1 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 1: Have you been on a date that was so bad 2 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 1: you wish you could have raised it from your memory? 3 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: Now. 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:13,319 Speaker 1: The reason I'm bringing this up is because I was 5 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 1: watching some Saturday Night Live. Maya Rudolph, one of my 6 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: favorite people in the world, was the guest on Saturday 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: Night Live. 8 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 3: Favorite People in the World. 9 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 4: My Rudolph is amazing. 10 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: If you don't know who I'm talking about, go and 11 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 1: look her up and just watch all of her stuff. 12 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 5: I'm sure she's great. But favorite people in the world, 13 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 5: like top three? I know your top three? 14 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit of hyph perpleh. 15 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 5: It's David Neats and it's my Rudolph. 16 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's an eclectic bunch. 17 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: It's a very eclectic bunch. Anyway, I was watching a 18 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 1: sketch with her. She was imitating Beyonce. She was Beyonce 19 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: in a sketch where they were doing the hot Ones thing. 20 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: Have you seen hot Ones? 21 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 22 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 5: The interview where they eat increasingly spicy wings. 23 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, So there was a sketch about that where she's Beyonce. 24 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 3: Is it? 25 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 6: I'm not good? 26 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 5: Oh? 27 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: Can I have your mealk? 28 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 7: Yeah? 29 00:00:58,280 --> 00:00:59,279 Speaker 3: Of course, thank you. 30 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 4: Splashes milk on her face. 31 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: Anyway, the punchline of it is a guy walks out 32 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: pretending to be from Men in Black when he's got 33 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: one of. 34 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 4: Those memory erasing. 35 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: A neuralizer in Men in Black so everyone can forget 36 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: the experience and yes, And I was like, how good 37 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: would a neuralizer have been after some horrific dates, Like, 38 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: that's the time you need a neuralizer. 39 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 4: Shocking date, neuralize it, just erase it. Let's got a 40 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 4: joy joy. 41 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: That's true if we want to get philosophical, but sometimes 42 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 1: joy Joey's the what's the date that you wished you 43 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 1: could neuralize? 44 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 6: Well, there was an average Joe who I met online 45 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 6: on a dating app, and I decided I would give 46 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 6: it a crack and have a date with the sky. 47 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 6: It came to the day that we met and he 48 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 6: did not tell me beforehand that he was a Mormon 49 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 6: slash priest, and he asked me within an hour of 50 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 6: out date to be his girlfriend. And if I said no, 51 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 6: I'll be sent to hell. 52 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 3: It's a fair threat. It's a fair thread. 53 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: So I went on a date with a with a 54 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: with a woman and it was so we had dinner 55 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: at her at her apartment and at the start we 56 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: were kind of like giving about the fact that this cat, 57 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: this captain's like nip nipping me on the foot anyway, 58 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: will this It became like a when animals attack kind 59 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: of thing like this. 60 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 4: I had scratches, like all over my legs. 61 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: I was I was like bleeding from from the knee. 62 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 4: Well, she she thought it was. 63 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 5: Funny and this is the No is this the Northern 64 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 5: European No, no, no, no, no, it wasn't her. 65 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 4: Let's go to Josh here. No no, it wasn't. 66 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: Should never cat Josh your worst date. 67 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 8: I met a girl in one of the dating websites. 68 00:02:58,160 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 6: Caught up with her. 69 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 9: She didn't have a lot of photos and social media 70 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 9: and just start off. 71 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 7: She was a beautiful girl. 72 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 10: Lovely girl. 73 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 9: We just started to go in an escape room for 74 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 9: the first date. I'm a very hygienic person, and she 75 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 9: had the worst. 76 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 6: Bo I have ever smelled. 77 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 11: And I was trying my best to stay away from 78 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 11: her but still be nice. 79 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 10: Still showed like I'm a respectable and I got but 80 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:18,399 Speaker 10: I was like, I was like gagging. 81 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 9: It was so bad. 82 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: She always nervous as well, and I think, yeah, the 83 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: nerves and the stress. 84 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 3: Your idea to do the escape room yeah, it was. 85 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 10: I thought it was a good idea, but. 86 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 3: She's probably shitting herself because. 87 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:33,239 Speaker 12: No, no, but it wasn't. 88 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 7: It was that smell where like you hadn't showered in 89 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 7: a few days. 90 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 9: It wasn't that. 91 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: Nervous idea jud judge, you know, he's that judge. 92 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 5: I can understand her being incredibly anxious and anxious sweating 93 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 5: in that scenario you like someone, You're like, right, let's 94 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 5: put you to the test and escape. 95 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: I would sweat the house down in an escape room 96 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: on a first date because you're already anxious around impressing 97 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: that person. 98 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 3: And the testing your intelligence. 99 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: Absolutely right, and then when you notice that you've got 100 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: a bit of bad I do this. 101 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Cherie actually dying being that girl. 102 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: Shari your worst date that you wish you had a 103 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: new realiza. 104 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 9: For Hi, guys, Oh man, I've got the worst story 105 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 9: ever for a new day. So I was daving this 106 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 9: guy for like three months, right. I met him for 107 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 9: a friend and I had never met his parents before, 108 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 9: so he was He told me a lot of stories 109 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 9: about a chance he's really close to his dad, his mum, 110 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 9: and his whole family. He ended up inviting me to their 111 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 9: family barbecue one day, so I said, okay, you know, 112 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 9: this is the next step into our relationships. Sweet, everything's 113 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 9: going fine. So I ended up going to the barbecue 114 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 9: and I recognized his dad. No, no, yeah, yeah. Turns 115 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 9: out I had met his dad in the past on 116 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 9: a dating app and I had dated sad. 117 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 4: Had you hooked up with the dad? 118 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 3: It is my dad in the park? 119 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 5: Yea? How do you count your seconds? On thirty one 120 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 5: and six five? I think we can all share our 121 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:19,239 Speaker 5: common knowledge. 122 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 3: We all do it differently, weirdly, strangely. 123 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 5: There should be a uniform way to go about this, Woods, 124 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 5: and I think you've comet with a full proof test 125 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 5: as to how we can get down to this. 126 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 1: Thank you. 127 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 5: I'm a scientist, so you've you've thought about this long 128 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 5: and hard, and I like this scientific part of you, mate, 129 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 5: I like when it comes out. 130 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 4: Thank you. 131 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: So basically, people are calling, now how do they count 132 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: their seconds? And then we are going to test it out. 133 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: So we're going to hear what you do in your. 134 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 4: Head for the first time ever. 135 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: We need to incorporate the teens thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, that's 136 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: very different too. 137 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 5: We know the teen two three, right, well, there's more syllables. 138 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 1: Exactly right, So what happens when you're adding syllables? So 139 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 1: basically we've got that time exactly So. 140 00:05:58,839 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 4: We've got. 141 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 5: But we only get three teens thirteen, fourteen, and fifteen. 142 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 3: That should be. So you you're going to count you. 143 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 5: Guys that are calling on thirty one and six five, 144 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 5: you're going to count your seconds allowed. I'm gonna be honest. 145 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:14,119 Speaker 5: I'm a Mississippi guy, have been my whole life, stood 146 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 5: by it my whole life. 147 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: Sure, and I think Mississippi gets too long when you 148 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: get to the teens. 149 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 3: Now. 150 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 5: Now, this is another factor which I think comes into it. 151 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 5: As I was telling you, I'm a Mississippi guy, I 152 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 5: obviously speed up with the Mississippis as soon as I 153 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 5: hit the double digit numbers. And I think that's part 154 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 5: of the skill it needs to be taking into account. 155 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 4: I'm trying to take skill out of it. 156 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 7: I want to. 157 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 3: You can never take skill out of it in your head. 158 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: Let's go to Sam here, Sam, how do you count 159 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: seconds in your head? 160 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 13: I count them as thousand, So you. 161 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: Say one thousand, two thousand, No. 162 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 5: One one thousand, two one thousand. 163 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 13: One thousand, two thousand, thank you my way. 164 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: We love the way that happens on this show. Okay, 165 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: you go, we'll we'll click the timer on to you. 166 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. All right. 167 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 13: One thousand, two thousand, three thousand, four thousand, five thousand, 168 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 13: six thousand, seven thousand, eight thousand, nine thousand, ten thousand, 169 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 13: eleven thousand and twelve thousand, thirteen thousand, fourteen thousand, fifteen thousand. 170 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 3: All right, stop there, Okay, I'm know when. 171 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: You're one, you're one point four to one off, which 172 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: is one point. 173 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 9: We've got too slowly, too far. 174 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: You're too There was a breath. There was a breath there. 175 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: You breathed, and you lost everything. As soon as you do, 176 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: I think it's out. Sam good, try thousand. Scrub it 177 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: from the lists, Alex, Alex, how do you do it? 178 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 10: Do it? 179 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 12: Mississippi one, Mississippi two. 180 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 5: We need at least one Mississippi in the game, Alex. 181 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 5: For everyone that watched Friends, Here we go, Alex Gregg, 182 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 5: can you start whenever you're ready? 183 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 7: One? 184 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 12: Mississippi two, Mississippi three, Mississippi four, Mississippi five, Mississippi six, 185 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 12: Mississippi seven, Mississippi eight, Mississippi nine, Mississippi ten Mississippi eleven, 186 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 12: Mississippi twelve, Mississippi thirteen, Mississippi fourteen, Mississippi fifteen, Mississippi. 187 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 5: Now I feel good about that. I feel very good 188 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 5: about that. Where, Alex, do you feel good about that? 189 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 5: I think all the Mississippi is in there? Car are 190 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 5: pretty pumped sort off? 191 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, I feel I think it was. 192 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 3: A good time. It was a good time. 193 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: Shit, you're off by point eight six, so you're really 194 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: you've definitely beaten the thousand and one. 195 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 4: But we're not quite there, and I will keep going 196 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 4: until we get it. 197 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: Let's go to Zach here, Alex, Zach, how do you 198 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: cant in your head? 199 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 15: Dog cats? I wrote about dog. 200 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: Cat dog before the cat, the dog catter. 201 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 8: I'm a dog by Zakie. 202 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 3: Let's get into it. Fifteen dog cats one. 203 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 15: Dog cat, two, dog cat, three, dog cat or dog 204 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 15: cat five, dog cat, six, dog cat, seven, dog cat, eight, 205 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:53,079 Speaker 15: dog cat, nine, dog cat, ten, dog cat, eleven, dog cat, twelve, 206 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 15: dog cat, thirteen, dog cat, fourteen, dog cat, fifteen dog cat. 207 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 4: You're way under far too quick too. You can hear that. 208 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 1: You can think you felt the pressure and you started 209 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,119 Speaker 1: speeding up. So dog and cats, no, God. 210 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 5: So still Mississippi's closest. But I feel like we're kind 211 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 5: of letting ourselves down here. Let's go to Lowena, who's 212 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 5: called that. I want to see, Lowena? How do you 213 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:12,839 Speaker 5: count your seconds? 214 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: I count my seconds just with a rhythm in my head, 215 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 2: so I don't use any roads in between the numbers. 216 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 3: But what's the rhythm for everyone else? 217 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 4: What's the rhythm? 218 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 2: So I'm a barista and I've had to learn to 219 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 2: count in seconds, but I just used a timer and 220 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 2: just followed the numbers for ages and ages. 221 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 3: So you're a bit of a rain man. Bit of 222 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 3: a rain man. 223 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 1: So, Lowena, what can we hear here? So there's no 224 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 1: verbalizing of what you can do, right. 225 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 2: Just counting? 226 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: Okay, well, you should be able to get bang on 227 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: fifteen seconds here, right? If we start a timer here, 228 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: you should be able to say stop exactly on fifteen okay, 229 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: all right, Well. 230 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 4: Let's do it. So three two one, go one. 231 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 2: Two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven, twelve, thirteen, fourteen, fifteen. 232 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: Wow, that is a remarkable wien up. 233 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 4: How hard you did it? 234 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 5: You were like exact exactly awesomely. 235 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: That just perfect? 236 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 14: Right? 237 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 5: Oh my god, that was great now a human class, 238 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 5: given that that game or a similar style of game 239 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 5: is not done on any other radio show. 240 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 3: That will be back next week at the same time. 241 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: Will Taylor Swift was performing recently and she revealed she 242 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: had a hiki. By the way, I'm so fine with that, 243 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: And the reason I want to talk about it is 244 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: because she was quite clearly. I've seen a bit of 245 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 1: footage from her gig in America, sorry, in Sweden. 246 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:12,199 Speaker 5: And she close she was quite clear. 247 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: She was quite clearly trying to hide the hickey with 248 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: her hair through the whole performance, of course, like you 249 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: could you tell like hair was covering hickey. 250 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 3: I think she's quite embarrassing. 251 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: So I want to touch on this Will because eventually 252 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: she swept her hair back, everyone saw the hickey. 253 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 4: Naturally, that goes viral online. 254 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: Okay, when you have a hickey, do you hide or 255 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: wear with pride? 256 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 5: I don't really let it get to that point like 257 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 5: you do, mean, well, I just like it for exactly 258 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 5: that reason. Like, at what point, and I suppose this 259 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 5: is a question for the audience as well, at what 260 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 5: point when someone is sucking on your neck do you, 261 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 5: like surely you're like, oh, this is going to leave 262 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 5: a mark tomorrow, and I don't want people to see this. 263 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 3: You know that there are other. 264 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 1: Ways in the throes of love making rational see I. 265 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 5: Thought that that's what your response would be, So my 266 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 5: rational brain definitely kicks in there. It was just for 267 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 5: a second, and I'm just like, hey, well, you know, 268 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 5: my frontal cortex is switched. Oh, maybe just bite me 269 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 5: somewhere else, you know, like do you know what I mean? 270 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 3: What's the point? 271 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: But that to one side, one time, you just let 272 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: your rational mind rest for a second. 273 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 3: You did get a love, would. 274 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: You come into work and be like, try to wear 275 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 1: a scarf or a neck. 276 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 3: Warm Probably you would try to. 277 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 10: Yeah. 278 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 4: That interesting. 279 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 5: So you let people hickey you willy nilly. 280 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 3: I don't. 281 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: I don't request a hickey. But if I did get 282 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: a hickey, I don't. I think I'm an age now 283 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 1: where I'm like, oh God, my partner and I made passionate. 284 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:39,719 Speaker 4: Love last night. 285 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 3: Let's go to Michelle. 286 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: Because Michelle, do you hide hickeys or do you wear 287 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: with pride? 288 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 10: No? I absolutely hit it. 289 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 6: I was mortified. 290 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 5: Was the most recent around Michelle. 291 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 10: A couple of months ago. 292 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 9: Went to work the next day and wore a heat 293 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 9: pat around my neck. 294 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: If you were claiming to have a neck injury to 295 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: it a partner? 296 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 3: Was it a partner infused? Hicky? 297 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 5: Random again? You know, call me a you know, call 298 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 5: me a wet blanket here blanket. 299 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 3: But I know I want to go back to Michelle. 300 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 5: But Michelle, surely when you're in the middle of it, 301 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 5: you're there, in the middle of biting you, you're like, I. 302 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 6: Don't want that, Like, look it did he crossed my mind. 303 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 9: But in the moments just yeah. 304 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: And I can't understand Michelle trying to hide it though, 305 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: because she's single, right, and then that people ask questions 306 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:35,839 Speaker 1: who was it? 307 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:36,599 Speaker 3: Who did it? 308 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:36,719 Speaker 10: Not? 309 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 3: You don't want to Mery? Can I ask one more? Michelle? 310 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 5: Is it enjoyable in the moment? I? 311 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 4: Yes, nipple twisted or whatever. Let's go to Zoey, Zoey. 312 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 3: It's like, let's on that road for you, Zoey, do 313 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 3: you rabbit? 314 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 4: Zoey? Got So? How old were you is? Are you? 315 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 14: Oh? It would have been about twenty five twenty six? 316 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 8: Yeah? 317 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:06,079 Speaker 4: Yeah. 318 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: So when you say where with pride were you actually 319 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: trying to like give attention to it where you're like 320 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 1: showing people. 321 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,719 Speaker 14: No, it was like literally on my neck because I 322 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 14: don't like wear anything that covers my neck. I drove 323 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 14: it home that afternoon and I went back home to 324 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 14: my parents and my mum had to go down to 325 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 14: the chemist and she looked at me and she went 326 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 14: and sat a hickey on your neck and I went no, 327 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 14: and then she was poking at it, and I'm like, yeah, 328 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 14: She's like, that's disgusting. 329 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 3: When was this? 330 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 6: Was this? 331 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 3: We were talking in nineteen eighty five, Hawky's in It 332 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 3: did sound like that. I went down and collected the 333 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 3: milk with mum that afternoon. 334 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: Ruby, Ruby, you've had a hickeys before? Do you hide 335 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: or wear with pride? 336 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 2: Definitely hide it, yeah, I think. 337 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 3: That's the way to go round. And then I just 338 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 3: don't understand. 339 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 5: Ruby would be the same as me, like if they're 340 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 5: going at it, You're like, look, mate, I don't want that. 341 00:14:58,000 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 2: It wasn't like a love making. 342 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 3: It's a bit of a nibble, whereas woods over here. 343 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 3: You just feel as. 344 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: If I'm just saying if in the throws it does occur, 345 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 1: and I don't think she even goes for it. 346 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 4: I think it's just something. 347 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 3: And then you wear and then you wear it with pride. 348 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 5: But I'm just saying, what if you had a heky, 349 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 5: you'd wear it with pride, is what you're saying. Yes, okay, 350 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 5: well all right, well that's the case, then I should 351 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 5: be able to give you a here next. 352 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 4: No, you're not my lover. 353 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 5: Well you put your money whe your mouth is. I'll 354 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 5: put my mouth with your where your neck is. No, 355 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 5: come on if you give that. 356 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: If you're that stubborn, you've asked to kiss me in 357 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 1: this studio, you know you as you wanted to kiss 358 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: me for a long what's going on here? 359 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 4: You want to give me? 360 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 3: You need to put your money. I think everybody. 361 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 5: Everybody here, If you're that adamant about the fact that 362 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 5: hickeys need to be out and proud, then I think 363 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 5: you should be able to wear it. 364 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 7: Now. 365 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 3: I don't have to do it. You can choose someone 366 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 3: else from the team if you like to pants. 367 00:15:54,720 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, get it there? Yes, idea? 368 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 3: What left so much? 369 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: Yes? 370 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 3: This is so much better. Just's elevated. You're a rat. 371 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 3: I'm not rat. 372 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 16: Now. 373 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 3: I didn't this came to me. This came to me 374 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 3: in the moment. 375 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 5: I had a conversation with you off off air and 376 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 5: I wanted this bit to happen, and you've twisted it 377 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 5: on me. 378 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 11: Well I shouldn't now look very racky. You're about to 379 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 11: engage in the ready behavior mat. You're about to have 380 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 11: a nibble on someone's neck. So let's are you ready 381 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 11: to go? 382 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 4: So I do poojo on my left. 383 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 5: I genuinely don't know if I know how to do this. 384 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 3: But have you giving it there? 385 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 4: And you've never delivered a hic? 386 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 6: No? 387 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: I think I have, but I don't quite remember if 388 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: there's a specific tech you to. 389 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 5: Stay through the teeth suck like you're trying to vac 390 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 5: clean you like no, suck like a vacuum cleaner. You've 391 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 5: got to get your teeth on there, and you've got 392 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 5: to suck through your teeth. You're having lucksa tonight, you'll 393 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 5: be doing a bit of teeth sucking. 394 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 4: So this is this is to take my top off. 395 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 5: No need to happen, No mate. For the person who 396 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 5: requests the raspberry before they go to bed tonight, there's 397 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 5: a little bit of podcorn the kettle black here. 398 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 3: Get in there, Get in there now. You gotta suck hard. 399 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 3: You gotta suck hard. 400 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 4: Yeah hard, you. 401 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: Gotta suck out, you do, because if you don't leave 402 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 1: a mark, you have to go again. 403 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 3: That's true. 404 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 4: I'm getting there, man, this is weird. 405 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 3: You've got a bit of a biting action. Go. 406 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was gentle in them, and then he came 407 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 1: to my mind. 408 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 5: It was very weird. You can say that in our 409 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 5: socials went. 410 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 4: So hard you pushed me away from my mind. 411 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 3: How did that feel? How do they feel for you? 412 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 3: How do you taste? How do you taste? I've tasted before. 413 00:17:54,960 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 3: There's not I have no of it tastes. 414 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 1: Like earthy, earthy notes. 415 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 8: Yes, clean, clean, thank you. 416 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 3: I'm going to stand over here. 417 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 10: But yeah, no, it's lovely. 418 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 3: Well, there's a nice experience in the I wouldn't say 419 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,640 Speaker 3: it was passionate way. It was very utilitarian. 420 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: I'd say you started utilitarian, but then by the end 421 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 1: I think that was a little bit of enjoyment. 422 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 6: For those. 423 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 3: She was really moody. That was wild. 424 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 5: I want to talk about the most pathetic thing, I think, 425 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 5: or the most pathetic situation a man can be in. 426 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 3: And I am I am. 427 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 5: Being gender specific here because I feel as if when 428 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 5: your partner leaves you as a man, you descend into 429 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 5: primal sort of area. 430 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 4: We clarify. 431 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 1: When you say your partner's left you, you mean she's gone 432 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 1: back to Europe to go and hang out with her family. 433 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,159 Speaker 1: She hasn't divorced you. That's fair, just because I want 434 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 1: to clarify. 435 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 5: That feels a bit like that feels a bit like 436 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 5: that too. My child and ran I had to say 437 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 5: goodbye to the other night. If you guys new to 438 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 5: the show, my partner is Sam is Dutch, and so 439 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:11,880 Speaker 5: she's gone back to see a family for a couple 440 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 5: of weeights. I'm going to join them very shortly. But yeah, 441 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:17,439 Speaker 5: they've left me alone. And she left me this present, 442 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 5: which was really nice. I got home after I dropped 443 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:22,399 Speaker 5: them at the airport. 444 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 3: It was late. It was late. 445 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 4: Stopped complaining. 446 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 3: It was late. It was late. 447 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 5: It was about ten o'clock at night. I mean, she 448 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,160 Speaker 5: had a twenty two hour flight with the two year old. 449 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:31,959 Speaker 5: But you know, let's just think about the real victim here. 450 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 5: If you could, you had to go to bed at eleven, 451 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 5: and how quickly you slip into victim as. 452 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 3: Well as it just comes like breathing for me. 453 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 5: Anyway, So I dropped to the airport, got home and 454 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 5: she left a little present for me, and the present 455 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 5: was that she'd removed all of the covers from the 456 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 5: couch cushions to be dry cleaned on the day that 457 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 5: she left. 458 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: And that was a present because that was a job 459 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: you didn't have to do make sarcastic at present, being sarcastic. 460 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 5: So I got home and the couch was was vacant, because. 461 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 1: All you want to do when you get home is 462 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,679 Speaker 1: if the first the girls are out, so I'm going 463 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: to have TV Selection, I get to hit the couch. 464 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: You couldn't even hit the count. 465 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 5: The next thing that she did as well, she cleared 466 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 5: the fridge, obviously because she was like there's you know, 467 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 5: lots of food that was going off, et cetera. 468 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:21,119 Speaker 3: I'd neat and yet hadn't eaten. So I got home. 469 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 5: I mean, it really does have to show a mirror 470 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 5: ap to how dependent you are. 471 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: You can go to the supermarket, you know it's close. 472 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 3: I got home late. You're trying I said that enough. 473 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, but Coles and Woolworths a 474 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: pretty much opened twenty five go on home. 475 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 3: I wasn't going to beyond the Woolworths Metro, which is 476 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 3: in two. 477 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 5: Anyway, I got home late. I'm not sure if I 478 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 5: said that enough. The couch covers are gone. So I 479 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 5: found myself the only the only thing that was available, 480 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 5: The only thing that was on TV was the IPL, 481 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 5: the Indian Premier League. 482 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 1: The cricket and you're on the ground watching this. 483 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 7: I was. 484 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 5: And the only food that was available was that my 485 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 5: child's packet food in the pantry. 486 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 3: Apathetic. 487 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 5: So I was sitting on a carcass of a couch 488 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 5: eating a cabbage patch banana and coconut cheese packet pudding, 489 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,199 Speaker 5: watching the Chennai super Kings play the Mumbai Rats. 490 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 3: And it was, it was, it was, it was, And. 491 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 5: I had a moment there and I actually I called 492 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 5: the dog over to me for a bit of comfort 493 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 5: because she left me with. 494 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 3: The dog as well. 495 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 4: That's nice of it. 496 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 5: I mean, what a curse she left me with the dogs. 497 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 5: I've got to look after the dog. And I called 498 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 5: the dog over to the couch and the dog, the 499 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 5: dog looked up from his bed and was like that 500 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,919 Speaker 5: looks after the shit out nothing. So not even the 501 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 5: dog would sit with me in my position. I prefer 502 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 5: my dog for I thought to myself, I thought, I 503 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 5: I can't be the only person who's had their partner 504 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 5: leave and just found themselves in an overwhelmingly pathetic spot 505 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 5: because you realize how dependent you are. You realize that 506 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 5: you don't have any saying what's in the fridge. You 507 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 5: don't know when the supermarkets are open. I didn't even know. 508 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,639 Speaker 5: I didn't even know where the cushions were. Like there 509 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,679 Speaker 5: were these like cushions that had were meant to have 510 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 5: covers on them, just the stuffings that would have sufficed, 511 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 5: But I didn't know where the cushion cupboard was. 512 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: Didn't your brother famously when you're when your brother was 513 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 1: home alone when your parents went away, saying, didn't he 514 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 1: famously say I'm good for meals. 515 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 4: I'm good for meals. 516 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 1: I'll just have leftovers as like mate, the idea of 517 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: leftovers is that there was a meal the night before. George, 518 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: leftovers don't appear in the fridge in the day after 519 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 1: so exactly. 520 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 5: And then I used to mock him for that, But 521 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 5: look now, now all I can do is empathize, and 522 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 5: I want to hear from from other people. 523 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 3: Thirty one to six five, What is the. 524 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,239 Speaker 5: Most pathetic thing you've done well? 525 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 3: First? Pathetic situation you've. 526 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 5: Found yourself in when your partner left you at home alone. 527 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 1: You said to me before the show, will that you 528 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,400 Speaker 1: think you can survive until you join them in Europe 529 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: with the amount of clothes you've got, So you don't 530 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: have to do any washing because you can't figure out 531 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 1: your washing machine. 532 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 5: Rationing jocks, you're you're wearing among jock rations, You're you're 533 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 5: wearing inside and outside. Get double uses. I don't know 534 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 5: how to use the washing machine. I've been banned from 535 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 5: using the washing machine for two years. One button, it's woods, Jared, 536 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 5: is when your mum went away. 537 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 6: Yeah. 538 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 7: Right, So my mom's gone away to America and she 539 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 7: always reminded me, make sure you eat, make sure you're cooking, 540 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 7: make sure go to the shop. So I'm like, I 541 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 7: got this. It's okay, I've got this, just go. So 542 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 7: I'm at home, it's only a couple of days ago, 543 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 7: and I'm like, okay. So I've ate all the left 544 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 7: over and there's a little packet of you know that 545 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 7: round pasta that has like spinach and like meat in it. 546 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 7: It's like a round Still, I think it's yeah, let 547 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 7: me eat this. And I'm like, wait, how do I 548 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 7: actually cook this, and I'm like, okay, I just put 549 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 7: it on a boil. I flew up a pan completely 550 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 7: pretty much to the brim, and then put it in 551 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 7: a look at it. 552 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 10: To the boil. 553 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, and then I'm cooking it. I don't know how 554 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 7: long to cook it for. It's overspilling and puts out 555 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 7: the flame. So now i have water all over the 556 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 7: stove and I'm like, okay, all right, I'll recook it. 557 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 7: So now I have soggy pasta cooking, and I'm like, crap, okay, 558 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,159 Speaker 7: I also need the sauce. So I put the sauce 559 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 7: on a pan and then start cooking that. I've now 560 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 7: burnt the sauce and I read the package. Turns out 561 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 7: I only needed to microwave for thirty seconds, so I've 562 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 7: got burnt sauce. I'm sitting upstairs home alone, eating sony 563 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 7: pasta with burnt sauce. It was it was, yeah, it wasn't. 564 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 5: That goin with an extinguished stove. Janed, You're the first 565 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 5: person I'd take to go and live on a deserted island, mate, 566 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 5: And he called mini pasta Dublin, which I really really 567 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 5: enjoyed that he caught a potter pan. 568 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:44,120 Speaker 3: He didn't even know the diff. 569 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:50,159 Speaker 1: Left alone, Tony. Now you're dubbing your husband here when 570 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 1: you left him alone? 571 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:51,439 Speaker 4: What happened? 572 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,439 Speaker 8: Absolutely? I am well, I often go away for work 573 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,160 Speaker 8: and he just is absolutely useless with our bees, especially 574 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 8: in his dinner. So he's got this habit of face 575 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:07,880 Speaker 8: timing me whilst he's cooking something like steak and asking 576 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 8: me if he should flip it yet. 577 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 5: Oh that's good, that's what are you reacking? Angelina is 578 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 5: called Hello, Hi Angelina, follow Angelina. We're talking about pathetic things, 579 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 5: pathetic things people have done when they have been left 580 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 5: home alone. What have you got? 581 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 13: So? 582 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 10: Last year, my moment to Europe without me, and I 583 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 10: was doing my HC and she told me to keep 584 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 10: the dogs apart, but I naturally just had study to do. 585 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 10: So they had babies together a month after we found 586 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 10: out Hello, and my mom was like yelling at me. 587 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 10: So then I had but they were only pregnant for 588 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 10: like sixty eight days and then. 589 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, they had to pop in. 590 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 1: Your mom came home, She left with two dogs and 591 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:06,679 Speaker 1: came home to fourteen dogs. 592 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 3: Yep, Wards here at willhim. 593 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 5: We honestly, we're passionate about mental health, and we're passionate 594 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 5: about the fact that sharing how you're going, sharing your 595 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 5: mood is really, I think the most important life skill 596 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 5: you can have because it is so clearly linked with 597 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,639 Speaker 5: how happy you are. Getting in touch with how you 598 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 5: are it's such a hard thing to do sometimes as well. 599 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 5: So in this podcast, she my Mood, We've got these 600 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 5: amazing guests on talking about exactly how they do that, 601 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,640 Speaker 5: so that you guys can do this better and live 602 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 5: happier lives. That's what it's all about. This week, we've 603 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 5: got Laura Henshaw on the podcast. 604 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's one half of Kick with Steph Claire Smith, 605 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: model influencer and truly just a very very inspiring person. 606 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 1: So if you've just joined us, we stopped the audio 607 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: of the part where she's talking about the fact that 608 00:26:55,880 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 1: her and Steph have never publicly spoken about a particular incident, 609 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,159 Speaker 1: and you're about to hear what that is. 610 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 16: We're away for a couple of nights and it was 611 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 16: the second night and they actually stayed in the room 612 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 16: the whole time. Okay, Yeah, And what I found that 613 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 16: Seph and I and this is something we are always 614 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,679 Speaker 16: working through and recently we've worked through it a lot 615 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,400 Speaker 16: more and it's made such an impact of our relationship 616 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 16: in a positive way. But what we do and I 617 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,399 Speaker 16: was I was going to ask if you both do 618 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 16: this as well. But because we love and respect each 619 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 16: other so much, we protect we share ninety five percent 620 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 16: of everything in our lives. But then we don't share 621 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 16: or we weren't sharing the five percent because and maybe 622 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,439 Speaker 16: that was the thing about being open about what we 623 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 16: actually really want or how we're really feeling, because we 624 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 16: didn't want to hurt the other person and we knew that, 625 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 16: like because we are so open with each other, like 626 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 16: Seth might have known that I was going through something 627 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 16: really hard or vice versa. So then either of us 628 00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 16: didn't feel comfortable then being like, well, hey, I'm actually 629 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 16: really struggling with this, knowing that that might put more 630 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 16: load on the other person and might put more responsibility 631 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 16: on the other person. It might change, you know, it 632 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 16: could change things. That was and so that was kind 633 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 16: of what dot Doosh has a combination Doosh said to us. 634 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 16: They said, like, we know, it's because you care about 635 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 16: each other so much, and so they said, like, you 636 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 16: just need to be open with each other. And it 637 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 16: was actually a really uncomfortable conversation. We speak about it 638 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 16: every now and then in terms of where we've actually 639 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 16: just more recently had another really open, fantastic conversation. We 640 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 16: actually worked with a coach on that conversation, which was 641 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 16: it was really helpful because I think when there is 642 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 16: two of you having you don't have anyone who's objective 643 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 16: because you're in it all the time, you can also 644 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 16: get like especially because we just try to protect each 645 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 16: other so much, it ends up. But what actually in 646 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 16: our most recent conversation, we both said, and you have 647 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 16: to create a very safe space to have conversations where 648 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 16: you are being not faux vulnerable, really actually vulnerable, where 649 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 16: you know you go into and we set an intention 650 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 16: actually going to the conversation saying that we both want 651 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 16: in this conversation out of this. We both want to 652 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 16: create this really safe space and we know that it's 653 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 16: safe and that we're not going to nothing we say 654 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 16: is going to end our friendship or relationship, like we 655 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 16: want to work through it. 656 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 1: Right finnally enough by continuing to hold off, which is 657 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 1: what we're doing. We're keeping the boat afloat. But a 658 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,320 Speaker 1: leak has sprung. Yes, there is a small leak, which 659 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: is it's unnoticeable kind of day to day, but over 660 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 1: time this will sink the boat. 661 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 5: To get the whole Share my Mood chat with Laura Henshaw, 662 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 5: just head over to Share my Mood wherever you get 663 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 5: your podcasts. You can see all those other conversations there, 664 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 5: Will Anderson, Kate Langbrook, Kyle and Jack Polling, you ow, 665 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 5: and now Laura Henshaw joins the Share my Mood podcast. 666 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 5: They're wonderful conversations. We're loving them. I really hope you're 667 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 5: getting something out of them as well, because it's really 668 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 5: important stuff. This all of this big shout out to 669 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 5: Laura as well for giving us so much chat. It 670 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 5: was such a good conversation. She's a brilliant, brilliant person.