WEBVTT - Flex Puts Froomy's Special Talent To The Test 🚗 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:04.680 Hello, cringe, no, ye a little bit. 0:00:05.160 --> 0:00:08.200 No, the girl is coming to you in podcast form, 0:00:08.400 --> 0:00:11.040 which is ever so exciting to me every single day. 0:00:11.080 --> 0:00:12.480 There is actually no excuse. 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:15.040 Imagine, don't check for us on Instagram being like where's 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:17.120 the contents? A lot more stories? You don't get any 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:18.480 more stories. It's right here. 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:19.799 Care factor zero. 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:23.880 Anyways, stick around, let's get down to cringeeness. 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:24.720 Flex and frooms. 0:00:25.040 --> 0:00:26.480 I love brainstorms. 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:31.560 Really, I don't get any too. Honestly, I think one 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:35.240 of my best skills is coming up with good ideas 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:37.479 when the framework is good. Also, but if you like, 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:41.840 let's do a brainstorm, I'm there with you. Alas, did 0:00:41.840 --> 0:00:45.920 you know that it should only take you ninety seconds 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:50.040 to get over any emotion, whether that's being angry, sad, happy, 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:53.040 and anything after that is self inflicted? 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:57.320 Let me go deeper. Let's say we have a tussle, 0:00:57.920 --> 0:00:58.760 have a big. 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:00.640 Spound to happen. We've got a lot of time together. 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:02.480 Yeah, so it hasn't. 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:08.360 Happened yet, No, you're easy going. Next minute, so let's 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:13.199 say we have a brawl. Right, we're upset at each other. Physiologically, 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:17.160 it should take my body ninety seconds to process that 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:22.759 emotion and if I find myself ruminating afterwards, that's self imposed. 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:25.280 That's me attaching a thought. 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:28.080 Or a feeling or any or a story or a 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:31.520 narrative towards that emotion and then extending the life cycle. 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:33.480 Is that not the human condition? 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:37.560 It is, absolutely it is. But it's also good to 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:41.559 know that if you find yourself in this cycle frustration 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:46.040 or sadness, or anger or even happiness, that physiologically your 0:01:46.040 --> 0:01:47.520 body is meant to get over things. 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:48.480 If you wanted to, you. 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:52.120 Could, If you wanted to, you would. It is on 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.280 you squarely, period. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:58.760 This is Flex and frooms on Keda. 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:01.160 Right now we have a bit of a delemma, not 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:04.760 our own, fortunately, but from a person who's messaged us. 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:08.720 This is love line where Flex infirmed your resident professional 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:12.360 opinion have is give you advice on your love dilemmas. 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:13.400 What's the problem. 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:16.200 We don't know, but we will find your solution and 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.799 give you a song to send you on your merry way. 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:22.120 Yes, that was a stunning description, Flex, and I want 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:24.760 to get straight to it. I just found out that 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:27.280 my boyfriend of six months is close friends with his 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:31.080 ex partner. They dated for years and were friends before 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:34.760 they dated. They broke up about two years ago. Throughout 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:37.200 our relationship, he has spent time with her and even 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:39.679 stated a house in a different state for the weekend. 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:41.920 Uft I knew that he was spending time with her. 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:44.040 I just assumed she was a friend and not an ex. 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:45.960 Do I have a right to be upset about this? 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:48.640 I'm not upset that he's friends with her per se, 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:51.200 just that he never told me. And this is a 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:56.800 fairly significant relationship. I've never met this person, they live 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.960 in a different state, and they only spend time together 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:00.880 at conference is for work. 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:05.000 I'm putting a little astex there. What's the issue here? 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:09.760 It's sus. It's not sus to be friends with your ex. 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:13.560 I pride myself on not being friends with my exes, 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:14.359 but being loved. 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:14.840 By all of them. 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.120 So I say, why aren't you friends with them? 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:20.960 I don't need that many friends, and so you gotta 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:23.320 you gotta cut the fat. Sometimes not everyone can be 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:23.760 top ten. 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:24.560 Here's the thing. 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:29.840 If they were just friends who were exes, fine, But 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.520 this is your friend who is your ex and you 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:35.600 dated for a long time two years ago. Two years 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:37.400 ago is not that long when it comes to gaps 0:03:37.440 --> 0:03:41.320 in relationships, that's fresh. If I dated something two years 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:44.360 ago and have a lifetime of friendship with them, you 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:47.960 gotta pass that on. That's information that your current person 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:50.680 needs to be privy to. And then work conferences. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:51.040 What is that? 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.880 If you're hanging what is that if you're if you're 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:58.520 hanging out, it's customary to give your partner context on 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:01.880 the on your friends. Where did you meet, how did 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:05.280 you meet? How do you know each other? Totally shady boots, 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:09.320 sus not sus? Does current girlfriend have the right to 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:09.920 be angry? 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:14.800 I'm gonna say yes, current girlfriend is hanging out with 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:18.440 old girlfriend in a friend situation, you need to know 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:21.080 if they've dated so you can pick up SUS vibes. 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:22.760 Otherwise you're going in blind. 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:27.640 And even if that's not the only reason, keeping that 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:30.400 a secret is the SUS thing. If it's a non event, 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:33.960 then it should be known. Why hasn't it. Why hasn't 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:36.279 any of the other friends mentioned it? It's not come up. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:39.800 I've been in this situation before, have you pray Telle. 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:42.719 I was dating a guy and he was still good 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:44.560 friends with some of that he'd slept with. 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:45.320 I don't know if. 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:48.080 They'd dated before yeah, of course I didn't know about this, 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:49.960 so I'm sure I didn't know about a lot of things. 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:52.200 And they'd hang out and she was always a bit 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:55.120 of a sus unit to me. And before I thought, 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:58.039 this is weird, like you're acting a bit possessive and 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:02.479 strange to like you, but you're making it difficult and 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.800 the long and behold. Afterwards I found out and I thought, Yep, 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:08.280 some of those snide comments you made to me while 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:11.560 I tried to ingratiate myself with the group wasn't just 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:13.200 in my head it wasn't. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:17.120 And I, on the other hand, have been the possessive 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:26.120 X situationship who has let me not incriminate myself. 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:29.599 I'm glad. 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:31.679 I was so ready. 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:33.640 This is flex and frooms. 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:36.960 Do you know anyone born on the same day as you, like, 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:40.719 actually know someone not well not well enough to say. 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:42.559 Yes, same day, same year? Yep? 0:05:43.120 --> 0:05:45.719 Really on the third of the third. It's like a 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:47.800 very historic day, is it? 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:48.440 I think? 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:48.640 So? 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:53.560 According to whom me, oh, can I one up you please? 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:54.000 Great? 0:05:54.640 --> 0:06:00.839 I met somebody in my Instagram dms who told me, well, 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:04.160 let me backtrack a little bit. This is someone that 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:07.320 I have had casual interactions with in my Instagram DM 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:10.880 who would just like agree with things that I agreed with, like, oh, 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:12.719 we have the same opinion on this thing, we like 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:16.799 this thing. It was like cute, but not that exclusive Anyway, 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:21.039 One day I posted my birth chart onto Instagram story. 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:22.800 For those who don't know who birth chart is, it's 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.480 just like astrology. You put your birthday and where you're 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:28.440 born into this internet thing and then it tells you 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:29.960 some stuff about your astrology. 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:30.960 I don't know. 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:34.599 I post this and this same girl says, huh, that 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:37.240 looks kind of like mine. I was like, okay, cool, whatever. 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:40.960 Then she goes and asks me when I was born, 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:45.000 what day, what time, what year? And we were born 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:48.760 not only in the same day, the same year, but 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:51.240 in the same bloody hospital. 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:53.880 Really, what are the odds? 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:56.400 Same hospital, same hospital? 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.599 And then that led me to think, what are the like, 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:02.960 how many babies are birthed in a campanyun birthing board 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:06.120 at one time? For eight of us, nine of us, 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:09.880 maybe even twenty. But it's not high enough for us 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.960 to not only be in each other's dms, but to 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:14.840 share mutual friends. 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.600 Oh you've got me, We've got mutual friends. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:19.760 Wow, have you figured out who the friends are? 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:20.520 Yeah? 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:23.000 Similar area? 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:27.720 What do you mean the people? I know? The friends? 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.400 But like, no, the mutual friend we have wasn't even 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:32.560 born here in Sydney. It's born in Brisbane. 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:33.960 Oh my god. 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:34.840 So here's the thing. 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:36.480 Don't let to how they say you should never meet 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:39.000 your double ganger in real life, the person who looks 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:40.760 just like you, because one of you has to go. 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:44.560 I feel as if I meet her in the flesh, 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:47.560 it's going to be too close to home. Either we'll 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:51.400 get along so well that it's not exciting because it's predictable, 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:55.880 or we'll realize we're nothing alike and we embarrassingly have 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:59.440 to keep up this. Oh you know, we're cosmic twins. 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:03.000 We have the same birthday. 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:04.800 That gives me demons? 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:05.720 Does it really? 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:06.120 Yeah? 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:07.200 Just keep it in the DMS. 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:11.440 Yeah, we'll keep it. We'll keep it, you know, arms lengths. 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:14.080 But what I love about that is now I have 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:17.400 a fun story to tell totally. And the reason why 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:20.640 I need that is because every time you have those 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:26.080 like Icebreaker group interview party full of strangers, things like, 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:27.720 you know, tell us something nice about yourself. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:29.880 I've got nothing. I've got no fun story. 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:31.200 Earlier, I thought you'd be really good at that. 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:34.760 This is what I'm saying. But now I do I 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:35.600 have a cosmic twin. 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:38.480 Cosmic twin or now stave and she's listening to. 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:42.199 This probably and PSA for anyone who wants to try 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:43.240 and one up me, you can't. 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:44.720 Don't share your stories. 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:47.160 I don't want to know if you two have a 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:49.520 cosmic twin who's born on the same day, say your 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:50.200 same hospital. 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:52.040 Shut it. I don't want to hear it. 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:53.679 Keep it to your damn self. 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:57.800 You're listening to flex and frooms on Kada. 0:08:58.000 --> 0:08:59.000 How are you all doing. 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:00.600 Doing? 0:09:02.120 --> 0:09:03.840 It's really not working for me today. 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:05.760 I just want to let you be you. That's what 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:07.640 I'm here to do. I want you to imagine that 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:09.920 you're on a weekend away with a group of your friends. 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.120 I know five six of them. 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:16.439 Yeah, you took two cars, five six of them in particular. 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:19.560 Though you're with your bestest friends, so whoever that is, 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:23.400 keep them in mind. At the beach house, you all 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:25.600 decide to go for a walk to a local kind 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:28.440 of like secluded beach. There's just you, your mate and 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:32.880 like a small family yonder a couple drinkies later, everyone's 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:34.520 kind of loose, having a good time. 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:35.680 You're in your period. 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.719 You also got cramps, so like, you're not interested in 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:42.280 getting involved or going for a swim, but your best 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:45.760 friend is. You tell her I don't think you should. Like, 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:49.520 there's storm cloud coming in. Those waves are kind of hectic. 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:51.720 She says, no, there's like a little girl about to 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:52.920 go and if she can go and I can go in. 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:56.920 You're like, okay, whatever, she goes in. You lie down, 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:58.960 pop a couple on EUROPM. Maybe I don't know what 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:02.360 you do for your cramps. And then you hear two 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:04.079 deathly screams. 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:08.640 You're like, what what is that? 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:12.040 You turn to look towards the beach and you see 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:16.640 both your friend and that little girl flailing. You're freaking 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:18.520 out because at first he thought it was just a 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:21.400 little girl. Both of them are caught in the roob 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:27.040 and it's hectic. Turns out family can't swim. Yeah, all 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:30.200 your friends are cooked, so it's only you. 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:32.000 What are you doing? 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:33.760 Have ever been in a rib? 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:34.320 No? 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:35.280 Mmm? 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:38.160 I can tell because if you're. 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:38.200 In a. 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:44.559 Something to me, what does that meant to me? Because 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:46.840 you set it up. I could have said, yeah, I have. 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:48.400 Actually I have. 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:52.280 And then what Joe said, if someone's in a rib, 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:54.079 you can't go and save them. 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:56.600 Well, this is why I'm asking, Babe. 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:00.480 No, I guess if someone's in a rib, I only 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:03.040 going to save one of them if I knew how 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:04.640 to swim out of a rip. But this is only 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:07.800 something that I've learned recently, and that's if you're in 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.680 a rip at the beach, you need to swim sideways. 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:14.120 In this scenario, I feel bad for a little girl, 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:19.680 but I don't know her and agism. Really, everyone's life 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:21.720 is worth the same as someone else, So as awful 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:23.559 as that is, I'm going for my friend. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:27.720 Hold on, everyone's life is worth the same as somebody else's. 0:11:27.720 --> 0:11:31.120 Direct quote from you. Yeah, you're gonna save your best 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:35.040 friend over the little girl. Her family is freaking out, 0:11:35.400 --> 0:11:37.640 none of them. They're helpless. They can't do anything. 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:40.680 Well, so are our friends because they're cooked. 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:42.920 Great. Yeah, so what will you do. 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:45.480 I'm saving my best friend. 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:48.760 And you are letting the little girl. 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:52.080 Ah, she's gonna swim back to the shore. She's got it. 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:52.920 That's so hectic. 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:56.080 It's good to know who your friends are. I, for one, 0:11:56.080 --> 0:12:02.160 I'm not saving anyone. 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:03.439 Listen, to what. 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:08.080 I'm saying, Babe, there are two people in danger. You 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:11.600 go out, makes it three. There's a family who can't 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:13.520 swim and a bunch of cooked friends. 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:14.559 It's game over. 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:19.080 Not even gonna notice that you're gone five hours letter, 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:20.800 Oh where Frooms go? 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:26.160 Done? Your legacy, lost bloodline gone. 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:30.160 The Froom's name has disappeared. 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:33.280 It's good to know. Thanks for the thanks for disclosing. 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.920 Flex And through me revealed to me that she has 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:41.680 a special talent from her days working at a car dealership. 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:43.839 Perhaps I'm not sure if it's related, it doesn't matter. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:44.760 She said. 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:47.080 Her special talent is being able to tell what the 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:50.440 make and model is on any Australian car that she sees. 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:55.800 I was flabbergasted. I was also skeptical and immediately quizzed her. 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:59.680 I pointed to a car that she confidently said was 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:01.439 admit to be She it was like a Henda. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:03.680 So we were not off to a good start. 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:07.320 And so today in front of us we have sheets 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:09.760 of paper, and on each of those sheets of paper 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:14.800 we have Australian cars. We've got images of cars. 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:17.480 They're not Australian cars, they're international. 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.960 Car cars found in Australia. Okay, there we go through me. 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:25.000 Suggests guarantees that she'll be able to tell me the 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:28.120 make and the model of each car just by looking 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:28.880 at an image. 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:31.320 Happily, let's go with car number one. 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:34.640 It is a Masda. 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:37.520 Okay, I didn't catch that. It's silver. 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:42.240 It's like a five seedter, looks like a car a 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:45.240 mum drives. It's all I've got for you. So you 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:48.320 said it to Mazda. There is a logo on it, 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:50.600 so I feel like you could have guessed that one easily. 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:52.880 What is the make and model all the year? 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:55.680 Okay, We're gonna go with year because I'm not a 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:59.560 complete genius. Originally I wanted to say two thousand and eight, yep, 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:04.360 but I've decided, actually, this looks like fourteen fifteen, so 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:05.520 I'm gonna go twenty fourteen. 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:05.960 Mazda. 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:13.600 She's actually right. I told you said two thousand. 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:15.680 Night I was ready to rip into I was like, 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:20.600 is it it's a Mazda three twenty fourteen. Okay, that's 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:24.360 the one. Next I want to say it's a Fluke, 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:26.840 but let me not be a hater. No, no, no, in 0:14:26.880 --> 0:14:31.320 front of me, We've got a big barmber Hummer. 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:34.480 I think it's a Hummer. It's some sort of Ford. 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:38.640 Okay, hold on, it's a big bus car, hunker chunker, 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:43.240 like huge wheels, like elevated off you know, like a 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:46.240 monster truck of ur monster, but definitely road safe. And 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:47.880 it's got flames on it. 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:50.280 What is it for me? 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:51.320 Okay? 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:54.800 This could actually be some sort of jeep, but I 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:56.560 don't think it is. I think it's like an American 0:14:56.760 --> 0:15:01.400 hot car. Something about the way that the photo is 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:09.240 taken two thousand and eight to twenty twelve, and what 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:14.160 is it now? It's two thousand and eight and it 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:17.960 is a Chrysler. 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.520 Loser, it's a two thousand and five Hummer. 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:23.280 Crap. 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:24.920 I don't know what's go with your gut, but if 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:26.200 you really knew the car, you wouldn't have to go 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:27.200 with your gut, you'd use your brain. 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:29.760 Okay, Well, next, shit you straight away. This is a 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:33.640 Ford Wild Track. It is a four door ute situation 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:36.480 four by four, very nice. And this is from two 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:38.280 thousand and six. 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:43.600 Hmm. It's a Ford Ranger okay. 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:47.480 And it's from two thousand and seventeen, oh so just 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:50.560 about nine years off. Now, can you let us know 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:53.160 what made you say two thousand and six. So confidently the. 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:55.440 Shape of the eyes at the front of the lights 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:58.640 is giving Commodore early two thousands Commodore. 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:01.360 But how would you know that? You're so far off 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:05.920 that at this point, So how many of you got right? One? 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:06.600 Okay? 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:09.760 Next up, we've got a VW Combi van and this 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:11.280 is nineteen seventy three. 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:18.880 Wrong, it's nineteen seventy one. Though it's close enough, not 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:20.600 close enough for you to say that you can guess 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:22.320 any make and model in a year of a car 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:26.000 by sight. In this instance, I swear to you out 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:28.240 of nowhere, we're gonna get a sandwich. We're not even 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:31.440 talking about automobiles, vehicles, nothing. Rooms looks me dead in 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:34.200 my eye and says I can guess any making, any car, 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:37.600 any car, confidently points to the next one. That's a 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:39.320 twenty fourteen yan. 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:40.520 Day And I was right at that time. 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:42.640 But the next one was a Missubichi And you're like, yeah, 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:43.400 that's heyday. 0:16:44.400 --> 0:16:46.640 It's a pretty good strike rate for somebody who does 0:16:46.680 --> 0:16:47.920 not work has used castles. 0:16:48.040 --> 0:16:49.960 That's not even like a BC. That's a fail. 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:54.080 You're so mean. You're listening to flex and frames and 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:55.240 I'm gonna yeez away in my. 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:58.600 Car, flex and frooms on. 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:02.840 Average day, I'm watching you exist. Do you think you 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.080 change your behavior because you know I'm watching you? 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:06.359 Definitely? 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:06.960 Really? 0:17:07.840 --> 0:17:10.400 Yeah, I definitely change my behavior. I think I think 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:11.639 I am more considered. 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:15.000 Ah, I think I try to preserve my energy for 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:15.879 on air with you. 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:17.920 I'm not making small talk. 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:19.240 That's really sweet. 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:21.520 Do you think you change around me? 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:23.520 Yeah? 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:28.280 I think if I was in a room four walls 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:32.040 or white, decked out in the best furniture and no 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:35.480 one there to observe me, I would number one, not talk. 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:41.080 I would probably not think as much either. I'll probably 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:43.119 be asleep. But I came across this think called the 0:17:43.119 --> 0:17:47.920 Hawthorne effect, and it's the belief that we subconsciously alter 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:52.080 our behavior when we're being observed, and it can affect 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:55.840 all kinds of behaviors like what you eat, your hygiene habits, 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:59.240 how you speak, how you present yourself. And it makes 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:01.600 a lot of sense too, because there are tons of 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:05.560 people that I know that in their own space they 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:06.520 behave a different way. 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:08.680 What are you looking at? Don't look at him and 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:10.359 look at me, look at you. 0:18:12.160 --> 0:18:15.160 The fact that I just told you that on average, 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:17.680 we only listened to twenty percent of a conversation, and 0:18:17.760 --> 0:18:21.000 midway through making my point, you've caught your reflection just 0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:25.240 behind me, and you haven't even made it subtle. But 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:28.040 I was doing more research about this Hawthorne effect, and 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:31.600 it's also they say the Hawthorne effect is the reason 0:18:31.640 --> 0:18:36.480 why in offices they encourage like good lighting and regular breaks, 0:18:36.520 --> 0:18:39.159 because if we can all see each other clearly and 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:41.600 we're forced to interact with each other, then we'll behave 0:18:42.240 --> 0:18:45.760 better really, rather than being in like dark corners or 0:18:45.840 --> 0:18:48.960 secluded or in our own little bubbles where we're left 0:18:48.960 --> 0:18:49.919 to our own devices. 0:18:50.680 --> 0:18:51.520 Makes heaps of. 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:54.240 Sense, makes a lot of sense. I get it when 0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:56.399 we're in these rooms because we spend a lot of 0:18:56.400 --> 0:18:59.280 time at cater and there is a lollijar in our 0:18:59.320 --> 0:19:01.800 studio which is constantly haunting me because I am a 0:19:01.800 --> 0:19:06.120 sweet tooth. It's haunting you, haunting me, haunting you, it's 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:09.520 haunting me because I love sweet treats. And if nobody 0:19:09.640 --> 0:19:11.919 was here, I beating the whole jar, really, But instead 0:19:11.960 --> 0:19:14.160 I've got to bide my time. You know, one every 0:19:14.240 --> 0:19:16.720 three breaks, I'll go in for a little lolly, make 0:19:16.760 --> 0:19:18.680