1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Get a. I'm Laala Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter 2 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: and professional overshaer. This podcast is all about celebrating failure 3 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: because I believe it's a chance for us to learn, 4 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview 5 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as their lows, 6 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail. 7 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: Hello Boboo, Hello Booboo, Happy Birthday, Happy Australian. 8 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 2: Birthday, Happy birthday to you. Welcome to the Birthday Pod. 9 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for having me to you. 10 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: The listener. We have birthdays two days apart, same year. 11 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: You're the ox yep Virgos. Actually, our our moon and 12 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: rising is very different though, is it not very different? 13 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? 14 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: So what's your moon? 15 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 2: Answer? Yeah? And so water to water signs M and my. 16 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: No, no, I've got no pie saggy. So I'm Virgo 17 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: sun Virgo moon Sagie rising. So fire, oh fire, fire 18 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:21,759 Speaker 1: and whatever the house of career is, I'm Leo, oh. 19 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 2: Fire, firefire, And then Leo the little Lion. Yeah, do 20 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 2: you think that's what I am? Yeah, you're a little lion, 21 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 2: little lion. Yeah, I'll take that. 22 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do think it's interesting. I didn't intend 23 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: on talking about astrology. This is a birthday episode, Boss 24 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: and I just talk about our birthdays and the year 25 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: it was and what we're doing for it. Da da da. 26 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: But I do think it is fascinating that our moons 27 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: and risings are so opposing. One might say, like, my 28 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: rising is fire and you're rising is water. 29 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: Well, we we do have different personality, is you and I. 30 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 2: We have a lot of similarities, but we definitely have 31 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: some like you're more higher energy, I'm more low energy, 32 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 2: you know, keep going. Yeah, I think that you're you're 33 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 2: definitely probably like more driven, and I'm a little bit 34 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 2: more like, oh, let's just let's just go with it, 35 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 2: you know kind of thing. You're like now, now, now now, 36 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, let it happen. I don't know. 37 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 2: We're definitely like where we do, like we share the 38 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: same values and ideals and all those kinds of things. 39 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 2: And I think also the general virgo ness of us, 40 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 2: like being organized. You're exceptionally organized more than me, thank you. 41 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: But then you're very clean more than me, yeah, which 42 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: is a Virgo thing. 43 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think that that kind of plays more 44 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: into me where I need. What I need is safe home, 45 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: safe home, which is clean and stuff like that. And 46 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 2: that's also my love language. That you get to come 47 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 2: home to a clean house, you know. 48 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, sends me to work with meals prepped. Yes, 49 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: you do get meals prepped. But also like I work 50 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: from home every single day of the week. 51 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it does. It does allow you to have 52 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 2: more time in the day because you do meal prep no, no, 53 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 2: yeah for you, but also for me, like you know, 54 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 2: I don't. It would be different if I had to 55 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 2: get up, travel and get dressed, have a shower, travel 56 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: an hour to a place, and I probably will have 57 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 2: to eventually, But right now I get to work from home. 58 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: Lucky bugger. 59 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I reckon. Honestly, just working from home gives 60 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 2: me an extra like two hours a day for sure. 61 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: Maybe more time, Yeah, maybe more when you think about 62 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: also the mental capacity that is spent engaging with people 63 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: in a workplace. Yeah, like I feel like I lose 64 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: I work forty hours a week. 65 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I lose a lot of time. 66 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, although I have three days in a row off 67 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: boom for our birthdays. 68 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: Where if I don't want to talk twenty one, I 69 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 2: just don't answer my thing. 70 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: Well, I actually did. This is an interesting thing to 71 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 1: talk about. I did a lot of that yesterday. So 72 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: our phones were ringing quite a lot, or my phone 73 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: was ringing quite a lot, and I didn't answer a 74 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: lot of because on my other birthdays, I've regretted that 75 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: losing the day to like checking instant messages, and whereas 76 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: I'll spend a bit of time with doing a road 77 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: trip today, so you'll probably be driving. I'll be able 78 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: to catch up on all that stuff today. But I 79 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: didn't want to spend my whole day on my birthday 80 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: just answering like happy birthday messages exactly, even though I 81 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: love getting them, by the way, so thank you if 82 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: you sent one, but I try to do it the 83 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: next day. 84 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think the next day is good. 85 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: Well, means your present for your birthday totally. Do you 86 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: want to talk about what birthdays mean to us? Like, 87 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 1: so yesterday, what did I do all day? 88 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 2: Let's let's talk about you. Now, let's you know you've 89 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 2: had your birthday. You're a whole year older than me. Now, 90 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 2: oh you're the cougar, the other cougar. I think I 91 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 2: kind of forced you yesterday to stop. 92 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:22,239 Speaker 1: Yes, So we were meant to be going to Big 93 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: Bear and there's a massive line fire out there and 94 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 1: so it's not safe and the air quality is terrible. 95 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: And the cabin we booked was three miles away from 96 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: the fire, so it was fully evacuated. 97 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 2: So our for the Aussies that's about five k is it? Yeah, 98 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 2: I think it's like one point six. It's very close. 99 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: And like I was watching tiktoks of Big Bear and 100 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 1: the sky was just red. So our airbnb got canceled, 101 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: which is fine, and so we quickly just booked. Yesterday, 102 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: we got up in the morning, we booked O HI, 103 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: and then I just said, I think I just want 104 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: to plan out, like get clear and organized and do 105 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: some goal setting and all of that. And our friend 106 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: Daisy said, make short term, ambitious, scary goals, and so 107 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: I just planned out for the rest of Q four. 108 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 1: I know you think it's funny when I say Q four, 109 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 1: but like September, October, November, December. Yeah, And I said, 110 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 1: what about big goals, like where I want to be 111 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: a year, and you were like, no, just focus on 112 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: like these steps to getting you closer to the big goals, 113 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 1: because if they pay off, then you're going to be closer. 114 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 2: To the big goals. Yeah, exactly. 115 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: So that's that was what I spent a lot of 116 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: time doing. Essay. I also am living for a book 117 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: I'm reading right now which actually played into my Oh yes, 118 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: goal setting. Yes do you know why do you know 119 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: what I'm referring to? 120 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 2: Well? This has come at a bit of a six 121 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 2: years into our relationship. Has it been sixties? Yeah? That 122 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 2: you have decided to change houses? 123 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: Okay, but be real knowing me now, knowing that absolute 124 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: traits of who I am as a human being, which 125 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: house do I fit into? We were talking about Harry Potter? 126 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 2: But we don't about Harry Potter, right, So I'm I 127 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 2: was like, Brad Gryffindor, you still are, still are And 128 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 2: I'm like me and you little Gryffindor, Little Gryffindor. But 129 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 2: since reading what are you reading? Manacled Man called? 130 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: Which is a fan fiction, uh, spin off if Voldemort won? 131 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 2: Yep? 132 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: And so like Hogwarts is a prison yeah, and it's 133 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: the enemies to Lover's story of Hermione and Draco. 134 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, so what do you identify now as Slytherin? 135 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: But not for the bad traits? This is why I 136 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 1: think Slytherin gets a bad rap. Yeah, can I read 137 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: some of the rates? So they run out Ambition Slytherins 138 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: are known for their ambition and determination. Resourcefulness. Slytherins are 139 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: known for being resourceful, cunning. They're known for being cunning 140 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: and using cunning techniques to get what they want. Obviously 141 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: that's a bit nego, could be seen as nego, I 142 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: don't think you're cunning. Self preservation. Known for their skills 143 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: of self preservation, pride, loyalty, loyal to those who matter 144 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: to them, rule breaking. Slytherins are known for taking pride 145 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: in breaking rules and being their own authority, strong leadership, 146 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: and they value respect. They value respect, ambition and perfection. 147 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: So they've got a bad rap because obviously, like they 148 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: were the baddies in the Harry Potter books, but like 149 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: there's a lot of positive traits there totally, do you 150 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: not think? 151 00:08:55,160 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think, like, yeah, ambitious, driven, loyal, they're all 152 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 2: good things. 153 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:06,599 Speaker 1: But like it's missing the gryffind or like hope and yeah, 154 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: positivity and bravery and all that. They're just like it 155 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 1: is what it is. They're very ruthless and they get 156 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: shited done. My favorite trait that they write about in 157 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: this book is the ability I hope, I says, right, unhesitation, 158 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 1: like so to never hesitate, to just be like super 159 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: laser sharp, gotcha. 160 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: I love that. 161 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: See, this is what I mean. There's actually quite positive dread. 162 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 2: And look, let's be real. At the very end of 163 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: Harry Potter, Draco didn't want to go back to Voldemort. No, 164 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 2: he was like, come on, Draco, you know, and then 165 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 2: he left with his parents. Yeah, so there was a 166 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: little glimmer of goodness. 167 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 1: Aren't his parents a bit nasty pasties though? 168 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: Yeah? 169 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: But oh his dad. 170 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they like towards the end, like towards the 171 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: very end of the book, they were like coming good 172 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 2: broken people. Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like they 173 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 2: were like such broken people they just wanted to like 174 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 2: protect their son. So yeah, there was a bit of 175 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 2: a glimmer of hope. And in that stupid like ten 176 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 2: years later, the Montolage sack fucking hate that. Yeah. Yeah, 177 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 2: there was like a bit of an knowing there. 178 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 179 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:28,839 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so well you're a Slytherin one hundred. 180 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:32,719 Speaker 1: Percent, and we've we've confirmed it because right for our birthdays. 181 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: We decided to go to Universal Studios on my last 182 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 1: day off, and you have always wanted to go to 183 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: Harry Potter. I was a bit emotion when we were 184 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: standing at the entrance of Hogsmeade. 185 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 2: Oh yeah were you? Yeah? 186 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,079 Speaker 1: Had your Harry Potter socks on. I had a Hogwarts 187 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: alum t shirt on. 188 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 189 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: And what was your favorite bit? 190 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 2: Like? 191 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: It felt pretty magical in there? 192 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? I I For me, I love walking into the 193 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 2: like the world that they've recreated. 194 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: Do you think they will make it Christmas at Christmas time? 195 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 2: Surely? Actually we have to go back at Christmas time 196 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: when Dad's into well, we have another ticket so we 197 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 2: can go. But I love going into that recreated world. 198 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 2: That's my favorite part of it, being like, holy shit, 199 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 2: how did they like rebuild this whole set? 200 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: Basically because there was Howart's Express. Yep, there was what's 201 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: the car called that crashes in the willow or whatever? 202 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, there was in them. There was Zonco's 203 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 2: Joke Shop, there was Honey Jukes, Right. 204 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: What's the one shop called Olive? 205 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 2: What's it called Olivanders? 206 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: What did we get ourselves? 207 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: We got ourselves very cool jumpers, very cool actually right 208 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 2: next to me, right now, what are these called, like 209 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 2: jersey jersey style? 210 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think an American will call that a sweater. 211 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, but what's the style like the yeah. 212 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: Jersey jumper. 213 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 214 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 1: So Matt got Gryffindor and I obviously got Slytherin. 215 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 216 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: Did you notice though the girls buying a lot of Slytherins? 217 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 2: I did, I did. I think I think because of 218 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 2: that book mannicled. 219 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: Well, there is so many spin off books as a 220 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 1: result of this. 221 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think the girls have been like I'm 222 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 2: done being like a nice a nice girl or a 223 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 2: little demure halflepuff. 224 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's what the Hufflepuff's like? 225 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 2: I don't know there whatever? You know you love Harry Potter. No, 226 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 2: they're like they're they're like, yeah, they're not even like 227 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 2: a dominant house. That's the thing, Like raven Chlaur and Hufflepuff. 228 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 1: It's that me. 229 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're just like you're two middle you know, Gryffindor 230 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 2: and so they're in like your dominant houses got everyone else. 231 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 2: But I mean, like you could always bring up the 232 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 2: what's the what's the words of hulf a Puff and 233 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 2: raven Claw. You should look that up. 234 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're nice. 235 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 2: Like they're all just just these middle rate houses. They're 236 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 2: not powerhouses. Oh we're powerhouses. 237 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: Do you know what the gryffind or. 238 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 2: I think it's like courage on our bravery something like that. 239 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 1: It is bravery, courage determination. 240 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 2: That gryffindor. Yeah, we're very Harry Potter themed today. 241 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: Well, so we went to Harry Potter World because I 242 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: also think this is probably gonna be our Halloween theme. 243 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,959 Speaker 1: I am sad that we left all our Harry Potter 244 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 1: decorations in Byron Bay Christmas. 245 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: They're in storage. Ricky and Darren, Ricky and Darren. 246 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: They've got our c. 247 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 2: We've got pumpkins all around the house. 248 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 1: Now that we've got a well, we had people over 249 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: drinks on Friday night, and so we made it a 250 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: little bit just snacks and drinks and made it a 251 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: bit fall themed. I'm never I'm still nervous. We didn't 252 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 1: make enough food though, be. 253 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, there was so much food. It was leftovers. 254 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So we went to Universal. Were there any 255 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: other parts of Universal you loved? They were sitting up 256 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 1: for Friday night like Halloween holoy nights. 257 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, it's just like the whole thing is 258 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 2: amazing and it's huge. 259 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: Jurassic Park ride scared red. 260 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I didn't go on that one, but even 261 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 2: seeing like you know, like the animatronic or whatever like 262 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 2: dinosaur like, yeah, come out and do that, and you're like, 263 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 2: holy shit, like it looks real. Yeah, so super. 264 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: Cool on the ride. Can I share it about the 265 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: Jurassic Park ride. Yeah, So imagine you're on in boats, 266 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: you're in water, but it's kind of like roller coaster vibes, 267 00:14:57,040 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: and you're going through the dinosaur attraction exact same concept 268 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 1: and idea of the movie. And then halfway through the 269 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: dinosaurs are out a containment and it's the Adominus rex 270 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: the big Baddie. But there's like little signs at the start, 271 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 1: like do you know that big one do you remember 272 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: from Jurassic World? That big like one looks like a crocodile, 273 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: like it's swimming underwater and it cracks the side of 274 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: the containment of water spits on you in that part 275 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: of it. But then as it gets further on, this 276 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 1: is what's so scary about the Jurassic Park, right is 277 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: the dominance Rexes is kind of essentially going after you 278 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: and chasing you and then everything goes black, so they 279 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 1: black out the lights and then you have a full 280 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: drop like a roller goes to truck and it all 281 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 1: and you come out to light and water just splashing 282 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: in your face at the bottom of the drop. And 283 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: so that was like a good, like little scary bit 284 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 1: at the end, and then you just get off the 285 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: fucking boat. Yea cool, Yeah, very cool. 286 00:15:58,200 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 2: Sounds fun. 287 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: It's a lot of fun. I highly recommend if you're 288 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: in town. We were lucky because they're doing this special 289 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: offer at the moment, I think it's ended. I think 290 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 1: it ended very recently. But when you buy one day pass, 291 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: you get another one to use before decemb. 292 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 2: Rating during the quiet period. 293 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 1: I mean it didn't feel quiet. I feel like a 294 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: lot of him. 295 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 2: If this is the quiet period, I wouldn't want to 296 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 2: go during school holiday. 297 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: I think when dads held we go on like a Tuesday. 298 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. 299 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 1: I think that's the trick, like the fact that Thursday 300 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 1: was even wild even though it was a normal day. 301 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, totally. Well you think about it as well, 302 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 2: it's you know a half percentage of tourists that are going. 303 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: Totally yeah, yeah, you're right. 304 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, any highlights from your birthday. 305 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: I did, so that's the first time I've goal set 306 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: this is going to get into the knee grett. It 307 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: just focused on the next four months. I like, find 308 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: it really hard to just do little goals. I find 309 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: it much easier to do big goals, and so it 310 00:16:55,520 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: was a good discipline to practice, like four month goals. 311 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 1: I do monthly goals obviously, virgo virgo, virgo, but it 312 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 1: was a really nice discipline to like and I went 313 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: over all the goals I've set for each month being here, 314 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: and there were certain things that I actually like pulled 315 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 1: off my four month goals because I was like, they 316 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:20,239 Speaker 1: need to be just done now, Like they just need 317 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 1: to be part of who I am, Like little things 318 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 1: like like little these are tiny little things, like staying 319 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 1: on top of my health, staying on top of like 320 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: hair and skincare were goals I would set for myself 321 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 1: each month, and I was like, they don't need to 322 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: be goals to be set anymore because they just had done. 323 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 1: And so I did like that feeling of just like 324 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 1: upgrading my goals in a sense, but I said really 325 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:47,160 Speaker 1: specific ones around wrapping and management and like the next 326 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: steps of career stuff for September, and then October and 327 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 1: November were like slightly bigger goals, and then December famously 328 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: it gets quiet here. 329 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:58,959 Speaker 2: So it's holidays and stuff. 330 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really want to book a holiday campaign though, 331 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: like a holiday ad or something. 332 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 2: That'd be cool. I think the thing is, it's all 333 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 2: well and good to set goals, but goals like I 334 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 2: don't know, there's like a saying like goals without planning, 335 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 2: or like goals without steps, Like I think you can't 336 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 2: just get to the end and be like okay, then 337 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 2: I did, like I achieved that. It's like creating something. 338 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 2: It's like you need a bit of a plan to 339 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 2: create something, like where do you start? Where's the middle? 340 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 1: Where's the end of that work ethic piece. I interviewed 341 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:36,399 Speaker 1: George Callum Baris recently and he said talent without work 342 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,399 Speaker 1: ethic is like a tree without roots. He's like, it 343 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 1: won't go anywhere. And it is that same and La, 344 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 1: Like I feel bad saying this about La because I 345 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: do like being here, but it is a city that 346 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 1: is designed to make you fail, Like it is a 347 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: really brutal, tough, yucky city sometimes and so it really 348 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: does test your resilience, tenacity, work ethics, stick ability, and yeah, 349 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: it's very fascinating to me, like what LA tests in 350 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: you yea, And yeah I also think that, like to 351 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: be honest, LA is like doing deals with the devil, 352 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 1: Like it comes at such a cost to you, and 353 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: it's a fascinating place to be. But then like of 354 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:31,679 Speaker 1: all of that, you then it is the place to 355 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: be for opportunities. Like I was talking to someone about 356 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 1: a movie, like a two or three big movies have 357 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: been shot in Australia recently, like The Full Guy, Ryan Gosling, 358 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 1: the Glen Powell movie with Sydney Sweeney. Although they're all 359 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 1: shot in Australia. Everything is cast out of here except 360 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: for like maybe day players. Oh did my mic just 361 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 1: cut out? Except for maybe day players like little one 362 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 1: liners or like, it's literally cast from here. The only 363 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: anomally to that I would say is Travis Jeffries, who 364 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 1: we had on the Pod and who's in Planet of 365 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 1: the Apes and everything from him is cast from Australia. 366 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: But I think he's worked really hard to fight for 367 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: that lifestyle. 368 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean. 369 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 1: Anyway, I feel like I digressed a. 370 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 2: Bit, but I think the point is that like having goals, 371 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:30,880 Speaker 2: setting goals is amazing, but setting big long term goals, 372 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 2: medium term goals, and short term goals is important. Is 373 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 2: important because if you just you know, say to yourself, Okay, 374 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 2: I want to build a multi million dollar business and 375 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 2: haven't made your first sale, well you're skipping, you know, 376 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 2: one hundred steps before it becomes a multimillion dollar business. 377 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: Completely not to share a work thing that I've learned, 378 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: but we have to send these things off at the 379 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 1: yoga sture every month, and they're called OKRs, and so 380 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:06,919 Speaker 1: you have your big goal right for us, it's like members, 381 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: it's a yoga studio, and then you have three key 382 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: results that mean that you're moving towards that goal, and 383 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: then you have three actionable steps to get there. And 384 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: when they were training us on OKRs, they were like, 385 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 1: does someone have a big goal And I was like yeah, 386 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: and they're like, what is it, Lola? And I was like, well, 387 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 1: I want to win an Emmy and they're like, great, 388 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,439 Speaker 1: let's work backwards. And so they like took me down 389 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: all the key results that need to happen before I 390 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: can even get close to being even nominated. And it 391 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: was like the right management being cast in an Emmy 392 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 1: Award winning nominated show, Like, there are all these things 393 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: that have to happen before you can even get close 394 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 1: to the goal. And it's almost scientific the way it's 395 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: broken down. And so I think it is like breaking 396 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 1: down these bigger goals, but it is hard for like 397 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 1: some people in Australia are like, well, write to me 398 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 1: and be like, oh, well, how long are you going 399 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: to give it? You're not really living your dream. You're 400 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,919 Speaker 1: managing a yoga shit all that kind of stuff, and 401 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: it's like, oh wow, you don't understand like what it 402 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 1: takes to survive in LA while you're doing auditions. 403 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 2: Most people don't understand what it takes to be successful, 404 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 2: do you reckon? Well? Absolutely, because the people that write 405 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 2: that to you and it's kind of like what we 406 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 2: said with you know, and obviously there's it. How can 407 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 2: I put this? I suppose like politely, I'd be real. 408 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 2: I think that if your goal is big, right, and 409 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 2: it's to be like more than just working a nine 410 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 2: to five job, you need to get your head out 411 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 2: of that nine to five mentality, right. So the thing 412 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 2: is is that you work nine to say, if you 413 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 2: work nine. 414 00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:59,719 Speaker 1: To five technically I do, by the way. 415 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, but say you know you make one thousand dollars 416 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 2: a week, that's the value of your time, right and 417 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 2: in every single year, realistically, in those jobs, you're not 418 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 2: going to make much more than that. You might get 419 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 2: a little pay rise, you might a little bonus, right, 420 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 2: but like the value of your time pretty much stays 421 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,199 Speaker 2: the same and only grows very small. Right. So the 422 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,199 Speaker 2: point is is that how long do you do you 423 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 2: want to give something? How big is your fucking goal? Right? 424 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,120 Speaker 2: Because bigger it is the more time it takes. And 425 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 2: sometimes you do need intermediary just like money, but that's 426 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,919 Speaker 2: not where your mindset is. Your mindset is that you 427 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 2: go do that so you know your rent and your 428 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 2: phone bills are paid, right, But then you're spending every 429 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:53,439 Speaker 2: single hour outside of working to go like achieve your 430 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 2: bigger goals. Right, So then you're just not like your 431 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,959 Speaker 2: hourly value isn't just defined by your yeah do you 432 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 2: know what I mean? So I think like most people 433 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 2: don't understand that. People are like, Okay, like I'll get 434 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 2: a job. It's one hundred grand a year, that's great, 435 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 2: and yeah, you live a great like you can live 436 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 2: a great life on one hundred grand a year. Right, 437 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 2: but say you want to you know, own property, go 438 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 2: on holidays, do all that kind of stuff you need more, Right, 439 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 2: Like we do live in a completely different world now 440 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 2: where it is far more expensive and costs, like even 441 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,359 Speaker 2: just being here, like costs like a loaf of bread 442 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 2: here is seven American dollars. 443 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 1: Which would be like what twelve or thirteen z. 444 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, like yeah, maybe twelve bucks. Like that's fucking mental. 445 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 2: Who can afford that? So it's like even earning one 446 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,439 Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars in America, Like the average person is struggling. 447 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 2: Oh yes, there's like a giant you know. I think 448 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 2: like eighty or ninety percent of people like don't even 449 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 2: have savings totally and live paycheck to check paycheck to paycheck. 450 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 2: So my point is coming like full circle around. Is 451 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 2: it's all well and good people like, oh how long 452 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 2: do you want to give you your dreams and all 453 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 2: that kind of stuff? But you have to work a 454 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 2: lifetime for that, right, it doesn't just come. And if 455 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 2: you want any more than just like your average status 456 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 2: quo whatever, nine to five, have a kid, do that 457 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 2: kind of thing, it takes more than just working a 458 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,679 Speaker 2: normal job or a normal career. 459 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: I totally agree, and I do think like to break 460 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 1: that not to get too esoteric and hippie on you, 461 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 1: because I agree with everything you just said, but I 462 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:39,719 Speaker 1: also think to have the tenacity and ability to do 463 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: that nine to five and have a dream on top 464 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 1: of that and be auditioning on and all those things 465 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 1: on top of that when you're already kind of running 466 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,679 Speaker 1: out of energy. Essentially you only have a finite amount 467 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 1: during each day. Totally, the mental health piece is probably 468 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: the superpower piece totally. Whereas if you're like I've noticed, 469 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: like if I yes, I pulled out my last bits 470 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,119 Speaker 1: of notes from my last therapy session I did a 471 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: few days before. I always like to have therapy before 472 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: my birthday, and it was so good at realigning like 473 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,719 Speaker 1: me for that goal setting as well. And I just 474 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 1: do think like if you do have a bigger goal 475 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: or a dream, or you don't want to, like you 476 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,120 Speaker 1: want to challenge status quo and you don't want that 477 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: nine to five, And some people do want that because 478 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 1: that brings security, that brings safety, that brings like you 479 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: and I live in a lot of uncertainty, which is 480 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:37,360 Speaker 1: like you can handle it. But I do think it 481 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 1: comes with like stress, and it comes with like, oh fuck, 482 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 1: how are we going to pay for that? It comes 483 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 1: with a lot of those kind of like add on things, 484 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 1: And I think like, if you're looking after your mental health, 485 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,360 Speaker 1: it keeps your mind clear to be able to handle 486 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: the Okay, well this is this month's going to be 487 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,199 Speaker 1: a little bit tighter and stressful, and you can kind 488 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 1: of like prioritize and look at things clearly as opposed 489 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: to like, if I don't have mental health support, I 490 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,120 Speaker 1: am become reactive and emotional and then make choices from 491 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: that space, which is not good. 492 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 493 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,400 Speaker 1: So I mean there's sides of. 494 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 2: Film always totally I think that. Yeah, I think the 495 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 2: point is those like, yeah, most people can't deal with 496 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,200 Speaker 2: the uncertainty and need the safety, and I need the safety. 497 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,919 Speaker 2: I know that I need the safety, but I just 498 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:34,400 Speaker 2: choose to sit in the anxiety of at all uncertain 499 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:35,880 Speaker 2: uncertainty of it all. 500 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 1: What's your So I've just turned thirty nine yesterday, you 501 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 1: turn thirty nine tomorrow Americana time. What's like, do you 502 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: have anything that you'd like to see over the next 503 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 1: year or a change coming down? This is our last 504 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: year of thirties. 505 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:52,160 Speaker 2: Or don't say that out loud. 506 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, what is it that? Is there anything that 507 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 1: you want to achieve over the next year? 508 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:03,120 Speaker 2: Look, yes, and no, my big goals and my steps 509 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 2: stay the same right which is I'm working up towards 510 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 2: what I really want to be doing, and I'm quite 511 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 2: happy right now, although I would like to obviously challenge 512 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 2: that further and increase the pace of that. But I 513 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 2: would say that I think I think I'm making the 514 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:33,399 Speaker 2: right decisions and taking the right steps so far. So 515 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,679 Speaker 2: but I would say this, yeah, yeah, I would like 516 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 2: to I'm very the most focused on my career I've 517 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 2: ever been in my entire life right now, and yeah, 518 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,479 Speaker 2: and that's a really like good feeling, to be honest. 519 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 2: And I would say that I like, although I've always 520 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 2: somewhat believed that I can do it, or succeed or 521 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 2: or do what I want to do, right, I don't 522 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 2: even think it's succeeding. I think I've already succeeded in 523 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 2: everything that I've wanted to do so far. But I've 524 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:14,240 Speaker 2: always had self doubt just always crept in and it 525 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 2: still does. But the one mindset change that I do 526 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 2: have now is that it is possible, like it is 527 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 2: within some sort of reach that everything else I want 528 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 2: to do is possible. 529 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: I love that. 530 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,880 Speaker 2: But I think the one mistake that I have made 531 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 2: in the past is that I probably did set my 532 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 2: goals like too low. Oh really yep, definitely really, yeah, 533 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 2: because I was like, ah, I'm too scared to make 534 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 2: a big goal because then if I don't achieve that, 535 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 2: then I'm a disappointment and I'm a failure and then 536 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 2: all that kind of shit. So it's like, I never 537 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 2: did that, but now I'm starting to because I truly 538 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 2: do believe that it is possible. 539 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: So I think my problem is I set my goals 540 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 1: too high. 541 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,959 Speaker 2: I think, no, no, I don't think that's a problem 542 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 2: for you. I think that's great. I think you've always 543 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 2: been successful and you've had a Yeah. 544 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: But because I set my goals so high, I fail 545 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:12,160 Speaker 1: all the time, so I'm never achieving them. I'm constantly 546 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: chasing them short term. 547 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 2: That's a problem with big goals over Yeah, there's no 548 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 2: short term wins. Wins. Yeah, you know you're sitting there 549 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 2: and you're like, Okay, this is going to take like 550 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 2: imagine like grinding away for five years at something without 551 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 2: a single win, Like I ain't got no dopamine fucking 552 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 2: release going on in your brain. Yeah, you know, Well, 553 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 2: I give myself small wins and tasks and stuff like 554 00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 2: that that are easily achievable, just to like give myself 555 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 2: a little pep in the step. 556 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:45,959 Speaker 1: Oh that's great, that's great advice. 557 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 2: I've got to do the same. Yeah, yeah, you should. 558 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just getting out of bed before eight thirty. 559 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that tracks. 560 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 561 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 1: I think you and I have literally opposite constitutions as well. 562 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't like you. 563 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 1: You need to like have your nervous system feeling like 564 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 1: the parasympathetic part is like very happy and activated, whereas 565 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 1: I can run on adrenaline and sit in fire. I 566 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 1: actually told my therapist this. At the yogre steo at nighttime, 567 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,959 Speaker 1: really late at night, like ten pm, an unhus person 568 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 1: came in paint all over their face, definitely under the 569 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: influence of something singing in a hand. And I'm quite short, 570 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 1: I reckon, I'm what five three five four, and I 571 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 1: had none of my stuff, had my back, like, I 572 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 1: was on my own pretty much, and I just taught, 573 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 1: so I had a towel around me. And like yoga gear. 574 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 1: And I walked up to this person. I was like, 575 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 1: you know what a member? Can you please leave? Essentially, 576 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 1: I didn't know you're not allowed to touch people. I 577 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 1: didn't touch them. I was just like a consistent presence 578 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,479 Speaker 1: by their side, essentially being like, don't enter the yoga studio. 579 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,200 Speaker 1: Da da da dada. Anyway, they grabbed something and stole it, 580 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: and I was trying to steal it, and I was like, 581 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: you need to put that down. I'll be calling nine 582 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: one one. You cannot steal that jacket da da. And 583 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: I didn't take it off them because I didn't want 584 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 1: to cause anything violent. And I explained the whole scenario 585 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 1: to Terry, my therapist, and he goes the way you 586 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,360 Speaker 1: just and I said, I kind of felt clear, even 587 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 1: though it was obviously an uncomfortable scenario. 588 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 2: To be in that That there, though, is the proper 589 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 2: use of your fight or flight system. What do you 590 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 2: mean is that like when you're in like, because that's 591 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 2: how I feel like I'm anxious and nervous to go 592 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 2: to fucking traded Joe's yeah, but if I'm in the shit, 593 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 2: I'm clear as fuck. Yes, right, So that's how you're 594 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 2: supposed to feel. 595 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 1: Well. I said that to Terry. I was like, oh, 596 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, but no one else was that way. Even 597 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 1: I was like, la, la, la, what are you going 598 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: to do? And people were standing back and like nobody. 599 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: I've heard that's an American thing, though, I think because 600 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 1: if police get involved and stuff, no one wants to 601 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: be linked. I think I could be totally wrong. And 602 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:14,120 Speaker 1: he just said to me, Terry goes, well, that's fearlessness, 603 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: like as that person could have had a needle or 604 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,680 Speaker 1: a knife or whatever, right And and I said really 605 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 1: and he said yeah, He's like, that's that's fearlessness. And 606 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 1: I thought, okay, well, how good that when shit hits 607 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: the fan PSI used to be anxious going to Trader Joe's. 608 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: I used to time it specifically, so I wasn't there 609 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,880 Speaker 1: when I was busy, so I understand that feeling. Also, 610 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: our local Trader Joe's had a. 611 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 2: Shooting right before I moved over here. 612 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,240 Speaker 1: I know exactly what time and what day of the 613 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: week it was, so I understand that you feel all 614 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 1: those things. But now, like I also think anywhere I go, 615 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 1: like Albertson's, Ralph's, Vaughn's, they're the virgins of supermarkets over here. 616 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: I always think, get in and get the f out, 617 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 1: like just geting again. It's that same kind of clarity, 618 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 1: like just get in, don't fucking loiter, don't fucking dordle, 619 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: get out, don't tempt fate. Essentially, it is fascinating, but 620 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 1: also like, we have so many earthquakes here that I'm 621 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 1: just like, every time I drive to work, I'm like, 622 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: as today the day. 623 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, you know the thing with the earthquakes 624 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 2: is the fucking phone's going off. So it's like your 625 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 2: house is shaking and then your phone is going mental. 626 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 2: It's like an attack of the senses. I think the 627 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 2: alert on the phone is worse than the. 628 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,319 Speaker 1: So for people listening there. There's this thing over here 629 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,280 Speaker 1: called amber alerts. You get it if there's a predator 630 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,319 Speaker 1: in the area as well, or an attack. 631 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 2: In the area, or a child's been abducted. 632 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 1: Child or an elderly person. Yeah, and it's wild. Yeah, 633 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,280 Speaker 1: but yeah, when the earthquake happens, it literally says stop 634 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:54,839 Speaker 1: duck high and you're like, eh, I was, I was 635 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 1: figuring out like everywhere now, Like it's so weird, Like 636 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 1: you when you walk into a you kind of assess 637 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: what you'd goal if there was an earthquake. I've collected 638 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:05,760 Speaker 1: a couple of candles. I don't know if you've noticed. 639 00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 1: I'm like, I like keep a little like stash of 640 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 1: things in case it hits the fan like it. It's 641 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,319 Speaker 1: so fascinating how your survival mechanisms change when you're in 642 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: this country and in its place anyway, that's the difference. 643 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 1: There's a lot of differences between Australia, Australia the Lucky country, 644 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 1: and America, which is sometimes feels apocalyptic. 645 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:31,920 Speaker 2: It does definitely does. Straight away from the birthday apps, 646 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:33,960 Speaker 2: that's all right, it was nice at all. Should we 647 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:41,279 Speaker 2: should we goals for the next three months? Yeah? Can 648 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,399 Speaker 2: you hear that? In the background, there's like a sirens going, 649 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 2: like I don't reckon, I'll hear it, really, I can 650 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,800 Speaker 2: hear it. Yeah, Like it's always like police sirens and stuff. 651 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 2: Well I'll start. Yeah, for me, it's happy and healthy. 652 00:35:56,480 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 2: You're a head and just keep just keep living like 653 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 2: a wonderful, passionate life. And I think that you know, 654 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 2: you can want big goals and want money or whatever, 655 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 2: but that shit really doesn't make you happy. I mean, 656 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:18,680 Speaker 2: it makes it does make you happy. Let's be real, 657 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 2: it makes you gives you a level of comfort that 658 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 2: makes you happy. Yeah, that's true, but there's definitely limitations 659 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 2: to that. Like every time I've gotten a big check, 660 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:30,400 Speaker 2: I feel good for about three minutes. 661 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 1: I'd say three days. You get a little explourgey too. 662 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,320 Speaker 2: And then I'm like, okay, now I got to pay mortgage, 663 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 2: I got to pay rent, I got to pay bills 664 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 2: and health insurance and this and that, and then it's like, 665 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:42,799 Speaker 2: oh now all the money's gone again. 666 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's amazing how soon that comes in. 667 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,360 Speaker 2: It feels like it about it right. So, but my 668 00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 2: point is that, like my goals have always been, every 669 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 2: birthday is happy, healthy, calm for us and for you know, 670 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,719 Speaker 2: everyone around us as well. 671 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 1: I love it? Can I write mine down? Can I 672 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 1: get my book? 673 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:12,919 Speaker 2: Okay? Sorry, jeez, so unprofessional boss. No, well, I don't 674 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,600 Speaker 2: think that, Like you don't need to like list them off, 675 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,440 Speaker 2: you don't need to like do a fifth like a 676 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:22,959 Speaker 2: fifteen minute I'm going to excuse me rendition of like. 677 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 1: Oh wow, if you listen back, it's you that's given 678 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 1: the fifteen minute rendition of goals, not me. 679 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I have waffled a bit today. I feel 680 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 2: very tired today, very caffeinated, do you think Yeah, I 681 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 2: think it's just kicked in. 682 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:43,480 Speaker 1: Okay, I set these yesterday. The first chunk comes from 683 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 1: my session with Terry. Yeah, laser focused on point and 684 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 1: just being in it. Terry's all about me finding the 685 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 1: majesty of Lola. Let others see who you really are. 686 00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 1: Don't take prisons. He always says that to me. Clear focused, fearist. 687 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 1: He's like, you need to be yourself twenty four to seven, 688 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 1: none of this mask bullshit. 689 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. 690 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 1: And I stole a bit from the Slytherin motto, which 691 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,800 Speaker 1: is Slytherin will help you on your way to greatness. 692 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 2: Yes, which I think has always been a bit of 693 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 2: your motto, considering you help people quite a lot and 694 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:25,240 Speaker 2: help them succeed. Yeah. Absolutely, You always help people around 695 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,400 Speaker 2: you and connect people, and like, oh yeah, I'm a 696 00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,240 Speaker 2: connector do so much for other people more than people 697 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 2: do back to us. Oh yeah, we are helpers. Keep 698 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 2: going next one. 699 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 1: Okay, And I stole a couple of the Slytherin more 700 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:47,400 Speaker 1: positive values, ambition, resourcefulness, determination, cleverness, leadership. My therapis I 701 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: need lots of work on me being a leader and leadership, loyalty. 702 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:56,760 Speaker 1: Unhesitating that's my favorite. Yeah, because I hesitate a lot, 703 00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 1: I get doughty, I get a fray of what people 704 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:05,360 Speaker 1: think of me. I get self judgmental, self critical. So unhesitating, 705 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 1: I don't even know if it's a word, but I 706 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: fucking love it. 707 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 708 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 1: Unfailing that again is very Slytherin, probably less me. Ruthless, unyielding, 709 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,560 Speaker 1: driven to succeed, that's probably more Slytherin. But loved it. 710 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 1: And then I set my I set a page for September, October, November, December, 711 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 1: but basically September goals are all around management and building 712 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 1: a team around me that believes in me. I have 713 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:36,319 Speaker 1: a great rep for commercials and voiceovers, but I'm missing theatrical, 714 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 1: which is where you get your dramatic TV show auditions. 715 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,279 Speaker 1: And I need a manager too because I write books 716 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,280 Speaker 1: and do all kinds of things. This pot of Rooney. 717 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:50,799 Speaker 1: And then October, I really want to be either TV 718 00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 1: hosting or acting in some capacity. So that's like, it 719 00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,439 Speaker 1: doesn't matter if it's a commercial gig. It doesn't matter 720 00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 1: that by October wants something to click in to place 721 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 1: I have put as a dream to be working on 722 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 1: some kind of lot, whether it be Universal, whether it 723 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,439 Speaker 1: be Warner Brothers, whether paramount, whether it be the book, 724 00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,520 Speaker 1: a commercial that's shot on there. I don't mind. I 725 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 1: have to work on a lot. I put that. I 726 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 1: carried that across for the November and December, and I 727 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 1: one of my dreams that I've just put in there, 728 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 1: this is a big dream, is to be cast in 729 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,479 Speaker 1: a sitcom. Yeah, so sitcom TV hosting in my two 730 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: like very clear goals right now I have found out 731 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:33,800 Speaker 1: and I don't think I'm can talk about yet, but 732 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 1: I think I'm going on a TV show later in 733 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 1: the year, but it's not shot now. I have to 734 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 1: fly across America for it. Where I think I have 735 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:44,640 Speaker 1: to fly to Florida for it. Florida, Yeah, Mike Command, 736 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:49,319 Speaker 1: am Ike Coing, I think you're allowed to anyway. So 737 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:51,280 Speaker 1: they're my dreams. Sorry to be a bit of ambiguous 738 00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: about the other stuff, just because I don't know when 739 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm allowed to talk about it. But so things are 740 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,879 Speaker 1: moving in the right direction. But I didn't put any 741 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 1: goals on around health, around and like yeah, the hair, 742 00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:07,240 Speaker 1: the skin, looking after myself. I didn't even put goals 743 00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,320 Speaker 1: even the pod, because I love the pod so much, 744 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,319 Speaker 1: but it is now growing on its own a little 745 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 1: bit more than Like the audience is now forty percent American? 746 00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 1: Did you know that? 747 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,239 Speaker 2: Crazy? 748 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,760 Speaker 1: So I now want to put trust into my goals 749 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,520 Speaker 1: because I think I hold onto them too tight. And 750 00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 1: now I'm like, I've spent years focused on the pod, 751 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,719 Speaker 1: and I love the pod. It ain't going nowhere. It's 752 00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,840 Speaker 1: three epso a week, bloodah blah blah, love it, love it, 753 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,319 Speaker 1: love it, But I don't want to keep holding on. 754 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 1: I want it to just be like a pod is 755 00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,920 Speaker 1: part of me, My health is part of me. These 756 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:43,560 Speaker 1: are actually like un like they're so tethered to my 757 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 1: heart that they just are. So it's back to that work. 758 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 1: I'd be the therapist, which is like just being and 759 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 1: because I feel the Pod is at that level where 760 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,200 Speaker 1: now it is just going to bring in what needs 761 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,080 Speaker 1: to bring in and like so many great guests coming up, 762 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,000 Speaker 1: like I'm so excited about it. So I'm still laser 763 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 1: focused on the Pod, but these are goals that I 764 00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 1: need to see come to fruition. Whereas the pot is 765 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 1: growing all on its own accord now, which is so 766 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,120 Speaker 1: exciting and it ain't going nowhere. 767 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,320 Speaker 2: That's me all right? Love you did you like that? 768 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:12,840 Speaker 2: That's great? 769 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,480 Speaker 1: Proud of you, any feedback, any spectacular? 770 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 2: Take fourteen of them? 771 00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 1: And now where are we heading? 772 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 2: Boo Hi? 773 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:25,440 Speaker 1: We're going to o hi? Pack our bags, little road trip. Yeah, 774 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 1: pack your togs. There's a pool wherewisname? 775 00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:27,879 Speaker 2: Wow? 776 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:34,400 Speaker 1: And I wouldn't mind going to. I keep pulling a plantation. 777 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:38,440 Speaker 1: It's not an orange plantation. What are they called orange field? 778 00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:39,799 Speaker 2: No? 779 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 1: That is not the word grove. No, there's an olive 780 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 1: grove there too. 781 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 2: You know, go taste olive oil, citrus farm, orange farm, 782 00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,719 Speaker 2: orange yeah field, something like that. I don't think we 783 00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,240 Speaker 2: need to we need to worry. 784 00:42:58,280 --> 00:42:59,399 Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind going there. 785 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. 786 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,440 Speaker 1: And also one last thing I want to end on. 787 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,320 Speaker 1: We did celebrate my birthday with a little bit of 788 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:06,919 Speaker 1: pumpkin spice. 789 00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 2: Yes we did. You can do your own review of that. 790 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,320 Speaker 1: But I did get some gluten free pumpkin strusl muffins 791 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:17,640 Speaker 1: and they were amazing. And I had salted maple syrup 792 00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:21,640 Speaker 1: ice cream with you, And did you like them? Apple 793 00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:26,040 Speaker 1: caramel mocheese? The four cheese. He's still next three of them. 794 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:29,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not really into mochiese, but you I think 795 00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 2: you like mo cheese with beer. I don't know. I'm 796 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 2: always just drinking something while i'm eating them. I think 797 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 2: that's the only time I have them. Yeah, I love you, 798 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,760 Speaker 2: Love you too, proud of you, have a beautiful birthday. 799 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:43,399 Speaker 1: Proud of you. 800 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,040 Speaker 2: Bye bye, bye bye. 801 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 1: And we'll make a wish together for one of your 802 00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:49,720 Speaker 1: dreams that I know you want to talk about. 803 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, sound good, gen Yes, I love you, Bye, 804 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:54,520 Speaker 2: love you. 805 00:43:56,320 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 1: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always, 806 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:05,440 Speaker 1: thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation 807 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:11,439 Speaker 1: on Instagram. I'm at Yamo Lollerberry. This potty my word 808 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 1: for podcast is available on all streaming platforms. 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