WEBVTT - FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHT - Talking conflict resolution styles 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:22.040 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. 0:00:22.079 --> 0:00:25.040 I'm Laura and I'm Brittany, and you guys already know, 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:26.960 but today we've mixed it up a little bit. This 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:29.200 is not Ask Uncut like you come here for on 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:33.160 a Thursday. This is our Tuesday episode, just to really 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:34.800 throw a stunner in the works. I think they're probably 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:35.839 used to the little mix up. 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:37.280 Now I've had to do it all like, it's not 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:39.479 like it's surprise I'm mixing it up. It's like this 0:00:39.520 --> 0:00:41.519 is just stand in last my fuck. We don't know 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:42.600 what these girls are going to pull out of the 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.280 heart this week. Every week something new. No, we did 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:46.720 have to mix it up this week. If you listen 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:49.360 to Tuesday's episode, you'll know that we were fully prepped 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:51.920 and ready to go with our juicy episode and another 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:55.280 I guess competing podcast did the same episode. They obviously 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:57.680 bugged the studio and got in first, so we had 0:00:57.840 --> 0:00:59.480 to change our style for the week. 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:02.000 It's actually it's really interesting we have now like this 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:03.720 this topic that we were going to do for this 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:07.160 week's episode. We were originally going to talk about busy 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:09.679 and like the psychology of being busy and like, how 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:14.280 it's something that we shouldn't be glorifying, but now it's everywhere. Yeah. Literally, 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:16.600 Like I even sent Britt another article that was written 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:18.959 by a completely different publication yesterday, and I was like, 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:21.520 why is everyone talking about being busy now. 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:23.399 In the same week. We wanted to drop it, but 0:01:23.440 --> 0:01:24.040 I also. 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:26.200 Think it's because it's that time of year where like 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:28.720 there's so much going on and everyone feels like they're 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.319 just stretched the absolute limits when they should be enjoying themselves. 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:34.120 So I think it was very relatable. Anyway, we decided 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:35.840 to scrap it, put it on whold. We'll do it 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:37.960 at another point in time and we'll kind of flush 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:40.000 it out a bit differently. But like we mentioned on 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:43.800 Tuesday's episode, today's episode is going to be all about 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:49.800 conflict resolution. Actually it's really sexy, guys, It's a sexy, 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:51.520 sexy topic. I did have to do. 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:53.600 Some quizzes and did a lot of research where it 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:56.320 was like, what's your conflict style in a relationship? And 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:57.520 I was like, can you just ask me what my 0:01:57.560 --> 0:01:59.560 conflict style is? Full stop? Why does that have to 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:01.640 be in a relation because I haven't done that for 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:02.240 a long time. 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:02.760 Yeah. 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:04.400 I read over the notes that Britt made for this 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:06.360 today's episode and it was all about at work, and 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:08.639 I'm like, Brit, it's got to be about relationships, and. 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:09.600 She was like why, I don't fucking know. 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:11.760 I was like, can we relate it to like work 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:14.000 and love, like some people just have work? 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:16.760 No. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:18.760 But the thing is with the conflict resolution and what 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:21.760 we will speak about, it's relevant to all aspects of 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:23.840 your life. It is your relationships, it is your friends, 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:26.799 it is your work colleagues, it's your family, it's all situations. 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:28.800 It's how you just deal with the stress. But it 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:30.720 doesn't matter. It's not just relationships, So we want to 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:33.160 make that really clear. It's for everybody in every aspect 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:33.640 of life. 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:37.239 Let's talk about that later before we get into the episode. 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:38.959 I did see something on the Facebook group which I 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:40.600 want to bring up with you guys because it's so 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:42.640 wholesome and it is so funny, and I know that 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:44.919 Brit hasn't seen it yet, so I really want to 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:47.440 share it with you. Okay, one of our listeners had 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:51.480 posted her Tinder text chat with this guy. So he 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:54.240 started off the Tinder chat with two truths, one lie 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:56.600 and I don't know what the first one was because 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:58.040 it kind of like starts a little bit down like 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:00.320 where she screenshot the chat from, starts a little bit 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:02.880 further down the list. But she's like, I think you're 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:05.280 not related to Keith Urban, so that was obviously the 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:07.800 one that was a lie. And he's like, haha, good guest. 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:11.080 You get today's mystery prize. You can choose between a 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:14.239 wheelbarrow ride around Adelaide to see all the wonderful sights 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:17.360 and all the wonderful people, or a bowl of corn 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:20.000 flakes with yesterday's milk in it. And she rides back 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:23.120 and says, well, that's easy, I'll take the wheelbarrow ride, 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:25.200 and he's like, good choice, because I already ate the 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:27.680 corn flakes for breakfast, so I would have been awkward 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:29.960 if you chose that. Anyway. The reason why this is 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.960 so funny is because she showed up for the. 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:37.720 Date and the guy brought a wheelbarrow and wheelbarrow lane. 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:41.680 My god. Yes, her name is Tegan. She's posted this 0:03:41.840 --> 0:03:44.600 on the Facebook group and she has kept us updated 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:46.640 along the date as well, so there's like videos of 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:49.800 her sitting in the wheelbarrow and having a ride around. 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:51.000 I love them. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.080 We're at the point that not only do you, guys 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:55.640 as they're happening send us, you are accidentally unfiltered. It's like, 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:58.560 whilst your most embarrassing moments happening, you're like riding to us. 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:01.120 I love that now you are. I'm streaming your dates 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:02.880 to our Facebook group, Tigan. 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:05.640 If you're listening to this. I want to be updated 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:08.360 constantly about this relationship. Where's it going. I know you're 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:11.480 having a second date coming up, but I'm fully emotionally 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:13.960 invested in this now and I need to be kept 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:14.840 along the journey. 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:16.600 Yeah, any of this stuff, we need to know how 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:18.840 it ends, guys. And also you are aware that if 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:20.680 you get married, you're gonna have to go down the 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:22.080 aisle in a wheelbarrow, and. 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:25.640 You're also gonna have to invite us a dear. Anyway, 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:27.560 tell me what's been happening with you, Brett. I like 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:29.840 that somebody else's story is the highlight of my week. 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:31.680 Like that's what I brought to the table for, like 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:32.880 what's been happening in my world. 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:36.080 So let's talk about last week because we didn't talk 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:38.080 about it on Tuesday because we saved it for this week. 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:41.559 Last week I took a few days off. You guys 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:45.719 know that. That's why Maddie and Laura did the episode together. 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.000 And I was like, I'm going to take three days off. 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:49.600 I'm going up to the Gold Coast to see my 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:52.000 brother and my nephew and my niece and who I 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:54.880 haven't seen in a year. I'd lined up a date 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.520 on the Gold Coast. I was like, I was going 0:04:57.560 --> 0:04:59.280 to get you the stories. I was going to live 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:03.040 my best life. And then day one, boom, I got appendicitis, 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:07.200 and I was like, fuck you, Universe, give me a 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:10.480 fucking break anyway, So I got appendicitis. 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:11.920 I had to cancel my day. I couldn't. 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:14.119 I didn't even write back to him, and he was like, ah, 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:16.240 so like we still doing this and I was like, oh, sos, 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.480 I've had a pendicitis, Like no, I can't see you. 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:20.320 And he would have absolutely thought that you made that up. 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:22.920 That's such an unbelievable excuse. Hey, Surrey, couldn't get back 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:25.120 to you. I hadn't had an appendicitis. I'm a thirty 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:28.599 year old with an appendicitis. Is The funny thing is 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:29.240 it's true. 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:31.680 I know it sounds like the most made up excuse ever, 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:34.120 but I was like, curl If anyone's had a pendicitis, 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:36.040 you like curl over in pain. It is it's like 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:39.280 someone's stabbing you in the stomach. So when a pendicitis hits, 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:42.200 it's not necessarily it doesn't come in at one hundred percent. 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:44.840 He comes in slowly, like you start to get the pains. 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:47.000 Then the next days after is when it gets worse. 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:49.880 So day one, I was in bed, curled up. 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:51.640 It hit me at nighttime and I was like, oh 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:54.080 my god, I've had a pendicitis before three years ago. 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:56.240 So I was like, this is going to be a pendicitist. 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:59.640 I can tell. And Sherry and Jay came in and 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:02.160 they were like, we're going all of us, like we're 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:03.760 going to went wild today. 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:05.200 Jay's never bin and. 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.080 I was like, oh, I've got a pandicidis. 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:07.600 I can't go. 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:09.120 Like, oh, well, you just stay home, and I was 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:11.280 like no, I had so much pomo. So I went 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:13.520 to went wild with a pendicitis. I was going down 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:16.599 the slide like holding my groin, rolling around then that 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:18.120 was the one thing I got to do. Then it 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:19.839 got too bad and I just had to sit around 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.159 at home. That was my week guys, I wish I 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.680 could come back and tell you about hot sexy dates, 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:25.240 et cetera. 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:27.400 But you're a pendicitus, did you dirty? 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:29.400 By pandizes to be bloody dirty if it happens again, 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:30.640 so I didn't have to take it out. 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:32.920 This is the reason why you're single, That's it, the 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:35.480 only reason. Yes, it's your a pandemic. She just get 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:38.200 that shit removed and get on with your dating life. Yeah, fully, 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:39.880 but that's it. Just so you guys know, Brittany's just 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:41.680 taken her top off and she's sitting here in her 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:45.479 undies and her bra recording this episode. She just was like, 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:47.400 I'm so hot. I hope that you're okay with this. 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:49.840 I'm just gonna take this off. She's literally nude, and 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:53.240 I'm just here pregnant with my hairy belly flopping around 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:55.760 on the floor like a whale. I was like sweating, 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:56.520 I'm so hot. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:58.560 I think we're at that stage now where we can 0:06:58.600 --> 0:06:59.320 record nude. 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:04.400 Yeah, great, perfect, I'm gonna not record nude. You don't 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.560 want to see this, no one does. But anyway, I 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:09.960 had something really funny happened to me yesterday. So have 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:15.040 you heard of the Instagram celeb Spellcheck correct. Okay, if 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.360 you guys, if you haven't heard of celeb spellcheck, go 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:19.760 and follow him. It's a private account so you have 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:22.480 to request it. But it's very funny. Basically, celeb spell 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:24.880 Check is they just take the piece of celebs. They 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:27.360 absolutely take the piss out of celebs or dealers celebs. 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:29.320 You know, I don't think that we could. I don't 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:35.400 think Britain I can collect claim celebs say so. Basically 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:39.480 they hold people's terrible spelling accountable, which is pretty funny. 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.320 But also like when celebrities do things which are a 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:45.480 little bit like questionable, they also seem to post and 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:47.840 they're just so on the ball. It's really really funny. 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:50.880 So much to my surprise yesterday when I get tagged 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:53.360 in a post that's been put on celeb spellcheck. Oh 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:56.679 god what Okay? So I get tagged in this post 0:07:57.280 --> 0:08:00.560 and it is a photo of a Vinnie like a 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:03.720 Savage Army or a Vinnis, And there are two Christmas 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:06.240 stockings hanging up in this Vinnie's with like four dollar 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:09.080 price tags on them. One says Buster on it and 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:13.680 one says Marley May on it. And celeb Spellcheck has 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:18.080 fully fucking busted me. So basically the post says, if 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:20.320 you also have a child named Marley May and a 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:23.360 dog named Buster, it's your lucky day. Get your hands 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:26.680 on unwanted Christmas freebies kindly donated by at Lady and 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.240 a cat to the local Vinnis. And then it is 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:32.640 just so many people trolling me in the comments section. 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:35.560 But I just want to say, I have literally never 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:38.640 seen these stockings before. Who's gonna want your stocking? 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:40.360 You think that someone's gonna want your stocking, it's a 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:41.880 probably with your family's names. 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:44.200 What I think has happened is that my shop, Tony 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:48.240 May is directly next door to a Vinnie's, So I 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:50.280 think that a delivery that was supposed to be sent 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.960 to me at Tony May has accidentally been given to 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:55.360 the Vinis next door, and they've just unpacked it and 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:58.040 put it on the shelves. Because I've literally never seen 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:01.080 these stockings before. And also I'm not dumb enough to 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:03.319 put stuff that has my kid's name on it in 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.280 the vinnie that's next door to my shop. I would 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:06.720 just put it in the bin. Guys. 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:08.920 That reminds me of last week when I accidentally gave 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:11.680 a Christmas present to my cousin that was embroidered with Brittany. 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:16.840 This just makes me seem like such an ungrateful influenza, 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:19.360 like some brand has sent me this. And there are 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:21.840 certain things that you just don't give to a Viny's 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:23.719 in live and they are things that are embroidered with 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:24.680 your family's name. 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:26.640 There's also now a Daily Mail article that's come out 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.000 about it, which just makes me sound like is such 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:32.360 a pop person. Anyway, Alisa didn't end up in a 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:34.160 landfill here. I am just trying to do the right 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:36.920 thing by the environment, regift my gifts, and I'm getting 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:40.760 flak for it. So this actually reminds me. Have you seen? 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:42.880 And I feel really sorry for what's going around the 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:45.760 media at the moment, at least Nols. I've seen the 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:48.720 poor girl's being trolled, and I do feally sorry for her. 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:51.719 Long story short, I love her. 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:55.000 She's not the greatest speller, and she often makes spelling mistakes, 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:57.560 which is fine, like who cares? But there are so 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:00.400 many celebrity sites like this spell chack. And there is 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:03.360 one person in particular called the Fat Jewish who has 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:06.840 like twenty million followers. He got a hold of one 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:09.360 of Elsa's posts. So basically has taken a photo of 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:11.960 herself on the bed and she's gone to write the 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:14.400 French word vola, which we all know starts with what 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:16.960 we don't all know, but well clearly we don't all know. 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:18.840 That's the whole point of the story. It starts with 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:23.000 a v woola. Alise obviously doesn't know that, and she's 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:27.480 written at wawlah wolla cute fine, like. 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:28.400 Who knows how to spell that? 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:30.800 It's the hardest word to spell anyway, like would you 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:34.080 be able to spell of Laura Celeb spellcheck screenshot at it, 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:36.120 and then it ended up on the Fat Jewish and 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:37.280 then it just went viral. 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:40.960 And so here's this photo of poor Elise Knowles with 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:42.120 the caption. 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:47.200 Wola apparently actually something in Arabic or something. But I 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:50.240 feel really sorry for it because she's been trolled over it, 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:54.560 and guys like, if someone makes a spelling mistake, who cares? 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:56.240 I don't think it means we need to drag them 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:58.080 through the mud. Also, shout out to all. 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:00.160 These people overseas. There are so many people overseas is 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:01.440 writing Oh what more. 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:03.440 Could you expect from Australians. They're all uneducated. 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:06.360 I think it's so interesting to see how the world 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:08.800 looks at Australia. I watched something else. Oh I'm on 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:11.120 a roll now. I watched something last week where there 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:14.559 was a quiz show in America America and the question 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:17.800 was what and you got eliminated if you didn't get 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:20.120 the question right. The question was what language do they 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:23.240 speak in Australia And everyone was like, oh great, why 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:24.840 does he get the easy question because now he can 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:27.760 stay in the competition and he goes, oh easy Dutch. 0:11:28.679 --> 0:11:31.520 Wow. I remember when I had a exchange student come 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:33.840 and stay with me when I was like maybe fifteen 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:36.640 or fourteen, and she was from America and she we 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:38.320 were on the train, we were going down to Kyama 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:41.000 to have a beautiful day, and she was like, you know, 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:44.280 it's so funny how like English and Australian are so 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:46.839 close together. And I was like, what do you mean 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:49.400 and she's like, well, obviously, like you speak Australian, but 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.160 then like English people speak English, but the language is 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:54.880 so similar. And I was like, bitch, you a crack, 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:57.240 Like what are you talking about. I was like, well, 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:59.320 we speak English here and she was like, no, you 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:03.200 speak Australian couldn't convince. It could not convince, so really common. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:06.520 But also, okay, will you say that, like people stereotype 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:08.400 Australians is being dumb because we have that whole like 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:11.640 outback country hickfield thing going on, but we're now also 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:14.199 stereotyping other people to say, well that they think that 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:16.000 Australians are umb as well. I don't think that it's 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:18.360 like a blanket rule. I just think that there's always 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:21.920 some outliers from all over the place. But going back 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:25.600 to Elice Knowles, I mean I think we care too 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:28.560 much about grammar. There's always the grammar police on Instagram, 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:31.080 there's always the grammar police who are on Facebook. I 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.560 think that we're so quick to like judge and pick 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:35.640 and like when somebody comes up with like really good 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:39.240 rebuttal to an argument, but then they've written they're wrong. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:41.959 They've written like t H E R instead of tre 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:45.079 and the other person's response is like, well, maybe you 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:47.160 could learn to spell first. It's just such a pathetic 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:50.679 way of undercutting someone and like minimizing their argument to 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:52.960 say like, well, because you've got one spelling mistake in 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:55.840 your response, your complete argument is invalid. 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:57.800 So I mean, I it is my favorite thing to 0:12:57.840 --> 0:12:58.760 do in like a text fight. 0:12:59.080 --> 0:12:59.959 I also do it as well. 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:03.200 You're like if like when they write something like this 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:06.000 big argument, like I'm talking privately, not like to cut 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:07.800 them down, like if he was with a boyfriend or something. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.640 Imagine that if you're having that text fight with someone though, 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:14.200 and they write like there instead of they are or 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.120 something like that. The best thing that you can do 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:18.040 back is you like ignore everything else in the text 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:20.160 and you just do it where you recorrect it with asterix. 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:21.959 It's like you just don't even need to write anything else. 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:23.640 There's so much strength to It's such a power move, 0:13:24.040 --> 0:13:25.760 is it, though? Yeah, I fucking love it. But I 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:28.040 wouldn't do it like I wouldn't do it publicly to 0:13:28.080 --> 0:13:29.920 someone to cut them down. I don't think like we 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:32.480 all make spelling mistakes. I just think Elisee doesn't deserve this, 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:34.480 So the moral of the stories don't add us. 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:36.319 You think that Lisee doesn't deserve this. I don't think 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:38.320 it's a big deal. Like I think it's funny. I 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:41.240 think it's a funny spelling mistake. If I ended up 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:44.240 on the fat Jewish because I had written Ala instead 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:46.559 of wolla, I would laugh at it. I don't think 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:47.680 I would take that to offense. 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:51.079 That's fine, That is the funny thing. The thing that's 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:54.240 bad is the hundreds of thousands of people trolling her 0:13:54.520 --> 0:13:57.600 like it's everywhere, and they're being nasty, like it's everywhere. 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:58.640 That's the bit I'm not cool with. 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:00.520 If I ended up on fat Jewish for a spelling 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.760 mistake Loolcano, like, it would be so funny. It's what 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.000 comes after that. It's like he sends an army of 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:07.840 twenty million people to go one right or off. 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:10.240 That you would end up on fad Jewish for saying 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:14.480 shit like Lolcano. Let's be real, pick that up, fat Jewish. Anyway, 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.200 let's get into some accidentally unfiltered Okay, I know that 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:18.960 you have and I can't believe they said that, So 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:20.040 you can kick it off. Brett. 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:24.320 Okay, this is actually pretty cute and funny. Last week, 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:27.000 this happened to someone I know. Last week on the 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:29.280 Gold Coast when I was seeing my brother. My best 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:32.560 friend of twenty eight years lives up there and she's 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:33.920 got a little boy and little girl, and I haven't 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:36.880 seen him in a long time. Anyway, we went up 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:42.080 and he's her son is about four. She was going 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:44.800 to the supermarket with him, and at the local supermarket 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:47.280 there is someone that works there that is I'm going 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:50.400 to actually say that he's a dwarf, but politically we 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.160 don't say dwarf anymore. Just going to tell you that 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:55.400 they're called little people. Anyway, there was a little person 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:57.920 that worked there, and he's like, everyone knows him. My 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:01.160 best friend knows him. She's always like, hey, low and stuff. Anyway, 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:05.000 this particular day, she's like, I don't know why. My 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:08.560 son walked straight up to him, looked at him in 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:12.160 the eyes, looked at me and goes, mom, why is 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:17.840 the baby wearing a watch? And then he goes she 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:21.920 was like, lawson, she's awsen, that's enough, let's go. And 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:24.080 she's like, also, why has the baby got a mustache? 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:29.040 It's just so intense and insensitive to his face. And 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:31.000 I was like, I'm dying for you. What did you do? 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:33.960 And she's like, to be fair in his defense, she's like, 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:36.160 I was mortified, like I wanted to die. But he 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:38.280 was like it's fine, and he's like, that's the best 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:39.800 thing I've had said to me in a long time. 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:41.080 But you know what. I think we need to be 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:44.040 more comfortable with kids saying things that are uncomfortable because like, 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:45.440 the kids are going to do it, they don't have 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:49.120 a filter, right, Whereas like I think it's the parents' 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:52.760 response to that situation that makes it better or worse. So, 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:54.800 like I think in that situation, if that was me, 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:57.760 I would have said, actually, do you know what, He's 0:15:57.800 --> 0:15:59.840 not a baby. This is something you know, there's lots 0:15:59.840 --> 0:16:02.200 of different types of people in the world, and some people, 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:04.720 you know, they're not as tall as other people, and 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:07.320 some people have different types of abilities and disabilities, and 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:10.840 I would try and explain it to make itsusive. Only 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:14.320 know this from my own experience where I've worked with 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:18.720 people who have disabilities, where it's like the embarrassment of 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:22.240 the mum or the embarrassment of the parent is actually 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:25.600 what amplifies the whole situation. Instead of saying, the reason 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:27.320 why that person is sitting in a chair with wheels 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:28.920 is because they can't walk, and there are lots of 0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:31.320 people who can't walk, and explaining that situation to a 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:35.480 child so that they can grasp like what disability is 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:38.320 is so important. The thing that bothers you in this 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:40.360 situation is how they're going to feel at the time. 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.000 She's like, I had this moment of panning where I 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:44.160 was like, my son has just hurt this man's feelings. 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:45.200 But he laughed. 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:46.960 He was like, he's like, I'm grown up with my 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:47.640 whole life like this. 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:49.400 He's like, I think it's funny. It makes my day. 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.520 She said. She's like that was my saving grace. How 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:52.040 grat he was. 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:53.760 She's like, I just can't believe the things that come 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:54.480 out of kid's mouth. 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:56.160 But I think that's the thing, right, Like the people 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:57.960 who have these disabilities have grown up with it in 0:16:57.960 --> 0:17:00.240 their whole life. They're not embarrassed by it. So the 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.480 only person who feels that embarrassment is the mum. Because 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:05.640 it's an uncomfortable situation. But you can diffuse that. I'm 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:07.760