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Speaker 1: This is a Will and Woody podcast Mini.

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Speaker 2: But when you're in a rash, I want to talk

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Speaker 2: horrific encounters with the X stupid.

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Speaker 1: What's the most terrific encounter you've had with an X?

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Speaker 1: And this is normally when we're just embarrassed. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: It can be anything. It can be embarrassing, it can

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Speaker 1: be physically awkward.

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Speaker 2: There's something outrageously special about the fact that that person

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Speaker 2: used to be everything to you and then on a

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Speaker 2: turn of a dime, one day, two days time, one

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Speaker 2: conversation's time, they can mean nothing. And so your encounters

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Speaker 2: go from these beautiful special moments with this person to

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Speaker 2: just everything you want to avoid about life. I love them,

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Speaker 2: What's I don't know?

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Speaker 1: I love them.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I was necessarily going out with

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Speaker 3: this woman, but American woman called Jill, who had a

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Speaker 3: couple of dates with and I thought.

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Speaker 1: Things were going to get the Danny and Sandy beach Dad.

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Speaker 3: We had a beach date. Yeah, which, by the way,

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Speaker 3: beach dates don't do them.

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Speaker 4: It's terrific.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, seaweed that day, a lot of seaweed when picked up, shocking.

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Speaker 1: You know so much about this date. I've talked about

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Speaker 1: it a fait bit because it's one of my favorite dates. Trauma.

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Speaker 1: I know a lot about it. Bog pools that day,

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Speaker 1: hard to walk down to the beach.

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Speaker 2: You cut your feet, Yeah, you didn't want put the

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Speaker 2: blood in the water sharks in Perth.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then I got and I dove in and came

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Speaker 3: out with all the seaweed all over me.

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Speaker 1: It's just awful.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, she said to me, oh, look, I'm loving this

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Speaker 3: obviously beach day, but I've got to move back to America.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, fair enough, you know, we can't work.

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Speaker 6: It's fine.

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Speaker 1: Anyway.

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Speaker 3: A week later, you know this, I saw her in

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Speaker 3: the local supermarket man handling the avocados and.

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Speaker 4: I was like, you bitch, how's America going. I couldn't

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Speaker 4: believe it. That was obviously and it's obviously awkward. I said,

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Speaker 4: good I Jill. And then she goes, oh, she knows

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Speaker 1: She still been going to America. Like later on you

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Speaker 1: should have seen her face.

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Speaker 3: I got her bloody bust.

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Speaker 2: Manadas, squeezing all the avocados. The little things, you know,

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Speaker 2: it's the things, it's the little things. When they become

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Speaker 2: your ex that those things really start to annoy.

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Speaker 1: It made me angry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know when you you know when like after

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Speaker 2: you've slept with your ex. Let's face it, we've all

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Speaker 2: done that with Jill.

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Speaker 1: Out of there pretty great avocados.

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Speaker 2: When when you when you when you sleep with your

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Speaker 2: they're in your house and they do one of those

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Speaker 2: things that used to really tick you off with your

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Speaker 2: relationship and you're like, oh my god, get out of here.

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Speaker 1: I want to get out of here.

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Speaker 2: Look the reason we're talking about worst encounters with the

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Speaker 2: X thirty one, six five you want to enjoy if

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Speaker 2: you want to join the combo. Drew Barrymore had the opposite,

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Speaker 2: really like, she had this beautiful interaction with her ex

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Speaker 2: boyfriend justin long so that they were they were out

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Speaker 2: ages ago and he came on her show, Drew Barrymore Show,

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Speaker 2: How listen to this?

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Speaker 1: I feel like we've.

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Speaker 5: Been through so much together too, you know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like when.

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Speaker 7: We used to like and feacetime, I was always like,

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Speaker 7: you know, I've really grown up, justin like I always

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Speaker 7: wanted to prove to you what a different person I

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Speaker 7: was than when we didd you.

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Speaker 5: Were the best.

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Speaker 2: We had so much fine I know whoa yeah beautiful right,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. That was pretty fall on, Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: much fun stuff they had For most people, it's just terrific.

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Speaker 2: So on I six or five most horrific encounter you've

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Speaker 1: I don't really know how to start. I got to

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Speaker 1: be a shopping list here.

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Speaker 2: First date I had with my current partner, my ex

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Speaker 1: I also had about a week after that. It was

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Speaker 2: Partner walked into an intimate cocktail party at the same

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Speaker 1: Then both sent me a message about how much they

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Speaker 1: hated me.

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Speaker 3: I invited them to that party actually.

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Speaker 2: And then I was dating someone that used to work

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Speaker 2: in media circles with us, and we had to do

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I have had a few good shows. They

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Speaker 1: were good shows. Shows shows I had.

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Speaker 3: A lot of you're still in touch with your ex?

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Speaker 1: Give us a call you guys, any examples.

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Speaker 2: Five we are talking most horrific encounters you've had with

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Speaker 2: your ex. I feel like I had a moment where

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Speaker 2: I had to go yeah, no, I'm actually not going

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Speaker 2: to tell that story.

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Speaker 1: Jamie's called on thirty one six five. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I sell sensor, you know, Jamie, Jamie, I'm surprised

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Speaker 2: it doesn't learn more often on radio, you know, given

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Speaker 2: them we just talk.

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm super prepared and planned, Jamie Jamie on thirty

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Speaker 3: one and six five, we're talking horrific encounters with the

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Speaker 5: So my X ray.

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Speaker 6: We used to have a couple of tattoos. I went

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Speaker 6: got my tattoo covered like I'm meaning, like those planes

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Speaker 6: So the tattoo was an ankle tattoo, and I ended

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Speaker 8: Covered up.

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Speaker 6: My partner that I was then now dating at the time,

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Speaker 6: and then I went to the supermarket to get the

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Speaker 6: into my own market with the cover up tatoo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, had he covered up as well?

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Speaker 6: Not yet not yet? So he and it was in

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Speaker 8: Did you chat?

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Speaker 3: Did you check Jamie Lee?

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Speaker 1: You say good?

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Speaker 6: So I kind of looked at him and he just

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Speaker 6: this is my partner.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I would have lent into it.

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Speaker 2: I would have been like, yeah, what are you going

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Speaker 1: We're obviously broken up.

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Speaker 3: Now Yeah, yeah, we're both doing this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good, you're gonna because he's going to want to

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Speaker 1: cover it up eventually.

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Speaker 3: Well maybe not though maybe he thought there was a

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Speaker 3: chance they're going to get back together. And not only

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Speaker 3: he'd been a source of like always they're always so good.

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Speaker 1: Guy, he's stacked. Yea, he's got his abs out at

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Speaker 1: the supermarket. Of course you were a little cutout, little

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Speaker 2: Little cutout that cut out abs top.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you've got the abs, why not show him off?

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Speaker 3: Luki luky, you've had an awkward encanter with an eggs.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I have.

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Speaker 5: You know, last year had a girlfriend breaks up with

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Speaker 5: year twelve, and then you yeah, and you know, both

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Speaker 5: gone out clubbing one night with our friend groups and

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Speaker 5: back to her house and you know, yeah, a bit

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Speaker 5: slept her again, and then that's all she wrote.

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Speaker 1: That is a wild story, Luke, that is a wild story.

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Speaker 1: She sees him, She sees him, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Trips over, spills a drink on a dude, rips the

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Speaker 3: We're like, well, you've just ripped my shirt off on

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Speaker 2: Then we lost the good part of the story and

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Speaker 2: then just got to claim that he slept with her again, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, look just like we're getting that. And then he

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Speaker 3: goes anyway, slept with her, And I was like, what

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Speaker 2: Stranger?

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Speaker 1: Did he just go up to brag that he slept

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and well played.

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Speaker 1: Look well very good. Meg has called on thirty one five.

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Speaker 6: Meg, tell me, how are you going?

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Speaker 1: Guy talking? If he encounters with the X, what'd you go?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? So I dated this guy for about five years.

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Speaker 8: It was a pretty long term sort of relationship. We

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Speaker 8: you know when she kind of wanted to rectify things,

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Speaker 8: and I was like, that's enough enough. And then eleven

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Speaker 1: Can we hear the sing? Can we hear some voice?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? What do you want to hear?

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Speaker 1: It feels like a really random tangent?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, really random.

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Speaker 3: Sound.

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Speaker 8: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Car so your book?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: So yeah. Eleven years later I get booked to go

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Speaker 8: was his wedding. It was my ex's wedding.

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Speaker 1: My did you sing that song? Did you see that?

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Speaker 8: It gets worse because I was so uncomfortable, was awful.

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Speaker 8: I knew all his family, it was so I don't

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Speaker 8: and the thing is that she booked me he didn't

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Speaker 8: know about. And then the song that I the song

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Speaker 8: that I had to sing for them walking down the

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Speaker 8: aisle who were looking down the style file, was actually

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Speaker 8: our song.

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Speaker 3: No did he end up telling her? Did he end

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Speaker 3: up telling her that you were the ex?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? He like everyone knew every like it was.

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Speaker 4: It was so awkward.

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Speaker 8: And then I had to go and sing at the reception.

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Speaker 8: It was so it was the most awkwart thing I've

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Speaker 1: What what was the song?

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Speaker 8: It was Fool's Rushing by Elvis President?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, can you take us?

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Speaker 1: Can you take us to the traffic singing that song

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Speaker 1: and take us.

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Speaker 2: To the big Think about her singing this to her

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's there's layers here.

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Speaker 8: Meg, so many layers.

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Speaker 4: Why man.

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Speaker 6: O this fool?

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Speaker 8: But I can till falling in love?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh I feel like I'm there, God,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Well Meg, thanks for the story. Unbelievable right voice?

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Speaker 3: Sorry Meg, just plug yourself, plug yourself. You've got a

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Speaker 3: great voice.

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Speaker 6: Can we find Thanks?

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Speaker 8: Thank you, Mama, Mags.

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Speaker 6: What they call me.

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Speaker 3: Mama MEGS awesome, get around there. Hear more of the

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Speaker 3: boys on the Full Show podcast.

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Speaker 8: You Know you want to