WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - A Real Life Love Actually 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.400 Life on Cut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:06.160 lands were never seated. We pay our respects to their 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:07.600 elders past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.360 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:12.600 recorded on gadigal Land. 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:24.960 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:28.040 on Cut. I'm Brittany and I'm Laura, and someone in 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:31.480 this room is gonna be an auntie again. 0:00:31.800 --> 0:00:35.120 Yeah, Laura, Okay me surprising me Brendant. 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:39.159 My sister Sherry, who most of you know. She's my 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:42.400 best friend. We've spent like literally our whole lives living 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:44.000 in the same bedroom. We shared the same bedroom. We 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.240 traveled the world together. We've been in sixty countries together. 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:48.280 We work together in a hospital like we are the 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:51.200 same human. We've been attached at the hip our entire life. 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.880 Also, Sherry has been part of the OG Life, a 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:55.880 team in our Facebook group. 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:59.480 So you never got patrio for a bit, didn't we go? 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:05.360 Oh my god, Sherry, I'm so sick. Remember we didn't 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.200 earn anything for like a very long time. So she 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:08.959 just used to help. She's like, oh, do some admin 0:01:09.000 --> 0:01:10.840 because she loved it. I always thought that we paid 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:14.280 her but we didn't. That's terrible. It's really bad. Sorry Sherry. 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:18.400 Anyway, she really needs that money now she's having a baby. Yes, 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:21.680 So my sister Sherry is having a baby, which is 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:22.479 really exciting. 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.480 So she is already over halfway. 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:27.880 So she just didn't for whatever reason, she didn't want 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:29.440 to jump on and announce it straight away. She just 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:31.000 wanted to sit in it for a little while. I 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:34.920 don't know her reason for that. But she's over halfway. 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:37.600 She's due at the end of September. And you might remember, 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:39.880 only a week or two ago, my suck was that 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.360 my sister's not coming home anymore. And I got a 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:45.280 lot of messages yesterday because I put Sherry's pregnancy announcement 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.280 on my Instagram and a lot of people wrote to 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:50.080 me saying, oh, I get why you were so upset 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:51.520 that your sister's not coming back now. 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:53.880 So Sherry's made the decision that she's going to have 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:56.400 the baby over in Scotland and stay there. 0:01:56.480 --> 0:01:59.400 Yeah, Sherry's having the baby in Scotland, so it's going 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:01.520 to have a Scottish passport straight away. 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:04.160 Great, that's really tactical. I love that. Yeah, and I 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:08.440 guess the reason is so Sherry and Jay. So Jay's Scottish. 0:02:08.520 --> 0:02:11.160 They've been living in Australia for six years their whole relationship. 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:13.520 So they recently went back to Scotland just for a 0:02:13.600 --> 0:02:15.280 year or two so that he could spend some time 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:17.240 with his family before they spend the rest of their 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.800 life in Australia. Because it's a really like and this 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:21.560 is something that I'm going to have to face too. 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.760 When you're in a relationship with someone foreign, one of 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:26.800 you has to make a huge sacrifice. One of you 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:28.760 is going to be away from your family and your 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:31.280 friends potentially for the rest of their life. And that 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:33.160 was always going to be day in that situation. 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:34.960 So they've decided to just. 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:37.040 Spend a little bit more time when they have the 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:39.560 baby with his family and his friends, and maybe when 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:41.720 it's like a year come back. 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:44.920 So I just and I I was actually crime because 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:45.320 I was. 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:46.800 Supposed to be there for the birth, like she wants 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:48.120 me to be in the room. So I was going 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:49.960 to be in the Gold Coast here when she had 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.400 the baby. And now, yeah, we both had a cry 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:54.200 on the phone the other day because she's like, oh 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:54.680 I am. 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:55.960 Oh, now I'm going to cry. She's like I just 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:58.560 wanted you to be in the room with me. Yeah, 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:00.400 can't you go over and do it? Well, I have 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:04.200 to ask radio off work. Some things are more important, 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:04.920 That's what I thought. 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:07.720 I was like, surely, like, you know, she doesn't have 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.920 any family or friends over there, so I was like, 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:11.520 surely I can go over for a week and just 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:11.960 help her. 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:13.040 You know that first. 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:15.680 Week, just tell everyone you have COVID and you have 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:17.760 to go. And I won't, I won't tell the truth. 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:19.480 Just get on a plane and go. And I'm going 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:21.760 to get Britney's so sick. I saw her. She's got COVID. 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:24.519 But it's got to really isolate. Well, here's the crazy 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:28.200 thing again. Ben, My Ben is gonna see it, be 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:28.520 with it. 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:30.239 He'll probably be in there watching next slide out of 0:03:30.240 --> 0:03:31.520 the vatch Or is that too much? 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:33.040 Do you know? 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:35.760 Is that too much? I think I think it's fine. 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:38.120 I feel differently about birth to the way I think 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:39.680 a lot of people do. I think a lot of 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:41.720 people And this is not I don't say this is 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:43.520 a criticism, like I just think. 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:46.280 I don't know why, but I felt very differently about it. 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:49.640 A lot of people have a really clear idea of 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:51.680 how they want their birth to be, like the people 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:54.240 that they want in the room, like the setting of it, 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:58.520 the ambience, the sounds, the smells, like people really plan 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:01.480 out that birth experience and get it out of me. Honestly, 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:04.320 when I gave birth to Maley, Matt's mum was in 0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:06.720 the room. Matt was in the room eating a chicken sandwich, 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:09.320 and I reckon there was about twenty doctors. One doctor 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:10.440 came in, he goes, oh, do you mind if a 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:13.200 few students come in. They're doing some training, And all 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:14.920 of a sudden, I looked up and there were twenty 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:18.480 students just standing in the room, and I had this 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:21.119 moment where I was like, oh my god, I wonder 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:23.680 if any of these people have clocked it that they're 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:26.120 standing here watching like one of the people from The 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:28.240 Bachelor having a baby. I was like, this is way 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:31.599 more confronting than I ever expected it to be twenty 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:32.520 five people in that room. 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:34.680 Yeah, that's fine to me. There's a football team in 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:35.039 my room. 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.040 The thing that bothers me the most in that situation 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:39.320 is the chicken sandwich. I was like, that didn't need 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:39.800 to be in the room. 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:40.400 Twenty people. 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.800 They're allowed, They're training. There's only one way for them 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:44.440 to learn, and that is to watch, So I'm okay 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:46.919 with that. But it's something different about like your sister's 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:49.240 husband being in there, Like I don't know if I 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:51.400 would want Jamie down there when my baby's coming out, 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:52.680 so I don't know if Ben should be there. 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:54.919 I like that you just described Ben as your husband. 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:57.520 But yeah, yeah, dream, I. 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:59.160 Hate the word bye bye yeah, I girl, I can 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.520 fucking dream. Don't squish my dream. I'm trying to manifest, 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:05.920 all right, look it up manifestation. To be fair, Matt 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:07.799 almost missed the birth of Marley. 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:10.320 I was ten centimeters dilated and he went out for 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:13.360 a fucking chicken sandwich and the cafe was running really 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:16.599 slow and they they literally were talking about me needing 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:18.880 to start pushing, and Matt's mum then ran out of 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:20.360 the room to go and find him at the cafe 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:21.320 and wait, no one's here. 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:25.320 I was like, just this football team, twenty strangers. 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:28.440 But honestly I know Sherry listens and Sherry, we're so 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.480 so excited for you. It's the best thing ever. Come 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:32.719 back to Australia so that we can have more babies here. 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:35.400 Why are you in Scotland. It's cold, terrible place to 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:38.520 be when you just want to be so cute, so cute. 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.159 And I do also want to say that I do 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:42.960 have like six other nieces and nephews, so it's not 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.040 the first one, and I love them all. But Sherry 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:47.800 and I, I guess we're different because we're like absolute 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:48.279 best is. 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:50.760 It does make me think, though, and. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.760 I know it's not the reason to think you want 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:55.159 a baby, but Sherry and I always grew up thinking 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:57.000 that we would have kids at the same time. And 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:59.159 I'm three years older than her, but I still knew 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:02.200 that she would probably have a child before me, because 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.039 we all know I've been on the fence and not knowing. 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:04.680 What ways up. 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:06.360 I mean, Sherry's had a shit together for a bit 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:07.800 longer than she's. 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:10.560 Got a husband, a real one, not one that she 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:15.320 manifested out years ago, not one that she Oh that's 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:17.880 the other thing that you O g s will know this, 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:20.960 POGs will know, but some new people might not. But 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:24.680 Sherry and I are so close, then, don't take this 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:29.160 the wrong way. I picked Jay for Sherry. I picked 0:06:29.160 --> 0:06:32.440 her husband in a not a creepy way, like I 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:35.200 found him for her and said, Wow, I have a 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:37.680 feeling this guy and you were something's there. 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:39.400 She didn't even see his picture. This is like on 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:41.479 Tinder back in the day. Can you tell for anyone 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:42.880 who doesn't know this story, can tell? 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.599 Yesuse I like that you're just alluding to a story 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:46.920 that people don't know. 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:48.680 I thought if some people knew, But I guess it 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:50.720 was probably five years ago. We told this story all right. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.920 Strap in So, Sherry and I were on this huge 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:56.280 three year trip that we'd said we'll both single at 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:58.360 the same time. We both hated our jobs at the 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.200 time in a hospital, so we quit one day and 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.640 we were like, let's go travel the world with no plans, 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:04.760 because we'd saved up so much money to travel and 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:06.320 we knew would work overseas as well. 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:08.600 So off we went, and we're in South America. 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:10.960 We've been in South America for probably six or seven months, 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:13.480 and we knew that the next stop was going to 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:15.120 be Scotland. We knew we were going to the UK. 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:18.720 So one day after hiking much Epicchu, so we hiked 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:20.880 for four days, were exhausted. We were like, we just 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:23.120 want to lay in bed for twenty four hours straight. 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:25.120 So we're in a shared bed, and. 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:26.720 What do you do when you're just laying in bed 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:28.680 on your phone and you're single. 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:30.120 In the same bed, mind you. We were like right 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:31.960 next to each other, so no, we didn't masturbate. Laura, 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:37.760 get I know who's masturbating with their sister in the bed? 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:44.640 It's legal, is it not? If it's your step But 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:48.280 she's my real one. So anyway, sidetrack, so we're both 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:49.400 We were like, hey, this. 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:52.800 Is when Tinder brought the geo swipe in, like geolocation, 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.440 which meant you could set your location to any country 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:58.040 and would show you those people. So we set it 0:07:58.080 --> 0:07:59.920 to Scotland. We were like, hey, we'll be in Scotland 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:01.800 a month or two. Let's see what the men are like. 0:08:02.000 --> 0:08:03.760 Because we had these ideas of what the men were like, 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.280 which was Jamie from Outlander, like Sam Hwan, so we're 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:08.640 just not everyone was going to be like these big 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:09.560 Scottish hunks. 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:11.760 Yeah, they literally highlanders high. 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:14.480 Yeah. So we swiped in and we're both in bed 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:16.760 next to each other on our respective Tinders. Now I 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:19.640 am older than Sherry, so I had a larger bracket. 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:21.080 So you're like, I am older than Sherry. 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:23.720 So Obviously, my bracket was much younger than hers, and 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:25.880 also much older than hers. I had a twenty year 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:27.560 bracket and she had a five year bracket. 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.600 My bracket was, Yeah, I cast my net wide, Laura, 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:33.000 I know you do, so ain't nothing wrong with that. 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:36.959 So I was swiping along. Now, this only happened one time. 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:40.000 The whole time, and I'm talking hundreds of swipes. I 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:44.400 came across this photo of thousands yeap of somebody that 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.000 must have just snuck into my age bracket because it 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:49.040 was I think at the time he was twenty five 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:50.480 twenty four. 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:51.640 He was really cute. 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:55.240 His profile was very funny, very satirical, very take the pierce. 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:56.960 And you know how you can link your Instagram, so 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:59.160 he and his Instagram linked. I went to that he 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:00.920 was way too young for me, believe it or not. 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:02.480 I didn't think i'd say those words. 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:04.000 He was too young for me. 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:07.000 And I said to Sherry, have you seen this guy yet? 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:09.160 And I showed her my Tinder and she was like, 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:12.559 Jay pre No, She's like, I haven't come across in 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:14.480 why And I said I don't know why. I was like, 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.600 but you need to find him and swipe yes and 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:19.000 She's like why, and I said, I don't know. I 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:21.800 was like something about this profile. I just think you 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:25.480 need to match him. So hours later she turns around 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:26.760 and she's like, oh, is this him? 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:28.920 He was on her phone. I said, yes, that's the guy. 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:29.880 I was like, swipe right. 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:31.559 She was like random, Okay, I don't think she was 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:34.679 that impressed with the profile, so she's wiped right. They 0:09:34.760 --> 0:09:39.280 matched and from that day I lost Sherry. Like I 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:42.480 am talking like rip you know, when you just meet 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:45.800 someone and you're infatuated. And because he worked from home 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:48.840 and she wasn't working, she was traveling, I reckon one 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:51.439 hundred plus messages a day, like you know, when you 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:52.439 just can't stop talking back. 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:54.800 Some people might call that love bombing, but in this instance, 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:55.920 it really worked out for them. 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:57.640 It wasn't. They just hit it off. 0:09:57.679 --> 0:09:59.800 And when I say that many messages, they were talking 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:01.959 in like real time conversation, so you know, just one 0:10:02.000 --> 0:10:04.360 line at a time. They just fell in love. They 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:07.120 didn't meet for six seven weeks, they just talked NonStop. 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:10.280 Then they met, and from that day forth they've been together. 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:12.400 The thing I like the most, and you've missed out 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:14.240 this part of the story. Well, it's just they went 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:15.719 on their first date and it kind of was a 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:17.480 bit shit, and Sherry was like, oh my god, I've 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:19.880 just spent all this time talking to this guy. I 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:21.640 went on it with them, and then in real life 0:10:21.679 --> 0:10:24.000 he didn't really have much to say, and then gave 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:25.800 it another chance, and then it just you know, he 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:26.440 was nerves. 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:28.560 So I went on their first day. We loved Jay. Yeah, 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:29.880 I went on the first date, and. 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:32.480 So it was well because at the end of the 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:35.360 day we didn't know him right like, and her and 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.200 I had just gotten to a foreign country. I wasn't 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.320 gonna let her go to some random online in a 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:40.199 foreign country alone. 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:42.079 We didn't know anyone. I don't think we even had 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:43.439 phones that worked there at the time. 0:10:43.640 --> 0:10:46.960 To be fair, it's only fair. You've been there since 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:48.840 the start. You should be looking down the canal at 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:51.520 her vagina when that baby comes into the world. 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.080 You created that baby as well. Yeah, so that's what 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:56.400 I got sidetracks. I just told you my sister's love story. 0:10:56.440 --> 0:10:58.000 But it's an amazing story. 0:10:58.080 --> 0:10:58.360 Yeah. 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:00.280 Well, we love Jay and Sherry, we love you, and 0:11:00.320 --> 0:11:01.920 also thank you so much for working for us for 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:02.640 free for so long. 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:06.000 She's still that this is. 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:08.040 Not okay, this is no longer okay, so please don't 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:10.280 take us to HR. We don't have one HR. So 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:12.480 we said it's fine, No, we'll slip or something. 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:13.040 All right. 0:11:13.760 --> 0:11:16.440 Well, anyway, guys, we do say that we're going to 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.079 keep the intros to ask gun Cuts short. 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:21.520 We've been saying this for well the better half. 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:24.839 Of this year, and unfortunately sometimes the intros really blow out, 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:26.240 but today's one was an important one. 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:28.440 Yeah, and we are going to moving forward just be 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:29.480 doing as gun cut. 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:31.760 Like a little high just a little promise, things that 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:33.960 we don't plan on going through with. 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:35.520 I do want to say one thing before we get 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:40.120 into our vibes, and i'd watch that come out. Did 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:41.400 you want to be there for the next one? If 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:42.080 I have a third? 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:44.400 If I have a third no, Well Matt says no, 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:46.280 but like you know, he also says, I always get 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:46.600 my way. 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:48.920 If I do get my way, do you want to 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:51.840 be in the room? I mean we could podcast live 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:55.439 from birth? Want to do it? It's the third one. 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.480 I don't care the first one and second one I 0:11:57.480 --> 0:12:00.000 probably wouldn't have, but like third, like all bets are off, 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:00.680 I'll do anything. 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:02.880 I am going to say, yes, yeap, but I think 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:04.640 it's something you run past, Matt. Will you be at 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.400 the business end or the top end business? Okay, I 0:12:07.400 --> 0:12:10.120 could do the ladyectomy at the same time. A little 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:13.440 snipstip pump down there it after the third one. 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:15.160 No, what I wanted to say is before we get 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:17.439 intovised on subscribes, is I wanted to say a very 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:20.560 big thank you to so many of you reached out 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:22.959 to me after Tuesday's episode. I can't tell you how 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:25.880 many private messages I received. I haven't written back to 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:28.320 everyone yet because there was just so many of you 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:31.800 who wrote such kind messages. And also to those of 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:33.320 you who wrote in and if you didn't listen to 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:36.000 Tuesday's episode, I was speaking about my stepdad, who is 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:39.680 going through palliative care at the moment with his prostate 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:45.559 cancer diagnosis, and it was just your messages were so heartfelt. 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:49.120 I appreciated them so much, And if I don't get 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:50.640 the chance to get back to all of you, just 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:52.600 know that I've read them and also like how much 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:55.640 I appreciate you guys, and I hope that you did 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:58.000 take on that message and I would love to know 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:00.160 if you did go home and have a conversation with 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.920 your dad around getting his prostate checked. Like, please send 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.440 us those messages because I think that that, for me 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:08.319 was the most important thing to get across in that episode, 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:10.120 and so I hope that it really did spark some 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:14.080 conversations in your households, with your parents and with the 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:15.120 men in your life who you love. 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.320 Yeah, you guys are literally the best, and Laurie, you've 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:20.960 also had We also had like an anonymous card turn 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:21.959 up to Tony. 0:13:21.760 --> 0:13:24.080 May I know, and then we had a card at 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:24.720 my office. 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:26.720 One of my staff who I do pay brought me 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:31.800 and brought me an envelope and JPC you are one 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:34.760 of our listeners and you wrote the most incredible card 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.240 and you didn't leave a return address because you're very naughty, 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:40.080 but just talked about the things that you've been going 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:43.760 through and how much these conversations and the pod have 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:47.080 brought you comfort in what's been a really incredibly challenging 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.559 time for you. And we got to experience this when 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:51.200 we did the live shows last year. So many of 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:54.199 you guys gave us cards or letters or we got 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:54.920 to speak to you. 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:56.439 Well, we got to speak to you. 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:59.200 About your stories and the reasons why you've connected with 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:02.840 the conversations we've had here, and it means so much 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:05.400 to Britain I because you know, when we started this, 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:07.720 it was pre COVID. We were just two friends in 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:10.240 a bedroom having a conversation around the things that were 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:11.000 important to us. 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:14.680 And the fact is that so many of you have resonated. 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:17.320 With those conversations over the years, and that in itself 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:18.600 is just such a privilege. 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:21.200 But JPC, we adore you. 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:23.040 We're so sorry for all of the challenging things that 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:26.120 you've been going through, but we're so so grateful to 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:27.520 hear that you're on the other side of it and 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:30.800 that the podcast played even just the smallest part in 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:32.600 bringing some happiness to your day. 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:37.120 Well, let's get into vibes and unsubscribe. I have a 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:39.560 vibe in an unsubscribe. I'm gonna start with my vibe. 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:41.360 We never have unsubscribed. 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:41.560 I know. 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:43.400 I think the reason for that is is because we 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.600 don't want to appear as though we're complaining. But I 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:48.040 have a lot of things that I hate in life. 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:49.080 I can get on board with this. 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:51.080 Yeah, but this one, and you're here in a minute, 0:14:51.080 --> 0:14:54.000 but this one isn't complaining, complaining, and the unsubscribed is 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:56.480 also a default vibe. Okay, I'm going to start with 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:58.880 my vibe. My vibe this week is something that I 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:01.720 came across accidentally on the news, like a news article, 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:03.080 and I clicked on the links and I watched the 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:04.640 videos and then I saw that it was a whole 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:07.840 TV show. It's a TV series and it's called Body Parts. 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:10.840 You can watch it on nine now. So I got 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:13.400 the app It's an annaplastologist. 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:16.160 Do you know what that is? No, okay, this. 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:19.600 Is someone who reconstructs body parts. Oh yeah, okay, wait, 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:23.360 wait wit, it's like playing charades. It's someone who makes prosthetics. Yes, 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:27.600 so she's an American woman. Her job is exactly that. 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:31.280 Her job is to recreate prosthetics, but not a prosthetic like. 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:33.720 We saw for Ellie Cole. You know, it's not a. 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:37.720 Leg prosthetic, but their life like they genuinely look like 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:38.400 a body part. 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:40.960 It is an art form. I have never seen anything 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:41.400 like it. 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:44.680 And each episode I'm gonna recommend one particular episode, but 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:47.440 each episode is a few different people with different you know, 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:50.480 someone's had cancer and they had mystectomies and wants new nipples. 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:51.720