WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Can you bone your besties bro? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.800 Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:06.520 were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:07.600 past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.360 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:23.640 recorded on gadigal Land. Hi, guys, and welcome back to 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:26.200 another episode of Life. I'm can't, I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:28.960 and this is our Thursday episode in case you've forgotten 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:30.160 what day of the week it is, but it's where 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:33.199 we answer or You're deep, you're dark, and you're burning questions. 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:37.000 I had a really cute moment this week, guys, and 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:39.440 I want to share it because I think it's people 0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:41.319 are going to be like cringing in their shoes here, 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:43.560 but I want to talk about kindness. 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:47.879 And I'm just I paused for dramatic effect. Kindness is important. 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:49.960 I love it. This is a really pivotal, pointant moment 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:50.360 in your life. 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:54.280 Actually, like, somebody did something really kind for me this week, 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:57.760 and the fact that it has happened so rarely, I 0:00:57.800 --> 0:00:59.560 was like, Wow, it really stopped me in my tracks. 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:01.000 And of course people are kind all the time, but 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:03.600 let me just tell you the story. I went on Facebook, 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:07.080 Marketplace now. Facebook Marketplace is a deep dark. 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:08.880 I fucking loved it. I love it. 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:11.560 I've bought so much shit on Facebook Marketplace recently. The 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:13.960 amount of plants I have bought off Facebook Marketplace is 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:14.920 that where you get your plans from. 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:15.399 I got a. 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:19.680 Variegated monsterra from Facebook Marketplace, and like, they are expensive, 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:21.640 but this anyway, I don't need to get into that 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:25.039 they're expensive, but I got a really good price and 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:26.880 the woman even dropped it off at my house. 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:29.200 I was like, the service paid a bit extra for that. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:32.320 How awkward can marketplace be? You know, when like you're 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:35.000 trying to sell some or pick it up. I hate it. 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:37.160 It's that awkward exchange of like you've paid thirty dollars 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:38.800 for a toaster, You've had to drive four hours to 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:39.120 get it. 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:40.160 It's like, why am I doing this? 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:43.000 Okay, It's that like you're meeting a stranger to swap goods. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:43.600 It's weird. 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:45.840 So we had a coffee table in our house that 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:47.480 I was like, Matt was away and I was like 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:50.320 that fucking coffee table has to go, and today is 0:01:50.360 --> 0:01:51.560 the day that I'm going to get rid of it. 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:53.360 So I put it up on Facebook Marketplace. I was like, 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:55.200 free to good home, just come and take take it. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.920 And this English guy who was around the corner. In 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:00.000 no way was I like, Oh, I don't want this 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:02.320 in my house. I'm worried about my safety. He was 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:05.280 just like very normal dude who had his wife was 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:07.960 like living around the corner, and she wanted she wanted 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:11.239 the coffee table. But I couldn't get rid of the guy. 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.160 He came into my house and instead of just helping 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:16.040 me lift it up and walk out the door, he 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.600 just stood there having a chat. Twenty five minutes later, 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.400 I was like, mate, let's go, Like this. 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:22.320 Is meant to be a quick transaction, but then this 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.880 is weird, right, Like you have a strange man in 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:27.880 your house essentially, Yeah, why do we still feel like 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.720 we need to be polite enough to like have that conversation, 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:32.480 like offer him a tea, sit down and chat. 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:34.880 Why can't we just say, hey, mate, take the table. 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:36.359 I'm never gonna see you again in my entire life. 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.880 I'm I'm never going to see you again. We don't 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:40.920 do it. We like fluff around and we feel guilty 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:42.600 and we want to know their whole less story. I know, 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:43.320 I don't know. 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:44.920 He was like telling me about why I was here, 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:46.640 and like his wife's having a bad and it was lovely, 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:48.080 Like I'm happy for him. 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.120 But you're like I don't care. 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:50.640 But I was like, if I knew this was going 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:53.080 to take so long, I wouldn't have said it was free, okay, 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:54.520 I would have made you pay for it. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:56.799 Iime was money. I also find it really awkward. 0:02:56.800 --> 0:02:59.400 I remember once I was felling a table that's right 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:00.799 being away for free. 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:02.000 And I got an Englishman to go pick it up with. 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:04.840 I was selling table and I remember, because I was 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:06.640 living alone, I always felt awkward and it was a 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:07.320 guy that came in. 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:11.040 But that awkwardness of like when someone tries to barter 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:11.480 with me. 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:15.239 In person, if it's my worst and it's you're a 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:18.079 keyboard warrior, like I will go you. But when it's 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:20.679 in person and it's like four hundred dollars he's like 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:22.280 i'll give you fifty, I'm like okay, sure, he's like 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:25.200 there's a scratch fifty. I'm like, nowherries because I feel guilty. 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:27.560 So you took you no, I I dam much less. 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:29.760 I didn't, but I did take less because I felt 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:33.160 bad because I just can't have that interaction. I don't 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.360 know what the confrontation like, I can't do it. I 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:38.480 often I did this the other day actually in person. 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:40.400 I'll agree to it, and then I'll go home and 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:42.480 send a text and I'll say, hey, I think we misunderstood, 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:46.880 and I go back on. Anyway, talk to me about kindness. 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:47.160 Bread. 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:51.320 So I was picking up some boogie boards, like some bodyboards. 0:03:51.560 --> 0:03:53.880 Not for myself. I'm not taking up bodyboarding. It's really 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:54.920 into a boogie body No. 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:58.600 My niece and nephew are starting to surf like bodyboard. 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.760 And there were these body boards for fifty bucks. 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:01.680 They were really good. 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:03.720 They came with a whole set with like fins and 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:07.240 flippers and like leashes, and it was probably worth like 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:10.000 five hundred bucks and sale for fifty dollars. So I 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:12.200 went to pick it up, and when I got there, 0:04:12.320 --> 0:04:14.920 he was like, oh, I wasn't expecting you to be 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:16.680 the one that wants to bodyboard, you know what I mean. 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:20.040 I wasn't sit you to want a kid's bodyboard. That's 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:20.320 so weird. 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:21.080 They're not kids. 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:22.920 They were pretty big, okay, right, but so the kids 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:24.880 are gonna have to grow into them. They're not kids' bodyboards. 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:26.640 They were proper, which is why they were so expensive. 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:28.520 And he's like, oh, I just wasn't expecting you. I 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:30.240 just thought that'd be like a bodyboard. And I was like, mane, 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.400 you don't even know. Asus didn't say that, but I 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:35.360 wanted to internal monologue. So I was like, oh, no, 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:37.520 that's actually for my niece and nephew, like they're really 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:40.080 trying to get into bodyboarding, and you know, I told 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:41.160 them I was going to pick them up and they're 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:42.279 going to be so excited. 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:44.039 And he was like no way. 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:46.960 He's like, I love kids that want to get out 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:48.159 there and just give it a go. 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:49.960 And I was like right, and he's like, do you 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:51.760 know what, I'm going to give this to. 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:53.440 You for free? And I was like what, No, you 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:55.280 don't have to do that, Like I'll pay fifty bucks. 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:57.120 He's like no, if it's going to encourage a kid 0:04:57.160 --> 0:04:59.120 to get out there, and you're encouraging the kids to 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:00.640 get out there, I'm give them you for free. 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:02.720 Took the whole thing and I got all the bodyboards 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:03.200 for free. 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:06.200 So moral of the story is be super hot and 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:08.880 rock up to pick ups on me. So a guy 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:12.680 on basement, it was if you, if you were an 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:15.000 unattractive middle aged man who went to pick it up, 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:18.160 and we're like, I'm getting this for my kids. 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:21.240 Nods the kids, Laura, Mate, it's okay. 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:23.599 The gender gap exists, so we need to take it 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:26.240 where we can win. Like we're losing in the financial 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:27.560 circumstances usually. 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:29.680 No. I think the moral of the story is anything 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:31.400 you buy, say it's for the kids. 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:33.359 I mean I say it a lot because it actually 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:34.840 is for the kids. Ain't no one giving shit to 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:36.360 me for free. They look at me and they're like, 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:39.120 wedding ring. You look like you've had two kids out 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.840 of you. Not giving you anything. I'm gonna get nothing 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:43.040 at it. They looked at you and they were like, 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:44.120 no ring. 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:48.400 Nephew, I see where you're going. Yeah, he was married, 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:51.279 though it doesn't matter a lot of people. 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:54.440 Did you see that thing that went viral last week 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:57.640 from Florida? Of course, all of the craziest things in 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.160 the entire world come out of Florida. There were that's 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:03.080 an exchange about Facebook marketplace where there was a couple 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:04.920 of leg This went on TikTok and it was a 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:08.040 screenshot of a conversation and they were kind of bartering 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:11.000 back and forth at the start, and then the message 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:14.080 from the person who was selling the item said available 0:06:14.120 --> 0:06:18.760 when question mark. The next message said I work m 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:23.160 dash F and get home around nine ish. And then 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:25.839 the person who was responding to this, the person who 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:29.200 was purchasing the item, sent a voice note in response, 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:30.320 and this is what they said. 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:32.560 I don't know if you met the motherfucker in a 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:34.200 good way or a bad way, but if you met 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:37.479 it in a good way, fuck you, okay, because I 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:40.040 send you a fucking answer for something you told me yesterday. 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:43.760 So let's get a little fucking respect going, because I 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:47.000 can be just as big as an asshole. Your stupid fuck. 0:06:47.960 --> 0:06:49.920 All I'm trying to fucking do is by some piece 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:54.200 of shit that you're selling. What the hell? But let's 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:55.640 start fucking respecting people. 0:06:55.680 --> 0:07:00.720 Man, Well that escalator, Can I pick up a when 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:01.839 you made Monday to Friday? 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:02.680 Mo fuck up? 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:05.120 So quickly? 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:09.080 Like imagine the time when you realize, like when that 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:10.920 person who was selling it rights back and says, oh, no, 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:13.600 I met Monday to Friday. Imagine that thought process, the 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:16.640 realization that actually you got it wrong. Do you need 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:19.160 tomorrow or do you just ghost? That would be a 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:22.320 ghosting situation. No, I think you'd right back in hysterics. 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:23.960 You'd be like, I'm so sorry, I thought you called 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:26.800 me a motherfucker? Is the person who took someone's Calamario 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:32.360 play last week? That's different calls on a motherfucker? That 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:35.320 was Yeah, I own that. I stand by that decision. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:37.480 I think he would have just been like, do you 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:39.280 know what, I don't need that boogie board for fifty 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:39.960 bucks that bad? 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:41.360 And he would have just left it. 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:44.080 Now because market plays fines their little gold mines, and 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:44.520 they're hard. 0:07:44.560 --> 0:07:46.440 When you come across the thing you really want, he's 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:47.640 going to have to apologize. 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:51.480 I mean, I get was there a resolution? We don't know. 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:54.239 I mean people on TikTok are asking for what happened next. 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:57.960 But I understand where it comes from because it sounds 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:00.920 as though if you read it as I work, motherfucker 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:04.000 and get home at nine ish, it's like he's. 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:06.560 Trying to say, like, I've got shit to. 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:10.080 Do, unlike you, I'm not just fucking driving around picking 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.120 up things from marketplace all day. 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.720 It goes. I took that as I work Monday to Friday. Totally. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:19.160 We're saying that if you had interpreted it as motherfucker. 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:20.400 That's what it sounds like. 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:21.920 Yes, but why why. 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:24.640 Would you interpret it when you're having a beautiful exchange 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:27.360 on like you're literally working out of time, so you're like, hey, 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:28.880 I work, motherfucker. 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:30.200 Why would you say Well? 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:32.439 I think because they've been bartering about the price. 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:36.520 If that makes he's thinking that he's responding to him 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.480 saying I want it for less, you know. 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:40.280 Like hilarious, fucking hilarious. 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:43.640 Anyway, I'm glad your market Plaice experience was a lot better. 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:44.480 Full of kindness. 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:46.160 Well, I thought mine was full of kindness and then 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:48.120 you shot me in the foot, Laura. I just think 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:50.240 it was full of kindness and hotness. I just think 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:53.000 the hotness counts for something. I think that every time 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.880 people can be kind as well without wanting to bang. 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:59.360 Yeah, I am skeptical. 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:01.960 People are really kind to people they want to fuck. 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:06.160 Let's get into vibes, all right, what is your vibe 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:09.640 for the week? Speaking this week about Donald Trump? I 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:11.440 feel like this is going to be something that some 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:13.880 people might be interested in. It's a podcast series that 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:16.920 I was listening to to better understand what is happening, 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:18.679 because it can be quite confusing. 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:21.840 You get a lot of headlines. It's called Trump's trial. 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:25.440 That's literally the podcast is dedicated to this. It's hosted 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:26.840 by a political editor. 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:28.440 But every week. 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:31.160 They have like a different legal expert come on, or 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:33.720 multiple different people. So like in the last episode that 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:35.680 I had that I listened to, there were three different 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:36.839 people's opinions. 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:36.960 That came on. 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:38.880 They're quite bite sized, they're quite small. 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:43.199 The last one that was actually on, the conviction was 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:45.760 like half an hour. And it's just in a way 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:46.800 that's really palatable. 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:47.680 You understand what. 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:49.720 It doesn't go into anything, it doesn't need to go into, 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:52.120 and I just found it a really nice way to understand. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:53.640 And educate yourself on what's happening. 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:56.760 Well. Also, American politics can be so convoluted and sometimes 0:09:56.880 --> 0:10:00.320 it is a system that functions fundamentally different to how 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:03.120 it does here in Australia. Is it just around Trump? 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:06.000 Is it this podcast just around his criminal cases? Just 0:10:06.040 --> 0:10:09.000 this okay, just around Trump's and the trial. Let me 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.120 read you some of the headlines so you understand, has 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:14.600 the prosecution proved its case against Trump? Testimony in hush 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:15.920 money trial concludes. 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:18.880 These are all like half an hour twenty minutes, eight minutes, 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:19.840 sixteen minutes. 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.240 They're very much as you go, what is happening? 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:24.840 Imagine listening to all this and then being that person 0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:26.760 at any sort of party or dinner party where you're like, 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:29.360 let me update you on what's happening in Trump's life. 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:29.959 Totally. 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.160 Here are the three possible outcomes in the Trump hush 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:32.600 money trial. 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:34.320 So your son so educated and smart. 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:39.480 If you behold, I am shock her not you listening 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:41.400 to this and then using it as information at a 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:42.000 dinner party. 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:44.319 I thought you just said to me so smart. 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:47.800 I'm like, thanks, losing to take the kindness wherever she 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:49.120 can get Trump's trial. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:50.760 Do you have any interest whatsoever? 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:53.200 And you enjoyed the episode that we did on Tuesday, 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:55.080 This is few perfect. 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:57.640 My vibe for this week. It's on Netflix and it's 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.760 probably the number one trending show. It only came out 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:02.120 last Wednesday. We were sent a lot of messages about 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:04.120 it because it is definitely something that all three of 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:05.199 us would be really into. 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:09.320 It's called Dancing for the Devil the Seven m TikTok Cult. 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:11.000 So it's a three part docu series. 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:13.520 The episodes are about forty five minutes each from memory 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:17.280 something around there, and it starts off with the story 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:20.040 of these two sisters. You may actually know them because 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:23.559 they were really Instagram famous and TikTok famous, the Wilking Sisters, 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:24.640 they were the dancing sisters. 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:27.840 Yes, yeah, I've seen parts of this story. It's so interesting. Yeah, 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:30.079 so Melanie and Miranda. 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:32.720 There are other episodes and it kind of goes into 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:35.079 quite a few different people's stories and it gets a 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:36.679 little bit darker as it progresses. 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:39.440 But basically, there's this church. It's run by a guy 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:40.440 called Robert. 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:43.720 Shin and they turn it into this kind of like 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:48.640 talent management agency. It's quite strange. Essentially, there are all 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:51.080 of these dance influences. There's quite a few of them. 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:54.040 They were really famous on social media. They also went 0:11:54.080 --> 0:11:55.800 on things like So You Think You Can Dance and 0:11:55.840 --> 0:12:00.479 all the American talent shows. They got signed by this agency. 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.680 And as it turns out, as the story unravels, it 0:12:03.760 --> 0:12:06.640 becomes very increasingly clear that they're a part of this 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:10.080 cult and a part of the teachings of the church 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:13.080 kind of link into what the percentage of what they've 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:15.360 got to give of what they earn back to this 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:19.920 guy Robert and the church organization. It's quite convoluted, but 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:22.240 they make it really really clear. And the main kind 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:24.079 of story at the start has. 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:25.880 To do with these sisters, because. 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:29.520 All of her family are on this documentary being like, 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:32.320 we love her, she's completely changed, we have next to 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:35.200 no contact with her now. We just want her back, 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:37.920 but she's really brainwashed by this cult leader and she 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:41.400 is still a part of the cult. It's so I mean, 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:43.240 I haven't seen this, but I've seen a lot of 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.679 the information around it. It would be so jarring as 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:49.360 well for people who have followed them and who know 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:51.439 of these sisters to think that one of them has 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:53.640 just been sucked up in a world that she's now 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:55.200 inaccessible to her own family. 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:58.880 It's also classic cult storyline, isn't it like every cult 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:02.480 docuseries that you has a family member saying they're a 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:05.120 completely different person. They've gone off the rails. I can't 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:07.720 contact them, and it's because they've been groomed and brainwashed 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:08.839 and shut out. 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:10.760 And I think that that is I actually do that 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:13.000 really really well in this because they'd get the stories 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:14.840 of quite a few different people, and some of them 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:18.240 were these famous dances, but others were like normal people, 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:20.800 and you guys have spoken to a lot of people 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:23.480 who have been a part of cults. India Oxenburg comes 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:26.319 to mind, and she spoke about how the people who 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:28.600 run these cults often look for the broken bird, They 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.120 look for the person who is quite easy to manipulate. 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:33.880 I really think this docuseries did a good job of 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:38.320 showing just how easily anyone can be conditioned and anyone 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:41.520 can be brainwashed. And I think it's quite interesting that 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:45.600 this is not yet like there are multiple lawsuits out 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:47.360 against this guy, Robert and quite a few of the 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:49.600 other people who are involved in the church, but this 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:51.000 is happening almost in real time. 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:52.920 Like they recorded the last part of this at the 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:56.319 end of twenty twenty three. So this is available on Netflix. Yeah, yeah, 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:58.560 it came out last Wednesday. Dancing for the Devil, the 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:01.760 seven m TikTok Cult. Okay, I have a very functional 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:02.600 vibe today. 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:05.199 And as you guys know from Tuesday's episode, we currently 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:08.600 have a house that is leaking everywhere, and currently that 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:10.880 we are, you know, across the country heading into winter 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:11.840 or are we in winter? 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:14.040 We're officially in winter. It's winter now. 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.440 First week it is wet, and I think a lot 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:20.120 of people during these months deal with having increased moisture 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:22.040 in the house. Now it is a product, it is 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:24.920 very easily accessible. It is called the Hippo Moisture Absorber. 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:27.040 You can get them from woolies or coals, but they're 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:29.160 basically that little plastic box that you put them into 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:32.160 your wardrobe or into a cupboard space. We currently have 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:34.040 them all around the front room and they are so 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:36.960 effective if you don't have a dehumidifire in actually trying 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.680 to take the moisture out of the room. Highly recommend 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:41.480 they have come in as little God send to us. 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:44.240 And because they're so cheap, I would say that if 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:47.320 you're someone who gets their jackets and things out of 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:49.400 the wardrobe at the end of winter or like you know, 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:51.360 halfway through summer and realize that you've got mill draw 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:53.720 or mole growing on them, this is something you need 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:54.680 to have in your wardrobe. 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:56.800 I've had them for using my wardrobe because I live 0:14:56.840 --> 0:15:00.200 in Bondai and in Bondai everything well, everything's down, but 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.440 everything's dark, and so I've had them for years. 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:05.400 They're great. Yes, yeah, so good. Anyway, that's it from us, guys. 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:09.000 Let's get into the Questions, Question number one. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:11.600 Okay, I have a problem. I have been friends with 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:15.040 my bestie since primary school. We're in our early twenties now, 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:17.800 and about six months ago, I was staying at her 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:20.400 house and I accidentally slept with her brother. 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:25.080 You don't accidentally sleep with someone. She fell away, but. 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:28.160 They fell and tripped. We'd had a few drinks. I 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:30.240 honestly don't know how it happened, but it just did. 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:33.320 I didn't say anything to her because I felt bad 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:35.320 and thought that it would never happen again. 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:39.840 But oh, you fucked you slept again. That she's clumsy, slippery, 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:41.880 She's slippery, It's super slippery. 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:42.760 Bye. 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.200 We have started sort of sleeping together now, and I'm 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:46.520 pretty sure I have feelings. 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.240 Oh no, you have to tell her. Ah, I'm in 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:49.560 so deep. What do I do? 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:52.200 How do I know if it's worth seeing him seriously 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.720 and risking the awkwardness with this whole family that I've 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:57.840 known my entire life. And if I don't decide that 0:15:57.880 --> 0:16:02.240 it's serious, do I still tell my friend regardless? Oh, 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:05.080 you can't be that clumsy around your best friend's brother. 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:08.600 Oh can you me? 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:10.960 Oh? 0:16:13.320 --> 0:16:17.120 Because I'm because I'm putting myself in this situation, and 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:22.720