WEBVTT - MINI: Britt DOESN'T control her boyfriend's tattoos... 💉

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<v Speaker 1>That mentioned Laura, you guys know me very well better

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<v Speaker 1>than anyone, and you'll know that it's not often I

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<v Speaker 1>get mad, but today I am mad. So Laura and

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<v Speaker 1>I were discussing on our podcast Life Uncut. We're discussing

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<v Speaker 1>tattoos and like, if your partner gets a tattoo, do

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<v Speaker 1>you are you allowed to give an opinion? Can you

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<v Speaker 1>decide together? Et cetera, et cetera. Anyway, I woke up

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the headline on the Daily Mail today

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<v Speaker 1>Bold headline Brittany Hockley has fight with boyfriend Benjamin Sigres

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<v Speaker 1>after she makes a demand about his body. But is

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<v Speaker 1>she in the right? So I demand about his body?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what pissed me off, then it says Brittany Hockley

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<v Speaker 1>revealed on Life on Cut podcast this week, they have

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<v Speaker 1>been arguing about tattoos. Incorrect, explaining her situation to Laura Byrne,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. She disagreed with Benjamin's taste in body art,

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<v Speaker 1>and Bold also demanded that he get tattoos only that

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<v Speaker 1>she likes incorrect. Laura immediately interrupted her, correct, arguing that

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<v Speaker 1>checks out, yeah, arguing that ben.

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<v Speaker 2>Should get whatever tattoo he wants. It's his body.

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<v Speaker 1>This goes on to talk about how Laura says that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand how controversial it is to make demands

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<v Speaker 1>over people's bodies. This is so inaccurate, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to have a discussion about it because this came. I

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<v Speaker 1>would hate for people to think that I'm demanding anything

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<v Speaker 1>of my partner's body. Ben, my beautiful boyfriend, wants to

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<v Speaker 1>get a tattoo, and he wants to make sure I

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<v Speaker 1>like it.

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<v Speaker 2>Seem as though I have.

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<v Speaker 1>To look at it every day for the rest hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>of our life.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that is fine. At the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 2>The kid can get what he wants. He's not a kid,

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<v Speaker 2>but sure can. But it's you know, it's colleaquialism.

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<v Speaker 3>Laura, hey, kid, hold on, what was the discussion of

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<v Speaker 3>the tattoo? What does he want to get?

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<v Speaker 2>So we just we like different things in tattoos.

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<v Speaker 1>He likes really big, dark, bold portrait style, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like he has a Gladiator tattoo on him because it's

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<v Speaker 1>his favorite movie. So yes, he has Russell Crowe's face

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<v Speaker 1>on his leg, things like that. I don't like big

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<v Speaker 1>portrait tattoos. I like quite fine, line, thin ones.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's got a.

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<v Speaker 3>Life Russell on his CAF.

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<v Speaker 4>But I mean, it's just it was more a discussion

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<v Speaker 4>around him saying, hey, I like this tattoo. What do

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<v Speaker 4>you think? And you said, I don't really like it?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think of this one? It was a

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<v Speaker 4>discussion around what he might get as a tattoo.

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred percent, And now it's kicked off this discussion

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<v Speaker 1>about like is it okay to put your two cents

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<v Speaker 1>in about your partner's tattoo. Now I stand by the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that yes, I think it is okay, especially if

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<v Speaker 1>your partner has come to you.

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<v Speaker 2>And said do you like this?

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<v Speaker 1>Ben has said, I only want to get something that

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<v Speaker 1>we both like, like having a kid's name, right, you both.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to agree to it?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? I mean like, firstly, I don't. I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 4>getting too hung up on what the udiation. Oh I

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<v Speaker 4>am I can tell I am hard. I think that

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<v Speaker 4>they hit a nerve and that's okay. I think it's

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<v Speaker 4>a bit unfair how they're are like weaponizing this idea

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<v Speaker 4>of body or autonomy, Like, of course people can do

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<v Speaker 4>whatever they want to their own body, that's obvious. But

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<v Speaker 4>the conversation that you were having was him coming to

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<v Speaker 4>you and being like, this is a consideration. It was

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<v Speaker 4>a conversation. Whereas in my situation, my husband has gone

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<v Speaker 4>to go get a tattoo of a running turtle on

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<v Speaker 4>his ass because he lost a bet. And I don't

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<v Speaker 4>get any saying that, wow, he's just off to go

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<v Speaker 4>and get a tattoo of a turtle. I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. The thing is, if it's on your butt, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't ever have to really look at it. No

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<v Speaker 1>one else has to see it. What do you think, Mitch,

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<v Speaker 1>Would you go get a tattoo without consulting your partner

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that they're gonna have to look at it forever? No?

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't. No, But also my body functuates. I mean

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<v Speaker 3>my tattoo would be tiny, the big Yeah, I couldn't do.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got a stupid one on my side.

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<v Speaker 4>No, But I mean, look, I think most people would

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<v Speaker 4>consult their partners before they went. Not everyone. Some people

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<v Speaker 4>have got lots and therefore it's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think most people before they go and get

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<v Speaker 4>something permanently on their body would at least ask their

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<v Speaker 4>partner if they if they cared or they liked it.

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<v Speaker 4>Just to get some feedback all.

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<v Speaker 2>Of a sudden.

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone

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<v Speaker 3>who turns up with a neck tattoo at dinner and

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<v Speaker 3>I go, oh, how was your day? You clearly wear Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I go neck tattoo. I'd be like red flag I

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<v Speaker 3>want to do It's an open discussion.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it doesn't need like I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to spout the fact that, of course your body is

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<v Speaker 1>your body and you can do what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not about that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's also like you don't come home right and

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<v Speaker 1>say to your partner, hey, pack up, we're going and

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<v Speaker 1>you moving to New York tonight, got a job without

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<v Speaker 1>you knowing, Like in a relationship, I just think they're

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<v Speaker 1>things that you discussed together.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but what if you came home with two nipple piercings.

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<v Speaker 2>He'd probably be turned on.

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<v Speaker 1>He'd be like, maybe you can do that any day

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<v Speaker 1>of the week.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Well, coming up. I want to know what

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<v Speaker 4>is when it comes to toilets, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>this to get to when it comes to toilets. I

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<v Speaker 4>want to know what is the public toilet etiquette, because

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<v Speaker 4>when you have kids, you end up spending a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of time in public toilets unfortunately.

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<v Speaker 2>And I have a few thoughts, Oh, do you need

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<v Speaker 2>some lessons in toilet matam is toilets.

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<v Speaker 3>We can take you to the office.

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<v Speaker 2>And show you if we can do it in the

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<v Speaker 2>break if you want.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, good man. We don't do it on the radio,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's your airtime.

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<v Speaker 2>So you wipe front to back. See this is the problem.

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<v Speaker 3>People do things differently.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't do back to front. Some people stand up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you actually can't. You can't wipe the poop

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<v Speaker 1>from the back to the front. You can get very

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<v Speaker 1>unwell from that.

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<v Speaker 3>I've got different bits to you.

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<v Speaker 4>There we go, all right, coming up next.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't wipe this riveting discussion on the peace got

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<v Speaker 3>my fees.