1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: For myself, I was really when I was trying to 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: find my dharma, I was like waiting for approval of others. 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: So just to drop the need to gain the approval 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 1: of other people and to trust that you know your dharma, 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: and that really gave me a level of freedom to 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: not seek validation, to not seek anyone else giving me 7 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 1: a gold star, and just to trust even if it 8 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: didn't make sense to anyone else around me. And for 9 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: anyone who you know may have this idea and it 10 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: feels weird or far off or it's not logical, to 11 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,919 Speaker 1: really trust that and honor it because part of it 12 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: is related to your dharma. 13 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Rise in Kunka Podcasts. I'm your 14 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: host Georgie Stephenson, fulmer, lawyer turned entrepreneur, social media personality 15 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: and personal development junkie. This podcast is for my girl 16 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 2: gang who want to feed their mind with positive and 17 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 2: expansive thoughts to help them step into their power and 18 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 2: live their most authentic life. We chat a variety of 19 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 2: topics including mindset, business, relationships, health, and so much more. Basically, 20 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 2: wherever you are on your journey, I want to help 21 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 2: you feel inspired and empowered to rise up and conquer 22 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 2: your next bold move. I know that's going to look 23 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 2: different for everyone, but just no, I'm right here by 24 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 2: your side and that you have the RNC community behind you. 25 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 3: Let's do this. 26 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 2: Hello and welcome to season four of The Rise and 27 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: Conquered podcast. To kick off the season, we are chatting 28 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: with Sahara Rose. Sahara has blessed the podcast with her 29 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 2: presence before, so I'm so excited to have her back 30 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 2: on the show and to unpack her new book, Discover 31 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: Your Dama. If you haven't heard of Sahara before, she 32 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 2: is a best selling author, public speaker, and host of 33 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 2: the popular podcast The Highest Self. I was lucky enough 34 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 2: to be one of the first to read her new book, 35 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 2: and can I just say it is incredible. Discover Your 36 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 2: Dama is all about discovering your sole purpose and really 37 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: discovering your why. As we are entering a new year 38 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 2: and I'm sure we all have some new goals or passions, 39 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 2: I thought this episode was very timely and also very 40 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 2: insightful for those who feel like they may not necessarily 41 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 2: have found the dama or purpose in life yet, but 42 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 2: after twenty twenty, they're on the hunt. So yeah, I 43 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 2: thought this episode would be so good for the New year. 44 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: It was such an incredible chat. Let's get straight into 45 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 2: the show. Hi, Sahara, and welcome back to the Rising 46 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 2: Conquer podcast. 47 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having me. It's an honor 48 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 3: to be back. Georgie. 49 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 2: I'm so excited to have you back. And today we 50 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: are talking about your new book, Discover Your Drama. Can 51 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 2: I just say, first of all, congratulations. I am just 52 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 2: about finish this book. 53 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 3: I was very. 54 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: Lucky to get it early, and it is amazing and 55 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 2: I just could not wait to tattoo about it. 56 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: That makes me so excited because you're really one of 57 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: the first people to have read it, so I'm so 58 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: glad you're enjoying it. 59 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: No, honestly, Sahara, it's amazing and I was just like, 60 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 2: oh my god, I cannot wait to get her on 61 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 2: the podcast and tell everyone. And also when this podcast 62 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 2: will go live, it will be literally the start of January, 63 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: and I feel like it's the perfect timing for someone 64 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 2: to read this book and really dive deep because they're 65 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: probably still going to be on holidays and you know 66 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 2: that New Year energy, and I think especially after twenty twenty, 67 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: it has been a lot. It's been a big yea, 68 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: and I think we've all got more of this, I 69 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 2: guess consciousness and just seeing things in a different perspective, reflecting, 70 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: and Yeah, I just couldn't think of the better time. 71 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean it's interesting because I started this book 72 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 1: almost two years ago, and I obviously knew twenty twenty 73 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: was going to be a big year, but I didn't 74 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: really realize how big or how it would take shape. 75 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: And we're in this really interesting time right now because 76 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: we're experiencing the biggest job loss and the biggest job 77 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: transition in modern history, and the opportunity for us to 78 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: really create a life that is more in alignment with 79 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: our gifts, our talents, our strengths, and to use this 80 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: moment right now to really ask ourselves, how do I 81 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 1: want to continue to show up and be part of 82 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: this world, and how can I make it more in 83 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: alignment with my purpose. 84 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 2: I really resonate with that would alignment for the end 85 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 2: of twenty twenty. It really is something that I have 86 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 2: been reflecting, especially as I'm reading your book. It's just 87 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 2: been instilled and I'm like, alignment is what I need 88 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty one. 89 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, alignment is you know, essentially for all 90 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: parts of your life to be in clarity with who 91 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: you are out this time. And that's not a one 92 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 1: time process. It's going to continue to shift, just like 93 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: your dharma is not a one time thing. It's to 94 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: forever be in alignment with your truth. 95 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 2: Yes. Well, okay, so before we get ahead of ourselves, 96 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 2: I want to ask you a question that I'm going 97 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: to be asking all my Season four guests and also guys, 98 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 2: I just want to preface this and let you guys 99 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: know that out like we were kind of saying at 100 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 2: the start, me and Sahara did a podcast probably a 101 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 2: good two years ago and it is amazing. I will 102 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: link it in the show notes, and I highly recommend 103 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 2: if you have listened to that podcast, also go back 104 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 2: to that podcast. So that's why you just in case 105 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 2: you're confused by I mean Sahara kind of talk like 106 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 2: was spoken before we have and so I highly recommend 107 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 2: going back to that episode. But Sahara a question I'm 108 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:20,239 Speaker 2: asking all my Season four guests, and that is, what 109 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: is your favorite quote that helps you rise and conquer? 110 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 3: Hmmm? 111 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: So this quote was an affirmation I created when I 112 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 1: was feeling really overwhelmed by all of the things, because 113 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 1: sometimes when you're you know, doing your purpose, lack and 114 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: show up. And it is I receive the support I 115 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: need so I can focus my energy on my dharma. 116 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: And I even like printed out postcards and I like 117 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: have them around my office because sometimes we get so 118 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: busy doing so many other things that aren't actually related 119 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: to our dharma, just like you know, the paperwork, the 120 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: nitty gritty, all of these different things. So for me, 121 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: it was really calling upon that support so I could 122 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: pour more energy into what it is that I am 123 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: here to do. 124 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 2: That is beautiful. 125 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 3: I love that. 126 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: And so for the listeners who I don't know, you, 127 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: could you give us a bit of a snapshot of 128 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: who Sahara is and what you do. 129 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: So I am an ancient soul in a modern body. 130 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: I am here to raise the vibration of the planet 131 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: and to help show you that your greatest form of 132 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: joy is also in alignment with your greatest form of service. 133 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:37,679 Speaker 1: And I have written books, multiple books on ayr Veda, 134 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: the world's oldest health system and the sister science of 135 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: yoga based on the mind body connection. I have an 136 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: oracle card deck in journal called The Yoga Path, a 137 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: podcast called Highest Self Podcast, and really I'm here to 138 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: be a bridge and show people that spirituality living in 139 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: alignment with your truth doesn't have to be this like weird, 140 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: far off thing, but it can actually be really grounded, 141 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: approachable and easy. 142 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: I love that you wrapped that up so well. And 143 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 2: guys at Sahara's podcast, the Highest Self Podcast is amazing 144 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 2: to highly highly recommend also go and check that out. 145 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 2: But Sahara, let's get straight into your book because I'm 146 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: so excited. Like I said, I'm just about to finish it, 147 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 2: and it has really come at an amazing time for me. 148 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 2: As we are recording this, guys, it is still twenty 149 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 2: twenty right at the end, you guys will hear this 150 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty one. But for me personally, I have 151 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 2: just gone through some transitions in my life. I recently 152 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 2: had a miscarriage and then I also had a big 153 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 2: surgery where I had my breast implants removed, and I'm 154 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 2: just finished my recovery. But I guess I've had a 155 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 2: lot of time to reflect and then also just twenty 156 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 2: twenty being a huge year, and this book has has 157 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 2: just been such a catalyst and an amazing tool for 158 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 2: me to reflect and think about, you know, what is 159 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: truly important to me and what I want my life 160 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: to look like. And then what I was saying before 161 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 2: about living in alignment. So, Sahara, could you explain to 162 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 2: the listeners what your book, Discover Your Dama is about 163 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 2: and what gave you the idea to write a book 164 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 2: like this. 165 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: M Yeah, So for me, it began with my own 166 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: journey of questioning if I had a purpose. I you know, 167 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: I lived my life trying to help as many people 168 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 1: as possible. I always knew that was my purpose. I'm 169 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: here to help people, but I just looked around of 170 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: who's helping the most people? Okay, mother Teresa? Should I 171 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: become a nun Gandhi? Should I, you know, try to 172 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: start a political protest? Like what do I do to 173 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: help people? And in my family, no one was living 174 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 1: in alignment with their dharma. My mother was a refugee, 175 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: my dad was an immigrant, so it was really focused 176 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,599 Speaker 1: on survival. So I went to college thinking I was 177 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: going to be an international human rights lawyer, and it 178 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: was when I was working with different NGOs that I 179 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: realized that it really wasn't using my gifts. I wasn't 180 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 1: using my creativity or my communication skills, and I wasn't 181 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 1: really feeling the people that I wanted to help. So 182 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: I felt really confused of what my purpose could be 183 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: because my identity of just wanting to help people was 184 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: sort of, you know, stripped away from me when this 185 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: career that I was going after was not a fit. 186 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: And at this time, I really wasn't sure what my 187 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: purpose was, and I was dabbling around with so many 188 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 1: different ideas, and I began to experience different health issues 189 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: which brought me to ayer Veda. Now, in studying Ireveda, 190 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: it really first began for myself. How can I feel 191 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: better in my body? How can I digest food? How 192 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 1: can I bring my hormones back into balance? My body 193 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: had gone into paramenopause when I was twenty one years old, 194 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: so I became obsessed with learning everything about Iraveda healed 195 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: my body, and then naturally wanted to share it. So 196 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: my goal was I really want to write this book 197 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 1: on ire Veda. And now at this point, my family 198 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: was like no, no, no, no, no, that's not a career, 199 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: Like you're going to become a starving artist like that 200 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: is not something that you are, that you are meant 201 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 1: to do at all, You're gonna end up homeless. And 202 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,959 Speaker 1: when they saw I wouldn't listen, it would get worse 203 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 1: and worse, and you know, it would just really turned 204 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: into a lot of fights and then threatens, threats to 205 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: be disowned and saying that I was selfish for living 206 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 1: a purpose or that I was ungrateful, and I was confused. 207 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: And it was hard because a lot of a lot 208 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: of me believed it too. You know, I didn't know 209 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: if maybe I was going to end up homeless trying 210 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 1: to write this book, or you know, maybe living your 211 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: purpose is the story they tell you as a kid, 212 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: They tell you to follow your dreams and you grow 213 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: up and then oh no, that was bullshit. That was 214 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 1: like Santa Claus, you weren't actually supposed to follow your dreams. 215 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 1: And I was like, wait, am I still believing in 216 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: this fairy tale that doesn't actually exist? So it was 217 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: hard because part of me could feel I had a 218 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: purpose and another part of me was like, where's the proof. 219 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: And it was in those years back and forth that 220 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: I really began to you know, I began to see 221 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: that the world around me it was not in alignment 222 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: with who I was, and that the true directory of 223 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: my life was not one that I that I was 224 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,199 Speaker 1: excited about. So at this time I began to dive 225 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 1: deeply into spirituality and realizing all of the limiting beliefs 226 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: that I had, the you know, childhood situations that we 227 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: all have ancestral et cetera, and that to me was 228 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: really when the seed of living my dharma was planted. 229 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: And I realized that I had to go through those 230 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: obstacles with my parents, of not believing in me, of 231 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: being disowned of, you know, going through this deep, deep uncertainty, 232 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: so I could find truth and trust within myself and 233 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: be able to you know, sit before people who don't 234 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: believe in me and who you know are questioning what 235 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 1: I'm doing, and to honor myself enough that that doesn't 236 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: stop me. That was the unique training that my soul needed, 237 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: and that's why it manifested into this situation. So this 238 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: concept of dharma really came to me when I finally 239 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 1: wrote this book on Araveda, and I walked up to 240 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 1: Deepak Chopere at a conference, and you know, before I 241 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 1: knew it, he wrote the forward to my book and 242 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: has written now the forward of three of my books, 243 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: and people would always ask me, how are you doing this? Like, 244 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: how are you living your dreams? How are you able 245 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 1: to express yourself? And I realized, you know, the story 246 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: behind the story was the how. And that's when I 247 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: began to on my podcast talk a lot more about 248 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 1: living your dharma and breaking down different ways and processes 249 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: that people can go through to help them not only 250 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: find theirs, but trust it enough to take action on it. 251 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: And that's what inspired me to write this book. 252 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 2: Wow, that is just insane, and I loved writing that 253 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 2: story in the book of really how You've got to 254 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 2: this point? And I think that I really love that 255 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: you chat about is this concept of how the lessons 256 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 2: that you go through are really the catalysts to you 257 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 2: know it, finding your drama and going towards at you know, 258 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 2: the path that you're supposed to be on. So, just 259 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 2: to be very clear, so is it correct in saying 260 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 2: that the word dama means your purpose? 261 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 3: Yeah? 262 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 1: So it's your soul's purpose. It is the big reason 263 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: why you are here. 264 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. 265 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: So it is beyond any one career or one role 266 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: or one project, But it's really the how. So thinking 267 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: of it like your mission statement, right, Like I'm here 268 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 1: to bring beauty to this world. I'm here to connect 269 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: people to their hearts. I'm here to understand the world 270 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: in a deep way. I'm here to raise consciousness, et cetera. 271 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: So your dharma is that mission statement that transcends and 272 00:14:56,080 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 1: connects any role, project, careers, jobs, et cetera. And those 273 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: are really kind of like the services underneath it. So 274 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 1: your dharma is eternal. Your soul chose your dharma, according 275 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: to Veadic belief, prior to you incarnating on this planet. 276 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: It knew your purpose and it chose the situations, the body, 277 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: everything that you were born into as your unique training 278 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 1: for you to embody your dharma. So we were born 279 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: with a purpose, but that doesn't mean we're all going 280 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: to live it necessarily. We were born with these gifts, 281 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: these strengths, these talents, this knowing, but then we come 282 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: to this planet and we forget, and it's the process 283 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: of remembering again, remembering your truth, remembering who you are. 284 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: And these are the obstacles that we're going to face. 285 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: And it can look like so many different ways for 286 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: so many different people, but it's really the training for 287 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: us to cultivate the strength, the courage, the grounding, whatever 288 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: that might look like for you, so you can really 289 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: step into an embodiment now of. 290 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 3: This Darma. 291 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 2: And I love this. Something that I have really been 292 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 2: leaning in too recently with my recent personal events is 293 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 2: the mantra of life happens for me, not to me, 294 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 2: meaning that you know when even negative things or you know, 295 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 2: quote unquote negative things happen, not seeing them as oh, 296 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 2: of course you know this negative thing would happen, but 297 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 2: seeing them as like you said in regards to a lesson, like, 298 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 2: how is this teaching me? What am I learning to 299 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 2: get closer to my Dama? 300 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: Yes, every single lesson I go through in life, now 301 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 1: I zoom out, what is this teaching me? Okay, I 302 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 1: see the lesson here, and then it takes you out 303 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 1: of being so stuck in things or not being able 304 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 1: to find your way out, or the victimhood, which you 305 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 1: know is so easy for the ego mind to put 306 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:49,359 Speaker 1: ourselves in the y me, the y me, and like, okay, 307 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: what is this training me? What is this teaching me? 308 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 1: What is this helping me see that I may not 309 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: have seen before? And now how can I transmute it? 310 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:05,439 Speaker 2: Yes? I love that this episode is brought to you 311 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 2: by Naked Harvest Supplements, the natural supplement company I co 312 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 2: founded with my brother. This company was really brought to 313 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 2: life because I have been using supplements for such a 314 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 2: long time since the start of my fitness journey. But 315 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 2: what I really struggled to find was all natural supplements 316 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 2: without the crap, that were tailored to women's health and 317 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 2: that actually tasted good. And that's how Naked Harvest Supplements 318 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 2: was born. Our hero products are a natural pre workout 319 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 2: and our vegan Thrive Protein. Our natural pre workout is vegan, 320 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 2: gluten free, refined sugar free, and is a natural energy 321 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 2: boost without the crash. This is your go to to 322 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: enhance your workout and to get you in the mood 323 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 2: to conquer your day. My favorite flavor is sweet Strawberry, 324 00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 2: which literally tastes like strawberry cloud, Oh my God. And 325 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:05,239 Speaker 2: tropical iced tea which tastes like that lipped and iced 326 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 2: tea drink. It is so refreshing. Our Thrive plant protein 327 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 2: is also vegan gluten free, refined sugar free, and it 328 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 2: is so smooth for a vegan protein. 329 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:16,879 Speaker 1: I know. 330 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 2: Our nhgang loves cooking with it or using it in 331 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 2: that post workout smoothie, and so do I. My favorite 332 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:28,640 Speaker 2: flavor for the Thrive is definitely our newest pancake batter flavor. 333 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 2: It is the real deal and tastes exactly like the name. 334 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 2: If you want to enhance your performance and optimize your day, 335 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 2: try Naked Harvest. Now. I've also got a special code 336 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 2: for my Rise and Conquer podcast listeners. Just type in 337 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 2: Rise and Conquer Podcasts out checkout to receive a sneaky 338 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 2: discount that is Rise and Conquer Podcasts, and the end 339 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 2: is spelt out. It is not the simple. I'll also 340 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,120 Speaker 2: pop the links in the show notes if you want 341 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 2: to check that out. But let's get back into the episode. 342 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 2: And so in the first chapter, I highlighted this line. 343 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 2: I even I underlined it. I really enjoyed it, and 344 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 2: I'm going to read it out to you and I 345 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 2: would love for you to explain it to the audience. 346 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 2: So it reads this journey is what prepares and unlocks 347 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 2: the power, wisdom, strength and vulnerability that you need to 348 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 2: truly embody your drama. You were born knowing, but only 349 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 2: through the quest of remembering are you ready to embody. 350 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 3: So what does it mean to you. 351 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 2: For me, I loved this because it was kind of 352 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 2: what I was talking about in regards to, you know, 353 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 2: going through certain things in your life and going through 354 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 2: certain lessons and realizing that. I guess like the analogy 355 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 2: that came to my mind was like, you know, when 356 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 2: you're peeling away add an onion and you're going through 357 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 2: the layers and you're seeing different things and you're learning 358 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 2: different lessons. Bit the whole thing is actually the journey, 359 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 2: not necessarily the thing in the middle. 360 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 3: Does that make sense totally? Yes, And it is all 361 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 3: about the journey. 362 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 1: I think so many people think, Okay, once I find 363 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 1: my purpose, then I'm done, and it's like this mountain 364 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: top that you reach the top of and then you're 365 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 1: chilling forever. And that's not really how it goes. It's 366 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 1: more of a mountain range. You know, you get to 367 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 1: one summit and then you go down, and then you 368 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: find another one and you go down. And it's not 369 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: so hierarchical as we try to make it think, and 370 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: that we're trained, like you know, you do grade school 371 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 1: and until you graduate or you climb the corporate ladder, 372 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 1: and I see it more of a spiral. You know, 373 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 1: like you have a level of awareness. You go about 374 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: and you live your life and you come back to 375 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 1: that very same thing with a deeper level of awareness, 376 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 1: and the spiral never ends. You just continue to journey 377 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: and journey and journey and get deeper and deeper and deeper. 378 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 1: M sorry for yeah, so you know. And the other 379 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 1: thing about that specific sentence is, you know, the it's 380 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: about remembering. I think so many of us think how 381 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:17,159 Speaker 1: do I find my dharma? I know for myself, I 382 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: was like, how can I find this purpose? It's like 383 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 1: this like easter egg that I had to go out 384 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 1: there and find. And it's not so much about finding it. 385 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 1: It's not outside of you. It's more about remembering who 386 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 1: you are. So imagine your purpose is you with just 387 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,160 Speaker 1: your naked body, right, It's you and your most natural state, 388 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,400 Speaker 1: and you, throughout your life have put on socks and 389 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:43,679 Speaker 1: pants and jackets and hats and gloves and layers and 390 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:46,880 Speaker 1: all of these different layers upon layers upon layers, which 391 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: are conditioning. Society believes all of these different structures we're 392 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 1: holding onto. So your dharma is not so much about 393 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 1: now finding something else. It's about the deconditioning unraveling, letting go, 394 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: and the more that you can let go of everything 395 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 1: it is that you are not, the more you can 396 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: step into who it is that. 397 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 3: You truly are. 398 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 2: I love that last sentence that was that it is 399 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 2: so true, and I feel like also sometimes we go 400 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 2: through life and you kind of explain this in the book, 401 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 2: where you know, we wear certain masks and we wear 402 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 2: certain titles, and it's like at some point we kind 403 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:33,880 Speaker 2: of picked these things up and are kind of facilitating 404 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 2: our life under them. But when did we actually, you know, 405 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 2: want to do these things. Was it what other people 406 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 2: put on us? Or is it truly what we believe 407 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 2: in who we. 408 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 3: Want to be? Mm hmm yes. 409 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: Is it because you think will help you survive or 410 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: because you think it will help you thrive? 411 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,400 Speaker 3: Because there's a very big difference in there. 412 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. And something I would love to get into is 413 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 2: the concepts of Kira. Am I saying that right Korea, Korea, 414 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 2: my Australian accent is not doing that any favorites Kira 415 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 2: and Karma. So this was really interesting to me because 416 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 2: the way that you explained Karma, I had always seen 417 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 2: it in a different sort of concept. So I would 418 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 2: love for you to explain to the audience what these 419 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 2: two concepts mean. 420 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we were all born, imagine on this highway, 421 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,360 Speaker 1: and the end of the highway is your dharma. It's 422 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 1: you at your fullest expression. It's who you truly are 423 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 1: meant to be. Now you're going down this highway, you're 424 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: on cruise control, and that's when you're experiencing the flow. 425 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 1: You know, you're feeling inspired, you're excited, you're meeting the 426 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 1: right people at the right time. You're tuning into a 427 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 1: podcast hearing exactly what it is you need to hear. 428 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 1: You're having the exact conversation that gives the spark to 429 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: the next thing. And you may experiencing nicities or coincidences, 430 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: and this is actually normal, like you are supposed to 431 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 1: live your life this way. Life was meant to be 432 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:11,640 Speaker 1: lived in flow. And this is Korea, which is boundless 433 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: action from the universe. So the universe is propelling you 434 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 1: now in the direction of your dharma. However, we're on 435 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 1: this highway and there are many exits off of this highway. 436 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: So this is when we see people saying, oh, come 437 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 1: over here, you'll make more money doing this, or your 438 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,479 Speaker 1: parents will only be proud of you if you do that, 439 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: or well, everyone who graduated from school is moving over here, 440 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 1: or you know what, like dharma doesn't even really exist. 441 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 1: Just get off here before it's too late. And we 442 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 1: see everyone around us is going off these different exits, 443 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 1: so you begin to question, wait, is something wrong with 444 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: me to keep going? Does this darma place even exist? 445 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 1: Should I get off the exit while I can? Isn't 446 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 1: more safe? And most of us will get off an 447 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: exit at a certain point in our lives, maybe throughout, 448 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: and that exit it at first It the universe doesn't 449 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: want you to not be in alignment with your darma 450 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 1: because the universe can only come into balance when we're 451 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: all living in alignment with our truth. It needs it 452 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 1: needs us all, and that's why it's meant to feel good. 453 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 1: If you feel good living in alignment with your dharma, 454 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 1: then the universe can become whole. 455 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 3: Now. 456 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 1: The opposite of that, which is what we listen to 457 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: as humans, is pain. You know. It's just like when 458 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 1: your when your foot is infected, you're going to experience pain, 459 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: and that's your body's way of saying something's wrong here. 460 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,880 Speaker 1: Pay attention to this. That's how our human bodies just work. 461 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 1: We often don't leave a relationship, et cetera until we 462 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,360 Speaker 1: feel a certain amount of pain. So we get off 463 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 1: this exit and at first the universe begins to tap 464 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 1: tap tap, Hey, something's off. This job is not not 465 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 1: in alignment with your truth. You're not supposed to be here, 466 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: so that could feel like anxiety or just this, yeah, 467 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 1: this feeling like I don't know, something's energetically off, or 468 00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:01,120 Speaker 1: you're just not feeling inspired, you're feeling feeling blocked. However, 469 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: most of us choose not to listen. We think that 470 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: that's normal. 471 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 3: Life's tough. 472 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 1: Get a helmet, so you keep going in that same direction, 473 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 1: and the universe is like, Okay, she is not listening. 474 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:16,159 Speaker 1: Punch punch, punch. That can look like a breakdown, a 475 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:20,399 Speaker 1: panic attack, depression, something to really knock you off of 476 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 1: your feet for you to notice. And again, we might 477 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 1: just start drinking more or medicating more, or doing something 478 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: else to numb ourselves so we can continue to persevere 479 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: through this. We think that that's what life is. It's 480 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 1: a series of unfortunate events, right, And then the universe 481 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: is like, wow, she's really not listening, And that's when 482 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,199 Speaker 1: it can turn into a collision, something so big that 483 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,959 Speaker 1: you have no choice but to look at that. 484 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 3: You are knocked off your feet again. 485 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: That could be physical, that could be in a more 486 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: metaphorical way, and that's your choice right there to listen. 487 00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 3: Now, some people still do not. Some people live like this. 488 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: Breakdown after breakdown after breakdown, and that's their whole life. 489 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: They're not listening, they're not pivoting. However, many of us 490 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 1: finally in that breakdown moment, and I'm sure everyone who's 491 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 1: listening to this, if you're listening to this podcast, you 492 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 1: are wanting to make your life better in some sort 493 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 1: of way. So from that breakdown, we pivot, you turn, 494 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: We figure out, Okay, what is feeling out of alignment. 495 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 1: Maybe it's this job I'm showing up at it every day, 496 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 1: or this relationship or this home, et cetera. And then 497 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: from there you start to get momentum back. You're going 498 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: back towards that highway you were born on, back towards Korea. 499 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,360 Speaker 1: But at first it could feel really hard because you've 500 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 1: moved so far away from it. So one thing that 501 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:48,199 Speaker 1: I share in the book is sometimes to get to 502 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,920 Speaker 1: the path of least resistance, we have to follow the path. 503 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: We are the most resistant too. So if you have 504 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: been living forever in that series of unfortunate events, which 505 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 1: is car bounded action by the universe, then at first 506 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 1: it may feel really uncomfortable for you to go back 507 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 1: into flow. You don't even know what that feels like. 508 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 1: It feels so unnatural for you, and you may have 509 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 1: made a lot of decisions that have prevented you from 510 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: getting there. So it's maybe having breakups, tough conversations, quitting 511 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 1: of jobs, confrontations, et cetera. But I think of it 512 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 1: as like you're on a beach, right, You're on the sand, 513 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 1: and your dharma is out in the open waters. Now 514 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,679 Speaker 1: to get out to those open waters, you got to 515 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 1: move through those waves. And those waves are now the 516 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: personal resistances that you have of I'm not good enough, 517 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: or it's too late, or someone else is doing it, 518 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: or I'm not worthy of it, et cetera. And as 519 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 1: you go through those waves, you begin to get stronger, 520 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: you learn how to navigate them, you are able to 521 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 1: circumvent them, and before you know it, you're out in 522 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 1: those open waters and you're like, ah, this is what 523 00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 1: the path of least resistance was meant to feel like 524 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 1: this is what the korea and the flow is meant 525 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 1: to feel like. So that karma is the bounded action 526 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 1: by the universe, which is the universe trying to propel 527 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:13,040 Speaker 1: you back into your dharma. However, to get there, you're 528 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: going to face some personal resistances now that are your 529 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 1: own limiting beliefs that are often tied to feeling unworthy, confused, etc. 530 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 1: And I go through each and everyone in the book 531 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 1: the most common obstacles that are keeping us from our dharmas. 532 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 1: But I think that's where a lot of people get stuck. 533 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: I know I would get stuck of like, if I'm 534 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 1: supposed to follow the path of least resistance, then shouldn't 535 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 1: I just like do nothing and like let it happen 536 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 1: for me? And it's not that you know, we are 537 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: all creators and Creatrix is in human form, so the 538 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: very reason that it desires inside of us means that 539 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 1: it is meant for us. I always share in the book, 540 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 1: your dreams are dreaming you back. The very reason why 541 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: they are your dreams is because it's meant to be 542 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: part of your reality. However, like mentioned, those waves are 543 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: those obstacles that you get to over come to further 544 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 1: sheep you to embody that purpose. 545 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 2: I love that analogy so much. And it's funny because 546 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 2: I actually released a podcast a couple of weeks ago, 547 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 2: and I spoke about the concept of a struggle, and 548 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 2: I think from a young age I developed this limiting 549 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 2: belief that you know, to achieve something or get somewhere, 550 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 2: you have to have this concept of struggling together like 551 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 2: grit and it being super hard. And recently, in the 552 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 2: last couple of years, I've actually switched that around where 553 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 2: in my business I take the path that feels aligned 554 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 2: and less resistant, even if it's not what everyone else 555 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 2: is doing, and even if it feels too easy. But 556 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: so often I find that, like you were saying in 557 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 2: regards to things are meant to feel good, things are 558 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 2: meant to feel easy, things are meant to feel in flow. 559 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 2: And I think it's kind of a bit of a 560 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 2: as society, you know, the whole you know, sleep when 561 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,960 Speaker 2: you're dead, and like you know that sort of like 562 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,719 Speaker 2: Gary the energy where it's like very full on and 563 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 2: you've got to struggle. And don't get me wrong, I love, 564 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 2: you know, putting in action and putting in work, but 565 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 2: one hundred percent there's something in when things feel in 566 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 2: alignment and things feel in flow. 567 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 1: Yes, And it's knowing the nuances of when to push 568 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: and when not to. So there's that personal resistance, which 569 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 1: is the like I don't want to have this tough conversation, 570 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: or you know this job is not that bad, so 571 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: I might as well keep doing it, or oh maybe 572 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 1: he'll change. And these are your own personal resistances that 573 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 1: those are things that might feel really scary and intimidating 574 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 1: and the last thing you want to do to overcome, 575 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: but you know they're going to bring you towards more expansion. 576 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 1: Then there's the universe resistance, which is like why why 577 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: are you really doing it? Like do you even want 578 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 1: this end goal? Or are you doing it because you 579 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 1: feel like you're not going to be worthy or validated 580 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 1: or enough or accomplished, et cetera if you don't And 581 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: really looking at that, because I think that so often 582 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 1: we like either go into the that super Gary V 583 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: and I love Gary V, and it's just like I 584 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: would like I would love to stay with gary V. 585 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 1: And it's like what's your why, Like what is the 586 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 1: what is the big reason why? And I do believe 587 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 1: that he is connected to your dharma. But but like 588 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: looking at what is what is the energy that you 589 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 1: want to live in and the energy that you want 590 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: to create. Now, some people like myself, when I like 591 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 1: didn't know how to take action, I needed that gary 592 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: V medicine was so helpful for me. And then at 593 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,720 Speaker 1: certain other chapters in your life you need to learn 594 00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 1: how to trust and flow and surrender, whereas for other 595 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 1: people that might not be the medicine they need right now. 596 00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,240 Speaker 1: So that's why I love looking out the personal versus 597 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: universal resistance. So then it's not really like this one 598 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 1: size fits all. It's is this a block? But if 599 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 1: I go through it, it's going to make me feel 600 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 1: more expansive or it's going to make me feel more contractive. 601 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 3: So true. 602 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 2: And I think it's also as you go through those 603 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 2: different things almost like the more you go through them, 604 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 2: the more you know them m h exactly. 605 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 1: And I think, yeah, we begin to feel more of 606 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 1: the nuances of why. And that's why I love feeling 607 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 1: in my body of like what does expansive and contractive 608 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 1: feel like? So you know, expansive for each person is 609 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 1: going to feel different, like for you, Georgie, what does 610 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: expansive feel like in your body. 611 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 2: For me, like I was kind of saying before, it 612 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 2: feels like this sense of almost alignment and peace and happiness, 613 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 2: and even though I'm so happy to put in the 614 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 2: work and I actually kind of thrive in that aspect, 615 00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 2: but it feels like I guess the only way I 616 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,960 Speaker 2: can describe it is it just feels right. It just 617 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 2: feels like me. It just feels right. 618 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,959 Speaker 1: And what are some things that you do in your 619 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 1: darma that help you feel like that? 620 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 2: A huge thing for me. I used to work like 621 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,359 Speaker 2: corporate law. I used to have to get to work 622 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 2: at seven point thirty. And something that I realized is 623 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 2: my morning routine is huge. So sitting down meditating and 624 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 2: journaling and having a slow morning completely sets me up 625 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 2: in the perfect like mind frame and attitude to take 626 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,320 Speaker 2: on the day. And I can notice a huge difference 627 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 2: when I don't do those sorts of things. 628 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 3: I love that. 629 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 1: And what are some things that you do in your 630 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 1: business that help you feel like that? 631 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 2: For me, I love doing things where I'm a big 632 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 2: controlling person, so I like to be on top of everything. 633 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 2: I like to have lists, I like to I'm a 634 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 2: big pitter energy person. So I like to have that 635 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,399 Speaker 2: sort of aspects where I'm in control, I have list, 636 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 2: I know what is happening. But also what I find 637 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,759 Speaker 2: works really well for me is when I do sort 638 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 2: of you know, surrender and step back. And because I 639 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,400 Speaker 2: do have a team now and I kind of you know, 640 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 2: let them be in their zones of genius. I find 641 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,840 Speaker 2: that is really powerful in us going a lot further 642 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 2: than me kind of you know, being super controlling all 643 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:35,879 Speaker 2: the time. 644 00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, And I think that that's what's important to 645 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,040 Speaker 1: see where do I feel alive and if it's for 646 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 1: you doing the more pita you know, organizational or directional, 647 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: et cetera, to let yourself keep doing that and to 648 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,920 Speaker 1: also feel well, when does it feel contractive? So for you, 649 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 1: what does contractive feel like in your body. 650 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 2: When I'm stressed, when I'm agitating, and when I'm feeling 651 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 2: like scattered like all over the place. 652 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: And what are some things that you do in your 653 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 1: business that make you feel like that. 654 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:18,360 Speaker 2: When I'm micro managing people and when I'm getting to 655 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 2: I find i'm more of like the visionary. I like 656 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 2: to oversee things and make sure you know everything is 657 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 2: going well. But in this kind of biggest scale rather 658 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 2: than being in the nitty gritty details. 659 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 3: Totally. 660 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: So for everyone listening to this, having that as your 661 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 1: compass of what feels expansive, what feels contractive, what does 662 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:41,880 Speaker 1: it feel like in your body, and then what are 663 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 1: things that you do so moving towards more of that 664 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 1: expansive feeling, things that help you for you be in 665 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 1: your pit, to be in that creator zone, and then 666 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,799 Speaker 1: moving away from the needing to micromanage, et cetera. So, 667 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 1: for me, expansive feels like just like being on top 668 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: of a hill with my arms open and my chest 669 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 1: broad and there's so much space in my body and 670 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,319 Speaker 1: i can just stretch out and I'm just reaching and 671 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 1: growing and it feels like a big, deep stretch throughout 672 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 1: my body. And when I'm in conversations like podcasting, I 673 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 1: really feel like that. When I'm just in flow in 674 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 1: my communication, I feel like that. And then for me, 675 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,360 Speaker 1: contracted feels like that feeling when I'm on an airplane 676 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,839 Speaker 1: for too long and they're like four more hours, I'm 677 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 1: like no, and I'm just like reminiscing on the days 678 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 1: where I like had a bed and you know, taking 679 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 1: for granted those days I could stretch out my legs. 680 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,520 Speaker 1: And when I feel like that in my business or 681 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 1: in my dharma, that's when I am feeling like I 682 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:42,520 Speaker 1: have to put out fires, that I have to do 683 00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 1: it all myself, that I'm not feeling supported. So now, 684 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 1: knowing that in myself, and that's why the quote that 685 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 1: I started with was all about support for me, I 686 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,480 Speaker 1: know that I need to, you know, set myself up 687 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 1: to be in that contractive feeling as less as possible. 688 00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,919 Speaker 1: Does that mean I'm never going to have it again 689 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,600 Speaker 1: in my life? No, There's always going to be situations 690 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 1: where you are going to feel contractive. But seeing that 691 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:09,240 Speaker 1: again as the karma, as that that compass south point 692 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 1: that you need to shift away from, and then your 693 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:15,880 Speaker 1: north point being the thing that makes you feel flow expansive. 694 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 3: Korea hmm, I love that. 695 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,880 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for sharing on that too, and 696 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:24,080 Speaker 2: thank you for asking me. Yeah, I want to switch 697 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 2: gears and I want to chat about the four types 698 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 2: of drama. Could you let the audience know what these are? 699 00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 3: Yeah? 700 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:36,200 Speaker 1: So, you know, in my research of helping people find 701 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 1: their dharma, I really realize that there's so many different 702 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,480 Speaker 1: ways to geut there, and especially our you know, our 703 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 1: Western world likes to glamorize certain stories, and you know, 704 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 1: while they can very much be real, it's not everyone's story. Like, 705 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:53,399 Speaker 1: not everyone's gonna sell their belongings, live in a van 706 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,400 Speaker 1: and then like come up with this genius idea and 707 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:58,799 Speaker 1: it's the next uber right, Like it could happen, But 708 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:00,920 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people pressure themselves of if 709 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:02,759 Speaker 1: it doesn't happen that way, then it might not. 710 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 3: Happen for me. 711 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,319 Speaker 1: So I have these three pathways to get to your 712 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 1: dharma and then four types of drma. I have a 713 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 1: lot of systems and frameworks. 714 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:10,040 Speaker 3: In this book. 715 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 1: I was like, I need every single person to read 716 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 1: this book to find their darma, like no matter what. 717 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:17,680 Speaker 1: So the four types of dharma. The first one is 718 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,759 Speaker 1: that you know you have a gift. Now, these are 719 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:25,560 Speaker 1: the people who like oftentimes going to entertainment or athletes 720 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 1: or people who are just like born with a good voice, 721 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,120 Speaker 1: They're born with an ability to play a certain sport. 722 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,399 Speaker 1: They know what it is that they're good at. Now 723 00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 1: does that mean they're necessarily going to live it? 724 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 3: No, not at all. 725 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 1: Some of the best artists in the world are not 726 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,959 Speaker 1: even sharing their art, So it doesn't mean just because 727 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,439 Speaker 1: you were born with a gift, like you got it set. 728 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,880 Speaker 1: It could just mean that that's your gift and you 729 00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,280 Speaker 1: get to still work on it. So that first type 730 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,200 Speaker 1: is you know who you have a gift. You know 731 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 1: you're really good at this thing, but maybe you don't 732 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 1: know how to make it your purpose now. The second 733 00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,160 Speaker 1: is you had a break down and a breakthrough. So 734 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,600 Speaker 1: these are oftentimes you know, motivational speakers, self help authors, 735 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,279 Speaker 1: et cetera, that you had a breakdown moment and it 736 00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 1: was through that breakdown that you know, you're on your 737 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,239 Speaker 1: knees wondering if there was a God and God came through, 738 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 1: Like when you hear stories like that, that's very much 739 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,799 Speaker 1: the breakdown or break through. Myself going through health obstacles, 740 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,920 Speaker 1: et cetera. That was a breakdown for me to break through. 741 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 1: So these are people who needed to hit a certain 742 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,800 Speaker 1: level of rock bottom for them to make a shift. 743 00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,839 Speaker 1: So oftentimes they go into helping others make that same 744 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,960 Speaker 1: shift as well. Now, the third type is you have 745 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:38,359 Speaker 1: an obstacle that you have faced that you are now 746 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:42,359 Speaker 1: helping other people overcome. So, for example, you know an 747 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 1: example I share in the book is this woman I know, 748 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 1: she had really bad social anxiety. She couldn't really read 749 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 1: social cues, she had a hard time just understanding people's 750 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 1: facial characteristics. She couldn't really talk to people at parties, 751 00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 1: and she wanted to, but it felt so foreign and 752 00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 1: difficult for her. She began to make flashcards of people's 753 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 1: facial expressions and kind of like write, okay, if you 754 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 1: go to a party, like stand at the snack table 755 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,080 Speaker 1: and have a conversation with the person on the left, 756 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 1: and these little ways for her to overcome her social anxiety. 757 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 1: And then she began to share it with her friends 758 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 1: and they're like, this is amazing. You should share this 759 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 1: on a blog. So she began to share it on 760 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 1: a blog, which later turned into a book and courses 761 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 1: and an institute on helping people with social anxiety. So 762 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,040 Speaker 1: this is just an obstacle that she had that she's 763 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 1: now helping others overcome as well. And then the fourth 764 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 1: type is someone else had an obstacle that you are 765 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 1: helping them overcome. So for example, maybe you had a 766 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:41,279 Speaker 1: parent that faced cancer or another type of disease, so 767 00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,640 Speaker 1: even though you weren't the one experiencing it, it was 768 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 1: someone that you deeply cared about. So that's going to 769 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 1: make you want to research and learn everything and maybe 770 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:53,799 Speaker 1: study alternative healing therapies, etc. And then with all of 771 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 1: this knowledge that you have, you're feeling inspired to share it. 772 00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 1: So sometimes I see people say, well, I don't have 773 00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,080 Speaker 1: a life defining moment. I feel like my life was 774 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 1: pretty normal. I don't know what my purpose is. So 775 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:10,840 Speaker 1: maybe the obstacle that you're helping others overcome is the environment. 776 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 1: You know, maybe you haven't been displaced because of an 777 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 1: environmental disruption, but other people have, and you're finding your 778 00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,360 Speaker 1: passion and helping it for others. So it doesn't always 779 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,400 Speaker 1: have to be a direct experience. So these are the 780 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 1: main four types of darmin. You could be a combination 781 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 1: of two, like for myself, I had the breakdown, the breakthrough, 782 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 1: but I'm also overcoming an obstacle that I'm helping others overcome, 783 00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: so it could be, you know, a combination. And for 784 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,600 Speaker 1: the one about having a gift, I do want to 785 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 1: note that there are many many types of gifts out there, 786 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 1: and our society really focuses on types of gifts related 787 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:50,480 Speaker 1: to entertainment because we're in such a media based society 788 00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:52,920 Speaker 1: such as you know, a good actor, a good singer, 789 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 1: a good basketball player, et cetera. But your gift could 790 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,560 Speaker 1: be you host epic dinner parties, or you have a 791 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:02,640 Speaker 1: really beatiful way of organizing your home, or you make 792 00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:06,480 Speaker 1: people feel really seen and heard, and these are also gifts. 793 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,719 Speaker 1: So oftentimes we all have gifts that we are born with, 794 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,040 Speaker 1: but we just weren't aware of it because our society 795 00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 1: doesn't celebrate it and recognize it as much. So what 796 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,920 Speaker 1: does that feel like for you? Which of these four types? 797 00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:24,160 Speaker 2: I definitely kind of agree with you where the breakdown 798 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:28,359 Speaker 2: and breakthrough? I like, I kind of said, I used 799 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 2: to be a family lawyer. I had this whole career 800 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,960 Speaker 2: kind of set up, and then there became a moment 801 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 2: where I was like, what am I doing. I'm not 802 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,759 Speaker 2: living in alignment. This is not what I wanted to do, 803 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 2: and so I kind of, you know, left everything, took 804 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,600 Speaker 2: a really big risk and was like I'm going to 805 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,680 Speaker 2: go off and do my own thing, and then all 806 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,200 Speaker 2: that and then with that too, with the whole obstacle. 807 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,000 Speaker 2: So there has been quite a few health issues for me, 808 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,719 Speaker 2: and then also a big obstacle that I kind of 809 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,560 Speaker 2: you know teach within this podcast is really the obstacle 810 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 2: of not fitting in the box of what society thinks 811 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:14,040 Speaker 2: you should be and who you should be. I guess 812 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 2: like and disempowering a lot of limiting beliefs that I had, 813 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,440 Speaker 2: and then also sharing that with my audience. 814 00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 1: I love that, and that's such a great example of it. 815 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 1: Really it's all coming together, right. It's like we have 816 00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 1: gifts and we have obstacles and sometimes we have to 817 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,880 Speaker 1: experience breakdown. So you know, when I share these different systems, 818 00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 1: it's even the archetypes, et cetera. It's not just about one, 819 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 1: but it's finding your own way of weaving them together. 820 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:42,799 Speaker 3: Yes, I love that. 821 00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:48,840 Speaker 2: And so Sahara, to finish off at talking about your beautiful, 822 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,600 Speaker 2: amazing book, I know this question is going to be 823 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:55,960 Speaker 2: very difficult, but if you could give your top three 824 00:44:56,000 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 2: tips for someone for finding their drama and of course, guys, 825 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,480 Speaker 2: go read the book, you will not regret it. But 826 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:04,239 Speaker 2: what would they be? 827 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 1: So my first one that I have everyone start with 828 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,719 Speaker 1: is understanding their darma archetype. So I have these nine 829 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,439 Speaker 1: darma archetypes I've created and you can find it out 830 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,920 Speaker 1: with my free quiz on Dharma archetype quiz dot com. 831 00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,800 Speaker 1: So I don't know if you've taken the quiz yet, George, 832 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 1: you'd be curious about what yours are. But for me, 833 00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,600 Speaker 1: archetypeal work has been the most instrumental thing to help 834 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 1: me find my dharma because it's allowed me to see 835 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:30,919 Speaker 1: myself in something greater than me. So I would say, 836 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,520 Speaker 1: take that quiz because you'll walk away with your top 837 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 1: two dharma archetypes and you'll be able to see like, 838 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: yes I am a teacher, Yes I'm a researcher, a visionary, nurturer, 839 00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,840 Speaker 1: et cetera. And it will really give you a tangible 840 00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,840 Speaker 1: thing to walk away with. Then I would ask, what 841 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,520 Speaker 1: is the thing I'm the most excited about? So you 842 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 1: could be excited about healing, or excited about gardening or cars, 843 00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:58,239 Speaker 1: or it could be really anything but excitement or breadcrumbs 844 00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,400 Speaker 1: leading you to your dharma. So look at what it 845 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 1: is you're excited about, because that's the ignition underneath the 846 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 1: fuel that's going to bring you to your dharma. And 847 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: then the third is what are the obstacles that I've 848 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,760 Speaker 1: overcome or helped others overcome? And it could be something 849 00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:16,360 Speaker 1: that feels as small as like maybe you traveled a 850 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,040 Speaker 1: lot when you were a kid. You moved every year, 851 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 1: and every year you had to make new friends, or 852 00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:24,160 Speaker 1: maybe you really know how to dress well, or maybe 853 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 1: you have an epic way of making healthy recipes really quickly. 854 00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,880 Speaker 1: So just looking at these different different gifts that you 855 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 1: have that may have been related to your obstacles. And 856 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 1: I have this whole five step process called the Dharma 857 00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 1: Blueprint process in the book, but just those three components, 858 00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 1: if you just look at your Dharma archetype what you're 859 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,120 Speaker 1: excited about your obstacles, you'll have such a clear sense 860 00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:45,800 Speaker 1: of your purpose. 861 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 3: I love that. 862 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 2: And just what you said at the start, I did 863 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,719 Speaker 2: take the tiss and I came up as and you'll 864 00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,640 Speaker 2: probably be out, I guess this. But a visionary and 865 00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 2: an entrepreneur. 866 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:02,360 Speaker 3: Love that that's what you're doing right now. I know. 867 00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,439 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, well please, I want some sort 868 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:06,200 Speaker 2: of right path. 869 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 3: Totally yay. 870 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,880 Speaker 2: So, Sahara, thank you so much for coming on the 871 00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 2: podcast and chatting to us about your amazing new book. 872 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:21,080 Speaker 2: I've just got a couple of questions to finish the interview, 873 00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:24,080 Speaker 2: but before we get into that, could you let everyone 874 00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 2: know where they can find this book. 875 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you can find it wherever books are sold. 876 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 1: And if you head over to my website I am 877 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:35,280 Speaker 1: Saharose dot com slash Dharma, you could submit your receipt 878 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:39,360 Speaker 1: and I have epic bonuses available for you meditations, tapping practice, 879 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,759 Speaker 1: embodiment practice, and so much more. So that is I 880 00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 1: am Saharos dot com slash Dharma, d h A R 881 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,280 Speaker 1: M A. And then you can also take the quiz 882 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 1: at Dharma archetype quiz dot com amazing. 883 00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,880 Speaker 2: So Sahara to finish the interview, I've just got a 884 00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 2: couple of questions. So we know that twenty twenty was 885 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,719 Speaker 2: it was a bit of a curveball, I think for 886 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,960 Speaker 2: most people. And in season four of this podcast, I 887 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 2: am really focusing on the new year energy and you know, 888 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 2: taking big moves and bold action, because if twenty twenty 889 00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 2: toward us anything, it is that things don't last and 890 00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,319 Speaker 2: when you're excited about something like you've just got to 891 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:28,320 Speaker 2: do it. So I would love to know what bold 892 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,239 Speaker 2: action will you be taking in twenty twenty one. 893 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:35,840 Speaker 1: The bold action I will be taking is to train 894 00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:39,680 Speaker 1: more people to help them find others find their dharmat 895 00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:41,879 Speaker 1: something I really feel like the world needs right now, 896 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,759 Speaker 1: we need more dharma coaches out there. So that's that's 897 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,160 Speaker 1: my big mission I'm doing this year to help more 898 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 1: people do this work as well. 899 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:54,480 Speaker 2: Oh amazing and so exciting. And last question, so for 900 00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 2: my girl gang who are looking for a bit of 901 00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:02,200 Speaker 2: inspiration and motivation to finish off this episode, what is 902 00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,960 Speaker 2: the best piece of advice you have ever received? 903 00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:10,359 Speaker 1: MM, The best piece of advice that I ever received was, 904 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:15,400 Speaker 1: you know, for myself, I was really when I was 905 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,480 Speaker 1: trying to find my dharma, I was like waiting for 906 00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 1: approval of others. So just to drop the need to 907 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,719 Speaker 1: gain the approval of other people and to trust that 908 00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,880 Speaker 1: you know your dharma, and that really gave me a 909 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:31,120 Speaker 1: level of freedom to not seek validation, to not seek 910 00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 1: anyone else giving me a gold star, and just to 911 00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:36,080 Speaker 1: trust even if it didn't make sense to anyone else 912 00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 1: around me, and for anyone who you may have this 913 00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:42,439 Speaker 1: idea and it feels weird or far off or it's 914 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,680 Speaker 1: not logical, to really trust that and honor it because 915 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 1: part of it is related to your dharma. 916 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:51,960 Speaker 2: Ah, I love it. Thank you so much, Sahara. I 917 00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:55,359 Speaker 2: have loved this interview. And oh my god, I love 918 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 2: your book so much. And yeah, I'm so excited to 919 00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 2: have you on the podcast again, and I hope you 920 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,440 Speaker 2: have an amazing twenty twenty one. 921 00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,000 Speaker 1: Ah, thanks so much for having me Joji. 922 00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:06,399 Speaker 3: It's always a pleasure to be here. 923 00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,319 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening for another rn C episode. I 924 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:13,600 Speaker 2: really appreciate taking the time to be here with me, 925 00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,960 Speaker 2: and also for taking the time for yourself. If you 926 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:20,880 Speaker 2: found this episode helpful, it would be so amazing if 927 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,600 Speaker 2: you shared it on your stories and tagged us, or 928 00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,240 Speaker 2: simply just send it on to a girlfriend or family 929 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:30,400 Speaker 2: member who would benefit from listening. We are an independent 930 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,960 Speaker 2: podcast run by me and my amazing podcast manager, so 931 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,279 Speaker 2: it would mean the world to us if you left 932 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:40,000 Speaker 2: a review on the Apple podcast app. Also, if you're 933 00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:43,520 Speaker 2: vibing this podcast and the concepts we're chatting about and 934 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:47,480 Speaker 2: your craving community, please come and join us over at 935 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:51,760 Speaker 2: the rn C podcast community Facebook group. Just search Rise 936 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:55,920 Speaker 2: and Conquer Podcast Community on Facebook and I will be 937 00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:58,439 Speaker 2: in there to chat to you until next time. 938 00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:13,880 Speaker 3: Don't the victim the 939 00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:19,160 Speaker 2: VICTI