1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: Do you eat your largest meal at night? Are you 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: more of a breakfast person or do you try and 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: keep your dinner small? I need to find yourself over 4 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: eating after dinner after you've been bored all day. Today 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: I'm the Nutrition Couch podcast Leanne and I share the 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 1: latest on meal time research and why the time you 7 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: eat your main meal really does matter when it comes 8 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: to weight control. Hi am Susie Burrow and Amile and 9 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: Wood and each week we'd bring you The Nutrition Couch, 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: a bi weekly podcast that keeps you up to date 11 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: on everything you need to know in the world of 12 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: nutrition as well as meal times. Today we take a 13 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,959 Speaker 1: closer look at diet self sabotage and how you can 14 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 1: work towards owning it and taking control of it. For 15 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: food and our list of question is about something very 16 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 1: pertinent at the moment, which is the healthiest salad dressing 17 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: when you're looking for one in the supermarket. So Leanne, 18 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: still nice and warm up there in Brisbane. I'd imagine 19 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: the sums really kicking in. 20 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: It is. It's been very warm. We've come out of 21 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: our little heat wave and it still hasn't really rained 22 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 2: that much, but it's been nice. The lices the weathersnash. 23 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: You know, it's nice to live in the sunshine steak 24 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 2: during summer, even if sometimes it is a little bit overwhelming. 25 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: You get a little bit of tan going, so yes, 26 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: you'll have no complaints from here. But we saw a 27 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: very interesting review paper that came through you found in 28 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: Obesity Reviews, which I thought was really interesting because if 29 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:21,759 Speaker 1: we go back to nutritional recommendations. Certainly, when I studied nutrition, 30 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: it was always about it doesn't matter when you eat 31 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: your calories as long as you don't over consume. It's 32 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: not what's eaten for this particular meal, or basically it 33 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: doesn't matter when you have them as long as you're 34 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: in calorie balance or calorie deficit when it comes to waking. 35 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: But I have to be honestly, and as a clinician 36 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: working with clients every day, I have always naturally put 37 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: what I would describe as their calories towards the first 38 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: half of the day. A lot more, I think anecdotally 39 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: would find my clients are hungrier earlier in the day, 40 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: and then inevitably a lot of us are sitting down 41 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: when it comes to the second half of the day 42 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: and relaxing in front of the TV, which is why 43 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: you know, downing the tim tams and treats while we're 44 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: watching maths. If you're a bit guilty of that at 45 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: the moment, is not the best time to have it. 46 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: But this was a research paper published in Obesity Reviews, 47 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: so a very respected journal which found and was a 48 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: systematic reviewer meta analysis, which is where they group whole 49 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 1: lots of data sets together and really take a close 50 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: look at what they're actually doing. And what they found 51 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: was incredibly fascinating because they've heard a very close relationship 52 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: between the time of day in which calories were consumed 53 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: and weight loss when there is a calorie restriction. To 54 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: basically show that the more calories people in the first 55 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,839 Speaker 1: half of the day, it's highly predictive of better weight 56 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 1: loss outcomes as part of a weight loss program. And yeah, 57 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: I know you've done some work recently with Professor John 58 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: Hawley on this on your main podcast and More Nutrition, 59 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: and you know, it really does appear the more we 60 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: understand about circadian rhythms that hormonially and we really are 61 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: programmed to burn at certain times and as such, eating 62 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: more in the second half of the day or if 63 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: you're a shift worker and find yourself routinely eating overnight 64 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: can have profound effects on weight gain and hormone levels. 65 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: And basically, and from this, what I took was timing 66 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: does matter, which is certainly something that I've always known 67 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: in my own practice. 68 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,799 Speaker 2: And certainly working in the gut heals space and the 69 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 2: fatl space as well. I'm like you, I've always naturally 70 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 2: wanted my clients eating earlier, purely just because I don't 71 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 2: want them going to bed on a full stomach, because 72 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 2: then you do feel so bloated and sluggish, and I 73 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: don't feel like the body has enough time to break 74 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 2: down all of that extra energy consumed at night time. 75 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 2: So we've always been a big fan of my clients 76 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: eating earlier, having proper well rounded lunches. But we know 77 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: what happens in reality is that the women that we 78 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 2: work with, they're busy. Often they're skipping breakfast or they're 79 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 2: fasting intentionally. Then they're having a super light lunch, often 80 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 2: just a salad or a light super or light rap. 81 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 2: Then it comes to the main meal and that's when 82 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 2: they're overdoing it. And then then they're snacking after dinner 83 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: as well. So too many of us are getting that 84 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 2: spread wrong throughout the day. And certainly we know from 85 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: the research that to lose body fat you absolutely have 86 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: to be in a calorie deficit. We can't get around that. 87 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 2: But this study was really nice because it did show 88 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 2: that consuming the greatest proportion of your calories from the 89 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 2: day earlier actually was proposed to have a more positive 90 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: influence on weight loss and health outcomes as well. And 91 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 2: they were saying that that was potentially due to this 92 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 2: greatest synchronization of the human body and the circadian rhythms 93 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 2: that it has there. So I think, really, what's that 94 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: saying sort of like eat breakfast like a king, lunch 95 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 2: like a queen, and dinner like a bob or something 96 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 2: like that. I mean it really the research is coming 97 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 2: good from that perspective. So overall, what they did, as 98 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: they had they critically appraised different types of meta analysis. 99 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 2: So this was quite a good study because they really 100 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: looked at, well, you know, meta analysis is some of 101 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: our top studies, so they critically replaced all of them, 102 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 2: and really what they were looking for was energy reduced 103 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 2: diet so diets focusing on fat loss, and what they 104 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 2: found that's through all of those studies, people who ate 105 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: earlier in those diets in line with the calorie restriction 106 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 2: as well, so you can't just eat your calorie earlier, 107 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 2: it has to be in a deficit as well. Lost 108 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 2: a significantly greater proportion of weight loss, which it was 109 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 2: clinically significant, but at the end of the day it 110 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 2: was only one point two to three kilos, so it's 111 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 2: not huge in the grand scheme of things. But what 112 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 2: I find really interesting, in line with that extra weight loss, 113 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 2: there was also improvements in insulin resistance, fasting, glucose, and 114 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 2: elder cholesterol levels, so really health and fat loss improvements 115 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 2: as well, just by eating a greater proportion of your 116 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 2: calories earlier in the day. So I think for most 117 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: of us it comes down to planning and preparing because 118 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: we're rushing around, we're busy, we're trying to get the 119 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 2: kids out of the house to school, we're sitting down, 120 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 2: we're opening up our emails, and we're just bombarded with 121 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,280 Speaker 2: work and we're not really thinking about our nutrition until 122 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 2: it gets to nighttime. So for most of us, this 123 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 2: really comes back to a proper planning and preparing can 124 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 2: actually have better fat loss outcomes and can actually have 125 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 2: better health outcomes overall as well. 126 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: I was going to say, it's funny we often say 127 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 1: the same things without discussing it. I think it falls 128 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: down for people with lunch because you start the day 129 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: and they might grab something so coffee or pastry or 130 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 1: something through the morning, and then lunch really gets pushed back. 131 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: Or for my busy mums, they're just sort of grab 132 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: and go on the run, so they're barely having it, 133 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: and then inevitably they start to snack in the afternoon 134 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: because they haven't eaten enough in the day. And then 135 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: we tend to have heavy or quicker things at nights, 136 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: so often family friendly meals like pasta and rice dishes, 137 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: Mexican pizza, they're all heavy carbohydrate based foods meals, and 138 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: then if you're going to have wine and biscuits and treats, 139 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,679 Speaker 1: so it really ends lends itself to that really high 140 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: calorie load throughout the entire second half of the day. 141 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: So a few little tricks for listens if you know 142 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: that that naturally is the way things flow for you 143 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: through the day. I would say prioritizing a meal before twelve, 144 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: So if you've had a breakfast, eat at eleven twelve 145 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: and then really try and not have much until tin enough, 146 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: because as soon as you overdo it with the snacks 147 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: and you have the protein bars or the nut bars 148 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: and the cheese and crackers, it feeds that snacking pushes 149 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: dinner back. So you know, if you can even prioritize 150 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: an earlier dinner, or if you know that dinner will 151 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: be late, eat more in the day and put their 152 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: substantial afternoon snack out three or four and really just 153 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: make another light top up. So it really comes down 154 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: to engineering the foundation to fit in with your life, 155 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: and there's many different strategies to do that, but inevitably 156 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: it means trying to put a lot more earlier so 157 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: you can leave the evening a bit lighter, even if 158 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: you are having something. You know which are the lighter choices, 159 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: like having quliflower acerosotto or having zoodle pasta with a 160 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: plain source, or having more vegetarian meals in the first 161 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: half of the week because they're lighter and we'll lend 162 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: itself to a calorie deficit even if you do find 163 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: yourself eating later at night. 164 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 2: So what you're really saying is have the wine a 165 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 2: lot earlier, like morning tea time or something. 166 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: Depends on the day. Sometimes it may certainly feel like 167 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: a wine o'clock at three or four o'clock land, but 168 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: it is. You know, we laugh about it, but it's true. 169 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: You've got a factor in the way you like to eat. 170 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: So if you enjoy treats at night, you enjoy something sweet, 171 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: or a glass of wine or a sort of sit 172 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: down meal with your partner, you have to still find 173 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: ways to make it lighter and allow for that deficit 174 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: while still having it, which often means maybe choosing a 175 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: lower calorie wine or less carbon night, or choosing between 176 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: wine or dessert, or having vegetarian or fish based wheels 177 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 1: because they're lighter than say steak or even salmon, which 178 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: can be hiring calories. So just engineering it to achieve 179 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: your goals. And again we say all the time that's 180 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: the benefit of working with a dietitian, because a dietitian 181 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: can take your personal preferences and put them into a 182 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: plan that works. You know, it maybe simple a swopping 183 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: out of sweet potatoes some nights for pumpkin, and then 184 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,319 Speaker 1: you've got room for desert or wine. So it's those 185 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: little engineering that really adds up, particularly when it comes 186 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: to this habitual structure through the day and working out 187 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 1: what the structure. And just in the past week alone, 188 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: I've engineered someone's diet to have too breakfastly and I've 189 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: engineered someone else's to sort of skip breakfast and have 190 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: sort of two lunches. So certainly when I'm talking to 191 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: clients or constantly changing it around to fit in with 192 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: their schedule and lifestyle, still achieving and how gary deficit, 193 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: but in a model of eating that suits their life 194 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: and their food preferences. 195 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 2: And just for our listeners at home, we have had 196 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 2: a couple of requests to sort of name what journal 197 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 2: article we're talking about. So this one was in the 198 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 2: Journal of Obesity Reviews and the title was Distribution of 199 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: Energy Intake across the Day and Weight Loss, a systematic 200 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 2: review and meta analysis by Young and colleagues from December 201 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,839 Speaker 2: twenty twenty two. So if anyone wants to look that up, 202 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: that is the dits of the study, all right. So 203 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 2: for the case study today, we are talking about something 204 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 2: that we see I would say on a daily basis 205 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 2: in our clinics, and it's self sabotage. So it's a 206 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 2: really common theme. It comes up time and time again. 207 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 2: Where clients say my goal is weight loss, my goal 208 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,719 Speaker 2: is hells, my goal is to get my diabetes or 209 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 2: my cholesterol under control, and then it's like, oh, hold on, 210 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 2: you went out and you had pizza, edizer and three wines, 211 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 2: Like what's happening here? Oh I just felt like it 212 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 2: in the moment, I had to have it. Everybody else 213 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:57,719 Speaker 2: was having it. I didn't want to miss out. So 214 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 2: self sabotage is a real issue or a behavioral component 215 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 2: that so many of our clients struggle with, and I 216 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 2: genuinely see it when the goals aren't lining up with 217 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 2: the behaviors. I mean, I think that's the general definition 218 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 2: of self sabotaging, when you're sabotaging your own behaviors in 219 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 2: line with reaching those goals. So for a lot of 220 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 2: as it is doing the things where we're overeating, we're 221 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 2: over snacking, somebody is offering us food we don't really 222 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 2: need it, but we take it anyway. Or say, for example, 223 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 2: we have meal prepp to a really healthy dinner and 224 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 2: we're like, oh, I don't want that. Now I'm going 225 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 2: to order some movie eats. So it's basically doing behaviors 226 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: that go in opposite direction. Of the goals that you have, 227 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 2: and for most of my clients, I see it a 228 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 2: lot when the goal is purely focused on a sex 229 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 2: when the goal is I want to lose ten kilos, 230 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: I want to be a size whatever, I want to 231 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 2: look good for my best friend's wedding, whatever it might be. 232 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 2: I always say that you need a goal that is 233 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 2: deeper than weight loss, because when push comes to shove 234 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 2: and you've had a bad day, you're tired, you're exhausted, 235 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 2: your kids driving up the wall, it is so easy 236 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 2: to go, oh, I'm just going to have another goal 237 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 2: of wine, the block of chocolate, eat out of the 238 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: tub of ice cream, and I'll think about it tomorrow. 239 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 2: So self sabotage really happens. I see it a lot, Susie. 240 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 2: When the goals are aesthetic based, I always say to clients, 241 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 2: we want to have bigger goals. We want to have 242 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 2: goals that are focused on exercise and performance, not just 243 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 2: doing a certain amount of exercise, but focusing on the 244 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 2: performance benefit that we're going to get. We want to 245 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 2: have goals that are focused on I want to have 246 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 2: more energy, or have a better understanding of my gut health, 247 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 2: or I want to have more consistent hormones throughout the day, 248 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 2: whatever it might be, but they should be more health 249 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 2: and behavior related versus weight loss related, or aesthetics or 250 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 2: looks related. Because I feel like that's so easy to go, 251 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 2: oh screw it today, I'll just put it off on 252 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 2: our start again tomorrow. And it's that starting again tomorrow, 253 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 2: because it's not a deep enough purpose. It's not a 254 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 2: deep enough why. Whereas I feel like when the wires 255 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 2: to do with your kids, or your family or your health, 256 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 2: it's a much stronger pull when the wires just about 257 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 2: looking good. Do you feel the same. 258 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:00,439 Speaker 1: So true, and I've seen it quite a lot recently, 259 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: and the way that I try and really break it 260 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: down is first an awareness. So for example, if you're 261 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: trying to achieve weight loss, and we'll come back to 262 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: the role of the goal and how that fits in 263 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: the minute, as you've alluded to, but I find it 264 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: happens a lot in the home more than anything. So 265 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 1: for example, it will be buying wine and having it 266 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: in the house even though you're trying not to drink, 267 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: or it will be having a local meal and then 268 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: raiding the kids snacks and having twelve of them at night. 269 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 1: So it's not having a balanced approach. It's kind of 270 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 1: that all or nothing where it's a distinct behavior out 271 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: of noncongruent in terms of what you would say you 272 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:41,479 Speaker 1: would want to achieve. And a couple of the psychological 273 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: areas of theory I wanted to talk about today was 274 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: around two ideas that you've as you said you've mentioned 275 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: so in my experience, if you feel resentful towards your 276 00:12:55,840 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: food or that you don't like it, basically, that is 277 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 1: often in my experience where these self sabotages will come in. 278 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 1: So in theory, you can see that you want to 279 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: achieve this goal and you've got a plan to do it. 280 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 1: But it may even be subconsciously you don't like being 281 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: told what to do, and that can stem all the 282 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 1: way back to childhood land. That can be that when 283 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: you were young, your parents always were very authoritarian with 284 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: the food, and so now if you've been told what 285 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: to do by dietitian or health professional, even yourself, subconsciously 286 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: you are resisting that authority and as such you can't 287 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: even explain why you do it. Because and when we 288 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: have behaviors that we almost don't understand, it makes no 289 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: sense often that subconscious programming that may often link back 290 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:46,319 Speaker 1: to early childhood experience, particularly in the area of diets 291 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 1: and restrictions. So that's one example. In one can be 292 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 1: just defiance of authority. You may find that when anyone 293 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 1: tells you what to do, your natural instinct is to 294 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: arc up and say no, I don't like being told 295 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 1: what to do it, And I do find a lot 296 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 1: of executive type a driven women really struggle to let 297 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: go a little bit because in life in general, they 298 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: know what's best and they really struggle to let someone 299 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: else take over and trust in that process. So that 300 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: can be another explanation for it. The other is come 301 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 1: up recently as well as if there's a bit of 302 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 1: resentment that you feel that other people can eat what 303 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: they like and you can't. So, for example, you may 304 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: feel in you've got friends or family that when you 305 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: go to the pizza shop or when you have dessert, 306 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: they it heaps more than you do, and it's basically 307 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: not fair, and you feel like you should be entitled 308 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: to eat as much as they do. And again that 309 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: entitlement may come back to even when you're quite young, 310 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: you were resentful that you had to cut back or 311 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: even now you may just be annoyed that you have 312 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: to do it now. First stage in this process is 313 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: to identify what it is, and as I said, if 314 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: it's not doesn't make sense. Often it's some of that 315 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: subconscious programming that may have come from childhood or early 316 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: experience with dieting, or it's just awareness of actually why 317 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: am I doing that? And why do I feel annoyed 318 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: or why do I f or resentful? Why do I 319 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: feel entitled? But then the other step is actually creating 320 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 1: a plan and a model that you like that has 321 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: some internal intrinsic benefit for you. So it's away from 322 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: like you said, Leanne, it's not about a weightless on 323 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: the scales or you can't have this. It has to 324 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: be an informed choice and an agency for you to 325 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: direct it. Because when you feel that agency and control, 326 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: you will get on board. So it's about working with 327 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: the health professional to create that ease and that enjoyment 328 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: out of it and finding something interesting in the diet 329 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 1: or trying something new or eating in a novel way, 330 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: or doing it with someone else so that you don't 331 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: feel it's so onerous and negative, which is driving those 332 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: self advotaging behaviors. So I think it's just really fascinating 333 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: because it can be so many different things. It can 334 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: be because our mum put us on a diet where 335 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: we were small. It could be because our parents let 336 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: us never let us have the treats that we had. 337 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: It can be because you find a lot of your 338 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: friends are slim and you think it's not fair that 339 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: you have to work harder than they do. But these 340 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: are all of the unexplained kind of variables that can 341 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: pop up explain why we do the things we do 342 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: and like everything. Once we understand something, it's easier to 343 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: make changes, and that the key long term is to 344 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: acknowledge when some of these subconscious self sabotage behaviors may 345 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: be there or be more likely, but then develop a 346 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 1: plan to make it more difficult to do and to 347 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 1: actually do something that you enjoy and like so you 348 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: don't feel resentful, and then it will be much more 349 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 1: likely to be sustainable. So in the case, for example 350 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: of wine, you know, where is the belief that you 351 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: can't have wine and lose weight, or how do we 352 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: incorporate wine in a way that you can enjoy without 353 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: feeling the need to eat or drink the whole bottle. 354 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 1: You know, what is the actual rule that you like 355 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: and have agency over it and have decided rather than 356 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: having it decided by someone else. So you get that 357 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: diet resentment building up. So lots of different things going 358 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 1: on there, but certainly things that come up quite frequently 359 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 1: with clients, particularly in their realm of night eating and 360 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 1: making what we would describe as relatively silly choices. And 361 00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: I had a few in the holidays where I would 362 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: look at through diaries come through and I would say, 363 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 1: you know, why did you eat so many sausages on 364 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 1: the barbecue? And often the reply was a well, like 365 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 1: everyone else was eating them, you know. And that's a 366 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:09,919 Speaker 1: little bit of the entitlement. First it's my bit of 367 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 1: mindless eeding going on, but it's also oh, well everyone 368 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 1: should do it, I should be allowed to. So starting 369 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: to challenge some of those beliefs or even be aware 370 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: of where it happens is a very powerful way of 371 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: empowering yourself to take control of your food, no matter 372 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 1: what the environment, and if it is sort of subconscious stuff, 373 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 1: start to understand and explore it, and it's really it's 374 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 1: actually quite interesting. And when we look at it as such, 375 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 1: and it becomes enjoyable rather than another overous task that 376 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 1: we're resenting and not wanting to do or enjoy. 377 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 2: One hundred percent. There's so much to unpack there, and 378 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 2: that's the reason that you and I both only work 379 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 2: within coaching models. We don't know for single appointments, because 380 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 2: you can't just hand someone a meal plan and say hey, here, 381 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 2: follow this lose weight. There is so much from a 382 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 2: psychological perspective that goes into fat loss then just a 383 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 2: meal plan. And that's why I don't write meal plans. 384 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,120 Speaker 2: Like people contact me all the time, they say, Liam, 385 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 2: we i'll pay you write me a meal plan, as 386 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 2: I don't do that. I do write meal plans only 387 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:03,160 Speaker 2: for my clients within my twelve week coaching program because 388 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,719 Speaker 2: like you said, there is so much to unpack that 389 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 2: you can't do it in a session or two. And 390 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 2: often it's the hard work. Like often I have clients 391 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 2: in tears. I don't intentionally make them cry, but it's 392 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 2: unpacking a lot of those beliefs that go deep back 393 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:19,199 Speaker 2: into childhood for some of these preprogrammed behaviors. And I 394 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 2: will say that you brought up some moothly great points 395 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 2: and the last one I probably see coming up a 396 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 2: lot in terms of self sabotage is fear. It's subconscious, right, 397 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 2: Like they fearful that this won't work, this will just 398 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 2: be another program that they fail. So clients will say 399 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:34,639 Speaker 2: to me, I ate it, and I say, well, why 400 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,439 Speaker 2: did you eat it? Were you actually hungry? Oh no, 401 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 2: but I didn't want to get hungry. It's like they 402 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 2: fear getting hungry, so they're overeating at a meal time, 403 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 2: or they fear missing out so they're going to go 404 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:47,719 Speaker 2: and do it anyway, or they fear failing so they're like, oh, well, 405 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm going to fail this diet anyway, 406 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 2: I may as well screw up now, and then it's 407 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 2: like I didn't disappoint myself after all. So sometimes it 408 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 2: comes back to fear and that fear of failure, or 409 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 2: that fear of I've never been able to lose weight 410 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 2: because my metalit broken, all my jeans, I'm a big 411 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 2: bone person, or whatever it might be. It's that story 412 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 2: that we've created for ourselves. But a lot of it 413 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 2: does come, you know, subconsciously, back to a fear of 414 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 2: something as well. I feel like I see that come 415 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 2: up a lot when it comes to self sabotage, so 416 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 2: and often it's something simple like I fear being hungry. 417 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:19,919 Speaker 2: I'm like, hunger's not going to kill you, not in 418 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 2: a day anyway, maybe if you don't go with that 419 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:23,920 Speaker 2: food for a couple of weeks, but not in a day. 420 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 2: And so many of us are fearing feeling hungry that 421 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 2: we're constantly snacking and grazing all day long, and it 422 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,160 Speaker 2: is just leading to diet self sabotage, which is taking 423 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 2: us further away from our goals. So a lot of 424 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 2: things I think for our listeners at home to just 425 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 2: have a really good think about it and really recognize 426 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 2: that this is an area you should be working with 427 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 2: a professional in because it's really hard to break out 428 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 2: of that yourself. And if you're someone who you've been 429 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 2: trying to lose weight yourself for at least six months, 430 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 2: if not longer, it's absolutely the time to reach out 431 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 2: to a professional such as Susie and myself or there 432 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,400 Speaker 2: are hundreds of other ones out there to get some 433 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 2: help in this area. Because if you've been trying to 434 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,479 Speaker 2: do it for six months yourself and it's not working, 435 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 2: put your hand up and say I need a hand. 436 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 2: I need help, because there's nothing wrong with asking for help. 437 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 2: And that's where as professionals, particularly a credit to practicing dietian. 438 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 2: Susie and I have spent five years at university. We're 439 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 2: trained in all of these different areas, not just the 440 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 2: food that we put in our mouth, and that's how 441 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 2: we can really make the biggest impact of people's journeys 442 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 2: long term. 443 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:21,919 Speaker 1: That was a really good one. The fear of hunger 444 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: is incredibly common. And the other really important thing is 445 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: that these kind of areas take time to work through. 446 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: You know, they are a three six month period of 447 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 1: working through, falling down, getting back up again, building confidence, 448 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: working out what the problem is, reflecting. You know, sometimes 449 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: I'll have clients who start doing some of this work 450 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 1: and it becomes overwhelming and they throw in the towel 451 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 1: because it's too confronting or it's not the right time, 452 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: which is perfectly fine as well, but again leading to 453 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 1: what you just said, if you are someone who was thinking, 454 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 1: you know, I do have some deeper issues around food, 455 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,400 Speaker 1: and I do need to lose a decent amount of weight. 456 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: I like hate enough time for it. This is a 457 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 1: three six even twelve month process. You know, just off 458 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: the top of my head, I'm thinking of some of 459 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 1: my longer term clients, you know, I work with them Leanne. 460 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,440 Speaker 1: You know, for a someone's a couple of years, particularly 461 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: when it comes to those big weight losses, and it's 462 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: a journey. And if you can do it as almost 463 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: a personal therapy and a journey that's benefiting you and 464 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 1: enjoy the process, it can be incredible because you're building 465 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 1: skills and control and learning about yourself and understanding and 466 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 1: observing and practicing and trying, so it can be a 467 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: really enjoyable process as well. And as I said, that's 468 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: probably the ideal mindset for my people to go in with, 469 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: is if they've got the time and the just preparedness 470 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 1: to commit to the process even though it may be uncomfortable. 471 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 1: Because often when we're doing psychological work, when it does 472 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,439 Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable, it's on the edge of a breakthrough. So 473 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 1: it's quite good to sit with that if you can, 474 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 1: because that's when you'll really make some significant changes to 475 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: underlying behaviors which perhaps are causing distress long term and 476 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: actually taking control for good. 477 00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 2: All right. 478 00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 1: Well, onto a slightly lighter topic, which is also kind 479 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 1: of lends itself to light in general. We've had quite 480 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: a lot of questions about salad dressing there, and now 481 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 1: I know that you are a salad dressing fan. In fact, 482 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: you just sent me around in picture of salad dressing 483 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 1: the other day. That's always one of my favorites. It's 484 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,959 Speaker 1: just been the ads in the supermarket. Now I am 485 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 1: boring dressing person. I am an extra version oliveil by 486 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: something consult I find that's always my favorite. Mind you, 487 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: if I am in the States, I love nothing more 488 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: than a ranch dressing, which is so high in fat, 489 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:32,360 Speaker 1: but it's so delicious, So I guess just kick us off. 490 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 1: The first position I have is that if you use 491 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 1: dressing on your salad and you eat a lot more, 492 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm actually pretty happy. I'm never going to really beerate 493 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: someone for using dressing overall, because it means if you're 494 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: making the fresh food taste better amazing. I think, within reason, 495 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 1: you know you can use most dressings. You know, if 496 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: you do love creamy dressings and still stick to a 497 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 1: tablespoon or less. I don't have a massive issue, but 498 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 1: there are lots of healthy varieties out there, certainly in 499 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: bottled varieties, there's quite a few still free ones which 500 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 1: are what we will call zeroies now, they don't have 501 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: the nutritional density of say Extraversion olive oil. They're quite processed. 502 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 1: You're not getting antioxidants. Are they going to hurt you? 503 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,440 Speaker 1: Probably not, But I know that you're a fan of 504 00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 1: quite a few. We've reviewed the Green Goddess Dressing before. 505 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 1: I know that company does a few different good ones. 506 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 1: I also quite like the original Paul Newman's. Then you 507 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: can get poor new in light in a couple of years. 508 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,879 Speaker 1: But admittedly the end they are vegetable oil based. They 509 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 1: don't have a great Extraversion olivot base. Again in moderations 510 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,239 Speaker 1: are going to hurt you. But you love addressing, So 511 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: what are your tips for buying and dressing in the supermarket? 512 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, the ones I go to at home just like you, 513 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: Extraversion olive oil balsamic. I do love to show in 514 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,640 Speaker 2: a little bit of lemon juice and some garlic as well. 515 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,159 Speaker 2: And then my other favorite one is really based on 516 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 2: it's sort of olive oil, lemon juice and are mustard, 517 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,640 Speaker 2: So I really like using mustard as part of addressing. 518 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 2: And my other go to is using a little bit 519 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,360 Speaker 2: of miso for a little bit of gut health benefits 520 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 2: as well, So mes mixed with a little bit of 521 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 2: again like lemon juice and garlic. Like I think that's 522 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: just my staple base as addressing is lemon juice garlic 523 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 2: than something else in there. But looking at supermarket type dressings, 524 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,680 Speaker 2: I do like that Green Goddess one, and the one 525 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 2: I sent you the other day I found, which actually 526 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 2: wasn't too bad was Marion's Kitchen Tie basil lime and 527 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 2: coconut dressing. So looking at the ingredients, it's a beigin one. 528 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 2: So it's water and coconut milk, vinegar, lime juice, chili salt, garlic, tapiogre, starch, coriander, 529 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 2: basil leaves, kaffea, lime leaves, and a little bit of 530 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 2: vegetable gum. I assume it is a stabilizer in there, 531 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 2: so a very clean ingredient list. Per tablespoon, it was 532 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,479 Speaker 2: roughly about twenty calories, which is excellent. It was a 533 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 2: like significantly lower in sugar than a lot of the 534 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,239 Speaker 2: other ones I saw in the marketplace, zero point two 535 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 2: grams of sugar per tablespoon. Obviously it's a little bit 536 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 2: higher and fat because of the coconut milk. I feel 537 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 2: like I'm doing a product review right now, but I'm like, 538 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 2: this is a Sunday episode. Anyway. 539 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 1: I did like, Okay, everyone loves the salad dressing, so you're. 540 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I did like it. It tastes quite good, 541 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 2: and you don't need a whole lot like it goes 542 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 2: a long way. My other trickle salad dressings are if 543 00:24:57,240 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 2: you do like something that is richer and heavier calorie, 544 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 2: like a ceasar dressing, like a ranch. Some of our 545 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,119 Speaker 2: creamier ones, you say half for a tablespoon, particularly if 546 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,199 Speaker 2: you really like salad well dressed, like a lot of 547 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 2: my clients say, I need more than a tablespoons. What 548 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 2: I say is measure out a tablespoon into a little bowl, 549 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 2: put a tablespoon of water and a little bit of 550 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 2: extra lemon juice and stir around. You're getting basically a 551 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 2: double amount of the dressing for half the calories, essentially, 552 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 2: so you're just going to make that dressing go a 553 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,879 Speaker 2: little bit further. And from a budgeting perspective, it's pretty 554 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,439 Speaker 2: good as well, because a lot of our creamier dressings 555 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 2: are quite thick, so you need to use quite a 556 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 2: lot of it to really get a good coating on 557 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 2: your salad. So if you're someone that likes a really 558 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 2: well coated salad, just add a little bit of water 559 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 2: to thin out the dressing a little bit. The taste 560 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 2: is still there, but you don't need to use anywhere 561 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 2: near as much. So better from a calorie perspective and 562 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,679 Speaker 2: better from a budgeting perspective as well, because you're only 563 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:46,639 Speaker 2: using half the amount. 564 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 1: True, and I've had quite a few questions because I'm 565 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,959 Speaker 1: a big fan of the pre made salads in supermarkets, 566 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,400 Speaker 1: which retail between four and six dollars. I think it's 567 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: such a cost effective way to have lunch, and they 568 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 1: usually have a decent sort of portion of dressing, and 569 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 1: people will say I'll drive to throw out, and I'm like, well, 570 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: definitely not. I think that the portions are actually quite 571 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 1: small overall. But I also find when I'm squeezing it 572 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: off and don't use the whole amount either. I bought 573 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 1: a family pack of Mexican salad which had a big ranch, 574 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 1: and I just got away with using quite a small amount. 575 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 1: So I think it's always a matter of sort of 576 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 1: keeping that seasoning less, like if you love mayo, use 577 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: less of it overall, and through some of those ways 578 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: they and shared and the other little chrick I have. 579 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 1: If you like a wet salad, you can do a 580 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 1: little bit of hommus with like you said, the lemon 581 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: juice and water and sort of thicking it out that 582 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 1: way and spread it through and get the flavor, particularly 583 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 1: if you get also like the beech triot homicses. I've 584 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 1: got a lovely flavor, and I use marinated fetter. Now 585 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 1: admittedly they are in palm oil as the actual oil 586 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: they're in, but just drain that off and then sort 587 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 1: of crumble it through and you get the moisture then, 588 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,239 Speaker 1: and then you need a lot less stressing too, So 589 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 1: you can certainly use some of those more wet ingredients 590 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: to give the moisture without as much sort of high 591 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 1: fat dressing going through. But very rarely am I going 592 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: to go off about clients eating, you know, salad dressing. 593 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 1: Salad dressing is not usually the problem in their diet. 594 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 1: It's getting more salad in there for them to put 595 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: dressing on. But there are a little few tricks. But 596 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,959 Speaker 1: we've got an upcoming episode in the Nutrition Couch product 597 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 1: review on dressings again for those salad fans out there 598 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 1: to find our latest favorite picks. 599 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 2: And I will also add another ingredient that I love 600 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,879 Speaker 2: is apple side of vinegar. So there's been a lot of, 601 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 2: I guess talk about the benefits of that, and I'm 602 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:25,680 Speaker 2: not really a fan of putting it in water and 603 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 2: shotting it down first thing in the morning, because I 604 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,159 Speaker 2: don't think it does anything for the enamel and our teaths. 605 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 2: But I do love using apple side of vinegar as 606 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 2: part of a really nice, well balanced dressing, and there 607 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 2: is a little bit of strong research to support it, 608 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 2: you know, helping to stabilize blood sugar levels and you know, 609 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,360 Speaker 2: bring down that glucose spike after a meal as well. 610 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:42,919 Speaker 2: So I'm a big fan of apple side of vinegar. 611 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 2: I think that with a little bit of lemon juice, 612 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 2: with a little bit of extraversion olive oil, looms and 613 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 2: mustard can go a long way in addressing as well. 614 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 2: So that's sort of another tip that I have. But 615 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 2: you're mentioning the salad packs, I definitely don't throughout the dressing. 616 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 2: I just account for that as part of the overall 617 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 2: sort of calorie density of the meal. I feel like 618 00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 2: the best thing about those pre made salad kits is 619 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 2: the dressing in my opinion, and as you said, I 620 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 2: just use a little bit less of What I do 621 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 2: is I buy one of the salad kits and a 622 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,880 Speaker 2: bag of either spinach or rocket, and instead of getting 623 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 2: two serves out of the salad kits, I'll get three 624 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 2: or four because I'll bulk it up with more greens 625 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 2: so that dressing and I will use over three or 626 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 2: four serves and not two serves. 627 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent those the four kits. I've noticed 628 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: the dressing serves are really quite large, so you certainly 629 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 1: don't need that much. You can get away with half 630 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: of that. So that's quite handy. 631 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 2: Too, all rightly. 632 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: And that brings us to the Nutrition Couch for another Sunday. 633 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: Have it done, So please tell your friends about us. 634 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 1: We continue to rise in the charts and we're very 635 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 1: grateful for your support, So keep telling your friends about 636 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: us so we can keep bringing you the Nutrition Couch 637 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,439 Speaker 1: twice a week. 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