Speaker 1: It's the pickup Wednesday of a britt Laura mitch here
Speaker 1: head into chemist warehouse today. Great savings every day.
Speaker 2: I have some wild statistics that I have recently read.
Speaker 1: We have some stats on this showdown, which is nothing
Speaker 1: but the truth.
Speaker 3: Here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, don'ts where it's from now labelsource. Six thousand people
Speaker 4: have been surveyed. Now, this is about bachelore and bachelorette parties.
Speaker 4: Seventy percent of Americans have said that they have cheated
Speaker 4: on their partners while attending bachelor and bachelorette parties. Now,
Speaker 4: I want it to be noted here that it's not
Speaker 4: just the bachelor and the bachelorette that are doing the cheating.
Speaker 4: It's it's sometimes it is, but it's also anyone at
Speaker 4: the event. I also want to be noted that cheating
Speaker 4: is a broad spectrum. It's different for different people. So
Speaker 4: this statistic ranges around flirting, to downloading apps, to sexting,
Speaker 4: texting to strip clubs, to go in the full hold.
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is everyone invited to a bachelor bachelorette's.
Speaker 2: Party seventy percent of people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, wait, and you said six thousand people were surveyed.
Speaker 1: Yep, yep.
Speaker 4: Six thousand people saved about their unfaithful behavior of these shindigs.
Speaker 3: So how many people are flirting and just having a
Speaker 3: little like, oh, you look cute tonight, verse getting a
Speaker 3: lap dance or you know that's having a shnog?
Speaker 2: Yep, so lap dance. I'm lucky, you asked Laura, because
Speaker 2: I do have that stat here as well. Thirty three
Speaker 2: point one percent I get lap dancers.
Speaker 4: Yep, kissing.
Speaker 2: Just the sound effect.
Speaker 4: There are twenty one point three percent eleven point two percent.
Speaker 2: This is a big one.
Speaker 4: Eleven point two percent of people had said that they
Speaker 4: had slept with somebody else. Nine percent said they had
Speaker 4: a threesome. So that's twenty percent of people that are
Speaker 4: actually going the full hog and cheating completely on their partners.
Speaker 1: Thirteen one. I six y five what happened to the
Speaker 1: Bucks party? Because I feel like all the Bachelor party,
Speaker 1: because I feel like this is more common than we think, apparently.
Speaker 2: For me, I mean, cheating is different for everyone.
Speaker 4: Now for me, hypothetically Ben, my beautiful boyfriend, he does
Speaker 4: live overseas, so we have to have a lot of
Speaker 4: trust in our relationship anyway.
Speaker 2: But hypothetically he's at a bachelor atte party. No, he's
Speaker 2: not a bachelotte party. He's at a bachelor party. If
Speaker 2: he got a lap dance, he was with a bunch.
Speaker 4: Of people and then stripper came over, gave him my
Speaker 4: lab dance, no touching, moved on, gave someone else lap dance.
Speaker 4: I'd be probably mad about it, wouldn't be comfortable with it,
Speaker 4: but I wouldn't think that that was cheating.
Speaker 2: But if there were any contact or I went any further,
Speaker 2: one hundred percent.
Speaker 4: Now, I know that's different for everybody, but for me,
Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, one night, nothing happened, there was no touching.
Speaker 4: Everyone's got the same thing, So I guess it's different.
Speaker 4: Depends on what your boundaries are relationship.
Speaker 1: I'm with you. I mean, I've learned a lot about
Speaker 1: cheating in the last couple of months, But it depends
Speaker 1: on the relationship that you have with your partner. You
Speaker 1: have to communicate totally. You need to know what the
Speaker 1: boundary is for them and they need to know what
Speaker 1: the boundary is for you.
Speaker 3: But in saying that, I think that bachelorette parties and
Speaker 3: bachelor parties are very triggering for some people because once
Speaker 3: you put that sort of cocktail of drinking, of having strippers,
Speaker 3: of temptation, of all the mates and the lads together
Speaker 3: that there can be this you know, additional peer pressure
Speaker 3: or this additional like enabling that can make a lot
Speaker 3: of peace. People feel really worried about what their partners
Speaker 3: are going to do, a worry that may not be
Speaker 3: there at a normal day today or on a normal
Speaker 3: Saturday night out.
Speaker 1: Katie, Hi, what happened at bachelor party?
Speaker 5: I've caught my boyfriend, my fiance cheating on me with
Speaker 5: a stripper. So that was fantastic.
Speaker 4: Caught how physically caught or just found out like inspector
Speaker 4: Garadget after the fact.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I actually found out. I mean it makes
Speaker 5: me look I look back at it now, I think
Speaker 5: he's so stupid because one of his bucksmen is like
Speaker 5: one of our mutual friends, and I'm like, as if
Speaker 5: you know I've known this, you know his friend Alex
Speaker 5: of our you know, we've been good friends for years,
Speaker 5: As if he's not going to tell me, And it
Speaker 5: all happens four weeks before the wedding.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, did you still get married? What did
Speaker 3: he do? What? What was the cheating?
Speaker 5: So he slept with a stripper. Basically, yeah, so that's
Speaker 5: how extreeve. It was the biggest like walking red flag.
Speaker 2: Have you married him?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: No? No, oh, hell no, I haven't spoken to him.
Speaker 5: So I got a call on Friday from the mutual
Speaker 5: friend Alex, who is like, look, I can't let you
Speaker 5: get married knowing this information. And I'm at work at
Speaker 5: the time, and I think I was more angry than
Speaker 5: like upset. I just aw read, I packed up my stuff.
Speaker 5: I straight to my parents' house and this is the
Speaker 5: worst bit. So Alex has then told Riley the ex fiance,
Speaker 5: he's driven to the house, to my parents' house, knowing
Speaker 5: that's where I'm going to be. We have this massive
Speaker 5: screaming argument on the front lawn like it was a
Speaker 5: scene from Housosa that he told you. Yeah, so he
Speaker 5: didn't tell me. I found out from Alex. And then
Speaker 5: he comes kind of, you know, apologize obviously we're supposed
Speaker 5: to be getting married in four weeks and then yeah,
Speaker 5: and I just said no, this is like and to
Speaker 5: be fair, like I'm still fairly young, and I'm like
Speaker 5: I wasted my youth on you whatever, and I'm just like, nah,
Speaker 5: this isn't not happening.
Speaker 3: If that was me, I would do exactly the same thing.
Speaker 3: Like if I had found out just before my that
Speaker 3: my partner had cheated on to me, I would.
Speaker 1: Have to cool it off.
Speaker 4: I would not be able to trust them again. I
Speaker 4: think it no, hang on, I think it depends on
Speaker 4: the situation. It depends on everyone's different.
Speaker 3: Some people have.
Speaker 4: Kids, some people want to work it out. They need
Speaker 4: to try and work it out. There's different reasons.
Speaker 2: I think we can't blanket statement, but it's pretty.
Speaker 1: Cooked before we get out of here for today. Next
Speaker 1: on the show, it was my beautiful Olma's eighty fifth birthday,
Speaker 1: my grandma with Dutch, and she was given something at
Speaker 1: her party over the weekend that you'd normally give someone
Speaker 1: once they've died.
Speaker 3: Oh h you'd normally give it to them once they've died, gravestone.
Speaker 1: Well, I got photos at the pickup