WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The MOST complained-about thing in couples couselling 0:00:10.379 --> 0:00:14.219 Hi Heart Podcasts, hear more Kiss podcast playlist and listen 0:00:14.259 --> 0:00:16.099 live on the Free iHeart app. 0:00:18.299 --> 0:00:21.099 A pickup with Britt. 0:00:20.819 --> 0:00:22.979 Hockley and Laura Bed Brady. 0:00:23.099 --> 0:00:26.578 Your what our windows? That's my world? 0:00:26.619 --> 0:00:29.579 Risen the dust only good fab dog all down. 0:00:30.619 --> 0:00:34.659 I've don't much, but yeah I know I'll big get 0:00:34.659 --> 0:00:35.619 and what I want. 0:00:35.899 --> 0:00:37.019 It don't matter where. 0:00:37.659 --> 0:00:38.339 This is the. 0:00:38.339 --> 0:00:40.858 Pick up, Hi, guys, Happy Friday. 0:00:40.859 --> 0:00:42.739 It's the pick up with Britt Hockley and Laura Bird 0:00:42.859 --> 0:00:43.859 Happy Friday. 0:00:43.979 --> 0:00:45.339 We'll talk us to what you're wearing today? 0:00:45.419 --> 0:00:48.098 Lawis I knew you were going to so could I not? 0:00:48.219 --> 0:00:49.979 This is this has been going on for a while. 0:00:50.099 --> 0:00:53.379 Nothing fits me anymore, guys, nothing, I'm going. 0:00:53.379 --> 0:00:55.539 To fix me calling bears right now. 0:00:55.859 --> 0:00:58.179 This has been going on long before you're pregnant. 0:00:58.299 --> 0:01:00.699 No, no, it hasn't. I've only pulled these pants out. 0:01:00.739 --> 0:01:02.179 These were in my old pregnancy box. 0:01:02.179 --> 0:01:03.099 That must be your other pants. 0:01:03.099 --> 0:01:04.859 I've pulled the mare once. 0:01:04.699 --> 0:01:06.699 I realized I was pregnant, so I knew i'd get 0:01:06.699 --> 0:01:08.619 some were out of them. The problem is is like 0:01:08.658 --> 0:01:10.378 these are a big floaty what. 0:01:10.339 --> 0:01:12.019 Do you call them? Palazzo pans? 0:01:12.059 --> 0:01:14.978 I do know they're just like a very wispy material. 0:01:15.259 --> 0:01:16.979 If I was standing up, you'd probably think that they 0:01:16.979 --> 0:01:18.938 are a big Maxi skirt, but they're actually pants. The 0:01:18.979 --> 0:01:21.819 problem is is that they have the most enormous hole 0:01:21.899 --> 0:01:23.938 in the crutch and I can just get away with 0:01:23.979 --> 0:01:26.298 it because they're floaty, except if I lift my leg 0:01:26.339 --> 0:01:28.658 and then it's all out for show. I could give 0:01:28.658 --> 0:01:30.258 birth right now, would be so easy. 0:01:30.339 --> 0:01:31.018 I do want to say. 0:01:31.059 --> 0:01:33.938 We sit opposite each other directly, and Laura has. 0:01:33.859 --> 0:01:35.938 A tendency to sit with one knee up, and. 0:01:36.219 --> 0:01:39.018 I did cop an eye ball this morning, you poor thing, 0:01:39.059 --> 0:01:40.219 because things are not good. 0:01:40.059 --> 0:01:43.338 Down there anymore. I can still see. It's not great. 0:01:43.378 --> 0:01:45.339 It's not what it used to be. It's probably gonna 0:01:45.339 --> 0:01:46.379 be worse after the third kid. 0:01:46.619 --> 0:01:49.419 Well, I have an idea, though, we could sew the 0:01:49.459 --> 0:01:49.979 whole up. 0:01:50.859 --> 0:01:51.139 Shock. 0:01:52.219 --> 0:01:53.699 Well that's what I'm going to get done after this 0:01:53.699 --> 0:01:54.299 this birth. 0:01:54.259 --> 0:01:59.619 Which hang on, Well, Laura, don't overthink it. Quick fire answer. 0:02:00.259 --> 0:02:01.979 What do you think the main reason. 0:02:01.739 --> 0:02:03.459 Is that people break up in relationships? 0:02:03.859 --> 0:02:05.698 It's cheating? Okay, cheating? 0:02:06.059 --> 0:02:10.099 Well, interestingly, I was just reading an article about the 0:02:10.179 --> 0:02:12.499 fact that whilst cheating is like a huge reason for 0:02:12.539 --> 0:02:14.899 break up, usually it's I know this because I've done 0:02:14.899 --> 0:02:15.459 my research. 0:02:15.539 --> 0:02:18.138 Cheating is number one and financial problems is number two. 0:02:18.299 --> 0:02:21.179 Yes, for breakups, but let's go back a step, so 0:02:21.258 --> 0:02:24.579 before we've broken up. Okay, the number one reason that 0:02:24.659 --> 0:02:27.978 relationship counselors and relationship therapists have said that couples come 0:02:28.019 --> 0:02:31.179 to them for has to do with phones and how 0:02:31.258 --> 0:02:34.219 much phones are like taking over couples relationships and lives. 0:02:34.379 --> 0:02:36.099 I know why I have this figured out now, Brick, 0:02:36.179 --> 0:02:38.178 Because the person who's cheating is spending all their time 0:02:38.219 --> 0:02:40.299 on the phone talking to the person that they're cheating with. 0:02:40.499 --> 0:02:42.379 What then the woman finds. 0:02:42.059 --> 0:02:43.859 Out and then she leaves, And that's what happens. 0:02:43.899 --> 0:02:44.579 That's the story. 0:02:44.739 --> 0:02:47.819 Yes, that is also true, but not even just cheating. 0:02:47.859 --> 0:02:51.379 For couples that aren't cheating and are monogamous, phones are 0:02:51.379 --> 0:02:53.779 causing a real issue because we're getting to this point 0:02:53.779 --> 0:02:56.939 where we're sort of not giving enough attention to our partners, 0:02:57.019 --> 0:02:57.979 or we're not giving them. 0:02:58.339 --> 0:03:00.499 Sometimes we're giving them half of our attention. We're having 0:03:00.499 --> 0:03:01.459 a conversation, but we. 0:03:01.418 --> 0:03:04.099 Automatically pick up our phone and aimlessly scroll. We go 0:03:04.179 --> 0:03:06.099 to bed, we roll over and instead of having a 0:03:06.138 --> 0:03:09.179 conversation or a snuggly time we pick up our phone. 0:03:09.538 --> 0:03:11.619 This is an issue that people are reporting saying that 0:03:11.619 --> 0:03:14.379 they're feeling like their phone's becoming more important than them 0:03:14.379 --> 0:03:15.298 in their relationship. 0:03:15.339 --> 0:03:17.939 To be fair, my husband and I can be pretty 0:03:17.978 --> 0:03:21.939 bad on our phones at times, but I'm not gonna lie. 0:03:22.019 --> 0:03:24.458 I like a little scroll. I like a little rabbit 0:03:24.459 --> 0:03:26.659 hole of looking at you know, is this cake or 0:03:26.739 --> 0:03:27.499 is it the real thing? 0:03:27.579 --> 0:03:29.659 Like sometimes I just got a TV show. Isn't it 0:03:29.698 --> 0:03:30.939 no cake or not? What is it? 0:03:31.099 --> 0:03:31.339 Yeah? 0:03:31.418 --> 0:03:33.339 Yeah, but like there's loads of them on on so Okay, 0:03:33.379 --> 0:03:34.859 I know because I've gone down that rod hole. 0:03:34.979 --> 0:03:36.339 I want to look at baby goats. 0:03:36.379 --> 0:03:38.379 Like sometimes I just don't want to talk to anyone, 0:03:38.539 --> 0:03:41.219 my kids, my husband, no one. I just want to 0:03:41.219 --> 0:03:43.179 sit on the couch and look at my phone. 0:03:43.459 --> 0:03:44.859 Yeah, but I think it's one of those things that 0:03:44.939 --> 0:03:47.579 maybe you need to ask yourself right now, is is 0:03:47.619 --> 0:03:48.299 this a problem. 0:03:48.139 --> 0:03:48.939 In your relationship? 0:03:49.219 --> 0:03:51.299 Do you think you can do better or be better 0:03:51.379 --> 0:03:53.619 or do you have to set it aside maybe an 0:03:53.699 --> 0:03:57.459 hour in your relationship that where you say, hey, from 0:03:57.499 --> 0:04:00.139 seven to eight, there's no phone time. We're gonna eat 0:04:00.179 --> 0:04:03.499 our dinner, We're gonna communicate because so many people can't 0:04:03.499 --> 0:04:06.259 even leave one room into another in their own house 0:04:06.299 --> 0:04:07.219 without taking their phone. 0:04:07.299 --> 0:04:09.099 Or they go to that dinner tea, will they take 0:04:09.139 --> 0:04:09.699 their phone. 0:04:09.779 --> 0:04:11.779 He does take his phone every time he goes to 0:04:11.779 --> 0:04:14.059 the toilet, and then spends a long time in there. 0:04:14.179 --> 0:04:16.019 Yeah, because he's pretending to poop, So. 0:04:16.099 --> 0:04:19.539 No, he stays, Yeah, but he stays in there for 0:04:19.539 --> 0:04:20.659 a good thirty five minutes. 0:04:20.779 --> 0:04:21.699 Every man does that. 0:04:21.979 --> 0:04:24.979 I understand that everyone has different issues in their relationships, 0:04:25.019 --> 0:04:27.099 and a lot of people have different like how obsessed 0:04:27.139 --> 0:04:29.379 they are with their phones. I think when it becomes 0:04:29.419 --> 0:04:31.739 a problem is when you're talking to someone, you have 0:04:31.819 --> 0:04:34.499 their attention for all of about thirty seconds, and then 0:04:34.579 --> 0:04:36.979 they don't even realize they're doing it, right, And I 0:04:37.019 --> 0:04:39.259 have friends that all like this. They don't even clock it. 0:04:39.539 --> 0:04:41.979 They're picking up their phone and they're scrolling. They're not 0:04:42.059 --> 0:04:45.499 doing anything that's important. It's just become habit that they 0:04:45.539 --> 0:04:48.059 always kind of refer to looking at it. That's when 0:04:48.099 --> 0:04:50.099 I think it's really upsetting. And I would say that 0:04:50.139 --> 0:04:53.139 there's probably been times where Matt and I have both 0:04:53.179 --> 0:04:55.179 done that to each other, but we're way more conscious 0:04:55.219 --> 0:04:57.459 of that now because we know it's something that once 0:04:57.499 --> 0:04:58.979 you get into the habit of it, you can be 0:04:59.019 --> 0:05:00.579 so guilty of doing it to your partner. 0:05:00.739 --> 0:05:03.179 Yeah. Also, you're pregnant, you've had your snugly time this 0:05:03.259 --> 0:05:06.659 year that you've done you you'd wait on nine months now. 0:05:06.819 --> 0:05:09.459 We did that once at Christmas. Never, God damn it. 0:05:09.779 --> 0:05:11.459 Look at the problem that got us into No. I 0:05:12.379 --> 0:05:14.699 think maybe on one step worse. Actually, sometimes I tell 0:05:14.699 --> 0:05:17.459 my husband, I say, Honey, I'm going to bed now, 0:05:17.619 --> 0:05:18.739 and I am going to bed. 0:05:18.979 --> 0:05:21.219 It's not true, but I'm not going to sleep. 0:05:21.499 --> 0:05:23.339 I'm going upstairs and I turn all the lights off, 0:05:23.379 --> 0:05:24.499 and I get in bed and I put my warm 0:05:24.579 --> 0:05:26.659 doner on. It's so nice and cozy, and then I 0:05:26.739 --> 0:05:28.499 lay there in the dark and I just look at 0:05:28.539 --> 0:05:30.819 all the things scroll and I feel like for me, 0:05:31.019 --> 0:05:32.539 and I know that it's not meant to be good 0:05:32.539 --> 0:05:33.779 for you going to sleep and all that. 0:05:33.779 --> 0:05:36.419 There's loads of research, but I do feel like for me. 0:05:36.459 --> 0:05:39.459 It's just twenty minutes that I need to switch off 0:05:39.819 --> 0:05:43.579 from all of the crap that's happened in the day. 0:05:43.779 --> 0:05:47.939 Now, britt, I feel like being a parent it's hard. 0:05:47.939 --> 0:05:50.779 Sometimes it's really hard, actually, And that's it from us today. 0:05:50.979 --> 0:05:53.939 That's where the show we have discovered it is indeed hot. 0:05:54.019 --> 0:05:56.739 I feel like it comes part and parcel that sometimes 0:05:56.819 --> 0:05:58.819 your kids are going to do stuff that embarrasses you. 0:05:58.899 --> 0:05:59.939 Oh yeah, and you just. 0:05:59.899 --> 0:06:01.659 Got to take it on the chin like a champion 0:06:01.739 --> 0:06:02.859 because they don't really know. 0:06:03.219 --> 0:06:04.179 I don't think they do. 0:06:04.499 --> 0:06:06.939 Sometimes maybe it's malicious, but other times I think it's 0:06:06.979 --> 0:06:09.579 really innocent and they just don't know that what they've 0:06:09.579 --> 0:06:11.979 said or what they've done is kind of not appropriate. 0:06:12.059 --> 0:06:12.779 Yeah, adults dance. 0:06:12.899 --> 0:06:15.459 It's like when you see those videos go around where 0:06:15.499 --> 0:06:17.579 like the little kid goes to school and tells everyone 0:06:17.579 --> 0:06:19.339 that they heard mommy and daddy. 0:06:19.059 --> 0:06:20.699 Screaming in the room in the night, like you know, 0:06:20.739 --> 0:06:21.259 when they get. 0:06:21.219 --> 0:06:23.219 We were playing gorillas, Yeah, we're playing wrestling. 0:06:23.419 --> 0:06:25.899 Yeah yeah. Look, I mean we've all got our own 0:06:25.979 --> 0:06:28.259 version of that with our own kids. But I went 0:06:28.299 --> 0:06:30.899 in to pick up Molly May. She's five, she's in kindergarten. 0:06:31.139 --> 0:06:33.299 I went in to pick her up from school the 0:06:33.339 --> 0:06:35.339 other day and she goes to after school care. So 0:06:35.699 --> 0:06:38.539 I walked into after school care and there's all these lovely, 0:06:38.619 --> 0:06:41.939 really young, beautiful young girls who like work in the 0:06:41.979 --> 0:06:45.339 after school care center. Right got it and they're gorgeous 0:06:45.419 --> 0:06:47.179 and they take such good care of the kids. 0:06:47.459 --> 0:06:47.859 Walk in. 0:06:47.899 --> 0:06:50.219 Then the girl who's like the main director, she just 0:06:50.259 --> 0:06:53.299 starts kickling and I was like, oh, nice to see 0:06:53.339 --> 0:06:56.459 you too, darling, and she goes, I've got something for you. 0:06:56.539 --> 0:06:57.499 She's like, Marley's been. 0:06:57.459 --> 0:07:00.699 Drawing some pictures, cute, and let me tell you, like, 0:07:00.779 --> 0:07:03.699 my kids draw a thousand pictures. We have draws and 0:07:03.779 --> 0:07:06.059 draws and draws full of drawings that we keep and 0:07:06.179 --> 0:07:08.019 keep them all. Well, no, I don't keep them all, 0:07:08.139 --> 0:07:10.179 only the key the good ones. We've had to start culling, 0:07:10.219 --> 0:07:12.019 like the manet. Yeah, I'll tell her. I'll say that 0:07:12.019 --> 0:07:13.499 one's not good enough to keep. And she was like, 0:07:13.579 --> 0:07:15.259 I wanted to put this aside for you. She's like, 0:07:15.259 --> 0:07:17.299 because I think you'd really like to keep this one. 0:07:18.459 --> 0:07:22.299 And I walk in and I get this picture and 0:07:22.339 --> 0:07:24.339 I just want to show you what it's of, Britt, 0:07:24.419 --> 0:07:27.739 because I think she's captured me in my raw and 0:07:27.859 --> 0:07:28.979 beautiful essence. 0:07:32.579 --> 0:07:33.579 We can say it's raw. 0:07:33.979 --> 0:07:37.819 So marleis she's started to revert to drawing me pregnant 0:07:37.819 --> 0:07:40.259 now because she's really excited. 0:07:39.779 --> 0:07:40.899 About being a big sister. 0:07:41.459 --> 0:07:46.179 She's so thrilled she got, so she drew a picture 0:07:46.219 --> 0:07:48.379 of me and my pregnant belly, and she drew the 0:07:48.419 --> 0:07:51.019 baby inside the belly. It's kind of like a cross 0:07:51.059 --> 0:07:53.019 between an X ray because you can see inside me, 0:07:53.299 --> 0:07:56.099 but you can also see ay and pawn. 0:07:57.619 --> 0:07:58.219 Well an X. 0:07:58.219 --> 0:08:00.219 Ray and just a really graphic detail photo. You can 0:08:00.259 --> 0:08:03.099 see inside me, but you can also see the outside 0:08:03.139 --> 0:08:06.219 of me, and I'm completely naked. She has drawn boobs 0:08:06.259 --> 0:08:07.779 with nipples, very big nipples. 0:08:07.779 --> 0:08:10.219 We all understand why. And she's also drawn me with 0:08:10.259 --> 0:08:11.139 a fool bush. 0:08:11.339 --> 0:08:14.139 Okay, So then what happened is she drew this and 0:08:14.179 --> 0:08:15.659 some of her friends were confused. 0:08:15.659 --> 0:08:18.339 They were like, what's going on here, Bummy's lazy. So 0:08:18.419 --> 0:08:18.859 then it. 0:08:18.779 --> 0:08:22.179 Turns out that my daughter had a full on debrief 0:08:22.259 --> 0:08:25.059 with all her friends about whether their parents or their 0:08:25.139 --> 0:08:28.219 mummies do or don't have hair on their downstairs. 0:08:28.299 --> 0:08:29.419 So funny. 0:08:29.659 --> 0:08:32.299 So when I picked Marley up, did anyone else kids 0:08:32.338 --> 0:08:34.659 draw nudes? No one else drew a nude, but I 0:08:34.739 --> 0:08:37.779 know what every other mum's downstairs looks like. So three 0:08:37.899 --> 0:08:40.379 kids came up to me and they were like, Marley 0:08:40.499 --> 0:08:43.099 told us that you've got hair down there. My mummy doesn't. 0:08:43.419 --> 0:08:44.939 My mummy doesn't have any hair. 0:08:45.099 --> 0:08:47.139 You need to put that neut WhatsApp group chat, the 0:08:47.179 --> 0:08:50.099 school group chat are so funny, be like, hey it 0:08:50.219 --> 0:08:52.099 is what's everyone doing downstairs? 0:08:52.179 --> 0:08:53.299 Just like throw it in there. 0:08:53.459 --> 0:08:56.019 I was like, surely, hey, Sharon. 0:08:55.739 --> 0:08:56.659 What lazy you go to? 0:08:57.059 --> 0:08:58.458 So I don't know what to do with this picture? 0:08:58.459 --> 0:08:58.579 Now? 0:08:58.619 --> 0:09:00.059 Do I put it on the fridge. It's really a 0:09:00.059 --> 0:09:01.259 beautiful one for. 0:09:01.339 --> 0:09:02.458 Me to take it. 0:09:02.939 --> 0:09:06.219 I reckon, there somewhere a bit lazier, right, it's quite 0:09:06.259 --> 0:09:07.099 hot when you're pregnant. 0:09:07.139 --> 0:09:09.619 Don't want to reach down there, got it? 0:09:09.619 --> 0:09:11.819 Anyway, if there's a bit of like hyperbole here or 0:09:11.899 --> 0:09:13.819 I don't know what's going on, but that's yeah, you 0:09:13.859 --> 0:09:14.859 need to get that tended to. 0:09:14.979 --> 0:09:16.939 I reckon. I could get my gardener to come over. 0:09:17.179 --> 0:09:19.699 Go get a wik whack out anyway, what like a 0:09:19.739 --> 0:09:22.458 whipper sniffert not a wik whack house, Like a wait, 0:09:22.619 --> 0:09:26.419 what we're talking about the same thing anyway. Look, being 0:09:26.419 --> 0:09:28.899 a mum is full of joy and so many special moments. 0:09:28.979 --> 0:09:29.699 All right, Well, you. 0:09:29.659 --> 0:09:31.458 Could probably head into chemists ware house, maybe get some 0:09:31.459 --> 0:09:32.379 wax strips or something. 0:09:33.779 --> 0:09:36.179 Now it is time, speaking of chemist warehouse for our 0:09:36.219 --> 0:09:38.379 little wins of the week where we have a five 0:09:38.419 --> 0:09:40.338 hundred dollars to spend at Chemists ware House to give 0:09:40.379 --> 0:09:44.499 away to somebody who has had a notable little win. 0:09:44.619 --> 0:09:45.779 Now, we don't want the big stuff. 0:09:45.779 --> 0:09:47.419 We don't want like, can't just be a little win 0:09:47.699 --> 0:09:50.419 notable little but not too big, not too much. 0:09:50.339 --> 0:09:50.699 Just right. 0:09:50.819 --> 0:09:52.578 Yeah, I just want to give the description out. They're 0:09:52.579 --> 0:09:54.779 real good, like I mean, I don't want like a graduation. 0:09:54.899 --> 0:09:57.099 I don't want an engagement. I don't proposals. 0:09:57.139 --> 0:09:58.099 Having said that, if you. 0:09:58.019 --> 0:10:00.379 Have graduated, congratulations, well it would be a bit weird 0:10:00.379 --> 0:10:01.219 mid year graduation. 0:10:01.299 --> 0:10:02.259 Does that happen? I don't know. 0:10:02.339 --> 0:10:04.619 Congrats if it did well done. But also like you 0:10:04.659 --> 0:10:07.059 get enough congratulations for that stuff. This is the things 0:10:07.059 --> 0:10:10.259 that normally go unnoticed. We are here to celebrate, and 0:10:10.299 --> 0:10:12.099 we have three calls on the line. One of them 0:10:12.139 --> 0:10:14.419 is going to win the five hundred dollars to spend. Jamie, 0:10:14.419 --> 0:10:15.579 what's your little win of the week? 0:10:16.339 --> 0:10:19.379 Him, My little win of the week was when I 0:10:19.459 --> 0:10:22.819 gathered all the courage to ask the guy out. Ah, 0:10:22.939 --> 0:10:24.979 that's exciting that did he hang on? 0:10:24.979 --> 0:10:25.899 Do you say yes? 0:10:26.499 --> 0:10:26.659 No? 0:10:26.779 --> 0:10:28.419 I didn't know he was dating someone else. 0:10:28.859 --> 0:10:30.819 Oh that's okay. 0:10:31.219 --> 0:10:33.539 Not the ending we wanted, but we love the fact 0:10:33.539 --> 0:10:34.859 that you had the guts to do that. 0:10:34.939 --> 0:10:36.139 So that's it. That's a good win. 0:10:36.259 --> 0:10:38.338 Sometimes it's like when you put yourself outside your comfort 0:10:38.379 --> 0:10:40.219 zone that little bit you do that thing that's scary, 0:10:40.219 --> 0:10:41.499 and then the next time it's not going to. 0:10:41.419 --> 0:10:46.499 Be that scary. Yeah, exactly, all right, Jamie, stay right there, Mikayla. 0:10:46.699 --> 0:10:49.139 What is your little win of the week. So my 0:10:49.179 --> 0:10:52.579 little win is, after eight weeks, my very timid and 0:10:52.619 --> 0:10:55.139 scared for SI kitten actually killed up with me and 0:10:55.259 --> 0:10:56.099 let me pat. 0:10:55.899 --> 0:10:56.579 Him this week. 0:10:56.939 --> 0:10:58.619 Oh that's really cute. 0:10:58.659 --> 0:11:00.739 That's just as cute as the other one, asking the 0:11:00.739 --> 0:11:01.699 guy out and him saying no. 0:11:02.539 --> 0:11:03.779 At least it's a happy ending. 0:11:03.779 --> 0:11:06.819 The other one not quite so much, very happy ending. 0:11:06.979 --> 0:11:09.419 All right, Mikayla, stay there, hope. What's your little winn 0:11:09.419 --> 0:11:09.819 of the week? 0:11:10.819 --> 0:11:12.059 Not falling for a scams? 0:11:12.939 --> 0:11:13.979 Not falling for a stam. 0:11:14.539 --> 0:11:16.139 That could be a big win because they could be 0:11:16.139 --> 0:11:17.219 just they can clean you out. 0:11:17.419 --> 0:11:18.819 What was the scam? Who was it from? 0:11:19.459 --> 0:11:21.659 It's to do with the acting. You know, I did 0:11:21.659 --> 0:11:24.779 it like years ago, like acting kind of roles, and 0:11:25.219 --> 0:11:26.939 I've had on my mind again and then I saw 0:11:26.979 --> 0:11:29.739 something advertised and it was a couple actually a couple 0:11:29.779 --> 0:11:32.499 of companies, and I was running like a nice suite 0:11:32.539 --> 0:11:34.979 in Sinciata, so I'm like, yeah, I'll just go see 0:11:34.979 --> 0:11:38.059 what happened. But it all seemed like legit when I 0:11:38.059 --> 0:11:39.578 was in there, but then when I got out of it, 0:11:39.619 --> 0:11:41.379 and then I just came to my senses. 0:11:41.019 --> 0:11:43.259 So they were happened. They took a kidney. That will happen. 0:11:45.299 --> 0:11:46.779 So I actually had a really good day. And then 0:11:46.819 --> 0:11:49.379 I got a new umbrella because my umbrella got smashed 0:11:49.419 --> 0:11:51.099 in the rain getting it. But it was like quite 0:11:51.379 --> 0:11:52.259 quite the day anyway. 0:11:53.659 --> 0:11:55.099 I hope you've been on a journey. 0:11:55.139 --> 0:11:57.899 Just wait there and we're gonna we're gonna deliberate who 0:11:57.899 --> 0:11:59.899 do we think deserves a little win of the week. 0:12:00.139 --> 0:12:01.659 I think they're all brilliant. 0:12:01.659 --> 0:12:03.739 There was quite a story at the end there the 0:12:03.859 --> 0:12:05.699 cats win, but I'm going to have to go the 0:12:05.739 --> 0:12:07.259 guts to asking someone out. 0:12:07.339 --> 0:12:11.779 Yeah, we love las, you say, Jamie, even unrequited love. 0:12:12.899 --> 0:12:13.539 Jamie. 0:12:13.659 --> 0:12:15.499 You have won the five hundred dollars to spend at 0:12:15.539 --> 0:12:16.499 Chemists warehouse. 0:12:16.619 --> 0:12:19.139 Congratulations. I hope that gives you. 0:12:19.099 --> 0:12:20.939 The confidence to go and ask the next man out. 0:12:20.979 --> 0:12:21.379 That you come. 0:12:21.379 --> 0:12:23.299 Across and take you on a date to Chemis warehouse 0:12:24.979 --> 0:12:26.699 And guys, that's it from us this week.