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Speaker 1: Got anything good.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is the Christian O'Connell show podcast.

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Speaker 3: This is a hot potato.

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Speaker 1: And you just watch her be throwing around this team

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Speaker 1: over the next couple of minutes. Friday night, get a

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Speaker 1: phone call for my eighteen year old daughter Lois. And

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Speaker 1: it's like quarterbast eleven. Now when your kids call, right,

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Speaker 1: and it's that time of the evening, your first thing

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Speaker 1: is something's happened. So try w I'm like, are you okay?

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Speaker 1: Is everything right? She's like, is there something going on

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Speaker 1: with you and mum? And I am utterly confused.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, what do you mean?

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Speaker 1: She goes, well, a friend of mine who now lives

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Speaker 1: in Holland has just texted me her mum has seen

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Speaker 1: a message on Facebook. There's a statement saying that you

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Speaker 1: and mam are breaking up?

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Speaker 4: Is this true? I start to laugh. I'm like, hey, listen,

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Speaker 4: you got to slow down. What do you mean. There's

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Speaker 4: a statement from whom.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like international news today if it's reached Holland.

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Speaker 1: She sends mess screenshop from Facebook from a fan page

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Speaker 1: of this show.

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Speaker 2: I didn't even know we had fan page.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know, and it says this is what it

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Speaker 1: says Christian and Sarah have separated. He's expected to be

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Speaker 1: taking an extended break right. My wife when she saw this, genuinely,

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Speaker 1: she was almost in tears, really upset with this job.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you get people say stuff about you and stuff

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Speaker 1: like that. It comes with the territory. It shouldn't, but

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Speaker 1: it does. I laughed it off right and said, well,

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Speaker 1: she don't need to wether this is some luna on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: I turned the light off five minutes later and my

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Speaker 1: wife goes to me, you're just going to go to sleep.

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Speaker 2: I went, yeah, we haven't actually separated.

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Speaker 1: Unless oh sorry, I sat down on the light goes

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Speaker 1: I went, oh, are we breaking up? Is this how

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Speaker 1: that's called? Sarah, don't do it like that on a

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Speaker 1: fan page in front of the fans. Surely we can

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Speaker 1: break up without.

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Speaker 4: Doing it in front of the kids and the fans.

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Speaker 4: I said, no, there's nothing in it, so it's just

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Speaker 4: like noise.

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Speaker 1: She says, yeah, but and then I had a look

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Speaker 1: at this, so it does this as a Facebook post

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Speaker 1: Christian and Sarah have separated, He's expected to be taken

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Speaker 1: an extended rake. There's a couple of comments and then

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Speaker 1: someone has given thumbs up well, you're like, great, he's

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Speaker 1: finally single. This is primo re estate that's about to

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Speaker 1: become available. Thumbs up. That's the one I on, Like,

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Speaker 1: who's that person? Then I find out yesterday that certain

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Speaker 1: people on this team, Jack and you, I don't know

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Speaker 1: how you reacted.

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Speaker 2: Did you know anything about it? Know about this until

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Speaker 2: you showed me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So Sue the Boss messaged one of the producers Friday night.

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Speaker 1: So this says to me, Sue the Boss is hiding

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Speaker 1: in the Facebook fan pages, and not just that he's

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Speaker 1: on it on a Friday night, but.

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Speaker 2: Wait, could even be the president of the fan page?

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Speaker 1: Did she put this up thinking think of the ratings?

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Speaker 1: Carl got all that attention with a brain tumor just

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Speaker 1: think of the ratings. You don't have to brain up.

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Speaker 1: Just maybe there's some photos if you're living separately, the

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Speaker 1: HEJ wants a wife, think of the ratings. Okay, mass

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Speaker 1: is huge.

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Speaker 3: We need a thing.

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Speaker 1: God, do you care about this or not? Take it seriously?

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Speaker 1: And obviously, oh, mate, Patsy is a member because.

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Speaker 3: I sent it to producer.

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Speaker 5: Tell you how it came about? This kind of commentary

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Speaker 5: on Can I just clear my name?

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Speaker 4: She said to Kitlin like, no, I did not.

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Speaker 3: I did not.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, I need to defend myself. Here, tell

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Speaker 5: you what we're going to do.

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Speaker 3: Still getting very hot in here right now.

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Speaker 5: No, we need to say the records a.

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Speaker 3: Moment and we will come back. We will come back.

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Speaker 1: Because did you not send a screenshot gossiping about me

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Speaker 1: and my wife?

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Speaker 5: Oh that's not correct. I had two separate people on

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Speaker 5: Friday night.

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Speaker 1: Let's just take the moment. I need to have a

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Speaker 1: cup of tea. Emotions are running high right now. For

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Speaker 1: the record, my wife and I were married.

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Speaker 3: Married. No, we are fine more than by now.

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Speaker 1: Not fine now because Sarah last night when I and

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Speaker 1: she went, you're going to talk about on the show,

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Speaker 1: aren't you any who've got Sam?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And she goes just worried about people thinking there's no

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Speaker 1: smoke without fire. Oh look, Jack, do you're not howving

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Speaker 1: she thinks you're the same one in the team.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 1: That's how screwed up things are right now. That's this year, guys.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back to part two in this.

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Speaker 3: The Christian O'Connell show podcast.

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Speaker 1: So Friday night and get a concerned phone call from

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Speaker 1: my eighteen year old daughter. Someone has shown her a

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Speaker 1: Facebook post on a show fan page that someone's posted

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Speaker 1: Christian and Sarah have separated a year old daughter. We've

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Speaker 1: only seen her for dinner a couple of hours beforehand,

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Speaker 1: where there was a bit of a disagreement about me

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Speaker 1: ordering some TIMU suit but not grounds for divorce.

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Speaker 2: Is the final straw.

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Speaker 1: They said goodbye, and it must have really kicked off

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Speaker 1: in the car the way home.

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Speaker 4: That's it. Twenty seven years of marriages if I won't.

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Speaker 1: So. Obviously, my wife very upset by this, you know,

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Speaker 1: sort of seeing on their commenting about our marriage and

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Speaker 1: stuff like this. It's laughable to me, but for my wife,

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Speaker 1: very upsetting. Then there was another wave of the upsetting

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Speaker 1: yesterday when it transpires that Sue the boss, had seen

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Speaker 1: it Friday night, screenshot it, sent it to on the Team,

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Speaker 1: and Patsy had also seen it, screenshot at it and

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Speaker 1: sent it to You producer Caitlin as well.

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Speaker 5: No, what happened was I had to no. Two separate

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Speaker 5: people sent me I do not follow that group. I'm

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Speaker 5: aware of that group, but I do not follow it.

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Speaker 5: I am not a member of it.

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Speaker 3: In hell, I am not.

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Speaker 5: And two people sent it to me and I can't

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Speaker 5: say what I said out loud, but it.

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Speaker 4: Was now now we're like we think like mood like

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Speaker 4: what it was expleting.

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Speaker 5: No, it was expletive and Chrissy, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 5: And I said, what on earth is this?

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Speaker 1: Da da da da da?

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Speaker 2: And so finally, for this day.

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Speaker 4: Is in the every day yack in on bang in

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Speaker 4: this bang in that this story, I'm going to put

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Speaker 4: them in the bloody news.

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Speaker 5: You would never think that about someone else's beautiful marriage anyway,

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Speaker 5: So I screwedful.

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Speaker 1: You have to think of a word then looks beautiful.

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Speaker 5: And so I screenshotted it to producer Caitlin.

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Speaker 4: That's the best thing to do, isn't it?

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much?

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Speaker 5: No with w t F is this da data? I

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Speaker 5: didn't I Caitlyn like about.

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Speaker 1: She absolutely did say that, yes.

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Speaker 5: But that could be anything that can mean you believe Yeah, no, no,

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Speaker 5: And I said something about how people annoy me in

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Speaker 5: inverted commas, but stronger.

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Speaker 4: Word you talk about me or Sarah, they annoy me.

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Speaker 4: But the rumor I wish they don't have to split up.

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Speaker 5: Over it, the gossipers about talking about other people's marriages.

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Speaker 5: And I said, quote.

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Speaker 4: There's nothing going on with the marriage.

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Speaker 3: Are you talking about it?

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Speaker 5: You're wrong about it. I'm not talking behind your back.

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Speaker 1: Are you the person who posted this or are you

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Speaker 1: the one that gave it thembs up? I am not.

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Speaker 5: And I said to Caitlin seriously, verbatim, this is what

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Speaker 5: I said, Seriously, if that were true, all related as seriously,

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Speaker 5: if all seriously, if that were true, all relationships are doomed.

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Speaker 5: They are soul mates. Like to say, this is so dearcueleus.

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Speaker 5: We're all doomed. If you two are doomed because you

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Speaker 5: are made.

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Speaker 4: Christian.

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Speaker 5: It's true, and Caitlyn yours, but can confirm that.

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Speaker 4: I did have to settle her down before that.

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Speaker 5: I just said, it's not true, that's insane, It's okay.

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Speaker 5: And then that's when she said, seriously, this is annoying

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Speaker 5: me because they are soul mates.

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Speaker 1: And then I replied, seriously, Patsy Sarah was more concerned

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Speaker 1: about it. Do you think someone like Patsy would actually

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Speaker 1: believe that one? I don't think so at all.

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Speaker 5: No, I was just annoy because what happens here. But

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Speaker 5: I know we share a lot on air about our

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Speaker 5: private lives. Sometimes we may overshare. But you know what

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Speaker 5: that that's not fodder.

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Speaker 4: And there's no fodder.

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Speaker 5: No, but if you really Sarah in your relationship, it's

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Speaker 5: inspirational to all of us the way that you want to.

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Speaker 3: Know we're not breaking.

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Speaker 5: Up, and you know what, back off. Don't ever, don't

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Speaker 5: ever speculate about any of our relationships because we all

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Speaker 5: three of us are lucky enough to have soulmates. And

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Speaker 5: that really annoyed me. As you can tell my skin

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Speaker 5: Friday night.

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Speaker 1: That is going to make my wife feel so much better.

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Speaker 1: I mean that from my heart, Patchy, thank you.

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Speaker 5: I feel really sorry that she feels sad because she's

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Speaker 5: quite cheerful because our partners put up with a lot

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Speaker 5: with us on air because we talk a lot about them,

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Speaker 5: and you know what, they don't deserve this, because if

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Speaker 5: it wasn't for them, we wouldn't be as good as

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Speaker 5: we are as a show because of the partners.

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Speaker 4: We do.

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Speaker 5: Said really, really, really good.

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Speaker 1: This is the first time in almost seven years of

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Speaker 1: us working together when you've actually had my back.

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Speaker 5: I've had your back every day.

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Speaker 3: Genuinely, Patsy, thank you very much. The rest of you

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Speaker 3: little weasels all You're all in my Bad Book, The

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Speaker 3: Christian O'Connell Show podcast,