 0:10:59.280 much of a reader. 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:01.920 I feel like, can we read for work like we 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:05.480 often read? Totally we're not reading for pleasure quote unquote. 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:07.719 But I do get a lot of pleasure out of 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:09.800 the books of the authors that we have on the podcast, 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:13.079 but I've not really It's not something that I do 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:14.720 for myself, if that makes sense. 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:16.679 And so I thought, Okay, I need to get into reading. 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:19.280 I need to do this before bed blah blah blah. 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:20.720 And I was talking about it with a group of 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:24.840 my girlfriends at the beach and we decided, like I 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:26.200 think like a lot of women do that. 0:11:26.200 --> 0:11:28.480 We were like, let's start a book club. So, way 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:29.800 is your book club that you have? 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:33.200 Is it only smutty books or is it anything books? 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:35.960 Because do you read like female pleasure porn and then 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:37.360 all talk about it in a group chat. 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:40.600 No, but it's very new. 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:44.320 So I am the connective tissue of this group because 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:46.080 what ended up happening is that I had a couple 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:47.760 of friends that wanted to catch up on a Sunday. 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:49.079 This is a couple of weeks ago. This'd be like 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:51.760 maybe six weeks ago, and I was like, let's go 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:52.280 to the beach. 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:54.280 And then I had more friends that wanted to catch 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:55.880 up and I was like, oh, well just come along. 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:57.960 You know, it's a it'll be a group hang and 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:00.360 you can meet the other girls. And it was me 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.600 who was like, oh, I need to get more into reading. 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:04.840 And quite a few of those girls are already readers. 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:07.360 So we decided to make a WhatsApp group and we 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:10.440 called it book club. And because I was kind of 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:14.640 the instigator of it, I was like, guys, I'll choose 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:17.320 the first book, which is where I went wrong because. 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:17.800 I'm not the reader. 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:21.640 Well, producer Keisha brought the book that she recommended today 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:23.840 and it is sitting there next to computer because you 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:26.160 just hold it up for anyone who's watching on YouTube. 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:29.800 Well, this was recommended in the Facebook group. It's called 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:32.640 Pucking Around. It's by Emily Wrath and it's got two 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:34.920 hockey sticks on the front. Great if you love a 0:12:35.000 --> 0:12:38.680 part pucking Around. It's about hockey, right, so ice hockey, 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:44.200 which is hot. Anyway, I did not realize that this 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:47.240 book was seven hundred pages. 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:50.760 Yeah, it's like Shanta ram Verse Pucking Around. They're kind 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:53.240 of the same size. That's an ambitious read for a 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:56.040 first one. But can you just like open up a page. 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:57.360 I want to see I want to see the. 0:12:57.400 --> 0:12:59.480 Level of read it to me in a dirty voice 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:03.199 I feel as as I read this too, I want 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:06.240 to make eye contact. I don't know if that's going 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:09.720 to stop touching yourself. Okay, here we go. 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:12.800 I gladly fall to my elbows on the counter, a 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:15.400 smile on my face as he buries his hand between 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:19.800 my legs. His other hand massages my ass cheek, giving 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:23.480 it a sharp slap that I feel straight through my clip. 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:27.760 You're gonna take me deep, he orders, pressing in with 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:31.760 his hips, his cock wet with my release. I hope 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:33.600 you're not listening to this with children in the car. 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:34.720 I'm so sorry. 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:35.839 Yeah, we should do on a warning. 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:36.240 My bad. 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:38.800 Sorry, Well we did say we were going to read it, 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.480 so if your kids are listening, that's your fault. 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:45.640 As he slides it in between my legs, please a whimper. 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:49.160 You want me to come inside you, don't you, he teases, softly, 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:50.839 nipping the lobe. 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:54.600 Of my ear. How frequently does this happen throughout the book? 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:54.760 Like? 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:56.960 Is it like every five pages? Is it like every 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:57.880 is it every chapter? 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:02.439 Well, I'm quite shamefully so little through it that you 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:03.440 already reached this part? 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:09.560 No I didn't. Actually, the funniest part is that to read. 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.720 That, I just flicked to a random page and like 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:14.560 that's the level of horny. But my friends who have 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:17.480 gotten their way through the entire seven hundred pages, like 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:19.160 these are some of the messages that have come in 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:21.920 my WhatsApp group, I just screenshot them. Guys, this book 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:25.640 is legit making the horny teenager same, Like it's such 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:27.640 a light read, but there's so much sex. 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:31.160 How did she randomly stumble into three guys this horny? 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:37.240 So yes, my answer is it absolutely will get your 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:39.560 juices flowing. I don't know whether you're going to think 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:43.840 it's a it's like a literature masterpiece. It's definitely not poetry. 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:48.640 But I quite like that. You know, I'm gonna compare 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:51.520 it to something like Jane Austen. That's a heavy read. 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:52.560 It's pretty hard. 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:55.440 The language is very like delicate, and it's very flowery 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:56.960 about this. 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:59.720 But I think the thing that about this that is interesting. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.360 We talk so much about like how do you get 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:03.440 desire back in your relationship? How do you get your 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:07.040 libido back? This isn't completely no pressure way of going 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:09.280 about it. And not only is it no pressure, but 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:12.000 if you're in a relationship, your partner doesn't even need 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:14.040 to know that that's the reason why you're reading it, 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:15.840 Like they don't need to know what's in it. You 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.040 could be sitting in bed reading a book and your 0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:21.480 partner would have no knowledge of what the contents is, 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:23.040 so you could use it as like a bit of 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:25.720 a self experiment and it would be very little pressure 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:25.920 to do. 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:28.760 So, Yeah, there's something that feels quite classy about it with. 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:33.840 And it's funny you mentioned that the person next to 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:36.160 you won't know that that's what you're doing. One of 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:38.400 my girlfriends put a message in the group chat. 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:42.200 Is what it said. She wrote, I'm currently on a plane. 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:44.880 I pulled out the book and a lady walked past 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:47.200 me to go to the bathroom, and in front of everyone, 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:53.080 she went, you're bold that one's filthy. 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:55.240 So this stranger will it takes one to know one? 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.200 You clearly read it exactly exactly? 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:00.280 Would you read this in public or would you only 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:01.600 say this for nighttimes? 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:06.800 I think I feel the pressure right now to read 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:10.680 it in public because I'm so far behind for book club. 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:13.200 That I'm feeling the pressure that I need to catch up. 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:14.840 Like we're having book club tomorrow night and I've only 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:15.920 gotten through not even a. 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:16.520 Quarter of it. 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:18.560 And do you read this and then want to have 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:22.040 sex with your partner? It definitely increases the arousal. 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:25.040 Yeah, but usually in my situation, I probably need to 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:26.960 change the timing of my reading because he's asleep. 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:31.680 Bud, You're like, hello, wait, wait, take it up early 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:32.160 for work. 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:34.960 Look, if you I mean, if you have any recommendations, 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:37.120 if you've read a smutty book and you were like 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:39.800 that one really got the Fanny Tingles going put it 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:41.600 into the Facebook group because then we'll start a thread 0:16:41.600 --> 0:16:43.920 in there. I think for anybody who is wanting to 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:46.240 get their libido back, who is wanting to take matters 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:48.560 into their own hands and would try anything, but also 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:51.840 doesn't want the pressure of having to try everything, this 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:54.360 could be a really great place to start, So like, put. 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:54.720