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<v Speaker 1>My Heart podcasts. Hear more Kiss podcast playlist, and listen

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<v Speaker 1>live on the Free iHeart Appo Pickup with Brittle and

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<v Speaker 1>Laura Ben Lady. Your what our windows done? That's my world?

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<v Speaker 1>Risen the dust only good fable. I've done much, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know our big get and what I want. It

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<v Speaker 1>don't matter where. This is the pick up. Happy Monday everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening to the Pickup with Bret Hockey and Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a happy Monday for some of us, particularly.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about a professional dancer in the room myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyone who missed it last night was dancing with the

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<v Speaker 1>stars and our very own sorry, come on, credit where

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<v Speaker 1>credits you? I do agree, I'm so sorry I left

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<v Speaker 1>that out. You were amazing and who won the semi finals?

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<v Speaker 2>Me?

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<v Speaker 1>Who won the Sorry? Was there atrocal question? I did? Yay?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I did you get the top score last night? Which

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<v Speaker 1>is pretty cool? You also got a ten. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't know what that feels like because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>come close to a ten. I think I got a

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<v Speaker 1>seven and that was my highest score. Did I do seven?

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<v Speaker 1>You did some good dances, though, I reckon they must

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<v Speaker 1>have been tough.

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<v Speaker 2>On you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't think so. Anyway, I got to come

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<v Speaker 1>on and give you some hot tips.

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, so if you missed it, I was in

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<v Speaker 2>the studio one day and Laura decided to surprise me

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<v Speaker 2>to give me some Dancing with the Stars tips.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the most helpful thing about Laura coming in

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<v Speaker 2>was that it just relaxed me.

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<v Speaker 1>Was good morale, boos song.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't helpful at all.

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<v Speaker 2>But the technique because she didn't have any up here,

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<v Speaker 2>is just as important as damn it.

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<v Speaker 1>He looks so good, you actually look so dat. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just here to support your mental well being. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>here for any hot tips when it comes to dancing,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think we've all established if anyone watched me

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<v Speaker 1>on Dancing with the Stars, I'm not particularly good at it,

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<v Speaker 1>so who am I to give advice?

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<v Speaker 2>But that way anyway, I am through to the Grand Final,

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<v Speaker 2>which will be next Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>If you do want to support me, watch how much

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<v Speaker 1>how much chance do you think you have of winning it?

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<v Speaker 1>I would have said.

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<v Speaker 2>None if you asked me a week or two ago,

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<v Speaker 2>but then like to win the semi final night and

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<v Speaker 2>get a ten.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, maybe I'm not as bad as

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, Like, maybe I don't know. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>because my.

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<v Speaker 2>kIPS dislocate and so my leg goes really high, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think that that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to get me through.

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<v Speaker 3>You are.

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<v Speaker 1>You are definitely a lot bendier and a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>flexible than I ever knew. I feel like I'm learning

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<v Speaker 1>things about you from watching you on Dancing with the Stars.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. Well anyway, we know if radio goes tits up,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got another career in you. I want to know, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever accidentally called someone by the wrong name?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it wasn't just the wrong name. Maybe it was

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<v Speaker 1>a term of affection, just an awkward situation where you've

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<v Speaker 1>accidentally coined someone by a name you really shouldn't have.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely once called the guy that I was seeing

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<v Speaker 2>we're in bed on my birthday and I called him

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<v Speaker 2>by my ex's name, or went down like a lead balloon.

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<v Speaker 1>As in you were in bed bed or just like

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<v Speaker 1>laying in bed, just as I said I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we need a visual but because it's different, right,

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<v Speaker 1>was it in the throes of passion or was it

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<v Speaker 1>just accidental, just.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we just woke up, It was just morning time.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing was sexy, was happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say, I think you know how people

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<v Speaker 1>talk about baby brain, like I think baby brain has

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<v Speaker 1>taken over for me. I said the other week, how

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<v Speaker 1>I accidentally introduced my husband to a random guy? Is

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<v Speaker 1>your husband's name? Hi? This is my husband Ben?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Ben? Did I have questions about that? But anyway, not

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<v Speaker 1>my husband's name at all. Well, I also I've done

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<v Speaker 1>it again, and this one, I would say is arguably worse.

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<v Speaker 1>So my dad, who I love dearly. He lives on

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<v Speaker 1>a remote little island. He is an ex like army vet.

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<v Speaker 1>He just he's not a super big people person, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And like we text message a lot, we speak on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone infrequently, but I keep him updated with photos

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<v Speaker 1>of the girls. And We've been recently rentoing a house

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<v Speaker 1>down south, and I've been sending him reno content because

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<v Speaker 1>he really enjoys it. But we also are not super

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<v Speaker 1>super affectionate, you know, like we'll say like love you

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<v Speaker 1>and that sort of stuff, but we're not like a

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<v Speaker 1>really really affectionate family. Yeah, okay, okay, So I was

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<v Speaker 1>sending him some pets of the kids, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>was sending him some photos at the renovation, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I also send him a text message and I said, this,

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<v Speaker 1>how crazy is this before and after daddy? And there's

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<v Speaker 1>something really humbling about being an almost forty year old

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<v Speaker 1>woman and calling your dad daddy. So I then freaked out,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, naturally, except this is happening in text message,

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<v Speaker 1>in real time, and I was like, ha ha ha,

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry. I didn't mean to call you daddy. That

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<v Speaker 1>was just a weird autocorrect moment. And all I got

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<v Speaker 1>from my dad was I got left on red for

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<v Speaker 1>half an hour and then I got a thumbs up, Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>why did you double down? Just let it go, move on,

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<v Speaker 1>send some more pitches. You can't just call your father

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<v Speaker 1>daddy and then just move on. It's you know why.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because I call my husband daddy, which sounds weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Also not in a sexy way, as in like because

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<v Speaker 1>like the kids call him daddy. So I'll be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>go and ask daddy or do this for daddy. Hate

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<v Speaker 1>to get away with that with Matt, not with your

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<v Speaker 1>own dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Daddy, check my child's out, Daddy, Like that's sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's giving like how the Royal family, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>they call their momm He's still like, yeah, there has

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<v Speaker 1>to be an age limit. Mums is different though, because.

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<v Speaker 2>Mummy mummy's not used in that like sexual connotation that

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<v Speaker 2>that tone.

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<v Speaker 1>Daddy is, Daddy is in hey, daddy, Sorry, Grace is

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<v Speaker 1>in the same sex relationship right now. It's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's not true if we definitely mummy each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I also recently called my boss honey, like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what's wrong with me, but it needs to stop.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not okay, it's inappropriate.

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<v Speaker 2>You make me feel wildly uncomfortable a lot when I

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<v Speaker 2>call you names. Now, when you call my boss honey

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<v Speaker 2>in front of me, I'm like, I don't call him honey.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I need to ca him money? IM getting pay rise?

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<v Speaker 1>And why not doing something? We got ash on the line, Ash,

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<v Speaker 1>What did you accidentally call someone?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, lady, I called working in childcare? I called one

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<v Speaker 3>of our currents daddy literally told him love you, daddy

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<v Speaker 3>as he was handing his child over to me to

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<v Speaker 3>leave for work.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you say you love him?

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<v Speaker 3>Busy morning?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what childcare is like?

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<v Speaker 3>Busy morning was yet the detective so hot, which was

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<v Speaker 3>more embarrassing. I think we just kind of both looked

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<v Speaker 3>at each other gave each other like a mortified smile

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<v Speaker 3>and a bit of aut uha and yeah less of the.

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<v Speaker 2>Day, like love you, daddy, go figure that one out,

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<v Speaker 2>detective love.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And then I had his daughter for the next

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<v Speaker 3>four years.

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<v Speaker 4>So very awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes me feel slightly better at least mine actually

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<v Speaker 1>is my daddy likes, not a random kid's dad. Thanks Ash,

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<v Speaker 1>We've got Harrod on the line, Harriet. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>accidentally call someone?

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<v Speaker 4>I was two weeks into a new job and I

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<v Speaker 4>got her an email from my colleagues, Bobby, asking me

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<v Speaker 4>if I could do some training, and I replied ye,

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<v Speaker 4>no worries. Except instead of saying hi, Bobby, I wrote

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<v Speaker 4>hi Booby and I spent the email.

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<v Speaker 1>They're so innocent. I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Would you rather call someone Booby or

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<v Speaker 1>Daddy that you work? I don't know that's up to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Carry what would you proper?

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<v Speaker 4>I would say daddy to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Booby respond Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>And I didn't know that I'd done it until she

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<v Speaker 4>replied saying, oh, normally my friends only called me that

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<v Speaker 4>I guess they're friends. Now, Well play my email and say,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my god, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>My friends only call me daddy, usually not my daughter,

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<v Speaker 2>because my girlfriends call me daddy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, it will stop, mixed up. I hate everything, Harriet. No,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, Dad just gave me a thumbs up

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<v Speaker 1>in true dad style. Worse. That's worse. Yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he just like continued on. He didn't even acknowledge the

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<v Speaker 1>auto correct excuse I came up with.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they should ban the thumbs up. I think

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<v Speaker 2>they should take the emoji out. I don't think anything good.

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<v Speaker 1>Comes from it. Yeah, it's like passive aggress passive.

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<v Speaker 2>It's never in support, but it really is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the ultimate Dad move to just send a

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<v Speaker 1>thumbs up and be like, we're all awkward. Never do

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<v Speaker 1>that again. Move on. You know what time of the

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<v Speaker 1>year it is, Brittany. Unfortunately, I somehow do, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure how I know. Okay, Well, actually we're still

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of time off this, and the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why we're talking about it is because I refuse to

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<v Speaker 1>forget again this year. So book Week, August sixteen, it starts. However,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a bit of a gripe, and I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>whether I'm alone in my parenting on this or whether

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<v Speaker 1>other parents feel the same. Why is book Week a week?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is it not book Day?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably the most commonly asked and generally left unanswered question, Laura.

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<v Speaker 1>No parent has time for a week. Book week?

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<v Speaker 2>Book Day, I should say, is a brilliant idea. I

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<v Speaker 2>love what is behind it, but I don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>many parents that have one, two, three, four kids that

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<v Speaker 2>need to make five costumes each per kid?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's too much. Well, this is the thing we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about last week, and Britt, like, you didn't realize this.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's fine in schools because schools do our day,

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<v Speaker 1>they do one day. And I absolutely am all behind it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so nice for kids to get excited about reading

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<v Speaker 1>and their characters, and my kids absolutely love it. The

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<v Speaker 1>problem is is that if you have a kid that's

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<v Speaker 1>in preschool, every single day of that week is book Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Is in daycare four days a week, So that's four

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<v Speaker 1>costumes I've got to come up with. And then this

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<v Speaker 1>year it's Maley May's first year of kindergarten, and so

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<v Speaker 1>Bookweek is such a big deal. And now the truth

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<v Speaker 1>is every single year, I have forgotten about book Week

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<v Speaker 1>until the day of the morning. Yeah, and it's become like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like maybe other parents will relate to this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like I'm the morning of book Week

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm running around the house and I'm ripping apart

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<v Speaker 1>the costume box and I'm trying to find a book

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<v Speaker 1>that relates to a costume that we have. Last year,

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<v Speaker 1>Lola went on Monday as a dinosaur and Maley went

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<v Speaker 1>as Bell from Beauty and the Beast. We just luckily

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<v Speaker 1>had a book about dinosaurs and we had to be

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<v Speaker 1>in the Beast book. That's perfect. Yeah, that's too much work, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>So have you started to prep this year. No, I've

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<v Speaker 1>just put it in the calendar. At least it's in

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<v Speaker 1>the calendar. But you know what your problem is.

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<v Speaker 2>You also need to put in the calendar like two

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<v Speaker 2>days in advance, not the day off.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't help you. There's just too much going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm too pregnant firstly, and we're very busy with work

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm on the wine down, like I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>prepare for the fact that we're adding another child to

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<v Speaker 1>the equation, let alone running around doing book Week stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's too much. I'm picking up a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of an energy here.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want me to make a costume this year?

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<v Speaker 1>I will do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I will make the best Auntie Brittany costume that your

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<v Speaker 2>kids have ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>For book Week.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if my actually a creative, but I'm enthusiastic.

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<v Speaker 1>You are enthusiast. I've seen you with a hot glue

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<v Speaker 1>gun and some sparkles. My girl, you can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe in you. I think after the last two

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<v Speaker 1>years of book Week costumes that my kids have been

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<v Speaker 1>subjected to, they'll take anything to your honor.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, why don't we do that? Why don't I

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<v Speaker 2>make Marley May?

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<v Speaker 1>You can do all of Lola's that sounds I'll take

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<v Speaker 1>the other kid. What's the other one's name?

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<v Speaker 2>For the other one, I will take Marley May because

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<v Speaker 2>she's got one day, so I'll do that challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go to Spotlight.

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<v Speaker 2>Spotlight have everything you absolutely need for book Week. So

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<v Speaker 2>they've got actually they've got pre made costumes. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to do a premate. I'm going to make

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<v Speaker 2>one with my bare hands.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't even asked what she wants yet. She might

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<v Speaker 1>want something really complex. Oh is she very specific? She's

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<v Speaker 1>Molly May is my specific child, and she will pick

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<v Speaker 1>the exact book and she will know if you have

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<v Speaker 1>not followed it to a tea. That's why she's so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why it's just easier to forget before I often

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<v Speaker 1>to make it. Well, why don't we get Molly May

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<v Speaker 1>in here.

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<v Speaker 2>She can give me her requests for what she wants

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<v Speaker 2>and we'll go from there.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, perfect, Molly May is going to Brittany.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad that you've said this live because it means

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<v Speaker 1>you can't take it back, so you can. Yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>all back. I'm all for it. You can make a

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<v Speaker 1>costume this year and you can be Auntie of the

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<v Speaker 1>Year and take a load off me. I'm very proud

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<v Speaker 1>of that. I'll do that for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I only have a dog, so I don't have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of responsibility.

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<v Speaker 1>I do dress her up. But anyway, I did see

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of Daulilah. I mean wait, I didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>a picture. I was there Delilah and a veil at

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<v Speaker 1>your wedding. She really went all out. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>Delilaho's winning. Is this okay? We'll watch this space for

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<v Speaker 1>what I come up with later in the week.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I have a bit of an update for you

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<v Speaker 2>on well, I don't want to say a health condition,

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<v Speaker 2>but I guess it is in a way a health condition.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think it's a really important PSA for literally

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<v Speaker 2>everybody listening right now. Like if you guys have been

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<v Speaker 2>following along with me personally or the radio show or

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast, you know, I would have spoken about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But a few years ago, I basically like I had

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<v Speaker 2>to burn my whole face off with this topical chemotherapy

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<v Speaker 2>for a pre skin cancer.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went to the doctor.

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<v Speaker 2>About these like tiny little spots on my face, Like

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<v Speaker 2>there were just two that I thought were funny and

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<v Speaker 2>they wouldn't go away.

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<v Speaker 1>One was on my lip and one was on my forehead.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking like just a bit of discoloration really, but

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<v Speaker 2>it was also quite dry, and I just thought, just weird,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not going like I was doing all the moisturizer

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<v Speaker 2>and whatever else. And I went to my skin doctor

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<v Speaker 2>and I ended up going through some testing, but I

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<v Speaker 2>got diagnosed with something called solar keratosis, which a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of you might have heard about. It's essentially called pre

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<v Speaker 2>skin cancer. So if left can and probably will turn

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<v Speaker 2>into a skin cancer.

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<v Speaker 1>How do they have any idea of how long it

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<v Speaker 1>takes to transition or is it just one of those

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<v Speaker 1>things where you're like, it's so some people it could

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<v Speaker 1>be years for other people could just be like unlucky, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, it depends how long it's been there for,

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<v Speaker 2>so it essentially will transition, So you need to deal

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<v Speaker 2>with it basically, And I guess this is why it's

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<v Speaker 2>so important to get an early diagnosis before something can

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<v Speaker 2>spread or turn into something nasty. And so the treatment

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<v Speaker 2>for that is what I just said. It's a topical chemotherapy.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's this, like it's so cytotoxic. You have to

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<v Speaker 2>put gloves on, you have to specially order it, and

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<v Speaker 2>you cover your face in it, and your whole face

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<v Speaker 2>is like the most red, raw.

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<v Speaker 1>Burnt scab, Like it's so painful.

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<v Speaker 2>Your whole face just basically is being killed, I guess

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<v Speaker 2>for want of a better word. And essentially it takes

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of weeks, it scabs over, peels off, and

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<v Speaker 2>the idea is the bad parts go and you regenerate

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<v Speaker 2>with nice skin again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I remember when you did because We

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<v Speaker 1>were on radio at the time and you were a

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<v Speaker 1>bit like turn the cameras off, and I mean, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be careful with because I think even

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<v Speaker 1>the way you explained it then could scare people away

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<v Speaker 1>from doing it, like it was nowhere near as bad

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<v Speaker 1>as you probably felt like it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, my update is I went back for It's been

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<v Speaker 2>two years actually, which is probably too long.

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<v Speaker 1>It definitely is too long. I just sort of put

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<v Speaker 1>it off.

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<v Speaker 2>I went back on the weekend and I have to

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<v Speaker 2>do it again, so I have two spots again, and

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<v Speaker 2>I have to do this whole treatment again where I

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<v Speaker 2>have to burn my face off with this chemotherapy. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I mean, we joke about me saying turn the

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<v Speaker 2>cameras off last time, but I still went to work,

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<v Speaker 2>I still put on my socials.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to advocate for it, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm going to do it even more so

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<v Speaker 2>this time because it's really scary and like two in

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<v Speaker 2>three Australians are going to get skin cancer in their life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the stat. Yeah, the stat's so crazy. But also

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel like if you've grown up in Australia,

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<v Speaker 1>if you spent any time out in the sun. Just

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<v Speaker 1>remember to go and get checked, because like you can

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<v Speaker 1>go and do your mole mapping these days, you can

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<v Speaker 1>go in and it's the consistency because unless you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's changed half the time, you don't actually know what's wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, I think I grew up really just

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that having things burn off you was pretty normal.

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<v Speaker 1>Like my mum, my grandpa, parents, everyone has had different

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<v Speaker 1>skin things burn off them over the years. It's funny

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<v Speaker 1>now looking back because it's so not normal, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>just such a condition of being in Australia and the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that for so long we had such a crazy

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<v Speaker 1>tanning culture and I know some people still still subscribe

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<v Speaker 1>to it. But we were kids of the eighties and

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<v Speaker 1>the nineties, like we were outside hardly any sunscreen, sun

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<v Speaker 1>baking all the time. And now it's really come out,

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<v Speaker 1>like just how damaging that's really is for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Part of me is like, oh my god, I can't

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<v Speaker 2>be any to do this again, but the other part

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<v Speaker 2>of me really wants to advocate for you to go

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<v Speaker 2>and get a skin check. Like if this is your

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<v Speaker 2>reminder right now, if you're in the car and you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I've been putting that off for so long.

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<v Speaker 2>Do not put it off. Go and book your appointment now.

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<v Speaker 2>When you pull over in your car, go and call.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember to keep an eye on everything on your body.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's changed, if it's gotten darker or drier, if

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<v Speaker 2>it's a regular you need to go and get a check.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I know, Bri. And that also is like the

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<v Speaker 1>reminder I need because it's been a couple of years

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<v Speaker 1>since I've been. And it's one of those things where

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, ah, I'll go what it happened to me? Yeah, yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean two and three probably means as the likelihood

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<v Speaker 1>it will happen to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, you're going to see it all play out because

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<v Speaker 2>unfortunately we do film everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, all right, guys, Well that is it from

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<v Speaker 1>us today,