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Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. It's the podcast for.

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Speaker 2: The time poor parent who just answers.

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Speaker 1: Now. Before we began this podcast, I ask you to

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Speaker 1: make a list of all the things that you need

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Speaker 1: to do every day because there is so much to do.

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Speaker 1: You don't know where this is going yet, but can

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Speaker 1: you read out what's on your list?

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Speaker 2: Well, it starts with a reset of the house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, once the kids leave, right, which they don't leave

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Speaker 1: anymore because I'm schooling. So how's that reset going?

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Speaker 2: Putting everything back in its place so I can feel

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Speaker 2: like there's some order in my home. Ye, But there's

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Speaker 2: all the washing, the folding, the hanging out, the ironing.

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Speaker 2: There's meal prep and the dishes and tidy up that

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Speaker 2: come as a result of that. Breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

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Speaker 2: Food just never ends. There's taxing kids to and from school,

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Speaker 2: extracurricular activities, then trying to squeeze in all the errands

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Speaker 2: that are require I had to keep the house functioning.

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Speaker 2: And on top of all of that, I'd like to

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Speaker 2: have a little bit of time for me so I

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Speaker 2: can exercise and do a bit of self care. Yeah, okay, so.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to add to that. You've got to maintain

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Speaker 1: your relationships, like you actually want to have relationships with people,

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Speaker 1: which means being in touch with friends, whether it's on

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Speaker 1: messenger or Marco Polo or regardless of or actually having

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Speaker 1: an in person conversation and catch up with somebody. You

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Speaker 1: didn't mention the yard or the car.

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Speaker 2: Well, and then the service service plays a really big

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Speaker 2: part in our lives and that takes up significant amount

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Speaker 1: Oh and you still haven't mentioned there's the need to

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Speaker 1: earn an income. There's a need to sleep. Nobody mentioned sleep.

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Speaker 1: And we need to have time with our kids because remember,

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Speaker 1: we love them, and we want to spend time with

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Speaker 1: our children. That's why we had them. So the expansive

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Speaker 1: list of things that need to be done in a

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Speaker 1: day is just enormous. Today, our conversation is about creating

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Speaker 1: margin because I think one of the most commonly asked

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Speaker 1: supposed to do it all and still be a good parent? Like,

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Speaker 2: I think the problem is the question, we're not actually

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Speaker 2: supposed to do it all?

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Speaker 1: Well, wouldn't it be nice if we could. But that's it,

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Speaker 1: isn't it like we've got this thing out of here?

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Speaker 2: You can't do it all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I've always had the motto we should bot off

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Speaker 1: you would otherwise with a motto like that, but it

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Speaker 1: short does where you out it can be absolutely exhausting.

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Speaker 1: And so in today's conversation, we want to share with

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Speaker 1: you four tips that are going to make all the

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Speaker 1: difference when it comes to creating margin in an overscheduled,

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Speaker 1: over busy life. Some time ago, I shared on the

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Speaker 1: podcast the analogy of the washing machine for those who

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Speaker 1: missed it. When you were pregnant with one of our

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Speaker 1: to you after browsing the Harvey Norman catalog to see

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Speaker 2: Not only do you get a lousy result, but that

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't just happen with washing machines. It happens

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Speaker 1: Especially depends on what sort of food you're eating, But

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Speaker 1: whether it's the refrigerator or the washing machine or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And our lives and the lives of so many parents

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Speaker 1: that we talk to, are just stacked, stacked, so full,

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Speaker 1: so fo ideas that we think can make a difference

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Speaker 1: when you look at the list and think, I can't

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Speaker 1: We've already kind of touched on it, But the first

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Speaker 1: one which is getting tacked on to the top is acceptance.

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Speaker 1: Maybe your very best friend here when you accept that

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Speaker 1: your greatest enemy and causes the greatest frustration and leads

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Speaker 1: to the inner able to tolerate things when they're not right.

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Speaker 1: But when you accept that there is actually a limited

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Speaker 1: limited capacity, limited energy, limited focus, and limited resources, just

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Speaker 1: that acknowledgment may very well be the what is it

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Speaker 1: the thing that clicks in your brain that makes you

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Speaker 1: go okay? Since I can't do it all. Now, I

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Speaker 1: going to prioritize, which brings us to the second idea,

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Speaker 1: which was our first idea. That's now our second idea, but.

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Speaker 2: It's no less important. A few years ago, as we

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Speaker 2: all went through the pandemic and the struggle and challenge

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Speaker 2: that that was, we for the most part have recognized

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Speaker 2: the immense gift that it gave us in helping us

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Speaker 2: the things that were most important to create in many cases,

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Speaker 1: We're never going to go back to how busy we

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Speaker 1: were before the pandemic. We're going to use this panders

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Speaker 2: That next step is about recognizing what our priorities are,

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Speaker 2: then on top of that, recognizing that every decision we

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Speaker 2: make is a choice. Right, nobody's got a gun to

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Speaker 1: Just quickly on that. One of my favorite object lessons

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Speaker 1: recommend you jump onto YouTube and just type in Covey

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Speaker 1: CoV Ey, Covey Big Rocks. It's a four minute YouTube

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Speaker 1: clip where Stephen Covey is standing in front of an

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Speaker 1: big rocks have labels on them like family relationships, and

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Speaker 2: The green rocks is the list that I just gave you.

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Speaker 1: and that's kind of the point. So clarity in priorities,

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Speaker 1: is perfect here from poet and author and Dillard who said,

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Speaker 1: how we spend our days is of course how we

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Speaker 1: that one is what we are doing. A schedule defends

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Speaker 1: Schedules makes a difference. What's our second thing? Which is

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Speaker 2: You plus can number three is how can we outsource?

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Speaker 2: What things can we outsource? Is it that we organize

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Speaker 1: that another idea is to delegate stuff to the kids.

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Speaker 1: help to make your family happier. Happy Families Podcast, as

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Speaker 1: Always is produced by Justin Ruland from Bridge Media. Craig

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