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Speaker 2: So, Laura, I don't want to alarm you, but I
Speaker 2: am thinking of a little bit of a career change. Now.
Speaker 2: It's not by it's not by choice. It has been
Speaker 2: thrust upon me. I may have found my calling if you.
Speaker 1: Say that after Dancing with the Stars and going off
Speaker 1: to join some sort of dance.
Speaker 3: Because I honestly, what would you do if you weren't
Speaker 3: doing this? Oh my god, can I tell you something that.
Speaker 2: You can Okay, Okay, I forget that I'm on Dancing
Speaker 2: with the Stars right now.
Speaker 3: But this is not this is this is not the story.
Speaker 2: But I just segued I'm on Dancing with the Stars
Speaker 2: as we speak. And so, my husband Ben lives over
Speaker 2: in Italy and a teammate, one of his teammates yesterday
Speaker 2: came up to him and he must have been looking
Speaker 2: on Ben's page, seen me, clicked on me how.
Speaker 3: To look at me?
Speaker 2: Anyway, his teammate came up to him and says, wait,
Speaker 2: is your wife on Dancing with the Stars? And Ben
Speaker 2: was like yeah, and he's like wow, I didn't know she.
Speaker 3: Was a professional dancer. She's really good, and I.
Speaker 2: Thought, what if he's like, she's not the dancer. He
Speaker 2: thought that I was the dancer, so I just needed
Speaker 2: to him.
Speaker 3: He must have looked at like a two second clip.
Speaker 1: To be fair, you have done amazing, like you do
Speaker 1: look like a professional dancer on there.
Speaker 2: Stop it and then stop it got slade.
Speaker 3: Oh she got slaged like a dragon.
Speaker 2: In fact, to what I was talking about, I mean
Speaker 2: my like health and Wellness era. I've been in it
Speaker 2: for a while, but I love the sauna. It was
Speaker 2: my sacred place. I would sauna probably four times a week,
Speaker 2: maybe five if I can. And it's not an individual sauna.
Speaker 2: It's like a group sauna, but I would go at
Speaker 2: different times, and quite often i'd be on my own.
Speaker 2: And I imagine it's like the escape that mums feel
Speaker 2: when they get a bit of time away, like headphones in,
Speaker 2: lay down and just like just zen out.
Speaker 3: So you lay down in a group sauna.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I've.
Speaker 3: Fallen asleep in the sauna.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about groups saunas, like
Speaker 1: I've done it a couple of times, but I just
Speaker 1: feel like there's other people's sweat is so close to
Speaker 1: me and I feel encased in other people's ill.
Speaker 2: Yeah I get that too, but we wear a towel.
Speaker 3: And it's cleaned.
Speaker 2: But my point is, like I often go at times
Speaker 2: of the day I know we're quite quiet, so I
Speaker 2: can like have that moment, not peak hour. But what
Speaker 2: has happened is loads of the people at the gym
Speaker 2: and this wellness center know what I do for a living.
Speaker 2: They know that we have Life Uncut the podcast, and
Speaker 2: they know we do Ask Uncut and that it's like
Speaker 2: very relationship based. They know we do ask and Cut
Speaker 2: in the radio, and it started to become like a
Speaker 2: therapy session. So people come in now and they'll see
Speaker 2: me in there, and then they come in and they guys,
Speaker 2: not girls, I'm talking men, And then they start to
Speaker 2: ask me relationship advice.
Speaker 3: And they're trauma dumping in the sauna.
Speaker 2: Yeah they're trauma dumping, but it's not necessarily trauma dumping.
Speaker 2: I'm actually so fascinated by it, and it is literally
Speaker 2: like you could take bookings. I could be a psychologist
Speaker 2: therapist in the sauna. They come in one on one,
Speaker 2: not intentionally, I'm not like wait outside everyone, but then
Speaker 2: they ask me all of their deepest, darkest relationship questions,
Speaker 2: and I have to give them advice and then they
Speaker 2: literally say, Okay, I'll update you next week, and they
Speaker 2: circle back in a week to give me the update
Speaker 2: on the advice that I've given them in this order.
Speaker 1: I have a question for you. Have you told any
Speaker 1: of them that you're actually not qualified?
Speaker 2: Well, I haven't specifically said that.
Speaker 3: No, maybe they think that I am. I've not said
Speaker 3: I'm qualified. I think that they know I'm not. I
Speaker 3: don't know what it is.
Speaker 2: Maybe men have a hard time asking their friends for
Speaker 2: certain advice, or maybe maybe it's different getting advice from
Speaker 2: like the opposite sex. I often ask guys' advice when
Speaker 2: I want a male's perspective, but it's sort of just
Speaker 2: become who I am in the sorda.
Speaker 1: Now, what's an example I need to know, like an
Speaker 1: example of something you've been asked recently?
Speaker 3: Yesterday?
Speaker 2: Yesterday's one was really really nice guy that his therapy
Speaker 2: session has been going on for quite a while. He
Speaker 2: hasn't been able to find the right person, and I've
Speaker 2: been guiding him and encouraging him to date because he
Speaker 2: was giving up on dating.
Speaker 3: So this has been like.
Speaker 2: Going on for quite a while, and I'm like, you're
Speaker 2: such a catch.
Speaker 3: Get out there.
Speaker 2: It's not going to come and find you in your
Speaker 2: house kind of thing. And so we got the update
Speaker 2: recently that he in fact met someone amazing, et cetera,
Speaker 2: et cetera. And then it's turning into long distance, so
Speaker 2: you know, she's going.
Speaker 3: To chase her dreams.
Speaker 2: And we had to unpack because he let her go
Speaker 2: chase her dreams, and we had to unpack like why
Speaker 2: he just let her go if he's constantly thinking about
Speaker 2: her now and wants to work it out and like
Speaker 2: wants that.
Speaker 3: To be a thing.
Speaker 2: And then so we spent that session trying to work
Speaker 2: out like if he can go and voice to her
Speaker 2: how he really feels, and like chase it down and
Speaker 2: make something of it.
Speaker 3: I feel like you need to charge for this. I
Speaker 3: love it.
Speaker 1: It sounds like too much mental load. I don't want
Speaker 1: to go home and take on anymore. I want to
Speaker 1: go home and have a nap and I can put
Speaker 1: one of those.
Speaker 2: You know when you go to the Delhi there's a
Speaker 2: ticket machine and you like take a ticket off the
Speaker 2: Delhi and get some ham and then you can traum
Speaker 2: my dumb I don't know. I love it, I'm about it,