WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - An Ick From The Aisle, A Suspicious Training Camp and A Cheating Boss 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.200 This episode was recorded on cameragle Land. 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:14.680 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:18.120 one cut. I'm Brittany and I getting throlled here. 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:19.640 I am. 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:21.720 I want to high. I had a great sleep, I'm 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:22.360 feeling good. 0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:24.279 I work up vomiting. Does that count? 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:25.520 Okay? Well, I take everything back. 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:27.760 We're like from the high, from the highs to the lows. 0:00:27.800 --> 0:00:28.560 I work up vomiting. 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.479 And then I was mad at Matt because all I 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:32.360 wanted was for him to like, he knew I was vomiting. 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:34.800 He could hear it. He was downstairs, and all I 0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:35.800 wanted was for him to just. 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:37.879 Bring me some water, but he just like he's now 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:39.600 so used to it, it didn't even register. 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:40.880 It just cracked on with his day. 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:41.839 But that's the problem. 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:43.720 And I'm like, and all I was trying. 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:45.560 To do sorry for anyone who's like a sympathetic vomitor 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:47.320 when they hear that noise. And then I was trying 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:48.800 to call out to him to bring me water, but 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:50.480 I couldn't because every time I called that, I started 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:51.320 coughing and vomited again. 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.840 I was so mad. I rate haven't calm down yet. 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:56.000 But it's also the thing that happens. When it's it 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:58.720 becomes like normal. It's a part of your pregnancy. You 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:01.880 get morning sickness. Yes, I don't think that they realize 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:03.000 how much it affects you. 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:05.360 I wonder if other people experience it is and it's 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:08.840 absolutely not pregnancy related, it's any type of sickness related. 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:12.600 Does your partner have a limited time of empathy? Because 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:14.520 I would say, and like, this is I don't want 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:17.320 to criticize Matt because he is He's really really great, 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:19.960 like he genuinely is. But when it comes to like 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:23.760 prolonged sickness, god forbid anything really bad happens, he's like 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.920 level of tolerance for it, like he's really good day one, 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.360 day two, little bit less good, day three, gift fuck 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:29.720 over it. 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:31.399 Like you've been sick long enough, Now. 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:32.400 You get three days. 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:35.480 I reckon, I get three and a half minutes. I 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:38.720 will criticize my partner. This is actually something that genuinely 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:41.560 I say. It still doesn't sit comfortably with me, the 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:45.080 lack of care when I am not feeling well. He 0:01:45.120 --> 0:01:47.320 also claims that I'm like not feeling well all the time, 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:49.000 and I'm like, yeah, because I'm a woman, and that 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:50.240 shit happens regularly. 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:50.600 Yeah. 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:52.200 My thing is is like I'll say I'm sick and 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:53.400 be like, oh you're sick. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:55.200 I got ton't know, and that's his response. 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:56.960 Yeah, I actually think i'd have to be dying. And 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:58.840 I give him some lenience because he is. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:00.880 A doctor, so he does actually deal with people who 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:02.480 have genuine emergencies. 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:04.600 But that doesn't take away from yours. 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:06.680 I agree, thank you, Brie. 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:08.880 Like somebody's always going to have it worse, like in 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:11.520 every capacity of life. That doesn't mean like you're not. 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:12.200 Allowed to f Yeah. 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:14.079 The amount of times he's like, have a celebrex or 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:16.960 a panantole and let you be fine. I'm celebres sounds 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:18.919 like a chocolate. It's a full on form of like Europe, 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:20.400 and I think I don't actually know. 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:24.079 I'm not he's drugging you at home, He's like, off 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:24.800 you go to bed. 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:25.799 I would also like. 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:27.639 Everyone to know that this is not us endorsing any 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.079 kind of medication. I was just purely curious because I 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:30.720 don't know what it is. 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:31.840 Yeah, brit what's it been? 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:32.160 Like? 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:33.640 What's your time frame window? 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:37.679 Benn is actually brilliant, but we don't live together, so 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:39.360 it's different. But I was just trying to think about 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.640 it when we're talking about it. My migraines. When I 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:44.440 met Ben, I wasn't doing botox, and they were every day. 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:46.120 I was in so much pain every single day, and 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:48.320 I would ask him to, like, for the first six 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:49.720 weeks when I went over there, I asked him to 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:51.680 massage my neck every day. And then at the end 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:54.280 of it, I was like, I need to stop asking 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:57.280 him because he thinks that I'm just being super neaty. 0:02:57.760 --> 0:02:59.560 But he still would come out the next day and 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:01.000 be like, hash next today, Do you want a next up? 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:04.360 And I was like, oh, but like, we don't live together, 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:06.040 so I don't know what it would be like. But 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:08.360 he's a very empathetic person. I think that he would. 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:09.720 I think that he would always. 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:11.360 Be like maybe if I did long distance, my husband 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:12.720 would camel mae. 0:03:12.919 --> 0:03:14.480 Maybe you need a rub each day. 0:03:15.040 --> 0:03:17.160 Matt's new one is he'll go, oh, are You're pregnant? 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:19.040 Anytime I say anything. It was like a wi a 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:20.840 winge about of pregnant sy Sympton and be like, are 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:24.600 you pregnant? I'm like, mate, you have no idea, no idea, 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:25.600 you don't even know. 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:26.800 I'm raging for you. 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:29.000 Now you grow a whole human in your body. 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:31.360 And you know what, Like I said, I'm paying him 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:33.840 out and he'll hate this, but he is brilliant. 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:35.480 He just has a tolerance for it. 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:37.200 It's like he's really good day one and then it 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:40.080 kind of slowly fades. And so this morning, whilst I 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.240 was vomiting up my whole before I'd even had breakfast, 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:44.920 I was like, fuck, man, just just bring me across 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:45.480 the water power. 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:47.360 Do you know something that I've just realized? 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:49.680 Also, I love you, Matt. If you're listening to this, 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:52.000 we all love Matt. Be better. He hasn't listened to 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:52.839 an episode so long. 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:56.680 What I have realized is I used to have not 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:59.720 only my headaches, but really severe back and neck pain. 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:01.320 And I I thought my head aches came from that. 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:04.600 After I did Dancing with the Stars, it's gone. I 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:07.119 don't know if it like realigned my back or if 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:09.080 maybe Craig threw me in some position where it cracked 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:11.280 it back into place. But I've not had one bit 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:13.240 of back pain since I did Dancing with the Stars, 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:14.720 and it was all I thought about every day in 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:15.880 my life before Dancing. 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:16.080 With the Stars. 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:18.520 I wonder if it's fitness related or just exercise in 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:20.600 general related, like you know, moving your body in a 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:23.200 way that's different to how you normally move it, stretching 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:25.320 it in ways, because I mean dancing does This is 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:27.000 the thing about when we were training for Dancing with 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:27.400 the Stars. 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:30.240 You find muscles in your body you never knew exists. 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.880 It doesn't matter how fit you are, you absolutely or 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:34.480 you wake up one day and you're like, why is that? 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:37.320 Like what is that? Where did that even come from? 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:37.960 Yeah? 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:39.640 When does the show start? 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.240 I think next month, But they haven't actually told us. 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.080 I imagine one day I'll walk out and I'll be 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:44.480 on the TV. 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:47.360 But they have so soon though. 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.440 I think it's supposed to be the end of June. 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:51.039 But they literally when I say they haven't told us, 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.240 I'm not faking that. They don't tell you. They decide. 0:04:53.279 --> 0:04:54.960 I think only a few weeks out then they'll let 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:57.520 us all know. But there is publicity gearing up for it, 0:04:57.560 --> 0:04:59.839 so I imagine it's on the way, but I almost forget 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:00.560 that I did it. 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:03.320 Has the full cast been announced yet or is it still. 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:03.880 It's all out? 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:04.360 It's all out. 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:06.440 Yeah, we did all the public Yeah, I know all 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:09.440 of that thank you staying up to date with my life. 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:11.400 Look, guys, it is you're the biggest thing in your 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.320 life is your wedding? Okay, I'm up to date. 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:14.560 Dancing might be bigger. 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:18.080 Well we'll see. Look you're here for asking car. Let's 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:19.640 let's get into doing it first. 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:22.640 Vibe someone subscribes, what is your vibe for the week. 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:26.640 My vibe is sorry, it's for dog people. So you 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:28.279 have to have a dog. I mean you don't have 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:30.080 to have a dog. You could get anyway. It is 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:32.160 actually by the brand dog. I don't know if you 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:34.960 guys are saying Lisa is the doctor Lisa, yeah, docor Lisa. 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:36.599 She's a bet on TV. I think she might have 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:38.960 taken over Chris Brown on Bond. I bet like the 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:39.600 TV show. 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:43.159 Fantastic dog bags like Pooh bags. Yeah, they're great, little handles, 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:48.320 thick enough. It's a really perfect it's a really great brand. Actually, yes, 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:50.119 the dog bags. People laugh. 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:52.240 Dog bags are important because if they're too thin, your 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:54.760 finger's going straight through or a stick is going through 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:56.000 and you get shot on you. 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:56.840 Yeah, it's great. 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:59.120 I agree, also knowing that no one cares if you 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:01.520 talk about dog bags. While but like the bright fluor 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.360 of green ones are too thin and they're so translucent, 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:06.279 So you're walking around with a shit you can see 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:08.400 in a bag, whereas at least with the black ones, 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:10.839 like there's some sort of you just don't feel as 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:12.359 it's discretion. 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:13.880 You don't feel as exposed. 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:16.080 You don't feel like like some yeah, such a street 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:17.480 rat carrying a shit around your hand. 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:19.640 So this is something that I heard for a while, 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.560 and I rethought about it last night. I have stopped 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:25.320 varying Delilah's food so much because the vet told me that, 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:27.560 like just put her on the same kind of thing. 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.320 So she has a mix of like this raw salmon 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:32.960 patty and I mix it into a dry kibble every day. 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:34.800 And I put it down last night and she just 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:38.520 gave me this look that was like this again. And 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:40.600 then I remembered I had this product that I used 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:42.159 to use and for some reason I stopped using it now. 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:45.760 It's called dog Taste Boosters, and you can get them 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:48.320 in a beef, chicken, fish or like a variety pack 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.280 of flavors. They're literally it just comes in a pack 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:53.360 of like a hundred or something. It's a tiny capsule 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.920 that looks like a panodole. You twist it open and 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:59.560 you sprinkle the flavor over, so it just jazzes up. 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:04.159 Or animal food. I seison it like salt bay. I 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:06.680 see like salt bait, and she loves it. And sometimes, 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:09.000 as she doesn't love her dry kibble, I'll put a 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:12.240 taste booster on there. It changes the flavor for them, 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:13.920 and all of a sudden she'll gobble it up. So 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:16.280 it's it's a really good product, and it's got really 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:18.080 good things in it, Like it's not just a flavor, 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:19.560 it is genuinely good for their gut. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.360 Yeah, I do love this, but I also love that Delilah. 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:25.080 She just has such high expectations that she knows that 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:26.960 if she stands off for long enough, you will do 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:28.040 something to boost her food. 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:30.360 Whereas like Busters, like all right, I eat the cat 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:31.680 food whatever. 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:35.320 It's really good. It's got prebiotics, post biodoics and parabiotics, 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:37.360 so it helps them. It's actually genuinely a really good 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:39.360 thing for you. And if you need to give them medication, 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:41.720 it's really good to hide the flavor of the medication 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:43.640 and stuff as well. So that is we'll put the 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.400 link up obviously, but that is my Vibe this Week 0:07:46.400 --> 0:07:49.360 if you want to like me, jazz up your dog's diet. 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:52.320 My vibe this Week is one of my favorite I 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:53.400 think I've ever brought. 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:55.360 It is the book by Sarah. 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:56.920 Wyn Williams called Careless People. 0:07:57.000 --> 0:08:00.120 Now I listen to it on audible, but I'm I'm 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:01.480 sure you could get a physical copy. 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:01.960 Now. 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:04.520 She was a former Facebook exec and she worked there 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:08.720 for six years, and this whole book is unpacking the 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:11.800 things that actually happened behind the scenes during her time 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:14.480 at Facebook. So she finished up in twenty seventeen, so 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:17.200 it's kind of that period of time. You remember twenty 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:19.960 sixteen being called the Facebook Collection and that's how Donald 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:24.880 Trump got in. She goes through what happened beforehand and 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:28.240 kind of the ways the really insidious maneuvers that the 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:31.880 executives in Facebook kind of didn't pull. 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:33.439 Like I mean, the book is called. 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:35.480 Careless People because I've always had. 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:39.319 An impression that, you know, these things were done quite recklessly. 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:43.440 I was still so shocked and surprised at the amount 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:47.240 of like juvenile behavior and just lack of consideration of 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:50.760 their power, and it was so abundantly obvious. And I 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:53.360 know that listening to this You'll probably be like, yeah, duh, 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:56.080 that the only thing that they cared about was power, 0:08:56.559 --> 0:09:00.360 But I didn't understand the layers to that and how 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:03.840 bad it actually was. She also worked there, like I said, 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:07.280 until twenty seventeen when she was fired and they fired 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:10.559 her for poor performance and toxic behavior. But it was 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:14.600 very coincidentally just after she launched an HR complaint against 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:18.520 one of her bosses, called Joel Kaplan for sexual harassment, 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.600 and he was a former Republican staffer. I mean, I'm 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:24.280 kind of giving you a bit of an impression as 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:27.360 to what went on behind the scenes. It was really 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:30.560 shocking to hear about certain things, like this woman called 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:33.080 Cheryl who had this movement and this book and it 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:36.320 was all associated with like motherhood and empowerment of women. 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:37.880 But behind the scenes it. 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:40.319 Was the absolute polar opposite. 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:43.520 Like when Sarah was on maternity leave for I think 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.880 it might have been her second baby, she nearly died 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:47.800 in childbirth, and she was in a coma. She was 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:51.360 in a really bad way, and there were reports that 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:55.640 she was difficult to contact. Yeah that time, so it 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:59.000 was like, she's absolutely amazing. She's a Kiwi woman. She 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:01.240 was a lawyer, before or she was a diplomat before 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:02.679 she ended up working at Facebook. 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:04.319 And what I thought was the most. 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:06.760 Interesting advertising that ever could have come up about this 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:09.839 book was the fact that Facebook tried, or Meta I 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:14.160 should say, tried so hard to block the publication and 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:16.120 the promotion of this book. 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:18.640 They've also blocked her from distribution in the States of 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:19.760 this book. Is that correct? 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:22.920 They tried to block it, and I think they initially 0:10:22.920 --> 0:10:25.640 may have had some success, but that has been overturned 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.160 so you can listen to it in America, But from 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:31.920 what I understand, she is still blocked from promoting it, 0:10:32.480 --> 0:10:35.000 and she's also still blocked from going and speaking with 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:38.480 lawmakers in other countries about the way that Meta actually 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:40.680 operates behind the scenes because they don't want them to 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:43.720 have that information and the whole book. To be honest, 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:46.000 the start of it took me a little bit to 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:46.400 get into. 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:49.000 There was just a little bit of a lead up, but. 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:51.600 Once I kind of got into chapter six or seven, 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:54.600 I really felt like I was just humming. And it's 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:58.839 completely changed the way that I look at certain aspects 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:02.240 of advertising, And not that I ever thought that they 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:05.640 were moral, I just didn't realize how immoral it was, 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:08.240 but you remember, and maybe you didn't read it at 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:09.959 the time, but a few years ago we spoke about 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:15.199 like the original Facebook whistleblower from the Facebook files, frances Horgan. 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:17.480 So she that was back in twenty twenty one. She 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:21.480 copied tens of thousands of documents from Facebook and release 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:23.040 them to the media. She went and spoke in front 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:25.680 of Congress, and the same sort of thing happened to her, 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:29.320 but hers was trying to highlight profit over safety, and 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:31.560 we ended up having that discussion here based on the 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:35.320 fact of Facebook meta having the information on how damaging 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:38.240 it is to teenagers and young kids and ignoring it. Well, 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:40.400 this was Francis. So she was like, I guess one 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:43.200 of the original whistleblowers. And it's a shame because I 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.160 feel like that shows you the power of meta and Facebook, 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:47.920 because it's sort of people forget and even you reading 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:51.120 that book, I've forgotten that she released thousands of documents 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:52.640 on it. It just sort of gets buried. 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:55.560 And also there was actually an interesting crossover with the 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:57.600 interview that you guys did with Sean Turnell. And I 0:11:57.600 --> 0:11:58.960 know I'm going on a little bit long here, but 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:02.200 I really was just so fascinated by different aspects of this. 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:05.960 Sean Turnell was the guy who was imprisoned in Me 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:08.520 and Mar for six hundred and fifty days I think 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:10.680 it was, and he shared the most incredible story with 0:12:10.760 --> 0:12:13.800 you guys. But that was because the military coup happened 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:16.560 and he was, you know, supporting democracy, so he was 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:17.240 put in prison. 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:20.760 It's really interesting understanding. 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:23.079 The ways that Facebook got. 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:26.200 The Internet into Me and Mar and how much control 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:29.520 they had over what was, you know, released from those 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:33.160 Facebook profiles of people and kind of I guess I 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:35.840 was like, oh, this is so fascinating. I've known about 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:38.360 the next part of what happened next, Well, it's that 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:39.400 the military took over. 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:41.800 Yeah, and it's also like how it influences politics and 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:43.640 literally everything around us. That's what happens when you have 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.960 a monopoly, and unfortunately that is what Facebook is. I mean, 0:12:47.000 --> 0:12:48.959 apart from the fact that there's TikTok now as well, 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.320 but Facebook meta is a monopoly. 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:54.360 They own everything. So the book is called Careless People. 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:56.880 It is by Sarah Wynn Williams, and you can get it. 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:58.719 I got it on audible or you could get the 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:01.200 physical copy. I'm assuming for most places. 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:03.719 I have a skincare recommendation, and it's because I have 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:06.520 had to do this overhaul on everything that I'm using 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:08.520 at the moment in terms of like what is pregnancy 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.960 save or what is suitable for my skin? I don't know, 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:15.040 but like since being pregnant, I'm always a dry person, 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:18.400 but like it is like ten times worse every trap 0:13:18.840 --> 0:13:23.720 Just I'm so drag prune I am, But I really 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:25.640 enjoy this. It's something I've actually used for a really 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:28.800 long time, but since being pregnant, I have ramped up. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:30.960 It's a Willida product. I don't know if you use 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:32.040 Willieda at all, you. 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:33.120 Guys skin food? 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:36.079 Yes, skin food from Willida. It's brilliant, but it's kind 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:38.000 of a fantastic all around us. So it's like the 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:39.839 type of product that you can use on your kids, 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:41.800 you can use it on chap skin, you can just 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.280 use it as a moisturizer. It's one of those kind 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:47.280 of like almost like I liken it to, you know, 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:50.240 like papaya what was the papaya cream or whatever it's 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:53.000 called ointment? Papaya ointment? Is that what it was? The 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:56.040 red thing that everyone got obsessed with kind of a 0:13:56.040 --> 0:13:58.440 ballet poor paw fuck, that's it my brain. 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:01.959 That's because you're eating so requiring your pregnancy, like dreaming 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:02.280 about it. 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:06.640 Papaya, popop, papia the poor for ointment, it's kind of 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:08.600 like I liken it to that that kind of took 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:12.319 over as like in all everything ointment. And I think 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:14.840 the Wiliita skin Foods is very much on par but 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.960 also like I find it, probably I find it more usable. 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:20.920 I really enjoy it, and I think that if where 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:23.320 my skin has been at recently, it is like the 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:26.680 most intensive version of what I need. And my makeup artist, 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:28.800 who I use, Jen, she puts it under makeup like 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:31.080 she absolutely swears by it as well, so I think 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:31.640 it's a great one. 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:32.960 It's skin foods from Willita. 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:35.360 They also have a fantastic range for like mums and 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:36.920 babies as well, that's separate to this. 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:37.960 I'm really enjoying. 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:40.360 It's Australian made and it's also all of the good 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:43.520 stuff like ethical certified blah blah blah blah blah. 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:46.200 Question one. I'm getting married soon and feel a bit 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:49.280 icky about my dad walking me down the aisle. I'm 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.560 not a fan of the tradition of being given away 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.600 from one man to another for context. I'm not super 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:56.640 close with my dad, but we don't necessarily have a 0:14:56.680 --> 0:15:00.040 bad relationship. My parents are quite traditional. Growing up, my 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:02.440 dad was the provider. My mom was a stay at 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:04.560 home mom, so I really didn't have much of an 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.240 emotional connection to my dad. He was always working. I 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:09.120 know it will upset my parents if I tell them 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:11.000 I want to walk down the aisle or by myself. 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:13.000 So I'm not sure if I should just suck it 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.400 up to keep the peace. What do you think I 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:15.800 should do? 0:15:16.120 --> 0:15:17.800 Can you not walk down the aisle with both of them? 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:17.920 Like? 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.320 Do you have to just walk down with your dad? 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:21.160 If that's something that sits uncomfortably. 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.960 I'm a bit confused about why you're feeling icky. Is 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:26.080 it because you don't like the tradition or the idea 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:28.400 of being given away? Or is it because you feel 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:30.720 weird because your relationship is not so close with your dad, 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:33.880 because there's like two things going on concurrently here. If 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.040 it's more just that you're not that close with your 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.120 dad and you were closer with your mom, I would 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.000 walk down with both of them. And I don't think 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:42.280 it means or it has to mean what it used 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:44.960