WEBVTT - MINI: Britt may have found her calling as a Sauna Therapist

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<v Speaker 2>So, Laura, I don't want to alarm you, but I

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<v Speaker 2>am thinking of a little bit of a career change. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not by it's not by choice. It has been

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<v Speaker 2>thrust upon me. I may have found my calling if you.

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<v Speaker 1>Say that after Dancing with the Stars and going off

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<v Speaker 1>to join some sort of dance.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I honestly, what would you do if you weren't

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<v Speaker 3>doing this? Oh my god, can I tell you something that.

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<v Speaker 2>You can Okay, Okay, I forget that I'm on Dancing

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<v Speaker 2>with the Stars right now.

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<v Speaker 3>But this is not this is this is not the story.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just segued I'm on Dancing with the Stars

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<v Speaker 2>as we speak. And so, my husband Ben lives over

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<v Speaker 2>in Italy and a teammate, one of his teammates yesterday

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<v Speaker 2>came up to him and he must have been looking

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<v Speaker 2>on Ben's page, seen me, clicked on me how.

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<v Speaker 3>To look at me?

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, his teammate came up to him and says, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>is your wife on Dancing with the Stars? And Ben

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<v Speaker 2>was like yeah, and he's like wow, I didn't know she.

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<v Speaker 3>Was a professional dancer. She's really good, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Thought, what if he's like, she's not the dancer. He

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<v Speaker 2>thought that I was the dancer, so I just needed

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<v Speaker 2>to him.

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<v Speaker 3>He must have looked at like a two second clip.

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<v Speaker 1>To be fair, you have done amazing, like you do

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<v Speaker 1>look like a professional dancer on there.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop it and then stop it got slade.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh she got slaged like a dragon.

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<v Speaker 2>In fact, to what I was talking about, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>my like health and Wellness era. I've been in it

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<v Speaker 2>for a while, but I love the sauna. It was

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<v Speaker 2>my sacred place. I would sauna probably four times a week,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe five if I can. And it's not an individual sauna.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a group sauna, but I would go at

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<v Speaker 2>different times, and quite often i'd be on my own.

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<v Speaker 2>And I imagine it's like the escape that mums feel

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<v Speaker 2>when they get a bit of time away, like headphones in,

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<v Speaker 2>lay down and just like just zen out.

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<v Speaker 3>So you lay down in a group sauna.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I've.

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<v Speaker 3>Fallen asleep in the sauna.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how I feel about groups saunas, like

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<v Speaker 1>I've done it a couple of times, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like there's other people's sweat is so close to

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<v Speaker 1>me and I feel encased in other people's ill.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah I get that too, but we wear a towel.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's cleaned.

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<v Speaker 2>But my point is, like I often go at times

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<v Speaker 2>of the day I know we're quite quiet, so I

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<v Speaker 2>can like have that moment, not peak hour. But what

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<v Speaker 2>has happened is loads of the people at the gym

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<v Speaker 2>and this wellness center know what I do for a living.

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<v Speaker 2>They know that we have Life Uncut the podcast, and

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<v Speaker 2>they know we do Ask Uncut and that it's like

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<v Speaker 2>very relationship based. They know we do ask and Cut

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<v Speaker 2>in the radio, and it started to become like a

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<v Speaker 2>therapy session. So people come in now and they'll see

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<v Speaker 2>me in there, and then they come in and they guys,

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<v Speaker 2>not girls, I'm talking men, And then they start to

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<v Speaker 2>ask me relationship advice.

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<v Speaker 3>And they're trauma dumping in the sauna.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah they're trauma dumping, but it's not necessarily trauma dumping.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm actually so fascinated by it, and it is literally

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<v Speaker 2>like you could take bookings. I could be a psychologist

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<v Speaker 2>therapist in the sauna. They come in one on one,

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<v Speaker 2>not intentionally, I'm not like wait outside everyone, but then

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<v Speaker 2>they ask me all of their deepest, darkest relationship questions,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have to give them advice and then they

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<v Speaker 2>literally say, Okay, I'll update you next week, and they

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<v Speaker 2>circle back in a week to give me the update

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<v Speaker 2>on the advice that I've given them in this order.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a question for you. Have you told any

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<v Speaker 1>of them that you're actually not qualified?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I haven't specifically said that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, maybe they think that I am. I've not said

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<v Speaker 3>I'm qualified. I think that they know I'm not. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe men have a hard time asking their friends for

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<v Speaker 2>certain advice, or maybe maybe it's different getting advice from

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<v Speaker 2>like the opposite sex. I often ask guys' advice when

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<v Speaker 2>I want a male's perspective, but it's sort of just

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<v Speaker 2>become who I am in the sorda.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, what's an example I need to know, like an

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<v Speaker 1>example of something you've been asked recently?

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<v Speaker 3>Yesterday?

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<v Speaker 2>Yesterday's one was really really nice guy that his therapy

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<v Speaker 2>session has been going on for quite a while. He

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<v Speaker 2>hasn't been able to find the right person, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>been guiding him and encouraging him to date because he

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<v Speaker 2>was giving up on dating.

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<v Speaker 3>So this has been like.

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<v Speaker 2>Going on for quite a while, and I'm like, you're

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<v Speaker 2>such a catch.

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<v Speaker 3>Get out there.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not going to come and find you in your

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<v Speaker 2>house kind of thing. And so we got the update

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<v Speaker 2>recently that he in fact met someone amazing, et cetera,

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera. And then it's turning into long distance, so

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<v Speaker 2>you know, she's going.

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<v Speaker 3>To chase her dreams.

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<v Speaker 2>And we had to unpack because he let her go

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<v Speaker 2>chase her dreams, and we had to unpack like why

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<v Speaker 2>he just let her go if he's constantly thinking about

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<v Speaker 2>her now and wants to work it out and like

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<v Speaker 2>wants that.

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<v Speaker 3>To be a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And then so we spent that session trying to work

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<v Speaker 2>out like if he can go and voice to her

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<v Speaker 2>how he really feels, and like chase it down and

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<v Speaker 2>make something of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you need to charge for this. I

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<v Speaker 3>love it.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like too much mental load. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go home and take on anymore. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go home and have a nap and I can put

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<v Speaker 1>one of those.

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<v Speaker 2>You know when you go to the Delhi there's a

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<v Speaker 2>ticket machine and you like take a ticket off the

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<v Speaker 2>Delhi and get some ham and then you can traum

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<v Speaker 2>my dumb I don't know. I love it, I'm about it,