1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: And Amanda gam Nation. Playdates. You know, it's the thing 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: of childhood. You go to someone's house, They come to 3 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: your house, and the mum says, hi, how I hi, 4 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: missus skella heim whatever, whatever, and then you raid the 5 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:18,959 Speaker 1: kitchen and you muck around, and then it's time to 6 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 1: go home. 7 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 2: And then someone says, can I stay over? Ashi? Mama 8 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 2: forgot stay asher. Mom gets a Coca cola as mom 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 2: drink some of the liquor. 10 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: She's got any smokes. Playdates are changing, though. It was 11 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: interesting because we recently spoke about sleepovers and the same 12 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: thing was happening. Where parents don't allow their kids to 13 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: go to sleepovers or the rules around it are quite different. 14 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: It seems the same thing might be happening with playdates. 15 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 1: Let's start with this one. I've got two examples of 16 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: why would you bother? This person charges kids or charges 17 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: the parents when the kids comes for a playdate, even 18 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: for electricity. It's hard to believe this is true. Mum 19 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: of two Rihanna Weimar was happy to welcome her son's 20 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: friends over to the Washington home, but while her son 21 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: played with his friends, she kept a watchfuly on the guest. 22 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: She watched what the kid ate, what he drank, the 23 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: games he played, and then when his parents came to 24 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: pick him up, the parent was given an invoice for 25 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: Australian fifty five dollars American thirty six for the food 26 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 1: and supplies that your child used during the playdate. Thanks 27 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: for covering your share. 28 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: I'm calling a bit of BS on this, but I 29 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 2: having said that it's christ. 30 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: For them, having said that, you think that that's extreme 31 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: and weird and as if anyone would do that? What 32 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: about this? This mother has set up a playdate liability waiver, 33 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: so if kids want to come to her house for 34 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: a playdate, the parents have to sign a waiver. 35 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 3: You will not believe what this mom texted to me 36 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 3: after I asked her to sign a liability. We were 37 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 3: Anne and Andie before her son came over to my 38 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 3: house for a plead. I had my lawyer draft up 39 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 3: this liability waiver and NDA to protect ourselves from anything 40 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 3: like go wrong at a play date. It's standard procedure 41 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 3: for us to have the parents of her kids friends 42 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 3: saying the years before they are allowed to play at 43 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 3: our house. What would you have done in this situation? 44 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 3: Am I in the wrong here. 45 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: So I'm looking at the waiver. It's voice. 46 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 3: I know. 47 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: It's terrible, isn't it. It says the parents have to 48 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: say yes, so understand the risks that are inheriting a playdate. 49 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: The parent receives full responsibility for any injury. The child 50 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: might have a case of medical emergency, blah blah blah, 51 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: this will happen. I hereby release the people who are 52 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: the family who are hosting the playdate from any responsibility, 53 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 1: any liability for any injuries, breakages, et cetera. I can 54 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: sent to having a photographer or photographs or videos of 55 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: my child during the playdate being used for personal use, 56 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: and they might be used for media or promotional purposes. 57 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 1: You got Tom Cruise, what a weirdo and how to 58 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: take the fun out of anything. Yeah. We once had 59 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: one of Lim's Jack's friends over for a playdate on 60 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: the same day that the whole of the neighborhood's raw 61 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 1: sewage flooded the bottom of our house. 62 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: I remember that. 63 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: So it was flushed twice. 64 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 2: No, I remember the time. 65 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: It was terrible. It was terrible. 66 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 2: The jump up overflowed. 67 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 3: You had it all in. 68 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: Your The whole neighborhood's sewage, and the mom came to 69 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: pick Thomas up and just had to tiptoe through the 70 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: sewerage because the boys were playing upstairs and this all 71 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: happened downstairs through the sewerage. Yuck. Playdates and sleepover do 72 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: you remember? 73 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 2: I just it's funny as you're mentioning that. I remember 74 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: having a sleepover and at someone's house, and I didn't 75 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: go too often. You remember when you were a kid, 76 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 2: you had your your sleepover mate. You'd always go to 77 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 2: their place. This is one of those sleepovers were I 78 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: only went there once, but I remember we're all in. 79 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 2: He had a bunk bed, and which was pretty cool. 80 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: I was in the top bunk, he was in the 81 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 2: bottom bug and his mom came in. Good night boys. 82 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 2: But she was wearing this like ninety. 83 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: You come on, how old were you eighteen? 84 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 2: No? Oh, no, I was young. I was like about 85 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 2: ten and she's wearing this ninety And I was like, 86 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 2: I just remember having this, like it was just spectacular. 87 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: It was like, no, what I mean? 88 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:24,239 Speaker 1: You were ten? 89 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? But I was like, as a kid, you just went, 90 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 2: you went in my life. It's one of those moments 91 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 2: just pop up. 92 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: When does it pop up? You're just you know you 93 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: needed to sign a waiver. 94 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 2: Don't be outraged. It was just all there. Nothing weird happened. 95 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 2: Have I said too much? 96 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: Was there any memory in your entire life? This is sexual? 97 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course there is. 98 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: Of course you're trying to think of one. 99 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 2: There's plenty. But you know whatever, for. 100 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: Me, yes, please finish sentence. 101 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 2: What these are moments in my life where you know 102 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 2: they're visceral flashbacks? Don't you get visceral flash's? I do. 103 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 1: I don't share all of them on the radio. 104 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: No, I just it's a visceral flashback. I can't still 105 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 2: and it was nothing. 106 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 3: I know. 107 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 2: I'm making a fair fist of it right now, but 108 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 2: it's not a bad thing. 109 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 1: Well, this charming conversation has gone somewhere else.