WEBVTT - MINI: Addressing The Rumours

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<v Speaker 1>Got anything good.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, this is the Christian O'Connell show podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a hot potato.

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<v Speaker 1>And you just watch her be throwing around this team

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<v Speaker 1>over the next couple of minutes. Friday night, get a

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<v Speaker 1>phone call for my eighteen year old daughter Lois. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's like quarterbast eleven. Now when your kids call, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's that time of the evening, your first thing

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<v Speaker 1>is something's happened. So try w I'm like, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Is everything right? She's like, is there something going on

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<v Speaker 1>with you and mum? And I am utterly confused.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>She goes, well, a friend of mine who now lives

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<v Speaker 1>in Holland has just texted me her mum has seen

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<v Speaker 1>a message on Facebook. There's a statement saying that you

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<v Speaker 1>and mam are breaking up?

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<v Speaker 4>Is this true? I start to laugh. I'm like, hey, listen,

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<v Speaker 4>you got to slow down. What do you mean. There's

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<v Speaker 4>a statement from whom.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like international news today if it's reached Holland.

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<v Speaker 1>She sends mess screenshop from Facebook from a fan page

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<v Speaker 1>of this show.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know we had fan page.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know, and it says this is what it

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<v Speaker 1>says Christian and Sarah have separated. He's expected to be

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<v Speaker 1>taking an extended break right. My wife when she saw this, genuinely,

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<v Speaker 1>she was almost in tears, really upset with this job.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you get people say stuff about you and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. It comes with the territory. It shouldn't, but

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<v Speaker 1>it does. I laughed it off right and said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>she don't need to wether this is some luna on Facebook.

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<v Speaker 1>I turned the light off five minutes later and my

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<v Speaker 1>wife goes to me, you're just going to go to sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I went, yeah, we haven't actually separated.

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<v Speaker 1>Unless oh sorry, I sat down on the light goes

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<v Speaker 1>I went, oh, are we breaking up? Is this how

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<v Speaker 1>that's called? Sarah, don't do it like that on a

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<v Speaker 1>fan page in front of the fans. Surely we can

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<v Speaker 1>break up without.

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<v Speaker 4>Doing it in front of the kids and the fans.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, no, there's nothing in it, so it's just

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<v Speaker 4>like noise.

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<v Speaker 1>She says, yeah, but and then I had a look

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<v Speaker 1>at this, so it does this as a Facebook post

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<v Speaker 1>Christian and Sarah have separated, He's expected to be taken

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<v Speaker 1>an extended rake. There's a couple of comments and then

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<v Speaker 1>someone has given thumbs up well, you're like, great, he's

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<v Speaker 1>finally single. This is primo re estate that's about to

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<v Speaker 1>become available. Thumbs up. That's the one I on, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>who's that person? Then I find out yesterday that certain

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<v Speaker 1>people on this team, Jack and you, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how you reacted.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you know anything about it? Know about this until

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<v Speaker 2>you showed me?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So Sue the Boss messaged one of the producers Friday night.

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<v Speaker 1>So this says to me, Sue the Boss is hiding

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<v Speaker 1>in the Facebook fan pages, and not just that he's

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<v Speaker 1>on it on a Friday night, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, could even be the president of the fan page?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she put this up thinking think of the ratings?

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<v Speaker 1>Carl got all that attention with a brain tumor just

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<v Speaker 1>think of the ratings. You don't have to brain up.

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<v Speaker 1>Just maybe there's some photos if you're living separately, the

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<v Speaker 1>HEJ wants a wife, think of the ratings. Okay, mass

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<v Speaker 1>is huge.

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<v Speaker 3>We need a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>God, do you care about this or not? Take it seriously?

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<v Speaker 1>And obviously, oh, mate, Patsy is a member because.

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<v Speaker 3>I sent it to producer.

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<v Speaker 5>Tell you how it came about? This kind of commentary

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<v Speaker 5>on Can I just clear my name?

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<v Speaker 4>She said to Kitlin like, no, I did not.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, I need to defend myself. Here, tell

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<v Speaker 5>you what we're going to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Still getting very hot in here right now.

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<v Speaker 5>No, we need to say the records a.

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<v Speaker 3>Moment and we will come back. We will come back.

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<v Speaker 1>Because did you not send a screenshot gossiping about me

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<v Speaker 1>and my wife?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's not correct. I had two separate people on

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<v Speaker 5>Friday night.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just take the moment. I need to have a

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<v Speaker 1>cup of tea. Emotions are running high right now. For

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<v Speaker 1>the record, my wife and I were married.

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<v Speaker 3>Married. No, we are fine more than by now.

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<v Speaker 1>Not fine now because Sarah last night when I and

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<v Speaker 1>she went, you're going to talk about on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you any who've got Sam?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And she goes just worried about people thinking there's no

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<v Speaker 1>smoke without fire. Oh look, Jack, do you're not howving

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks you're the same one in the team.

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<v Speaker 4>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how screwed up things are right now. That's this year, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll come back to part two in this.

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<v Speaker 3>The Christian O'Connell show podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>So Friday night and get a concerned phone call from

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<v Speaker 1>my eighteen year old daughter. Someone has shown her a

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook post on a show fan page that someone's posted

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<v Speaker 1>Christian and Sarah have separated a year old daughter. We've

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<v Speaker 1>only seen her for dinner a couple of hours beforehand,

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<v Speaker 1>where there was a bit of a disagreement about me

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<v Speaker 1>ordering some TIMU suit but not grounds for divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>Is the final straw.

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<v Speaker 1>They said goodbye, and it must have really kicked off

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<v Speaker 1>in the car the way home.

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<v Speaker 4>That's it. Twenty seven years of marriages if I won't.

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<v Speaker 1>So. Obviously, my wife very upset by this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of seeing on their commenting about our marriage and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like this. It's laughable to me, but for my wife,

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<v Speaker 1>very upsetting. Then there was another wave of the upsetting

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday when it transpires that Sue the boss, had seen

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<v Speaker 1>it Friday night, screenshot it, sent it to on the Team,

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<v Speaker 1>and Patsy had also seen it, screenshot at it and

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<v Speaker 1>sent it to You producer Caitlin as well.

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<v Speaker 5>No, what happened was I had to no. Two separate

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<v Speaker 5>people sent me I do not follow that group. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>aware of that group, but I do not follow it.

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<v Speaker 5>I am not a member of it.

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<v Speaker 3>In hell, I am not.

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<v Speaker 5>And two people sent it to me and I can't

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<v Speaker 5>say what I said out loud, but it.

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<v Speaker 4>Was now now we're like we think like mood like

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<v Speaker 4>what it was expleting.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it was expletive and Chrissy, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 5>And I said, what on earth is this?

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<v Speaker 1>Da da da da da?

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<v Speaker 2>And so finally, for this day.

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<v Speaker 4>Is in the every day yack in on bang in

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<v Speaker 4>this bang in that this story, I'm going to put

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<v Speaker 4>them in the bloody news.

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<v Speaker 5>You would never think that about someone else's beautiful marriage anyway,

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<v Speaker 5>So I screwedful.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to think of a word then looks beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>And so I screenshotted it to producer Caitlin.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the best thing to do, isn't it?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much?

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<v Speaker 5>No with w t F is this da data? I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't I Caitlyn like about.

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<v Speaker 1>She absolutely did say that, yes.

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<v Speaker 5>But that could be anything that can mean you believe Yeah, no, no,

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<v Speaker 5>And I said something about how people annoy me in

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<v Speaker 5>inverted commas, but stronger.

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<v Speaker 4>Word you talk about me or Sarah, they annoy me.

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<v Speaker 4>But the rumor I wish they don't have to split up.

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<v Speaker 5>Over it, the gossipers about talking about other people's marriages.

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<v Speaker 5>And I said, quote.

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<v Speaker 4>There's nothing going on with the marriage.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you talking about it?

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<v Speaker 5>You're wrong about it. I'm not talking behind your back.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you the person who posted this or are you

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<v Speaker 1>the one that gave it thembs up? I am not.

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<v Speaker 5>And I said to Caitlin seriously, verbatim, this is what

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<v Speaker 5>I said, Seriously, if that were true, all related as seriously,

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<v Speaker 5>if all seriously, if that were true, all relationships are doomed.

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<v Speaker 5>They are soul mates. Like to say, this is so dearcueleus.

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<v Speaker 5>We're all doomed. If you two are doomed because you

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<v Speaker 5>are made.

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<v Speaker 4>Christian.

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<v Speaker 5>It's true, and Caitlyn yours, but can confirm that.

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<v Speaker 4>I did have to settle her down before that.

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<v Speaker 5>I just said, it's not true, that's insane, It's okay.

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<v Speaker 5>And then that's when she said, seriously, this is annoying

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<v Speaker 5>me because they are soul mates.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I replied, seriously, Patsy Sarah was more concerned

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Do you think someone like Patsy would actually

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<v Speaker 1>believe that one? I don't think so at all.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I was just annoy because what happens here. But

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<v Speaker 5>I know we share a lot on air about our

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<v Speaker 5>private lives. Sometimes we may overshare. But you know what

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<v Speaker 5>that that's not fodder.

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<v Speaker 4>And there's no fodder.

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<v Speaker 5>No, but if you really Sarah in your relationship, it's

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<v Speaker 5>inspirational to all of us the way that you want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Know we're not breaking.

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<v Speaker 5>Up, and you know what, back off. Don't ever, don't

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<v Speaker 5>ever speculate about any of our relationships because we all

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<v Speaker 5>three of us are lucky enough to have soulmates. And

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<v Speaker 5>that really annoyed me. As you can tell my skin

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<v Speaker 5>Friday night.

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<v Speaker 1>That is going to make my wife feel so much better.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that from my heart, Patchy, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel really sorry that she feels sad because she's

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<v Speaker 5>quite cheerful because our partners put up with a lot

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<v Speaker 5>with us on air because we talk a lot about them,

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<v Speaker 5>and you know what, they don't deserve this, because if

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<v Speaker 5>it wasn't for them, we wouldn't be as good as

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<v Speaker 5>we are as a show because of the partners.

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<v Speaker 4>We do.

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<v Speaker 5>Said really, really, really good.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the first time in almost seven years of

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<v Speaker 1>us working together when you've actually had my back.

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<v Speaker 5>I've had your back every day.

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<v Speaker 3>Genuinely, Patsy, thank you very much. The rest of you

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<v Speaker 3>little weasels all You're all in my Bad Book, The

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<v Speaker 3>Christian O'Connell Show podcast,