1 00:00:10,669 --> 00:00:14,869 Speaker 1: My hard podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen 2 00:00:14,909 --> 00:00:16,268 Speaker 1: live on the Free I Hard. 3 00:00:17,429 --> 00:00:22,829 Speaker 2: We have a very very very juicy story up as lives. 4 00:00:23,029 --> 00:00:25,788 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's about a man called Jacob. Look. 5 00:00:25,829 --> 00:00:29,029 Speaker 1: If you've missed any of this, here's a little package 6 00:00:29,069 --> 00:00:30,109 Speaker 1: to get you up to speed. 7 00:00:30,949 --> 00:00:33,148 Speaker 4: One time is shake it. I'm twenty seven and I 8 00:00:33,189 --> 00:00:35,989 Speaker 4: think there might be a potential match between me and 9 00:00:36,149 --> 00:00:38,869 Speaker 4: my forty two year old CEO of my company. There's 10 00:00:38,869 --> 00:00:41,028 Speaker 4: a bit of flirtation back and forth, and I'm just 11 00:00:41,069 --> 00:00:43,108 Speaker 4: getting some advice to see where I go next. 12 00:00:43,349 --> 00:00:45,669 Speaker 1: She did give you an arm stroke as well. It's 13 00:00:45,709 --> 00:00:46,509 Speaker 1: an important detail. 14 00:00:46,629 --> 00:00:47,029 Speaker 4: Armstroke. 15 00:00:47,149 --> 00:00:48,028 Speaker 3: Yes, what should he do? 16 00:00:48,309 --> 00:00:50,869 Speaker 4: Absolutely? Do not make a move. I'm like, has the 17 00:00:50,909 --> 00:00:54,309 Speaker 4: world not learned anything after the Coldplay incident. I'm speaking 18 00:00:54,349 --> 00:00:58,349 Speaker 4: from experience to not do it if you want to 19 00:00:58,429 --> 00:01:01,389 Speaker 4: keep the job, listen. I love my job, but the 20 00:01:01,469 --> 00:01:03,589 Speaker 4: realm that I work in, there's definitely other companies I 21 00:01:03,589 --> 00:01:06,589 Speaker 4: can work out somewhere else. Man, I would one hundred 22 00:01:06,589 --> 00:01:08,149 Speaker 4: percent go for it. 23 00:01:08,229 --> 00:01:09,229 Speaker 3: Mate. 24 00:01:10,589 --> 00:01:16,229 Speaker 1: So Jacob joins us on the phone right now, Hello, Jacob, guys, 25 00:01:16,749 --> 00:01:18,389 Speaker 1: how are you going mate? 26 00:01:18,669 --> 00:01:21,189 Speaker 3: I We're excited, Jacob. We are We've been waiting a 27 00:01:21,189 --> 00:01:21,909 Speaker 3: whole week for this. 28 00:01:22,029 --> 00:01:24,309 Speaker 1: I've been thinking about it, can't stop thinking about it, 29 00:01:24,349 --> 00:01:25,389 Speaker 1: can't stop Jacob. 30 00:01:25,509 --> 00:01:29,589 Speaker 3: So, Jacob, has there been a development? 31 00:01:30,269 --> 00:01:33,869 Speaker 4: So I decided to take some courage and I went 32 00:01:33,949 --> 00:01:35,629 Speaker 4: up to the office space and asked her if she 33 00:01:35,669 --> 00:01:36,789 Speaker 4: walked over for dinner one night? 34 00:01:37,429 --> 00:01:42,109 Speaker 3: Whoa, Jacob, Yes, whoa? 35 00:01:42,429 --> 00:01:45,749 Speaker 2: Yes, you did in the office, straight up to it 36 00:01:46,029 --> 00:01:46,429 Speaker 2: like in it. 37 00:01:47,189 --> 00:01:48,909 Speaker 4: Well, to be honest, it was no one else in 38 00:01:48,989 --> 00:01:50,549 Speaker 4: the room was the us, So it was a bit, 39 00:01:50,909 --> 00:01:51,669 Speaker 4: you know, a bit more. 40 00:01:52,669 --> 00:01:54,469 Speaker 3: You went straight How did you bring it up? 41 00:01:54,549 --> 00:01:54,749 Speaker 1: Yeah? 42 00:01:54,789 --> 00:01:55,269 Speaker 3: Did you? 43 00:01:55,309 --> 00:01:57,189 Speaker 1: Did you like bring up something to do with work? 44 00:01:57,229 --> 00:01:58,829 Speaker 1: And then like weaving it was. 45 00:01:59,069 --> 00:02:01,789 Speaker 4: It was later in the day, everyone just finished off 46 00:02:01,829 --> 00:02:03,749 Speaker 4: and she was by herself. So I decided to pop 47 00:02:03,789 --> 00:02:07,069 Speaker 4: in obviously, start some small small talk, so iry see 48 00:02:07,069 --> 00:02:09,269 Speaker 4: how our day was going and everything. I said, Hey, 49 00:02:09,269 --> 00:02:10,709 Speaker 4: would you be afraid to go for lunch later? And 50 00:02:10,709 --> 00:02:12,349 Speaker 4: she said yeah, definitely? Whoa? 51 00:02:14,189 --> 00:02:15,229 Speaker 3: So she said yes. 52 00:02:15,349 --> 00:02:17,349 Speaker 1: It was received well, she said, and we were one 53 00:02:17,389 --> 00:02:19,189 Speaker 1: hundred percent sure that she knew this. 54 00:02:19,189 --> 00:02:21,709 Speaker 3: This was not a business lunch. This was like a social, 55 00:02:22,149 --> 00:02:28,668 Speaker 3: romantic lunch. Yeah, holy tuly wow. Obviously we all want 56 00:02:28,669 --> 00:02:30,988 Speaker 3: to know how that lunch. 57 00:02:31,349 --> 00:02:35,149 Speaker 1: Went and she said, yes, she was keen, so she 58 00:02:35,389 --> 00:02:36,949 Speaker 1: was keen to go to lunch with you. 59 00:02:37,149 --> 00:02:38,789 Speaker 3: We all want to know you had the. 60 00:02:38,829 --> 00:02:40,629 Speaker 4: Lunch, Jacob, Yeah, we had. 61 00:02:40,669 --> 00:02:43,149 Speaker 3: Okay, Holy Molly, Okay. 62 00:02:43,389 --> 00:02:45,829 Speaker 4: Yeah, she happily agreed, and we are We went to 63 00:02:45,909 --> 00:02:48,229 Speaker 4: the lunch, had a really good lunch, great chat. 64 00:02:48,469 --> 00:02:51,469 Speaker 1: WOA, just just on the on the chat was it 65 00:02:51,549 --> 00:02:53,869 Speaker 1: was it kind of all work chat, you know. 66 00:02:54,509 --> 00:02:57,549 Speaker 4: So obviously it's our first mini outside of work. It 67 00:02:57,709 --> 00:02:59,749 Speaker 4: might it was a little bit work late, just asking 68 00:02:59,749 --> 00:03:01,589 Speaker 4: me how she got into her position, asked me a 69 00:03:01,629 --> 00:03:04,349 Speaker 4: bit about her history, right, just small talk. 70 00:03:04,669 --> 00:03:07,389 Speaker 1: Great, but were you feeling were you feeling tension there? 71 00:03:07,389 --> 00:03:08,709 Speaker 1: Were you feeling a little bit? 72 00:03:09,029 --> 00:03:12,189 Speaker 4: Definitely felt the tension, especially with her. She was very happy. 73 00:03:12,229 --> 00:03:16,229 Speaker 4: She was actually really good to us. And there was 74 00:03:16,269 --> 00:03:18,508 Speaker 4: a conversation about a dinner taking place. 75 00:03:18,789 --> 00:03:22,189 Speaker 1: WHOA, Okay, So you kind of just keep it pretty 76 00:03:22,189 --> 00:03:24,789 Speaker 1: business and casual over lunch and then you get to 77 00:03:24,829 --> 00:03:28,949 Speaker 1: the at the end of the lunch, Jacob. 78 00:03:28,789 --> 00:03:33,149 Speaker 4: And we organized a dinner in the city at night 79 00:03:33,229 --> 00:03:33,749 Speaker 4: Friday night. 80 00:03:33,789 --> 00:03:35,789 Speaker 2: Wait, Jacob, j what was what was the what was 81 00:03:35,789 --> 00:03:38,269 Speaker 2: the farewell at the lunch? Like we are you looking 82 00:03:38,309 --> 00:03:39,429 Speaker 2: for a kiss there or. 83 00:03:39,789 --> 00:03:41,869 Speaker 4: Well, to be honest, she didn't give me a kiss 84 00:03:41,869 --> 00:03:42,669 Speaker 4: on the cheeks, So. 85 00:03:44,149 --> 00:03:46,829 Speaker 3: You say cheeks, he double kissed you. She went like 86 00:03:46,869 --> 00:03:48,029 Speaker 3: the Italian. 87 00:03:49,669 --> 00:03:51,149 Speaker 4: And then she's like, thank you so much. I had 88 00:03:51,189 --> 00:03:53,149 Speaker 4: a really good time. And then she even texted me 89 00:03:53,549 --> 00:03:56,029 Speaker 4: saying that she had a really good time, thank you 90 00:03:56,309 --> 00:03:56,789 Speaker 4: X with the. 91 00:03:56,949 --> 00:04:02,309 Speaker 3: X X exit. Is this still on her work phone 92 00:04:02,389 --> 00:04:03,789 Speaker 3: or is this like now her person. 93 00:04:03,789 --> 00:04:05,909 Speaker 4: We've actually got each other's numbers now. 94 00:04:05,829 --> 00:04:09,509 Speaker 3: So whoa and so have you? When did lunch happened? 95 00:04:09,629 --> 00:04:11,349 Speaker 4: This happened on Tuesday? 96 00:04:11,589 --> 00:04:12,509 Speaker 3: Who paid for lunch? 97 00:04:12,909 --> 00:04:13,309 Speaker 4: I paid? 98 00:04:13,389 --> 00:04:17,269 Speaker 3: I paid Jacob the CEO. She's minted. 99 00:04:17,949 --> 00:04:20,149 Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll just you will see how the dinner goes. 100 00:04:20,269 --> 00:04:26,189 Speaker 2: Yeah, and Jacob, sorry, get the end. 101 00:04:26,509 --> 00:04:29,109 Speaker 1: So Tuesday, Tuesday, you have lunch. Has there been any 102 00:04:29,149 --> 00:04:32,388 Speaker 1: text correspondent, like any more texting outside of her saying 103 00:04:32,429 --> 00:04:33,149 Speaker 1: she had a good time? 104 00:04:33,869 --> 00:04:36,829 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, there's like texting back and forth, how the 105 00:04:36,909 --> 00:04:39,069 Speaker 4: day is going out, night and everything like that, and 106 00:04:39,629 --> 00:04:41,589 Speaker 4: of cheeky like oh I told her I went to 107 00:04:41,629 --> 00:04:43,948 Speaker 4: the gym. She asked me to send her a photo? 108 00:04:44,988 --> 00:04:47,308 Speaker 3: Did you, Jacob? Did you? Did you send her a photo? 109 00:04:47,709 --> 00:04:49,509 Speaker 4: Just like a pump photo just like you know in 110 00:04:49,549 --> 00:04:49,988 Speaker 4: the mirror. 111 00:04:51,189 --> 00:04:53,909 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so I've never said. 112 00:04:57,189 --> 00:04:59,029 Speaker 4: You obviously you hit the ways and then you have 113 00:04:59,029 --> 00:05:01,428 Speaker 4: a bit of a pump like from your bicyle, and 114 00:05:01,469 --> 00:05:03,069 Speaker 4: then you take a photo on the mirror. And then 115 00:05:03,149 --> 00:05:04,789 Speaker 4: she just hided and she said, you look at her 116 00:05:04,789 --> 00:05:06,268 Speaker 4: an ice x looking forward to dinner? 117 00:05:07,909 --> 00:05:09,628 Speaker 3: What did you sorry? Are you wearing in the in 118 00:05:09,669 --> 00:05:11,509 Speaker 3: the in the pump like a singlet? 119 00:05:11,789 --> 00:05:12,428 Speaker 4: Just like a single? 120 00:05:13,829 --> 00:05:14,828 Speaker 3: How many? How many shots? 121 00:05:15,029 --> 00:05:16,909 Speaker 1: How many shots did you take before you send that 122 00:05:16,909 --> 00:05:18,509 Speaker 1: one where they're multiple shots? 123 00:05:19,549 --> 00:05:22,109 Speaker 4: Probably are good? Four? 124 00:05:22,269 --> 00:05:25,269 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I slid for recently. What are you going 125 00:05:25,309 --> 00:05:25,988 Speaker 3: to wear to dinner? 126 00:05:26,669 --> 00:05:28,709 Speaker 4: That's I'm going to have to I reckon dress up. 127 00:05:28,749 --> 00:05:30,429 Speaker 4: We're a nice white polo. 128 00:05:30,269 --> 00:05:35,109 Speaker 2: Some thinking good, Hey, Jake, does she know that this 129 00:05:35,189 --> 00:05:35,829 Speaker 2: is on the radio? 130 00:05:36,269 --> 00:05:37,308 Speaker 4: No, she actually doesn't know. 131 00:05:37,469 --> 00:05:39,629 Speaker 2: Okay, no idea, So maybe we'll keep that between us. 132 00:05:39,909 --> 00:05:41,428 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, okay, cool. 133 00:05:41,789 --> 00:05:43,669 Speaker 1: So you've chosen the dinner place or is she chosen 134 00:05:43,709 --> 00:05:45,749 Speaker 1: the dinner place? Don't tell us where, but has been 135 00:05:45,829 --> 00:05:46,188 Speaker 1: locked in. 136 00:05:46,389 --> 00:05:49,069 Speaker 4: So yeah, I organized the dinner because I thought it'd 137 00:05:49,069 --> 00:05:51,988 Speaker 4: be a right thing to do, and she's very happy 138 00:05:51,988 --> 00:05:54,109 Speaker 4: with the venues. So it's located in the city, so 139 00:05:54,109 --> 00:05:54,748 Speaker 4: it'd be good you. 140 00:05:54,789 --> 00:05:56,109 Speaker 3: Go to pick her up. You're gonna you're gonna go 141 00:05:56,149 --> 00:05:56,629 Speaker 3: and pick her. 142 00:05:56,589 --> 00:06:00,109 Speaker 4: Up from her place, actually, so whoah good. 143 00:05:59,988 --> 00:06:03,509 Speaker 3: Yeah, brilliant. But you are picking her up from yeah, 144 00:06:03,669 --> 00:06:05,469 Speaker 3: old school, you're a gentleman, Jacob. 145 00:06:05,469 --> 00:06:07,229 Speaker 4: I'll pass her and pick her up in my own car. 146 00:06:07,349 --> 00:06:08,829 Speaker 4: I'll probably get a detail tonight. 147 00:06:10,829 --> 00:06:11,909 Speaker 3: Good man, Jacob. 148 00:06:11,988 --> 00:06:14,629 Speaker 1: The other thing, and this is super important, obviously, are 149 00:06:14,669 --> 00:06:17,629 Speaker 1: you keen to come on the radio on Monday and 150 00:06:17,669 --> 00:06:18,709 Speaker 1: tell us how the dinner went? 151 00:06:18,869 --> 00:06:20,589 Speaker 4: One hundred percent? Yeah, I'll let you guys know. 152 00:06:20,988 --> 00:06:22,308 Speaker 3: And what are your hopes for the dinner? 153 00:06:22,389 --> 00:06:22,749 Speaker 4: Jacob? 154 00:06:23,749 --> 00:06:25,669 Speaker 3: Where do you where do you hope it lands? What's 155 00:06:25,709 --> 00:06:26,469 Speaker 3: your expectation? 156 00:06:28,189 --> 00:06:30,429 Speaker 4: You never know what can happen, right, So I'm going 157 00:06:30,469 --> 00:06:32,868 Speaker 4: to go with the flow. And if she aims for 158 00:06:32,909 --> 00:06:35,749 Speaker 4: a snyary, we'll go there. But if not, we'll take it. 159 00:06:35,749 --> 00:06:37,749 Speaker 3: We'll take it unbelievable. So do you want to do 160 00:06:37,789 --> 00:06:39,269 Speaker 3: you want to date to a long term? Jacob? 161 00:06:39,709 --> 00:06:42,669 Speaker 4: You never know, you know, love is obviously, the ag 162 00:06:42,789 --> 00:06:44,589 Speaker 4: is an age gap. You never know how love works. 163 00:06:44,949 --> 00:06:47,789 Speaker 4: Maybe it might be a summer fleeing or whatever it is. 164 00:06:47,829 --> 00:06:52,549 Speaker 4: But let's enjoy at the moment. Jacob Monday, Let's talk 165 00:06:53,029 --> 00:06:56,109 Speaker 4: Monday is a business business call, one hundred percent. I 166 00:06:56,269 --> 00:06:59,069 Speaker 4: like my friend, wash your car wash your car wash, 167 00:06:59,109 --> 00:07:00,549 Speaker 4: your car