WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Is it ethical to use AI to bring someone back from the dead? 0:00:10.379 --> 0:00:14.219 I heard podcasts, hear more Kiss podcast playlist and listen 0:00:14.259 --> 0:00:20.859 live on the Free iHeart app Good Pickup with Britt 0:00:20.859 --> 0:00:25.619 Hockley and Laura Burn Radio work our windows down. 0:00:25.859 --> 0:00:26.618 That's my world. 0:00:26.659 --> 0:00:29.618 Reason the dust only good fabs all down. 0:00:30.659 --> 0:00:34.699 I don't march, but yeah, I know I'll big get 0:00:34.699 --> 0:00:37.019 and what I want it don't baddle where. 0:00:37.699 --> 0:00:38.818 This is the pick up. 0:00:39.299 --> 0:00:42.259 Hello everybody, It's a pickup with Brett Hockley and Laura Burn. 0:00:42.579 --> 0:00:45.139 Hey, Laura, I didn't think I'd be saying this, but 0:00:45.219 --> 0:00:46.179 I've got a new hobby. 0:00:46.619 --> 0:00:48.379 I have a new sport. 0:00:48.819 --> 0:00:51.099 I'm an athlete now that I have absolutely fallen in 0:00:51.139 --> 0:00:52.939 love with, and I just feel like everybody needs to 0:00:52.979 --> 0:00:53.259 do it. 0:00:53.379 --> 0:00:55.499 Paddle ball paddle tennis. 0:00:55.499 --> 0:00:57.139 Oh, I knew it was gonna be something like that 0:00:57.219 --> 0:00:59.299 was I don't know, it's paddle ball a thing. 0:00:59.339 --> 0:01:00.659 It was actually a guess I was gonna say that 0:01:00.779 --> 0:01:02.419 all table tennis or something that's. 0:01:02.339 --> 0:01:05.659 Not table tennis. You're adult tennis. It is, guys, if 0:01:05.699 --> 0:01:07.979 you haven't tried it, it's so fun. It's like the 0:01:08.019 --> 0:01:09.938 funnest what I might have ever played. 0:01:10.019 --> 0:01:12.219 What's the difference between paddle tennis and just tennis? Tennis. 0:01:13.578 --> 0:01:14.499 I was hoping you'd ask. 0:01:14.378 --> 0:01:16.898 That it's this kind of sport that anyone can play. 0:01:16.938 --> 0:01:19.059 So I got into it with my sister when she 0:01:19.139 --> 0:01:21.818 was heavily pregnant. She could even play it heavily pregnant 0:01:21.818 --> 0:01:25.178 because it's not it's like a tiny, mini condensed version 0:01:25.179 --> 0:01:25.739 of tennis. 0:01:26.018 --> 0:01:27.419 So the courts are really small. 0:01:27.499 --> 0:01:29.499 You're not running around, you don't run. It sounds like 0:01:29.539 --> 0:01:30.499 my idea of tennis. 0:01:30.578 --> 0:01:32.818 Well, no, you still run, but you don't have to 0:01:32.859 --> 0:01:35.298 run as much because the idea is it's in a 0:01:35.378 --> 0:01:36.178 glass box. 0:01:36.339 --> 0:01:36.898 So the ball. 0:01:37.018 --> 0:01:39.739 If you miss the ball, fine because it bounces off 0:01:39.738 --> 0:01:41.418 a glass wall, and then you keep playing. 0:01:41.539 --> 0:01:42.619 It's like playing rebound. 0:01:42.738 --> 0:01:45.259 If this sounds like when everyone got into squash for 0:01:45.298 --> 0:01:45.859 a while. 0:01:45.619 --> 0:01:47.499 There, it's squashed on steroids. 0:01:47.539 --> 0:01:49.459 It's so good. I'm so happy for you. 0:01:49.899 --> 0:01:51.139 I can't say I'm going to try it at this 0:01:51.179 --> 0:01:52.978 point in my pregnancy, but I'm thrilled for you. 0:01:53.099 --> 0:01:54.779 Let me take you to play one day. Once the 0:01:54.779 --> 0:01:57.299 baby's out. You're back on your feet because it's you'll 0:01:57.339 --> 0:01:59.019 have so much fun. And producer Grace, you know what 0:01:59.059 --> 0:02:00.379 you're coming to with that face. 0:02:00.459 --> 0:02:02.619 No, take me out for a boozy lunch, take out, 0:02:02.699 --> 0:02:05.219 a day's spar Anyway, I don't want to complain. 0:02:05.899 --> 0:02:07.739 Look on that pelvic floor. We're going to do sport. 0:02:09.099 --> 0:02:12.418 Being that it's Thursday, we do ask and Cut every Thursday, 0:02:12.499 --> 0:02:15.619 and that's where you call up with your biggest, deepest, 0:02:15.699 --> 0:02:18.939 darkest problems and we do our best to answer them. 0:02:19.019 --> 0:02:22.659 And now, what would you do, Britt if you discovered 0:02:22.978 --> 0:02:27.019 that you weren't actually your partner's type? Because that is 0:02:27.059 --> 0:02:29.779 today's conundrum. Nina, Welcome to the show. 0:02:30.538 --> 0:02:32.019 Hi, how are you am? 0:02:32.059 --> 0:02:33.219 I doing good? How are you doing? 0:02:34.779 --> 0:02:35.738 Would be like weird? 0:02:36.179 --> 0:02:36.739 What's going on? 0:02:36.859 --> 0:02:37.099 Nina? 0:02:38.659 --> 0:02:42.659 Well, I've been with my partner for like almost a year, 0:02:42.698 --> 0:02:46.659 so eleven months, and only recently have we like you know, 0:02:46.739 --> 0:02:49.259 really like gone through like our exes or like sometimes 0:02:49.258 --> 0:02:52.299 they're like peekover when he's like on his like Instagram 0:02:52.379 --> 0:02:55.339 or whatever. And I've realized that like all of his 0:02:55.499 --> 0:02:58.699 exes and like people on the feet are like tiger 0:02:58.819 --> 0:03:02.299 like blonde girls or like very specific look and I'm like, 0:03:02.579 --> 0:03:06.059 I'm nothing for the thought. I'm curly hair, brunette, a 0:03:06.059 --> 0:03:08.819 bit taller, a bit bigger, and i just I'm like, 0:03:08.939 --> 0:03:10.979 may not this man's type. Like I don't, I feel 0:03:11.059 --> 0:03:12.499 like really insecure and read about it. 0:03:12.579 --> 0:03:14.898 Nina, I'm just gonna stop you in your tracks right here. 0:03:15.138 --> 0:03:17.338 This is an easy one for me. You've just got 0:03:17.339 --> 0:03:20.379 to think, You've just got to think he's with you, 0:03:20.659 --> 0:03:23.298 like they didn't work out, the exes didn't work out. 0:03:23.379 --> 0:03:25.978 You've been with him for a year, Like, what do 0:03:26.019 --> 0:03:28.178 you mean you're not his type? Like he's with you now? 0:03:28.219 --> 0:03:30.099 It's that's saying that you are. 0:03:31.379 --> 0:03:33.019 Yeah, I don't know. The whole thing is just kind 0:03:33.059 --> 0:03:34.019 of like weeding me out. 0:03:34.299 --> 0:03:36.619 Yeah, Nina, it sounds like you're your own worst enemy. 0:03:36.659 --> 0:03:38.939 You're doing it to yourself self sabotage. 0:03:39.019 --> 0:03:40.539 But I think that, like it's okay. 0:03:40.659 --> 0:03:42.979 People often have like a type or like a you know, 0:03:43.539 --> 0:03:45.619 they have like an idea of what their type is. 0:03:45.979 --> 0:03:48.059 But then after you've dated multiple people that are your 0:03:48.099 --> 0:03:50.419 type and you realize it never works out that type, 0:03:50.459 --> 0:03:53.259 sometimes your type expands out and you date different people. 0:03:53.299 --> 0:03:55.299 I think that you know, if he's in a relationship 0:03:55.299 --> 0:03:56.979 with you for eleven months and you guys are happy, 0:03:57.259 --> 0:04:00.699 I absolutely would not be self sabotaging your relationship because 0:04:00.699 --> 0:04:02.739 you're worried that you think you're not his type. Even 0:04:02.779 --> 0:04:05.659 though he's done nothing to give you that indication. 0:04:05.859 --> 0:04:09.219 Oh, I remember, I remember dating this guy so long ago. 0:04:09.299 --> 0:04:11.659 Like we were going great, just I was leaving over 0:04:11.699 --> 0:04:14.178 in London and I remember making a mistake of looking 0:04:14.219 --> 0:04:15.739 up his X. I don't know why, and she was 0:04:15.739 --> 0:04:18.659 a literal supermodel, like she was the hottest thing you've 0:04:18.659 --> 0:04:19.139 ever seen. 0:04:19.379 --> 0:04:20.339 And I remember just. 0:04:20.739 --> 0:04:23.019 That just getting in my head, even though he wanted 0:04:23.059 --> 0:04:25.899 to date me, and I just sabotaged the entire relationship. 0:04:26.139 --> 0:04:27.739 I think we can get too caught up in like 0:04:27.779 --> 0:04:30.219 comparison culture and comparing each other. 0:04:30.059 --> 0:04:32.179 And just try to lip in the moment. You guys 0:04:32.179 --> 0:04:34.659 are happy and in love. You've been together for a year, Like, 0:04:34.859 --> 0:04:36.139 don't let someone. 0:04:35.779 --> 0:04:38.939 That he dated seven years ago ruin your relationship now. 0:04:40.019 --> 0:04:42.779 Yeah, look, I think I did to think about did. 0:04:42.579 --> 0:04:43.579 You bring it up with him at all? 0:04:43.659 --> 0:04:46.139 Or you've just been keeping this a secret and festering away. 0:04:47.099 --> 0:04:48.379 Well, no, I don't want to bring it up. 0:04:48.659 --> 0:04:50.459 You're like, I don't want to sound crazy. Hey, your 0:04:50.539 --> 0:04:52.139 extra You're Extra. 0:04:52.339 --> 0:04:54.659 Nineteen ninety nine was so hot that. 0:04:54.739 --> 0:04:55.379 What happened to me? 0:04:55.379 --> 0:04:57.259 Though, Nina, did you ever bring it up with your partner? 0:04:57.299 --> 0:04:58.139 Briant At the time. 0:04:58.579 --> 0:04:59.819 No, I just ended it. 0:05:00.579 --> 0:05:03.179 Okay, that's weird, too, weird, that's weird. 0:05:03.339 --> 0:05:04.619 No, I know that now. 0:05:04.659 --> 0:05:07.299 So I am my husband Matt here. 0:05:07.379 --> 0:05:11.019 He's dated some beautiful girls back in the day, gorgeous girls, 0:05:11.139 --> 0:05:12.899 and one of them is so gorgeous. 0:05:13.059 --> 0:05:15.739 One of them is so gorgeous that she is a 0:05:15.819 --> 0:05:17.139 very successful model, and she. 0:05:17.219 --> 0:05:20.779 Was like the face of an iconic sunscreen brand and 0:05:21.419 --> 0:05:23.459 they'd like double his skincare and everything else. And I 0:05:23.539 --> 0:05:25.419 was using it until like I was bringing it home 0:05:25.459 --> 0:05:28.339 and like having it on the in my bathroom cabetry 0:05:28.459 --> 0:05:31.579 and face. Yeah, and that was like I dated her, 0:05:31.939 --> 0:05:34.619 and she's on the product packaging of the and now 0:05:34.619 --> 0:05:36.619 I can't use it anymore. But I did have a 0:05:36.619 --> 0:05:38.059 moment where I got a bit wigged out because I 0:05:38.099 --> 0:05:39.499 was like, God, your exes are so hot. 0:05:39.539 --> 0:05:42.179 That's a worry, Nina. This one's easier. Just don't stalk 0:05:42.299 --> 0:05:46.099 his exes from ten years ago. Do you embrace your relationship? 0:05:46.219 --> 0:05:46.939 Know your worth? 0:05:47.019 --> 0:05:49.419 No, he's with you for just who you are right now. 0:05:49.579 --> 0:05:50.339 Know your worth. 0:05:50.659 --> 0:05:51.219 It's true. 0:05:53.019 --> 0:05:55.339 If we're going to get deep, all right, strapping, If 0:05:55.379 --> 0:05:57.979 we're going to get deep, it's because of an. 0:05:57.859 --> 0:06:00.219 Insecurity that you might not even know you have. 0:06:00.339 --> 0:06:02.379 Like if you're looking up that and then comparing yourself 0:06:02.379 --> 0:06:05.259 to a next and then you're overthinking it, that's you 0:06:06.059 --> 0:06:09.259 being insecure for whatever reason. But that's why I say, no, 0:06:09.379 --> 0:06:12.259 you're worth like he's choosing you and you guys are happy, So. 0:06:12.299 --> 0:06:14.179 Just live in that moment totally. 0:06:14.339 --> 0:06:14.618 Thanks. 0:06:16.499 --> 0:06:18.699 No, thanks, Nina, that's tough. 0:06:20.779 --> 0:06:23.539 I think one of the common comments, Laura that I'm 0:06:23.579 --> 0:06:26.379 going to be fielding for quite a long time is 0:06:26.819 --> 0:06:30.099 about my relationship to my new husband Ben and the 0:06:30.139 --> 0:06:32.219 fact that we don't live together and don't live in 0:06:32.259 --> 0:06:34.539 the same country. So I get comments every day in 0:06:34.579 --> 0:06:37.859 my Instagram, like on my pictures, in my dms, Like 0:06:38.019 --> 0:06:40.059 it's a constant thing I'm dealing with. 0:06:40.179 --> 0:06:42.819 How do you deal with that when the commentary around 0:06:42.859 --> 0:06:44.819 your relationship feels negative at times? 0:06:45.059 --> 0:06:46.499 Do you know what it used to bother me? 0:06:46.539 --> 0:06:49.019 It doesn't bother me now because I know how great 0:06:49.099 --> 0:06:51.618 my relationship is, and so it's like, you know, we're married, 0:06:51.659 --> 0:06:52.059 we're happy. 0:06:52.099 --> 0:06:53.379 It suits us. It doesn't bother me. 0:06:53.459 --> 0:06:55.939 But I want to bring it up because I think 0:06:55.979 --> 0:06:59.499 people don't understand the benefits to a long distance relationship. 0:06:59.539 --> 0:07:01.179 Well, I mean you can't. I was gonna say, you 0:07:01.219 --> 0:07:01.579 can't fight. 0:07:01.619 --> 0:07:03.139 You can still fight over the phone, but like it 0:07:03.179 --> 0:07:05.539 would definitely ease some of the stresses of having to 0:07:05.579 --> 0:07:06.579 share a space with someone. 0:07:06.699 --> 0:07:09.659 Well, I live in essential a one bedroom apartment, so 0:07:09.699 --> 0:07:11.139 I can't just like kick him out and have my 0:07:11.179 --> 0:07:11.819 own sleep. 0:07:12.219 --> 0:07:12.899 But what I have. 0:07:12.899 --> 0:07:15.059 Realized now that my husband's been here for a month, 0:07:15.459 --> 0:07:17.139 it's a long time. Usually we're a few weeks at 0:07:17.179 --> 0:07:19.779 a time, or I'm over in his country in Italy. 0:07:20.539 --> 0:07:24.099 I have just realized how much I value sleep when 0:07:24.139 --> 0:07:26.259 I'm on my own, and how much better I sleep. 0:07:26.619 --> 0:07:29.859 We are not compatible in the way we sleep. We 0:07:29.899 --> 0:07:33.419 go to bed at completely different times. He needs different heats, 0:07:33.459 --> 0:07:35.499 he needs to wear different levels of clothes. He has 0:07:35.539 --> 0:07:37.939 to have his sheets out where I have to tuck 0:07:37.979 --> 0:07:38.379 them in. 0:07:38.459 --> 0:07:41.659 He sits maniac psychopath has their sheets tucked in. 0:07:42.419 --> 0:07:44.179 I do you tuck them in under. 0:07:43.979 --> 0:07:46.259 Your mattress and you and you get into a tucked 0:07:46.299 --> 0:07:46.699 in bed. 0:07:46.899 --> 0:07:49.179 Yes, Oh, I'm so constricting. 0:07:49.179 --> 0:07:51.179 I need to like pull everything out and just like 0:07:51.259 --> 0:07:53.779 have it loosely flapping over me in the wind. 0:07:54.019 --> 0:07:56.539 No, that is the worst I can sleep with better 0:07:56.579 --> 0:07:56.779 than you. 0:07:57.259 --> 0:07:59.139 Well, okay, come on. 0:07:59.139 --> 0:08:00.939 Over then, Laura, he's all your. 0:08:01.699 --> 0:08:04.419 You don't tuck your sheeting. But it's called it's a 0:08:04.459 --> 0:08:05.099 fitted sheet. 0:08:05.179 --> 0:08:07.099 I hate it. I hate it. No, the fitted sheet 0:08:07.099 --> 0:08:08.779 obviously tucked and that's on the ballot. 0:08:09.899 --> 0:08:11.499 It's well, I mean it's a top sheet, but it's 0:08:11.499 --> 0:08:12.579 still made to. 0:08:12.579 --> 0:08:14.379 Be tucked in. Awful, horrible. 0:08:14.459 --> 0:08:16.019 Can you google grace if they're made to be touched. 0:08:16.179 --> 0:08:18.019 I feel like somebody's put me in a straight jacket. 0:08:18.299 --> 0:08:20.579 Okay, this is the problem we have. Fill me in. 0:08:20.659 --> 0:08:22.539 I can't believe I didn't know this about you. 0:08:23.339 --> 0:08:26.059 If the sheet isn't tucked in, your legs are just 0:08:26.099 --> 0:08:27.539 willing nearly and you're rolling around. 0:08:27.619 --> 0:08:29.499 Don't you get yourself like all tangled. 0:08:29.539 --> 0:08:30.859 I can't get out of bed in the morning because 0:08:30.859 --> 0:08:32.139 it's like, I mean, my legs are in a not 0:08:32.139 --> 0:08:33.339 because the sheet's everywhere. 0:08:33.499 --> 0:08:36.619 It's like, I hate it. Nah nah, I'm on Bend's 0:08:36.659 --> 0:08:37.299 side with that one. 0:08:37.299 --> 0:08:39.699 But what else, Like, I mean, Ben's very very tall, 0:08:40.019 --> 0:08:42.259 like that's probably he takes up a lot of bed space. 0:08:42.379 --> 0:08:43.219 Yeah, got a bed. 0:08:43.059 --> 0:08:45.739 Real Estate's six for five. He takes up the entire bed. 0:08:46.139 --> 0:08:48.299 So we have electric blankets that are like. 0:08:48.299 --> 0:08:50.299 Down the middle where one's on and one's off. 0:08:50.739 --> 0:08:53.059 I put mine on heat at the start, and then 0:08:53.059 --> 0:08:54.779 I turn it off just so it's lukewarm. 0:08:54.979 --> 0:08:56.939 He will have his, so it's like I'm in a 0:08:56.979 --> 0:08:59.179 pool of sweat. It is so hot. 0:08:59.219 --> 0:09:02.099 He puts air conditioning on about twenty six degrees like 0:09:02.139 --> 0:09:03.979 I feel like I'm going to pass out. 0:09:04.659 --> 0:09:07.299 He wakes up really late. I wake up really early, 0:09:07.539 --> 0:09:08.459 like people. 0:09:08.499 --> 0:09:12.379 People don't realize how much sleep compatibility is a thing. 0:09:12.699 --> 0:09:14.419 What do you do when you're married and you realize 0:09:14.419 --> 0:09:16.379 that you're not sleep compatible. I think that what ends 0:09:16.459 --> 0:09:18.419 up happening is that someone ends up going and sleeping 0:09:18.419 --> 0:09:19.419 in another room eventually. 0:09:19.539 --> 0:09:21.699 Well, I also think that that's what we probably need 0:09:21.739 --> 0:09:24.339 to normalize. I know so many people that don't sleep 0:09:24.379 --> 0:09:25.979 in the same room as their partner. I don't only 0:09:26.019 --> 0:09:27.619 sleep in the same country as my partner. 0:09:27.899 --> 0:09:28.219 True. 0:09:28.419 --> 0:09:30.299 I think that people would probably be able to get 0:09:30.299 --> 0:09:31.979 their heads around it more if you were sleeping just 0:09:32.019 --> 0:09:33.579 in separate rooms rather than separate countries. 0:09:33.659 --> 0:09:36.419 I think it's called sleep divorce, where it's like you're 0:09:37.099 --> 0:09:39.259 in love and happy in together, but you just realize 0:09:39.259 --> 0:09:41.859 your life is more beneficial when you're sleeping separately to 0:09:41.899 --> 0:09:42.379 your partner. 0:09:42.499 --> 0:09:44.458 I think that there's a lot of I don't want 0:09:44.459 --> 0:09:46.019 to be like there's a lot of stigma around it, 0:09:46.019 --> 0:09:46.619 because I don't. 0:09:46.459 --> 0:09:47.819 Think anyone's really stigmatizing it. 0:09:47.859 --> 0:09:50.939 But I think that people who don't do it have 0:09:51.459 --> 0:09:53.699 a perception around it that if you choose to sleep 0:09:53.699 --> 0:09:55.739 in a separate bed to your partner, that there must 0:09:55.779 --> 0:09:57.619 be something wrong with the relationship, or it's like the 0:09:57.659 --> 0:10:00.219 death of your intimacy, or all those sorts of things. 0:10:00.539 --> 0:10:02.539 But I mean, I think about my grandparent to be fair, 0:10:02.579 --> 0:10:04.579 I don't know if they are very intimate towards their 0:10:04.579 --> 0:10:07.819 old age rest in peace, but they slept in separate 0:10:07.819 --> 0:10:10.019 bedrooms for got like thirty years and. 0:10:09.979 --> 0:10:11.499 They were very happily married. 0:10:11.939 --> 0:10:14.499 I struggle with this one though, because as much as 0:10:14.579 --> 0:10:18.139 I really really love a cuddle and love sleeping in 0:10:18.139 --> 0:10:20.499 the bed next to my husband, I also find him 0:10:20.499 --> 0:10:21.019 really challenging. 0:10:21.059 --> 0:10:22.179 We spoke about a couple weeks ago. 0:10:22.379 --> 0:10:24.739 He sleeps with his elbows out, like he's trying to 0:10:24.739 --> 0:10:27.859 protect himself from what. I don't know, but I don't 0:10:27.859 --> 0:10:30.019 think I could entertain the idea of sleeping in separate rooms. 0:10:30.099 --> 0:10:32.139 We also don't have any separate rooms because they've. 0:10:31.939 --> 0:10:34.659 All got kids in them or mother in law's or dogs. 0:10:35.139 --> 0:10:36.179 But totally, I don't know. 0:10:36.339 --> 0:10:37.859 I don't know how I feel about it, because yes, 0:10:37.899 --> 0:10:40.059 I think it's fine. Yes, I think it's normal. I 0:10:40.059 --> 0:10:41.899 know so many people do and it doesn't mean the 0:10:41.899 --> 0:10:44.259 death of a relationship. But I would think I would 0:10:44.299 --> 0:10:45.979 struggle with it, so I suffer through. 0:10:46.099 --> 0:10:47.939 Did you guys ever sleep in separate beds when you 0:10:48.019 --> 0:10:50.899 had like Marley and Lola, like your first two kids 0:10:50.899 --> 0:10:52.739 with their little so that one could get more sleep 0:10:52.859 --> 0:10:53.659 or you don't know. 0:10:54.059 --> 0:10:56.379 We played musical beds though, So what would happen is 0:10:56.459 --> 0:10:59.739 like if Marley got into our bed and also Lola 0:10:59.859 --> 0:11:01.458 was in, then Matt would get up and he'd go 0:11:01.459 --> 0:11:02.779 and sleep in one of the kid's beds. So like 0:11:02.779 --> 0:11:04.458 we would just like rotate around the house. 0:11:04.539 --> 0:11:06.259 Yes, so you essentially slept in different beds. 0:11:06.339 --> 0:11:08.259 But yeah, but it wasn't that the plan, wasn't that. 0:11:08.299 --> 0:11:11.419 It was only if like the nighttime sleeping went really wrong. Okay, 0:11:11.419 --> 0:11:13.578 I have a question for you, and no judgment. It 0:11:13.659 --> 0:11:14.539 is a genuine question. 0:11:14.859 --> 0:11:15.779 How do you think you're going to. 0:11:15.819 --> 0:11:17.819 Go when you are one hundred percent in each other's 0:11:17.859 --> 0:11:18.699 company all the time? 0:11:19.219 --> 0:11:21.819 Oh think fine, Okay. I was like trying to say, oh, 0:11:21.859 --> 0:11:23.619 it's give me terrible clear. 0:11:23.779 --> 0:11:27.539 We're so compatible, We're just not sleep. We have different 0:11:28.059 --> 0:11:29.979 ideas of what a good night's sleep is. 0:11:31.459 --> 0:11:33.859 Vin Diesel has caused a little bit of a stir 0:11:34.139 --> 0:11:38.019 recently because he has come out talking about the next 0:11:38.139 --> 0:11:41.299 installment of Fast and the Furious. So there's been ten 0:11:41.539 --> 0:11:43.739 and the last film that was created was a two 0:11:43.819 --> 0:11:45.859 part series, right, so they know that there's a second 0:11:45.899 --> 0:11:49.859 one coming. It's been scheduled for twenty twenty seven. However, recently, 0:11:50.219 --> 0:11:53.419 at a thing called fuel Fest, Vin Diesel came out 0:11:53.459 --> 0:11:55.699 and said there's three conditions of which he will bring 0:11:55.899 --> 0:11:58.699 back Fast and the Furious and do the final installment. 0:11:59.179 --> 0:12:01.459 Now, the main one that people. 0:12:01.219 --> 0:12:03.339 Are up in arms about is that he has said 0:12:03.499 --> 0:12:06.619 that he thinks that Paul Walker should be brought back 0:12:06.659 --> 0:12:10.419 to life by using AI techology and start in the film. 0:12:11.099 --> 0:12:14.578 This has also been I guess approved or it's had like, 0:12:14.659 --> 0:12:16.979 you know, the nod of approval from Paul Walker's estate, 0:12:17.059 --> 0:12:19.059 which is his daughter, and also his brothers. 0:12:19.099 --> 0:12:21.499 Because this fuel Fest car festival. 0:12:21.179 --> 0:12:24.019 Thing is actually run by Paul Walker's brother, so they're 0:12:24.059 --> 0:12:26.939 all kind of you know, okay with it. It really 0:12:26.979 --> 0:12:29.699 does raise the question should we be using AI to 0:12:29.819 --> 0:12:31.339 bring people back from the dead. 0:12:32.379 --> 0:12:34.939 Just to nut that out a little bit, Laura, the 0:12:34.979 --> 0:12:37.059 studios have been begging him to do the final installment. 0:12:37.099 --> 0:12:37.779 He didn't want to do it. 0:12:37.899 --> 0:12:39.579 He has said he will only do it if Paul 0:12:39.619 --> 0:12:41.739 comes back, so not like he's not hoping for it. 0:12:41.899 --> 0:12:44.739 He is saying may but that's an ultimatum. Yeah, one 0:12:44.819 --> 0:12:47.019 hundred percent. But he's a producer as well. Vin Diesel 0:12:47.099 --> 0:12:50.179 like basically owns that franchise. And it's interesting because out 0:12:50.219 --> 0:12:52.419 of all ten of The Fast and the Furious is 0:12:52.499 --> 0:12:55.979 the highest grossing of any film was film number seven, 0:12:56.419 --> 0:12:58.819 which is the film that Paul Walker passed away in. 0:12:58.939 --> 0:13:01.739 So Paul filmed half of that tragically passed away. Then 0:13:01.739 --> 0:13:03.739 they see gid him and used stunt doubles with his 0:13:03.859 --> 0:13:06.659 brothers to finish the film, and then it was sort of. 0:13:06.699 --> 0:13:07.779 Like everyone was moving on. 0:13:08.059 --> 0:13:11.899 So it's a bit of a moral conundrum here about, Okay, 0:13:12.179 --> 0:13:14.139 is it okay then to bring someone back from the 0:13:14.219 --> 0:13:16.939 dead when they don't have any authority over how their 0:13:16.979 --> 0:13:19.259 image is used in what capacity what they're doing in 0:13:19.339 --> 0:13:21.458 a film. They obviously can't benefit from it. 0:13:21.979 --> 0:13:22.499 Is it okay? 0:13:23.059 --> 0:13:27.059 Just because their family, daughter friends said it's okay. 0:13:27.379 --> 0:13:29.779 Yeah, And I guess like also, I mean, the thing 0:13:29.819 --> 0:13:32.779 with AI is it's moved so quickly, and the legislation 0:13:32.939 --> 0:13:35.299 and all the rules around it haven't really caught up 0:13:35.339 --> 0:13:37.059 with how quickly it's moved. I don't think that there's 0:13:37.099 --> 0:13:41.659 been a situation where the family and friends and everyone 0:13:41.739 --> 0:13:43.979 else who's been surrounding like a legacy piece like Fast 0:13:44.019 --> 0:13:46.098 and Furious has said, yeah, you know what, this is 0:13:46.139 --> 0:13:48.859 a great idea, let's bring him back. And it's very 0:13:48.979 --> 0:13:52.659 different to say when they seegid the ending of Fast 0:13:52.699 --> 0:13:54.739 and Furious seven, And the reason for that is is 0:13:54.779 --> 0:13:57.139 because that was to end the show. They had a 0:13:57.259 --> 0:14:00.259 really lovely goodbye. The show ended, Paul went off, and 0:14:00.299 --> 0:14:02.859 he drove his car off into the distance. This would 0:14:02.899 --> 0:14:07.819 be completely manufacturing a new script, all new facial expressions, 0:14:07.859 --> 0:14:09.659 like it would be holding a person from the ground 0:14:09.739 --> 0:14:13.979 up using all archival information but not archival footage, right. 0:14:14.579 --> 0:14:17.579 And I guess for me, the reason why I felt 0:14:17.779 --> 0:14:19.899 so weird when I read this, it's not because I 0:14:19.979 --> 0:14:23.219 don't think that Vin Diesel and Meadow, which is Paul's daughter, 0:14:23.779 --> 0:14:25.419 they'll do the right thing by him. They're not gonna 0:14:25.459 --> 0:14:27.259 have him doing awful things on screen or things that 0:14:27.299 --> 0:14:30.139 he wouldn't be necessarily okay with. But it does make 0:14:30.179 --> 0:14:32.579 you question who owns the image of someone once they 0:14:32.659 --> 0:14:34.859 pass away. And we talked about this on Life on 0:14:34.939 --> 0:14:37.899 Cut podcast. But Britt, if you drop dead, would it 0:14:37.979 --> 0:14:40.859 be okay for me to see GI or AI a 0:14:40.979 --> 0:14:41.459 version of you? 0:14:41.579 --> 0:14:43.379 And we can continue to do the pick up because 0:14:44.459 --> 0:14:46.299 they're really inconvenient to replace you. 0:14:46.659 --> 0:14:48.779 Nah, put my face on like Rosy Huntings and Whitley 0:14:48.899 --> 0:14:50.619 or something. Though, like, if you're gonna do it, do 0:14:50.739 --> 0:14:51.859 it well, okay. 0:14:51.979 --> 0:14:54.259 But the other question is so we can say, oh, 0:14:54.299 --> 0:14:55.739 we don't think he's going to be doing anything that 0:14:55.819 --> 0:14:58.019 he wouldn't have normally done, does that mean that the 0:14:58.139 --> 0:15:00.499 AI version of Paul Walker can come back in fast 0:15:00.539 --> 0:15:01.779 and Furious and do a sex scene? 0:15:01.819 --> 0:15:02.499 Like is that okay? 0:15:03.019 --> 0:15:06.899 Especially if there's no parameters around the rules and the 0:15:07.739 --> 0:15:09.459 I just think the whole I think so weird. 0:15:09.619 --> 0:15:10.379 We don't want to see it. 0:15:10.659 --> 0:15:13.339 I imagine it's going to be like he is going 0:15:13.419 --> 0:15:15.619 to do nothing wrong. They're not going to have sex scenes. 0:15:15.619 --> 0:15:17.379 They're going to make him do drugs. They're not going 0:15:17.419 --> 0:15:19.099 to what it's going. I feel like they're going to 0:15:19.139 --> 0:15:21.139 make him look like a hero in a way to 0:15:21.219 --> 0:15:21.659 honor him. 0:15:21.699 --> 0:15:23.139 It is Vindi's was his best friend. 0:15:23.579 --> 0:15:25.699 And just to answer your question in relation to who 0:15:25.739 --> 0:15:27.939 owns an image, we did a bit of researching this 0:15:28.059 --> 0:15:29.579 and I think it's interesting. 0:15:30.019 --> 0:15:32.019 The creators of the AI image. 0:15:32.099 --> 0:15:35.539 So even though it is Paul Walker's likeness, it's his 0:15:35.739 --> 0:15:39.779 face on a cgi body, it still belongs to the creator. 0:15:39.859 --> 0:15:42.779 So whoever created the image owns it, but they can't 0:15:43.099 --> 0:15:45.699