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Speaker 1: Ash. It's not often that we can say that the

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Speaker 1: guest who's going to jump on this podcast is one

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Speaker 1: that you've had sex with. Oh look at Rosy. Your

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I do not wish to talk about it. Look,

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Speaker 2: I'm happy she's here. Let's be honest. We are a

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Speaker 1: We are, of course talking about April, who is your

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Speaker 1: beloved wife.

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Speaker 2: I thought we were talking about your um.

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Speaker 1: Oh c hey, hey, sorry, sorry, sorry, Let's not go there.

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Speaker 1: April is going to dish all the dirt on her

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Speaker 1: husband God the co host of this podcast, Two Doting Dads.

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Speaker 1: His name is Ash Wicks. Ash, you worried about what

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Speaker 1: the listeners are going to find out today?

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Speaker 2: Not at all. No, A little bit worried, tiny bit.

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Speaker 2: But we'll get through. I'm sure we'll get through.

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Speaker 1: She has been one of the most requested guests that

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Speaker 1: we've ever had, and it's taken a very long time,

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Speaker 1: lots of convincing that this is a good idea. All right,

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Speaker 1: as she is excited, let's get into it.

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Speaker 2: Stop touching my knee.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to two doting dads and one doting mum.

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Speaker 1: I am Mattie J.

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Speaker 2: I'm ash and April she is everyone much anticipated. I

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Speaker 2: think we've teased it the most.

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Speaker 1: But this is a podcast all about parenting.

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Speaker 2: It's the good, the bad, and the relatable.

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Speaker 1: And April, I dare say you have a lot of

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Speaker 1: advice to give.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you have wisdom of bursting out of

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Speaker 4: More so than Ashton. Probably that's about right.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask we were meant to record this last

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Speaker 1: week and you had a tooth or teeth removed? Did

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Speaker 1: that actually happen? I wasn't sure if that was made up.

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Speaker 4: Had some dental work, yeah, and so I decided to

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Speaker 2: Mouth mechanic and waste all that money down there, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Because I was like, maybe maybe this will never happen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, she played hard to get for a little while.

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Speaker 4: I was I was going to cancel this morning.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I was expecting when I came in

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Speaker 2: Have you heard.

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Speaker 3: Have you?

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Speaker 1: Finally, I do want to say we don't have many listeners.

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Speaker 2: Not many.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying this to make but they were all

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Speaker 1: very excited on Facebook, on Instagram, the Facebook man, on

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Speaker 1: the Facebook. Everybody was very keen to hear your voice.

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Speaker 4: That's reassuring, I hope.

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Speaker 1: One of them. The most common questions we had was

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Speaker 1: the story of how you and ash Met. Can you

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Speaker 1: recall the day, yeah, at.

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Speaker 2: The time, exact moment.

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Speaker 1: How did you two come together?

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Speaker 4: So our stories may vary, but my story goes, well,

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Speaker 2: April went out with one of my friends in high school.

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Speaker 4: That's not really how we met, Like, no, no, we

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Speaker 1: And then was what was your opinion of ash or

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Speaker 1: was he just kind of someone you knew a little bit?

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Speaker 4: I didn't really know him that well. I just knew

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Speaker 4: and whatnot. There was no reputation, no reputation. No, I

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Speaker 1: And so how long was it before you guys introduced romantically?

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Speaker 4: So I think you moved down in like you moved

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Speaker 4: you're twenty. And then we ran into each other at

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Speaker 2: Girl paps Mayonni's Manies exactly.

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Speaker 4: And you're like, oh, just one dance because it was

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Speaker 4: Yes, you're a good dance How did you know?

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Speaker 4: I was one of the dancers.

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Speaker 1: It's a bold moves, A bold guy. Like does dance

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Speaker 4: I did love a dance or but yeah, so I

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Speaker 4: And we just had a dance and I think we

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Speaker 4: I can remember his style of dance. You have to

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Speaker 2: I regret this. It was a shuffle a.

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Speaker 1: you the two of you very attractive couple. You still are.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting lost of words to you two are very spicy.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 4: By the way, he was skinnier than me as well.

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Speaker 1: The photos of you when you were younger, you're a

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Speaker 2: You're allowed ten kilos for every kid you have.

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Speaker 1: You didn't have the mustache. No, did that version of

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Speaker 2: tried really hard to go home with her. She said, no,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we did catch a bus home, got a bus home.

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Speaker 2: Well, young I was poor, and then I spent weeks

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Speaker 4: Or he was very keen. And I remember joking like

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Speaker 2: In those days. Yeah, I'd never do that now.

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Speaker 2: There you go, guys persistence.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember after you guys met at the pub,

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Speaker 4: So you'd been out like that whole day, so I

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Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure as well you did send in a message.

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Speaker 2: Ye.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm pretty sure you like told me straight up,

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Speaker 4: You're like, I haven't got money for dinner, but I'd

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Speaker 2: So I was like, context, context, context is everything, guys.

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Speaker 2: I had. I had packed up my car from living

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Speaker 4: So honesty, honesty is the best, suppose.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't think. I don't recall saying it.

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Speaker 4: Well, I just I can't remember how I found out

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Speaker 4: Yeah and you did? You did? You used to spoil

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Speaker 4: I remember like one of the first Valentine's Days. I

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Speaker 2: Make up for that one dinner I couldn't pay for.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember thinking on that date this feels different

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Speaker 4: I don't think I was ever his, but.

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Speaker 2: He still thinks. He still thinks he's got to change.

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Speaker 1: And then how long was it then until you guys

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Speaker 2: Seven years?

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Speaker 4: It was yeah, that's young, fifteen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we it was like we had been together for

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Speaker 2: they're probably listening. Probably not, they probably are. We did

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Speaker 2: the baggage handlers. No, no, no. I was just going

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So what I did was I didn't put it

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Speaker 2: up to this big lookout and April was like, why

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Speaker 2: then I think, at one point, we'll let this look

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Speaker 1: Did you have any idea? April?

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Speaker 4: No, no clue at all. I like, no, no clue

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, we just went up to this place

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Speaker 4: He got the best footage out of everyone. He got

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I remember the cab driver the whole way up

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's yeah, I've been there. They try the wings.

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Speaker 1: I was like no, no, I don't need a crowd.

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Speaker 2: And then it was like got up there and those

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Speaker 4: And then grabbed me by the arms and I was like, what.

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Speaker 6: He's packing Yeah, and then yeah, and then the cab

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Speaker 2: Who knew what was going on. Obviously she said yes,

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Speaker 2: The guy was like, I had no idea. You were

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Speaker 2: pretty cool to me. I was like, I was sweating,

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Speaker 2: like fuck, Like why did I I could have just

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Speaker 2: done it like old mate did on the jet STARFF

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Speaker 2: the other day. Did you see that? Oh? Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: don't want to shame them because people have got their

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Speaker 1: Hey those drinks are expensive on the flight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's yeah, twenty fifteen.

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Speaker 1: I always I'm always like, what would it be like

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Speaker 1: Do you remember like do you straight away go oh

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Speaker 1: you realize or is it like a bit is you

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Speaker 1: have a moment of confusion of like is this actually happening?

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Speaker 4: It's definitely surreal at first, and then I feel like

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Speaker 4: it's still surreal until you watch footage after you like

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Speaker 1: I sucked on mind? Can I just cry?

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Speaker 2: You're on TV.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know it was We're in Fiji. I just

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Speaker 1: I was going to say that I had cancer. It

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Speaker 2: I was like, I can just imagine you, like.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds stupid when you think back, You're like,

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Speaker 2: It's like it was.

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Speaker 1: Actually at twenty four, I.

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Speaker 4: No one really we really knew had been engaged.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one of the first were married. Yeah, who were with?

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Speaker 2: But that was really it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What was it do you think about Ash that made

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Speaker 2: Don't hold backpack, don't hold look.

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Speaker 4: To be honest, I don't think those like we were

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Speaker 4: still so young. I don't think those like I always thought, yeah,

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Speaker 2: You my best am? I your best friend? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think you want to have that friendship as a foundation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I already got his a ship from my boss

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Speaker 2: this speech where you go you're my best friend because

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Speaker 2: I'll be like god, And it was like it's so cliche,

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Speaker 2: and it's like, that's why I roll my eyes so much.

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Speaker 4: That's the first time you've admitted that I'm your best friend.

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Speaker 2: It was I said, it's not that I'm not or

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Speaker 1: He's a for your best friend.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I love that you can kiss if you want and

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Speaker 1: I pretend like I'm not here. Noe who proposed the

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Speaker 4: I would definitely say me, Yeah, we're working in child Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it was definitely me like I have

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Speaker 4: And literally what we've got is what I wanted. Boy girl,

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Speaker 2: Husband just got it all. With the thing with April

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Speaker 2: But I think that she brang home so much sickness

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Speaker 2: I didn't want kids. It wasn't that it was like

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Speaker 2: we'll start to not not try instead of we're going

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Speaker 2: to actively pursue try. Is that right?

445
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Speaker 1: How long did you have to try with Oscar first?

446
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? It's very best two goes. But I shouldn't say

447
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,920
Speaker 2: that because it is so hard for so many other couple.

448
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 2: Very very lucky, very lucky lucky. I don't want to

449
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 2: be canceled lucky.

450
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Speaker 1: As someone who works in daycares, I have to ask

451
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Speaker 1: the question, do you guys just flat out lie when

452
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 1: you talk about the kids eating all their food?

453
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Speaker 4: Oh, you're bringing me back. I haven't worked in daycare

454
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 4: for ages.

455
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Speaker 1: It is like a contract that you have to sign.

456
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Speaker 4: Back. When I worked in daycare, there weren't the apps,

457
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 4: so it wasn't it was just like rock and like

458
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 4: Flintstone start. Yeah, I think it was like a scrap

459
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 4: book even just put it up when all the parents

460
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 4: picked up. It was just like you put it off photos,

461
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 4: just this is what we did today, annual.

462
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you have one of those old timey cameras?

463
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 2: Just like I thought.

464
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,880
Speaker 1: I thought maybe working in early education it might did

465
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 1: tell you because you're like, oh my god, you get

466
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,639
Speaker 1: a taste of the realities of what it's like to

467
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 1: look after kids.

468
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Speaker 4: It's so different.

469
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Speaker 2: So in what way?

470
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 4: In what way that you don't you're not you're not

471
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 4: emotionally attached to them like they melt down.

472
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 2: It's against the law.

473
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just very different. I'd say, do.

474
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Speaker 1: You ever when a kid would either like finish, they

475
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: go on to like kindie and they would leave. Do

476
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:50,919
Speaker 1: you have those moments where you're like, I'm going to

477
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: miss little Timmy.

478
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 4: Yes, but no.

479
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Speaker 2: We had this conversation the other day where you were saying

480
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: that you see kids now or they were kids that

481
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 2: she still look up and they're like adults.

482
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,959
Speaker 4: They're like, yeah, almost finishing school, and I'm just like,

483
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 4: I haven't aged that much. How are these kids this

484
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 4: age now? Obviously I have so just too young?

485
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 2: You fresh, I know, you were like, there's the thing

486
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 2: working in early education. I suppose at twenty twenty one

487
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:22,239
Speaker 2: you were there too.

488
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,199
Speaker 4: You're like twenty, it was straight out of school, so

489
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 4: eighteen till yeah, you can still kid yourself.

490
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was.

491
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Speaker 1: It must have helped them. I guess being a mom

492
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 1: having the experience.

493
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Speaker 4: You'd think, so, yeah, didn't. No, I don't I think

494
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 4: it was just so like the emotional thing. You're just

495
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 4: emotionally attached now to something like the baby.

496
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Speaker 2: I feel like when you know, becoming parents with the

497
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 2: changing nappies, I'd never done. I never even held a baby.

498
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 2: I'd had one baby before, one of my kids, and

499
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 2: it was against my will. I was like where I

500
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: was at the public with my mate Mick and he

501
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 2: had a baby at the time, and he was like,

502
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,959
Speaker 2: hold this for a second, and I was like, so

503
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 2: when I the confidence that I had in April was

504
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 2: like when we were having kids, was like, she can

505
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 2: do all that, Like she can teach me how to

506
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 2: do that stuff because I don't know. So I feel

507
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 2: like I learn a lot from April in terms of

508
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 2: that sort of stuff. But she might have not been

509
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 2: feeling confident about a lot of it, but she definitely

510
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 2: picked up all you're changing appy, you go do this,

511
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 2: They're doing that, they're doing that. I'm like, fuck, I

512
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 2: would have had no idea.

513
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, the practical things I may have known it, it's.

514
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,360
Speaker 2: The emotional thing. Yeah. I mean every parent, I suppose

515
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 2: new parent like you would know. I think you're kids,

516
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 2: every parent would know where you're like you kind of

517
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 2: just like working it out. Oh yeah, emotionally at the

518
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 2: same time. This morning, I'm trying to have a cuddle

519
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 2: with Oscar and he just got so worked up because

520
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 2: he thought the coudle was so forced that he's had

521
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 2: a meltdown. And I'm just like, I don't know what

522
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 2: have I done? One and two is like I just

523
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 2: love you. Yeah, And it's like you're still going to

524
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 2: work out like those kinks and you know, like even

525
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: now with Oscar you think you've worked it out, something changes.

526
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

527
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Speaker 1: There's when I look at parenting. I don't want to

528
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: talk about it negatively, although I always do. There is

529
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 1: a lot that is really hard because toddlers are just

530
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 1: hard work, NonStop. But then you get these little moments

531
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Speaker 1: where you're like, ah, this is fucking great. I love this.

532
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: What are your moments as a mum where you're like,

533
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: I absolutely love this so much.

534
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 4: It would be the cuddles and the kisses, like Oscar

535
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 4: is just saying to Ashton, I asked you. I was like,

536
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 4: does Oscar just randomly just come up sit next to

537
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 4: you and give you a kiss on the cheek And

538
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 4: he said yeah, And I was like, he does that

539
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 4: to me too. Just like out of the blue.

540
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 2: Without yeah, it sounds like, yeah, I just said, yes,

541
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 2: I can fit in all right.

542
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 4: I just feel like obviously we've shown them him that

543
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 4: love that he knows how that makes him feel. So

544
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 4: now he's learned, you know, if he does it to us.

545
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, even the day I caught him with were I

546
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:05,479
Speaker 2: didn't catch him, gotcha. We're at the park, just at

547
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 2: the back here, and Macy was on the swing, and

548
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 2: he just walks up and goes, can I have a

549
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 2: cuddle to Macy? And like gave Macy kiss on the

550
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:14,399
Speaker 2: top of the head, and just like toddled off. I

551
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 2: don't know. He either loves to do that or he's manipulating.

552
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 2: They'll talk about me on the podcast you watch.

553
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: How did you find going back to work?

554
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,120
Speaker 4: Ah? So funny enough. I thought I would love being

555
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 4: a full time stay at home mum, and then once

556
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 4: I had Oscar, I was like, I need some work

557
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,400
Speaker 4: back in my life. So yeah, I took the year

558
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 4: off and then I went back and I went back

559
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 4: three days, which I think has been a good balance

560
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 4: because I needed it. I didn't want to be a

561
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 4: stay home mum.

562
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: I recall, I do recall how excited April was to

563
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 2: go back to work, even just first couple of days.

564
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 2: I think a lot more for the adult interact. We

565
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 2: still have a really great mother's group that was super supportive,

566
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 2: and you get that adult interaction. But I think when

567
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 2: you go back to an office where you're like there's

568
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: no kids inside.

569
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 4: You barely even talk about that, that's.

570
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 2: Called child ladies that you know, Like I remember that.

571
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: She was like, yes, like it kind of after a long,

572
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 2: hard year. It was kind of like a bit of

573
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 2: a It was kind of like going on holidays a

574
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 2: little bit, and it was.

575
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 4: A break from parenting.

576
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 2: She looked at me, it was a break.

577
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: Speaking of work, do you remember when Ash first grabbed

578
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: a tea towel, draved it over his head and filmed

579
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: a video And what was your reaction to that.

580
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 4: I actually can't remember the first one you ever did.

581
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 4: Do you remember the first one you ever did?

582
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 2: No, the first one I do recall doing where I

583
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 2: thought I'm onto something. There was other stuff where it

584
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: was like I would pretend to be you, bits and

585
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 2: pieces here and there, But the one that really grabbed

586
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 2: me was the pointless phone call home when you're leaving work,

587
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 2: where it would be me ringing you. I'm like, hey,

588
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: I myay home and you were just like okay, well,

589
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 2: okay bye.

590
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's it.

591
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 2: And the thing is that so many people had different

592
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,239
Speaker 2: interpretations of what that call meant to them, and I

593
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 2: was like, there's something here, psychologically, there's something here, because

594
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 2: it wasn't people always say, oh no, you took the

595
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 2: piece out of your wife. I'm not taking the piece

596
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 2: out of her whatsoever. According to me, I remember saying

597
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: to you, I don't know if you recall. I was like,

598
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 2: so many people must have this conversation. Yeah, let's find out,

599
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 2: and that's how where we ended up.

600
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've always found it funny. I remember a girlfriend

601
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 4: actually asking me like, well, probably about a year ago now,

602
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 4: because you've been doing it for a while, and she

603
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 4: was like, have you ever thought like taken offense to

604
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 4: anything that he's ever posted? And it had never crossed

605
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 4: my mind that any of it would be offensive to

606
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 4: me because I'm literally laughing at all of them.

607
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: Because it's you, Hey guys, it's me Matt.

608
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 2: And also ashes here alongside.

609
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: We recorded this at a different time, so when we

610
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 1: sat down with April, we wanted to let you know

611
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 1: that we stuffed up.

612
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 2: Well you did.

613
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: We agreed that it was both of our faults.

614
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 2: You agree that it was Actually, no.

615
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: It wasn't our fault. It was the equipment's fault.

616
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 2: Yes, it was the equipment's fault. In that's equipment.

617
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: It decided to stop recording. So the audio from this

618
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: point on is a little bit different to what you've

619
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 1: just been listening to.

620
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 2: It's still great, but you don't want to miss what

621
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 2: she says.

622
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: You want to Oh my god, I can't believe she

623
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: admitted that.

624
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 2: And we shared a cheeky kiss.

625
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: Not me and April.

626
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 2: You did light it with the audience like that. Again,

627
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 2: the only thing she ever gets offended by is if

628
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 2: the house is a little bit messing. Yeah, you could

629
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 2: have cleaned up before you film that.

630
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 4: Yes, a number I need to say I do not

631
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 4: far the amount of times.

632
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: Talk about.

633
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 2: Let's not get into that.

634
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: Do you remember thinking, oh shit, my husband's going to

635
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: become a content creator?

636
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, when he got made Redundant.

637
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 2: I actually never thought it would be something I would

638
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 2: do full time. I never really thought that until people

639
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: started like got management and then I remember when we

640
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: first started doing this podcast, even just doing content, I

641
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: was doing both jobs. I don't know how I did that.

642
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 2: I did not have the spam for that. Now I

643
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 2: think I've just completely checked out from that. But I

644
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 2: was like I checked out then, and I was lucky

645
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 2: that my job was so slow at the time. But

646
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: I remember April was like, you're not quit. You're not

647
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: quitting your job, which is fair enough, and I understood

648
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 2: that I couldn't just quit to pursue a dream that

649
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 2: came out of nowhere. It's never been a lifelong dream

650
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 2: in mind to be doing this. It's sort of I

651
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 2: sort of started doing it, and then April was also

652
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 2: like how happy it made me. I remember there was

653
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 2: those years through COVID and stuff, and like, you know,

654
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 2: we've sort of struggled with Oscar. We were struggling to

655
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 2: be with being stuck at home, and then you know,

656
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 2: I was working from home and then April was also

657
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 2: working from home.

658
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 3: You asked me specifically.

659
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 4: I remember you were like, because you're hating your corporate job,

660
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 4: and you were like, we just got a what's it

661
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 4: called approved?

662
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 5: I remembered it, Yeah, I remember, yeah, And.

663
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 4: So you know, things were looking good and then next

664
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 4: you know, Ashton goes, oh, do you think I can

665
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 4: quit my job and do this full time.

666
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 3: This is before redundancy, and I just thought, definitely, not like,

667
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 3: what do you mean we'll get a house. We'll get

668
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 3: that all our ducks in a row first, and.

669
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 4: Then maybe three months after that then you can maybe

670
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 4: look at doing it.

671
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 2: And April has always been like this too, just like

672
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 2: you know what whatever will be will be. Everything happens

673
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 2: for a reason.

674
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: I welcome the redundancy because I knew that once you could,

675
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: once you had that removed, you would go all in.

676
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. For me then and even for us then it

677
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 2: was like I had to prioritize where I was getting

678
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 2: paid consistently. Even though I wasn't as you know, like

679
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 2: amazing money, it was still like it was good. It

680
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 2: kept us a flight, whichould we be two kids? If

681
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: we didn't have two kids, should probably like to do

682
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: what the fuck you want? But I think like that

683
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 2: conversation then, to be made redundant week that it just

684
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 2: shows that the universe was like, that's what you meant

685
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 2: to be doing. And I think there's nothing she could

686
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 2: have done about it because it was made redundant.

687
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: Would you say, Ash, I think I should look for

688
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,959
Speaker 1: another job, or we like, well, let's give the content

689
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: creation a crack.

690
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 4: It was like, okay, if there's an opportunity, it's gonna

691
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 4: be now.

692
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 3: Like otherwise, I would never have let it happen. I

693
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 3: literally there wasn't She.

694
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 2: Would have called that job and said you keep him there.

695
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: We don't want him here, you keep him there?

696
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 3: Yes?

697
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,479
Speaker 4: So no, And I think ever since that did happen, like,

698
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,959
Speaker 4: I've never seen you more happy or even more driven

699
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 4: in what you're doing now.

700
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: I sleep every day lunchtime.

701
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:00,120
Speaker 3: I took it.

702
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: At that point, there would have been occasions when you

703
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: guys would have been out in public and someone would

704
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: have gone, oh.

705
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 5: My gosh, it's that guy from the town head. Yeah.

706
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's funny. We talk about this because no one

707
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 3: ever comes up when I'm there. I know, what does

708
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 3: that say? Who knows?

709
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 2: They're too scared of you? Yeah I'm not.

710
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,240
Speaker 3: I'm a scary person.

711
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 4: But because Ashton would be like, come back from the

712
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 4: shops and like, oh I had like three people come

713
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 4: up to me.

714
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm always at the shops of you.

715
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 3: No one has ever come up to you, So.

716
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 5: People are listening. I mean, a lovely.

717
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 3: Woman, very friendly and I yeah, bring it on.

718
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 5: Just nice. Do you like that or do you dislike that?

719
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 5: Are you indifferent?

720
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 3: I think it's nice. I think it's actually really really cool.

721
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a bit off. Like for me, you know,

722
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: two years ago less would never have happened. And now,

723
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 2: like you know, like just last week, can't go on

724
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: a magic ground and with a whole congregation of people,

725
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 2: you know, couples and stuff that go into and enjoying

726
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 2: sport they both love together and then they see me

727
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 2: on the the middle of the street and they're like

728
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 2: it's you Like, it's just it's a really weird feeling

729
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 2: for sure.

730
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 3: Question for you does it get old?

731
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,399
Speaker 2: Damn on time?

732
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 5: It's time?

733
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 2: It's weird? Is where I mean, I'll be honest. For me,

734
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 2: it really happens.

735
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 1: More so if people have been drinking, I think they're

736
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: kind of like, oh I I don't really care.

737
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 2: They're just like a bit ofebreated.

738
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, they're more inclined to be like holy ship. Normally

739
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 5: people don't bat nilid. But the other morning I.

740
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: Was getting the kids in the car and the lady

741
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,800
Speaker 1: walked past and she was like hey, And there's a

742
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: split second where I was like fuck, Is that a

743
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: month from daycare before?

744
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 5: Is that?

745
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

746
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 4: It was.

747
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: I couldn't the tone of the high I couldn't quite like, yeah,

748
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: just said it was.

749
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 5: And that's why I'm like, I do I know, Like no, no,

750
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 5: I just you know, I just love the podcast and

751
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, thank goodness, where's that?

752
00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a segment called petty Couples.

753
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 3: I'm well aware.

754
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 1: People want to know how you deal with ashes pediness.

755
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: More so, particular was a scenario where he only made

756
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 1: one side of the bed.

757
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he didn't tell you the end of the story. Please,

758
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 3: he doesn't let me see it. Then he literally will

759
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 3: make the other side of the bed.

760
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: If you had to say what a bad habits are,

761
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: what would they be?

762
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 2: God, your bad.

763
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,439
Speaker 3: Habit would just be like.

764
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 2: All the time, I'm sorry, how dare I have natural

765
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:54,839
Speaker 2: humanly bodily functions? Yeah?

766
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 3: Definitely, yet farting and can you stop it?

767
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 2: That's me?

768
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 5: I mean, if that's the worst that he's doing, that's

769
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 5: pretty good.

770
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 2: You're pretty lifely at the start. Do you reckon?

771
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 4: Yes?

772
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:12,879
Speaker 2: What would his best habit? Then?

773
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 4: One that comes to mind, actually is I do like

774
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's a habit, But I do

775
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 4: love that.

776
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 3: You're an impulse person.

777
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 4: Like if we're hesitating on, you know, purchasing something big,

778
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,359
Speaker 4: I should be like, just do it, just do it,

779
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 4: Whereas I hesitate I think too much about it. Yeah,

780
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 4: if it's like, you know, let's book flights, like just

781
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 4: do it, I'm like, oh.

782
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 3: But it's like two thousand dollars, just do it.

783
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, just do it. It's like what if I wait

784
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 2: like two days and say fifteen buck may just book it?

785
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 2: I think like we Yeah, I've always been like that,

786
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 2: and You've always been like so cautious.

787
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 3: To buy anything anything.

788
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 2: So it kind of works for us. If we're both cautious,

789
00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: we would have nothing. We would have no, we couldn't

790
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 2: make a decision. April's dad very much like April, right,

791
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 2: whereas he's like so cautious about everything, and it does

792
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 2: drive me crazy. But then also it helps that she

793
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 2: listens to when I'm like, just do it, especially if

794
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 2: it's something for her, because She'll be like, oh do

795
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 2: I really need like this, and I'll be like, just

796
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 2: get it. What's the worst is going to happen? If

797
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: the worst is gonna happen is you've got it. That's it.

798
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 2: You know, he's to pull the trigger.

799
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 4: Guy definitely, and I need that, but then you also

800
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 4: need the other way around.

801
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 7: The perfectly we're talking about for the business for no

802
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 7: reason able.

803
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 2: To be like, Nope, definitely not.

804
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 1: One of the most common questions we got was how

805
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: does April feel about how she's perceived in the videos

806
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: at Ash makes Oh, I.

807
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 3: Don't care what other people think about I know what.

808
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 2: I am like so like that.

809
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: Have you ever had to say, Ash, I don't want

810
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 1: that video published or I want no one taken down?

811
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 4: No, Like I said, I think I do find them

812
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 4: all funny and maybe call me naive, but I think

813
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 4: there's ones that I'm like, I don't do that.

814
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,439
Speaker 2: I'm not like that. Yeah, yeah.

815
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 5: Have you ever do something and go oh fuck, that's

816
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 5: gonna do?

817
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,399
Speaker 3: I do something just in my head and I'll be.

818
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 5: Like, have you done this?

819
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 2: You maam you. There's so many instances where we've just

820
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: had a quick conversation and I have laughed and You've

821
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 2: gone yeah, yeah, because you're walking content and I tell

822
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 2: everyone that that. Like You'll be like, do you think

823
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 2: it's going to rain? And I'll be like why, like,

824
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 2: or you'll be like if it rains, if you ring

825
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,919
Speaker 2: the washing in, it's like yeah, but that's like you're

826
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 2: just walking content, You're welcome. That's why it goes into

827
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 2: enjoy it than.

828
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: Have you ever tried the tea towel on yourself whilst

829
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 1: she's not been around?

830
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 3: Never has it ever crossed my mind to do that.

831
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,720
Speaker 2: Someone asked me if you've ever want to drink sex?

832
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 3: Well, that's weird.

833
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 5: I asked one time that in confidence, have you ever

834
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 5: tried to hide the tea taul?

835
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 2: Oh?

836
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 4: I do find myself like they're just lying around the house,

837
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 4: and she's probably a petty thing, and I'll just like.

838
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 3: Pick them up and throw them, like you know, and

839
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 3: he might be looking for it. I don't know. Well,

840
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 3: it's more you've just left them in the way.

841
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 2: I honestly I'll lose them or just get another one out.

842
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 4: Or felt if you folded up nicely and put it down,

843
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:49,439
Speaker 4: I wouldn't have to throw it away.

844
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 5: How many tea towels do you think there are in

845
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 5: this house right now?

846
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,919
Speaker 4: Well, we started with about forty, and I've only ever

847
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 4: seen two at the moment.

848
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 2: That we kind of them as Jim towers too. Here

849
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 2: and there like the ones that are going to be

850
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 2: They're good size, they're perfect size. I do need to

851
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 2: pop in a Camart get another ten pack.

852
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 5: If you're listening, new hair you sponsored? The Pope just

853
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 5: came anko.

854
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 2: Ah yeah, I mean there's been some instances where April

855
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 2: has been like or the trouble we're with we're with

856
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 2: people somewhere and I like, disappear it and you're like,

857
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 2: he's just gone, film video is gone, just disappeared.

858
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 1: It's just what I'm like, Such a lucky lady, isn't she.

859
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: When you first started dating Ash, there was no MO.

860
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 1: Currently has the MO?

861
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 2: Are you four or against the MO?

862
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 3: Have you seen before photos?

863
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 2: Yeah?

864
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 4: I have.

865
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 5: He was handsome.

866
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 4: I would say you look like a baby. Yeah yeah,

867
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 4: I'm like all for the MO, thank you.

868
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: But how do you find like Laura's probably was that

869
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: I had to remove mine because she hated kissing them out.

870
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 3: I think it's been many years now that I'm.

871
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 2: Just used to it. Yeah. Yeah, so lord, if you're listening,

872
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 2: real men have more stashes like for me, I you

873
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 2: used to hate it. I remember when I get early days, Yeah,

874
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 2: when I would just like try it out here and

875
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 2: there and I think over lockdown. I just decided that

876
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 2: it's going to be a permanent picture on my face now.

877
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 2: And April was like, whatever, this may be prying too much.

878
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: But we had a story on the podcast where a

879
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:37,760
Speaker 1: lady would not shave downstairs because her husband would grown mustache.

880
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,280
Speaker 5: Is that the same with yourself, April?

881
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 3: So the lady wouldn't shave because he wouldn't shave.

882
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 5: Exactly?

883
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 3: Is that I've never thought that.

884
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 5: Okay, let it, marry it, thanks man.

885
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 1: There was a story that we've heard before about Ash

886
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: passing out during the birth of Macy.

887
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 5: Do you remember how those events unfolded?

888
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 4: Yes, very clearly actually, because Macy's birth is like, you know,

889
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 4: a good birth.

890
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:10,359
Speaker 3: It was like you know good, it.

891
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 4: Was planned, it was all very relaxing, the what's the

892
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 4: guy who puts your needle and so.

893
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 2: Just just for those listeners out there, and like a

894
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: plan cit section, it's kind of like booking into a hotel.

895
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 2: You pick a day, you pick a checking day, you

896
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 2: check in time, you pick a time you're going. You

897
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 2: do like the normal hotel checking stuff sort of and

898
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 2: obviously with all the medical stuff.

899
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 3: And all very relaxed.

900
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 4: And I'm the one who would usually be fainting and stuff.

901
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 3: So we get in and I'm getting the epidural I

902
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 3: think it is.

903
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 2: So it was side saddle on the bed doing so

904
00:43:54,040 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 2: like you see anyways, horse of go. So I saddled

905
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 2: on the bed and I'm in front, and so that

906
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:14,279
Speaker 2: the the drug guy he was on behind, so I

907
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 2: couldn't even see him. I couldn't see anything that was happening.

908
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 2: So that's the situation we're in.

909
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 4: Like I'm all cool, current collected, and just starting to

910
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 4: feel relaxed and.

911
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 3: Numb and lying back down. And then I hear asked him,

912
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 3: going I don't feel good. I don't feel good. And

913
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 3: then obviously like they take it.

914
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 4: Quite seriously because I've probably seen so many men just yeah.

915
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 4: And so I just remember not necessarily looking because I

916
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 4: don't think I could move that much. Uh, And but

917
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 4: my obstitution stayed with me, but everyone else was hands

918
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 4: on deck down below, and my obstitution. I remember her saying, Johnny,

919
00:44:55,960 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 4: take some photos. I was like, yeah, yes, please, that

920
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 4: was fine.

921
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 2: I was like whatever, you looked me looking over at me,

922
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 2: and I was like legs up on the chair, on

923
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 2: flat on my back with a like a wet flannel

924
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 2: over my head and a thing of apple, and she

925
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 2: was like this meant to be about me.

926
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was.

927
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 3: But you must have got up pretty quick.

928
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 5: How long was it before you were back on your feet?

929
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: They wouldn't let me get back up off for a

930
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:26,400
Speaker 2: while until we're pretty much done.

931
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 3: No, you were standing up.

932
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 2: There when No, I actually I was. You're right, I

933
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 2: was sitting right behind it where your head is. You

934
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 2: can't stand I remember that they put Then they dropped

935
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 2: the curtain. I was like, a.

936
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 4: Dropped the curtain and I got to touch macony and

937
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 4: stuff and then probably well, thank.

938
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 3: You anyway, it's a miracle.

939
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,839
Speaker 2: That I survived. In true me fashion, I made it all.

940
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 2: But you know, like I didn't miss it. You didn't

941
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 2: miss anything, thank god. But it's always a funny story.

942
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 2: I was just laugh because it was it was a

943
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 2: plan Z section during the first pregnancy. There was none

944
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 2: of that.

945
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 3: It was all adrenaline.

946
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 2: It was all adrenaline this just because it was so

947
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 2: I remember we were sitting in a room.

948
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,439
Speaker 3: And it was kind of like taking photos.

949
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 2: Baby then and in a minute and it's just a

950
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 2: weird situation.

951
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Laura was introduced and it was like it's so

952
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: strange to go like, oh, we're going to have a

953
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: kid and yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah weird.

954
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 5: And before we go over, like you have one last

955
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,360
Speaker 5: question for you? Is there anything that you would.

956
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: Like to say to Ash now that you haven't had

957
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 1: the opportunity to set up until now, anything at all?

958
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 3: Anything at all?

959
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 2: Mmm?

960
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 3: Could? I?

961
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 4: I think I just want to say that, like, super

962
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 4: proud of everything that you do and I know I

963
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 4: see you hustle and everything.

964
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 3: I know it's for the family.

965
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:07,359
Speaker 4: So even though you put on this persona that you are,

966
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 4: what would what would people say? Yes, smart ass, you

967
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 4: are a good egg and not everyone gets to see

968
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 4: that side.

969
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 2: I appreciate that.

970
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 5: Welcome, guys are so beautiful. Yes, I really delivered perfectly.

971
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 2: Thank you guys.

972
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 5: Want to kiss by all means? Don't hold back in front?

973
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 2: Oh yes, take it off lovely.

974
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 5: Thank you, April, Thank you, Welcome. I know you've been reluctant.

975
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:46,320
Speaker 5: Can I just say you're an absolute natural? It was

976
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:47,720
Speaker 5: a pleasure having on the podcast.

977
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 3: Don't take my job, Yes, don't, I'll go back to.

978
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 1: There is nothing I enjoy more Ash than watching you

979
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: be affectionate with squirm your wife.

980
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 2: I guess you're all squirmy, don't I love it? Problem.

981
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: I would have preferred a bit of tongue, but that's okay,

982
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: that's okay.

983
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 2: On the inside of the outside.

984
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: It was beautiful, lovely to see the two of you.

985
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: You're squirming right now.

986
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 2: Thank you April for coming on and making me feel

987
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,280
Speaker 2: really uncomfortable for that whole chat. I really appreciate it.

988
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 1: I loved it. I loved it. Thank you, Thank you

989
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: to April. And if you've enjoyed this episode, we would

990
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 1: absolutely love it even more if you would give us

991
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: a review, a couple of words, a few stars. That's

992
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: all it takes to make Ashen myself extremely happy.

993
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 2: And if you have any other guests, you'd love us

994
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 2: to chat too. Whether it's my mum my Nan, that'd

995
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 2: be a good one.

996
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, what other family members can we rope?

997
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:47,280
Speaker 2: And Nan would be a bit red hot.

998
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: We have actually had a few requests to get the

999
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: kids on so were made.

1000
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: Don't know how. Maybe we'll think about that, but if

1001
00:48:55,640 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 2: you do have any suggestions, please either dms Dad's Instagram

1002
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: or email us at a hello at two don dads.

1003
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: Dot com and the Facebook group and don't forget I

1004
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,720
Speaker 1: always forget the Facebook. We're always there. We are lurking.

1005
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 1: We spend every shadows, yeah, every minute of every day

1006
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 1: just waiting for you guys to say something so we

1007
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:17,720
Speaker 1: can engage because we're lonely.

1008
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, just search too. Doting Dads on Facebook on the Facebook.

1009
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 1: Let's get out of your buddy BA. Two Doting Dads

1010
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 1: podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout Australia and

1011
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 1: the connections to land, see and community.

1012
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 2: We pay our respects to their elders past and present

1013
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and torrestraight onland,

1014
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:46,359
Speaker 2: the people's today. This episode was recorded on Gadagle Land