WEBVTT - ASK UNCUT - Massive c*cks and we're not talking bout chickens 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:05.280 Life Uncut podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:09.080 Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. 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Yeah. 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:54.040 Do you know what, We never ever, ever even make 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:56.040 sure this for our own category, Like they never put 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:57.640 us in the Relationships and Dating podcasts. 0:02:57.639 --> 0:02:59.600 It's so crazy to me we beg for votes. 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:01.880 Anyway, Moving along, there is something that we wanted to 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:04.400 talk about on Tuesday's episode, but somehow we took a 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:06.040 really vague and. 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:08.799 Random root down talking about funerals, and did you just 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:11.480 say root down? I don't think we talked about rooting, 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:11.800 did we? 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:11.959 No? 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:12.800 But we are today? 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:15.359 Are we talking about rooting while we're talking about No, 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:18.320 Actually we're talking about not rooting because penises are too large. 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:20.760 So we wanted to talk about on Tuesday's episode a 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:24.519 documentary that's come out about big penises, and it's kind 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:26.400 of weird that that's the one thing that that's the 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:27.920 hill we're going to die on, and we decided it 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:29.519 was so important we thought we'd drag it out and 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:30.919 talk about it on Thursday. Well. 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:32.799 I just was blown away. 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:34.800 There really is a documentary. 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.560 It's not in Australia, it's in the UK. Everything. 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:40.400 It's a UK documentary and it is very absolutely named 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:41.240 My Massive Cock. 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:44.920 How classy? 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:47.160 Could you imagine Channel ten putting on a doco at 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:48.920 like nine pm called My Massive Cock? 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:49.280 Like? 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:51.520 At what time is this streaming on free to air? 0:03:51.560 --> 0:03:53.440 I'd love to know you would never see it? 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.200 But it's apparently, and I read this because of the 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:58.000 tweet it's on a network four or Channel four or something, 0:03:58.000 --> 0:03:59.960 and they're like, what won't Channel four Air in the US, 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:03.000 So this obviously is a channel that just throws anything 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:03.600 under the bus. 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.840 But like, imagine that, imagine flicking through stations, just sitting 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:08.800 there eating your dinner, flicking through stations. And there's a 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:10.520 documentary called My Massive Cock that's on. 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.480 There are so many funny tweets about it, but one 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:14.800 was like, let me tell you, guys that this documentary 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:15.880 is not about chickens. 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:19.760 I will just give you a spoiler. 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:21.880 It is not about chickens, So don't tune in if 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:24.400 you think My Massive Cock is about living on a farm, 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:24.760 it's not. 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:26.440 How many people do you think out there that want 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:29.040 to watch a documentary on massive chickens running around? 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:30.560 Probably loads, but. 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:32.760 I think more people want to watch one on massive penises. 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:34.440 So it's a documentary and we're having to laugh, but 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:35.200 it's pretty serious. 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:36.280 It is about these men that. 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:41.520 Have ridiculously large penises, and I mean, for want of 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:43.520 a better word, it's the dark side of having a 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:45.760 massive penis. So it's like, you know, the downside of 0:04:45.839 --> 0:04:48.400 what happens if you have a really big manhood. 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:50.279 Apparently, the average penis size in. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:55.120 Australia is fourteen point foury five centimeters fourteen point four 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:55.479 to five. 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.120 I'm in a hole. My fingers up. I don't know. 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:01.799 I mean, like we need a ruler. You think that's average, Well. 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:03.440 That's I mean, I don't think it. I don't know 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:04.960 what I would. I don't think I've done enough of 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:08.440 sample size to know what is average. But one, so 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.560 keep that in mind. Fourteen point five. One man that 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:11.159 was featured. 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:12.160 His name's Joe. 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:16.920 He's twenty two. His penis is twenty four centimeters. Law, no, 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:19.520 that is huge. And if you see the pictures. 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:21.039 Like if you guys do all this almost having sex 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:21.559 with the ruler. 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:24.400 Yeah, but the problem is too they're not just big 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.840 one of these poor guys. It is like before them 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:30.599 will big guys. It's also the circumference, so they can't 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:33.279 use them because they're too big. So Joe, this poor 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:37.320 twenty two year old guy, he actually lost a job 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:41.200 because his penis was so large, and like, this is 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:43.640 gobsmacking to meat. It actually made me really sad he 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:50.919 was in it well because he was extremely qualified for 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:53.280 the position. He's a great Like I'm looking at him now, 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:55.400 this is Joe. You guys can google him. 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:57.680 He's just a much shoe he looks like a nice 0:05:57.960 --> 0:05:59.800 young I mean he's not a big guy. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:02.520 He's a very little guy. He's very little guy everywhere. 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:04.839 He has to wear special undies with a pouch, so 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:08.800 he like a kangaroo. So he has to tuck the 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:12.800 penis in because otherwise the penis doesn't fit in his undies. 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:14.440 I like you call it the penis, like it not 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:17.040 even mixtension. It's not his penis. It's just the penis. 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:18.840 Because it's so big, it's got its own post code. 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.840 Well, he went for this job interview, and this is 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:24.320 why it's really heartbreaking, because this is actually like the 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:27.239 penises are so large is debilitating, which is hard. 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:29.880 To think that that is possible. You could put your 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:31.440 finger up. You gotta ask something. I was gonna say, 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:34.039 too much of a good thing. Yes, you can have 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:36.720 too much of a good thing. So he went for this. 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:41.400 Job that he was overqualified for, and the employer mistook 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:45.680 the bulge in his pants for a big, giant erection. 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:48.359 So the interviewer was watching him the whole time thinking 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:51.039 he was just so horny about getting this job that 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:54.000 he had an erection. The whole job interview and the 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:56.080 response from the interview was you're not going to get 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:58.560 this job. We thought you were a good candidate, but 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:02.440 we thought there was in a proof behavior happening. So 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.320 he said, they thought I had an erection throughout the 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:06.800 whole interview, and they were very much like, your attire 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:09.360 wasn't right. Basically, they're like, we can see you, dick, 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:11.120 You've got an erection. You're a pervert, which I just 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:15.440 think is really like, imagine the discrimination. Imagine losing out. 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:17.160 I've just never heard of it, losing out to a 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:19.480 job because your penis is too large, the job wasn't porn. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.720 But also look at it from the other perspective. If 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:24.040 you were an employer and you were interviewing someone and 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:25.800 you thought they had an erection the whole time that 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:26.800 you were interviewing. 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:28.600 Them, you would not employ them. 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:31.480 Like, of course that that's the terrible byproduct of what 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.600 this man experiences, But like, at the same time, I 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:35.600 don't see if you're going like, how could the employer 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.760 do that? I think every single person who is in 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:40.960 that position, who's interviewing someone thinking that they've got a 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.320 raging boner during the interview, would. 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:46.600 Say probably a bit inappropriate, what's going on here? Totally well. 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:48.360 Other guys in the show, like other ones that have 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:49.800 also twenty four inch penises. 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.360 An inch will send me to get you at far 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:55.200 as it gets you from the other side of the bedroom. 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:57.200 You just have to stand up. You can check the 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:58.960 letterbox and we'll get you from the letterbox. 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.040 A lot of them they're like, I don't even want 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.600 to go out anymore because people just stare at their 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:05.960 penis the whole time, and like this is not funny. 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:07.440 But a lot of men are saying, you know, I 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:09.760 just feel objectified by women. They make jokes about it, 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:11.760 they talk about it. They only like me because of it, 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:13.480 so they find it hard to date. 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:15.920 They've gone to look at surgery for reduction. It is 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.720 a wild documentary, do you know what. I find this really. 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:21.120 Interesting because I do think that there is a weird 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:24.640 double standard for how we talk about men's penises versus 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:27.400 women's volvers, Right, I agree, And I think, you know, 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.440 as much as we're sitting here and we're giggling about 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:31.920 the documentary as such, I'm not giggling at any one 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:33.920 person or the situation they're in, because I think that 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:36.280 that's truly fucking terrible to have anyway, I said, I 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:38.320 have empathy totally, and to have any part of your 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:42.360 body that is causing you to feel outcast in society 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:45.480 is something that I think is what a horrible thing 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:48.719 to experience. But I think when it comes to men 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:52.240 and the way we speak about male genitalia verse volvers, 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:53.400 I think it's very interesting. 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:55.600 Like if a guy was to ever say like or to. 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:59.280 Like comment on a tight, tiny little vagina, we kind 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:00.839 of are a bit like, oh, that's so gross. Like 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.240 we hate it when men speak about volvers in a 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:06.280 way that objectifies them in any whether it be positively 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.160 objectifying or negatively objectifying, you know, whether there's a comment 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:12.079 that you know that someone's leavys are too long, whatever. 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:13.319 It is, we don't like it. 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:17.040 But yeah, I think that there is an acceptance, especially 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.559 within like you know, female friendship groups to talk about 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:22.160 small dicks massive dicks. You know, I wouldn't date a 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:24.240 guy with a skinny penis or a little penis. Like, 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.720 I think that we do put a lot of emphasis 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:30.680 around male genitalia and we also make that Okay, yeah, I. 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:31.600 Agree, I agree. 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:35.120 Look, my massive clock was trending. Hashtag was trending a 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:36.640 lot of people have watched it. I think at the 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:39.000 start when it first was released, seven hundred thousand people 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:39.599 had watched it. 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:41.680 If it interests you, go and have a look. 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:44.640 But I think we are one hundred percent giggling at 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:46.880 the idea that this is documentary. We are not giggling 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:48.720 at these poor people. It's really hard for a lot 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.280 of these people to have the sexual relationship. Obviously you 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:53.079 can have a relationship, but you know they've said it's 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:54.880 something that they've almost you know, like when you're on 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:57.000 a date and you have you talk about what you 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:58.640 want and what you are that some of them are 0:09:58.679 --> 0:09:59.959 like they were like, oh do I have to tell 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:01.560 I feel like I need to tell them straight away. 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:03.599 Like imagine having a penis that big that you're like, 0:10:03.640 --> 0:10:05.679 I need to tell you because this is like going 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:08.040 to be an issue and must be very very difficult. 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:10.520 Also, like women would think it's a flex Like people 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:12.880 like you're if you're at dinner with someone and they 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:14.559 were like, hey, just letting you know, my penis is 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:16.400 so big that most people can't even take it. 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:19.199 You'd be like a fuck off, mate. You'd challenge, but 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:20.280 you'd also want to see it, right. 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:21.880 I'd be like, fuck, I need I don't even like 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:23.400 that much Bunny to see I need to do it. 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:25.120 H You know, With that out of the way, I'm 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.160 so glad that we saved that and came full circle 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:30.320 to talk about it with you all. Let's get into 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.559 answering all your deep, dark and burning questions. We have 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:35.160 some real doozies and I'm gonna kick it off with 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.160 one that Britta and I kind of when we read 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:40.000 this we were like, how on earth do we answer 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:42.240 this one? High ladies, I'd love to get your thoughts 0:10:42.280 --> 0:10:45.480 on this. One of my husband's female friends has come 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:47.520 to him to ask if he would be the business 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:51.079 manager for her only fans. She has wanted to do 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:53.760 only fans for ages, but is really terrible with anything 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:56.319 business related. He obviously mentioned this to me and we 0:10:56.400 --> 0:10:58.560 had a chat about it, how would it work, etc. 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:01.679 He has left final decision up to me, as he 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:04.880 doesn't want to do anything that I'm uncomfortable with. Good Man, 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:07.920 My initial reaction was a no. So should I just 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:09.800 go with my gut with this or should I trust 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:12.320 him that it's fine for him to manage her only fans? 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:14.679 Okay, well, I'm. 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.880 Going to assume her Only Fans isn't a cooking show, 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.160 because we all know you can have anything on only fans. 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:23.000 You don't, It doesn't Our natural thought is only fans 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:25.959 is always sexy, it's nudity, but it's not always you 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:27.839 can have anything on only fans. I don't think that's 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:31.240 the situation here because I don't think she'd be feeling uncomfortable. 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:35.560 So we're going to assume that she means sexually explicit 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:37.680 content on only fans. Is that where we're going? 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:39.760 Yeah, squad, Okay. 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:43.960 My initial response is no, I'm not letting my husband 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:47.680 do that unless you are an only fans manager, generally speaking, 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.440 and that's your job. And then someone else has just said, hey, 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:52.600 can you also manage mine? I think it's a pretty 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:56.360 weird thing to go to a married man or someone 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.760 in a relationship that just fucking manages the chicken shop 0:11:59.840 --> 0:12:02.040 down the road because he's put at business. 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:03.719 Like, he's very good at like checking the letter off 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.560 parking fines, and you're like, you'll be great at managing 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:07.160 my own fans. 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:09.280 Yeah, Frank, I've seen you run that chicken shop. You've 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:12.079 done it really well. Why is everybody, Frank, It's just 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:12.880 gonna happen. Now. 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:14.720 I don't think that this is a fit. 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:17.920 And I think if it's not necessary and it's not natural, 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:21.240 I probably wouldn't want my partner to go and manage 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:24.840 some other woman's only fans, because it means essentially they're 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:26.360 going to be looking at that content all the time. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.760 They're going to give feedback on the content. They're going 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:30.920 to be advising what to do, because that's what a 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:34.400 manager does. Unless they're literally just saying bring my cash in, 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.000 like going to my emails and make sure the cash 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:37.880 is coming in, that might be different if he doesn't 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:38.240 have to go. 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:41.000 In and look at the intricacies of what the content is. 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:41.800 I agree with you. 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:44.000 I think it's like, for example, if he's an accountant 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.880 and this woman's like, hey, can you manage the accounts 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.560 to my only fans, no problem, because there's no need 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:51.240 for him to look at the content, Like I have 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:53.719 an accountant. I don't even think he knows what I do. Like, 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:55.800 I don't think he's got any clue what my actual 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:57.400 job is. He just looks at the figures and puts 0:12:57.400 --> 0:12:58.800 it in, you know, tells me how much money I 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:00.199 got to give to the tax man. Which is way 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.560 too much. So I think if it's that side of things, 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:05.320 it's fine. But if it is actually that she wants 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:07.480 someone to man need her, like as in, you know, 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:10.120 to give feedback to, like help with curating content to 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:12.640 because that's what a manager done to bring in more sales, 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:14.400 you know, bring in more subscribers, like, you know, to 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:18.000 truly like build her profile. Then I think, firstly, it's 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:20.839 very amazing that your partner had the conversation with you 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:22.079 and was like, I'm going to leave the ball in 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:23.559 your court because I want to make sure that you're 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:24.520 completely comfortable. 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.400 You're looking at me like I'm saying punts, which I 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:28.280 wasn't meant to I was gonna say. 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:30.400 I don't think that's amazing. I think that that should 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.440 be like a standard thing in a relationship totally. 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.120 But I guess when I say it's amazing, what I 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.200 mean by that is that it should be a standard thing. 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:37.040 But we know it's not. 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:39.079 From all the questions that you guys ask us, we 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:42.840 know that like having gone down general decency and consideration 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.840 for your partner is not the standard norm in all relationships. 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:48.400 So the fact that he has been asked the question 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:50.520 considered it and said, I think that this could be 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:52.520 received poorly by my partner. I'm going to check with 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:55.040 her and let her make up the final decision on this. 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.679 I do think that that has some merit, but I 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:01.080 guess ultimately, when I first read this question, I was like, Oh, 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.040 I think it's fine. And then I put myself in 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:04.720 the shoes and I was like, how would I feel 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.000 if some woman who I didn't really have a connection 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:09.360 with asked Matt to manage her only fans? 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:11.120 Yeah, at the Star Laura, I was like, it's okay, 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:12.040 and she's like, what do you think? 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:12.599 And I was like no. 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:16.319 She just started laughing. I would be weirded out by it. 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:18.199 I would feel like it's an unnecessary thing, unless you 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:20.280 guys are in a financial bind, unless it's something that 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:22.400 he's passionate about and wants to move into this industry. 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:26.280 If it's just something to do because he's been asked, 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:29.040 and it makes you feel in any way uncomfortable, which 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:31.000 you've obviously it does, and you want to trust your 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.240 gut instincts, and I say, don't put yourself into a 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:35.520 situation that's gonna make you feel resentful or where you 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:38.360 feel cornered into it. I think, be honest, explain that 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:40.800 maybe it's not the right fit for you, and just 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:42.040 go on your merry fucking way. 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:44.280 Well, the thing is here too, and the thing is 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:46.560 it is about your gut instinct. That is where this 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:48.720 comes from. Like for me personally, i'd be uncomfortable, But 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:50.320 there's a lot of people that this is fine. You 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:53.640 could be so stable in your relationship. You guys could 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:57.200 have the most beautiful relationship, trusting on a strong and 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:59.760 it might not bother a lot of people at all. 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:03.960 To be looking at other women's only fans now. 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:05.440 But what I want to jump into that is you 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:08.640 could have the most stable, trusting, loving relationship and it 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:10.080 still might not be fine. 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:11.480 It comes down to your values. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:13.240 But what I'm trying to say is there are plenty 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.480 of people out there where this is okay. If you 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:17.120 want your partner to go and earn some more money, 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.760 because you know, only fans can bring in a big income, right, 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.280 So if you're managing that you're taking twenty percent whatever 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:23.440 it is you're taking, that can be. 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:24.520 A lot of extra money. 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:27.040 So if you are in a situation where something like 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.160 this happened and you it doesn't bother you at all 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:32.600 to have your partner involved in that go crazy. The 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.000 reason where saying you know this isn't for you and 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:37.280 go with your gut is because your gut has said no, 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.840 and it means that if you say yes to it, 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:43.800 you will be uncomfortable, because you're uncomfortable now. Whatever it is, 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:46.440 there's something inside of you that's like, this doesn't sit 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.320 right with me. You're gonna think about it for a 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:50.280 long time. You're probably gonna end up subscribing to her 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:52.360 only fans because you want to see what's going down. 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:54.320 And I think you'll get resentful. That's the big one. 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.040 Like I think when you do things that aren't aligned 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:58.600