WEBVTT - What Is The Brown Nail Theory? 💅🏻 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.080 The Flex and Rooms Daily Podcast. 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:08.840 Listen here all right, if you're listening to this podcast, 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:10.680 I know there's a few of you that are longstanding. 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:13.880 Have you listened to every single episode? Dm me, I'll 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:17.640 give you a prize. In the meantime, it's important that 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:20.239 I share this with the with the audience. I am 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:23.200 graduating from a certain style of jokes and humor that 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:25.479 I've relied on for most of my twenty four years 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:29.320 on Earth, and it's Pooh jokes. I won't say anything 0:00:29.360 --> 0:00:30.480 more until we get to there. 0:00:30.960 --> 0:00:33.320 Wait a second, but this is a lot of changes, right, 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.800 We've got the Pooh jokes. You went from hating dogs 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.960 to loving dogs to hating dogs again. Yes, what else 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:39.640 is changing? 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:42.280 Still would really love to have my own cooking show. 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.360 Yeah I neglected that. Let's say a bit louder though, 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:46.960 becuse like people don't know that about you anymore. 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:50.159 I love cooking, yes, you know sometimes I like Obviously 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:52.520 Gulash was a really big moment, huge moment, but reason 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:55.560 I've been posting past the recipes Usually someone would like 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:57.880 do it the same as being put in this story. 0:00:58.080 --> 0:01:00.000 It's been a long time. Yeah, I haven't seen it. 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:02.600 Fans come through with the recreations. 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:06.119 And the engagement's popping. Okay, don't be mistaken. 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:11.320 The rect of it, like the people are not called action. Well, 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:13.399 I just say yeah, I say go get the recipe here. 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:16.800 Try trust me. I did that pumpkin pumpkin yochi with 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.600 the bacon and the cream the other day. 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:22.160 What's everyone about? Treat yourself. Make this past the guys. 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:23.000 Maybe they don't. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:26.680 Trust you because remember when the gulash was popping. There 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:28.520 are a few people who are like, this is trash, babe, 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:31.640 so sorry, this is not good, which confused the. 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:32.480 Audience a little bit. 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:37.920 It from really trustworthy home chef to Shell who cooks 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:39.199 with a questionable taste. 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:40.480 Listen, I'll cook. 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:42.399 I've mean, I'm in my cooking era, and obviously I'm 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:45.040 moving back into my house this week, so I'm going 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:47.680 to start doing weekly cooking and then hopefully your network 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:48.360 will pick it up. 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:49.880 Give me a bit of money. 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:51.360 Any in particular, if we just want to get that 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:55.520 manifestation out clearly binge Mmmm. 0:01:55.480 --> 0:02:02.920 Seems like a perfect anyway, let's get to it's fleck 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:03.800 and frooms. 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:07.240 Big announcement for everyone. No, it's not another live show 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:11.080 through me is turning over a new leaf? Why what 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:12.240 is going on? So? 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:14.640 For a long time, I've been known as the poo girl, 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:19.960 the fark girl, big blue humor kind of girl. Yeah, However, 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.400 something has hit me in the last month. It is 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:26.080 the stench of becoming a stinky bitch when it doesn't 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:28.800 actually align with my new values. Now, for my whole life, 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:32.120 I've been into pooh humor. Often get naked at the 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:34.760 drop of a hat. Get the bum out, really, get 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:37.320 the tiny little bum out. It's a flat, little lass, 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:42.040 but it's been seen by many many a viewer. Now 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:45.079 I've come to this conclusion because I actually find pooh disgusting. 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:46.840 I don't like when other people poo around me. I 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:48.160 don't like the smell of it. 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:52.040 It is very surprised and considering you know, less than 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:55.400 three months ago stood up, turned cheeks that mic and 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:57.480 farted in this enclosed space. 0:02:57.560 --> 0:02:59.960 That was you? Was it not? Am I getting it? 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:01.480 Confused me? Yeah? 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:06.800 How many relationship fights that I have started and escalated 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:09.320 because someone dare far in my presence. 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:10.120 It's a no. 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:13.400 You want to be comfortable, be comfortable outside. If we 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:15.120 can take a mic, host, can we just do your 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:17.760 voice memo? Take a phone voice memo, fight out there, 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.280 bring it back, play for us, you know. Okay, there 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.040 we go. That's a compromise. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:25.240 Okay, I'm not going to do it. Yeah, go do 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:26.799 it all waiting. Okay, okay, hold. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:35.200 On, not here, not here, take the phone outside. 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:47.920 Yeah. Now, my change may have come across from a troll. Someone. 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:52.440 Someone commented on an ad of our saying, listening to 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:54.960 the same girl that farted into a microphone last month, 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:57.960 And you know what, I didn't have a leg to 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:58.320 stand on. 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:00.080 I had to say. You know, I didn't reply, but 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:02.080 I just thought, in my minds, you know what, it's true? Wait, 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:03.840 so were they responding to something? 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:06.160 It was like our care to add on TikTok? And 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:07.400 what what did we say in the ad? 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:09.200 Like it was just us? It was just us? 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.800 Okay, But they said, this is the same chicks that 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:13.960 farted into a microphone last month? 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:17.080 And I thought, that's if I didn't think we think 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:20.640 we posted that. We did? Oh yes, goodness posted on page. 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:23.719 It was posted to an audience, And I'm just deciding, 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:25.559 you know, I want to graduate from this sense of humor. 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:27.839 I always thought, I think, I think I see that 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:31.279 people misconstrue it as me being like making some sort 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:38.320 of feminist statement. Wait, people think people are like normalized 0:04:38.360 --> 0:04:42.480 pooh normalized women poohing, Like I'm not normalizing anything. I 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:46.320 actually find it disgusting. We shouldn't be normalizing poohing. 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:50.159 So you think you're the face of like the fifth 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:53.080 wave pooh pooh feminism. 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:56.440 And that's not a role I signed up for because 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:57.280 it's not how it goes. 0:04:57.760 --> 0:04:59.680 And so do you think had you not have gotten 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:02.280 the you say it's a troll commet it wasn't a 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:03.120 true observation. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:08.240 How did you not received that comment? Where would you be? 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:13.120 I'm coming into my sunset is flex? What a sunset is? 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:16.560 You know, older life, coming to the sunset years, the 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:21.360 retirement age, retiring, you're raising mid twenties, crazing mid twenties, 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:24.200 and I just come to this realization of being like, 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:29.560 I can't, this can't be my personality forever. I'm okay, 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:33.360 as we know flex off camera, I'm having a quarter 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:34.520 life crisis, like. 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:37.039 A casual one though. Yeah nothing, it's not a meant 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:38.480 to be yet. Yeah yeah, it's not going to take 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:39.760 you out, it's not going to face. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:42.280 I think it's always good to reflect. One of my 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:47.599 high school teachers said, a life on examined is a 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:51.360 life not worth living. Also my teacher though. 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:54.039 So I misw. 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:58.360 And you know what I've been I've been thinking about it, 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:00.520 to be honest, I've always thought about my behaviors, actions 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.240 and how they come across. But something's gone all right 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.000 in the last few years now. I think it's just 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:08.960 been on the podcast and talking every day. The mind 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:11.200 goes to certain spaces and I'm starting to realize I 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:13.160 don't want them to go there, certainly. 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.040 And comment the comment rocks me. Yeah. 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:18.719 Also, someone said her name's not Frooms, her name's Lucinda 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:20.599 and she went to a private school. 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:25.159 Which which is very surprising because we've start talking about 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.760 our high school experiences and you start talking about the 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:30.240 DJ that came to your school every week, the in 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:34.440 school cafe, that you bullied your parents into moving to 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:35.160 a new place. 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.400 Well, I've never denied any of this. It's interesting to me. 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:41.280 You know what interests me and scares me about doing 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:44.440 this job on the internet is that people think, you know, 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:47.960 these rogue comments. It's probably like two people think that 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:50.400 I'm hiding things that I've spoken about my whole life. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:52.920 Private school culture has always been of interest to me. 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:56.320 I find it funny, I find it interesting. I feel 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:58.800 like I have it. I observed a lot of things 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:02.039 in high school that I felt like an insider to 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:02.800 like seeing them. 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:04.520 Meanwhile, the calls coming. 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:09.000 From inside you also paid tuition to be there, you know. 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:09.400 What I mean? 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:15.200 Though the wall I'm dissecting Wesley culture, I'm dissecting footy 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.640 footy boy culture that I was a part of, which 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:20.640 to them be made out as if I was trying 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:22.600 to hide it is painful. 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:23.040 I guess. 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:28.640 It's also tricky knowing what parts of your content output 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:32.040 become your brand. Yeah, as well, because like, yes, you 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:35.560 can do flippant things, but if every flippant thing we 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.200 say or do becomes a core part of the brand 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:42.440 or core enough that a stranger on an ad is like, oh, yeah, 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.680 I definitely know that's Mike fart girl. 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:47.120 Yeah, that's my concern. It was a one off thing. 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:50.160 I need It's like I need to two three. 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:52.840 I need to create a show real to send to 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:54.920 anybody who listens to say, look this, what's up. 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.760 I'm not just the fart girl. I'm not the girl 0:07:57.840 --> 0:08:01.960 that is Yeah, don't know. It's it's yeah, it's a 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:03.640 wig out that commented with me out. 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:07.520 And so is it more so that you're being perceived 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:10.320 as the fark girl and they're not really seeing like 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:13.240 the breadth and depth of rooms as a brand? 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:15.000 I reckon, Yeah, that's what it's at. 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:17.160 Happy to be the fark girl if you also know 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:20.440 where the fart's coming from storyteller and fart girl exactly. 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:23.560 God, I can't just be fart girl, then I'm a banshee? 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:24.520 Who am I? If I'm just that? 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:26.920 Then there's also this thing of like on the podcast, 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:28.880 we get this chance to talk about whatever we want, 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:30.920 and sometimes it's like, do I feel guilty for just 0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:31.520 talking shit? 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:32.599 Do you know? 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:39.320 Should I love my introspection because I ain't gonna change shit? 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:44.199 Wait, so what's your new humor? My new humor is 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:45.199 yet to be discovered. 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:47.760 I'm definitely not out of my humor era, oh never, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:51.720 but it's definitely I'm gonna push myself for it. 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:53.680 To not be fat just comes very naturally to me. 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:55.079 I think it will always be a core part of 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:57.640 my personality, but perhaps on the podcast and to push 0:08:57.720 --> 0:08:59.719 myself with these new listeners who are just coming into 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:02.280 the free verse that need to know I have some 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:04.839 sort of backing behind me to get to where I 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:06.079 am talk about farts on air? 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:08.840 Are you gonna fully have like a like an on 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:10.240 air persona? 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:13.240 I think I need you in these trying times, trying times. 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:16.680 It's a jungle out there, jungle out there, sis. 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.360 I guess if you have an on air persona can 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.400 do whatever you want. Yeah, what's Kyl? And what's Kyl 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:22.440 doing these days? So he like a home? 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:22.920 Yeah? 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:26.559 I guess nobody knows, right, he's committed to the bit? 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:27.319 Is it a bit? 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:27.760 Though? 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:28.559 That's the thing. 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:30.160 So I guess it's what you can do. So then 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:33.880 what so in between, in this in between humor. 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:35.600 I will say, are you the same person who are 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:37.480 on air? Then you are like with your friends and stuff? 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:42.000 Am I not? I'm asking? I just talk less, Okay. 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:45.040 I told you I'm an outgoing into it. Yeah, I'm 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:51.040 probably the same. Okay, get your own personality, babe, I'm 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:53.439 all those good things too. Yeah, I just talk less. 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:56.560 I feel like, you know, once you commodify a bunch 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:58.160 of things that you enjoy, you do it less. 0:09:58.240 --> 0:09:59.200 Like used to love. 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.040 Took me a just to get back into listening to 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:04.880 music recreationally after DJing, because I was like, oh, I 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:08.080 didn't like I needed to create like a separate, separate 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:11.920 sonic experience. So like at home, I want to listen 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:16.000 to alternative R and B and indie rock and. 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:18.320 Like slow music. 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:22.480 I don't want to be rattled, like keep it nither babam, 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.319 you know. But then what I was doing, because I 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:27.200 was so inundated with club music, I was like, no, no, 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:27.920 this is me, this is me. 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:31.360 I'm no, I'm not up down, I'm a downer. 0:10:31.760 --> 0:10:33.600 But just like you know, I feel like in a 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:37.439 lot of ways, I feel like sometimes I'm that stereotypical thinker, 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:38.920 Like I want to sit in silence and look at 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:41.160 the ceiling and think about something, and then if I 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:43.840 get a text message like this is interrupting my train 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:46.240 of thought, it needs to go down, then I get 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:49.360 a burst of energy and like publish, publish, publish. That's 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:50.760 why you see, I'll freak out. When I started a 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:53.959 conversation on the internet, people respond I'm like, oh, yeah, no, sorry, 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:55.400 that was just meant to be a thought. 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:57.280 Don't please don't message back. 0:10:57.559 --> 0:11:00.400 So yeah, but you're that's you're expected to have these 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:02.800 big conversations when sometimes that's not what you actually want. 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:04.240 To do in real life. Yeah, I want to think, 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:05.199 do you know what? 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:08.440 But I also think that people misinterpret the big conversations. 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:10.560 I want to share ideas. I don't want to have 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:13.120 conversations all the time. I just want you share an idea. 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:15.000 I share an idea. And then we stopped. 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:17.920 Very antithetical to what the internet is. 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:20.160 But do people have conversations on the internet. 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:24.120 Well, people want to. Yeah, people want their point of 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:25.760 view to be heard. When you just want to say 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:28.160 it and then eat away, you don't actually want to 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:29.199 have a conversation. 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:31.439 And sometimes I do and then I'm like talk to me, 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:33.600 and everyone's like, no, you just share more of your thoughts. 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:35.960 I'm like mad, I'm at a cat. I don't have 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:36.480 any more. 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:40.880 Okay, So while you're in between humor, you'll keep us posted. 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:44.079 Or okay, I'll tell you if anyone's got any ideas, 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:45.360 don't send them. 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:49.080 Fight its battle alone. Maybe you can just start mimicking. 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.120 You can just start mimicking what you see other people 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:53.480 in your position do or don't do. 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:56.199 I don't think that's my vibe. Okay, if I've done 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:58.079 that I would have done that. I just ago, you know, it. 0:11:58.040 --> 0:11:59.840 Sounds like I was like repulsed by what you're saying 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:05.480 I was. Anyway, let's cut the cameras, flex and frooms. 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:06.920 Here's a big question for you. 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:11.679 If you're invited to a birthday dinner, yes, presuming this 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:13.400 is a close friend, maybe it's not. 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:17.160 Who cares? Who are you expecting to pay the bill? 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.520 I'm paying for my own meal. Would you like to. 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:24.160 Elaborate pretty much every birthday thing that's out at a 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:26.960 pub or anything that I've gone to recently, everyone pays 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:29.920 for their meal individually, and then you might buy the 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:33.160 birthday girl or boy a cottail whoa thoughts? 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:34.200 Yeah? 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:38.800 Wow, Okay, So I watched this TikTok video went viral. 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:42.080 The content creator was definitely getting cancel. It was one 0:12:42.080 --> 0:12:44.960 of those it was getting stitch stitches. 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:47.520 Yeah, it wasn't good. Bra wasn't looking good. 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.960 So he's yelling into his phone and he says, if 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:54.600 you are a birthday person and you're having a birthday dinner, 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:58.800 it is your job to pay for the bill in 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:03.760 its totality, because you're inviting us to celebrate you. Why 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:07.960 should that be our expense? Now, obviously he's very loud 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:12.160 and wrong, right. However, I do think it's odd to 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.960 go to someone's birthday dinner and have them pay for 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:18.480 any of their meal. That is absurd to me. As 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:21.559 in the birthday person, Yeah, birthday person shouldn't be paying. 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:24.320 Or it's on one of the end of it's on 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:25.600 either end of the spectrum. 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:27.760 Birthday person's paying all of it or none of it, 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:31.480 but at some capacity as an attendee, usually paying more 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:33.280 than what you expect to pay. You're meant to make 0:13:33.320 --> 0:13:36.680 it easy like that is so crazy that where he 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:39.079 is splitting, splitting, splitting individual meals. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.080 Yeah, not even split it eight ways. 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:43.800 Oh no, If it's that I'm thinking of a pub meal, 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:46.520 you got to the counter pique. Everyone's paying for their 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:50.000 own I wish it wasn't that way. Okay, But for example, 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:52.680 if I'm a birthday you're having dinner at my house, 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:54.760 I'm going to pay for everything for everyone and they 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:55.800 can be way or drinks. 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:57.679 Yeah, I see this. I don't know. 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:01.720 I feel like something about celebratation in Western societies has 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:04.800 me messed up every time, because I would expect if 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:08.360 I'm inviting my friends for my birthday dinner. I wouldn't 0:14:08.400 --> 0:14:09.679 hesitate to pay for it because I'm like, oh my, 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:12.280 this is so exciting. It's my big day. We're celebrating me. 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:15.760 We go, I want to go, I'll pay. It's really exciting. Naturally, 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:17.520 when your friends are good friends, they like no, no, no, 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:20.480 we got it. It's so good and that's all it. 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:22.760 But then like it's such an Australian thing to do 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:23.760 to be like no, I'll. 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:26.000 Get mine and you get yours, and like maybe we'll 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:26.800 get you a drink. 0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:29.720 Went to my friend's birthday dinner the other night, went 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:31.200 to a bar afterwards and I was like, oh, I 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:33.480 got it. They're like, you're not drinking. I'm like, yeah, 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:37.360 is it not a birthday celebration? Like why we so 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:39.520 you paid for the bill for everyone drinks? Yeah, we 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:41.080 went to the bar. It's like I got the first round. 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.600 This is we're celebrating. How is everyone going to be 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.640 lining up individually being like I'll get one of these. 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.760 I'll get one of these. Where's the vibe? I want 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.960 every night to feel like we're in Vegas. 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:56.080 Or like what's that movie with them with the guy 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:59.800 and his friends and they go to Las Vegas and 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:01.240 they wake up and they don't remember anything. 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:04.880 Hangover, Yes, you want to hangover, but you don't drink. See. Yeah, 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:07.160 but I'm happy to facilitate. Okay, good to know for 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:08.000 next time we go out. 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:10.720 No, no, no, it's a reciprocal energy. This is a 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:14.680 reciprocal energy, like go where the vibes are. If that's 0:15:14.720 --> 0:15:18.120 what it requires, it's fun. But I'm paying attention now 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:20.320 because I don't think it's people. 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:22.200 Would it to be stingous. I don't think it's that. 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:24.840 It's just a cultural cultural different definitely. 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:27.200 And I'm like, yeah, I didn't really, I didn't recognize that, 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:27.960 and I'm seeing it. 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:29.160 I'm like, that's not a vibe. 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:31.160 And I think in our culture as well, if you're 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:33.840 heaps richer and like people know that you're a millionaire, 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:35.520 then they're fine for you to pay. 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:39.200 Who has millionaire friends? Are you talking about? You're looking 0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:40.280 at me, I'm looking behind me. 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:44.600 This is flex and frooms on ka. 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:47.480 I came across this story from Thailand, which is that 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:52.120 a Thai transgender tycoon has bought the Miss Universe organization 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.280 for twenty million dollars. 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:55.000 Bought it off Donald Trump. 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:58.480 Right, Oh, they must have, Yeah, twenty million dollars and 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:01.280 it's the first time the beauty pageant has been organized 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:02.240 and known by a woman. 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:05.160 Is that a steal? Twenty mil? Well, let's have a look. 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:05.520 It was. 0:16:05.840 --> 0:16:08.280 It was run by the Miss Universe organization co owned 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:11.320 by Donald Trump between nineteen ninety six and two thousand 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:14.080 and two, and it's broadcast in one hundred and sixty 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:15.920 five countries. Didn't even know they were that many countries. 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:21.440 So she's a celebrity in Thailand, and she's starred in 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:24.680 local versions of Project Runway and Shark Tank. Oh Gorge, 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:26.880 And now she's and she's she's talking about her experience 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:30.080 as a transgender woman. And she's also set up the 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:35.160 Life Inspired for Thailand Foundation to be an advocacy for 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:36.560 transgender people. 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.120 But it made me think, do we even need Miss 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:39.880 Universe pageant? 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:42.120 Yeah, I'm I'm out of the loop for a lot 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:45.280 of this stuff. I don't want to denounce the relevancy 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:46.600 of it just because not on my radar. 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:48.560 So maybe this is like a big deal on a 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:50.560 big thing, But I'm not sure. 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:51.440 I don't know. 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:52.880 I think it's kind of cool. 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:55.200 I think it's like a lot of beauty things I 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:57.560 believe once you can reclaim it and it makes you 0:16:58.000 --> 0:16:59.760 happy and you have fun with it, then it's great. 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:04.280 For example, this transgender person is obviously into beauty pageants. 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:06.879 Who's interested in that world? And I think if I 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:09.040 think it's different when it's owned by a man, because 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:11.400 it's then they have say into like who gets in 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:13.560 and the style of the show and the segments, So 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:15.520 it might not be female let it might not have 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:18.240 that mystique that a woman can bring to a show 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:21.199 like that, Whereas, yeah, if it's if it's run by 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:24.000 a woman, I think they might have different segments or 0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:26.080 a different idea of what the show is for, and 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:28.960 it's probably a bit more inclusive given that the founder 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:30.560 now or the owner's transgender. 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:32.680 I would hope so, because the last thing you'd want 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:34.640 is for it to be woman owned and then it's 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:36.560 just as bad as it once was because we're kind 0:17:36.560 --> 0:17:39.399 of like socialized by the same people, right true, just 0:17:39.400 --> 0:17:42.920 giving girl Boss. Hopefully you'll stay tuned, not me, though, 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:43.320 we'll see. 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:45.600 Might I might watch the series depending on where they like, 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:48.480 I don't even know if it's in Australia. Yeah, that's 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:52.399 a yearly thing. Oh yeah, serialized situation. Look, this is 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:55.840 where we like research. It's for me the mid of research. No, 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:58.160 I'm giving you the research. I'm gonna watch it next time. 0:17:58.160 --> 0:17:59.880