1 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,439 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 2: It's the podcast for the time poor parent who just 3 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 2: once answers. 4 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: Now Usually on a Wednesday, I have a chat with 5 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: somebody ahead of you them I talk about stuff that 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: matters a lot to them. Last week was Julian mcgrant, 7 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: the e Safety Commissioner. Before that, Dan Prince, Paie Schnell Contos. 8 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: Before that, Madonna King and Rebecca Sparrow. We talked to 9 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: some great people on this podcast about some really really 10 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 1: important stuff. However, we're now less than two weeks away 11 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: from Christmas. Everyone's slowing things down, and I wanted to 12 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: be a little bit indulgent today and share with you 13 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: what I think is one of the best Christmas stories 14 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: that you'll ever hear. Now, for those who have a 15 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: faith background, the idea of anything being better than the 16 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: Nativity as a Christmas story might sound a little bit, 17 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, a little bit sacrilegious. That's certainly not 18 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: my intention. I have a faith background as well, but 19 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: when it comes to non faith related Christmas stories, I 20 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: can't think of a better one. The o Henry's the 21 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: Gift of the Magie. So Kylie is with me, and 22 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: Kylie is going to sit quietly, impatiently while I read 23 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: what I think is the best Christmas story ever written. 24 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: And then at the end of that, we're going to 25 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: discuss it briefly, because we reckon that it'd be great 26 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: for you to talk about with your family. You might 27 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: even want to play the podcast to them and then 28 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: have a conversation about what the story might mean to 29 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: you and to your kids. 30 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 2: Just before you get started, I do need to put 31 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: a very clear caveat and warning in here. 32 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: A warning. I thought this was quite a safe story. 33 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 2: We got an email a couple of weeks ago from 34 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 2: a listener who heard my talk that I delivered to 35 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 2: Fathers of Girls, and one of the things she said, 36 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 2: I think you need a bigger warning at the beginning 37 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: of episodes not to listen while operating a car, as 38 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 2: it seemed quite dangerous that I was driving as my 39 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 2: tears were flooding my face. 40 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: This is one of those stories. 41 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 2: This is one of those stories. So if you need 42 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 2: to pull over, do it now. 43 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: Without further ado. The gift of the Magi bio Henry 44 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: one dollar and eighty seven cents. That was all, and 45 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: sixty cents of it was in pennies pennies saved one 46 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: and two at a time by bulldozing the grocer, and 47 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: the vegetable man and the butcher, until one's cheeks burnt. 48 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: With the silent imputation of parsimony that such close dealing 49 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: implied three times. Della counted it one dollar and eighty 50 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: seven cents, and the next day would be Christmas. There 51 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: was clearly nothing to do but flop down on the 52 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: shabby little couch, and how so Della did it, which 53 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: instigates the moral reflection that life is made up of sobs, sniffles, 54 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: and smiles, with sniffles predominating, while the mistress of the 55 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: home is gradually subsiding from the first stage to the second. 56 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: Take a look at the home, a furnished flat at 57 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: eight dollars per week. It did not exactly beggar description, 58 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: but it certainly had that word on the lookout for 59 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: the mendicancy squad. In the vestibule below was a letter 60 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 1: box into which no letter would go, and an electric 61 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: button from which no mortal finger could coax a ring. 62 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: Also appertaining thereunto was a card bearing the name mister 63 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: James Dillingham Young. The Dillingham had been flung to the breeze. 64 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: During a former period of prosperity, when its possessor was 65 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: being paid thirty dollars per week, Now when the income 66 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: was shrunk to twenty dollars, the letters of Dillingham looked blurred, 67 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: as though they were thinking seriously of contracting to a 68 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: modest and unassuming d But whenever mister James Dillingham Young 69 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 1: came home and reached his flat above, he was called 70 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: Jim and greatly hugged by missus. James Dillingham Young already 71 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: introduced to you as Della, which is all very good. 72 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: Della finished her cry and attended to her cheeks with 73 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: the powder rag. She stood by the window and looked 74 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: out dully at a gray cat walking a gray fence 75 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: in a gray backyard. Tomorrow would be Christmas Day, and 76 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: she had only one dollar and eighty seven cents with 77 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: which to buy Jim a present. She'd been saving every 78 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,559 Speaker 1: penny she could for months, with this result, twenty dollars 79 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 1: a week doesn't go far. Expenses had been greater than 80 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: she had calculated. They always are. Only one dollar eighty 81 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 1: seven to buy a present for Jim. Her Jim many 82 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: a happy hour. She had spent planning for something nice 83 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: for him, something fine and rare and sterling, something just 84 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: a little bit near to being worthy of the honor 85 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: of being owned by Jim. There was a peer glass 86 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: between the windows of the room. Perhaps you have seen 87 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 1: a peer glass in an eight dollar flat. A very 88 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: thin and very agile person may, by observing his reflection 89 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: in a rapid seatquence of longitudinal strips, obtain a fairly 90 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: accurate conception of his looks. Della, being slender, had mastered 91 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: the art. Suddenly she whirled from the window and stood 92 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: before the glass. Her eyes were shining brilliantly, but her 93 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: face had lost its color within twenty seconds. Rapidly she 94 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: pulled down her hair and let it fall to its 95 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: full length. Now there were two possessions of the James 96 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: Dillingham Youngs in which they both took a mighty pride. 97 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: One was Jim's gold watch that had been his father's 98 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: and his grandfather's. The other was Della's hair. Had the 99 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: Queen of Sheba lived in the flat across the airshaft, 100 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: Della would have let her hair hang out the window 101 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: some day to dry, just to depreciate her Majesty's jewels 102 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: and gifts. Had King Solomon been the janitor with all 103 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: his treasures piled up in the basement, Jim would have 104 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: pulled out his watch every time he passed, just to 105 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: see him pluck at his beard from envy. So now 106 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: Della's beautiful hair fell about her, rippling and shining like 107 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: a cascade of brown waters. It reached below her knee 108 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: and made itself almost a garment for her. And then 109 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 1: she did it up again, nervously and quickly. Once she 110 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 1: faltered for a minute and stood still while a tear 111 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 1: or two splashed on the worn red carpet. On went 112 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: her old brown jacket, On went her old brown hat. 113 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: With a whirl of skirts, and with the brilliant sparkle 114 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: still in her eyes, she fluttered out the door and 115 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: down the stairs to the street, where she stopped. The 116 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: sign read Madame Sophroni hair goods of all kinds one 117 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: flight up. Della ran and collected herself, panting, Madam large 118 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: two white chili. Hardly looked the SOPHRONI. Will you buy 119 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: my hair? Asked Della. I buy hair, said Madam. Take 120 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: your hat off, and let's have a sight at the 121 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: looks of it. Down, rippled the brown cascade. Twenty dollars, 122 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 1: said madam, lifting the mass with a practiced hand. Give 123 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: it to me, quick, said Della Oh. And the next 124 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: two hours tripped on rosy wings. Forget the hashed metaphor. 125 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: She was ransacking the stores for Jim's present. She found 126 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: it at last. It surely had been made for Jim 127 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: and no one else. There was no other like it 128 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: in any of the stores, and she had turned all 129 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: of them inside out. It was a platinum fob chain, 130 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: simple and chaste in design, properly proclaiming its value by 131 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: substance alone and not by meretricious ornamentation, as all good 132 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: things should do. It was even worthy of the watch. 133 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: As soon as she saw it, she knew that it 134 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: must be Jim's. It was like him, quietness and value. 135 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: The description applied to both twenty one dollars they took 136 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: from her for it, and she hurried home with the 137 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: eighty seven cents. With that chain on his watch, Jim 138 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: might be properly anxious about the time in any company. 139 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: Grand as the watch was, he sometimes looked at it 140 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: on the sly on account of the old leather strap 141 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: that he used in place of a chain. When Della 142 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: reached home, her intoxication gave way a little to prudence, 143 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: and she got out her curling irons and lighted the 144 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: gas and went to work on repairing the ravages made 145 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: by generosity added to love, which is always a tremendous task, 146 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 1: dear friends, a mammoth task. Within forty minutes, her head 147 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: was covered with tiny, close lying curls that made her 148 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: look wonderfully like a truant schoolboy. She looked at her 149 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: reflection in the mirror long, carefully and critically. If Jim 150 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: doesn't kill me, she said to herself, before he takes 151 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: a second look at me, he'll say, I look like 152 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: a Coney Island chorus girl. But what could I do? Oh? 153 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: What could I do with a dollar and eighty seven cents. 154 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: At seven o'clock, the coffee was made and the frying 155 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 1: pan was on the back of the stove, hot and 156 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: ready to cook the chops. Jim was never late. Della 157 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 1: doubled the fob chain in her hand and sat on 158 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: the corner of the table near the door that he 159 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 1: always entered. Then she heard his step on the stair 160 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: away down on the first flight, and she turned white. 161 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: For just a moment. She had a habit for saying little, 162 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: silent prayers about the simplest everyday things. And now she whispered, 163 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: Please God, make him think I'm still pretty. The door 164 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 1: opened and Jim stepped in and closed it. He looked 165 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: thin and very serious. Poor fellow. He was only twenty 166 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 1: two and to be burdened with a family. He needed 167 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: a new overcoat, and he was without gloves. Jim stopped 168 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: inside the door, as immovable as a setter at the 169 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: scent of a quail. His eyes were fixed upon Della, 170 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: and there was an expression in them that she could 171 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 1: not read, and it terrified her. It was not anger, 172 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 1: nor surprise, nor disapproval, nor horror, nor any of the 173 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: sentiments that she had been prepared for. He simply stared 174 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 1: at her fixedly, with that peculiar expression on his face. 175 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: Della wriggled off the table and went for him, Jim Darling, 176 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 1: She cried, don't look at me that way. I had 177 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: my hair cut off and sold it because I couldn't 178 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: have lived through Christmas without giving you a present. It'll 179 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: grow out again. You won't mind, will you. I just 180 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: had to do it. My hair grows awfully fast. Say 181 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: Merry Christmas, Jim, and let's be happy. I don't know 182 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: what a nice what a beautiful, nice gift I've got 183 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: for you. You've cut off your hair, asked Jim laboriously, as 184 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: if he had not arrived at that patent fact. Yet, 185 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: even after the hardest mental labor, cut it off and 186 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 1: sold it, said Della, don't you like me just as well? Anyhow? 187 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: I'm me without my hair, ain't I? Jim looked about 188 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: the room curiously. You say your hair is gone, he said, 189 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: with an air almost of idiocy. You needn't look for it, 190 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: said Della. It's sold, I tell you, sold and gone too. 191 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: It's Christmas, Eve boy, be good to me, for it 192 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: weren't for you. Maybe the hairs of my head were numbered, 193 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: she went on with sudden serious sweetness. But nobody could 194 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 1: ever count my love for you. Shall I put the 195 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: jobs on Jim? Out of his trance, Jim seemed quickly 196 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: to wake. He unfolded his Della for ten seconds. Let 197 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 1: us regard with discreet scrutiny some inconsequential object in the 198 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: other direction. Eight dollars a week or a million a year? 199 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: What's the difference? A mathematician or a wit would give 200 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 1: you the wrong answer. The magi brought valuable gifts, but 201 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,959 Speaker 1: that was not among them. This dark assertion will be 202 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: illuminated later on. Jim drew a package from his overcoat 203 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: pocket and threw it upon the table. Don't make any mistake, Dell, 204 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: he said about me. I don't think there's anything in 205 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: the way of a haircut, or a shave, or a 206 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: shampoo that could make me like my girl any less. 207 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: But if you'll unwrap that package, you may see why 208 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 1: you had me going a while. At first white fingers, 209 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,080 Speaker 1: a nimble tore at the string and paper, and then 210 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 1: an ecstatic scream of joy, and then alas a quick 211 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:45,599 Speaker 1: feminine change to hysterical tears and whales, necessitating the immediate 212 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: employment of all the comforting powers of the Lord of 213 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: the flat. For there lay the combs, the set of 214 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: combs side and back that Della had worshiped long in 215 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: a Broadway window, beautiful carmes, pure tortoise shell, with jeweled rims, 216 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: just the shade to wear in the beautiful vanished hair. 217 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,439 Speaker 1: They were expensive combs, she knew, and her heart had 218 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 1: simply craved and yearned over them without the least hope 219 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: of possession, and now they were hers. But the tresses 220 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: that should have adorned the coveted adornments were gone, But 221 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: she hugged them to her bosom, and at length she 222 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: was able to look up with dim eyes and smile 223 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: and say, my hair grows so fast. Jim, and then 224 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: Della leaped up like a little singed cat and cried, oh, oh. 225 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: Jim had not yet seen his beautiful present. She held 226 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: it out to him eagerly upon her open palm. The dull, 227 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:52,079 Speaker 1: precious metals seemed to flash with the reflection of her 228 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: bright and ardent spirit. Isn't it Dandie Jim? I hunted 229 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 1: all over town to find it. You'll have to look 230 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: at the time one hundred times a day. Now, give 231 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 1: me a watch. I want to see how it looks 232 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: on it. Instead of obeying, Jim tumbled down on the 233 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: couch and put his hands under the back of his 234 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: head and smiled. Dell said he let's put our Christmas 235 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: presents away and keep them awhile they're too nice to use. 236 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 1: Just at present. I sold the watch to get the 237 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 1: money to buy your combs. Now suppose you put the 238 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: chops on the Magie, as you know, were wise men, 239 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: wonderfully wise men who brought gifts to the Babe in 240 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 1: the manger. They invented the art of giving Christmas presents. 241 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: Being wise, their gifts were no doubt wise ones, possibly 242 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,680 Speaker 1: bearing the privilege of exchange in case of duplication. And 243 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 1: here I have lamely related to you the uneventful chronicle 244 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,959 Speaker 1: of two foolish children in a flat who most unwisely 245 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: sacrificed for each other the greatest treasures of their house. 246 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: But in a last word to the wise of these days, 247 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: let it be said that of all who give gifts, 248 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: these two were the wisest of all who give and 249 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: receive gifts. Such as they are wisest everywhere they are wisest. 250 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: They are magi. And that's the gift of the magi. 251 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: By O Henry. Now, if you'll excuse me, I need 252 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: to go blow my nose and wipe my eyes. 253 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 2: Well, I do too. 254 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 3: What I love about this story is that they each 255 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 3: knew each other so well they knew exactly what the 256 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 3: other would need, and it was in need. And yet 257 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 3: because of the love that they shared for each other, 258 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 3: they were willing to sacrifice the thing that mattered most 259 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 3: to them, because at the end of the day, it's 260 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 3: actually not about things, it's about the person that you 261 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 3: spend you choose to spend your life with. And so 262 00:14:56,480 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 3: the magic in this story is the recognition that at 263 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 3: Christmas time, every day should be an opportunity to celebrate 264 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 3: the ones we love. But we have this beautiful opportunity 265 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 3: on Christmas Day to acknowledge those people that enrich and 266 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 3: brighten our lives. 267 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: Whatever it takes, find a way to make a difference 268 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: in the lives of those you love. We've only got 269 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: a couple of days of the podcast to go until 270 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: we wrap things up, but as we move towards Christmas, 271 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: we just hope that you have such a wonderful festive season. 272 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: The Happy Families podcast is produced by Justin Rulon from 273 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: Bridge Media. If you like more info about making your 274 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 1: family happy, you can get it all a Happy Families 275 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 1: dot com dot a you