WEBVTT - 2022 Predictions From 1922 – What Was Correct? 🔮 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.400 The Flex and Frooms Daily Podcast, brought to you. 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:11.080 By Hello sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, nondescript people. 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:14.920 You're taking it a fet further. How so it's very 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:19.200 family references you're making. Oh yeah, were you are the corporation? 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:25.360 You hate my people, my brethren. Today we're talking about 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:28.600 deep conversations. I was on TikTok as I always am, 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:32.519 and I came across the TikTok, which helps you facilitate 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:35.200 deeper questions, and I thought to myself, that is one 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:35.599 way to. 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:37.519 Connect with my girl Flex. 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:41.000 She loves to have deep conversations, and so I brought 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:42.240 some to the table. 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:48.120 And I hope you like it. Yeah, we're so excited. 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:51.800 Such a vibe Flex and Frooms. 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:54.279 I was sick as in DOWG last week. What kind 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:58.040 of sick were you? Hell? But not COVID? Do you 0:00:58.120 --> 0:00:59.080 get flues often? 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:04.160 It was a flu kind of girly growing up sick girl. Yeah, 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:10.360 I can't relate. God, bless many blessings, many blessings. I 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:12.160 was staying at my sister's house while I was sick 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:16.039 because she has a really nice, big double king bed. 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:17.039 She was looking after you. 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:20.800 Nah, we're just like sitting staying in bed. She was 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.720 working on what's a topple king? Like a big big bed, 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:25.920 just a king like a bed that is bigger in 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:27.399 the width than is from the length. 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:29.959 Oh, super king, yes, big wit. 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:32.840 Which my new thing in life is one day I 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:34.640 need to have a super king bed for myself. 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:37.640 I do own one. You do have one? Do you 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:39.080 know why I bought it? Though? 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.319 I would have been fine with the king and me 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:45.039 being the philanthropist, the virtuous girl that I am. When 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:47.720 you date someone who's six foot four, you make accommodations. 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:50.480 That was sweet of me. They don't want to see 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:54.400 him be sweet. They don't want to see it. Anyway. 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:59.040 We came across this show on Binge otherwise known as HBO, 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:03.080 and the show is called The Baby. The premise is 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:06.800 that it is a horror comedy. It's British, so you 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:08.120 know it's gonna be good. You know it's gonna be 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:08.720 real dark. 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:12.040 See people say that, and I don't think I would 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:15.000 anticipate watching a British show and thinking it's gonna be good. 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:19.160 I think it's gonna be gray, green and gloomy. Yes see, 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:19.919 I think that's good. 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:24.680 Oh okay, I think it lends for good acting, huh. 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:26.320 And so this one is a horror comedy. 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:29.720 It stars a woman called Michelle di Swart or Swalte, 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:32.560 and she's this thirty something year old woman and basically 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:34.760 like all of her friends are having babies and she's 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:39.040 just not there yet. And then one day late, yeah, 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:42.720 one day a baby falls off a cliff into her hands, 0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:46.120 and now she has said take care of the baby, obsessed. 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:48.720 And then as she's going around people around, the baby 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:52.600 keep dying. Ooh, turns out the baby is evil. Yeah, 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:55.000 this baby's evil and it's following this woman around and 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:55.880 she can't do anything. 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:57.720 She has to take care of it or it will 0:02:57.800 --> 0:03:00.480 kill her. Oh, it chose her. And it was just 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:04.000 a really good show. It was very very dark, more 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:05.040 horror than comedy. 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:06.959 Like is the the horror aspect just the fact that 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:10.200 this baby is evil and the rest is like quite humorous. 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:13.400 The horror aspect is like it's quite graphic, like a 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:16.960 horror movie, right, you know, It's got graphic scenes and 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:20.240 it deals with very dark themes. Essentially, I believe it's 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:26.800 a parable for child wearing and women and the like 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:29.480 effort that's required and how a lot of people, a 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:33.760 lot of women like take all the responsibility for themselves. Like, 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:35.480 the really interesting thing in the show is there's no 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:38.600 men really in the show, Like, there's no there's no 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:39.720 romantic interest. 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:44.120 She doesn't have any interest tests, that's for sure. Oh, 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:45.360 full on, full on. 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:56.720 So Bechdel, besch deel, what is wrong with me? Bechdel Bechelle. Anyway, 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.600 whatever test it is, it is passing it. It's really 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.000 it's a really interesting, thought provoking thing while also being 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:05.240 stylish like the chicken. It. I really like the main chick. 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.560 She's really funny and has cool style. And so what 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:10.200 do you think the moral of the story is in 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:14.800 that show? For the people who have children, people who 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:17.520 don't have children, what is the show telling us? 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:19.360 In summary? 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:24.000 In summary, it's saying that children want want want, want. 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:25.919 Want, get a job. Kids. 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:29.799 Literally, you're that crying. You want us to stay in life. 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:34.039 Do what the rest of us do? Add value apecially. 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:36.800 So I think the whole thing is there is at 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.159 a point where you need to stop giving it so much. 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:43.440 And that doesn't mean that you don't love it. Oh fact, 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:45.560 I'm gonna read it that one. 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:50.080 I'm not sure that's fascinating. I feel like I might 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:51.600 watch it. I don't know. I'll report back. I think 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:52.160 you'd like it. 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:54.080 Flex and frooms FLEXI. 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:56.240 I was up till two a and the other night 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:58.760 on the talk getting to my little TikTok. 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:02.600 Zones school night. Ah yeah wow, Thursday night. 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:06.880 No rules here in firms world, And I came across 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:11.640 this guy's TikTok who puts up conversation starters. Basically, he's 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:16.520 like a philosophy kind of bro. Doesn't look very like insufferable, 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:21.000 which we love. And he shared this little video of 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:24.680 some conversation starters amazing, and I wanted to ask you them. 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:27.799 You're gonna answer them too, Yeah, okay, okay. 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:30.720 This guy's account is at for your eyes, that's with 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.320 the four underscore. So if you want to like share 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:36.240 this with your friends, do a little conversation time. That's 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:36.960 where you find them. 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:37.320 Okay. 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:40.839 Number one, if there was no afterlife, how would you 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:41.919 change how you live. 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:43.520 If there's no afterlife? 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:46.400 Well, it is really important to know that if there 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:48.520 was a heaven, I'd be going not because of merit, 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:50.200 but I think that I could like network or something 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:51.640 up there, and I could add a lot of value 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:52.320 to the environment. 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:53.560 Multi talented. 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:58.200 If there's not, I mean, the afterlife is after living, right, 0:05:58.240 --> 0:05:59.800 So what am I going to do differently now? 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:01.839 Nothing? 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:04.800 Yeah, I guess this is probably more pertinent if you're religious. 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:07.440 What would you do eat McDonald's every meal? 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:08.560 Okay? 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:11.800 What emotion are you the most comfortable experiencing? 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:17.280 Kind of like a feral amount of joy that's really 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:21.120 like like it's not not that deep seated, like I'm 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:24.080 happy in my core, but like something silly made me laugh, 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:25.839 or like I want to tell you this thing that 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:27.640 doesn't really matter, but it makes me really excited. 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:32.960 That is yeat zone. Yeah, yeat zone me too. That's good. 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:34.040 That's an easy one. 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:36.560 But I also think you have to like train your 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:39.279 environment to humor you, because when I was younger, it 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:40.479 used to make me so insecure. 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:43.560 Everyone's like why is she still talking? No, Like it's 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:44.800 like a really cool thing and like this is a 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:48.680 tangent like like no, stop. Good to know some weaknesses 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:49.760 in your prior life. 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:50.279 No. 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:53.240 The last one that I'll do is what's a physical 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:54.960 feature about yourself that you really like? 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:56.479 Got plenty? 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:00.800 My ankles are so good, Like if you see me 0:07:00.880 --> 0:07:04.360 stand up in just like a regular it's a great ankle, 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:08.560 and it's something about like the way the bones look something. 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:09.240 They're really good. 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:13.760 I have really good hands, like beautiful in all ways. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:16.440 And also alien hands. I can't explain it to you 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:18.360 know why they're alien hands because you have to see 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:20.960 them to know they have four lines and the flanges. 0:07:21.480 --> 0:07:25.080 I like my teeth, I like my cheeks. I like 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:28.280 my wrists a lot. That's a big one. 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:31.760 Okay. 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:35.080 It's just like a body love exercise that I've done before. 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:39.360 You You know how sometimes you know, you look at 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:41.160 certain parts of your body like, oh, that's gross, but 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:43.240 then some of the parts I'll just look during the 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:46.240 day like that's a good there's a good mailbirds, bab. 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:48.960 I've done a lot of body mod so it's hard 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:51.560 for me to tell mod modifications. 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:54.640 What do you mean my favorite parts is no, no, no 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:56.960 no no no no no no. I've done a lot 0:07:56.960 --> 0:07:59.200 of body modu. 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:02.000 Like, for example, I like the bit of my lip here, 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:03.520 but I've had my lips done in the past, so 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:07.480 they obviously claim that claim it say what's your favorite 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:11.880 because a trying maker don't say what's your favorite from 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:13.480 the womb body part? 0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:14.200 True? 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:18.280 Okay, in that instance, I like this bit of my cheeks, 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:22.600 and I like, what's this bit the top it. 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:23.440 Near your eyes? 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:25.600 I think I can have a nice bone structure in 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:28.480 my face. Yeah, and that you can't necessarily, Oh you 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:32.920 can fix it, fix it, you know, you can mod modify, 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:36.240 get a chinam plant fillers haven't. 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:39.720 Done under those. But yeah, it's my favorite bit. Shave 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:42.760 of my head. Yay, the shape of your head? Yeah, 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:44.559 in what way? Oh that's good one. Yeah. When I 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:46.120 shave my head, the back of my head's you've got 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:49.080 a really nice shave. Would you ever do it again? Yeah? 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:51.559 Everyone should shave their head once. Just see what you're 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:54.000 working with at the back there. You can always wear 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:54.280 a hat. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:59.120 How comfortable would you be to ask just regular people 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:02.200 these questions someone you didn't know that well, your colleague, 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:04.120 your best friends, your parents. 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:06.320 It's like people you see on TikTok that go up 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:08.599 to people and ask like these questions. 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:09.880 On the street. Yeah. 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:13.960 I'm like, I've cultivated quite like an open relationship with 0:09:14.000 --> 0:09:15.640 most of the people that I'm close to, so they 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:18.520 know everything about me. Essentially, I don't keep many secrets, 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:20.160 so I could ask them these things. 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:22.640 What about you? Yeah? I can too. 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:25.679 I think I used to be way more interested in asking, 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:29.480 like everybody these questions strangers or whatever. But I don't 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:33.880 think I was prepared for when the answers weren't interesting, 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:38.720 or like, not only interesting, but I feel like I 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:42.240 wasn't ever considerate that deep conversations could have deep answers 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:44.000 that couldn't be moved on from. 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:45.360 I remember when. 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:48.760 I made my conversation card game Reflex, I was asked 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:50.800 to do some vox pops at a festival. So go 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:53.920 to a festival, ask some strangers some questions, and they're like, 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:55.400 just pick some like light, easy going ons. 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:56.840 It was like, get sick, you know. 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:58.280 So I pulled out the five that I had in 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:00.319 the deck and one of them was like, na, three 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:03.440 things you like about yourself? And every time it got 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:07.800 the worst reception I have ever experienced in my life. 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:13.680 People grimacing, One girl cried, one guy got really really upset. 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:20.480 Why would you ask that? I just couldn't fathom. 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:22.720 I was like, of all the questions I could have asked, 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:24.280 I was like, this is the bottom of the barrel, 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:27.080 this is chill. So for me, I've recognized a lot 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:31.800 of responsibility with not like forcing people into any kind 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:34.600 of self reflection they don't want to have unless it's 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:36.800 an environment where I can share first and make it 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:40.160 like comfortable and safe. But I was just wreaking havoc 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:41.960 and I was like, damn, three things you like about 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:44.560 yourself and I've ruined your day at the Fezzy. 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:46.360 Thrown him into another dimensionlessly. 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:50.160 Yeah, I mean, I think it's the hardest thing when 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:54.080 it's boring, isn't it? 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:57.040 With that in mind, let me when you traumatize someone inadvertently, 0:10:57.160 --> 0:10:57.839 is there someone that. 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.000 Who in this world do you think you've hurt the most? 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:06.960 Whoa who in this world have I hurt the most? 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:07.720 Well? 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:11.080 Probably your ex boyfriends, right, I reckon, because that's like 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:15.000 active hurt. I feel as though I don't think I 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:17.600 would have hurt my friends that much in terms of. 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:19.880 Like active like. 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:24.920 Maybe in like a passive way, but like I think 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:27.040 a breakup is a very hurtful thing to go through. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:28.800 And I'm a breakup rower. 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:34.160 You're a breakup Erah yeah, every time that's a you 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:35.439 need to see a therapist. 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:38.599 I did, Well, we know why. Okay, that's why I 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:40.600 don't date anxious avoidant. 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:46.360 No avoidant avoidant, And also my task, not my task. 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:49.800 The thing to focus on is I have control issues, 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:53.040 So I just need to leave people alone. 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:58.120 They're fixing to fix fix, ne're fixing, editing. 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:00.240 But I also think that people need to leave me 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:02.840 alone as well. In the same way, Like I'm constantly 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:04.800 trying to not do things. I'm like, I don't feel 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:07.160 comfortable doing that. That's my vibe, Like I just know 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:09.720 how I am so like it goes both ways, like 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:11.400 I need to not fix people and people need to 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:13.240 respect me when I say no, not like, but you'd 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:14.800 be so good at that, Like we'd be so good together. 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:16.800 I'm like no, Like I'm telling you. 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:19.400 I'm telling. 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.880 You never have foresight, quite strong foresight on yourself. 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:28.440 Yeah. Who have I hurt the most? You almost seem happy? 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:28.960 Brook? 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:30.040 Can you edit this out? 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:36.000 Probably the same probably ex boyfriends. You hurt me a 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:38.960 little bit, I'm gonna hurt you back ten times more. 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:42.640 I'm a vengeful princess when it comes to relationships. 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:43.480 How do you do it? Though? 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:43.600 Like? 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:44.520 How does that work? 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:49.600 My classic trick? Break up with me? I go silent forever? 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:52.640 Oh you Like so I'm you you let me go, 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:54.560 but I'm still gonna be the one that got away 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:56.200 Eliah bait and switch. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:13:00.280 Yeah, how else does that manifest? Give me another example, 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:02.960 what about when you're in a relationship and someone's hurt 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:06.360 your feelings? How would you get back at them in 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:08.400 your like ten times worse kind of way. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.040 It's very hard because my last relationship was like a 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:19.079 year ago and that's probably my most adult one's. 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:19.839 Saying you didn't do that, then do what that's called? 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:26.480 Don't know? So no, I don't know. 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:30.199 Probably like when I was younger, like go hang out 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:31.880 with my friends and not invite them, like I think 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:34.440 I would have hurt people's feelings not inviting them into 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:37.920 my life, like I was very much one of those pieces. Yeah, yeah, 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:41.079 I would very much integrate into their life, but I 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:45.880 wouldn't invite them into my spaces. It's a power move that, yeah, 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:49.600 can hurt someone's feelings. I think that's bold. Thanks for sharing. 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:51.520 This is flex and frooms. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:52.959 Now. 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:57.880 I've been on the front lines my whole life. Uh okay, Now, 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:00.360 I was just thinking about, like I've been reflect on 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:02.920 being a teenager because I've forgotten most of it. But 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:04.840 I do think I spent a lot of time trying 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:07.960 to defend habits that I created out of nowhere, not 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:11.520 because I felt like I couldn't change, but I just 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:15.040 didn't like the criticism. So the picky eatering pickie eating 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:18.880 was a habit. But now I'm reforming, And for a 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:20.600 little while there I was trying to reform with being 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.360 a night out. The average night for me, I'm sleeping 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:25.880 at four am, and now that I have a real job, 0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:29.000 gonna be up at nine am yea, which is like late, 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.760 you know, and then on the weekend I'm gonna. 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:32.720 Try and sleep for twelve hours. 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.000 So it's like going to bed at four am waking 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:35.920 up at four pm. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:37.320 What do you mean you have a real job. 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.480 A real job is in I have like responsibilities that 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:44.120 like I can't keep bludging that affects other people. Yeah, 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:46.920 so like while I could sleep till mid day, it's like, well, 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:48.800 you've got four employees base, so what are they doing 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:52.480 while you're sleeping. It's unfortunate, but you know, blessings nonetheless, 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:54.880 But yeah, the thing about the sleeping thing, I won't 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:56.960 get over. Like I could change, but I don't want 0:14:57.000 --> 0:15:00.840 to because I'm so sick of the anti night out propaganda. 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:01.640 Here's my thing. 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:04.200 People say you get up at five am, and you 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:06.240 get so much done in a day. But it's like, no, 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.640 you don't because you're tied by eight pm, so you've 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:12.320 had fifteen hours awake. I'm doing the same thing. I'll 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:15.880 get up at nine, go to bed at three am. 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:19.160 It's the same day. We're having the same day. And 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:21.320 my thing is I'm setting up my lifestyle in a 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.480 way that that's fine. Like I think that the five 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:27.200 Am Warriors, you know, it's like it suits your lifestyle. 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:28.160 You gotta be in an office. 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:30.000 At nine am, and you gotta get things done beforehand 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:32.920 because you can't get them done afterwards. But I thought, like, 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:36.160 in the way that some people are mourning people, where 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:37.400 is the morning person slander? 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:40.520 Nobody thinks mourning people are bumps? Right? You think it's 0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:41.600 easy to stay up late. 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:45.280 Yeah, I think it's easy to watch things when there's 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:46.720 no sunlight streaming outside. 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:49.040 I have to put the lamp on so my eyes 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:49.840 don't get funny. 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:53.520 But anyway, I have some research to justify my habits, 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:55.680 which is also nice. I don't think that's the way 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:58.360 you're meant to do it, But here we go. 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:01.840 The night. Our syndrome. 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:07.960 Is a sleep phase disorder. It is a genetic mutation. 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:09.120 I can't help it. 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:12.080 I would if I could, and I've tried, because people 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:13.280 would ask me, what did you do when you work 0:16:13.320 --> 0:16:16.680 in an office? I suffered, Yeah, I suffered. I slept 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:20.920 at four am, work up at seven and suffered. Anyway, 0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:24.400 people with this condition can't fall asleep until late at night, 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.640 often after two am, and then struggle it up in 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:29.240 the morning. You know how much effort it takes me 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:32.200 not to be the annoying person to travel with getting 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:34.760 up early when everything within my body is like please 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:39.320 let me, let me, let us stay here. And then 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:41.760 after finding out this fact, it took me to this 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:47.360 other fact called bedtime procrastination. This is the psychological phenomenon 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:49.800 when a person stays up too late in order to 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:51.160 feel like they have some time to themselves. 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:52.600 I always say this, I need to unwind. 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.560 If that takes eight hours, I need to TikTok for 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:57.960 three four hours. I need to read for four hours. 0:16:58.200 --> 0:16:59.920 I need to read it the book I was reading, 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.840 just to make sure we're on the same page. And 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:04.959 then if you're reading fantasy, I have to look at 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:07.800 the glossary. I don't know what these words mean. So 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:09.560 I say this all to say the shame needs to stop. 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:12.199 I agree, shamy needs to stop. Thank you. 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:14.080 When I was young, you try to stay up as 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:16.160 lady as you can to watch Rove live. That would 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:19.719 be considered procrusty bludging. I also think there's too much 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:23.520 slander on junk food. Yeah, I do believe we are 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:25.960 turning the page though, I'm becoming more accepting. I think 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:29.560 we're starting to see holes in the healthies, wealth mindsets 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:35.080 that dominated the twenty fifty twenty twenty era. H So, yeah, 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:37.959 I look forward to our night all night ours that 0:17:38.040 --> 0:17:41.640 are subsisting on junk food having a revolution. 0:17:41.480 --> 0:17:44.920 My community mine too. Like I said, I've been on 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:46.320 the front line to my whole life. 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:49.240 I'm new to the game, but I'm willing to fight 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:49.520 with you. 0:17:49.600 --> 0:17:50.000 Flex. 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:53.000 This is Flex and Froomes on cat. 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:55.320 FLEXI I came across this article, which I think you're 0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:58.080 gonna like. The title is the future is now one 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:02.320 hundred year old predictions about twenty two. Yeah, it's so 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:06.679 u so. Essentially, there was this English author called W. L. 0:18:06.760 --> 0:18:09.119 George and he was born in eighteen eighty two. He 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:12.280 died in nineteen twenty six. 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:13.280 Damn short life. 0:18:13.320 --> 0:18:17.159 So yeah, about a hundred years ago, and he was 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:20.320 a visionary and he did this a prediction about twenty 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:23.760 twenty two. Essentially, it was a full page article in 0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:27.640 the New York Herald. And here are some of his predictions. 0:18:28.200 --> 0:18:31.880 I suspect that commercial flying will have become entirely commonplace. 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:36.800 The passenger steamer will survive on the coasts. What's that, Oh, 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:41.000 passenger steam a boat on the coast, but it will 0:18:41.000 --> 0:18:43.560 have disappeared from the main routes. And there should be 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:46.400 a distance of twelve hours between London and New York. 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:50.040 Is there is there? Probably less? I'd say there's probably 0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:50.760 more like six. 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:54.440 So King, he's on a roll, get it, King, He said, 0:18:54.480 --> 0:18:54.960 people of the. 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:57.520 Year twenty twenty two will probably never see a wire 0:18:57.680 --> 0:19:01.879 outlined against the sky. It's bactically certain that the wireless 0:19:02.000 --> 0:19:06.359 telegraphy and wireless telephones will have crushed the cable system. 0:19:06.560 --> 0:19:09.200