WEBVTT - How I do it all 🤠

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<v Speaker 1>The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast for ordinary people who want to do extraordinary

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<v Speaker 1>things and we all go to it like we've all

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<v Speaker 1>got work, we've all got commitments, we all know have

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<v Speaker 1>goals and usually to get those get to those goals,

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing things that it's like, it's not amazing all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. It's not you know, I don't love getting

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<v Speaker 1>up at five am and lifting heavyweights. I'm like, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>rather be sleeping. But it's like looking at your time

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of thinking, where can I add in some

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<v Speaker 1>more things that will just fill up my cup that

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more. Hello and welcome back to the Rise

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<v Speaker 1>and Concer Podcast. It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, lawyer

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<v Speaker 1>and entrepreneur, mum wife. All the things I'm joined of

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<v Speaker 1>course with producer a Tea. Hi, everybody, guys, today's EP

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little bit different. I just feel like this

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<v Speaker 1>is a question I get a lot in my DMS,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's how I manage it all. How I do

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<v Speaker 1>it all. The short answer is I don't, but I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Spoiler alert No, I did want to just like pull

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<v Speaker 1>back the curtain and just be like very raw, honest

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<v Speaker 1>and transparent with you guys, Like how I'm able to

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<v Speaker 1>run two businesses. You know, still have time with Ivy,

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<v Speaker 1>still prioritize her, you know, still prioritize my health and

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<v Speaker 1>fitness and everything in between, because you know, on social

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<v Speaker 1>media can look like I'm doing all these things all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and the reality is just like the amount

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<v Speaker 1>of help I have and how I kind of structure

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<v Speaker 1>my day my business, it's so strategic, so I am

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<v Speaker 1>able to do all the things. So, yeah, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to get into that today. It's also a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about like my productivity hacks, how I first started outsourcing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fun things. But before we get into

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<v Speaker 1>the episode, update on our week a tier, Yes you

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<v Speaker 1>go first, Okay, had a great week. Well, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to think an update oh on the weekend. So guys,

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<v Speaker 1>our our fave posty Devo, so only the rn C

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<v Speaker 1>will know. So Devo, who loves man Cations, also hooked

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<v Speaker 1>us up with tickets to the Supercars. I love that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so he got tickets for is supposed to be me

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<v Speaker 1>Cooper Ash and timmer Ash couldn't come, so oh Jamie

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<v Speaker 1>popped on nin Jamie's currently my roomy and look I

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<v Speaker 1>have I know nothing about cars, but but it was

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<v Speaker 1>lots of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>The great venue to get drunk at pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>There was lots of champagne that was had. I had

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<v Speaker 1>some oysters. I did this like weird oyster champagne shot

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<v Speaker 1>at one point. It was a bit crazy. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a bit fun. But that was really good. And we

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<v Speaker 1>were home by like nine pm. Oh that's a good day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's my perfect sort of day. Yeah. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>up on Sunday feel and fresh had the whole day

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<v Speaker 1>with Ivy, So yeah, it was good. I think just

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest thing for me this week is my personality

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<v Speaker 1>is just really popped because of the weather. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>my me, you gonna say it now, literally, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like this is my personality is like the sun shine,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just feel like I'm leaving my absolute best life.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like the gratitude I've had for this

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<v Speaker 1>week is just like I'm like Jamie about to cry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, oh my god, I'm just so grateful

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<v Speaker 1>for my life and everything is just perfect. And really

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<v Speaker 1>it's just because the sun's come out. Yeah, go on,

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<v Speaker 1>piggyback off me, go on. That's literally what I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think I can't even remember what date was

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<v Speaker 2>last week, but I just remember walking to your office

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning, being like, the traffic was shit this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>But the sun is shiny, and I'm in a great mood.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember you saying that, and I was like, what,

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<v Speaker 2>It just makes everything so much better.

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<v Speaker 1>But also here's the question, how do we like cultivate

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<v Speaker 1>that happiness when it's not sunny? I know, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>the dream. Yeah, that feeling is the dream. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll let we'll have to we'll update, wake it out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it just turns my mood around.

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<v Speaker 1>Really nothing else. It's amazing just being.

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<v Speaker 2>Able to have some sun. Did I do anything fun?

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<v Speaker 2>I went to the cricket on Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>Went to the cricket. How fun me no idea about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was actually really fun and a very good game.

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<v Speaker 1>And did your team win?

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<v Speaker 2>No, but we were so close it was I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even think any of our listeners are gonna like no,

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<v Speaker 2>I was about to say a cricket fans don't bore me?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Then you wait till the DMS blow up

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<v Speaker 1>about me just being rude. Also, guys, before we get

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<v Speaker 1>into the episode, we do have a little quick special announcement. So,

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<v Speaker 1>as you guys know, we never do Black Friday sales,

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<v Speaker 1>but we have asked if we are doing Black Friday

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<v Speaker 1>it now for the Black Friday craziness because obviously there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot going on with and hey each and all

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<v Speaker 1>the things. So just this week, guys, we've got forty

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<v Speaker 1>percent Yes you heard that, forty percent. That's a heck

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<v Speaker 1>So that includes the presets, that includes the Find Your

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<v Speaker 1>and treat yourself. It ends Friday. All right, let's get

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<v Speaker 1>into the show and let's chat about how I do

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<v Speaker 1>it all. I can't wait to hear. All right, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about how I do it all. We're all

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<v Speaker 1>ready to know? Would you say? We're all ready to know?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody wants to know. We're in silly moon, a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a tough love mood. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going over your questions and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>to a tea, this is a tough love episode. We

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<v Speaker 1>love that though. So guys, today we want to chat time, outsourcing, delegating,

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<v Speaker 1>prioritizing space. First things first. So I guess I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about because I have a lot of questions

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<v Speaker 1>being like, you know, you run two businesses, you have

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<v Speaker 1>a baby, all the things. You know, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>do it all? The simple answer is I don't at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally have a team of like eighteen people helping

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<v Speaker 1>me with everything. Most recently, I got an assistant, which

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<v Speaker 1>has changed my life. I thought, wow, when you I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Since having Ivy, I've just realized. It's funny though,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think about it now, if I was to

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<v Speaker 1>be this organized previously, I would have like accomplished a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more, because before you have a baby, you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of go, oh, it's fine, I'll just work at night

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<v Speaker 1>or i'll do this thin and your time isn't as precious, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>But then you have a baby and you're like, oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>I literally cannot bring my work home. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>these eight or you know eight hours I have during

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<v Speaker 1>the day to work need to be the most intentional,

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<v Speaker 1>the most getting the most shit done in the shortest

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<v Speaker 1>amount of time. Yeah. Whereas before that you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, I'll just work on the weekend. Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 1>you can pop a few emails at home after dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I was yeah, ahead, And because it's you know, my business,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I love to do it. I felt

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<v Speaker 1>so I felt so good about it. It didn't feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a drag or anything. Yeah. But since having Ivy,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been on this journey of, yeah, how can I

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<v Speaker 1>get the most done and be the most productive in

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<v Speaker 1>the most little time, the least amount of time, the

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<v Speaker 1>least amount of time. Thank you are tear, So let's

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<v Speaker 1>start with like calendar management, so recently I have also

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<v Speaker 1>actually before that, let's just literally go through the help

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<v Speaker 1>I have in my life to be able to do

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<v Speaker 1>what I've like do. So, of course Tim stays at

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<v Speaker 1>home with Ivy Girl, so that's covered. She's covered I

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<v Speaker 1>in saying that, though I'm very strict with my boundaries

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<v Speaker 1>of I am either leaving at six or seven, but

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to do anything in the morning for her

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<v Speaker 1>unless it's just like a wake up and cut all

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<v Speaker 1>bit of fun. Yeah, but as soon as I get home,

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<v Speaker 1>which is usually three thirty four, it is the Ivy

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<v Speaker 1>Show until she goes to bed. So it's very much

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<v Speaker 1>I have to have everything done before I get home

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<v Speaker 1>because there's no working when I'm at home because that

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<v Speaker 1>is Ivy time, and also no working on the weekends. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which was a huge adjustment for me. So Tim looks

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<v Speaker 1>after Ivy.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a question, Yes, what made you pick to

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<v Speaker 2>have Ivy time in the afternoon and not in the

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<v Speaker 2>morning when.

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<v Speaker 1>She wakes up.

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<v Speaker 2>Was that what worked for you routine wise or how

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<v Speaker 2>did that decision happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm most productive in the morning, so my brain works

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<v Speaker 1>amazing in the morning, and also I realized for me

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<v Speaker 1>to be my best self, I need movement added into

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my routines, and I need my little things

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<v Speaker 1>like journaling and meditating. And I also find they work

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<v Speaker 1>better in the morning, so I want that to be

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<v Speaker 1>away and not interrupt with ivy times. So that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I made those decisions. Great question, by the way, So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to make our lives easier, we have things

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<v Speaker 1>like we have a cleaner that comes every two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>every fortnight in between. Then Tim is really great, He's bocity,

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<v Speaker 1>He's a little tidy freak, which is amazing for me.

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<v Speaker 1>We tend to do like washing on the weekend, we

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<v Speaker 1>get Hallow Fresh. So Tim still does a grocery shop

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<v Speaker 1>where he'll get like his other stuff, but then we

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<v Speaker 1>get hallow Fresh. So that makes, you know, making dinner

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<v Speaker 1>really easy.

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<v Speaker 2>So like, what does your cleaner do? Just like wipe mobs, vacuums,

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<v Speaker 2>all that sort of jazz.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think so you don't even know timsac the

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<v Speaker 1>clean has been. I'm like, oh, yeah, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>he's there for two or three hours. Yeah, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's generally we're quite tidy people. Yeah, so like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we clean up ourselves we wipe everything down. He's just

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<v Speaker 1>more he's more like he'll do the deeper clean stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, so ibalism, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And I actually I love doing washing. I find it

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<v Speaker 1>very therapeutic. I know odd. I tell Tim, don't do

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<v Speaker 1>the washing. I want to do it. Also sometimes he

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<v Speaker 1>like washes colors with whites and as.

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<v Speaker 2>In, like you find it therapeutic putting stuff in the

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<v Speaker 2>washing and putting it away.

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<v Speaker 1>I love putting a way away, mate, I love doing

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<v Speaker 1>just putting it in the washing machine. Love that for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So household stuff and then Tim you know, does like

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<v Speaker 1>the outside stuff on the weekend. So that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>home life. My absolute dream would be to have a

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<v Speaker 1>personal chef. I do it. I speak about this so much.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not there to appen. He's not there yet, but

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<v Speaker 1>this is on my vision board and all my goals

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<v Speaker 1>because so a huge chunk where we're missing family time

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<v Speaker 1>is I do IVY in the afternoon and then Tim

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<v Speaker 1>you know, finally gets a break. So he usually like

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<v Speaker 1>fox off and does something. But then Tim cooks dinner. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're kind of doing separate things because I'm feeding her,

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<v Speaker 1>bathing her, sorting her out. He's cooking dinner, and so

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<v Speaker 1>that time feels really rushed and really full on. And

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<v Speaker 1>so like in my ideal world, we would have someone

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<v Speaker 1>that cooks us healthy, nutritious food or helps out in

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<v Speaker 1>some way so me and Tim can have some more

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<v Speaker 1>time together because at the moment we're kind of finding

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<v Speaker 1>we don't have a lot of time together. But then again,

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<v Speaker 1>we're obviously going to get into that. Like it's just

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<v Speaker 1>we're going through a season where the focus is Ivy

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<v Speaker 1>not us and probably, let's be honest, my work before

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<v Speaker 1>me and Tim, and it's just it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I've made, you know, peace with it. But I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>that's something I'm conscious of.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And when does Tim fit things like jim and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff in.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, well, that's another home thing. So we recently got

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<v Speaker 1>a home gym install yeah, which has been such a

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<v Speaker 1>huge privilege and just like, oh my god, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is life changing. And so he will do his

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<v Speaker 1>gym during IVY snaps. And when did he used to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. He used to do it in the afternoon,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would come home, we would tag Tim, but

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<v Speaker 1>then there was usually a lot of friction during that

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<v Speaker 1>time because Tim is someone who loves to chat. So

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<v Speaker 1>he would go to Jim and he wouldn't get home

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<v Speaker 1>for like two hours because he'd been with a baby

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<v Speaker 1>all day, and then do that, Oh my god, that's

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<v Speaker 1>so annoying. I don't I don't talk to anyone at JIM,

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<v Speaker 1>And so we would often be like there would be

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of friction during that time because like he

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't start cooking dinner till seven, and then like it's

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<v Speaker 1>all a big fucking mess. So the gym situation during

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<v Speaker 1>Ivy's nap has worked better in regards to fitting it

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<v Speaker 1>in correct in saying that he does have appointments which

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<v Speaker 1>he will just do like when I get home. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just not leaving the house. Okay, So that's you know

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<v Speaker 1>how you're obviously in my business, it's we have a

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<v Speaker 1>whole big team. And then also recently getting an executive

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<v Speaker 1>assistant to help me with my calendar and my content

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<v Speaker 1>and just honestly organizing me and keeping me accountably accountable

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<v Speaker 1>has definitely been life changing. I've been so much better

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<v Speaker 1>with my calendar. Have an I idea, Yeah kind of,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all right, you're lightning there, the thought, the intention

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<v Speaker 1>is there, and you're like getting really good at sticking

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<v Speaker 1>to it. I feel, yes, Where's before it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of a chit show. So can I put

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<v Speaker 1>it into context? Yes, tell us, tell us how you

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<v Speaker 1>really feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Georgie would book three things for the same time and

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<v Speaker 2>not like tell anyone until the time, and she'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>like I have frame reeaning right now, we're going to have.

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<v Speaker 1>To move them.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I would everyone's day out. Now you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't book things at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>No, So you know what used to happen is like,

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<v Speaker 1>because I use Google Calendar and Google emails, and so

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<v Speaker 1>in my email, people would send me an invite for

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<v Speaker 1>a meeting. So I'd be like, yeah, of course we

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<v Speaker 1>can do that meeting, except I wouldn't actually check my calendar.

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<v Speaker 2>So then you'd get to the day and be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it defeated the whole purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, I've got it really good with that, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have anything overlapping most of the time. So

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<v Speaker 1>what I do now, and this has been life changing,

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<v Speaker 1>is on a Friday, me and Ellie sit down and

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<v Speaker 1>we go through my calendar. The first thing we do

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<v Speaker 1>is we confirm all my appointments. So she sends a

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<v Speaker 1>text out to you know, your Jamie being like, are

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<v Speaker 1>these interviews confirmed anything that I have on like externally,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's appointments or with Cooper or mail anything like that,

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<v Speaker 1>And we confirm all my appointments from there. And then

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<v Speaker 1>also on a Friday, I'll text like Cooper mel and

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<v Speaker 1>just be like, do you need anything from me next week?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any big things we need to discuss. I

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<v Speaker 1>need to put in my calendar now. Yeah, And it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like if you don't get in the calendar,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't get in. Yeah, nothing happens in saying that

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lie because I always give them the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and then after that I put in my gym time.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll literally schedule in between because I do sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>home gym and then I also do a class that's

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<v Speaker 1>close to work. And so how I work my gym

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<v Speaker 1>is the days that I need to come into work

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<v Speaker 1>with hair and makeup because maybe we're filming or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, I am gimming at home, so I can

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<v Speaker 1>then have a shower and get ready after and then

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<v Speaker 1>any days it doesn't matter what I look like and

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to wear my gym gear, I'll do

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<v Speaker 1>a class because I go straight from that class to work. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I book those in. I also put in journaling,

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<v Speaker 1>meditating time, and I always a whole big thing with

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<v Speaker 1>this calendar. Two is a color code, so I can

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<v Speaker 1>see a weak view of everything color coded. So for example,

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<v Speaker 1>yellow is gym, blue is work, purple is personal appointments

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<v Speaker 1>and creative time. Green is creating content or actual posts

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<v Speaker 1>of when I'm like posting content is pink. That's about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then so what I'll do is I'll kind of

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<v Speaker 1>look and be like, Okay, where you know, is there

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<v Speaker 1>creative time? Where can I maybe put something in that

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<v Speaker 1>isn't there, et cetera. So that's kind of what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing with my calendar at the moment, and that has

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<v Speaker 1>been quiet liab changing. And then in that too, I

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<v Speaker 1>will also put in, of course personal appointments, but like

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<v Speaker 1>with friends and family and just make sure yeah it all,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess makes sense to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I've noticed that you've now moved your gym an hour

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<v Speaker 2>earlier in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh have you noticed that? A tea? Yeah? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to share why? Okay? Or well you used to

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<v Speaker 1>it from seven to eight just for context, Yes, So

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<v Speaker 1>I used to do from seven till eight, and now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing six to seven. I'm actually even trying to think, why, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's warmer. Yeah, it is getting lighter during the day.

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<v Speaker 1>And also I just noticed, so if I was doing

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<v Speaker 1>gym six to seven, I definitely notice after gym is

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<v Speaker 1>when I'll do LIKENK, my journaling, my kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>creative time, and it kind of takes me an hour

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<v Speaker 1>from gym to get into a work day. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was then not starting to nine and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm finishing my work day at three point thirty,

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually not a lot of time. Yes, when you're

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<v Speaker 1>running two you know, businesses and you've got two teams.

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<v Speaker 1>So and because I was being really strict with my boundaries,

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<v Speaker 1>and I kind of looked at my morning and there

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<v Speaker 1>was definitely kind of like wasted time there where I

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<v Speaker 1>would like get up, I'd go on my phone. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like a little bit chill, and so I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of and I was like, look, Georgia, is it a priority, right?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was kind of getting annoyed at myself. I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't getting things done. I felt always in a rush.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, if I just get up earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>get my gym done, and then I basically have an

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<v Speaker 1>hour extra to not be as rushed, feel like more productive,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have. It's been amazing. I'm in the five

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<v Speaker 1>am club guys love. And it's also like that time

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<v Speaker 1>I was because I used to wake up at five

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<v Speaker 1>thirty and then kind of go on my phone because

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<v Speaker 1>I know I didn't have to get up for like

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes. But now I wake up at five ten

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<v Speaker 1>and I know I have to leave the house at

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<v Speaker 1>like five thirty. So you're like, get it done. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go on my phone, which is I get

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<v Speaker 1>life changing. So that's even like with your calendar kind

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<v Speaker 1>of look where you're like wasting time, and even I

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<v Speaker 1>like when your gym's an hour earlier. And for the

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<v Speaker 1>first couple of times, it was like fuck hard to

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<v Speaker 1>wake up, but then you just get used to it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like you would rather feel stretched in a

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<v Speaker 1>good way then feeling like too rushed for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, if that makes sense. So true. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's kind of my life. So I have very

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<v Speaker 1>rigid with my calendar, to be completely honest, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get a lot of I don't get any friend time,

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<v Speaker 1>or social time during the week. I don't mind that though,

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<v Speaker 1>because like when I have free time, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>spend it with Ivy because I'm literally working so much.

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<v Speaker 1>So again that's like my season, that's my priority, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, quite okay with it. I do do

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<v Speaker 1>my Friday gym session with a girlfriend kind of feels

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<v Speaker 1>out my cup there, and then I leave the weekend

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, friends, family time and that sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm kind of very strict with that boundary. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that. How do you do it all in your businesses?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, if you like structured your sort of day

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<v Speaker 2>with the business so that you are doing the most

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<v Speaker 2>important things and not getting stuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So in business, I have, I guess, like set

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<v Speaker 1>up both teams. So it's all about you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>a business owner, you have to have like the vision

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<v Speaker 1>and like the wider goals is super important. But to

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<v Speaker 1>actually continue in your business like a huge thing. I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>like if we're going right to the start, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like outsourcing things that I didn't have to do. So

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<v Speaker 1>obviously there's things in your business that you absolutely have

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<v Speaker 1>to do, which is like knowing how much budget you

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<v Speaker 1>know you have to meet, knowing the wider goals where

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go. Even for me, obviously, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>content that I have to be in. Yeah, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just different stuff like that you know episode where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>fleshing out what I want to talk about, or the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like very specific tasks of like only I

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<v Speaker 1>can do, and then thinking where can I get help

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<v Speaker 1>or where can I outsource something that is not my

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<v Speaker 1>zone of genius that someone else can kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>take the rein. So we did that, you know in

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<v Speaker 1>NHH very slowly. Obviously, we started with mel and then

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<v Speaker 1>like we got Courtney for customer care. So Kooby used

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<v Speaker 1>to do all the customer care and then we got Courtney,

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<v Speaker 1>and then like one by one we employed people and

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<v Speaker 1>then a big thing of like you know, delegation is

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<v Speaker 1>what I generally do now is again like having that

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<v Speaker 1>starting guidance like you were saying before a tier and

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<v Speaker 1>then getting people to implement and then me approving. Yeah. So,

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<v Speaker 1>like most of my day is either creating content or

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<v Speaker 1>creating things that no one else can do. So whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's like literally right now this podcast, or creating KPIs

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<v Speaker 1>for the team and Naked Harvest, or talking to like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, our accountant things like no one else can

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<v Speaker 1>do ye or it's approving work. Yeah. And then so

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<v Speaker 1>we have like a recurring calendar for like recording hotline

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<v Speaker 1>apps and recording you know, our Tuesday episodes. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I have reoccurring tasks with the whole team where it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a weekly one on one and that's where I

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<v Speaker 1>go through approvals for everyone. Also what has helped to

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<v Speaker 1>my calendar is being like on Thursdays is my nd

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<v Speaker 1>H approvals, and then like on Tuesdays is generally like

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<v Speaker 1>my R and C days where we dive deeper into

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<v Speaker 1>stuff and like splitting them up so you're not constantly

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<v Speaker 1>going from one thing to the other and like get

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<v Speaker 1>getting confused and not having your full capacity. And even

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<v Speaker 1>something I'll do is like the mornings where I have

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<v Speaker 1>more like for example, I'm looking at my calendar here

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<v Speaker 1>and on Wednesday, I'm doing a gym. Sorry, I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>my gym at home, and I've got time to journaling

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<v Speaker 1>and I specifically put that on that day because when

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<v Speaker 1>I come in, I'm going straight into an art and

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<v Speaker 1>see team goals and KPIs meeting, which is like we

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about like you know, exciting goals and

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<v Speaker 1>the vision for the brand. So I want to feel

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<v Speaker 1>really excited and motivated and not rushed, and so maybe

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<v Speaker 1>do like a bit of a different workout compared to

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm at the gym if I had sense, So

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<v Speaker 1>just being very intentional with my calendar. But yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sums it up. I know you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>some questions in the Facebook group, So should we go

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<v Speaker 1>through those here?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, let me ask you the first one. So for

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<v Speaker 2>the next part of the episode, I'm going to ask

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<v Speaker 2>you a few questions Georgie that came up in the

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<v Speaker 2>Facebook group. We did put a call out in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a few weeks ago now, of we

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<v Speaker 2>were bouncing ideas around about doing this episode on How

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<v Speaker 2>I Do it All, and we really wanted to know

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<v Speaker 2>what our community wanted to know from Georgie. So we

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<v Speaker 2>had lots of questions come through and I've sort of

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<v Speaker 2>compiled them and condensed them so that we can get

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<v Speaker 2>through as many as possible.

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<v Speaker 1>So the first question, and what was your overall call out?

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<v Speaker 1>Like just how to balance it all? How to do

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<v Speaker 1>it all?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like pretty much how to be a mom work

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<v Speaker 2>full time all the things.

0:25:00.119 --> 0:25:02.280
<v Speaker 1>How do you prioritize everything in your life?

0:25:02.800 --> 0:25:05.560
<v Speaker 2>And so the question that I thought would be good

0:25:05.600 --> 0:25:08.040
<v Speaker 2>to start with is someone actually asked, where do you

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<v Speaker 2>start when it comes to balancing everything and how how

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<v Speaker 2>do you choose to prioritize your time?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, well, you need to ask what's important to you? So,

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:22.439
<v Speaker 1>like I obviously know I'm running two companies, so I

0:25:22.560 --> 0:25:25.399
<v Speaker 1>need like I was saying before, of going, actually I

0:25:25.440 --> 0:25:28.840
<v Speaker 1>should start Jim earlier because I need more work time. Yeah,

0:25:28.880 --> 0:25:32.400
<v Speaker 1>and just choosing to get up earlier. So it's about

0:25:32.440 --> 0:25:36.280
<v Speaker 1>prioritizing what's important to you and what season are you in?

0:25:36.520 --> 0:25:38.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, similar to what I was saying about how

0:25:38.520 --> 0:25:40.439
<v Speaker 1>me and Tim don't have a lot of me and

0:25:40.480 --> 0:25:42.840
<v Speaker 1>Tim time. But it's like I've made peace of that

0:25:42.920 --> 0:25:45.600
<v Speaker 1>because it's a season of we literally it's the first

0:25:45.680 --> 0:25:49.320
<v Speaker 1>year of Ivy's life and it's all about her. It's

0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:52.159
<v Speaker 1>the Ivy Show, the Ivy world. We're just living in it,

0:25:52.560 --> 0:25:55.080
<v Speaker 1>and that like that's okay. So I think it's about

0:25:55.520 --> 0:25:58.960
<v Speaker 1>being like you need to reflect and ask yourself what

0:25:59.240 --> 0:26:02.200
<v Speaker 1>season and am I in? And it's like if you're

0:26:02.200 --> 0:26:04.560
<v Speaker 1>in a season where you want to grow your business,

0:26:05.080 --> 0:26:08.040
<v Speaker 1>you're obviously going to spend more time on your business.

0:26:08.320 --> 0:26:11.600
<v Speaker 1>If you're in a season of focusing on your fitness

0:26:11.600 --> 0:26:13.720
<v Speaker 1>and health, maybe you've got to get up an hour

0:26:13.800 --> 0:26:16.080
<v Speaker 1>earlier and fit it in before you go to work.

0:26:16.720 --> 0:26:19.280
<v Speaker 1>Or if you're in a season of maybe you're feeling

0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:22.040
<v Speaker 1>really burnt out and you've realized that you just like

0:26:22.320 --> 0:26:26.360
<v Speaker 1>haven't taken care of yourself this year, it's like maybe

0:26:26.400 --> 0:26:30.159
<v Speaker 1>ditching the gym and going to hot and cold pools

0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:34.880
<v Speaker 1>and a sauna, or you know, like actually thinking what

0:26:34.920 --> 0:26:37.879
<v Speaker 1>do I currently need in my life right now? I

0:26:37.920 --> 0:26:40.440
<v Speaker 1>think the first thing too, is like putting it out

0:26:40.440 --> 0:26:43.920
<v Speaker 1>on paper, so almost doing an audit of your time

0:26:43.960 --> 0:26:46.359
<v Speaker 1>and being like where am I spending my time? Like

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.919
<v Speaker 1>that's huge of you know, like obviously, I know we

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:51.000
<v Speaker 1>all have jobs and things we have to do. But

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<v Speaker 1>then if you think about it, and a lot of

0:26:52.800 --> 0:26:55.200
<v Speaker 1>people are like, oh, you know, I work full time,

0:26:55.280 --> 0:26:57.680
<v Speaker 1>I've got no time for anything. What are you doing

0:26:57.720 --> 0:26:59.920
<v Speaker 1>before and after work? What are you doing on your weekend?

0:27:00.440 --> 0:27:04.040
<v Speaker 1>And then from that time looking at what is your priority?

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:06.440
<v Speaker 1>If you're spending a lot of time just watching Netflix,

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:10.520
<v Speaker 1>like that's your priority and that's okay, But asking yourself.

0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:13.160
<v Speaker 1>Am I comfortable with that? Yeah? Am a parody? Yeah?

0:27:13.160 --> 0:27:15.360
<v Speaker 1>Am I comfortable with that being my priority right now?

0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:17.399
<v Speaker 1>And then if you're not okay, where am I going

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:20.680
<v Speaker 1>to change things? And I think doing an audit on

0:27:20.720 --> 0:27:25.960
<v Speaker 1>your time is it's scary, but it's quite liberating because

0:27:26.240 --> 0:27:30.200
<v Speaker 1>you take back control. Absolutely. It's like, actually I can

0:27:30.320 --> 0:27:32.359
<v Speaker 1>do something, and I feel like we all get stuck

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:34.800
<v Speaker 1>in this trap where we're like, I've got no time.

0:27:35.000 --> 0:27:37.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm so busy, I work full time. I have all

0:27:37.680 --> 0:27:41.520
<v Speaker 1>these commitments, but it's like you chose those commitments. You're

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:45.000
<v Speaker 1>you're choosing to do the thing or not do the thing.

0:27:45.200 --> 0:27:47.560
<v Speaker 1>So you need to decide if that is a priority

0:27:47.640 --> 0:27:51.679
<v Speaker 1>or if you need to shift and realign yourself. So

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:55.520
<v Speaker 1>number one takeaway, do an order of audit of your time,

0:27:55.920 --> 0:27:58.800
<v Speaker 1>see where your priorities are and decide if they need

0:27:58.840 --> 0:28:00.600
<v Speaker 1>to shift or if it's great.

0:28:02.600 --> 0:28:06.919
<v Speaker 2>Question number two, how do you actually hold yourself accountable?

0:28:07.440 --> 0:28:10.679
<v Speaker 2>I will time block but sometimes not follow through. So

0:28:10.840 --> 0:28:13.199
<v Speaker 2>are there any tactics you use to ensure that you

0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:14.920
<v Speaker 2>stick to your commitments.

0:28:16.480 --> 0:28:19.639
<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna like my answer to you. I have

0:28:19.720 --> 0:28:24.119
<v Speaker 1>an assistant, So I have Ellie being like, excuse me.

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:26.520
<v Speaker 2>She literally said this to be your fair and I

0:28:26.560 --> 0:28:28.720
<v Speaker 2>was like, okay, but what about people who kind of

0:28:28.720 --> 0:28:29.400
<v Speaker 2>what I'm an.

0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:33.399
<v Speaker 1>Assisted, what do we do well? I think it's again

0:28:33.720 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 1>about deciding how you're going to prioritize your time. So

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:40.320
<v Speaker 1>are you going to use an electronic calendar? Are you

0:28:40.360 --> 0:28:43.240
<v Speaker 1>going to use a paper calendar? Sticking to that? I

0:28:43.280 --> 0:28:46.080
<v Speaker 1>think you know this person, they've said I time block,

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:50.280
<v Speaker 1>so they're already writing down their times. She's probably you know,

0:28:50.320 --> 0:28:54.240
<v Speaker 1>she's probably like a very organized gal. If you're not

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:58.400
<v Speaker 1>sticking to it, I would ask yourself like why, yeah,

0:28:58.800 --> 0:29:02.360
<v Speaker 1>like there's some time blocked the wrong way around? Maybe, yeah,

0:29:02.400 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 1>Like are you not actually prioritizing what you want or

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:09.720
<v Speaker 1>does there maybe need to be some discipline here where

0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:12.880
<v Speaker 1>you go? No, this is my priority, So I'm just

0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:15.320
<v Speaker 1>going to wake up that hour earlier. Like I had

0:29:15.320 --> 0:29:17.360
<v Speaker 1>to have a bit of a chat with myself where

0:29:17.360 --> 0:29:20.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Georgia, get up, you've been lazy, Like

0:29:20.080 --> 0:29:23.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not, but you know, like a bit of tough

0:29:23.080 --> 0:29:29.160
<v Speaker 1>love with yourself and just being like, actually I am

0:29:29.200 --> 0:29:32.040
<v Speaker 1>just not being very disciplined and am I okay with that?

0:29:32.200 --> 0:29:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Or am I not? Yeah?

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 2>And I think as well, with time blocking, you need

0:29:36.480 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 2>to leave gaps. Yeah, because no matter how hard you try,

0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:42.200
<v Speaker 2>things come up, like meetings run over.

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:43.400
<v Speaker 1>This is me right now.

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:48.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So like think about it objectively, like if something's

0:29:48.360 --> 0:29:50.840
<v Speaker 2>supposed to take an hour, put an hour and fifteen

0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 2>minutes in, and if you put that fifteen minute buffer

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:55.240
<v Speaker 2>for everything, you might just be running early at the

0:29:55.320 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 2>end of the day, which is great.

0:29:56.840 --> 0:29:59.800
<v Speaker 1>That's actually a great point a teer of Like if

0:29:59.800 --> 0:30:02.320
<v Speaker 1>you as someone who is quite organized and time blocking

0:30:02.360 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 1>and scheduling and something, but it's still not working, It's like,

0:30:06.080 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 1>are you, yeah, not allowing enough time to get things done? Yeah,

0:30:10.880 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 1>because you can't force yourself to get a two hour

0:30:13.000 --> 0:30:14.960
<v Speaker 1>task done in an hour. It's not going to happen.

0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:16.080
<v Speaker 2>No will.

0:30:16.240 --> 0:30:19.560
<v Speaker 1>We all would love that, But I guess that's also

0:30:19.680 --> 0:30:24.400
<v Speaker 1>like realizing there's no magic fix. It's like you're you've

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:33.160
<v Speaker 1>got to commit literally to the lesson I'm learning right now. Yeah.

0:30:33.400 --> 0:30:36.960
<v Speaker 2>Question number three, how do you prevent burnout or how

0:30:37.000 --> 0:30:39.640
<v Speaker 2>have you recovered from burnout in the past?

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of have two concepts for this. I think

0:30:42.880 --> 0:30:47.080
<v Speaker 1>for me, when I am getting into burnout, the best

0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 1>thing I do is reflect and I'm like, what has

0:30:50.840 --> 0:30:54.280
<v Speaker 1>currently you know happened. I've I've done this recently. I

0:30:54.400 --> 0:30:56.920
<v Speaker 1>recently did a big reflection on my year and then

0:30:56.960 --> 0:31:00.280
<v Speaker 1>planned out the next year. And I've felt quite a

0:31:00.320 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 1>few times this year like I'm like on the edge

0:31:03.000 --> 0:31:08.000
<v Speaker 1>of burnout, burnout because you know, we've gone into burnout

0:31:08.000 --> 0:31:10.120
<v Speaker 1>feeling very kind of just like numb and like you

0:31:10.160 --> 0:31:12.840
<v Speaker 1>don't care anymore and you're just like so exhausted. And

0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I've felt like that a couple of times this year,

0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:17.239
<v Speaker 1>and I've kind of realized it's because I wasn't in

0:31:17.320 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 1>alignment and I was kind of you know, doing things.

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>It's not that I didn't want to do them, but

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:26.000
<v Speaker 1>it's like a past self had committed to those things

0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 1>and I had grown a lot as a person, and

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:31.240
<v Speaker 1>it was out of alignment. So I think reflecting and

0:31:31.320 --> 0:31:35.920
<v Speaker 1>being like, maybe what has you know got me to

0:31:36.160 --> 0:31:39.240
<v Speaker 1>this point? And can I change anything from here in

0:31:39.280 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 1>regards to like recovering from it if you're currently feeling it,

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 1>is again audit your time and because we all have

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:49.520
<v Speaker 1>stuff that we don't like doing and we all got

0:31:49.560 --> 0:31:52.000
<v Speaker 1>to do it, Like we've all got work, we've all

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:55.320
<v Speaker 1>got commitments, we all, you know, have goals, and usually

0:31:55.320 --> 0:31:57.760
<v Speaker 1>to get those get to those goals, we're doing things

0:31:57.800 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 1>that it's like, it's not amazing all the time. It's

0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:03.760
<v Speaker 1>not you know, I don't love getting up at five

0:32:03.800 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 1>am and lifting heavy weights. I'm like, I'd rather be sleeping.

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 1>But it's like looking at your time and kind of thinking,

0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:16.600
<v Speaker 1>where can I add in some more things that will

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:20.520
<v Speaker 1>just fill up my cup that little bit more? Almost

0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:23.400
<v Speaker 1>like where can I add some little bits of joy? Yeah?

0:32:23.440 --> 0:32:25.840
<v Speaker 1>And that's why when me and Ellie go through my calendar,

0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:29.520
<v Speaker 1>she literally goes, when are you journaling? When are you meditating?

0:32:29.720 --> 0:32:34.440
<v Speaker 1>When's your creative time? Georgie, shut up, stop telling me

0:32:34.480 --> 0:32:36.960
<v Speaker 1>what to do, but also please keep doing it and

0:32:37.120 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 1>I will have to put put in those things. Oh

0:32:40.120 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 1>my god, Tar, I haven't told you this, so you

0:32:42.840 --> 0:32:45.720
<v Speaker 1>know how we're going off topic. Yeah, but you know

0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:48.840
<v Speaker 1>how I told you that. Andrea, so our resident are

0:32:49.200 --> 0:32:53.240
<v Speaker 1>rn C psychic? Yes, she'll randomly, because she's really tapped

0:32:53.240 --> 0:32:55.120
<v Speaker 1>into my energy because the amount of readings we've done

0:32:55.120 --> 0:32:56.840
<v Speaker 1>and we've been friends for so long. She'll be like,

0:32:56.880 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 1>I've got a message for you. We were voicing the

0:32:59.480 --> 0:33:02.080
<v Speaker 1>other day and she's like, Georgie, I've got a bit

0:33:02.080 --> 0:33:04.600
<v Speaker 1>of a message from You've had it download. She's like,

0:33:05.040 --> 0:33:09.240
<v Speaker 1>have you stopped journaling and meditating? And I was like maybe,

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 1>And she's like, you need to start again. That is

0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 1>like a huge thing because I was asking her like

0:33:16.200 --> 0:33:18.920
<v Speaker 1>a business decision, should I do this or that? And

0:33:18.960 --> 0:33:22.160
<v Speaker 1>she literally just goes, don't even worry about that. You

0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:25.280
<v Speaker 1>need to get back to your small routines boo. Because

0:33:25.480 --> 0:33:27.560
<v Speaker 1>and she's like, you know this, I don't even have

0:33:27.640 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 1>to like tell you this is a message from your angels.

0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:32.960
<v Speaker 1>But she's like, you need to add in that time

0:33:33.040 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>because you wouldn't need to ask me this question. And

0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you're so smart. And so that's when

0:33:39.840 --> 0:33:43.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I haven't been prioritizing what I need

0:33:43.120 --> 0:33:46.720
<v Speaker 1>to prioritize to be my best self. Yeah, and so yeah,

0:33:46.800 --> 0:33:50.120
<v Speaker 1>I will start including more joy, more things that fill

0:33:50.160 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 1>me up. And I think sometimes when we're burnt out,

0:33:52.600 --> 0:33:55.720
<v Speaker 1>we want to stop everything, just stop it. Just quit

0:33:55.760 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>my job, burn it off, turn it off. I don't

0:33:57.840 --> 0:34:01.640
<v Speaker 1>want to do any projects, but I it's not reality. Yeah.

0:34:01.640 --> 0:34:03.760
<v Speaker 1>We need to you know, keep living, we need to

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:07.280
<v Speaker 1>keep earning money, we need to keep ongoing, and so

0:34:07.600 --> 0:34:10.040
<v Speaker 1>if you can look at your schedule and just filter

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:14.640
<v Speaker 1>in some sprinkle in some joy, some filling up things

0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:18.360
<v Speaker 1>that can be very small, you know, ten minutes of journaling,

0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:21.880
<v Speaker 1>like that's when we're going to start coming back to

0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:24.520
<v Speaker 1>ourself and even then get to a spot where you

0:34:24.560 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 1>then have space to then rejig things.

0:34:27.800 --> 0:34:30.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think even I think we spoke about

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 2>this in the fem episode. But giving yourself a guilt

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:38.520
<v Speaker 2>free rest day of nothing wherever you can, maybe it

0:34:38.640 --> 0:34:41.279
<v Speaker 2>means in two weeks time you give yourself a little

0:34:41.280 --> 0:34:43.480
<v Speaker 2>long we can and take a day off work or something.

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:46.600
<v Speaker 2>But giving yourself that one day where you don't have

0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:48.680
<v Speaker 2>to do chores, you don't have to go anywhere, you

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:51.200
<v Speaker 2>can just wake up, see what you feel like doing,

0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:54.279
<v Speaker 2>and do that would help a lot with recovering for

0:34:54.400 --> 0:34:57.000
<v Speaker 2>burnout and get yourself sort of back into like looking

0:34:57.040 --> 0:34:58.839
<v Speaker 2>at your life at a bird's eye view rather than

0:34:58.880 --> 0:34:59.879
<v Speaker 2>being stuck.

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:02.840
<v Speaker 1>One hundred percent create space. But then the caveat to

0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:07.520
<v Speaker 1>that is that shouldn't be every weekend. No, if you're

0:35:07.719 --> 0:35:11.520
<v Speaker 1>doing that every weekend, you you're not actually like you're

0:35:11.520 --> 0:35:14.719
<v Speaker 1>not actually fixing anything, if that makes sense, you're just

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:17.920
<v Speaker 1>so burnt out and you're not taking any action to

0:35:18.080 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 1>fix that burnout. No, if that makes sense. So I

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:23.000
<v Speaker 1>don't think that it's like a band aid fixed. Yeah,

0:35:23.000 --> 0:35:25.080
<v Speaker 1>it's a band aid every week so you can get

0:35:25.239 --> 0:35:27.839
<v Speaker 1>through the next week, but you're not actually making any

0:35:27.920 --> 0:35:31.719
<v Speaker 1>changes that you're then helping yourself. Yeah. So that and

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I do that sometimes right every weekend, I just want

0:35:34.560 --> 0:35:36.759
<v Speaker 1>to veg out, and then I've got to literally look

0:35:36.760 --> 0:35:40.440
<v Speaker 1>at myself and be like, something's wrong without and again

0:35:40.560 --> 0:35:44.400
<v Speaker 1>that's when you have to take that accountability. Yeah, and

0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:46.800
<v Speaker 1>you have to be like, I need to make a change,

0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:49.280
<v Speaker 1>which is always uncomfortable at the start. He is thinking

0:35:49.719 --> 0:35:54.840
<v Speaker 1>like I've it's very common this time of year, and

0:35:54.920 --> 0:35:58.040
<v Speaker 1>this was me probably like the last two months before this,

0:35:58.280 --> 0:36:00.680
<v Speaker 1>But now I've like I've got an over the hump,

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:03.560
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, I needed that time. But

0:36:04.200 --> 0:36:08.440
<v Speaker 1>if you're not actually moving forward or reshifting or rejigging things,

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:10.840
<v Speaker 1>we'll check it and when I figure out what it is,

0:36:11.080 --> 0:36:16.320
<v Speaker 1>we'll check it back in guys, So me and a

0:36:16.400 --> 0:36:20.520
<v Speaker 1>Tea are both we're in the fit train. We fit

0:36:20.560 --> 0:36:25.400
<v Speaker 1>batties right now for summer, for summer and ourselves and

0:36:25.480 --> 0:36:29.680
<v Speaker 1>ourselves because Hot Girl Summer is coming. It's copy. So,

0:36:29.920 --> 0:36:33.000
<v Speaker 1>as you guys know, I've gone back to gym after IVY,

0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:34.840
<v Speaker 1>and literally at the moment, I'm doing a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>fit gals, let's get back into the episode. But number four,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you make space to level up without feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like you're missing out. I'm just going to give a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more context to this question in the terms

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<v Speaker 1>of an example, because we've got a few different questions

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<v Speaker 1>of the same nature. Yeah, but an example someone gave

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<v Speaker 1>is they really know that they want to study this

0:38:29.120 --> 0:38:32.120
<v Speaker 1>specific course to reach their next level because that's where

0:38:32.160 --> 0:38:34.719
<v Speaker 1>they see themselves going in their life. But to do that,

0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:36.920
<v Speaker 1>they need to work less for this next little bit,

0:38:37.400 --> 0:38:39.480
<v Speaker 1>and they're worried that that'll then set them back in

0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:41.840
<v Speaker 1>different ways in life. And I feel like this is

0:38:41.880 --> 0:38:45.799
<v Speaker 1>something very common where people experience that they know they

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<v Speaker 1>need to get rid of something to make space for

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:50.880
<v Speaker 1>the next thing, but it's almost like getting comfortable with

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:54.239
<v Speaker 1>almost missing out on a few things in the moontime.

0:38:54.640 --> 0:38:58.439
<v Speaker 1>I love this question, So I think it is so

0:38:58.560 --> 0:39:02.200
<v Speaker 1>important every couple of not every couple of years, but

0:39:02.280 --> 0:39:06.920
<v Speaker 1>like looking at your journey, this will kind of continuously

0:39:07.160 --> 0:39:09.360
<v Speaker 1>happen when you do need to up level and you

0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:12.080
<v Speaker 1>do need to shift or take something away. So the

0:39:12.120 --> 0:39:16.160
<v Speaker 1>first example that comes to mind is when I quit

0:39:16.239 --> 0:39:19.200
<v Speaker 1>my law job. So when I quit my law job,

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<v Speaker 1>I had my social media stuff on the side, and

0:39:23.600 --> 0:39:26.759
<v Speaker 1>I had built my social media stuff up where it

0:39:26.800 --> 0:39:30.319
<v Speaker 1>basically matched what I was making my law job. Yeah,

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:34.600
<v Speaker 1>and so you know, technically, technically two incomes like that

0:39:34.760 --> 0:39:37.200
<v Speaker 1>was amazing sort of thing when you were that young.

0:39:38.160 --> 0:39:41.680
<v Speaker 1>But I knew if I didn't drop one and go

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<v Speaker 1>fully in one of them, I would burn out and

0:39:45.760 --> 0:39:47.959
<v Speaker 1>you know, crash and burn and it would not be great.

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<v Speaker 1>So I knew for a time I had to kick

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<v Speaker 1>one of them away and build up in that. You know,

0:39:55.040 --> 0:39:57.799
<v Speaker 1>one and you essentially cut your income in half when

0:39:57.880 --> 0:40:01.319
<v Speaker 1>you did that. Yeah, yes, it's that, Yeah, definitely. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I had a mortgage, I had bills, Like

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<v Speaker 1>even though I didn't have IVY, I still had huge

0:40:06.719 --> 0:40:09.120
<v Speaker 1>things that were taking in consideration. But I was like,

0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:14.319
<v Speaker 1>I am so happy to cut half my income and

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<v Speaker 1>know that I can, you know, go deeper and just

0:40:19.239 --> 0:40:23.680
<v Speaker 1>find out what this like intuition feeling is with this

0:40:23.800 --> 0:40:26.200
<v Speaker 1>social media stuff, because I just I knew I was

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<v Speaker 1>on like the brim of the cusp. We love the

0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:32.440
<v Speaker 1>word cusp, the cusp of something, and I knew if

0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>I didn't let go of the law, I would never

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<v Speaker 1>be able to get to the next level. So essentially

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<v Speaker 1>I had to like, yeah, half my income and then

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:44.080
<v Speaker 1>Naked Harvest came I think it was one or two

0:40:44.160 --> 0:40:48.440
<v Speaker 1>years later. Yeah, so essentially that's that's huge. But I

0:40:48.560 --> 0:40:50.720
<v Speaker 1>needed to do it to then get to the next level.

0:40:50.719 --> 0:40:53.080
<v Speaker 1>But then now, if I look at my life, like

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:56.439
<v Speaker 1>that's a no brainer choice. Absolutely, But during the time

0:40:56.480 --> 0:40:58.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, but I'm going to lose half

0:40:58.080 --> 0:41:01.279
<v Speaker 1>my income, you know, I was comfort and so it's

0:41:01.320 --> 0:41:05.000
<v Speaker 1>about deciding like if this person she's clearly said like

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<v Speaker 1>up level, she knows she's got this intuition feeling, she

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<v Speaker 1>knows she needs to make space and take time, and

0:41:12.200 --> 0:41:16.640
<v Speaker 1>that might mean bringing something away, whether that is time,

0:41:16.719 --> 0:41:21.200
<v Speaker 1>whether that is money, some sort of resource, but that

0:41:21.360 --> 0:41:23.640
<v Speaker 1>is always like now I look back that it's obviously

0:41:23.920 --> 0:41:28.000
<v Speaker 1>tenfold where I was able to get because I reduced

0:41:28.080 --> 0:41:32.080
<v Speaker 1>that so and like another another good example is in

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<v Speaker 1>Naked Harvest, I can't remember it was the year's pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>so the Yuro's pregnant with Ivy. In Naked Harvest, I

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<v Speaker 1>remember looking at our goals for the year and very

0:41:43.480 --> 0:41:50.080
<v Speaker 1>specifically with intentions saying, I'm not interested in growth for

0:41:50.200 --> 0:41:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Naked Harvest this year. I'm interested in creating a foundation

0:41:55.800 --> 0:42:00.200
<v Speaker 1>because before that I couldn't leave. I couldn't take maternity

0:42:00.239 --> 0:42:03.400
<v Speaker 1>leave because we were a small business and you know,

0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:05.759
<v Speaker 1>everyone was doing a million dollar jobs and I was

0:42:05.800 --> 0:42:09.680
<v Speaker 1>so intertwined into everything I couldn't technically take time off

0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:12.920
<v Speaker 1>without it, you know, crumbling a little bit. So I

0:42:13.080 --> 0:42:16.440
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm going to sacrifice growth this year in

0:42:16.560 --> 0:42:20.360
<v Speaker 1>Naked Harvest to build systems, to build foundations, to build

0:42:20.440 --> 0:42:25.160
<v Speaker 1>our team so I can take time and essentially scale

0:42:25.320 --> 0:42:29.080
<v Speaker 1>Naked Harvest later on Yeah, in years to come. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So again that is like a choice. So instead of

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<v Speaker 1>looking at oh I'm missing out on you know, money

0:42:35.200 --> 0:42:38.000
<v Speaker 1>or growth or time like that's I feel like that's

0:42:38.000 --> 0:42:40.400
<v Speaker 1>such an illusion, Like don't get caught in the trick

0:42:40.800 --> 0:42:43.799
<v Speaker 1>because in the long road it will be you know,

0:42:43.960 --> 0:42:47.760
<v Speaker 1>tenfold the time, energy, money, whatever resource that you're missing

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<v Speaker 1>out on. Did that make sense? It did? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I I even because this is something I've gone through before,

0:42:53.640 --> 0:42:56.160
<v Speaker 2>look at it and go every week. I don't make

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<v Speaker 2>space for this. It delays the end goal by even

0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:04.120
<v Speaker 2>though it probably might not work out to be exactly that,

0:43:04.360 --> 0:43:07.440
<v Speaker 2>but for me, it's like this time is precious and

0:43:07.480 --> 0:43:10.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm wasting it and the more I waste on doing

0:43:10.440 --> 0:43:13.279
<v Speaker 2>the thing that wasting my time or like filling the

0:43:13.320 --> 0:43:15.440
<v Speaker 2>space sinking long term, thinking long.

0:43:15.360 --> 0:43:17.239
<v Speaker 1>Term other than sure, would I rather do a week

0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:22.000
<v Speaker 1>of this or have that thing a month earlier? Yeah,

0:43:22.040 --> 0:43:24.200
<v Speaker 1>because like naked Harvest could have come even if you

0:43:24.200 --> 0:43:26.480
<v Speaker 1>didn't quit your law job. But how much longer would

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<v Speaker 1>it have taken you to get it to the point? Yes,

0:43:28.880 --> 0:43:32.160
<v Speaker 1>correct that you did? Yeah? Yeah, next question, what are

0:43:32.160 --> 0:43:38.480
<v Speaker 1>your thoughts on creating ballot? Oh? No, such thing? What

0:43:39.040 --> 0:43:42.960
<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, I don't know. Sometimes this is

0:43:43.000 --> 0:43:47.360
<v Speaker 1>a bit controversial. Just sometimes I don't believe in balance

0:43:47.400 --> 0:43:50.080
<v Speaker 1>because I'm just such a person that I'm like, there's

0:43:50.120 --> 0:43:54.759
<v Speaker 1>seasons and even though I do believe you can have

0:43:54.920 --> 0:43:57.719
<v Speaker 1>it all, I think you can't have it all all

0:43:57.800 --> 0:44:01.279
<v Speaker 1>the time. No, no, no, Yeah, I think you need

0:44:01.360 --> 0:44:04.680
<v Speaker 1>to have priorities. Yeah, and anytime you have a priority,

0:44:04.920 --> 0:44:09.520
<v Speaker 1>somethink slides back. It's just what happens. Yeah. But if

0:44:09.560 --> 0:44:12.480
<v Speaker 1>you are very clear on your priorities and you know

0:44:12.560 --> 0:44:15.400
<v Speaker 1>exactly what you want, that's not going to matter. Yes.

0:44:15.840 --> 0:44:19.440
<v Speaker 1>So my big thing with balance is I think you

0:44:19.600 --> 0:44:23.719
<v Speaker 1>need to decide what is your priority, what you want

0:44:23.760 --> 0:44:26.520
<v Speaker 1>in life right now, what is your goal, and kind

0:44:26.520 --> 0:44:28.799
<v Speaker 1>of go off that rather than being like I just

0:44:28.840 --> 0:44:30.840
<v Speaker 1>need to be balanced twenty four to seven. Because like

0:44:31.239 --> 0:44:33.759
<v Speaker 1>a good example is, like I said, if you have

0:44:33.880 --> 0:44:37.399
<v Speaker 1>this goal of I want to grow my business year

0:44:37.640 --> 0:44:40.799
<v Speaker 1>business this year, or even start a business, yeah, like

0:44:40.880 --> 0:44:43.680
<v Speaker 1>you can't. Oh well, I've got to have time for

0:44:43.960 --> 0:44:46.200
<v Speaker 1>my friends and my family and this and this, and

0:44:46.239 --> 0:44:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I can only spend one hour on my business per week. Yes,

0:44:49.200 --> 0:44:51.319
<v Speaker 1>it might and especially let's just say it's a side

0:44:51.400 --> 0:44:54.080
<v Speaker 1>hustle and you're doing it on the weekend. You can't

0:44:54.080 --> 0:44:57.760
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, my goal is to you know, grow

0:44:57.920 --> 0:44:59.719
<v Speaker 1>and scale my business, right, I'm going to go to

0:44:59.760 --> 0:45:02.160
<v Speaker 1>part these every weekend. Correct. It's just like when I

0:45:02.200 --> 0:45:05.040
<v Speaker 1>was at UNI and all my friends were going out

0:45:05.040 --> 0:45:08.520
<v Speaker 1>on the weekend and I had an assignment and I

0:45:08.640 --> 0:45:10.840
<v Speaker 1>was like, well, what's the end goal here, Georgia. Do

0:45:10.840 --> 0:45:12.399
<v Speaker 1>you want to be a lawyer or do you want

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:14.600
<v Speaker 1>to go get out a good weekend? Yeah? Do you

0:45:14.600 --> 0:45:16.800
<v Speaker 1>want to go have some fun? Yeah? And like sometimes

0:45:16.800 --> 0:45:19.440
<v Speaker 1>I'd choose the funk, so I was like, fuck it, it stoughts,

0:45:19.520 --> 0:45:24.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't care. But then you know you need to.

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:27.160
<v Speaker 1>That's what I mean about balance, Like I believe in

0:45:27.239 --> 0:45:30.319
<v Speaker 1>balance in like, h if you look at your year

0:45:30.800 --> 0:45:32.959
<v Speaker 1>in a hole and you're like, yeah, well three months

0:45:33.000 --> 0:45:36.200
<v Speaker 1>I was, you know, really heavy on the candy collection,

0:45:36.719 --> 0:45:39.799
<v Speaker 1>and then I had a month of really focusing on

0:45:39.880 --> 0:45:43.399
<v Speaker 1>Tim and Ivy. So like during the candy collection three

0:45:43.440 --> 0:45:46.480
<v Speaker 1>month pre launch, it wasn't balance. But if I look

0:45:46.520 --> 0:45:50.040
<v Speaker 1>over the whole year, maybe it is, If that makes sense. Yeah, no,

0:45:50.120 --> 0:45:52.080
<v Speaker 1>absolutely so, yeah, I don't know.

0:45:52.160 --> 0:45:56.880
<v Speaker 2>I think I really like that outlook, Okay, because Yeah,

0:45:56.160 --> 0:45:59.759
<v Speaker 2>I do like getting comfortable with your priorities and if

0:45:59.800 --> 0:46:02.359
<v Speaker 2>you're not, then change them.

0:46:02.560 --> 0:46:05.040
<v Speaker 1>And if you're someone who's like, oh, I just I

0:46:05.120 --> 0:46:08.960
<v Speaker 1>need balance in my life, you probably don't need balance.

0:46:09.000 --> 0:46:11.720
<v Speaker 1>You're needing the opposite of what you're currently doing, which

0:46:11.800 --> 0:46:14.800
<v Speaker 1>is fine, and it just means it's time to shift. Yeah,

0:46:14.840 --> 0:46:16.920
<v Speaker 1>it's time for a different season. Yeah.

0:46:17.160 --> 0:46:20.800
<v Speaker 2>I think something else as well, though, is if you've

0:46:21.160 --> 0:46:25.800
<v Speaker 2>picked a cert priority to work on, don't get upset

0:46:25.880 --> 0:46:30.120
<v Speaker 2>with yourself when the other things fall back, and don't

0:46:30.160 --> 0:46:33.480
<v Speaker 2>be hard on yourself or measure your worth by those things. Like,

0:46:33.520 --> 0:46:36.000
<v Speaker 2>for example, if your priority is your business and it

0:46:36.040 --> 0:46:38.960
<v Speaker 2>means less time with your partner, don't go, I'm such

0:46:39.000 --> 0:46:42.360
<v Speaker 2>a bad person because I'm being a bad partner. So true,

0:46:42.400 --> 0:46:45.640
<v Speaker 2>because I feel like everybody does that. Yeah, if something

0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:47.879
<v Speaker 2>starts slipping, if they're not going to the gym as much,

0:46:47.920 --> 0:46:50.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm unfit. I'm unhealthy because I'm not going to the gym.

0:46:50.920 --> 0:46:53.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm such a gross person. But like, that's not what

0:46:53.160 --> 0:46:53.480
<v Speaker 2>it is.

0:46:53.840 --> 0:46:56.680
<v Speaker 1>No, it's health and fitness isn't a priority for you. Yeah,

0:46:56.680 --> 0:46:59.319
<v Speaker 1>and that's okay because you chose a different priority at

0:46:59.320 --> 0:47:01.480
<v Speaker 1>that point, which is also Okay, I love that. I

0:47:01.520 --> 0:47:05.799
<v Speaker 1>think that's also about being like so self aware. Yeah,

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:08.920
<v Speaker 1>like you need to be self aware when you're choosing something.

0:47:09.160 --> 0:47:10.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I do it all the time. I get

0:47:11.000 --> 0:47:13.000
<v Speaker 2>upset about something and then I'm like, hang on.

0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I chose the other thing.

0:47:16.120 --> 0:47:18.480
<v Speaker 2>This isn't even at the top of my five, like

0:47:18.600 --> 0:47:21.400
<v Speaker 2>my top five wife, my energy getting.

0:47:21.200 --> 0:47:27.320
<v Speaker 1>Upset, this isn't even a bucket. Yeah. Literally Number six.

0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:29.840
<v Speaker 2>How do you deal with the guilt of having to

0:47:29.920 --> 0:47:33.600
<v Speaker 2>sacrifice in this one came from a lot of like

0:47:33.680 --> 0:47:36.640
<v Speaker 2>moms where they're sacrificing time with their kids to go

0:47:36.719 --> 0:47:38.920
<v Speaker 2>back to full time work or part time work and

0:47:39.000 --> 0:47:39.880
<v Speaker 2>that sort of stuff.

0:47:40.239 --> 0:47:46.360
<v Speaker 1>I love this. So I follow this girl on Instagram

0:47:46.440 --> 0:47:50.799
<v Speaker 1>called savann Ahla or Tiger or Tiger I'm not sure

0:47:50.800 --> 0:47:53.360
<v Speaker 1>if that's her name, Savan. I've actually had her on

0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:56.440
<v Speaker 1>the potty Love Savan. She's like a California girl and

0:47:56.440 --> 0:47:59.600
<v Speaker 1>she's like really fashion style, but she's also got two kids.

0:48:00.000 --> 0:48:02.600
<v Speaker 1>And I remember reading one of her blogs that I

0:48:02.640 --> 0:48:05.880
<v Speaker 1>absolutely loved, and she wrote this concept of like I

0:48:06.000 --> 0:48:10.360
<v Speaker 1>don't do mum guilt mmm, and she just goes, I

0:48:10.480 --> 0:48:14.680
<v Speaker 1>have decided my life. So she has two kids, they

0:48:14.719 --> 0:48:19.440
<v Speaker 1>have a full time nanny. Yeah, she is an influencer.

0:48:19.560 --> 0:48:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I think she has like two or three businesses, like

0:48:22.360 --> 0:48:25.520
<v Speaker 1>girl Boss Vibes, and she's so unapologetic, like she's like,

0:48:26.120 --> 0:48:29.280
<v Speaker 1>I have decided to create my life like this where

0:48:29.400 --> 0:48:33.000
<v Speaker 1>I work in my businesses. I'm so passionate about it.

0:48:33.360 --> 0:48:36.319
<v Speaker 1>You know, her husband works in her businesses too, and

0:48:36.440 --> 0:48:39.400
<v Speaker 1>so with you know, with their time, they just like

0:48:39.440 --> 0:48:41.200
<v Speaker 1>they have a nanny full time during the week and

0:48:41.239 --> 0:48:44.120
<v Speaker 1>then they prioritize like family time on the weekend. And

0:48:44.239 --> 0:48:48.359
<v Speaker 1>she's like, I have decided this. I've decided this so

0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:52.880
<v Speaker 1>I will not buy into mum guilt. And she's like,

0:48:53.040 --> 0:48:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I've just decided I will not have money, and I

0:48:55.680 --> 0:48:58.120
<v Speaker 1>just love it because I'm like that's so true. Like

0:48:58.239 --> 0:49:02.400
<v Speaker 1>you can literally decide your life. So if your priority

0:49:02.760 --> 0:49:05.560
<v Speaker 1>is you want to be a working mom and you

0:49:05.600 --> 0:49:07.560
<v Speaker 1>want to work in your career or you want to

0:49:07.640 --> 0:49:11.560
<v Speaker 1>work in your business like own it, don't fall into

0:49:11.600 --> 0:49:14.600
<v Speaker 1>this mum guilt because it's like it's just wasting time

0:49:14.640 --> 0:49:18.640
<v Speaker 1>and energy and it's about you know, your priorities. So again,

0:49:19.040 --> 0:49:21.560
<v Speaker 1>if you do have mum guilt, and it's because this

0:49:21.680 --> 0:49:24.280
<v Speaker 1>and that, it's time to shift, it's time to change,

0:49:24.280 --> 0:49:27.399
<v Speaker 1>and I know it's not sometimes that easy, but it's

0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:30.399
<v Speaker 1>about being self aware enough. And I do this too.

0:49:30.440 --> 0:49:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I fall into the trap where I feel guilty, you know,

0:49:34.400 --> 0:49:37.080
<v Speaker 1>with certain things about Ivan. Then I have to remind myself.

0:49:37.120 --> 0:49:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, Georgia, you chose to be a working

0:49:39.600 --> 0:49:41.879
<v Speaker 1>mom and you fucking love what you do and you're

0:49:41.880 --> 0:49:44.280
<v Speaker 1>giving her a great life and she has the best

0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:48.720
<v Speaker 1>life and yeah, and so I have to remind myself

0:49:48.760 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 1>that and almost give myself some tough love where I'm like, oh, no,

0:49:52.760 --> 0:49:56.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing this. We're not doing mum guilt today, Georgia. Yeah,

0:49:56.239 --> 0:50:00.160
<v Speaker 1>and almost like being very taking the emotion out of it, yeah,

0:50:00.200 --> 0:50:03.080
<v Speaker 1>almost objective, Yeah, being objected and being like, well, you

0:50:03.200 --> 0:50:06.000
<v Speaker 1>chose this and you love what you do, and you

0:50:06.000 --> 0:50:08.319
<v Speaker 1>know things might change one day and one day you

0:50:08.440 --> 0:50:10.920
<v Speaker 1>might just want to be stay at home um or

0:50:10.960 --> 0:50:13.439
<v Speaker 1>do something different, and that's fine, but for now, you've

0:50:13.520 --> 0:50:15.640
<v Speaker 1>chosen this, So we're not doing mum guilt. And I

0:50:15.640 --> 0:50:19.440
<v Speaker 1>think a big thing with sacrifice is like not really

0:50:19.560 --> 0:50:22.239
<v Speaker 1>like not looking at it in a negative way, like

0:50:22.320 --> 0:50:25.120
<v Speaker 1>looking at it, at it in a really positive way

0:50:25.200 --> 0:50:27.680
<v Speaker 1>of if you've chosen to live your life and maybe

0:50:27.719 --> 0:50:29.719
<v Speaker 1>it is a little bit different to mainstream or how

0:50:29.800 --> 0:50:33.040
<v Speaker 1>other people doing it, but like being like, how amazing

0:50:33.120 --> 0:50:35.840
<v Speaker 1>that I get to set up, you know, my life

0:50:35.880 --> 0:50:38.160
<v Speaker 1>this way, and even like looking at things like if

0:50:38.200 --> 0:50:40.680
<v Speaker 1>you have a nanny or your child goes to you know,

0:50:40.800 --> 0:50:43.399
<v Speaker 1>kindergarten or something, being like how amazing that they get

0:50:43.400 --> 0:50:46.560
<v Speaker 1>to spend time with other children and their nanny who

0:50:46.560 --> 0:50:48.840
<v Speaker 1>they love. And I get to work on my business

0:50:48.840 --> 0:50:52.799
<v Speaker 1>and provide for my family. Yeah exactly, and like completely

0:50:52.840 --> 0:50:55.759
<v Speaker 1>flipping it around. I just even love the concept of

0:50:55.840 --> 0:50:58.400
<v Speaker 1>being like, oh no, I don't do mum guilt. I know,

0:50:58.560 --> 0:51:00.839
<v Speaker 1>and it's like we should do an episode. All that's it.

0:51:01.960 --> 0:51:03.560
<v Speaker 1>That's episode done.

0:51:05.480 --> 0:51:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Next question, how do you keep on task during your

0:51:09.600 --> 0:51:13.680
<v Speaker 2>designated productivity tasks and how do you juggle those tasks

0:51:13.719 --> 0:51:18.440
<v Speaker 2>in busy work days while also prioritizing workouts, fam and relationship.

0:51:18.520 --> 0:51:23.560
<v Speaker 1>Color code So, like I said before, when I plan

0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:26.960
<v Speaker 1>in advance, so you really want to plan in advance,

0:51:27.040 --> 0:51:29.280
<v Speaker 1>you want to look at your calendar. I find color

0:51:29.360 --> 0:51:32.480
<v Speaker 1>coding helps me. So Google cow you can just edit

0:51:32.560 --> 0:51:35.120
<v Speaker 1>it and choose the color and you can literally look

0:51:35.160 --> 0:51:37.919
<v Speaker 1>at your week, so you know, have I got enough

0:51:37.960 --> 0:51:40.479
<v Speaker 1>time for myself? Have I got enough time for family time?

0:51:40.800 --> 0:51:43.080
<v Speaker 1>And you know, you could go really far as time

0:51:43.120 --> 0:51:46.399
<v Speaker 1>blocking stuff like bed bath routine with Ivy. I don't

0:51:46.440 --> 0:51:48.800
<v Speaker 1>because I know I do that every night, but like, yeah,

0:51:48.840 --> 0:51:50.520
<v Speaker 1>you could look at that and then look at your

0:51:50.560 --> 0:51:53.680
<v Speaker 1>colors and being like, for example, if you look at

0:51:53.719 --> 0:51:58.839
<v Speaker 1>your schedule and you go straight from let's say it's like,

0:51:58.920 --> 0:52:01.759
<v Speaker 1>for example, like I was, when I want to be

0:52:01.800 --> 0:52:04.360
<v Speaker 1>in the visionary of my business and I want to create,

0:52:04.840 --> 0:52:08.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, a forecast for next year, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure the time before that is putting me into

0:52:11.520 --> 0:52:14.960
<v Speaker 1>a state like so before that, I'm not gonna you know,

0:52:15.120 --> 0:52:17.360
<v Speaker 1>drop Ivy off here and do something that's gonna make

0:52:17.440 --> 0:52:20.440
<v Speaker 1>me feel rushed and you know, be like having appointments

0:52:20.480 --> 0:52:22.200
<v Speaker 1>before it. Yeah, and then I've got to rush to

0:52:22.200 --> 0:52:23.760
<v Speaker 1>the office, and then I've got to be the visionary

0:52:23.760 --> 0:52:27.359
<v Speaker 1>in my business. Yeah. It's about looking at your time objectively,

0:52:27.760 --> 0:52:30.640
<v Speaker 1>auditing your time, and being like, Okay, so if I'm

0:52:30.680 --> 0:52:33.960
<v Speaker 1>going straight from this appointment, I'll be sitting in peak traffic,

0:52:34.040 --> 0:52:36.560
<v Speaker 1>and then I'm going to go straight into a time

0:52:36.640 --> 0:52:39.760
<v Speaker 1>block that I have to you know, be really creative.

0:52:40.080 --> 0:52:42.400
<v Speaker 1>Is that really gonna happen? Or am I setting myself

0:52:42.480 --> 0:52:45.480
<v Speaker 1>up for failure here? Yeah? So being very objective with

0:52:45.600 --> 0:52:49.440
<v Speaker 1>productivity tasks that way. So even sometimes so like my

0:52:49.680 --> 0:52:54.520
<v Speaker 1>nine to ten meetings are generally pretty cruisy. It's nothing

0:52:54.840 --> 0:52:58.240
<v Speaker 1>too crazy if I've got time before there that doesn't

0:52:58.239 --> 0:53:00.759
<v Speaker 1>get me into my best self, if that makes sense,

0:53:00.760 --> 0:53:02.959
<v Speaker 1>And then I'll put like the harder tasks like later

0:53:03.040 --> 0:53:06.319
<v Speaker 1>on in the day or you know, roles reverse in

0:53:06.400 --> 0:53:08.759
<v Speaker 1>regards to I generally like I do a lot of

0:53:08.800 --> 0:53:12.440
<v Speaker 1>recording in the afternoons because I don't find it mindless,

0:53:12.440 --> 0:53:14.839
<v Speaker 1>but I find it easier than like sitting down and

0:53:14.880 --> 0:53:18.319
<v Speaker 1>like planning things. So I will put more, like more

0:53:18.320 --> 0:53:20.799
<v Speaker 1>of that sort of stuff in the morning. So I think, yeah,

0:53:20.880 --> 0:53:23.239
<v Speaker 1>maybe just do an audit of your time, do some

0:53:23.360 --> 0:53:26.680
<v Speaker 1>color coding, and yeah, work it all out. And if

0:53:26.719 --> 0:53:28.520
<v Speaker 1>you don't, like, if you don't have Google Calendo, you

0:53:28.520 --> 0:53:30.600
<v Speaker 1>could just put on like a four get some highliners.

0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:33.799
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, even I cow on your iPhone you can

0:53:33.840 --> 0:53:35.000
<v Speaker 1>color code. Yeah.

0:53:35.280 --> 0:53:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Next question, I'm nervous that handing work off to employees

0:53:39.440 --> 0:53:41.560
<v Speaker 2>will make my clients think that they don't have to

0:53:41.600 --> 0:53:44.319
<v Speaker 2>pay me as much as they do or want them

0:53:44.360 --> 0:53:47.080
<v Speaker 2>to pay. I want them to pay more, and I

0:53:47.160 --> 0:53:51.160
<v Speaker 2>want employees and subcontractors to do more or all of

0:53:51.200 --> 0:53:53.680
<v Speaker 2>my work so that I can let go and enjoy

0:53:53.719 --> 0:53:56.040
<v Speaker 2>life more. I thought this was a really interesting question

0:53:56.800 --> 0:53:57.880
<v Speaker 2>for business owners.

0:53:58.080 --> 0:54:04.520
<v Speaker 1>I love this. So I heard a really great example

0:54:04.600 --> 0:54:09.120
<v Speaker 1>the other day where a guy was explaining that bear

0:54:09.160 --> 0:54:11.399
<v Speaker 1>with me here, I'm probably gonna butcher this. Yeah. So

0:54:11.440 --> 0:54:13.480
<v Speaker 1>a guy was explaining you know, it was on a

0:54:13.520 --> 0:54:16.120
<v Speaker 1>podcast or something, and he was kind of saying about,

0:54:16.160 --> 0:54:19.960
<v Speaker 1>like this person wanted to up their rates. Yeah, and

0:54:20.040 --> 0:54:22.080
<v Speaker 1>he was kind of talking about like time for money,

0:54:22.560 --> 0:54:27.240
<v Speaker 1>and he was saying, like, you're not necessarily paying time

0:54:27.480 --> 0:54:31.360
<v Speaker 1>for money, like when you're you know, paying a subcontractor

0:54:31.480 --> 0:54:35.120
<v Speaker 1>or paying for a service, And like a great way

0:54:35.120 --> 0:54:37.960
<v Speaker 1>to think about it is you're not like paying Oh

0:54:38.000 --> 0:54:40.719
<v Speaker 1>they're two like a lawyer five hundred and fifty dollars

0:54:40.719 --> 0:54:44.000
<v Speaker 1>an hour. That's how much. Yeah, jesus, my partner used

0:54:44.000 --> 0:54:46.040
<v Speaker 1>to charge out for his time and me, as a

0:54:46.120 --> 0:54:48.719
<v Speaker 1>law clerk not even finish my law degree, they used

0:54:48.719 --> 0:54:52.200
<v Speaker 1>to charge me out at one eighty per hour, like

0:54:52.239 --> 0:54:56.480
<v Speaker 1>they weren't paying me. That that's the shot. That's rough.

0:54:56.560 --> 0:55:00.120
<v Speaker 1>I was on like twenty two an hour. But so

0:55:00.440 --> 0:55:02.879
<v Speaker 1>if we're talking, you know, time for money. A really

0:55:02.920 --> 0:55:06.239
<v Speaker 1>great concept that I love is let's say you have

0:55:06.360 --> 0:55:09.919
<v Speaker 1>this huge business. You're making fifty MILLI a year. Let's

0:55:09.920 --> 0:55:12.520
<v Speaker 1>say it's a manufacturing business, and you have machines that

0:55:12.760 --> 0:55:15.800
<v Speaker 1>you know. Let's let's use naked harvest for an example.

0:55:15.840 --> 0:55:19.600
<v Speaker 1>So let's just say you're a manufacturing business, you feel supplements.

0:55:19.640 --> 0:55:22.000
<v Speaker 1>You're making fifty MILLI a year. This is a made

0:55:22.080 --> 0:55:26.200
<v Speaker 1>up example, by the way, that would be fun. And

0:55:26.960 --> 0:55:30.680
<v Speaker 1>you like a machine, like the machine in the factory,

0:55:30.760 --> 0:55:34.759
<v Speaker 1>the machine in the factory that is feeling the you know,

0:55:35.040 --> 0:55:37.759
<v Speaker 1>the supplements or whatever, is like it's making you one

0:55:37.840 --> 0:55:40.799
<v Speaker 1>hundred grand per hour per hour. Yeah, let's say that

0:55:40.840 --> 0:55:44.239
<v Speaker 1>machine breaks. You get you know, someone in to try

0:55:44.239 --> 0:55:46.200
<v Speaker 1>and fix it. They can't fix it. You get another

0:55:46.239 --> 0:55:48.560
<v Speaker 1>person in. It's now been a day and you've lost

0:55:48.640 --> 0:55:50.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, one hundred thousand dollars or I'm not doing

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:52.480
<v Speaker 1>math right, but you know what I mean. Eight hundred

0:55:52.480 --> 0:55:55.400
<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars, Yeah, eight hundred thousand dollars. If you get

0:55:56.320 --> 0:55:59.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, electrician in, I know who fixed machines, handyman,

0:55:59.680 --> 0:56:03.799
<v Speaker 1>what mckn a mechanic or yeah, whatever, be some form

0:56:03.800 --> 0:56:06.879
<v Speaker 1>of engineer, probably an engineer. Yeah, if you get him in,

0:56:07.239 --> 0:56:10.799
<v Speaker 1>he finished, he fixes that machine in ten minutes. But

0:56:10.960 --> 0:56:14.560
<v Speaker 1>he charges you twelve thousand dollars. Are you gonna care no,

0:56:14.800 --> 0:56:17.560
<v Speaker 1>or you're gonna go, oh, thank god, I'm not losing

0:56:17.640 --> 0:56:21.560
<v Speaker 1>like you know, eight hundred gates. Yeah. Yeah, So I

0:56:22.120 --> 0:56:26.920
<v Speaker 1>like when you think of your business, don't think of, oh,

0:56:27.000 --> 0:56:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm charging this amount of money for someone's you know, time,

0:56:30.719 --> 0:56:34.120
<v Speaker 1>and this is vice versa. But think of what problem

0:56:34.280 --> 0:56:38.520
<v Speaker 1>am I fixing in that business? And what value is? Yeah?

0:56:38.560 --> 0:56:41.480
<v Speaker 1>What value is that? I love that. That's even like

0:56:41.719 --> 0:56:46.520
<v Speaker 1>I tell so Justiner, my partnerships manager. She came in

0:56:46.600 --> 0:56:50.360
<v Speaker 1>and for a long time I handled all my own collaborations,

0:56:50.360 --> 0:56:53.719
<v Speaker 1>so ye, you know, the comms of it, everything involved,

0:56:54.080 --> 0:56:56.879
<v Speaker 1>And then she came in. She organized me, She dealt

0:56:56.960 --> 0:56:59.920
<v Speaker 1>with all the comms. I you know, pay her per hour.

0:57:00.600 --> 0:57:03.160
<v Speaker 1>But I tell her all the time like she is

0:57:03.280 --> 0:57:07.560
<v Speaker 1>worth Like her worth to me is like she could

0:57:07.640 --> 0:57:09.839
<v Speaker 1>charge me a million dollars and I'd be like, well

0:57:10.040 --> 0:57:12.640
<v Speaker 1>that's a bit dramatic, but it's like she is worth

0:57:12.880 --> 0:57:16.960
<v Speaker 1>so much because she has changed my life. Yeah, And

0:57:17.000 --> 0:57:19.600
<v Speaker 1>it's like, if you change someone's life or you hit

0:57:19.640 --> 0:57:23.160
<v Speaker 1>a pain point, it doesn't matter what you charge, it

0:57:23.320 --> 0:57:26.560
<v Speaker 1>just has to be what the value is. Yeah, So

0:57:26.840 --> 0:57:29.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I like, I think this person, I

0:57:29.400 --> 0:57:32.680
<v Speaker 1>feel like that was a huge ramp. It was. But

0:57:32.840 --> 0:57:35.520
<v Speaker 1>did that kind of make sense a tia, Yeah it does.

0:57:35.560 --> 0:57:38.680
<v Speaker 2>And it's also like just having a bit more confidence

0:57:38.760 --> 0:57:41.880
<v Speaker 2>in yourself and your employees' quality of output and if

0:57:42.240 --> 0:57:44.800
<v Speaker 2>because to me, it sounds like she might not have

0:57:45.320 --> 0:57:48.080
<v Speaker 2>the confidence she needs in the people she's handing the.

0:57:48.000 --> 0:57:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Work off too.

0:57:48.760 --> 0:57:50.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, work with them to get them to the point

0:57:50.720 --> 0:57:53.200
<v Speaker 2>that they're outputting at a standard that you're happy.

0:57:52.840 --> 0:57:54.600
<v Speaker 1>With, and then up your rate. Yeah.

0:57:54.640 --> 0:57:57.160
<v Speaker 2>Because Yeah, it's like when you give someone a pay

0:57:57.240 --> 0:57:59.840
<v Speaker 2>rise at work, it's not because they're doing more hours

0:57:59.840 --> 0:58:01.800
<v Speaker 2>of work in the week. It's because the work they're

0:58:01.800 --> 0:58:04.720
<v Speaker 2>outputting is of more value to you now, correct. So

0:58:05.040 --> 0:58:07.520
<v Speaker 2>think of it that way in terms of your business.

0:58:07.680 --> 0:58:10.360
<v Speaker 2>Is your client's employee, so to say, and you're now

0:58:10.360 --> 0:58:12.680
<v Speaker 2>providing more value to them even if you're not doing

0:58:12.720 --> 0:58:14.640
<v Speaker 2>more hours, So ask for more money.

0:58:14.880 --> 0:58:19.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's my right. Number ten. I feel like this

0:58:19.480 --> 0:58:23.160
<v Speaker 1>doesn't even make sense to this whole episode, but flicked

0:58:23.880 --> 0:58:27.440
<v Speaker 1>a good question. There's also a BIS one, so we'll

0:58:27.520 --> 0:58:28.240
<v Speaker 1>end on a bit about it.

0:58:28.240 --> 0:58:31.080
<v Speaker 2>All right. What systems or tools in your business are

0:58:31.120 --> 0:58:33.920
<v Speaker 2>great for keeping you on track with time and task management?

0:58:34.040 --> 0:58:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Mm? Hm that we haven't already expect so obviously calendar

0:58:37.800 --> 0:58:40.960
<v Speaker 1>is a big thing that we use. Is a sana. Yeah,

0:58:41.000 --> 0:58:44.120
<v Speaker 1>so that's like a task thing and I'm it's like

0:58:44.320 --> 0:58:46.360
<v Speaker 1>it's free up into a certain amount of people you

0:58:46.440 --> 0:58:48.480
<v Speaker 1>add on, so it's like a really great freebie. It's

0:58:48.520 --> 0:58:51.320
<v Speaker 1>free for quite a long time tool. Is there any

0:58:51.360 --> 0:58:53.840
<v Speaker 1>other tools we use for task management? I just really

0:58:53.920 --> 0:58:58.040
<v Speaker 1>use like karl and asana. Yeah, google cal Asana for tasks.

0:58:58.480 --> 0:59:01.840
<v Speaker 1>And then I love a physical beside me just drop

0:59:01.880 --> 0:59:03.080
<v Speaker 1>down ideas And.

0:59:03.080 --> 0:59:05.520
<v Speaker 2>I feel like with this you almost don't want too

0:59:05.600 --> 0:59:07.800
<v Speaker 2>many things because the more you have, the harder it

0:59:07.840 --> 0:59:09.959
<v Speaker 2>is to keep track of where you're writing things down

0:59:10.280 --> 0:59:10.960
<v Speaker 2>simplify it.

0:59:11.080 --> 0:59:13.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Actually, a tool that Ellie uses that she finds

0:59:14.000 --> 0:59:18.480
<v Speaker 1>very helpful is notion Love Notion. I've never used it,

0:59:18.520 --> 0:59:20.600
<v Speaker 1>but she seems very organized with them.

0:59:20.720 --> 0:59:22.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's a bit more freedom with it in what

0:59:22.680 --> 0:59:25.160
<v Speaker 2>you can and can't do. But yeah, I think it's

0:59:25.240 --> 0:59:28.560
<v Speaker 2>just play around with what personally works for you because

0:59:28.560 --> 0:59:30.720
<v Speaker 2>there's so many tools and systems out there, Like we

0:59:30.800 --> 0:59:31.760
<v Speaker 2>tried Monday for a.

0:59:31.720 --> 0:59:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Bit, but I think that's a big thing. A tea

0:59:33.840 --> 0:59:36.640
<v Speaker 1>is like, don't overcomplicate it. And I feel like sometimes

0:59:36.680 --> 0:59:39.200
<v Speaker 1>people when they're searching for a tool they want like

0:59:39.200 --> 0:59:41.200
<v Speaker 1>a quick fix, they're like, oh, I'll use this and

0:59:41.200 --> 0:59:45.960
<v Speaker 1>then I'll just be accountable. Yeah, you know, like nothing's

0:59:46.000 --> 0:59:49.080
<v Speaker 1>a quick fix. Nothing is magic. Like I think there's

0:59:49.120 --> 0:59:52.920
<v Speaker 1>definitely life changing things like a Google calendar, but like

0:59:53.000 --> 0:59:55.080
<v Speaker 1>if you can simplify it and just work out a

0:59:55.120 --> 0:59:58.440
<v Speaker 1>system that actually works for you. So what I'm saying

0:59:58.520 --> 1:00:00.440
<v Speaker 1>with my whole how I do it on a Friday

1:00:00.440 --> 1:00:02.520
<v Speaker 1>and I color code Like that might not work for you.

1:00:02.560 --> 1:00:06.280
<v Speaker 1>That might feel like super like restricting or whatever. But

1:00:06.480 --> 1:00:08.760
<v Speaker 1>you need to find a system that works for you,

1:00:09.160 --> 1:00:11.120
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, don't over do it. And I think, and

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<v Speaker 1>then to finish, just because we had so many epps

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<v Speaker 1>about like health and exercise and how to prioritize, just

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<v Speaker 1>like let's end on that. Yeah, I think the big

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<v Speaker 1>thing with this, it's exactly what I said at the start,

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<v Speaker 1>is you need to decide if it's a priority, and

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<v Speaker 1>if it is, you just got to fit it in

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<v Speaker 1>in regards to maybe you need to get up earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you need to just be more disciplined and like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, go after work or whatever it is. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. There's like there's nothing magical here. There's no

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<v Speaker 1>answer that I can give you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so hard and it's what I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>currently going through right now because I want it to

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<v Speaker 2>be a priority. But it's always the thing that I've

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<v Speaker 2>let slip because I just it's for me, like it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's I find it easy to let my health and

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<v Speaker 2>fitness slip, and I find it easy to let myself

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<v Speaker 2>care slip.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I will. I would rather cook dinner over having

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<v Speaker 1>a nice bath, because it's not like it you must do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a nice to have.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I need to start looking at it as

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<v Speaker 2>a you must do. And it's also about finding the

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<v Speaker 2>system that works right for you. And there is no fix.

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<v Speaker 2>Like my fitness coach said to me the other day,

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, I'd love to be able to go to

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<v Speaker 2>the gym for you. I'd love to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>hit your nutrition.

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<v Speaker 1>For its universe do it.

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<v Speaker 2>But she's like I can't like as much as I

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<v Speaker 2>want to, I could not do that for you. That's

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<v Speaker 2>not possible. You're the person that you have to do

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<v Speaker 2>it for yourself. And the phrase I've been using at

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<v Speaker 2>the moment is if I'm feeling a bit lazy after

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<v Speaker 2>work and I don't want to go to the gym,

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<v Speaker 2>I will say not I'm tired, and I'm not going

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<v Speaker 2>to the gym because I'm honoring myself. I say, I

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<v Speaker 2>am prioritizing Netflix over my health and fitness.

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<v Speaker 1>If that sits well with me on that day, how

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<v Speaker 1>does that feel? Shit?

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<v Speaker 2>If that's hope, it's well with me on that day,

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<v Speaker 2>then that's fine because maybe I'm having it off day,

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<v Speaker 2>but usually it doesn't. And then I pick myself back up,

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<v Speaker 2>get my active wear on and go to the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>And also finding a system that works for you. I

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<v Speaker 2>know one of my besties loves group classes because she says,

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<v Speaker 2>all I have to do is physically get myself to

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<v Speaker 2>the gym and my job's done. I don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>then push myself to do exercises.

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<v Speaker 1>Training does it for me? Yeah, he yells at me

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<v Speaker 1>when he knows I'm not pushing myself. Kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that takes that pressure off. So find the

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<v Speaker 2>system that works for you. Does a thirty minute homework

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<v Speaker 2>out work or do you need to go somewhere else?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I love it. It is like it's a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of tough love, but it's like, yeah, you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>need to be like brutally honest with yourself and decide

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<v Speaker 1>is this a priority or is it not? And if

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<v Speaker 1>it is and you, you know, aren't making a priority,

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<v Speaker 1>then stop in lazy get a lazy ass. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so much easier said than done. Yeah, in saying

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<v Speaker 1>that too, like, do you find once you stick to

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<v Speaker 1>something and you continntinuously do it, it's a habit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, But I feel like for me, especially with health

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<v Speaker 2>and fitness, it does take a little bit longer to

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<v Speaker 2>build that habit because it's still so easily the priority

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<v Speaker 2>that drops until I get it there, and that that

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm prioritizing this over my health and fitness has

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<v Speaker 2>really helped, especially on weekends when I very much need

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<v Speaker 2>to gym on the weekend because during the week I

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<v Speaker 2>get really drained. Yeah, if someone's like, let's get dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>I go. I am prioritizing dinner with this person over

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<v Speaker 2>my health and fitness. If that feels good, great, If

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't, I don't get dinner that day kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't eat, I don't eat out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that'll be my gym time, like yeah, or try

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<v Speaker 2>and get your friends to come gym with you.

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<v Speaker 1>That way I find a system for you. Yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in like in saying that with I've found, like

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<v Speaker 1>with waking up earlier, it's I can tell even it's

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<v Speaker 1>only been a week, but like today was so much

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<v Speaker 1>easier to wake up than it was Monday. And I know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I push through and I just keep doing it,

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<v Speaker 1>my body cloth's just gonna, you know, fix itself. Yeah. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>If I continue continuously do it too, it's just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>become a habit. And for me getting up early, I

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<v Speaker 1>just say to myself, I get up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like you're gonna like getting up at six

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<v Speaker 2>am any more than you like getting up at five am.

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<v Speaker 1>So just get up at five am, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. Like it's not any more enjoyable to wake

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<v Speaker 1>up at five. Yeah, you might just get up the

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<v Speaker 1>hour earlier. But sometimes it depends what time I went

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<v Speaker 1>to bed, because like I need to set amount of

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<v Speaker 1>hours to function, because if it's like the difference between

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<v Speaker 1>six or seven, I'm going to choose the seven hours, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh okay, yeah, because that's some products I don't function.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm precious. I'm like, I'm a Unie student. So I

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<v Speaker 1>did you need to get seven hours of sleep when

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<v Speaker 1>you were in Uni? Yeah? We probably got fucking nine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I must have done you any different year. All right,

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