1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda in the morning. It's a interesting tweet 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: by Yumi Steins who said I've got an actual day 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: job and I started back today. Unfortunately, childcare and school 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: for my four year old starts back next Tuesday. So 5 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: like all the other parents in this situation, we are 6 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: beat and likely to be paying more than we're earning 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: to go to work today. Moral of the story, to 8 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: advance your career, don't have kids, and this disproportionately affects women. 9 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: So the moral of the actual story is marry a 10 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: woman or don't have kids. And it reminded me of 11 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: this Mere Freedman article I've been reading about the school 12 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 1: system and how it really was designed for a different 13 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: era of Australian life. Are you going to go the 14 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 1: Blob on this? So we're going to last time you 15 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: did a mea Freeman thing, you went into the bloods. 16 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm not going to today. I've just got to prepare 17 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: for it. It's not the bloods. I could put on 18 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: the Blob Zone song the Day you went away. We 19 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: don't need it, No, we don't need it. Can I 20 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: just tell you this, please, thank you that the way 21 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: our school system works at the moment. It is designed 22 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: on an idea that we have a full time stay 23 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: at home parent who could accommodate the nine to three 24 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 1: school day and the endless school holidays, as well as 25 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: all the tuch shop duty and all those school things 26 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 1: school cardinals. It all happen is in working hours, makes 27 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: it hard for parents to be there. As she said, 28 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: the maths doesn't work. Parents who work full time outside 29 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: the home get four weeks of annual leave and yet 30 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: school age children get twelve to eighteen weeks of school holidays. Wow. Parents' 31 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: workdays are mostly eight hours long, some even longer. Their 32 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,919 Speaker 1: children's school days are around six hours. So the maths 33 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: just doesn't work. And as she says, here is this 34 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: system is kind of broken because it is built on 35 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: the premise that we had there's a full time care 36 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: at home, and who today has that life? Really not 37 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: many of us. And she goes on to say, at 38 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: a time when working hours and have never been longer, 39 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: we're simultaneously jammed by societal pressures and expectations that our 40 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: children are constantly supervised and entertained. Remember you just didn't 41 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: go home play in the backyard. You have to have 42 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 1: events arranged for you and supervision. And she said, add 43 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: to that the fact there are many single parent households, 44 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: fewer extended family members living nearby, and this is why 45 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: parents feel they're falling in a hole and aren't coping. 46 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: So everyone feels like this that it's a constant juggle 47 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: and a financial juggle often as to how you're going 48 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: to make this work. Is the solution? I mean, some 49 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: other countries have you can stay at school till five thirty. 50 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: It's like long daycare that the school provides and they're 51 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: given a meal and you pick them up. Other people 52 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: are saying you don't want your kid to have to 53 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: spend all day and holidays at school, But really, what 54 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: is the solution? I really don't know. Should our places 55 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: of work be more lenient, you can do more work 56 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: from home? What do you do in the school holidays? 57 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: We had clear one of our work colleagues yesterday. She 58 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,679 Speaker 1: had her daughter with her because the daughter didn't go 59 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: back to school. Alexi, beautiful girl, such a nice young lady. 60 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: But Lexi was with Claire for half the day and 61 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,519 Speaker 1: then going to spend half the day with dad. Because 62 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: what are the solutions? It doesn't work for modern family 63 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: and what if dad drives an excavator or something like that, 64 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: or it works as a welder. You can't have a 65 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: kid a great surgeon. Do you mind if lexi holds 66 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: the instrument to bring your kid to work day. That's 67 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 1: not a penholder, Darling, it's a brain good point. We 68 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: might do something about this on the on the podcast today, 69 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: because it's only when when you pointed out that everyone 70 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: goes yes, everyone struggles and you go, well, duh, the 71 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: mats doesn't add up. Fix it, fix it. Jonesy and Amanda, 72 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: Good morning,