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Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda jam Nason.

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Speaker 2: There's a debate that's been doing the rounds, and I

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Speaker 2: want to get your opinion on this. There's a woman

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Speaker 2: has come at you believes women have gotten insecure about

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Speaker 2: how the ring will look to the media and other

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Speaker 2: people or social media, and they've forgotten what the proposal

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Speaker 2: and what the ring even symbolizes. If you have anxiety

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Speaker 2: that your man is going to get you the wrong ring,

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Speaker 2: you have the wrong guy. So when you got married,

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Speaker 2: when your husband presented, did you have any say on

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Speaker 2: the ring?

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Speaker 3: Yes, of course I did, because I'm a control freak,

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Speaker 3: right so, and he knew that, and he also knew

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Speaker 3: that this is and I had said this to them,

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Speaker 3: this is a piece of jewelry that you hopefully will

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Speaker 3: wear for the rest of your life. So you've got

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Speaker 3: to love it and you've got to be invested in it.

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Speaker 3: And so the surprise, the first part of the surprise

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Speaker 3: was he just one day, one Saturday morning, said I

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Speaker 3: were going into the city and we went to a jeweler.

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Speaker 1: And that was really surprised. Like it was lovely as

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Speaker 1: a dawned.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was like a nice slow at this

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Speaker 3: fancy jeweler, and we're designing what what sort of ring

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Speaker 3: would you like if you So it was all very hypothetical,

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Speaker 3: but just sort of knew about it. And then it

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Speaker 3: was a beautiful surprise the night that he got down

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Speaker 3: on one knee and proposed. And I hadn't seen the

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Speaker 3: finished product, right, so I got to have input into

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Speaker 3: what it would look like.

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Speaker 1: And I'm a simple woman.

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Speaker 3: So I've just got a simple stone and it gives

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Speaker 3: a look at your.

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Speaker 1: Ring, so to speak.

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Speaker 3: That's a bit personal for this time of the morning.

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Speaker 3: You could have at least brought me a drink first. AnyWho,

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Speaker 3: So there it is. It's beautiful, right, I just wanted

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Speaker 3: and I know I did.

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Speaker 1: I did tell it. I'm a big woman. I'm six

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Speaker 1: foot tall.

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Speaker 3: I need a big diamond otherwise, like a little diamond

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Speaker 3: would look weird. So and he bought that hookline thinker,

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Speaker 3: just like you bought it. So anyway, so I got

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Speaker 3: this beautiful ring. So I'm very much in the camp

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Speaker 3: of you should have some say in this piece of

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Speaker 3: jewelry you're going to wear for the rest of your life,

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Speaker 3: and then like it shouldn't come as a surprise when

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Speaker 3: when you get engaged because you should be talking about

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Speaker 3: your futures.

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Speaker 2: Just see those women and they've got like it's almost

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Speaker 2: like a cheesel a ring. Well, yes, and then my

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Speaker 2: husband gave me this cheese.

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Speaker 3: Famously, Adam Cooney, the AFL player Brandlow Medalist, he asked

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Speaker 3: his wife Hayley, to marry him and gave her a

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Speaker 3: burger ring and that was anyway, She's now got a really.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful ring, a gold.

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Speaker 3: So I think it doesn't really matter as long as

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Speaker 3: you're happy, because at the end of the day, it's

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Speaker 3: not about the ring, and it's not about the wedding.

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Speaker 3: It's actually about the marriage, which should last for the

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Speaker 3: rest of your life.

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Speaker 2: If I sold a motorbike for my engagement with my

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Speaker 2: wife's engagement ring, but I had no saying what the

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Speaker 2: ring was now right, this is what sort of diamond

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Speaker 2: I want, This is what sort of ring I'm going

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Speaker 2: to get.

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Speaker 1: And was it a good investment? Do you think selling

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Speaker 1: that bike?

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Speaker 2: And it's funny because she said, are you you'll get

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Speaker 2: another motorbike And I'll say this when you're young and

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Speaker 2: you've got to make I had this motorbike excess eleven

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Speaker 2: hundred year Amaha one point one leader thing. It was

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Speaker 2: just fantastic, and I sold that. I got three thousand

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Speaker 2: dollars for it for the ring. And this is what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying this to the fellows. Young fellows have got

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Speaker 2: motorbikes right now. This is where the woman will lead

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Speaker 2: you into this path. I'll say, oh, you'll get another motorbike.

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Speaker 2: So you sell your bike, but then they don't expect

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Speaker 2: you to get.

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Speaker 1: Another motive Have you ever got another motible?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I've got six?

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Speaker 1: No, she was right.

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Speaker 2: What I mean is when years later, when we had

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Speaker 2: our child and we had a bit of money, I said,

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Speaker 2: I'm buying another bike and she said, oh, hang on,

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Speaker 2: I thought you were over that. I'll never get over that.

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Speaker 1: And you haven't got over your beautiful wife. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: actually that's a win win situation.

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Speaker 2: When you got there and I've got bikes. Now she

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Speaker 2: doesn't even know which bikes I have. She'll say, well,

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Speaker 2: where did that one come from?

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Speaker 1: A motorcycle?

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Speaker 3: Is this?

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Speaker 2: I'm minding that?

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Speaker 3: So Helen chose her. She designed and had you had

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Speaker 3: no say no, say okay, were you happy with.

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Speaker 1: The ring that you sold your bike?

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Speaker 2: It looks good. She always got room room that's a

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Speaker 2: bit pain, you know what. I reckon the excess eleven

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Speaker 2: hundred Yamaha would be worth more than that ring.

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Speaker 1: Now No, but nothing is worth more than your missus.

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Speaker 2: Very well said.

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Speaker 1: Thank you,