1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: Christline empowered by the iHeart app from ninety six AIRVM 2 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: to whenever You're listening today, This is Lisa and Russell's podcast. 3 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: Coming up on the podcast, the WAFILM industry is booming 4 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 2: and looking for more Perth homes to be used for 5 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: upcoming productions, so we chat to Gabrielle Cole from Screen 6 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 2: West about what they're specifically looking for, how people are compensated, 7 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 2: and how you can get involved. 8 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 3: We take calls on your sleep issues off the back 9 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 3: of a story about the rise of separate bedrooms for couples, 10 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 3: and even talk to a sleep expert, doctor Melissa Ree 11 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 3: about it. 12 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 2: Taiku Watiti is making a musical about the fire Festival. 13 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 3: What a Disaster, And we do another segment of dad 14 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 3: Chat with Adrian Barratch and after committing to learning golf 15 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 3: and Spanish, we discuss what do we do next. We've 16 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 3: set ourselves a bit of a goal. Yeah, to achieve 17 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 3: something by the end of this year, which is not 18 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 3: that funny. 19 00:00:58,520 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 4: Give me a full sentence yet. 20 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 3: Full sentence in English? 21 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 4: No, it's Spanish. 22 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 3: Well you got the where is the toilet? I think 23 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 3: you've got to lay on the accent a little bit thick, 24 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 3: so that I understand. But you're doing gold. 25 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, And yesterday afternoon it's getting real. I went, I 26 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: went and bought some golf gloves. I went to the 27 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 2: golf box in Osborne Park. It's a very big shop. No, 28 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: I've only ever walked past it and it's huge inside. 29 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 3: No balls, no clubs yet, but we've got the gloves. 30 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: No. 31 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 2: Well, I'm only going to the driving range at this stage, 32 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: which I am doing again tomorrow afternoon. And yeah, so 33 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: they provide the balls inferior as they are, but apparently. 34 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 3: No, don't blame the tools. Don't blame the tools. 35 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 4: And okay, borrowing a couple of clubs and. 36 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: Are going to have a whack, Yeah, and hopefully hold 37 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: on to the club, take the ball. 38 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: Travel and then the club and the ball, and then 39 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 2: I reckon some mini golf to practice putting will be 40 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: the next thing. Oh, probably first of all, cute outfit, 41 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 2: because I love an argyle vest checkered pants Does that clash. 42 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 4: With the diamonds of an argyle vest? Or is that okay? 43 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 4: And which back pocket do you hang your glove out of? 44 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 4: Is it your right or your left? 45 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,399 Speaker 2: Does it depend on whether your right or left hand 46 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 2: or do you get three gloves and hang one glove 47 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 2: out of your pocket and have two for your hands? 48 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 4: So much to learn. 49 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 3: In case you're ambidextros. Yes, all right, so you're you're 50 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 3: well underway. 51 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 4: I've got it. 52 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,839 Speaker 3: I've got some catching up to do. I've been told 53 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 3: that I should log on and get duelingo? 54 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 4: Is that jewel Leaper's. 55 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 3: Yeah? Duo lingo, duo lingo. But I've heard, okay, I've 56 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 3: heard that it gets really cranky with you if you 57 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 3: don't do your homework. 58 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 4: Does it swear to you in Spanish? 59 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 3: I don't know. It just like takes over you. Apparently 60 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 3: it has a very stern tone, very stern tone. Okay, 61 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 3: so there you go. That'll be motivation for me, so 62 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 3: that that will help me. That will help me. Supposedly, 63 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 3: I've got to go and get a Spanish phrase book. 64 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a suggestion. 65 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 2: Yes, we interview Miguel my strip about anything, because he 66 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 2: is just the best fun to talk to. 67 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 4: But I cannot understand half of what he says. I 68 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 4: love talking to him. He'd helped me, but only every 69 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 4: third word. 70 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, he'd helped me. 71 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's energetic, Yeah, energetic. If only he had come 72 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 4: out of his shell a bit. 73 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 3: I did write down something this morning, one of this, 74 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 3: Senorita Lisa Shaw. 75 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 4: Good morning to you too, thank you? Was it good 76 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 4: morning or good day? 77 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 3: Well? Thank you us. 78 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 4: It sounds like day, isn't it? Good day? 79 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 3: Good day to you too, sir, Thank you, and hopefully 80 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 3: we will expand on it from there. 81 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 4: Around nine holes. Learn that from me. 82 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 5: Ourselves. 83 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 2: We're giving ourselves a you know, a time to work 84 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 2: to end of the year. 85 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 3: I guess maybe I should start with some phrases. Maybe 86 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 3: I should start with the Spanish kids books, Dora the Explorer. 87 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 4: Something said on our text yesterday their kids let from Dora. Okay, yeah, 88 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 4: all right, we set the end of the years as 89 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 4: the goal. 90 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 2: Okay, you order off the Spanish restaurant menu for all 91 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 2: of us, and we will then have a game of around. 92 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 4: I beg your pardon, a round of golf? 93 00:04:51,760 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 3: Yes, how many holes? I don't know. I'll work that out. 94 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 3: Ah yeah, i'd so. I have to learn account to. 95 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 4: Your home may be your castle, but could it be 96 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 4: a film set? 97 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 3: Could be in a movie too. 98 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 2: Residential properties, from mid century homes to mansions, shacks, farmhouses, 99 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: and apartments are in hot demand as film locations as 100 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: the level of TV and movie production grows in way, 101 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:27,119 Speaker 2: So we thought we'd get Gabrielle Cole, who's the Screen 102 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 2: West acting head of Industry Development, on this morning. 103 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 4: To talk about what they're after home. Gabrielle, whether we 104 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 4: have it, good morning morning. 105 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 2: You know you often think about I wonder if I 106 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 2: could be in the movie. I wonder if I could 107 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 2: even at least be an extra. But you don't necessarily 108 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: immediately think of your house. But this is something that's 109 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: very much in demand. Tell us what Screen West is 110 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 2: looking for. 111 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 6: It's very true. We are looking for everything, is the 112 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 6: short answer you'll get out for. You know, those tiny 113 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 6: little shacks all the way up to be to full 114 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 6: mansion estates and everything in between. 115 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 3: Especially from a certain era. So there's still a lot 116 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 3: of great sixties homes around Perth especially, Yeah, some of 117 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 3: like some famous ones up around Floria and places like 118 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 3: that that I just made for a movie set in 119 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:18,679 Speaker 3: that period of time. 120 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 6: Absolutely, and we are always trying to find those hidden gems. 121 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 6: We know that they're out there, but finding them is 122 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 6: trickier on Google than you think it might be. 123 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 2: Well, I have heard stories about people coming home and 124 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 2: finding like a leaflet in their letterbox saying, you know, 125 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 2: this is the deal and could we talk about using 126 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 2: your house? And they've thought it was a bit of 127 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: a you know, a stitch up until they talk to 128 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: you and find out that you do indeed want them. 129 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 2: Is there a way people can put forward their homes 130 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:48,119 Speaker 2: to you. 131 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 6: There is screenless host the locations gallery on our website. Yeah, 132 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 6: creamless dot com, dotter you people can list their houses, 133 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 6: any properties really that they have that might be of interest. 134 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 6: You can jump on and have a look. We've got 135 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 6: up hundreds of different categories and so our wonderful team 136 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 6: here review them all and then we use that to 137 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 6: attract projects to the state. 138 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 4: It's like Tinder for your house. 139 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 3: Gabrielle, this is this is the this is the movie industry. 140 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 3: So let's let's talk contracts here for the house. I'm 141 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 3: talking what are we talking? Are we talking money? Are 142 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 3: we talking at least tickets to the premiere? It's gonna 143 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 3: be hard to get the house there, but credits? Threddits, 144 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 3: what's the compensation? 145 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 6: We say, it is all negotiable and it does depend 146 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 6: on what they want to do with your property. So 147 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 6: anything from you know, it could be half a day, 148 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 6: it could be a couple of months, depending on what 149 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 6: they're going to do, will depend on the fee and 150 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 6: the size and scale of the property. But we always say, 151 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 6: let us know what you're kind of hoping for, and 152 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 6: then production we'll see what they can do. 153 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 3: If you're looking to get your house renovated, so you're 154 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 3: happy for a couple of explosions or to get it 155 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 3: knocked out, you know. 156 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 4: It could be could be a good, good, good way 157 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 4: to do it. 158 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 6: You might get some all painted at the very least. 159 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,119 Speaker 4: All right, Well, yeah, I did read a story about 160 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 4: a couple. 161 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 2: I think their house in Hamilton Hill was used for 162 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: Invisible Boys, maybe the Invisible Boys, and they they moved 163 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: out for a couple of days. 164 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 4: The movie people moved in. 165 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 2: They did paint a room, but when this couple came back, 166 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 2: it was all returned to exactly how it was, like 167 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 2: they hadn't even been there. 168 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 3: Wow, they might. 169 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 5: Liked it, apartment. 170 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 6: It is very clever got it all back. 171 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, amazing. So the film studios opening next year in Malaga, 172 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 2: that's going to up the demand even more. 173 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 3: That's exciting. 174 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 4: It's very exciting. It's such an exciting time to be 175 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 4: at Screen West. It is. 176 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 6: It's a really wonderful time to be at Screen West. 177 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 6: And we're already seeing so much more interest come into 178 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 6: the state as a result of the studios just being built. 179 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 6: So once they openly expect that to kind of increase 180 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 6: even more, which is so exciting for the local industry. 181 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 3: It's been a long time coming because we've been promised 182 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: this food. Yeah, I think it's a decade it is. 183 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 7: It is, it is. 184 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 6: How'd that say it's seen at least twenty years? It 185 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 6: sounds like maybe more. Yeah, but it's really exciting. And 186 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 6: you know, they announced the build I think maybe four 187 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 6: or five years ago. So the fact that the doors 188 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 6: will open and you can go past it now and 189 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 6: see that it's there, and it's yeah, yeah, very exciting. 190 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 2: Well, they say if you build it, they will come, 191 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 2: but they were already coming because you know, movie makers 192 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 2: are realizing we have such well I always talk about 193 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 2: the light we have. We have light that's just beautiful 194 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 2: for filming in this state, and it's become a really 195 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: do you think it's also partly because the people are 196 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 2: good to work with. 197 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,199 Speaker 6: Yeah, the feedback we always get on our cruise is 198 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 6: that they have the friendliest and the hardest working cruise 199 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 6: in Australia. 200 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 8: So people, yeah, all right, well so again, if you're 201 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 8: interested in having your home on the big screen at 202 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 8: least yeah maybe you two if you stand in the 203 00:09:58,640 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 8: right spot. 204 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 3: How can people who are interested get in touch? 205 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 6: So reach out to us at screenss dot com, dot 206 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 6: a you. We have a locations gallery and you can 207 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,199 Speaker 6: submit your property on there. If you have any troubles, 208 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 6: you can always call the team, the production attraction team 209 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 6: at screen West. 210 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 4: That sounds great, that's that's easy to remember. 211 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 2: Screenwas dot com dot you that's your starting point and 212 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 2: who knows. It's fun anyway, what a fun experience. Gabrielle, 213 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: thank you so much for chatting with us. 214 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 6: Thank you so much having me. 215 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 3: You're welcome, Thank you and good luck with the yes 216 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 3: house hunting and with the opening of the studios. Bye 217 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 3: bye bye. Yeah, there you go. It's the new Hollywood. 218 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 4: It's it is weird. 219 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 3: I don't think there's that many movies made anymore in 220 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 3: the in the Hills, so we could very well become 221 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 3: the new Hollywood. So there you go. If you think 222 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 3: your house is up for its for its close up 223 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 3: on the big screen screen West dot com dot Au 224 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 3: and and just take it from. 225 00:10:56,720 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 5: There Lisa more Russell podcast Soon. 226 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 2: Sleep issues that can be just debilitating. I can and 227 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 2: I read some research this week that separate beds can 228 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 2: lead to better sleep by eliminating disturbances of your partner 229 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 2: like snoring, restlessness, and different sleep schedules, allowing each person 230 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 2: to customize their sleep environment. 231 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 4: But there's such a. 232 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 2: People get all worried that it means well, I don't 233 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 2: like you. No, it's it's it's It can be very sensible. 234 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 2: The research says it is important to communicate openly with 235 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: your partner about why you are choosing separate beds. Don't 236 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 2: just you know, have them come home to find their 237 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 2: doners in the other room to ensure it isn't. 238 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 4: A symptom of other issues. 239 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: But the benefits of sleeping separately include reduced disturbance from 240 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:51,959 Speaker 2: snoring and restless sleep or movement, customized environment. You can 241 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 2: set your ideal room temperature, you're not dealing with the 242 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 2: you know, the temperature needs of someone else, and it 243 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 2: can also lead to better objective sleep quality and longer 244 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:02,719 Speaker 2: sleep duration. 245 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 3: These are probably affecting older couples more than younger couples. 246 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know. I mean that you can. Snoring 247 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 4: can be a. 248 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 2: Killer of sleep at any age. You know people that 249 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 2: just constantly just wriggle around all over the place, or 250 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 2: ones that you know, run hot or cold compared to 251 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:21,679 Speaker 2: how you do. 252 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 3: Maybe that's why it was so common in old movies 253 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 3: and TV shows. They it was always separate people. 254 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 4: Well was the were Carolyn Mike Brady the first I 255 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 4: think to shack it up? 256 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 3: I think they were. They broke new ground. It was 257 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 3: very very controversial. 258 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 4: It was very controversial, very controversial. 259 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 3: But extra bedrooms are apparently becoming more frequent by a request. 260 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 3: People are looking really for this. 261 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 4: So I like my own bathroom, that's for sure. 262 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 2: Well, yes, I think separate bathrooms sleep, I mean are 263 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: very you know. 264 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 3: Extra bathrooms and now extra bedrooms as well. So I look, 265 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 3: what in your house? Not your house, Lisa, No, in 266 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 3: your house? Yeah, what's the what's the sleeping issue? 267 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 2: What's the sleep issue in your house? And how do 268 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 2: you deal with it? Tomara in Swan Valley on the 269 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 2: text said October will be our twentieth wedding anniversary, and we've. 270 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 4: Never shared a room. 271 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 2: Never because we talked about the benefits of not actually 272 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 2: sharing a room. 273 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 4: Not even trying, never shared a room. 274 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 2: Hubby leaves for work at four am, no reason for 275 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 2: both of us to be awake from four am, and 276 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 2: so I, you know, I get to have an always 277 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 2: feminine room and his room is masculine and it works perfect. 278 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 2: I guess they have posters on the wall. They have 279 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 2: a little you know, color scheme, different color schemes, no dates, 280 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 2: calor schemes. 281 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 4: You sure I'm thinking of little you know? 282 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 2: I'll meet you in the okay, by the linen press, 283 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 2: not in the linen press. 284 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 4: No hang around tomorrow. I'm sorry, okay, but I think 285 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 4: I think going. I don't know you'd. 286 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 3: Lost talking about tomorrow's tomorrow has texted back. No need 287 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 3: to apologize, least a date night comment. Very very funny, 288 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 3: and I have been asked if I wanted to call taxi. 289 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 2: Darren import Kennedy says the sleep issue at his house 290 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 2: are the two fifty kilo dogs that think their lapdogs 291 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 2: and its sleeping on our bed. 292 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 4: And they both. 293 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 3: Snore, but they're a little hard to kick out. 294 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 4: Well at fifty kilos a dog. Yes, they are let's 295 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 4: go to Claremont. Michael. 296 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 3: Good morning, morning, Michael. Good Well, well are you well rested? 297 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 3: Oh he's gone. Oh Michael, speak closer. 298 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 5: To the phone. 299 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 3: There you go. 300 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 9: Okay, I'm still awake. I haven't been to bed yet. 301 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 4: Oh it's that bad, is it? 302 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 2: No? 303 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 9: No, what happened was I had a bit of a 304 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 9: sort of like a nap yesterday afternoon and as a result, 305 00:14:56,640 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 9: completely ruined my sleep patterns. This morning, I've been I've 306 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 9: been listening to music all my sort of thing, but 307 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 9: I'm actually beginning to feel a bit sleeping. But no, 308 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 9: it's all right. Actually, what what what I do with 309 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 9: my with with with the sleeping parents? With my ex 310 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 9: wife and I, we used to we used to sleep 311 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 9: in separate rooms. Yeah, but she had really bad, bad, 312 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 9: bad back problems and uh and apparently I snow that 313 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 9: didn't really help. So basically, the cut along story showed 314 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 9: the best way we resolved down sleeping parents is to 315 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 9: to go separate ways. And I actually started sleeping better. 316 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 4: So you're sleeping better since you got divorced. Okay, well that's. 317 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 3: That's an extreme action, but I guess. 318 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 4: That's what that happened to be. 319 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 2: And avoiding anan and app in the afternoon, I think 320 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 2: was the other thing I took from that. 321 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 4: Yes, thank you Michael and Michael Karen in. 322 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 10: One Hello, good morning, Hi, how are you going well? 323 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 3: Refreshed? Thanks? 324 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 10: Yeah, this is probout eight years ago. I was sent 325 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 10: off for allergy testing and I had to have a 326 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 10: sleep study done and they diagnosed me with sleep apnea 327 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 10: but also restless legs. So my husband and I decided, well, 328 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 10: we didn't decide. He suddenly decided to sleep in the 329 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 10: spare room and I couldn't work out why it was. 330 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 10: Eventually you said, oh, yeah, you just you just wriggled 331 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 10: like a worm. So, like you said before, it's really 332 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 10: important that you actually tell your partner why then moving 333 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 10: into the other room so that it can be quite upset, 334 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 10: just go. So I was like, okay, yeah, what's happening here? 335 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 10: But now it's it's menopause is just horrendous. 336 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 2: You got that the doners on the. 337 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 4: House and the next minute you're freezing cold. Yeah, but the. 338 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 10: Brain won't turn off. It's like you go and you 339 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 10: expect this relaxing sensation in your man. It's like, oh, 340 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 10: I should have done I should have done like no, no, no, no, 341 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 10: for me, it. 342 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 4: Was just the heat that yeah. 343 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 3: And see we're getting into that season now where one 344 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 3: might want the winter donner as still and the other 345 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 3: wants the summer donner. And so what do you do? 346 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 3: Do you have to donners and you have the the 347 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,360 Speaker 3: Berlin wall down the middle? I mean, what's no? 348 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 10: You have separate rooms? 349 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:31,719 Speaker 4: What if you don't have that sense? Thank you, Karen, 350 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:32,880 Speaker 4: thank you so much. 351 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 3: It would be the couch for me. We don't have 352 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 3: a spare room. 353 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well. 354 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 3: I can't put the kids in together that I've got 355 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 3: to bring the house down. And I think we'll. 356 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:48,160 Speaker 4: We're going to talk to a doctor next. 357 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're going to we're going to get hold of it. 358 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 4: Give you pick, We're going to go to the top. 359 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 2: We're going to go to an expert as Wepparently you're 360 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,199 Speaker 2: not putting much store in what I suggest. 361 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 3: No, no, let's let's hear from someone who actually knows 362 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 3: what they're talking about. Qualified went to university. I know 363 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 3: you did, but not about sleep. 364 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:22,120 Speaker 4: I know your pain, Anna, I really do. 365 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 3: All right, Sarah, speaking of donners. Sarah is on the 366 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 3: on the line from Eglington. What's your sleep issue? Have 367 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 3: you dealt with it? 368 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 7: Good morning guy. 369 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 6: Hello, I'm a bit of a riddler and I have 370 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 6: a bad bad and I'm talking and turning the night. 371 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 6: I like my feet sticking out of bed. 372 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 8: I'm like a rubbed up. 373 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 7: So we just decided we wanted to be in the 374 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 7: same room, the same bed. Yeah, so we bought speak 375 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 7: a bed and we've got two doners. 376 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 4: Oh so you went for the king size and your 377 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:55,880 Speaker 4: own donner. 378 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: And two stible doners. 379 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 8: Keep the all sizing right? 380 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 3: Yes, then worked really well. So I can pull away 381 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 3: on the blankets and it doesn't it doesn't affect him 382 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 3: at all. 383 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 2: I believe who hogged the covers has ruined many a 384 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 2: relationship in throughout history, and I think that this is 385 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 2: a very I think this is probably the best advice 386 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 2: we're going to. 387 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 4: Hear all day. 388 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 3: How did you go going into snooze explaining that to 389 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 3: the salespeople, going, look, we need this size, why do 390 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 3: you need to and then explaining the situation that would 391 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 3: have been a head scratcher. 392 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 7: We did have a bit of a giggle because we 393 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 7: have that actulutely on the bed and touched it out 394 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 7: because at first we've got too single dinners. 395 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 4: Oh no, no, Gray. 396 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 6: So now we've got so many boody Doers in the house. 397 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,400 Speaker 2: Do you have matching Doner covers though, so it looks 398 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 2: like one big Doner. 399 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 6: Oh my god. Absolutely. 400 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 7: And you've got to get to stripe flind on the way. 401 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 4: Oh, Sarah, that's that's genius. Thank you so much, Sarah. 402 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 4: Have a great day. 403 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're going to the top. We have 404 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 2: a sleep expert, doctor Melissa Ree. 405 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 3: Hello morning, Melissa, doctor. 406 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 7: Good morning. 407 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 2: Melissa is a sleep expert from Sleep Matters Insomnia Solutions. 408 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 2: What are the most common sleep issues you do see 409 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 2: in people? 410 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 6: Sleep? 411 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 7: Sleep issues are really common and they come in all 412 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 7: sorts of different shapes and sizes, but probably a couple 413 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 7: of the most common we see in the clinic would 414 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 7: be insomnia, which is where people are having trouble falling 415 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 7: asleep or staying asleep and feeling pretty rough during the day. 416 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 7: And we know that about thirty percent of Australian adults 417 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 7: have got symptoms of insomnia. We also work a lot 418 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 7: with people with bodyclock issues or Cicadian rhythms, the serpences, 419 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,879 Speaker 7: that's what we call it. So this could be shift 420 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 7: workers PIPO workers. It could be people that are sleeping 421 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 7: having trouble sleeping at the right time, and so it 422 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,719 Speaker 7: could be teenagers that at night howse can't get up 423 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:04,679 Speaker 7: on time in the morning. 424 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 4: It could be. 425 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 7: Adults that are falling asleep in front of the telling 426 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 7: at eight pm, but then they're kind of ready to 427 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 7: start their day at two or three am, which can 428 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 7: feel pretty unsociable for a lot of people. 429 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 3: Have you heard of this thing about people having separate 430 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 3: bedrooms and beds and are you noticing that on the 431 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 3: rise in your practice? 432 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,680 Speaker 7: Well, we certainly do see it, and I think as 433 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 7: awareness about sleep and it's importance, and people are prioritizing 434 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 7: their sleep health. More people are considering what they can 435 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,919 Speaker 7: do to really get their sleep health in better shape. 436 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,640 Speaker 7: And certainly because sleep can have such a big impact 437 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 7: on relationships. You know, we feel grumpy when we're not 438 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 7: well slept. We can feel resempful if there's one partner 439 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 7: others of the night, we do see people, you know, 440 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 7: really having to consider is a separate bed or a 441 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 7: separate doner or a separate bedroom even the right solution 442 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 7: for us? 443 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 4: Right? 444 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 2: So, where would you advise people, because I mean it 445 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 2: really is a serious thing. Where would you advise people 446 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 2: go to look for their solutions? Do they come to 447 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 2: see you? Is there somewhere they can look online? Is 448 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,400 Speaker 2: where's the starting point? 449 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 4: Oh? 450 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 7: Look, there's thankfully there's lots of great information. So for 451 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 7: general facts about sleep, I definitely recommended the Sleep Health Foundation, 452 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 7: hundreds of evidence based, expert written fact sheets. In terms 453 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 7: of treatment, absolutely, yeah, sleep matters. You know what, we're 454 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 7: dealing with poor sleepers and sleep disorders every day. But 455 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 7: of course people's GPS really important place to go. 456 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 4: I don't sort of laugh it off. It can be. 457 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 4: There are things that can be done. Doctor Melissay, thank 458 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:56,719 Speaker 4: you so much for joining us this morning. 459 00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 7: Absolute pleasure. 460 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 4: Thank you Health Foundation. There's your starting point. 461 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 3: Absolutely on the lines. So there's some help for sleeping. 462 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 1: More more of Lisa and Mussel's podcast. 463 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 5: It's on the way, So. 464 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 1: There's sure report on ninety six AIRFM. 465 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 2: And you've taken a horror classic is on the way. 466 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 2: Amazon MGM Studios has just announced a reimagining of the 467 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:33,439 Speaker 2: Amityville Horror. The team behind the Conjuring Last Rights has 468 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 2: written the script the original Amityville Horror, based on Jay 469 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 2: Anson's best selling book came out in nineteen seventy. 470 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 3: No remember it when I was a kid. Even the 471 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,679 Speaker 3: commercials freaked me at that house. 472 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 2: It starred James Browlan and Margo Kidder. It was remade 473 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 2: in two thousand and five with Ryan Reynolds. I didn't 474 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 2: even realize. 475 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 3: Remember the original. 476 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 2: The based on a true story story follows a family, 477 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,640 Speaker 2: the Luntz family, I think, who move into a seemingly 478 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 2: perfect house with the terrifying past. There was a real 479 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 2: family and there was a real house, but over the 480 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: years there have been many questions over the legitimacy of 481 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 2: their tale. Director Tyker Waititi is developing a musical based 482 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:20,679 Speaker 2: on Billy McFarland's infamous fire Festival. My favorite abomination of 483 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 2: recent times the documentary. 484 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:27,160 Speaker 3: The documentary is brilliant, even if you would never go 485 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 3: to one of these things, which I never would. 486 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 4: Absolutely brilliant. 487 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 10: It's just. 488 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 4: You can't. You can't write this stuff. If you didn't 489 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 4: know it was real, you'd never believe that anyway. 490 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 3: Madam Woodstock ninety nine. They're the two awful that you 491 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 3: have to watch. 492 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,679 Speaker 2: Why Titty's wife singer reader Or is going to produce 493 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,199 Speaker 2: the show The tagline for it reads, not just a 494 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 2: Greek sized tragedy of one man's con, It's a satirical 495 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 2: indictment of an entire generation. 496 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,919 Speaker 4: Firefest the musical it's about as wrong. It's a bad idea. 497 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 4: Can go look forward to that. 498 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 2: We've been talking this week about the importance of trying 499 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 2: new things. 500 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 4: I'm taking up golf for us as, going to learn Spanish. 501 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 2: And today I read that Kelly Osbourne has found a 502 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 2: new hobby that's helping her cope with the death of Ozzie, 503 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 2: her dad. 504 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 4: She's taken up falconry. 505 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 2: I don't think I'll do this sharing videos yeah, big birds, 506 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 2: Big birds are prey. Sharing videos of various birds taking 507 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 2: off and landing from her hand on her heavily gloved 508 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 2: hand on Instagram, Kelly wrote, in all of my sadness 509 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 2: and grief, I have found something that truly makes me happy. 510 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 2: I never thought I would find my smile again through falconry, 511 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 2: but I absolutely love being with the birds. 512 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,640 Speaker 3: The North American racing. 513 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 4: Little lighter homing pigeons. 514 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 2: The North American Falcon's Association calls falconry an ancient art, 515 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:50,119 Speaker 2: adding it's a very demanding endeavor, requiring a serious dedication 516 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 2: of time and energy. 517 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 3: From the falcon, a very big glove and a very. 518 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 2: Big glove, and friends of Prince Harry are saying Harry 519 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 2: wants back in back in London this week. The prodigal 520 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 2: son is longing to be embraced back to the Royal bosom. 521 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 2: He's homesick and apparently seeking reconciliation talks with the King. 522 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 2: No secret though that Harry has burnt bridges with thunderous regularity. 523 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 3: Wow. 524 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 4: And the Royal watchers with. 525 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,120 Speaker 2: Eyes on this say it's yet to be seen if 526 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 2: the King PA will meet with him. The cynics understandably 527 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 2: are saying there might be an element of calculation to this. 528 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 2: The Sussexes are beginning to feel the chill offending for 529 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 2: themselves as non royals, especially with Netflix not renewing the 530 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 2: lucrative contract they thought was going to see them set 531 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:34,199 Speaker 2: for life. 532 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 3: That fell in a heap, didn't it. Although I wonder 533 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 3: if just as a last ditch effort, they're following him 534 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 3: around with cameras at the moment, just to you know, 535 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:43,640 Speaker 3: be there if it pays off. 536 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I predict that eventually Harry will return to 537 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 2: the Royal Bosom as we're just but whether she's in 538 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 2: tow or not, remain. 539 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 3: The fairy tale may be over. 540 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 4: I don't think so. 541 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 3: Welcome morning. 542 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 5: I'm so excited. I'm so excited about you guys taking 543 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 5: on these new challenges, in particular at least with her golf. 544 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 5: I mean, talk about if you can't beat them, join them. 545 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 5: That is so good golf. I love golf. Will have 546 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 5: to get monster. 547 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 3: What's your handicap? 548 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 5: My one would is my hand No, I don't. I 549 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,360 Speaker 5: don't actually have an official handicap, but I would play off. 550 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 5: I suppose about twelve or fourteen or something. 551 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 4: But that's good, isn't it? 552 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 5: At Roy Wembley. Yeah, so I'm so proud of you 553 00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 5: because A you're you gonna have some lessons and stuff. 554 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope so. 555 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 3: Well it will help. 556 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 557 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 2: No, I've been to the driving range once. I'm going 558 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 2: again tomorrow. Yesterday I bought some gloves a glove the. 559 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 5: Only wear one glove. 560 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 4: I bought two. 561 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 3: The only wear always have a speak you, Michael Johnson. 562 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 5: The only wear one Michael Jackson's it won't be like 563 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 5: that one. 564 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 4: I think I will wear two. 565 00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 3: Really. 566 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 5: Okay, all right, now you've put me on this track, 567 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 5: because clearly there's a little bit of a gap in 568 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 5: her knowledge of golf. Do you think because she's going 569 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 5: to wear two golf gloves, but because the only you 570 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 5: wear are you right handed? Yes, so you wear only 571 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:16,359 Speaker 5: your left glove. 572 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 4: But I don't want to get any blisters my hand. 573 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 2: But the other day got beautiful head the other thank you. 574 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 2: The other day, after just hitting a few balls, my 575 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 2: hand hurt for about an. 576 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:26,439 Speaker 4: Hour and a half. 577 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 5: All right, now we know what a bogie is in 578 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 5: normal sense? 579 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 4: Picking your nose, black Humphrey. 580 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 5: Now I was seeing more picking, you know. Okay, do 581 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 5: you know what a bogie is in golf? 582 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 4: Is it? Is it? One under? 583 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 5: No? 584 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 3: The other way? 585 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 4: I mean, I mean one, that's it? 586 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, your partner, Your partner might be all right, what 587 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 5: do you do? What do you yell? If a shot 588 00:28:55,280 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 5: very good? If a shots heading towards someone's head, all right, 589 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 5: I'll give you. I'll give you options here. What's a 590 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 5: hole in one, a small tear in your pants midswing, 591 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 5: a free drink at the clubhouse when the ball goes 592 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 5: in the hole on the first shot, or a myth 593 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 5: like Bigfoot last one? 594 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 4: You know that one clearly a drink. 595 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 5: What's a mulligan? What about a mulligan mulligan? I'll give 596 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 5: you some options. A fancy Irish stew served at the clubhouse, 597 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 5: a do over after a bad shot, the guy who 598 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 5: invented golf, or what you call your ball after it 599 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 5: goes into the water. That mulligan mulligan is when someone 600 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 5: goes you've just clipped it and it's just only gone 601 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 5: a foot. You can have another show. It's mulligan. Call 602 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 5: it a mulligan. 603 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 3: So I've done a few of those. 604 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 5: And what is a handicap? A reason to quit my patience? 605 00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 5: A numerical rating of how skilled or unskilled you are, 606 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 5: or an excuse why you can't play old Scottish word 607 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 5: for please go easy on me. I'll tell you what 608 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 5: the above sport. Golf is the only sport where the 609 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 5: higher your handicap, the more you're allowed to suck. 610 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 3: You know what I mean. 611 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 5: It's the only sport where being bad actually helps, you, 612 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 5: know what I mean. So you'll probably play off thirty seven, 613 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 5: So basically you can take thirty seven shots off whatever 614 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,959 Speaker 5: whatever score you make. So you shoot one hundred and 615 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 5: twenty for eighteen, that would be all right day least 616 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 5: bagging at a lot of people. Only ten percent of 617 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 5: golfers shoot under one hundred on a regular basis. 618 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 2: Susan's just googled the glove situation and disappeared. 619 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 4: It is fine. It's a personal preference. 620 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 5: Two gloves. Yeah, well I've never seen. 621 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,560 Speaker 4: Two What you're going to now? 622 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 3: That's what her name is going to be on the 623 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 3: on the on the course, two gloves, shoe glove. 624 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 5: Short alright, bonus segment. Golf term or not? Dog leg? 625 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 5: Is that a golf term? Yes, it is, And it's 626 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 5: when the sort of when there's a bend in the yeah, 627 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 5: dog snap hook, yes, yeah? And what about a flop shot? 628 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 4: Is that where it goes in the water. 629 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 3: Sounds like it. 630 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 5: It's when you just SI hit. 631 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 4: It when you had too many beers on the course. 632 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 5: That's the nineteenth pile. You get there. And you've got 633 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 5: into in Spanish as well, what's that about? 634 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 3: I traveled and it's almost like it's something that I 635 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 3: wish I had have done. 636 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 5: Tappers, Yeah, and I don't. 637 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 3: I don't think watching reruns of forty Towers and taking 638 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 3: my Spanish lessons from Manuel are going to get me 639 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 3: over the line Freeo, Loco, that's a good one, Loco. 640 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 3: I know that's crazy when you go, that's crazy. 641 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 5: That's in September with the doors. 642 00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, Manyana, Yes, because yes, of course. 643 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 4: Get apish till we meet again. 644 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 3: Get all our Spanish from a Swedish group. Makes sense. 645 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 5: Absolutely, It's the most beautiful. 646 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 3: Language in worldful language. 647 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 5: I agree, it says here to learn it is to 648 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 5: open a door to love, passion and culture. 649 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 3: So what's going on at your well, I don't know. 650 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 3: I hadn't really thought of it in those terms, just 651 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 3: to hold the conversation. 652 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 5: And someone once told me learning a new language is 653 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 5: like getting a new soul. 654 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, it's actually very good for the brain. 655 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 5: Par romantic because it broadens you, doesn't it. 656 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 3: It's very good for the brain, gets all those unused 657 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 3: connectors back in action again. 658 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 5: Someone just text me and said what he really wants 659 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 5: to do is understand the menu at g Yguy's money. 660 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 3: I thought it was Guzman Why Gomez. 661 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, you haven't done enough lessons. 662 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 3: I've got a way to go, Dad chat with Russell 663 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 3: and Barrel. 664 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 4: Radio. We've got one on the text for you. 665 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 2: Chris from My Looka says you know, you were talking 666 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 2: about sleep issues before. So Dad's how did you handle 667 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 2: sleepless nights when your kids were babies? 668 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 5: That is a very good question question that affects so 669 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 5: many I know, And but to be honest, I would 670 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 5: get up and feed the bub if my wife was 671 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 5: expressing at the time, which is is a tricky thing. 672 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 3: You know what. We've both been there. Yeah, and you've 673 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 3: got to you've got to do that. You've got to 674 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 3: take turns. 675 00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, and so I would watch. 676 00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 4: That half your doing. 677 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, that is true. True, But I remember one time 678 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 5: because they brought that into it, at least they brought 679 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 5: the singing called controlled. 680 00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 4: Crying, control crying, yes. 681 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,719 Speaker 5: Which I thought was brutal. And so you have to 682 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 5: actually let the child, let the bub cry. And so 683 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 5: my wife kept going in and getting the bubs. She 684 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,759 Speaker 5: couldn't do it. So I actually got a chair and 685 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 5: sat in front of the of the doorway so she 686 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 5: wouldn't go in, right, And then after about twenty minutes 687 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,319 Speaker 5: I went in. I couldn't help it. 688 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,239 Speaker 3: I know, it's like that, It's impossible. 689 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I don't even know if it's a 690 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:26,160 Speaker 5: good thing they reckon it is they let them set 691 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 5: on themselves. 692 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 3: So I guess I've got to learn, don't they. Yeah, 693 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 3: but it's hard at the time. It's so hard at 694 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:32,040 Speaker 3: the time. 695 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 5: I've got it. I've got one tip for you, if 696 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 5: you are sitting up feeding the bub don't watch those 697 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 5: infomercials in the middle of the night so compelling. Yeah, 698 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 5: I definitely need that rowing machine, that much stuff. 699 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 4: Rowing, throwing them to sleep. 700 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,759 Speaker 3: All of a sudden, these things become absolutely fascinating. 701 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 5: My wife hit my credit card. 702 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 4: I need a nice that cuts through a shoe. Yes, 703 00:34:59,160 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 4: I'm true. 704 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:02,800 Speaker 5: Back in my old what was the what was the 705 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 5: fighter who came up with the barbecue? 706 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 3: You know, George? 707 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,400 Speaker 5: I needed one of them? How good are they are? 708 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 5: So good? 709 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 3: I actually had one? 710 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 5: What did you do with you? 711 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 3: I blame it on the kids, the woman. 712 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,400 Speaker 5: I'll save my chip up for next week, okay, because 713 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 5: we're a bit over, is that right? 714 00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 715 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 4: Well yeah, but we will. Well listen, you know what. 716 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 3: We want. 717 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 5: It's emotion. It evolves involves my daughter, Maddie. She's twenty one. 718 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 5: I've noticed now she sort of stays over at the 719 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,720 Speaker 5: boyfriend's house, a bit like his parents house. Actually, the truth, 720 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 5: which is another discussion, isn't it russ about? 721 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:49,279 Speaker 3: You know who sleeps there? 722 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 5: I'm not quite there yet, but I've bought this board 723 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,319 Speaker 5: that I'm going to put in the middle of the bed. 724 00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 3: One of those dads. 725 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 5: You can't get away with that now. But anyway, what 726 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 5: actually has happened is so she's not around as much. 727 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,360 Speaker 5: And now it's occurred to me now that when you 728 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 5: have kids from about twelve onwards, get ready for this rush. 729 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:16,400 Speaker 5: They're basically breaking up with you gradually and slowly. 730 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 3: Sometimes not so gradually, I know. 731 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 5: Bit by bit. Eventually you know, they get married and 732 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 5: shack up with someone else. But so my gift today 733 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:28,239 Speaker 5: to our listeners is the gift of awareness. Watch for 734 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 5: the last time you might be doing something with your kids, 735 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 5: The last time you hold their hand, carry them, walk 736 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 5: them to school, tuck them into bed, kiss them good night, 737 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,359 Speaker 5: stroke their heads so they fall asleep. You're a wise man, 738 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 5: an old man man, because ever so slowly they're breaking 739 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 5: up with us. It's terrible. Last time you pick them 740 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 5: up from school, you have a kick in the bar, 741 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 5: last time you cook for give me, last time they 742 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 5: listened to what you say. Notice those things. Treasure those moments. 743 00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 5: Because the little everyday things are so important. 744 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 3: This is why we couldn't hold it over to next week, 745 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 3: and we need to leave people with this. 746 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 5: They always come back to get petrol money, though, I 747 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 5: don't worry about that. 748 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 3: And you know what, I break up with you slowly 749 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 3: but not completely. How old is your youngest thirteen? 750 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, so this is the coolest you'll ever be. 751 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 3: No, no, that's it. 752 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 5: You are gone after that was finished already. 753 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 3: It's over, not cool anymore. It's over when you're not cool. 754 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 4: That was beautiful, barrel more that where that came from. 755 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 3: I think next week, I think we'll just leave it 756 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 9: On that Russell ninety six a FM