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Speaker 1: I'm really reaching out to the LGBTQI community here because

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Speaker 1: I want to know people who have hid this sexuality

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Speaker 1: or their gender, no matter for how long?

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Speaker 2: What do you cover up stories?

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Speaker 1: How long did it go on for, how hectic was it,

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Speaker 1: what lengths did you go to? And like, I know,

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Speaker 1: this is obviously probably the most hectic time in your life,

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Speaker 1: So I realized it's a pretty sensitive thing.

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Speaker 2: To be sharing.

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Speaker 1: Caitlyn Jenna has been on I'm selebt to get Me

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Speaker 1: out of Here in the UK talking about a time where, yeah,

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Speaker 1: as he said, or she was Bruce Jenner for thirty

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Speaker 1: years and she would go out in these outfits and

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Speaker 1: stuff and then have to come up with hurried stories

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Speaker 1: for what she was actually doing.

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Speaker 3: A cross dress running around all that kind of show.

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Speaker 3: She's cross dress in your car, jove around town. I

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Speaker 3: had at that time a turbo Porsche and it was

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Speaker 3: like a day before Halloween and this car pulls up

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Speaker 3: beside me and it's my next door neighbor. How'll just

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Speaker 3: start that one out, I said, I just wonder a

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Speaker 3: Halloween party.

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Speaker 1: Quite quick thinking actually from amazingly quick thinking, but geez,

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Speaker 1: imagine doing that the whole time We've got Taylor, who's

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Speaker 1: called on thirty and one six five.

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Speaker 2: Taylor, what's your story?

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm fairly young, so I'm eighteen at the moment,

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Speaker 4: and as a kid, I would watch TV as my family, right, yeah,

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Speaker 4: so like just to give you a picture, like ta

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Speaker 4: wolfs and stuff. Yeah, So they'd always point out, like

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Speaker 4: due today, thought that we're attractive, and they say, hey, Taylor,

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Speaker 4: do you do you like this person? Is that I'm

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Speaker 4: just attractive to you? And I just go yeah, yeah, whatever,

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Speaker 4: just to keep keep them off track, leave them away

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Speaker 4: from the thought that I may or may not be straight,

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Speaker 4: or that I may or may not be by I

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Speaker 4: mean anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, when I did come out finally to my parents,

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Speaker 4: I had aversation with my dad and he was just like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: you really threw off the curveball when you said that

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Speaker 4: you like to fill it O'Brien, and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's kind of the point. I just threw riddom names

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Speaker 4: at them.

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Speaker 2: You would just say that you like this person and

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Speaker 2: that person. Taylor.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I can't imagine doing that. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for the call, and I hope you're feeling a lot

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Speaker 1: more comfortable now we've got Sky here on third and

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Speaker 1: one oh six ' five. Sky, you're a lesbian, yes, correct? Okay,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show, Thanks for joining us. We're talking

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Speaker 1: about people having to hide their sexuality or their gender.

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Speaker 2: This is about your partner, though she had a cover

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Speaker 2: up story.

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Speaker 5: Yes, correct. So back before they transitioned from male to female,

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Speaker 5: they used to order clothes to their family house.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: And if they were caught or if they wanted to

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Speaker 5: know what the package was, they used to say it

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Speaker 5: was for me, so their family didn't know what was

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Speaker 5: for themselves.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, So how long was this going on?

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Speaker 3: Force?

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Speaker 2: Sky?

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Speaker 5: Probably like true use, maybe a little bit longer.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, were the ever in any fight? Sky when

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Speaker 2: the clothes were particularly good and she's using you as

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Speaker 2: the excuse, was there a fight they were? Well, hang

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Speaker 2: on a second, maybe I deserve the pants very lucky.

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Speaker 5: We're both kind of the same size, so we just

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Speaker 5: kind of swap out stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right right.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I always thought that would be super handy being in

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Speaker 2: a same sex relationship.

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Speaker 1: You can share clothes, Sky, can I can I ask

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Speaker 1: you so your partner did you say transitioned from a

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Speaker 1: man to a woman?

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Speaker 2: And that's why it was they were in that period.

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're talking about?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Correct, So they're still going through the process now,

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Speaker 5: but they were originally male and they're now female.

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Speaker 2: So you met them as a man.

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Speaker 5: Actually, yeah, within the first month, they told me that

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Speaker 5: they wanted to be female.

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Speaker 2: So were you heterosexual when you met them?

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Speaker 5: Though not necessarily? I actually didn't one hundred percent know

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Speaker 5: what gender they were.

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Speaker 1: Okay, right, and then they were a guy and they

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Speaker 1: wanted to become a woman, and then you just love

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Speaker 1: them so much that you just wanted to stay with them.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, pretty much.

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Speaker 2: That's so nice. And what's been the hard can I?

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Speaker 4: Sorry? Guy?

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Speaker 1: I sorry to delve into It's just I think it's

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Speaker 1: I think it's pretty amazing that because I'd find that

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Speaker 1: really hard obviously as a heterosexual. But what's been the

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Speaker 1: hardest part about the whole transition? Like, is it has

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Speaker 1: it been difficult at all? Is it has it been.

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Speaker 5: A it's hard to tout and downs. Probably the hardest

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Speaker 5: part is watching them come out as obviously wanting to

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Speaker 5: be female to their family and their friends, and watching

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Speaker 5: some relationships that just couldn't take it. That's probably the

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Speaker 5: hardest part sitting there as a partner being like, I

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Speaker 5: can't do anything about this, but I still.

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Speaker 1: Love you so so and are they a completely different person,

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Speaker 1: like are they just forgetting who they were before in

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Speaker 1: terms of, you know, the things that they'd associate with

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Speaker 1: as a guy.

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Speaker 2: Is have they got a new name, et cetera.

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Speaker 5: So they do change names, but it's very very similar

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Speaker 5: to than yeah, yeah, their birthname. Sorry. Yeah, in regards

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Speaker 5: to everything else, they kind of already had a very

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Speaker 5: could be female male.

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Speaker 2: Style, So that was pretty That was all right, okay, but.

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Speaker 5: They still kind of have these moments that there like

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Speaker 5: I don't like how I'm talking, I don't like how

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Speaker 5: I'm acting, I'm too masculine. Yeah, they struggle with.

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Speaker 1: Wow, okay, R Scott, thanks so much for sharing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you, and yeah, yeah, good luck with the rest

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Speaker 1: of the transition.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you're yeah, I think you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It says a lot about you.

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Speaker 1: I think if you meet somebody and they say they

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Speaker 1: want to change their gender and you're like, I'm one

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Speaker 1: hundred percent and you guys have obviously got something pretty

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Speaker 1: special between you.

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Speaker 2: So thanks for sharing. Mate, really appreciate a lot of

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