WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Peacocking Gone Wrong & The Camp Out Method 0:00:01.320 --> 0:00:01.880 Are you ready? 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:05.480 Good pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn. 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:10.200 Baby Worth our windows done. That's my world. Reason the 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:12.559 dust only good, babs all down. 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:17.520 I don't much, but yeah, I'm not our big get 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:20.040 and what I want it don't matter where. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:21.360 This is the. 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:25.079 Pickup Happy Friday. It's the pick up with Britt Hockley. 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:27.760 And Laura brn I think you'd say happy frye. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:29.200 You might, I might not. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:31.600 No, it is a fry A. Guess who released a 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:36.720 new Songttany this morning, Miley sor I definitely didn't Brittany's 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:38.879 wrong with Me with You? 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:40.000 It was Miley Cyrus. 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:41.920 I literally just read it on our prep notes and 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:43.360 then my brain went Britney Spears. 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:44.519 No, I'm not doing that. 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:47.120 Miley Cyrus. It's been a hot second since she's released 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:48.839 a song, but she did release one this morning, and 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:50.960 it is called End of the World. We are gonna 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:53.520 play it for you. Personally, I love it. I love Miley. 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:55.360 I think she's an absolute vibe and it's because she's 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.800 got an album coming out later this year, something beautiful, 0:00:57.840 --> 0:00:59.160 so she's like drip feeding. 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:00.960 Well, I mean, we'll for you guys next, But I 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:05.160 have a question for you. How long do you think 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.720 is too long to send a like, hey, how you being? 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:08.200 Text? 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:09.080 Are you hit? 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:09.479 Not long? 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:09.840 Right? 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:13.520 Does this match? I? One's hard on Tinder? 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:13.760 No. 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.040 I got a message from a guy who I would 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:16.919 not call it dating. 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:20.319 It was yeah, hangs and bangs. I just got a 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:22.760 very random text from him out of nowhere popped. 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:23.600 Up, Hey are you being? 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:25.319 How long are we talking? 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:26.080 Fourteen years? 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:28.319 Yep? Well, I can tell you fourteen years is too long? 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:29.160 Fourteen years? 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:30.959 Do you think he's just become single or do you 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:33.000 think something happened in his life, like, hey, how you been? 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:37.280 Maybe he was just thinking about you? Why you are 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:38.080 everywhere at the moment? 0:01:38.080 --> 0:01:39.080 What have you been doing? 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:40.880 Just had to a couple of kids, got married? We're 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:42.000 not a reality TV show. 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:42.920 Did you write back? 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:45.639 No, I'm not gonna write back. I feel like there's nothing. 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:47.120 Much to say, or there's too much to say that 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:48.440 I can't say it in technic. 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:48.960 Were just right back? 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:49.480 Good? 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:51.920 Or thumbs up? Just put a thumb up? Passive aggressive, 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:52.680 being busy? 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:55.560 Surely though, Like you know, you have people that you 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:57.840 match with on Tinder and then it's been a while, 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:00.600 like the conversation's going great, then you goes to them 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:02.400 because you get over it. How long until you can 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:04.800 send them another message and be like, hey, sorry, I goes, 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:05.440 did you I'm bad? 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:07.880 I did that once. I had organized date with this 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:10.760 guy and then I just we just faded out, weren't interested. 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:12.600 And then two years later I didn't have a lot 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:14.919 going on, and I saw the conversation was still in there, 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:16.440 and I was just like, how about that drink? And 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:21.640 I was like, yeah, right, and that's too long, okay. 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:23.760 I have actually been dying for an update. You've been 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:27.120 talking earlier in the week about how your smallest daughter, 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:30.000 Lola or I finally call her Lola Derby. You've been 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:33.200 talking about her being an absolute nightmare in your bed. 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:34.280 No, nothing's changed. 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:38.640 So Lola's four for anyone who's not familiar. So at 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:40.800 nighttime she gets into my bed every night. We're at 0:02:40.840 --> 0:02:42.440 the point now where I say good night to her 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:44.399 and I'll be like, see you in the morning, sweetheart, 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:47.160 and I give you a little kiss, and she goes, na, mummy. 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:49.360 See you soon, and she just. 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:54.160 She gets up at midnight, wanders through the dark, climbs 0:02:54.200 --> 0:02:58.080 into my bed and then she sleeps horizontally across it 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:00.120 and to the point now where Matt gets out, he 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:01.280 goes and sleeps in the spare room. 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:05.360 It also sounds so calculated and evil, like see you soon, 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.839 Like she knows. She's like, I'm not going to wait 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:09.680 for a nightmare or I'm not gonna wait to wake up. 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:11.280 I'm just gonna literally like I'll pretend to go to 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:12.080 sleep for ten minutes. 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:16.160 That it's every single night clockwork. My child's body clock 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:17.320 is midnight mum's room. 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:19.600 Well, you have been talking about this. I mean you 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:21.840 and I have been friends for a very long time 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:23.440 and this has been an issue from as long as 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:27.280 I can remember. And recently I saw a pediatrician online. 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:29.840 His name is doctor Gollie, and he was going pretty 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:33.200 viral for his sleep technique. He says he's a sleep 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:37.960 expert for like unsettled babies and really helping distraught families 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:38.720 like yourself. 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:40.160 I'm not restaught, I'm just tired. 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:42.880 So I've got him on the phone because I figure 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:44.800 doctor Gollie is going to be able to help you 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:47.600 where I can't. Doctor Gollie, welcome to the pickup. 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:49.280 Thank you so much for having me. 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:52.280 Now you're going viral for this camp out method. Can 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:53.520 you explain what this is? 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:57.440 It's really, to say, not a rip off the band 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.680 aid method. It's a slow way of getting kids to 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:03.480 sleep through the night in their own room. If the 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:06.040 issue is they have created a little bit of a 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:10.120 shall we say, unhealthy or unwarranted in Laura's case, attachment 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:10.760 to mum or. 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:15.320 Dad or both, I mean feeling personally victimized here unhealthy also. 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:17.040 But okay, how does this work? 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:20.200 Because we've tried, We've tried a few different things, and like, 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:22.120 what do you tried Laura telling her to stay in 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:23.320 her own bed, locking her. 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:25.520 In there, putting the pad locks. She just finds her 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:25.880 way back. 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:27.760 It doesn't matter where I am, because like I'll move, 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.000 I don't always sleep in my own bed. Sometimes I 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:32.800 sleep in the spare room. She's just like I find you, 0:04:33.040 --> 0:04:35.120 and she comes through the night and then I hear 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:37.400 a little footsteps down the hallway and there she is, 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:40.240 like a dementor, next to the bed in the dark. 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:43.360 I think the really important thing to note is that 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:45.839 if it's not a problem for you, it's the problem 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:49.360 you don't want this, But for all your listeners, if 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:51.599 it's not a problem, and if you kind of like it, 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:53.240 and a lot of parents you say to me, you know, 0:04:53.600 --> 0:04:55.400 this is such a short period of time when the 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.200 kids you know are young and they're cute and cuddly 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:01.159 and their little koalas and want that. I love that. 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:04.320 Then there's absolutely nothing I'm healthy about it. It's not 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:05.960 I don't want anyone to feel like they have to 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:09.640 make this change. If they're really happy with co sleeping 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:11.440 or kids coming into the night in the middle of 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:15.440 the night, it's absolutely totally fine. It's healthy, not an issue. 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:18.480 But if you maybe want your own bed, your own 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:20.960 space without kids coming in the middle of the night, 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:22.880 it is definitely something you can fix. 0:05:23.080 --> 0:05:24.960 Yeah, I would say when she was younger, because she 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:26.520 used to be a really good sleeper, and so when 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:28.560 she was younger it didn't bother us, like we were 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:29.800 quite happy to have a climb in the bed and 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:32.640 should sleep between us. But now that she's older, she 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:35.960 just kind of motors around and so someone ends up 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:37.719 getting kicked in the back or kicked in the side. 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:40.560 But this method that you're speaking of, the camp out method, 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:43.080 I mean, Bridge shown me a little bit about it, 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.400 and I have my questions because I'm not convinced it's 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:46.440 going to work in our household? 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:48.040 What are you doing in the camp out method? Where 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:48.800 does Laura start? 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:53.200 So it takes anywhere from one week to four weeks, 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:57.080 depending on how quickly you want to actually maneuver this method. 0:05:57.080 --> 0:06:01.240 But essentially you put a life in her bedroom, in 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:03.400 her bed where you intend for her to sleep the 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:05.960 way you're currently doing it. But then at the same 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:08.960 time you go to bed in the same room. So 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:12.680 you actually move a single mattress into her room, and 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:16.240 you both sleep through the night together in that same room, 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:20.040 but in separate beds. And the summary of the method 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:23.360 is that ever so slowly you move that mattress closer 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:26.280 and closer to the door, eventually on the other side 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:28.440 of the door in the hallway, and then again you 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:32.760 inch it every night or two further away until eventually 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:36.760 it's in the corridor, and then magically just returns to 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:37.520 your own bedroom. 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:41.880 Okay, my fear is that this is an absolute stitch 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:43.839 up and we will both be sleeping in a trundle 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:44.600 bed in the hallway. 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:46.080 That's what I think it's gonna happen. 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:48.680 Because she will just come, she will just come to me, 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:50.760 She'll get out of her bed and walk across the room. 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:53.200 Do you think this is a foolproof method, doctor Gollie, Like, 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:55.240 do you think obviously Laura might be at you said 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.080 two to four weeks, she might be at the full week. 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:59.279 You might edge up the hallway for a month Laura. 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:01.760 But do you think is full proof that any child, 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:04.919 any relationship with a parent, this can work for them. 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:07.159 There's no such thing as full proof when it comes 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:11.000 to pediatrics. But the more you set yourself up for success, 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:13.840 the more likely you are to succeed. So we have 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:16.480 to sort of unpick what it is with all. Is 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:20.000 she worried about something in particular? Is there a dog barking? 0:07:20.120 --> 0:07:22.680 Is something waking her and making her unsettled? Is it 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:25.200 just the temperature change that happens at midnight and that's 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:29.360 why she's waking up? You know, we can use positive reinforcements, 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:31.880 So it might be a reward chart that you build 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:34.280 up towards a gift or an experience with mum and 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:36.640 dad and Mary, whatever it may be. It's almost like 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:39.480 you have to have the stars aligned and then you 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:41.960 can implement the camping out method if you need to. 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:46.320 But she's probably just seeking that connection, that reassurance that 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:49.760 mummy is close by, the other thing that you know 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:52.200 as a pediatrician, I can't help but think of is 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:55.000 especially if you notice when she's coming into your bed 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:58.000 at nighttime and she's tossing and turning. Do we actually 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:00.480 have a sleep problem? Like do we need to explore 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:03.680 her sleep and maybe her airway? There's so many different 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:04.880 parts for this puzzle. 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:07.960 Have you actually about Laura, like genuinely have you asked 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:09.920 her why she comes in? Like have you tried to 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:11.440 get to the bottom of like if she's hot, is 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:13.960 she having nightmares or terrors or just she just want 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:14.320 to be with you? 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:16.360 She she just says she just wants to be cuddled. 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:17.560 She wants to be in bed with us and have 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:18.040 a cuddle. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:19.560 So could you get one of those huge pit like 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:21.360 a pregnancy pillow, like one of those ones that wraps 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:24.040 around her or something. Well, I think that we can 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.400 give this a go, Laura. I think you need to 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:28.960 put what doctor Gollie has said into practice. This is 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:30.800 for yourself. I'm not doing it for me. I'm not 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:32.920 doing it for the content. I'm doing it purely because 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:34.760 I want to help you have a better night. 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.280 Sleep and I will be the sacrificial am. Oh, look, 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:39.400 we'll report back and see how this works. 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:41.600 You can throw Maddie under the bat so you can 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:41.920 do it. 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:44.000 Nah, she doesn't want a dad, She only wants me. 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:46.760 Yeah, she screams at him get out of my room 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:49.400 at a time if he goes. So she's definitely got 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:52.880 some mad parental preference happenings. 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:53.079 Like you need to make an appointment to come and 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:53.400 see me. 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.839 All right, Well, thank you so much for joining the show. 0:08:57.200 --> 0:08:58.320 I appreciate the help. 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:01.280 I need all of it, the mob anytime. 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:05.960 So my fiancee, Ben lives overseas. He lives in Italy, 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:08.280 and I am going to see him next week. I 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:11.720 am ecstatic. I'm seen him since Christmas, so I am 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:15.319 I'm beside myself with excitement. And if you've been following 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:18.640 along for a while, you'll know that, like one to 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:22.160 two weeks out, I start to do what we call peacocking. 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:26.400 A peacock myself, I preen myself. I get myself ready 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.880 to see my partner because I quite let myself go 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:31.520 for a couple of months in between this. 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:33.160 I've seen the peacocking in action. 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.080 Usually it goes well, you kind of like let yourself 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:38.040 go for two months and then it's like a good 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:43.120 three weeks of just like hey, eyebrows wax lis up. 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:44.200 Every go like who is she? Who is she? 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:46.280 Although that hasn't happened at all because you've just been 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:48.760 training you absolute assolef for dancing with the stars, so 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:50.760 like you're fine, you don't need peacock. 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:54.920 Well, this peacock has pea flopped. That's what I will say. 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:57.840 The peacock is pea flopped. So the last two weeks 0:09:57.920 --> 0:10:00.640 I tried to start getting myself back on track, and 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:04.000 I'm also pre pre cocking, like it's a double peacock 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:06.320 because my wedding is coming up, so I'm like putting 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:10.440 even more peacocking in. I have had a couple of 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:12.959 fails one after the other. So I was getting a 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:15.559 face laser the other day, which if you don't know 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:17.840 what that is, it's just like a regeneration thing. There's 0:10:17.920 --> 0:10:20.600 multiple lasers you can get rid of. It helps with 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:22.800 fine lines and collagen. And this is not an AD, 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.640 but it's like if you wanted to get rid of pigmentation. 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:27.720 There's so many different things. So I get it just 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:30.480 like a resurfacing I've planned it a few months out 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:34.439 from my wedding, and I've had it before. But when 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:39.040 I was getting it now, she blames me. She slipped 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:41.600 with the laser. I say she slipped. She said, I 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:42.600 was a wriggly worm. 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:45.560 No one's wiggling around when they're getting laser. They're just 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:46.520 not well because I. 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:48.160 Have my eyes closed because you have to wear something 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:50.400 over your eyes. You can't see. You're going in there blinds. 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:53.160 You just lay there. It's lay still. You're not moving 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:53.920 around well. 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:56.200 She said that I was a wriggly little worm. She 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:58.440 goes like that and my eyes are closed, and I 0:10:58.440 --> 0:11:01.840 was like, oh what She's like, You're a rigglar little worm, 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.120 an't you? And I was like, sorry, what you like? 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:05.480 I was asleep, I was dead steal. 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:09.080 And then I could smell something, you know, the smell 0:11:09.120 --> 0:11:10.360 of like burning hair. 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:11.400 I don't you. 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:13.280 Don't need to describe me because I can see what happened. 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:13.520 I know. 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:15.199 I'm across what happened. 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:20.120 She lased my scalp, layser my hairline. I feel like 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:21.760 it's like a twenty cent piece. So like if you 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:25.320 follow my hairline, it goes in and it's lasered. Off. 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:28.520 It doesn't singe, it bald, like that part is gone, 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:29.400 the hair is gone. 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:31.440 I think she just had the laser pointing. Do you 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:33.439 know how you move it around it's directional. 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:34.120 I think she was just. 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:37.640 Pointing a little bit too far on that side. And 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:39.439 then now there's a cute little. 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:41.839 Ball spot there. Well, it's funny one person against the other. 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:43.560 I said, I wasn't a worm. She said I was, 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:46.040 so I can smell it. And she's like, it doesn't matter, 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:48.160 like it's fine, Like it's not forever. It grows back. 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:50.680 And I said, I understand, it grows back. I'm getting 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:53.360 married very soon. She's like, yeah, it'll be growen by then. 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:55.920 It's at the front of my hairline above my eye. 0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:57.680 And I said, all you're gonna see is like two 0:11:57.760 --> 0:12:00.960 centimeters because it's like you've shaved a You'll be rolling 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:01.960 back from ball and. 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:03.760 Then you have to just keep shaving that spot. 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:05.640 No, now I'm gonna have to slip down a fringe. 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:08.880 I just bought it's right here. I bought a clipin fringe. 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.439 I have a friend that is extreme, Brittany. 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:13.559 It is a tiny little patch. You don't need a 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:14.559 clip in fringe. 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:17.040 It's too late. I already got it. 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.440 It's the most dramatic thing I've ever heard. Hang on, 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:22.040 clip the fringe in show us what it looks like. 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:24.080 Did you did most people even know this that you 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.559 can buy a fringe that completely just clips onto your hair. 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:30.839 Goot too, you hear unapacket and basically you I'll take 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.360 them to my hairdresser tomorrow. They'll dye of them color match, 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:36.960 and keep your eye on this space or this face 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:38.960 because I'm going to put it in. So then a 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:43.520 week later I'm getting skin needling. Now I've realized there 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:45.680 is a theme here, Yes there is. I'm really prepping 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:48.440 myself and I have had skin needling, which is like 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:51.600 micro needles on my skin. I've had that so many times. 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:55.040 It's fine like that afternoon, your face is completely normal. 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:59.000 It's like acupuncture. A little bit red, though not even 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:00.559 in the afternoon. Two hours it's done. 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:02.679 I think it depends on how deep the needles are. 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:04.400 Some people get it done and it's red raw, and 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:05.760 some people get it done and it's just a. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:06.480 Little bit red. 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:09.680 I have had the biggest allergic reaction to the face kneedling. 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:13.720 My whole face went up in like red lumpy, angry 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:15.800 welts and it's been like that for four days. 0:13:16.120 --> 0:13:18.679 Unfortunately, I think it's because you might have introduced them 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:22.680 back TOI into it. So either my friend, either the 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.440 needles weren't clean or your face wasn't prepped properly. But 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:28.520 I know, I know you've been on steroids and antibiotics 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:28.760 for it. 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:29.640 Your face looks fine. 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:31.320 You need to tell everyone what else on the steroids for. 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:33.440 I'm not getting jacked for my fiance band like, I'm 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:34.200 not trying to be up. 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.760 She's also trying to shretch it. She's on creatine too. 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:38.319 What else are you doing for it? 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.200 Are you everyone crazy? And it sounds like I'm in 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:43.480 a bodybuilding con You're okay? No, I don't know what 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:45.400 the lesson is here, but I've just had like one 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:47.240 fail after the other, and I'm going to see Ben 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:48.120 in just a couple of days. 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:51.200 I think the lesson is just embrace yourself, embrace your 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:53.400 natural beauty. If we can share anything on this show, 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:54.840 it's love yourself for who you are. 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:56.880 And maybe I need to stop fighting the aging. Do 0:13:56.920 --> 0:13:57.760 you think? Yeah? 0:13:57.840 --> 0:13:59.640 I mean you can just join me. I've given up. 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:01.760 Well, once I get married in a couple of months, 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:04.360 I will let myself go. That's that's me done. But 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.280 until I get to walk down that aisle and know 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:07.959 that I've locked him down, I've just got to keep 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:08.240 it up. 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:12.600 It is time for little Wins of the week thanks 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:15.000 to Chemists Warehouse, where you could win yourself five hundred 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.480 dollars to spend at chemist Warehouse. Now we are looking 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:21.000 for the small things that often go unnoticed in life, 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:24.080 those little wins, not the big celebrations, but the little ones. 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:27.160 And that's what we are bringing attention to. Now we 0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:29.920 have Ash on the phone. Ash, what's your little winn 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:31.600 of the week? Hi? 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:34.960 My little win is I have started reading. 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:37.040 Again instead of reading it? What have you read? 0:14:37.920 --> 0:14:40.880 Funnily enough? I have We Love Love in my hands 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:41.480 right now? 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:43.560 Is this a boy? 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:45.280 Is this you're trying to bribe us? 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:48.040 No, it's literally in my hand right now. 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:49.800 I actually go at a Vinnie store. 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:52.920 Oh okay, I'm glad it's making a secondround for anybody 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.280 who doesn't know. We Love Love is the book that 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:56.720 Britt and I wrote to two or three years ago. 0:14:58.360 --> 0:14:59.400 What chapter you want? 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:02.080 What am I on right now? 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:02.480 Hold on? 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:02.760 Look? 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:04.520 Just started it? 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:06.280 I don't know I have it on my sticky note. 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.280 Hold on, we're on gas lighting right now. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:13.720 Oh yeah, okay, so everyone could talk about all right, actually, 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:15.320 wait there, we've got a couple of people on the 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:16.080 line live. 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:18.240 What was your little win of the week. 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:22.480 Oh well, my little win is I smashed out cleaning 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:25.640 the girls. I've got two little girls at home their 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:29.000 wardrobes over the weekend. It was a massive job. I've 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:31.800 had stuff in the cupboards sitting there for like two years. 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:34.400 So I've tidied up all the wardrobes and I've gifted 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:37.760 it to some friends that are expecting and drop the 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:39.960 rest to the op shops for someone else to enjoy 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.360 and have good memories. And we've had lots of good 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:44.120 memories in some of those clothes lived. 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:45.680 Do you know what I think is the most impressive 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:46.120 part of that. 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:48.200