1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: Do you eat your largest meal at night? Are you 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: more of a breakfast person or do you try and 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: keep your dinner small? I need to find yourself over 4 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,479 Speaker 1: eating after dinner after you've been booedball day. Today I'm 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: the Nutrition Couch podcast Leanne and I share the latest 6 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 1: on meal time research and why the time you eat 7 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: your main meal really does matter when it comes to 8 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: weight control. Hi, I'm Susie Borrow, Family and Wood and 9 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: each week we bring you The Nutrition Couch, a bi 10 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: weekly podcast that keeps you up to date on everything 11 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: you need to know in the world of nutrition as 12 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: well as meal times. Today we take it closer look 13 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: at diet self sabotage and how you can work towards 14 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 1: owning it and taking control of it. All good and 15 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: our listener question is about something very pertinent at the moment, 16 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 1: which is the healthiest salad dressing when you're looking for 17 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: one in the supermarket. So Leanne, still nice and warm 18 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: up there in Brisbane. I imagine the sun's really kicking in. 19 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 2: It is. It's been very warm. We've come out of 20 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 2: our little heat wave and it still hasn't really rained 21 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: that much, but it's been nice. The the lices. The weather's nice. 22 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 2: You know, it's nice to live in the sunshine steak 23 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 2: during summer, even if sometimes it is a little bit overwhelming. 24 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: You get a little bit of tan going, so yes, 25 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: you'll have no complaints from here. But we saw a 26 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 1: very interesting review paper that came through you found in 27 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: Obesity Reviews, which I thought was really interesting because if 28 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: we go back to nutritional recommendations. Certainly, when I studied nutrition, 29 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: it was always about it doesn't matter when you eat 30 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: your calories as long as you don't over consume. It's 31 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: not what's eaten for this particular meal, or basically it 32 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: doesn't matter when you have them as long as you're 33 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: in calorie balance or calorie deficit when it comes to 34 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 1: weight gain. But I have to be honestly, and as 35 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: a clinician working with clients every day, I have always 36 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: naturally put what I would describe as their calories towards 37 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: the first half of the day a lot more, I 38 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: think and anecdotally would find my clients are hungrier earlier 39 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: in the day, and then inevitably a lot of us 40 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: are sitting down when it comes to the second half 41 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: of the day and relaxing in front of the TV, 42 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: which is why you know, downing the tim tams and 43 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: extra treats while we're watching maths. If you're a bit 44 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: guilty of that at the moment, is not the best 45 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,279 Speaker 1: time to have it. But this was a research paper 46 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: published in Obesity Reviews, so a very respected journal which 47 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: found and was a systematic review and meta analysis, which 48 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: is where they group whole lots of data sets together 49 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: and really take a close look at what they're actually doing. 50 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: And what they found was incredibly fascinating because they've had 51 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: a very close relationship between the time of day in 52 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: which calories were consumed and weight loss when there is 53 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: a calorie restriction to basically show that the more calories 54 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: people in the first half of the day, it's highly 55 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: predictive of better weight loss outcomes as part of a 56 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: weight loss program. And yeah, I know you've done some 57 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: work recently with Professor John Hawley on this on your 58 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: main podcast and More Nutrition, and you know, it really 59 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: does appear the more we understand about circadian rhythms that 60 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: hormonally and we really are programmed to burn at certain 61 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: times and as such, eating more in the second half 62 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: of the day or if you're a shift worker and 63 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: find yourself routinely eating overnight can have profound effects on 64 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: weight gain and hormone levels. And basically, and from this, 65 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: what I took was timing does matter, which is certainly 66 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: something that I've always known in my own practice. 67 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 2: And certainly working in the Guide Help space and the 68 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 2: fatul space as well. I'm like you, I've always naturally 69 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 2: wanted my clients eating earlier, purely just because I don't 70 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 2: want them going to bed on a full stomach, because 71 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 2: then you do feel so bloated and sluggish, and I 72 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 2: don't feel like the body has enough time to break 73 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: down all of that extra energy consumed at night time. 74 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 2: So and we've always been a big fan of my 75 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: clients eating earlier, having proper well rounded lunches. But we 76 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 2: know what happens in reality is that the women that 77 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 2: we work with, they're busy. Often they're skipping breakfast or 78 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: they're fasting intentionally. Then they're having a super light lunch, 79 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 2: often just a solid or a light super light rap. 80 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 2: Then it comes to the main meal, and that's when 81 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 2: they're overdoing it. And then then they're snacking after dinner 82 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: as well. So too many of us are getting that 83 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 2: spread wrong throughout the day, and certainly we know from 84 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 2: the research that to lose body fat you absolutely have 85 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: to be in a calorie deficit. We can't get around that. 86 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 2: But this study was really nice because it did show 87 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 2: that consuming the greatest proportion of your calories from the 88 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 2: day earlier actually was proposed to have a more positive 89 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: influence on weight loss and health outcomes as well. And 90 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 2: they were saying that that was potentially due to this 91 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 2: greatest synchronization of the human body and the circadian rhythms 92 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 2: that it has there. So I think, really, what's that 93 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: saying sort of like eat breakfast like a king, lunch 94 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 2: like a queen, and dinner like a bob or something 95 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 2: like that. I mean it really the research is coming 96 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 2: good from that perspective. So overall, what they did, as 97 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: they had they critically appraised different types of meta analysis. 98 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 2: So this was quite a good study because they really 99 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 2: looked at, well, you know, meta analysis is some of 100 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 2: our top studies, so they critically replaced all of them, 101 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: and really what they were looking for was energy reduced diets, 102 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 2: so diets focusing on fat loss, and what they found 103 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 2: that's through all of those studies, people who ate earlier 104 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,799 Speaker 2: in those diets in line with the calorie restriction as well, 105 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: so you can't just eat your calorie earlier, it has 106 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 2: to be in a deficit as well. Lost a significantly 107 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 2: greater proportion of weight loss, which it was clinically significant, 108 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 2: but at the end of the day it was only 109 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 2: one point two to three kilos, so it's not huge 110 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,119 Speaker 2: in the grand scheme of things. But what I find 111 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 2: really interesting, in line with that extra weight loss, there 112 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 2: was also improvements in insulin resistance, fasting, glucose, and elder 113 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 2: cholesterol levels, so really health and fat loss improvements as well, 114 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: just by eating a greater proportion of your calories earlier 115 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 2: in the day. So I think for most of us 116 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 2: it comes down to planning and preparing because we're rushing around, 117 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: we're busy, we're trying to get the kids out of 118 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 2: the house to school, we're sitting down, we're opening up 119 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 2: our emails, and we're just bombarded with work and we're 120 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 2: not really thinking about our nutrition until it gets to nighttime. 121 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 2: So for most of us, this really comes back to 122 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 2: a proper planning and preparing can actually have better fat 123 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 2: loss outcomes and can actually have better health outcomes. Overall 124 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 2: as well. 125 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: I was going to say, it's funny we often say 126 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: the same things without discussing it. I think it falls 127 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: down for people with lunch because you start the day 128 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: and they might grab something so coffee or pastry or 129 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: something through the morning, and then lunch really gets pushed back. 130 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: Or for my busy mums, they're just sort of grab 131 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 1: and go on the run, so they're barely having it, 132 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,359 Speaker 1: and then inevitably they start to snack in the afternoon 133 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: because they haven't eaten enough in the day. And then 134 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: we tend to have heavy or quicker things at night. 135 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 1: So often family friendly meals like pasta and rice dishes, 136 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 1: Mexican pizza, they're all heavy carbohydrate based foods meals, and 137 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 1: then if you're going to have wine and biscuits and treats, 138 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: so it really ends lends itself to that really high 139 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: calorie load throughout the entire second half of the day. 140 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: So a few little tricks for listens if you know 141 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: that that naturally is the way things flow for you 142 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: through the day. I would say prioritizing a meal before twelve, 143 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: so if you've had a breakfast, eat at eleven twelve, 144 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,239 Speaker 1: and then really try and not have much until tino, 145 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: because as soon as you overdo it with the snacks 146 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: and you have the protein bars or the nut bars 147 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: and the cheese and crackers, it feeds that snacking pushes 148 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: dinner back. So you know, if you can even prioritize 149 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: an earlier dinner, or if you know that dinner will 150 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: be late, eat more in the day and put their 151 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: substantial afternoon snack at three or four and really just 152 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: make another light top up. So it really comes down 153 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: to engineering the foundation to fit in with your life, 154 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: and there's many different strategies to do that, but inevitably 155 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: it means trying to put a lot more earlier so 156 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: you can leave the evening a bit lighter, even if 157 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: you are having something. You know which are the lighter choices, 158 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 1: like having quliflower acerisotto or having zoodle pasta with a 159 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: plain source, or having more vegetarian meals in the first 160 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: half of the week because they're lighter and we'll lend 161 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: itself to a calorie deficit even if you do find 162 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: yourself eating later at night. 163 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 2: So what you're really saying is have the wine a 164 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 2: lot earlier, like morning tea. 165 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: Time or something depends on the day. Sometimes it may 166 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: certainly feel like a wine o'clock at three or four 167 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: o'clock land, but it is. You know, we laugh about it, 168 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: but it's true. You've got a factor in the way 169 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: you like to eat. So if you enjoy treats at night, 170 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: you enjoy something sweet or a glass of wine or 171 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: a sort of sit down meal with your partner, you 172 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: have to still find ways to make it lighter and 173 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: allow for that deficit whilst still having it, which often 174 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: means maybe choosing a lower calorie wine or less carbont night, 175 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: or choosing between wine or dessert, or having vegetarian or 176 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: fish based wheels because they're lighter than say steak or 177 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: even salmon, which can be hiring calories. So just engineering 178 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: it to achieve your goals. And again we say all 179 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: the time that's the benefit of working with a dietitian, 180 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: because a dietitian can take your personal preferences and put 181 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: them into a plan that works. You know, it maybe 182 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 1: simple a swapping out of sweet potatoes some nights for pumpkin, 183 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: and then you've got room for dessert or wine. So 184 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 1: it's those little engineering that really adds up, particularly when 185 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: it comes to this habitual structure through the day and 186 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: working out what the structure. And just in the past 187 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: week alone, I've engineered someone's diet to have too breakfastly 188 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: and I've engineered someone else's to sort of skip breakfast 189 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 1: and have sort of two lunches. So certainly when I'm 190 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: talking to clients or constantly changing it around to fit 191 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: in with their schedule and lifestyle, still achieving it, how deficit, 192 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: but in a model of eating that suits their life 193 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: and their food preferences. 194 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:05,959 Speaker 2: And just for our listeners at home, we have had 195 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: a couple of requests to sort of name what journal 196 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 2: article we're talking about. So this one was in the 197 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 2: Journal of Obesity Reviews and the title was Distribution of 198 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: Energy Intake across the Day and Weight Loss, a systematic 199 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: review and meta analysis by Young and colleagues from December 200 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 2: twenty twenty two. So if anyone wants to look that up, 201 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 2: that is the deeds of the study, all right. So 202 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 2: for the case study today, we are talking about something 203 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: that we see I would say on a daily basis 204 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 2: in our clinics, and it's self sabotage. So it's a 205 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 2: really common theme. It comes up time and time again 206 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 2: where clients say my goal is weight loss, my goal 207 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 2: is hells. My goal is to get my diabetes or 208 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 2: my cholesterol under control, and then it's like, oh, hold on, 209 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 2: you went out and you had pizza, edizer and three wines, Like, 210 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 2: what's happening here? Oh I just felt like it in 211 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 2: the moment. I had to have it. Everybody else was 212 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 2: having and I didn't want to miss out. So self 213 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 2: sabotage is a real issue or a behavioral component that 214 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 2: so many of our clients struggle with, and I genuinely 215 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 2: see it when the goals aren't lining up with the behaviors. 216 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's the general definition of self sabotaging, 217 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 2: when you're sabotaging your own behaviors in line with reaching 218 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 2: those goals. So for a lot of as it is 219 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 2: doing the things where we're overeating, we're over snacking, somebody's 220 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: offering us food we don't really need it, but we 221 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 2: take it anyway. Or say, for example, we have meal 222 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 2: prepp to a really healthy dinner and we're like, oh, 223 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 2: I don't want that. Now I'm going to order some 224 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 2: movie eats. So it's basically doing behaviors that go in 225 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 2: opposite direction of the goals that you have, and for 226 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: most of my clients, I see it a lot when 227 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 2: the goal is purely focused on a sex when the 228 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 2: goal is I want to lose ten kilos, I want 229 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:44,559 Speaker 2: to be a size whatever, I want to look good 230 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 2: for my best friend's wedding, whatever it might be. I 231 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,559 Speaker 2: always say that you need a goal that is deeper 232 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 2: than weight loss, because when push comes to shove and 233 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 2: you've had a bad day, you're tired, you're exhausted, your 234 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 2: kids driving up the wall, it is so easy to go, oh, 235 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 2: I'm just going to have another goal of wine, the 236 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 2: block of chocolate, eat out of the tub of ice cream, 237 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 2: and I'll think about it tomorrow. So self sabotage really happens. 238 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 2: I see it a lot, Susie. When the goals are 239 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 2: aesthetic based, I always say to clients, we want to 240 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 2: have bigger goals. We want to have goals that are 241 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: focused on exercise and performance, not just doing a certain 242 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 2: amount of exercise, but focusing on the performance benefit that 243 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 2: we're going to get. We want to have goals that 244 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 2: are focused on I want to have more energy, or 245 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 2: have a better understanding of my gut health, or I 246 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 2: want to have more consistent hormones throughout the day, whatever 247 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 2: it might be, but they should be more health and 248 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 2: behavior related versus weight loss related, or aesthetics or looks related. 249 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 2: Because I feel like that's so easy to go, oh 250 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 2: screw it today, I'll just put it off on our 251 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 2: start again tomorrow. And it's that starting again tomorrow, because 252 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 2: it's not a deep enough purpose. It's not a deep 253 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 2: enough why Whereas I feel like when the wires to 254 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 2: do with your kids, or your family or your health, 255 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 2: it's a much stronger pull when the wires just about 256 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 2: looking good. Do you feel the same. 257 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: So true, and I've seen it quite a lot recently, 258 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: And the way that I try and really break it 259 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: down is first an awareness. So for example, if you're 260 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 1: trying to achieve weight loss, and we'll come back to 261 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: the role of the goal and how that fits in 262 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: the minute, as you've alluded to, but I find it 263 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: happens a lot in the home more than anything. So 264 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: for example, it will be buying wine and having it 265 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: in the house even though you're trying not to drink, 266 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: or it will be having a local meal and then 267 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: raiding the kids snacks and having twelve of them at night, 268 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 1: So it's not having a balanced approach. It's kind of 269 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: that all or nothing where it's a distinct behavior out 270 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: of noncongruent in terms of what you would say you 271 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 1: would want to achieve. And a couple of the psychological 272 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: areas of theory I wanted to talk about today was 273 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: around two ideas that you've as you said you've mentioned 274 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: so in my experience, if you feel resentful towards your 275 00:12:55,840 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: food or that you don't like it, basically, that is 276 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: often in my experience where these self sabotages will come in. 277 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 1: So in theory, you can see that you want to 278 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: achieve this goal and you've got a plan to do it. 279 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 1: But it may even be subconsciously you don't like being 280 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: told what to do, and that can stem all the 281 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: way back to childhood land. That can be that when 282 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: you were young, your parents always were very authoritarian with 283 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 1: the food, and so now if you've been told what 284 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: to do by dietitian or health professional, even yourself, subconsciously 285 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: you are resisting that authority and as such you can't 286 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: even explain why you do it because and when we 287 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: have behaviors that we almost don't understand, it makes no 288 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: sense often that subconscious programming that may often link back 289 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: to early childhood experience, particularly in the area of diets 290 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 1: and restrictions. So that's one example. In one can be 291 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 1: just defiance of authority. You may find that when anyone 292 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: tells you what to do, your natural instinct is to 293 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: arc up and say no, I don't like being told 294 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: what to do it, And I do find a lot 295 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: of executive type a driven women really struggle to let 296 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 1: go a little bit because in life in general, they 297 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: know what's best and they really struggle to let someone 298 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 1: else take over and trust in that process. So that 299 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: can be another explanation for it. The other is come 300 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: up recently as well as if there's a bit of 301 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: resentment that you feel that other people can eat what 302 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: they like and you can't. So, for example, you may 303 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: feel in you've got friends or family that when you 304 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: go to the pizza shop or when you have dessert, 305 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: they it heaps more than you do, and it's basically 306 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: not fair, and you feel like you should be entitled 307 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: to eat as much as they do. And again that 308 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 1: entitlement may come back to even when you're quite young, 309 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: you were resentful that you have to cut back or 310 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: even now you may just be annoyed that you have 311 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: to do it now. First stage in this process is 312 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: to identify what it is, and as I said, if 313 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: it's not doesn't make sense. Often it's some of that 314 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: subconscious programming that may have come from childhood or early 315 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: experience with dieting, or it's just awareness of actually why 316 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 1: am I doing that and why do I feel annoyed? 317 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: Or why do I feel resentful? Why do I feel entitled? 318 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: But then the other step is actually creating a plan 319 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: and a model that you like that has some internal 320 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: intrinsic benefit for you. So it's away from like you said, Leanne, 321 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: it's not about a weightless on the scales or you 322 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: can't have this. It has to be an inform choice 323 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: in an agency for you to direct it, because when 324 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 1: you feel that agency and control, you will get on board. 325 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: So it's about working with the health professional to create 326 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: that ease and that enjoyment out of it and finding 327 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: something interesting in the diet or trying something new or 328 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: eating in a novel way, or doing it with someone 329 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 1: else so that you don't feel it's so onerous and negative, 330 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: which is driving those self advantaging behaviors. So I think 331 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: it's just really fascinating because it can be so many 332 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: different things. It can be because our mum put us 333 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: on a diet where we were small. It could be 334 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: because our parents let us never let us have the 335 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: treats that we had. It can be because you find 336 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: a lot of your friends are slim and you think 337 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: it's not fair that you have to work harder than 338 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: they do. But these are all of the unexplained kind 339 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: of variables that can pop up explain why we do 340 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 1: the things we do and like everything. Once we understand something, 341 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 1: it's easier to make changes, and that the key long 342 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: term is to acknowledge when some of these subconscious self 343 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: sabotage behaviors may be there or be more likely, but 344 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 1: then develop a plan to make it more difficult to 345 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: do and to actually do something that you enjoy and 346 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: like so you don't feel resentful, and then it will 347 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: be much more likely to be sustainable. So in the case, 348 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 1: for example of wine, you know, where is the belief 349 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: that you can't have wine and lose weight, or how 350 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: do we incorporate wine in a way that you can 351 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 1: enjoy without feeling the need to eat or drink the 352 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: whole bottle. You know, what is the actual rule that 353 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: you like and have agency over it and have decided 354 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: rather than having it decided by someone else. So you 355 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: get that diet resentment building up. So lots of different 356 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: things going on there, but certainly things that come up 357 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: quite frequently with clients, particularly in the realm of night 358 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 1: eating and making what we would describe as relatively silly choices. 359 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: And I had a few in the holidays where I 360 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: would look at through diaries come through and I would say, 361 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: you know, why did you eat so many sausages on 362 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: the barbecue? And often the reply was, well, everyone else 363 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: was eating them, you know, And that's a little bit 364 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: of the entitlement. First it's my bit of mindless eating 365 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: going on, but it's also oh, well everyone should do it, 366 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 1: I should be allowed to. So starting to challenge some 367 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: of those beliefs or even be aware of where it 368 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: happens is a very powerful way of empowering yourself to 369 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: take control of your food, no matter what the environment, 370 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 1: and if it is sort of subconscious stuff, start to 371 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: understand and explore it, and it's really it's actually quite 372 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: interesting and when we look at it as such, and 373 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: it becomes enjoyable rather than another odorous task that we're 374 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: resenting and not wanting to do or enjoy. 375 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 2: One hundred percent. There's so much to unpack there, and 376 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 2: that's the reason that you and I both only work 377 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 2: within coaching models. We don't know for single appointments, because 378 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 2: you can't just hand someone a meal plan and say hey, here, 379 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 2: follow this, lose weight. There is so much from a 380 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 2: psychological perspective that goes into fat loss then just a 381 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 2: meal plan. And that's why I don't write meal plans. 382 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:56,160 Speaker 2: Like people contact me all the time they say, Liam, 383 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:57,879 Speaker 2: we i'll pay you write me a meal plan, as 384 00:17:57,920 --> 00:17:59,959 Speaker 2: I don't do that. I do write meal plans, but 385 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 2: only for my clients within my twelve week coaching program 386 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 2: because like you said, there is so much to unpack 387 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,400 Speaker 2: that you can't do it in a session or two. 388 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 2: And often it's the hard work. Like often I have 389 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 2: clients in tears. I don't intentionally make them cry, but 390 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 2: it's unpacking a lot of those beliefs that go deep 391 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 2: back into childhood for some of these preprogramed behaviors. And 392 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 2: I will say that you brought up some really great points, 393 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 2: and the last one I probably see coming up a 394 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 2: lot in terms of self sabotage is fear. It's subconscious, right, 395 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 2: Like they fearful that this won't work, this will just 396 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 2: be another program that they fail. So clients will say 397 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 2: to me, I ate it, and I say, why did 398 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 2: you eat it? Were you actually hungry? Oh no, but 399 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 2: I didn't want to get hungry. It's like they fear 400 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 2: getting hungry, so they're overeating at a meal time, or 401 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,199 Speaker 2: they fear missing out so they're going to go and 402 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:47,679 Speaker 2: do it anyway, or they fear failing so they're like, oh, well, 403 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm going to fail this diet anyway, 404 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 2: I may as well screw up now, and then it's 405 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,919 Speaker 2: like I didn't disappoint myself after all. So sometimes it 406 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 2: comes back to fear and that fear of failure, or 407 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 2: that fear of I've never been able to lose weight 408 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 2: because my metalbit broken, all my jeans, I'm a big 409 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 2: bone person, or whatever it might be. It's that story 410 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 2: that we've created for ourselves. But a lot of it 411 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 2: does come, you know, subconsciously, back to a fear of 412 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,360 Speaker 2: something as well. I feel like I see that come 413 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 2: up a lot when it comes to self sabotage. So 414 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 2: and often it's something simple like I fear being hungry. 415 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 2: I'm like, hunger's not going to kill you, not in 416 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 2: a day anyway, maybe if you don't go with that 417 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:23,920 Speaker 2: food for a couple of weeks, but not in a day. 418 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 2: And so many of us are fearing feeling hungry that 419 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 2: we're constantly snacking and grazing all day long, and it 420 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 2: is just leading to diet self sabotage, which is taking 421 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 2: us further away from our goals. So a lot of 422 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 2: things I think for our listeners at home to just 423 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 2: have a really good think about it and really recognize 424 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 2: that this is an area you should be working with 425 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 2: a professional in because it's really hard to break out 426 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 2: of that yourself. And if you're someone who you've been 427 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 2: trying to lose weight yourself for at least six months, 428 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 2: if not longer, it's absolutely the time to reach out 429 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:55,719 Speaker 2: to a professional such as Susie and myself or there 430 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,360 Speaker 2: are hundreds of other ones out there to get some 431 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 2: help in this area, because if you've been trying to 432 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 2: do it for six months yourself and it's not working, 433 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 2: put your hand up and say I need a hand 434 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 2: I need help, because there's nothing wrong with asking for help. 435 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 2: And that's where as professionals, particularly a credit to practicing dietisian. 436 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 2: Susie and I have spent five years at university. We're 437 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 2: trained in all of these different areas, not just the 438 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 2: food that we put in our mouth, and that's how 439 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 2: we can really make the biggest impact of people's journeys 440 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 2: long term. 441 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 1: That was a really good one. The fear of hunger 442 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: is incredibly common. And the other really important thing is 443 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: that these kind of areas take time to work through. 444 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: You know, they are a three six month period of 445 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: working through, falling down, getting back up again, building confidence, 446 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: working out what the problem is, reflecting. You know, sometimes 447 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: I'll have clients who start doing some of this work 448 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 1: and it becomes overwhelming and they throw in the towel 449 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 1: because it's too confronting or it's not the right time, 450 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: which is perfectly fine as well, but again leading to 451 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 1: what you just said, if you are someone who was thinking, 452 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 1: you know, I do have some deep bet issues around food, 453 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,360 Speaker 1: and I do need to lose a decent amount of weight. 454 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: I like hate enough time for it. This is a 455 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 1: three six even twelve month process, you know, just off 456 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: the top, of my head. I'm thinking of some of 457 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 1: my longer term clients, you know, I work with them 458 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 1: Leanne you know, for a sometimes a couple of years, 459 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 1: particularly when it comes to those big weight losses, and 460 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: it's a journey. And if you can do it as 461 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: almost say personal therapy and a journey that's benefiting you 462 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 1: and enjoy the process, it can be incredible because you're 463 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 1: building skills and control and learning about yourself and understanding 464 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 1: and observing and practicing and trying, so it can be 465 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: a really enjoyable process as well. And as I said, 466 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 1: that's probably the ideal mindset for my people to go 467 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 1: in with, is if they've got the time and the 468 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:40,199 Speaker 1: just preparedness to commit to the process even though it 469 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: may be uncomfortable. Because often when we're doing psychological work, 470 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: when it does feel uncomfortable, it's on the edge of 471 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: a breakthrough. So it's quite good to sit with that 472 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: if you can, because that's when you'll really make some 473 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:54,360 Speaker 1: significant changes to underlying behaviors which perhaps are causing distress 474 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: long term and actually taking control for good. All right. Well, 475 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 1: onto a slightly lighter topic, which is also kind of 476 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 1: lends itself to light in general, We've had quite a 477 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 1: lot of questions about salad dressing me and now I 478 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 1: know that you are a salad dressing fan. In fact, 479 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 1: you just sent me around in a picture of salad 480 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: dressing the other day. That's always one of my favorites. 481 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: It's just been the ads in the supermarket. Now I 482 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,400 Speaker 1: am boring dressing person. I am an extra version olive 483 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 1: oil by something consult I find. That's always my favorite. 484 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 1: Mind you, if I am in the States, I love 485 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 1: nothing more than a ranch dressing, which is so high 486 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: in fat. It's so delicious, So I guess just kick 487 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: us off. The first position I have is that if 488 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: you use dressing on your salad and you eat a 489 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 1: lot more, I'm actually pretty happy. I'm never going to 490 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 1: really beerate someone for using dressing overall, because it means 491 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: if you're making the fresh food taste better amazing. I think, 492 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 1: within reason, you know, you can use most dressings. You know, 493 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: if you do love creamy dressings and still stick to 494 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 1: a tablespoon or less. I don't have a massive issue, 495 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: but there are lots of healthy varieties out there. Certainly 496 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 1: in bottled varieties, there's quite a few still free ones, 497 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,879 Speaker 1: which are what we will cause zero. Now, they don't 498 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 1: have the nutritional density of say extraversional olive oil. They're 499 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 1: quite processed. You're not getting antioxidants. Are they going to 500 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: hurt you? Probably not, But I know that you're a 501 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: fan of quite a few. We've reviewed the Green Goddess 502 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,119 Speaker 1: Dressing before. I know that company does a few different 503 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 1: good ones. I also quite like the original Paul Newman's. 504 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: Then you can get Poor Newman Light in a couple 505 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: of years. But admittedly the end they are vegetab oil based. 506 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,919 Speaker 1: They don't have a great Extraversion olivoil base. Again, in 507 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 1: moderations are going to hurt you. But you love addressing, 508 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,119 Speaker 1: So what are your tips for buying and dressing in 509 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: the supermarket? 510 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, the ones I go to at home just like you, 511 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: Extraversion olive oil balsamic. I do love to show in 512 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 2: a little bit of lemon juice and some garlic as well. 513 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 2: And then my other favorite one is really based on 514 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 2: it's sort of olive oil, lemon juice and are mustard, 515 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 2: So I really like using mustard as part of addressing. 516 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,439 Speaker 2: And my other go to is using a little bit 517 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 2: of miso for a little bit of gut health benefits 518 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 2: as well, so miso mixed with a little bit of 519 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 2: again like lemon juice and garlic. Like I think that's 520 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 2: just my staple base as addressing is lemon juice, garlic, 521 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 2: then something else in there. But looking at supermarket type dressings, 522 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,680 Speaker 2: I do like that Green Goddess one, and the one 523 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 2: I sent you the other day I found, which actually 524 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 2: wasn't too bad was Marion's Kitchen tie basil lime and 525 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 2: coconut dressing. So looking at the ingredients, it's a Beigan one. 526 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 2: So it's water and coconut milk, vinegar, lime juice, chili salt, garlic, 527 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 2: tapiocre starch, coriander, basil leaves, kaffea, lime leaves, and a 528 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 2: little bit of vegetable gum. I assume it is a 529 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 2: stabilizer in there, so a very clean ingredient list. Per tablespoon, 530 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 2: it was roughly about twenty calories, which is excellent. It 531 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 2: was a like significantly lower in sugar than a lot 532 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 2: of the other ones I saw in the marketplace, zero 533 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 2: point two grams of sugar per tablespoon. Obviously it's a 534 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: little bit higher and fat because of the coconut milk. 535 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm doing a product review right now. 536 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 2: But I'm like, this is a Sunday episode. Anyway, I 537 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 2: did loves. 538 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: Okay, everyone loves the salad dressing, so. 539 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,200 Speaker 2: You're okay, yeah, I did like it. It tastes quite good, 540 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: and you don't need a whole lot like it goes 541 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 2: a long way. My other trickered salad dressings are if 542 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: you do like something that is richer and heavier calorie, 543 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 2: like a ceasar dressing like a ranch. Some of our 544 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 2: creamier ones, you say half for a tablespoon, particularly if 545 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,159 Speaker 2: you really like salad well dressed, like a lot of 546 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: my clients say, I need more than a Tablespoon's what 547 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 2: I say is a measure out a tablespoon into a 548 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,640 Speaker 2: little bowl, put a tablespoon of water and a little 549 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 2: bit of extra lemon juice and stir around. You're getting 550 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 2: basically a double amount of the dressing for half the calories, essentially, 551 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 2: so you're just going to make that dressing go a 552 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,879 Speaker 2: little bit further. And from a budgeting perspective, it's pretty 553 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,399 Speaker 2: good as well, because a lot of our creamier dressings 554 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 2: are quite thick, so you need to use quite a 555 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 2: lot of it to really get a good coating on 556 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 2: your salad. So if you're someone that likes a really 557 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 2: well coated salad, just add a little bit of water 558 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 2: to thin out the dressing a little bit. The taste 559 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 2: is still there, but you don't need to use anywhere 560 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 2: near as much. So better from a calorie perspective and 561 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,639 Speaker 2: better from a budgeting perspective as well, because you're only 562 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 2: using half the amount. 563 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 1: True, and I've had quite a few questions because I'm 564 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 1: a big fan of the premade salads in supermarkets, which 565 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 1: retail between four and six dollars. I think it's such 566 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: a cost effective way to have lunch, and they usually 567 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 1: have a decent sort of portion of dressing, and people 568 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:00,880 Speaker 1: will say or drive to throw it out, and I'm like, well, 569 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: definitely not. I think that the portions are actually quite 570 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 1: small overall. But I also find when I'm squeezing it 571 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: off and don't use the whole amount either. I bought 572 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: a family pack of Mexican salad which had a big ranch, 573 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 1: and I just got away with using quite a small amount. 574 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,120 Speaker 1: So I think it's always a matter of sort of 575 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: keeping that seasoning less, like if you love mayo, use 576 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 1: less of it overall, And through some of those ways, 577 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: they had shared and the other little chrick I have. 578 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,639 Speaker 1: If you like a wet salad, you can do a 579 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 1: little bit of hommics with like you said, the lemon 580 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: juice and water and sort of thicking it out that 581 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 1: way and spread it through and get the flavor, particularly 582 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: if you get also like the beech trip homuses. I've 583 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 1: got a lovely flavor, and I use marinated fetter. Now 584 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,199 Speaker 1: admittedly they are in palmoil as the actual oil they're in, 585 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 1: but just drain that off and then sort of crumble 586 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: it through and you get the moisture then, and then 587 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: you need a lot less stressing too, So you can 588 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: certainly use some of those more wet ingredients to give 589 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 1: the moisture without as much sort of high fat dressing 590 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 1: going through. But very rarely am I going to go 591 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 1: off about clients eating, you know, salad dressing. Salad dressing 592 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: is not usually the problem in their diet. It's getting 593 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:06,919 Speaker 1: more salad in there for them to put dressing on. 594 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 1: But there are a little few tricks. But we've got 595 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 1: an upcoming episode in the Nutrition Couch product review on 596 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: dressings again for those salad fans out there, to find 597 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: our latest favorite picks and. 598 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 2: I will also add another ingredient that I love is 599 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 2: apple side of vinegar. So there's been a lot of, 600 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 2: I guess talk about the benefits of that, and I'm 601 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 2: not really a fan of putting it in water and 602 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,680 Speaker 2: shotting it down first in the morning, because I don't 603 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,119 Speaker 2: think it does anything for the enamel and our teas. 604 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 2: But I do love using apple side vinegar as part 605 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,440 Speaker 2: of a really nice, well balanced dressing, and there is 606 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 2: a little bit of strong research to support it, you know, 607 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,200 Speaker 2: helping to stabilize blood sugar levels and you know, bring 608 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 2: down that glucose spike after a meal as well. So 609 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of apple side of vinegar. I 610 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 2: think that was a little bit of lemon juice with 611 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 2: a little bit of extraversion. Olive ail loobers and mustard 612 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 2: can go a long way in addressing as well. So 613 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 2: that's sort of another tip that I have. But you're 614 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 2: mentioning the salad packs, I definitely don't throughout the dressing. 615 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 2: I just account for that as part of the overall 616 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,199 Speaker 2: sort of calorie density of the meal. I feel like 617 00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 2: the best thing about those pre made salad kits is 618 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 2: the dressing in my opinion, and as you said, I 619 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 2: just use a little bit less. Of What I do 620 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 2: is I buy one of the salad kits and a 621 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 2: bag of either spinach or rocket, and instead of getting 622 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 2: two serves out of the salad kits, I'll get three 623 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 2: or four because I'll bulk it up with more greens, 624 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,520 Speaker 2: so that dressing you will use over three or four 625 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 2: serves and not two serves. 626 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent those the four kits. I've noticed 627 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: the dressing serves are really quite large, so you certainly 628 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 1: don't need that much. You can get away with half 629 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: of that. So that's quite handy too, all rightly. 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