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<v Speaker 1>A good pickup with Britt Hogley.

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<v Speaker 2>And Laura Burn Radio Worth Our windows down, My worlds

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<v Speaker 2>in the dust, only good babs all down. I don't much,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll big get and what I want. It don't matter where.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the pick up, Hi, guys, it's the pick

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<v Speaker 2>up with Britt Hackley and Laura Burn Happy Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I watched on the weekend, Laura. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't told you about it yet, but I think you

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<v Speaker 1>would love it. What have you heard of, Joan? It's

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<v Speaker 1>on stan It's Sophie Turner. You know who Sophie Turner is?

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<v Speaker 1>Just say yes please?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can picture her right now. I'm so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. You showed me a photo of her and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll know who she is straight away.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe Jonas's ex wife, tall, beautiful, blonde hair, smoke show.

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<v Speaker 2>I do know who she is.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's this TV series about she is in this

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<v Speaker 1>like crazy, abusive, horrible relationship. She has a daughter, super

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<v Speaker 1>light easy watch. No, well, yes, but that's the sets

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<v Speaker 1>up basis. It's not completely about that. So she has

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<v Speaker 1>a little girl and she needs to create a better

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<v Speaker 1>life for her, so to escape, she ends up becoming

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<v Speaker 1>a jewel thief. Like that's how she survives. She becomes

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<v Speaker 1>this like amazing thief.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a very glamorous crime to get into, wouldn't you think.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you've got to be super hot to pull

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<v Speaker 1>off being a jewel thief. Yeah, to ease yourself into

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<v Speaker 1>the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>So that you can walk into a very expensive shop

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<v Speaker 2>and people are like, oh, you belong here, that's okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not going to steal from us.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't condone it.

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<v Speaker 2>Although that implies the people who are not hot might steal.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really mean. I don't condone theft. But there is

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<v Speaker 1>something really empowering about watching it because it's sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like she's just in control and she's a boss. And

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<v Speaker 1>even though she's stealing, you're like, okay, but you're doing

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<v Speaker 1>it for like at the right reason.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, Brittany, you're questioning your morals. She's like

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<v Speaker 2>a Robin Hood type, is she Well no, she doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Give back to the ball. She just keeps it. But

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<v Speaker 1>she does it for her and her daughter. She's not

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<v Speaker 1>giving her back. You have to watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>I really enjoyed it. Anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a one series. Joan only on Stand Sophie Turner,

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's your recommendation. Well, I've been watching something else and

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<v Speaker 2>we have big feelings that we're going to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>today on the show Married at First Sight. And there

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<v Speaker 2>is a man on there named Tim that all of

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<v Speaker 2>Australia is hating right now, so much so that he's

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<v Speaker 2>shut down his social media. But we do have a

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<v Speaker 2>big question. Is it okay to not want to go

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<v Speaker 2>on a second date and to decide that someone's not

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<v Speaker 2>for you purely based on the way they.

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<v Speaker 1>Book the big questions?

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<v Speaker 2>Here today on the pick up, you know what it's

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<v Speaker 2>time for now that it's Thursday. It is Ask Uncut,

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<v Speaker 2>where we answer your deep, dark and burning questions. We

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<v Speaker 2>do this on Life on Cut every week. You guys

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<v Speaker 2>call up and look, we're not qualified necessarily, but we

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<v Speaker 2>do our best to answer your questions with enthusiasm.

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<v Speaker 1>I reckon we're probably pretty qualified. For today's question. We

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<v Speaker 1>have Angela on the phone with quite the predicament. Hi, Angela,

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<v Speaker 1>Hiri and Nora Hi through it here.

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<v Speaker 2>This is something to do with your mother in law.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes it is. Look, I know she means well, but

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<v Speaker 3>the first time she made meat loavest for me. I

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<v Speaker 3>said that I really liked it, and she has been

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<v Speaker 3>making it every single time. Things then, and to be honest,

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<v Speaker 3>I am just so over this meat loft of hers, Like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do it anymore. How many years of meat

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<v Speaker 2>loaf are we talking?

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<v Speaker 3>We're talking to ten years of meat love.

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<v Speaker 2>So Angela?

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<v Speaker 1>How many loaves of meat is that?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, way, way, way too many for anybody to happen.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just I'm using meats. It's awful.

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<v Speaker 2>Angela walks in and she's sweating meat loaf out of

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<v Speaker 2>a pause. So okay. How frequently is this happening? Is

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<v Speaker 2>like mum in law coming over once a week with

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<v Speaker 2>a meat loaf? Is it once a month?

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<v Speaker 3>A week?

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<v Speaker 1>I have a plan for you what I think you

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<v Speaker 1>can do That is completely fine to do because people

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<v Speaker 1>go through these phases, But you're going to have to

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<v Speaker 1>make some sacrifices. I think you need to say. I've

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<v Speaker 1>just gone off meat. It's so weird, Like I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've spent so much time eating it that I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't like it at the moment. But you're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to sacrifice other forms of meat to stick to that lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I should go vegetarian when I'm with them basically pesyitarian.

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<v Speaker 1>There'sh chicken.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's other options. I think you just start

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<v Speaker 2>complimenting other things. Obviously she really latched onto the meat

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<v Speaker 2>loaf compliment. You need to pump up her tires about

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<v Speaker 2>a bolonnaise. What's another dish that she does. You've gotta

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<v Speaker 2>be like, God, you know, I know you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>a meat loaf, but that chicken catch atory.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, but the problem is then that you're only

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<v Speaker 1>ever gonna get a chicken catchtory for the next ten years.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's all right. Then I'll suggest something else in

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<v Speaker 3>ten years time.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a saint. I think you can tell her. I

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<v Speaker 2>think you can say maybe, no, maybe we don't need

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<v Speaker 2>a meat loafst this week.

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<v Speaker 1>Now. If I had a buzzer under my finger, I'd say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you can do that. That will hurt

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<v Speaker 1>her feelings. But just suggest something no, I would just say,

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<v Speaker 1>I genuinely am not lying. I would say I've gone

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<v Speaker 1>off meat because think of how many times you eat

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of something you over the years, like your

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<v Speaker 1>taste buds and what you like changes all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just have oh you know what, I've gone

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of meat. How about we do like a

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<v Speaker 1>chicken salad this week or something you cool.

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<v Speaker 3>With that, especially cause it's summer and it's so hot.

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<v Speaker 2>Angela, Can I just say, if this is the worst

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<v Speaker 2>thing you have going on in your life, you are

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<v Speaker 2>very lucky all years. I reckon, this is the easiest

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<v Speaker 2>and like kindest, like ask gun cut we've ever received.

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<v Speaker 2>This is doing Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Who eats meat loaf in summer? It doesn't scream summer food,

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<v Speaker 1>does it. It's like a winter warm like by the fire.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she just wants some compliments. Thanks so much, Angela. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So if you guys want to get on air and

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<v Speaker 2>get some absolutely terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Advice, excuse me. I stand by my advice.

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<v Speaker 2>All you have to do is go to the kiss

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<v Speaker 2>Wind page and next week we have an amazing prize.

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<v Speaker 2>Jetstar has given us one thousand dollars to spend with

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<v Speaker 2>them if you get on air with us. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>got to be that travel.

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<v Speaker 1>Caveat has to be a travel based question. But we

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<v Speaker 1>don't want the cutesy questions like where should I go

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<v Speaker 1>on holiday? We want the spicy ones, long distance something

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<v Speaker 1>that might have happened.

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<v Speaker 2>How to join the mal High Club. There you go,

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<v Speaker 2>that would be a good one, wouldn't they Can you

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<v Speaker 2>answer them? Get that one in the bank.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever done that?

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<v Speaker 2>Tell you Next week.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to talk about maths. I know all of

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<v Speaker 1>Australia's been talking about this the last two days or so,

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<v Speaker 1>but Tim and Katie one of the couples on there.

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<v Speaker 1>Tim has I don't want to put this label on him,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's sort of turned into one of the most

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<v Speaker 1>hated people in Australia for now. I think that will

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<v Speaker 1>be taken away from him in a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 2>Well lucky for Raygun because now it's shifted to someone.

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<v Speaker 1>She does a break dance again. It's hard to explain

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<v Speaker 1>what happened if you haven't seen it, but basically they

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<v Speaker 1>got matched. They pretended that it was all well and good,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Tim has been caught. Was not really caught.

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<v Speaker 1>He's on a show where he's microphoned. They aired a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation that Tim went' had with the producer, telling his

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<v Speaker 1>real feelings about what he thought of his new bride.

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<v Speaker 4>Have A listened to this totally not what I wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>I normally go I'm just short tea blonde or brunette

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<v Speaker 4>like Katie's nothing what normally i'd go for. There's no attraction.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm shot it and was just like a soon as

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<v Speaker 4>I was about it's disappointing. Yeah, I'm a bit embarrassed

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<v Speaker 4>like that, I'm coming in there.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't judge someone right away from that two an

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<v Speaker 1>hour to tipe.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I don't want to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, you need to find out why you've

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<v Speaker 1>been made. I don't know. Five minutes I completely cut.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a woman off.

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<v Speaker 4>But I just feel like I've wasted my type.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to run away. Oh okay, George Clooney

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<v Speaker 1>calm down, sit down.

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<v Speaker 2>George Clooney would never be so mean. Don't say such things.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not just that he was caught saying this off camera.

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<v Speaker 1>It was quite a few things that he did throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding. Like, I just think, if you've gotten to

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<v Speaker 1>this situation, you're on TV, you know what the experiment is.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're not going to know who they are.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a possibility you don't like them. You still

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<v Speaker 1>be a decent human being, you still show level of respect,

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<v Speaker 1>and then maybe after it you say, hey, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's for me. There was a moment on there

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<v Speaker 1>where I died inside for her. I died inside. He

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<v Speaker 1>was ignoring her all night, like he wasn't touching her,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't really talking to her, turning his back to her.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they have to get up and cut the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding cake and she pulls the knife out and there's

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<v Speaker 1>some crumbs on it, and then she leans her cheek

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<v Speaker 1>out and taps her cheeks, like, kiss me on the cheek,

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<v Speaker 1>because if there's crumbs on it, you're supposed to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>the nearest man or woman like your partner. And he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't even give her a peck on the cheek in

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<v Speaker 1>front of all of her family and friends. He goes, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>nah nah like that, and she's left mortified. And in

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<v Speaker 1>that moment, I was like, bro, I kiss on the

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<v Speaker 1>cheek in this situation to save face a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, Okay, I haven't seen it. I have not

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<v Speaker 2>seen it, and so I can't have strong opinions. But

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<v Speaker 2>I have read a lot of stuff recently, and I

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<v Speaker 2>know everyone is very angry. Maybe I'm gonna get caned

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<v Speaker 2>for saying this, But when you say that, I almost

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<v Speaker 2>part of me is like, don't lead her on if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't want to kiss her. Wouldn't be in a

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<v Speaker 2>situation where you have to kiss someone, or you have

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<v Speaker 2>to do something that gives them the impression that you're

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<v Speaker 2>maybe attracted to them and want to be with them,

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera, et cetera. Firstly, I yes, I think he

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like an absolute jerk. I think he sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>a pig. He's canceled his social media, he's refusing to

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<v Speaker 2>do any interviews at all and has totally shunned the

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<v Speaker 2>show because he's obviously realized how he's come across and

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<v Speaker 2>how he's been depicted. But I do think it is

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<v Speaker 2>a rock and a hard place when you do this show.

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<v Speaker 2>If you do get to the end of the aisle

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<v Speaker 2>and you are just not attracted to the person that

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<v Speaker 2>you're partnered with. In a normal world, if you went

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<v Speaker 2>on a date with someone and you didn't feel any spark,

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<v Speaker 2>no one would be telling you to give it a go.

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<v Speaker 2>It's only because it's the premise of the show that

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<v Speaker 2>you've signed up for giving it a go, regardless whoever

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<v Speaker 2>it is at the end of that aisle.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know, and I'm like, I do kind

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<v Speaker 2>of I fall on this sort of like opinion that, well,

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<v Speaker 2>if you've signed up for the show, you've made the

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<v Speaker 2>commitment to give it a go. The smallest part of

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<v Speaker 2>me does think, God, that would be really hard if

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<v Speaker 2>you actually weren't attracted. But you can still not be

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<v Speaker 2>an asshole.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I agree with that you

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<v Speaker 1>do not have to be forced into anything if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel a connection. But it's the way you treat

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<v Speaker 1>someone in that situation, Like you don't go on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>If you go on a first date and you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're not vibing it, you don't get up and walk

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<v Speaker 1>out of the middle of the dinner. You don't say hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, sorry, not my vibe. They don't reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to say thank you and give you a hard goodbye,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't recoil like you still act like a

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<v Speaker 1>respectable human being. If you know, I'm sorry, Tim, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening, if you know.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not doing interviews, you wouldn't come on the show anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>So whatever, Tim, But this is where my problem is.

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<v Speaker 2>I respect that there's no connection for you. I got

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<v Speaker 2>dumped on the batch because someone said they didn't want

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<v Speaker 2>me to get it. But you can still do it

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<v Speaker 2>in a respectable way. You know you're on national television.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that moment is going to humiliate the woman.

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<v Speaker 1>That you are with. Just get through the day and

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<v Speaker 1>be a nice person. You both tried something, it didn't work.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool. Also him saying that he's embarrassed, It's like, what

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<v Speaker 2>are you embarrassed about it? You're embarrassed because you were

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<v Speaker 2>a partner with someone that you're not attracted to, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not the type that you would normally go for. Says

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<v Speaker 2>a lot more about you than it does about the

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<v Speaker 2>situation or what you're experiencing.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I would like to say is looks are

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<v Speaker 1>the smallest part of dating. I'm sorry. I have dated

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<v Speaker 1>people that I wasn't attracted to physically at the start,

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<v Speaker 1>got to know them and literally fell in love with people.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Wow, you're so funny, your morals are

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<v Speaker 1>so great, we get along so well. I've seen how

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<v Speaker 1>you treat your family. You know, there was one person

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<v Speaker 1>I actually lived with. He was my flatmate for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>many many moons ago. And don't shoot where you eat, Brett, Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I had. I had no attraction to him physically at all,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why it was a perfect situation. I was like, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>there is nothing here, and we ended up dating after

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<v Speaker 1>about four months because I was like, you're actually such

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<v Speaker 1>a great human.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it COVID? And there was just like it was

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<v Speaker 2>within your five kilometer he was AI. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I take it all with a great assault

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<v Speaker 2>that show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally, but we needed something to fire up about Todaysume.

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<v Speaker 2>You're canceled anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if you were listening to us yesterday, I shared

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<v Speaker 1>some pretty huge news about my fiance and I probably

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<v Speaker 1>not what you're thinking, but Ben, my fiance just got

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<v Speaker 1>a brand new transfer. He plays football. He lives in

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<v Speaker 1>Romania usually so we're very long distance, very long distance,

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<v Speaker 1>but he just got the dream football transfer to Italy.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't even really spoken to Ben because of the

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<v Speaker 1>time difference. It all happened yesterday and I've literally not

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<v Speaker 1>really got the lowdown on his first day. So I

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<v Speaker 1>got him on radio. Here he is live on the

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<v Speaker 1>pick up.

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<v Speaker 5>Ben Welcome, Hello guys, good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi Ben. Okay, so this all happened very quickly one day.

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<v Speaker 2>You're living in Romania, and twenty four hours later, you've

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<v Speaker 2>been contracted to play in Italy. Why did you want

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<v Speaker 2>to leave? And what is it about playing over there

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<v Speaker 2>that gets you so excited?

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<v Speaker 5>So I literally had six hours to pack, so I

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<v Speaker 5>was told that midnight, and then I was told by

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<v Speaker 5>the people in charge that the plane leaves at eight am.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy, crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>A few hours to pack, and it's a great move

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<v Speaker 5>for me personally because of the size of the club

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<v Speaker 5>and personally me as an athlete, I always strive to

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<v Speaker 5>play at the highest level.

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<v Speaker 1>And my wife really wants me to go.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, and my wife wants to Carbonara.

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<v Speaker 2>What happens to all the stuff that you had in Romania?

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<v Speaker 2>Like packing up your life in eight hours sounds just

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<v Speaker 2>simply insane.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so half of it is on the bedroom floor.

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<v Speaker 5>I think half of it is packed up in bags

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<v Speaker 5>and put somewhere in the corner. So I just about

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<v Speaker 5>managed to empty the fridge, so there are no surprises

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<v Speaker 5>if I do a day off and gone back, there's

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<v Speaker 5>nothing living in my fridge.

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<v Speaker 2>You did share yesterday. We spoke about this on Life

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<v Speaker 2>on Cut podcast, and you got really emotional about something,

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that sometimes these really big life milestones happen,

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<v Speaker 2>and when you're doing long distance, you don't get to

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<v Speaker 2>be there with your partner or be there to support

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<v Speaker 2>your partner. This is what you had to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I could cry out thinking about it. He sent me

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<v Speaker 1>like photos of humans manager taking the like usually family,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sad. Usually, like partners and family are there

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a really big, nice moment that you sign

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<v Speaker 1>and you're there together and they always get photos and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just never get to do that with Ben. And

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<v Speaker 1>so he just sent me photos of him alone and

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<v Speaker 1>just with his agent and like I should have been there,

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<v Speaker 1>And it was really upsetting because I was like I

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<v Speaker 1>should be there with you.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you especially for you Ben, Like how do

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<v Speaker 2>you guys navigate these periods doing long distance and not

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<v Speaker 2>being able to be there for each other.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think it's really hard because if there is news,

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<v Speaker 5>you want to share it with your partner immediately, and

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<v Speaker 5>obviously with the time difference as well, sometimes there's like

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<v Speaker 5>eight nine hours in between of sharing happy news and

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<v Speaker 5>sad news. So obviously luckily it was happy news. So's

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<v Speaker 5>it's a strange run because obviously we support each other

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<v Speaker 5>so much in our careers respectively, and you know you

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<v Speaker 5>want to share it with your partner. So I really

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<v Speaker 5>wanted for it to be here and share this moment

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<v Speaker 5>with me because she's a huge part of my success

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<v Speaker 5>that I have, and I'd like to think I inspire

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<v Speaker 5>and support for it as much as I can. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>when you guys want accolades and as proud as anyone,

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<v Speaker 5>because I know you guys. I know you guys how

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<v Speaker 5>much you work for it. I know how much you

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<v Speaker 5>work for this and what you put into it, and equally,

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<v Speaker 5>you know how much you know. We could make a

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<v Speaker 5>decision tomorrow and just live together and leave it all behind,

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<v Speaker 5>but we want to have success and we sacrifice a lot,

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<v Speaker 5>and you know, you can only hope that one day

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<v Speaker 5>we will be together and share those moments together. But

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<v Speaker 5>it is a little bit sad and you don't have

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<v Speaker 5>your person with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Poor Ben. I did. I did wake up because it

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<v Speaker 1>happened so quickly, and Ben just mentioned the time difference.

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<v Speaker 1>I did wake up and found out that he had

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<v Speaker 1>told someone else before me, So you're man.

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<v Speaker 2>Got that?

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<v Speaker 1>Not that? And I was like, baby, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your fiance, like I should know the big news.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, I couldn't wait eight hours.

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<v Speaker 5>I had to tell. I went to the next I

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<v Speaker 5>went to the next option, which was Jane Sherry. So

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<v Speaker 5>your sister Siah, So he told.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the same as your sister and your brother in

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<v Speaker 2>law before you found out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, he took them to his hometown before he took me. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>they're more involved than I have.

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<v Speaker 2>Even when you fell pregnant. You can just tell your

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<v Speaker 2>sister and your brother in law before you tell Ben,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you guys are.

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<v Speaker 1>Even probably know I'm pregnant before I know I'm pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Ben, We're so happy for you. Congratulations, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're really looking forward to our tax deductible trip to

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<v Speaker 2>Italy this year. It's gonna be great.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's gonna be good. Well, I'm gonna have Carbonara

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<v Speaker 5>be by the beach and joy espressos.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really proud of you, Ben, And it's really hard

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<v Speaker 1>to see it happening from here, but I'd rather see

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<v Speaker 1>it happening from here than not see it at all.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, baby, I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, Oh you, I love all Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's a very early for you, so you better

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<v Speaker 2>get back to sleep.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just about to catch up on Maddy's adventures in

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<v Speaker 5>the jungles.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, well, if you're catching up on the challenge they

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<v Speaker 2>did from the other night of I'm Celebrity, it will

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<v Speaker 2>make you spew. It was absolutely vile, so good luck

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<v Speaker 2>with that one. Don't do it on a full stomach,

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<v Speaker 2>is all I have to say about that.