1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody podcast. 2 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 2: Well, we've got a call from a woman called Page. 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 2: Yesterday was saying worst day, worst day to get dumped. 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 3: Yes, I was about sixteen and I was on my 5 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 3: way to my boyfriend's house and the relationships. We got 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 3: there and realized this dog was dying, so we had 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 3: to go take him, take it to the vet. 8 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 4: We took it to the vet. 9 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 3: It passed away at the vet. We got back home 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 3: and I still pro seated him with the breaker. 11 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: Much dog in the window. 12 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 5: I need to that audio Pale. 13 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: I think it's necessary just to remind everyone how beautiful 14 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 2: where dogs are. 15 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 1: Now. 16 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 2: Putting your dog down for the worst day of your life? No, 17 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: it is. Have you been, you know, next to a 18 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: dog when that happens. I actually I've grown up with 19 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 2: the dog. Your eyeballing the dog. They're looking at you, 20 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 2: they're going, hey, everything's good here, and then they're gone. 21 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: That's a shocking day. That's the worst day in my life. 22 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 5: I imagine. 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 6: So. 24 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 5: But I also say before I speak the Page, because 25 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 5: I don't want to scare a Page off, I would 26 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 5: say one of the worst things you can do to 27 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 5: someone is to stay with them when you know you 28 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 5: want to break up with them in. 29 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: A couple of weeks. Brother, I don't need to know 30 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: about it. 31 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 5: That's it. 32 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 2: It's tears dry, the tears dry. 33 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 5: I didn't do it, mate. Let's go to page quickly 34 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 5: from your from your opinion page. I'm trying to defend 35 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 5: you here because I do think it's like a it's 36 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 5: a bit of a lineball situation here. Here you go 37 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 5: on page good. 38 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 7: Thanks you very good. 39 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 5: Now, obviously, like obviously you I mean when you you 40 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 5: called the show and we were talking about the worst, 41 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 5: you know, bad timing to break up with someone, you know, 42 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 5: it obviously wasn't a good time page. But you've obviously 43 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 5: made absolute yeah, and you've obviously made the decision to go. Look, 44 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 5: I know I want to break up with you. I 45 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 5: think you know. 46 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 2: I think today is the wrong day. 47 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 5: Well, no, I imagine, Paige, you were going, Look, you're 48 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 5: already in a bad place, so maybe I'll just love 49 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 5: this one in there and you can sort of grieve 50 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 5: both me and the dog at the same time. Is 51 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 5: that was that the reasoning? 52 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 4: No, that wasn't the reasoning. 53 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 2: I just thought it. 54 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,239 Speaker 4: No, it wasn't. 55 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 6: That was terrible, and I shouldn't have done it. 56 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 5: Oh so okay, so you regretted page. 57 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 3: I regret the timing. 58 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 5: You regret the timing. Yeah, But the only other thing 59 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 5: i'd say, and you know, because I mean the fact 60 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 5: that you're regretting this page means let's just put this 61 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 5: to bed. 62 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 2: It was. 63 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 5: It was a bad thing to do. But the only 64 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 5: other defense I would say, and this is my last 65 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 5: one before I just stopped, is and I say this 66 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 5: from experience I've when I was a lot younger, I've 67 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 5: I've stayed with people for a longer period of time. 68 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 5: Take dog dying at it, but I've stayed with people 69 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 5: and knowing that I want to break up with them, 70 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 5: and I think that's more damaging than just ripping the 71 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 5: band aid off. 72 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 2: Yes, no, look, I just. 73 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 3: No certified I didn't do it that day, like I 74 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 3: wouldn't have done it. It's like I went with the 75 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 3: mentality of this is going to happen. 76 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,119 Speaker 2: So you were surprised. So you got there, you walk 77 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 2: in the front door, You're like, Jake, how are let's 78 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 2: have a chat, right, and then all of a sudden, 79 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 2: Bessie's in the backyard puts her foot in a bear trap. 80 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 2: And you're like, shit, bad day? Is that sequence? Okay? 81 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: So then you had to go to the vet and 82 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 2: you're sitting there going geez, I'm still sitting on this thing. 83 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 2: I still can't come. I know it was. I want 84 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: to take some calls on this because I'm sorry, like 85 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 2: for me. As I said before, let the tears try, 86 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 2: like for the sake of don't worry about the relationship. 87 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 2: Let's just think about them as as a person. Yeah, yeah, 88 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 2: let's think about them as a person and let's just 89 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 2: go right. You need a shoulder to cry on for 90 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 2: the next little while. I will sit on the guilt 91 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 2: for a little bit. Yes, I shouldn't be with you 92 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: for a couple of weeks, but at least you've got 93 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 2: your rock next to you to help support. 94 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 5: Yeah. I think that's a pretty good point. 95 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 2: Well, thanks, mate, I appreciate that. How long you've got nothing? 96 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 5: How long do you how long do you wait? 97 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 7: Like? 98 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 5: How is this a six month thing? 99 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 2: I said, Let the tears drive and wait till they 100 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 2: take the dog bet out of the house for Christ's sake. 101 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 5: True, that's the thing you. 102 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 2: Do, all right? Yeah, you gotta take it out of there, 103 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 2: all right? Page page Yes, I appreciate that you've called 104 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: the show again and in all honesty, In all honesty, 105 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 2: there are a lot of people in this team who 106 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 2: will remain nameless because they're cowards who seem to think 107 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 2: that as what he said. I mean, I don't like 108 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 2: the language around it, but you know, lobbing the pain 109 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: together is a good way to go about this. You know, 110 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 2: it's sort of like have it all at once and 111 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 2: then they've got time to get over it all at once. 112 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, right, yeah, go on, Page. 113 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 3: If it's both on the same day, they might put 114 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 3: it into perspective like, oh, well, the dog's passing away, 115 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 3: is were so getting broken up with it? 116 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 8: Might not see that bad. 117 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 5: One more one more, I'll saying your on a page 118 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 5: is soy say if however long it takes for him 119 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,239 Speaker 5: to get over the fact that he talks past Yeah, 120 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 5: so you're like, okay, you're happy now, Well, now that 121 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 5: you're in a good mood, I'm breaking up with you 122 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 5: and then it's this roller coaster or would you prefer 123 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 5: really going down, getting over it and moving on? 124 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 2: They would Yeah, I know, okay, Page is going to 125 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 2: stay with us. The great news is Page's X. Jake 126 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 2: is going to join us on the phone up next. 127 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 2: Oh my lord, but I'd love to hear from some 128 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: of you guys. Third one, six five. Do we think 129 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 2: she did the right thing? There? Are you pro pain lumping? 130 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 2: Or do you think she should have stepped it out 131 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: a little bit and given him some time to recovery? 132 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 2: How's this for a scenario? Oh? How's this for a scenario? 133 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:47,280 Speaker 2: You're with someone? Right? Sorry, I lost my headphones for 134 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: a second. Man, pretty terrifying. 135 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 7: Stroke. 136 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 2: Here we go. Okay, it's quite feminine, wasn't it? All? Right? 137 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 5: Here we go. 138 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 2: This is the scenario. You're with someone, right, You want 139 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 2: to break up with them something horrible happens to them. 140 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 2: Is it more ethical to break up with them on 141 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: the same day that the horrible thing happens to them? 142 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 2: Or should you wait a little while? I was firmly 143 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 2: in the camp of just wait, let them get over it, 144 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 2: and then hit them with the next thing. Woody, the 145 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 2: most cowardly person I've ever met, seems to think that 146 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 2: hitting him with it on the same thing. Seems to 147 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 2: think with hit him on the same day, it's a 148 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 2: better way to go about it. You surprised me. 149 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 5: It's depending on obviously the thing and the specific example 150 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 5: we're talking about is a dog Dame, which is obviously 151 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 5: on the higher degree of a bad. 152 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: A woman called Page called the show yesterday. Let's have 153 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 2: a listen to the audio. First, Agapeak. 154 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 3: I was about sixteen and I was on my way 155 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 3: to my boyfriend's house and the relationships. We got there 156 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 3: and realized this dog was dying, so we have to 157 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 3: go take him to the vet. 158 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 4: We took it to the vet. 159 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 3: It passed away at the vet. We got back home 160 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 3: and I still first seated. It was the breaker. 161 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 5: Why So, where one place I'm coming from this is 162 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 5: from experience, is I've I've gone to I've known I 163 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 5: want to break up with someone before and then stayed 164 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 5: with them, probably out of cowardly reasons, or I would 165 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 5: justify reasons in my head now it's not a good 166 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 5: time because things are tough at work, or because they've 167 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 5: whatever the reason is, I can't with reasons. And I 168 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 5: think that was the strong how I ever could have 169 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 5: done to someone, because I think I think if you're 170 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 5: in a relationship and someone's to one side's not in anymore, 171 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 5: I think you can always tell as well. 172 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, but their dog just done, Paige, and that's yeah, 173 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 2: Page joins us. Now, welcome back, Page. Good on you 174 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 2: for coming back on the show. I was just checking yoursel. 175 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 5: I'm actually saying now that if you had your time again, 176 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 5: you would have done it differently. You probably would have 177 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 5: stayed with him, right. 178 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 8: Oh no, I'm just saying that it was a bad timing. 179 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 2: All right, you're sticking mine got an integrity page. I 180 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: like this about it. She's willing to say it was 181 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: a bad thing to do, but she felt like that 182 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 2: was the right way to go about it. It's let's go. 183 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 2: I asked people to call thirty one oh six five. 184 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 2: Should she have waited, Tash or Tash you've called, what 185 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 2: would you have done? 186 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 8: I would have just done the same thing, ripped the 187 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 8: bad date off. Yeah, exact same thing, Because like, at 188 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 8: the end of the day, there's no good time to 189 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 8: break up with someone, and I feel like if you 190 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 8: let them heal for like a month and then you 191 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 8: just hit them with another like bombshell, I feel like 192 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 8: that that would be worth If it was me, I'd 193 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 8: rather someone just break up with me at the same time. 194 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 8: Whether I would do that or not, I don't know, 195 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 8: but I would rather that happened to me. 196 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 5: That's actually I haven't thought about putting the shoe on 197 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 5: the other foot. I would want them to break up 198 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 5: with me. 199 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 2: Have you had a dog that you put down? 200 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 5: No? 201 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 2: No, all right, Tash? Have you no? Chess is called 202 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 2: on thirty one oh six five chess. You've been in 203 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 2: a similar situation? 204 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, I have. 205 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 4: Boyse I ended up breaking up with an X right 206 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 4: after he found out that his mum got cancer. 207 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it. 208 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 4: Was like I felt kind of guilt tripped into feeling 209 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 4: like I needed to say for him. Not that he 210 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 4: guilted me, but you know, of course you want to 211 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 4: be there for them and you want to support them, 212 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 4: but I couldn't. If the relationship isn't right for you, 213 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 4: then you really need to just get out, and because 214 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 4: otherwise someone else might have been the right person for 215 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 4: them to support. 216 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 2: Them once you're out. 217 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 5: A good point that I had. 218 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: When you're still in it, you don't give them a 219 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 2: chance to find another support network. 220 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 3: Yea, exactly. 221 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's just that's good stuff. 222 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 2: Interesting. 223 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 5: Go to Amanda here, Amanda, what are your thoughts you've experienced. 224 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 6: There's been some good words that I have been on 225 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 6: the receiving end when my grandmother passed away, lone, I 226 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 6: was lonely. I called the guy and he was a 227 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 6: bit he came, he was a bit distant. I had 228 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 6: my snotty cry, and I found out two weeks later 229 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 6: that he'd actually left his new girlfriend to come to 230 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 6: see me. Oh he didn't tell me. And being knowing 231 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 6: that you've had a snotty cry with somebody who's been 232 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 6: in that situation, you not only feel like ships for 233 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 6: the breakup, but then you feel like an idiot. You 234 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 6: had a snotty cry and they were already checked out? 235 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 5: Amanda, what if you so. 236 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 2: Let's take this cry you said it about three times down. 237 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 6: It's an important factor. 238 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 5: I know, I know you had and there are snotty cries, 239 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 5: But man, if we take out the cheating side of this, 240 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 5: if you found out that, say, he wasn't with his 241 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 5: new girlfriend, and you just found out that he was 242 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 5: probably checked out of their relationship, would you still think 243 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 5: the same about those snotty cries? Or would you be 244 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 5: grateful that he's stuck with you for a few weeks 245 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 5: when you were going through a tough No. 246 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 6: I would have preferred to just not rock up because 247 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 6: it's a really vulnerable thing to be so distressed with somebody, 248 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 6: and if you know that they're checked out, then that 249 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 6: it's it's a really uncomfortable feeling. That's like the last 250 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 6: girl said, like if you checked out, let them find 251 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 6: a better support system. 252 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 5: She whiz, I didn't see this going this way. But well, 253 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 5: Page is just on the phone. 254 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, Page, how are you feeling? 255 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 10: Well? 256 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 3: I like what I think it was tasked the first call. 257 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 8: I said, it's never a good time to break up 258 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 8: with somebody. 259 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 2: So what's not a good time, though, is the afternoon 260 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: after they put their dog down. I reckon, we could 261 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 2: put that is not a good time. 262 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 5: We will hang it onto it like a dog with 263 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 5: a bone. Well, it's amazingly we do. 264 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 2: Usually just don't think I could do it. 265 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, And it's it's so funny, like I feel like 266 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 5: the place where I'm talking from is that I've stayed 267 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 5: with someone for too long when YE kind of excuses 268 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 5: and you've obviously had a shocking experience putting down a dog. 269 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 5: So yeah, it's almost like that visceral memory for you 270 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 5: is like, how could you break up with someone in 271 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 5: that position? But then yeah, there's the other side which 272 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 5: our calls a beautifully spoken about, which is staying with 273 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 5: someone you don't want it as bad. 274 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 2: But let's went down to the pisto resistance here, because 275 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 2: the man who put his dog down and was broken 276 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 2: up with that afternoon by Page, Jake, Oh, cleaz, he's 277 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 2: as an entrance here. He is welcome to the show. Jake. 278 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 5: How oh, Now that's that's not by that. 279 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,199 Speaker 2: That's not by that, Jake, Jake, it was a long time. 280 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 2: It was eight years ago, Jake. 281 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 11: No, I think it was like I think Page sixteen, 282 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 11: but we were nineteen and eighteen. 283 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 2: I think, oh okay, okay, a bit fresher than we felt. 284 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 5: So from your perspective, Jakie, you've sort of you've heard 285 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 5: the calls as well, and you're obviously the one who 286 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 5: was on the receiving end of being broken up with 287 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 5: on the day that your dog past. Looking back on 288 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 5: that time, are you would you have preferred it if 289 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 5: it happened later or were you happy that Paige did 290 00:12:58,240 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 5: it on the day. 291 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 11: Well, it's kind of funny because Page stayed over that 292 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 11: night and we were on our way to breakfast and 293 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 11: she just handed me her phone and she's like, I 294 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 11: want you to read this and whatever. I read it, 295 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 11: and it's like a breakup on a message in notes, 296 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 11: I'd say, oh, I was already, I guess upset. So 297 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 11: I just had a little tantrum, got up and left 298 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 11: her car because we were out the front and she said, 299 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 11: are we still going to go get breakfast? And I 300 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 11: said like no, and yeah. 301 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 2: So it was. 302 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 11: So yeah, it was like that, really you you're going 303 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 11: oh to make it like even funnier when her house 304 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 11: was getting built. This is only like a year ago. 305 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 2: Her dog came to live with me, so oh my god, Wow, wow, 306 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,959 Speaker 2: he's got everything. So you guys are on speaking terms again. 307 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, we're friends, Paige, did. 308 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 2: You was there a hint of irony in the air 309 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 2: when you sent Jake your dog page. I think she's 310 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 2: been embarrassed. 311 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 5: I think she's the sayings got your tongue, but dog 312 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 5: got your tongue. She's the Will and Woody podcast. It's 313 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 5: got an idea to prank my dad, and there's a 314 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 5: reason why we're doing it, and we'll talk about that 315 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 5: first and then we'll get onto pranking my dad. So 316 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 5: there's a big soccer thing going on in Qatar right now. 317 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 5: I can't say exactly what it is because we don't 318 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 5: have the rights, but effectively, a very famous player called 319 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 5: Cristiano Ronaldo has done something quite funny over the night. 320 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 5: He claimed that he touched a ball before it went 321 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 5: in the net, so effectively he claimed that it was 322 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 5: his goal when in fact he didn't touch it. 323 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 12: Cristiano Ronaldo was a little too eager to claim the 324 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 12: opening goal in Portugal's Too Neil, win over your replays 325 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 12: showing the legend didn't touch the ball with it being 326 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 12: awarded to Bruno Fernandez. 327 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 5: All right, now I want to see if my dad 328 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 5: would do exactly what Christiana Ronaldo has done there and 329 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 5: claim the work of someone else. So for those that 330 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 5: don't know who don't follow this show a lot, we 331 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 5: recently had a mural of us making out in the 332 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 5: studio painted on a wall. Massive mural. It's incredible piece 333 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 5: of art. Yes, if you want to see it, go 334 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 5: to our socials Will and Woody. It was done by 335 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 5: a very famous street artist called Dannielle Webber. Now Dad 336 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 5: is someone who likes to do a little bit of art, 337 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 5: So I said to Dad, hey, mate, you can go 338 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 5: down and actually watch her do the mural if you want, like, 339 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 5: don't annoy her. But I know you enjoy that, so 340 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 5: why don't you go down and watch? 341 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 3: Yep. 342 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 5: She was so nice about the whole thing that she 343 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 5: actually allowed him to pick up a brush at one point, 344 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 5: and to be frank, he actually almost ruined the painting 345 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 5: because he did it wrong. Yes, but she allowed him 346 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 5: to touch the wall with paint brush, so it felt 347 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 5: like he contribute. 348 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 2: Yes, It's almost like when you're playing a PlayStation game 349 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 2: and you give a toddler the other controller, but it's 350 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 2: not connected exactly. 351 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:09,479 Speaker 5: That is the perfect analogy. 352 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 2: You just feel like part of it. 353 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 5: So the big question is, if he was pressed on it, 354 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 5: would Dad claim that he was a big contributor to 355 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 5: the mural? Okay, enter the plan. We've got a button, 356 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 5: push a Tom in the studio here now, Tom, Dad 357 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 5: has never met you before, so we won't know your voice. No, 358 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 5: that's correct, Yes, perfect, Okay, Me, Dad and my brother 359 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 5: are going to this effectively a jazz concert tonight. 360 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: You're a cool dude. 361 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 5: Thank you so much. I appreciate that Dad's idea. I 362 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 5: think Dad knows the musician. That's why we're going to Well, 363 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 5: but I love the company. So I love the company 364 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 5: of my dad and my brother. So I thought, wouldn't 365 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 5: it be funny if you called from this person where 366 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 5: he booked the tickets and effectively say like, hey, we're 367 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 5: doing something where we're looking after artists. Are you an artist? 368 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 5: And if he claims to have contributed to this mural, 369 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 5: then you give him free drinks or something. How about 370 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 5: a two grand bar tab? Perfect? Okay? Okay? And the 371 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 5: big question is will he claim to have done the 372 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 5: mural in order to get the bar? 373 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 2: Surely he won't claim it. 374 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 5: You don't know my dad. This man loves a dollar 375 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 5: sure than anybody. 376 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:14,360 Speaker 2: But it's a whole, the whole mural. 377 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 5: See what happens we make the call up next? 378 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 2: What's going to prank on your dad? Yeah? 379 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 5: Just how big of a titus is my dad? Would 380 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 5: he go to the lengths of claiming someone else's work? 381 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 2: So not just not just someone else's the best street 382 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 2: artists in the world. Yes, work Danielle Ever, the woman 383 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:38,360 Speaker 2: who Dwayne the Rock Johnson personally commissioned to do his portrait. Yes, 384 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 2: there's a difference, right, Like it's you know, me coming 385 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 2: in and claiming Joe Blow's work. Versus me coming in 386 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 2: here and claiming, you know, Howard Hugh, is there a 387 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,679 Speaker 2: big radio, a big radio. 388 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 5: Radio. Leonardo DiCaprio plays in the aviat he. 389 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 2: Might be you think of Howard Howard. Turns out I 390 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 2: was trying to think big international radio star. 391 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, sure, No, it was a good point, thanks Mane. Anyway, 392 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 5: so if you don't know, we had a mural painted 393 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 5: of us making out, but we was referring to an 394 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 5: amazing street that is called Danielle Webber. Now Dad and 395 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 5: I are going to this jazz gig tonight. Yes, so 396 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 5: we've got a button push of Tom in here. Tom, 397 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:18,160 Speaker 5: I want you to call as someone from this bar 398 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 5: where we're going to call jazz man. You're a cool 399 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 5: jazz man. Play the part, play the part, and then 400 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 5: effectively I want you to say that there's a fund 401 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 5: going at the moment at the jazz bar where they're 402 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 5: making it cheaper or shouting drinks for other artists. Great. 403 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 5: So the question is will Dad hear this and go, oh, yeah, 404 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 5: actually I painted a mural recently, hence claiming Danielle's work 405 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 5: to save a dollar. Wow. 406 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:47,400 Speaker 2: I really hope he doesn't. You know, will you going 407 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 2: to a small jazz bar, like, come on checking the 408 00:18:53,600 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 2: number in now? Hello? Is that Stephen Steven? 409 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 9: Hello? 410 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 5: Hi Steven? 411 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 2: Have I got the right number? Yeah? 412 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,120 Speaker 5: Hi, it's Tom from. 413 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:14,640 Speaker 8: Oh good mate? 414 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:15,959 Speaker 2: How are you good? Thanks? 415 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 5: You book tickets tonight for Is that right? 416 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 6: Correct? 417 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 4: Yeah? 418 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 5: Awesome? 419 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 13: So I'm just calling because tonight at the gig, AGTA 420 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 13: is actually giving us a few rebates. 421 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: Have you heard about AGTA? No, it's artists giving to artists. 422 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 13: So it's this little group that are basically they formed 423 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 13: in COVID and they're just giving back to artists. 424 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 425 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 13: So I'm just ringing around a few people because we 426 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:44,159 Speaker 13: haven't had many artists register and we've got rebates on 427 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 13: tickets and a two thousand dollars bar tab for tonight. 428 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 13: And so do you mind if I ask you a 429 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 13: couple of questions to see if you qualify? 430 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 11: Mate, I'm just stuck at the moment. 431 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 13: Hang on, that's okay, I've just got like three question Yeah, sure, 432 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 13: go for it, okay, sweet. So the question one is 433 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 13: would you call yourself an artist? 434 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:10,640 Speaker 6: Well? 435 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 9: Bullshit artists? 436 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 13: Yeah? 437 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 2: Good? 438 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 5: Yeah? 439 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 13: Well, have you been involved in any big art projects 440 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 13: in say, the last three months? 441 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 6: Last three I did contribute to a to a mirror. 442 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 13: Okay, what was your involvement in that? 443 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 5: It's just bits and pieces really. 444 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 13: Okay, So I can put you down as a contributor 445 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 13: on that art project. 446 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 3: Then yeah, more like a consultant. 447 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:40,719 Speaker 5: Okay. 448 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 13: But if I had to give it a bit of 449 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 13: a stretch to get you this bar tab, yeah, I 450 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 13: could put you down as one of the contributors. 451 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 11: Yeah, okay, yeah, definitely, definitely, Yeah, I definitely contributed. 452 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 5: What a load of cod's while I've done. 453 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 2: Okay, you. 454 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 5: Absolutely not, mate, and you've embarrassed yourself on live radio. 455 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 5: You trying to claim the work of Danny L. Weber. 456 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 5: My god, Dad, is there no shame. 457 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 9: When there's two thousand dollars on the. 458 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 5: Life your your your answers shifted so much as soon 459 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 5: as a button push of Tom in here, brilliant on 460 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 5: the goal, very very good. But your tone changing so 461 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 5: quickly when Tom said, look there's a rebate in the 462 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,159 Speaker 5: potential bar tab here. If you're an artist and all 463 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,440 Speaker 5: of a sudden you are taking the questions very seriously, 464 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 5: Dad might stop driving and pulled over to the more 465 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 5: Willan Woody The will and Woody Podcast. 466 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 2: What's the worst thing you've woken up to woods Yeah, 467 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 2: worst or scariest, because this one definitely falls in the 468 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 2: scary category for me. 469 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 5: So Elon Musk has taken a photo of his bedside table. 470 00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 5: I'll start with the stuff that isn't so scary for 471 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 5: cans of diet coke. I mean, too much DC for me, 472 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 5: but not scary. He's got a Buddhist amulet which he 473 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 5: uses for prayer. And then here's the kicker. Two guns. Beside. 474 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 5: As we said before the song, I mean, if you've 475 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 5: had a one night stand with you Elon, or you've 476 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 5: just crashed at his house, you wake up two guns 477 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 5: on the bedside table. Now they're not real guns. One 478 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 5: of them is George Washington's, which I imagine he paid a 479 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 5: fair bit for, and the other one's a toy gun 480 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 5: from a like a computer game. Interesting guy. Anyway, Let's 481 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 5: go to Rachel here on thirteen one oh six five. Rachel, 482 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 5: what did you wake up to? 483 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 7: We wake up to our house on fire? 484 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 5: Gee whiz? And how did you play it? What'd you do? Oh? 485 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 7: Me and my partner we both woke up at the 486 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 7: same time. It was this loud crack bang. My partner 487 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 7: jumped out of bed, opened the door, and I was 488 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 7: just his stick, black smoke, a bothers like from sort 489 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 7: of halfway up, and this orange glowy like you would 490 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,199 Speaker 7: never see. You've never seen anything like it. And we 491 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 7: ran down the hallway, but half the house is already gone. 492 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 7: So I quickly ran into my son's room, got him, 493 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 7: ran into my daughter's room. Eight year old. 494 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 2: No, she's nine. 495 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 7: Hours, three years ago, so she was six, Like, come on, honey, 496 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 7: you got to get up. You're going to get it going. 497 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 7: My dog, my partner's dog, and we were looking after 498 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 7: my partner's bosses dog. At the same time. 499 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,399 Speaker 2: I was just joined your partner and you got your 500 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 2: partner's bosses dog, your dog, two kids, a roll call, 501 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 2: I leave the house well. 502 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,359 Speaker 7: And we had a bird which was. 503 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 5: It's like doctor Doolittle's house in there. 504 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 2: She whiz, Oh wow, that's hard enough. Thanks, all right, 505 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 2: let's go to dogs a bird. Because I was going 506 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,239 Speaker 2: to say, you know, it's like that thing, if you're 507 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 2: going to go down on a plane, you'd much rather 508 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 2: be with yourself than people that you love. 509 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 5: Oh oh yeah, watching your loved one go down. 510 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true, right, Like if you're waking him an 511 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 2: house by yourself, and it's burning right to get the 512 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 2: hell out of here. Yeah, so you go, oh my god, 513 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 2: these are the people in here and two dogs and 514 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,200 Speaker 2: a bird and a poodle and a goldfish. 515 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:19,880 Speaker 5: And you work to be done. 516 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. You can't just run. 517 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 5: And at what point do you go, I'm not going 518 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 5: back to the bird, you know what I mean? Like, No, 519 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 5: it's the whole house is coming down at some point. 520 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 5: You might have to go. All right, kids, there's. 521 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 2: A priori right, there's kids are the first down. 522 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying, protal list kids. 523 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,959 Speaker 2: Sorry, I thought you were saying, all right, kids, leave them, 524 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 2: let's get the bird. 525 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,400 Speaker 5: Did you notice that? Rachel, when she told his story, 526 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,120 Speaker 5: said friend first and then kids after. 527 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: That was pretty interest friend. 528 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 5: She said, I got my friend first, and then I 529 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 5: went and got my kids. 530 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: Right. 531 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 5: Anyway, let's got a stewart here. I'm thirty one or 532 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 5: six five stewarts. This is when you were fourteen, scarce 533 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 5: thing you woke up to it? 534 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, so I was fourteen. I woke up to foot 535 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 9: on my forehead from some idea that was breaking into 536 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 9: my house. 537 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:08,959 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what did they say nothing like. 538 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 9: I woke up as they stood onto my forehead and 539 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 9: I just I grabbed them, thinking at first it was 540 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,919 Speaker 9: my sisters being stupid. Yeah, and then I realized that 541 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 9: there was there was somebody climbing into the window. I 542 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 9: tried to pull them in, but they managed to get outside. 543 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 9: This was a thirty degree night in summer, so I'm 544 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 9: stuck as nude. I grabbed my I grabbed my baseball bat, 545 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 9: and I chased them down the street. 546 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 5: In the nude. 547 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 9: In the nude me unlucky. 548 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 5: Right of all the things to step onto and naked 549 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 5: man is not what he was expecting. 550 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 2: Seated like that, that he was climbing into the window. 551 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,919 Speaker 2: Because my first thought was, why do you like, if 552 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,239 Speaker 2: you're breaking to someone's house, why are you putting your 553 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 2: foot on his forehead? 554 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 5: Unless he was reaching for like a plasma screen which 555 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,160 Speaker 5: was on the wall and you had to step on him. 556 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 5: I was thinking, anyone's got to Marcus here, Marcus, what's 557 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 5: the worst thing you've woken up to? Mate, I wasn't up. 558 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 14: Two is having my WiFi? 559 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:22,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a bloody nightmare morning Instagram scroll you missed out. 560 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 2: It's Will and Woody right now, we have tickets to 561 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 2: a gig so exclusive that I actually can't even tell 562 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 2: you when it is Sam Smith coming back to Australia. 563 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:37,919 Speaker 2: Are you ready to sing this next one with me? 564 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 5: Sam Smith is coming back and heading to South Australia. 565 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 2: Performing at an invite only. 566 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 5: Event at the amazing darren Burg Q McLaren Vale ahead 567 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 5: of the release of their new album Gloria on January 568 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 5: twenty seven. 569 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:58,120 Speaker 2: Seriously, elite package this one. Five double passes to go 570 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 2: and see Sam Smith and this looks elite. It's at 571 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 2: darrenberg Q McLaren Vals. It'll be out in God's country 572 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 2: out there. One double passing cards, flights and accommodation all 573 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 2: included as well. Pretty good stuff. What you've got to 574 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 2: try and do, though, Woods, is nail this song, which 575 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 2: I certainly wouldn't be able to do. Holy he left. 576 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 2: It's a naughty song. 577 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 5: That is hard. That is they're an incredible singer that 578 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 5: is hard to replicate. But we've got Dannyelle here who 579 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,880 Speaker 5: wants those tickets? Dannyelle, you want to give it a crack? 580 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,199 Speaker 10: Oh my god, I definitely do. 581 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 5: All right, Well, you know the bid come in after 582 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 5: them if you sing it. Well, you could be going 583 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 5: to see them, but. 584 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 3: Oh well, well he left his kids that well, well, 585 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:04,719 Speaker 3: so he can get that. 586 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 1: Mamma, don't know. 587 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 3: Doddy's getting hut at the body shop doing something. 588 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:15,119 Speaker 11: Unto ys dannyel So. 589 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 2: By god, all right, let's cross across to Shane. Now, Shane, Hi, 590 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,199 Speaker 2: give you the hot tip person that the block that 591 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 2: sound this yesterday was abborn. Uh let's see you know 592 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 2: the boys proud? Are you ready to go? 593 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 7: Oh? 594 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:36,399 Speaker 8: Okay, look to it. 595 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 2: All right, here we are she bothered. Oh well, will. 596 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 11: He'll let you skins. 597 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 10: So we can get that. 598 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 7: Mommy, don't know Toddy's getting hut hard the body shop 599 00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 7: through in subbling on HOLLI. 600 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 5: Wow, shine, look is I think Shane brought it home 601 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 5: with a bang. That false setter was tight in my eyes. 602 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 2: You disagree absolutely. I think Daniel's got him on TOS 603 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 2: and I don't think we If we change it, I 604 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 2: think we're gonna be Yeah. I don't think that's fair. 605 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 2: I think Daniel's got him. Daniel, congrats, you're gonna go 606 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 2: and see Sam Smith. Well done, Sam Smith coming back 607 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 2: and end is out of the strape performing an invite 608 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 2: on the event Darren Berg K McLaren valehead of the 609 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 2: release of their new album Gloria Jan twenty seven. Shane, 610 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 2: you can have one hundred bucks to spend at Red 611 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 2: Roost and the roaster is calling unholy? How'll we cill 612 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 2: and Woods? And towards the end of the year, we 613 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 2: are counting down the ten calls of Christmas. The best 614 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 2: calls of this year, perhaps number seven. 615 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 5: The ten Calls of Christmas song Willen This is a ripper. 616 00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 5: I feel like I'm saying this about every call, but 617 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 5: I'm shocked this is only seventh. I think it definitely 618 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 5: deserves top five. But without further ado, enjoy, Julie, the. 619 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 2: Seventh color of Christmas and willow Wood. 620 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 5: It's doing the Ramo winkies. 621 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 2: See, I'm talking about the worst call that you have 622 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 2: ever received from the school, the playgroup, the play school, 623 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 2: whatever it is. 624 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 5: Julie, you're you're the principal of a school, so I 625 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 5: assume you were the one making a phone call. 626 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 14: Yeah, I'm a pre school director. So I once had 627 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 14: to call to children's two little boys months because they 628 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 14: decided to hide in the bathroom and color in each 629 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 14: other's penises, completely coloring like WITHLTI colored. 630 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 2: With textures, and they went for the rainbow dick. 631 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: Did they like that it was completely rainbow and there 632 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 1: was no room for anything else? 633 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 2: How did you fignd out jelly like? Did do they 634 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 2: walk in and brandishing it? 635 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 5: Or you? 636 00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 1: Well know, they were the two little boys that you 637 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 1: always had to you know, it's always it's very quiet 638 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: going on, and they're hiitten in the showered his pants down, 639 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 1: and they. 640 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 6: Were going to the old. 641 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: And they wanted to show everybody. The boys thought they 642 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 1: were absolutely hilarious. 643 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,360 Speaker 5: Of course, I mean, I think it's hilarious. I'm gonna 644 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:20,480 Speaker 5: be honest with you, Julie. I think it's great. 645 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 2: That is amazing. That is amazing. Has Julie's called us again? 646 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 2: Welcome back, Julie. 647 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 10: Hi, how are you going? 648 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 2: Very very well? Very much enjoyed that now it would 649 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 2: be remissiless given that you. I'm sure you have a 650 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 2: billion more of these stories in your backpock and given 651 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 2: you our preschool director before we let you go, have 652 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 2: you got anything else to share with us? 653 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 9: Well? 654 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 10: Yeah, I have a four year old myself. I've got 655 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 10: three children, but my youngest is quite a character. And 656 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 10: just last week we had people over for a barbecue 657 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 10: and we had the bubble machine going, and all of 658 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 10: a sudden he took off his pants and were squatting 659 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 10: over the top of the bubble machine so the bubbles 660 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 10: would all pop on his penis in front of everyone, 661 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 10: and you thought he. 662 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 8: Was absolutely hilarious. 663 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 10: So that was quite the story for the weekend. 664 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 5: That sounds like fun. That actually, gee wiz hot, what 665 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 5: a what a what a dilemma that we stumble? What 666 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 5: a dilemma that we stumbled today? 667 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 2: With that dilemma mm hmm, truly ethical lemma. We thought 668 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 2: it was just a bit of fun, didn't we. If 669 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 2: you know, can you break up with someone on the 670 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 2: day they put their dog down? We thought we just 671 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 2: bast this chick and then we'd move on. Well I 672 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 2: thought we would anyway, thought the callers would come for her. 673 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 2: But turns out yeah, it's yeah. 674 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 5: I mean everyone's heard it. But the idea that. 675 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 2: Still think there's a little bit of timing around it. 676 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 5: Do you think then that you've heard from them and 677 00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 5: this obviously either of us that we'll be broken up 678 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 5: with on the day that a dog thought to be honest, 679 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 5: I haven't been broken up with on a day there 680 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 5: was already a bad day. But yeah, is there a 681 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 5: term for that, like a person hasn't been broken up with? 682 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 2: Legend? 683 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 5: Sorry, of course I forgot your bloody legend. But do 684 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 5: you think though, if in a wild world will where 685 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 5: someone did break up with you? Do you do you 686 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 5: think that if you went through a tough time and 687 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 5: they were that your shoulder to crime, they were your rock, 688 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 5: and you found out they wanted to break up with you, say, 689 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,800 Speaker 5: weeks beforehand, when they were your support person, do you 690 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 5: think the support would be tarnished if you found that out? 691 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 2: Can you I say a question again? 692 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, sure, your legend? The legend is struggling to listen. 693 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a big weekend. Guys, the guy fell 694 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 2: asleep in a morning over a mening earlier today? 695 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:02,880 Speaker 5: Is that an as stories that you fell us leaving it? 696 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 3: Like? 697 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 5: Genuinely? 698 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 2: Like I feel like I was filming then photos of you. 699 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 5: It's on the stories either, really, yeah, it's on the stories. 700 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,279 Speaker 2: Do you want to say it? No, it's okay, I'll 701 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 2: go ahead and brilliant. 702 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,320 Speaker 5: But sorry, my question, I think it's a good one. 703 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 5: If you were broken up with in a world where 704 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 5: you have been broken up with yes, and then you 705 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 5: found out that they actually wanted to break up with 706 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,319 Speaker 5: you two weeks earlier or a month earlier. Yes, and 707 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 5: they chose not to because they've been your support person 708 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,400 Speaker 5: during a tough time for you. Do you think it 709 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 5: would tarnish the support you got knowing that they wanted 710 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 5: to break up with you, or on the on the 711 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 5: flip side, is it even more impressive they supported you 712 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 5: through that even though they wanted to break up with you. 713 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 5: That's the bid for me that it's more impressive they've 714 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,879 Speaker 5: stuck by you because they've gone like, I don't want 715 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,400 Speaker 5: to be with you, but I care about you. 716 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:50,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like put the relationship to one side for a second. 717 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 2: You've got a person who's really suffering, and you know 718 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 2: that you can be there for them. Just be there 719 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:58,439 Speaker 2: for them. 720 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,200 Speaker 5: The other side is that because I. 721 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 2: Think a lot of the time, like when you get 722 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:06,719 Speaker 2: that sense of like, you know, toxicity in a relationship, 723 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 2: so you know you want to break up with someone. 724 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 5: Or someone's not in that's that's that toxicity. 725 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 2: You're still with them, you know you want to break 726 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 2: up with them. I think it's a case by case basis. 727 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 2: But like some of the calls we got this afternoon, 728 00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,160 Speaker 2: like finding out that you know their mum or their 729 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,879 Speaker 2: their mum got cancer or something. Yeah, then break up 730 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 2: with that person like like quickly. 731 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,319 Speaker 5: But for me, it's like, but so with that one 732 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,880 Speaker 5: in particular, there's no timeline there. Mum, mum could have 733 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 5: cancer for year. 734 00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 2: That's very true. 735 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 5: So it's like, Okay, what point am I going to? Like, Okay, 736 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 5: you've got the news, I say with you. 737 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,279 Speaker 2: But that's why I said case by case basic Like 738 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 2: I suppose the thing with Paige for me was like 739 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,359 Speaker 2: the day after or that afternoon or whatever it was, 740 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 2: give it a. 741 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 5: Week and everyone heard the revelation that she still wanted 742 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 5: to go for breakfast in the morning, which I find. 743 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 2: Like, just give it a little bit of time. Yeah, 744 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 2: you know, And it's funny you and I were playing 745 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 2: around with some examples before, like you know, I think 746 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 2: with certain you know, life changing events, you you would 747 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 2: have to think about just just tapering your because a 748 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,879 Speaker 2: lot of the time breaking up with someone who's also 749 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 2: like getting rid of your guilt that you're with them, Yes, 750 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,440 Speaker 2: you know, it's like, oh, just I've got to get 751 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 2: this off my chest. And that's when I think you 752 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,040 Speaker 2: have you know, like a text message breakup or one 753 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 2: of those, because people just go I can't deal with 754 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,440 Speaker 2: the fact that I'm still with you. I'm feeling too 755 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 2: guilty about it. I need to get the hell out 756 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 2: of here. So if they're suffering as a person, I 757 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,880 Speaker 2: don't know. I just feel like it's easy. It's harder, 758 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 2: but it's not that hard to stay to stay with them. 759 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,880 Speaker 2: If I'm not saying do it for the long term, 760 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 2: I'm doying read the situation. But like you know, you 761 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 2: said it to me before. If someone comes home and 762 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 2: they've just been fired from their job, yeah, I mean, 763 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 2: you don't break up with that person that afternoon. 764 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:55,600 Speaker 5: No, you say out the night, definitely fall asleep, pack 765 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 5: your shit. 766 00:36:56,000 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 2: Up, well, pin of the thing, I mean, car breaks down. Yeah, 767 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:03,279 Speaker 2: still recu with them. 768 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 5: There's a there's a there's a scale. Someone point is like, 769 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 5: where where's the point where it's right on the line 770 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 5: job firing. I agree, that's bad enough, you'd stick around. 771 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 5: I brought up this very specific to they've got a 772 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,360 Speaker 5: terminal illness. I think you're staying with them there. I 773 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:28,440 Speaker 5: think that's high than fired from a job. Right, If 774 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 5: they've just been they've just found out they've got a 775 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,879 Speaker 5: terminal illness. Because if you stay with them six years 776 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 5: to go, then you're staying. Yeah, there's a you probably 777 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 5: want to ask a follow up question, So have you 778 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 5: that is a ripper, l J. Once you break it down, 779 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,800 Speaker 5: because you're right, that can obviously go on for a while. 780 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 2: That could if it's ship and that's and there's like 781 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 2: a really but also yeah, there's. 782 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 5: Also a finite time on this planet left. It's like 783 00:37:58,239 --> 00:37:59,879 Speaker 5: they deserve to go and find someone else. 784 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 2: That it's there's also a really really honorable thing in 785 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 2: those people that stay with people when they do get 786 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 2: you know, terminal illnesses, and they're with them, you know, 787 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 2: all the way through to the end, and they look 788 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:15,759 Speaker 2: after them. 789 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, when I love them. If you remember, in 790 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,360 Speaker 5: this scenario, you want to break up with that person, 791 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 5: you're you're done, and then you go, oh my god, 792 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,800 Speaker 5: I've just found out you've got a terminal illness. Yeah, 793 00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 5: it's a look at. 794 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 2: You, l J. 795 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,319 Speaker 5: My example was about a champion lacrosse player breaking their 796 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 5: leg dance out. Would you break up with them? You 797 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 5: can't play lacrosse ever? Again? 798 00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,919 Speaker 2: No, I see that? Yeah, well you would eventually, so. 799 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:44,320 Speaker 5: You stay with them for a bit though, were. 800 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 2: You're with him because they're a champion lacrosse bow? Oh 801 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:50,879 Speaker 2: that brings you find them sexy because they're good at lacrosse. 802 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 5: When they're wielding the stick. No doubt you found that hot. 803 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,520 Speaker 10: Yeah. 804 00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 5: Anyway, we're getting to a deep in it said. 805 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:04,240 Speaker 2: It's unanswerable essentially, as I said, it's a case by case, city, 806 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:05,240 Speaker 2: case by case basis. 807 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, it has to be. Yeah, and also how much 808 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:08,839 Speaker 5: you why you want to break over them, how much 809 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 5: you don't like it? Maybe there is love there but 810 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 5: just not right for them. And then if that's the case, 811 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,200 Speaker 5: then you can stay with them for a bit. Anyway, 812 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,239 Speaker 5: we could honestly talk to where is it black and 813 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:18,360 Speaker 5: blue in the face? 814 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:19,359 Speaker 3: It is? 815 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,759 Speaker 2: It is? That is the saying. I'm not like that 816 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 2: right now though, I'm ready to go home, So let's rite. 817 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 5: Mate me too. I got a jazz concert to get to. 818 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 2: Oh no, ship, that's right, you got to pay for 819 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 2: your drinks, all right, guys, see you later tomorrow.