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Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation.

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Speaker 2: Arms for the pub Test prize parties?

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Speaker 3: Do they pass the pub test?

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Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of them. You are, aren't you?

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Speaker 4: Well, I've never had one. I like the idea.

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Speaker 2: You like the idea of being the center of a

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Speaker 2: lot of people. Don't like them. If you're an introvert,

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Speaker 2: you don't like being the center of attention. For me,

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Speaker 2: the lack of control would be overwhelming you.

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Speaker 3: No, no, so it's beyond your control.

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Speaker 2: But then on the night, the feeling you've got to

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Speaker 2: host this thing somehow that you weren't even aware of.

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Speaker 2: That would make me anxious. Yeah, but you know, people

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Speaker 2: don't throw you a surprise party then expect you to

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Speaker 2: hand out the cheesy dips. These are my irrational feelings

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Speaker 2: around it. And some people get the feel good dopamine

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Speaker 2: hit because they feel loved and it's wonderful. Others, and

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Speaker 2: it's documented, get a stress release, a stress reaction. So

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Speaker 2: how do you feel about surprise parties for you? Do

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Speaker 2: they pass the pub test?

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Speaker 3: I reckon they do. I threw one for my husband's

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Speaker 3: fiftieth a couple of months ago, and he was absolutely

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Speaker 3: stunned when you walk in door. He was I think

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Speaker 3: he was frozen for about two hours. We had people

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Speaker 3: from interstate. It was fabulous.

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Speaker 4: I think it depends who he's throwing it for, but

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Speaker 4: in my situation, no, My daughters and I decided to

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Speaker 4: throw one from my son when he turned sixteen, and

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Speaker 4: after it was all over, he asked me could he

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Speaker 4: have another party the following weekend with people that he

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Speaker 4: actually liked.

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Speaker 1: I'm not too big on surprise parties that the missile

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Speaker 1: loves organizing.

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Speaker 5: It for me, and I suppose if she's happy, then

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Speaker 5: I'm happy. I feel it's absolutely wonderful when someone goes

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Speaker 5: out of the way to make you feel extra special.

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Speaker 5: We did a surprise party for my mother a few

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Speaker 5: years back, and she absolutely enjoyed it, and so did

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Speaker 5: everyone else. Say yes to me, it passes the pub debt.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you know, you've got to consider the person you're

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Speaker 1: throwing them for. We threw the one for my mom

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Speaker 1: and she actually didn't tell any of her friends how

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Speaker 1: old she was, and then we threw a really big

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Speaker 1: surprise party and kind of let the cat out of

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Speaker 1: the bag with her age, and she was so annoyed

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Speaker 1: with me and my sister talk to her. Clayer like

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Speaker 1: quite a while.

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Speaker 2: Interesting. What should people getting jazzed about their age? Pever

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Speaker 2: understand that? Well a lot of people in the old

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Speaker 2: like from women, I can understand it, but men.

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Speaker 3: There was this guy and he wouldn't say his age.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to say you're age.

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Speaker 2: When people are judged in the workplace for how old

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Speaker 2: they are, that could that have been it? No, No,

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Speaker 2: this is just a pure vanity thing.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it was.

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Speaker 2: It makes no you know, it makes no sense. Some

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Speaker 2: people are sensitive about that stuff, aren't they missed? Fifty seven?

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Speaker 2: Fifty eight?

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Speaker 3: How old are you?

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Speaker 2: I am fifty seven?

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Speaker 4: Are you? Or?

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Speaker 3: Am I fifty?

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Speaker 4: Ual?

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Speaker 3: I'm fifty seven?

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Speaker 2: Are okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm fifty seven.

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Speaker 2: Good. Yeah, it's easy to forget. It really is easy

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Speaker 2: to figure. And you're still thirty two, aren't. I just aren't.

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Speaker 4: I just