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Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody podcast.

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Speaker 2: We'll just talking about the kiss yesterday.

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Speaker 1: God genuinely the kiss that stopped a nation with him.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this thing is absolutely popped off online. I

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Speaker 1: don't think that audio does it justice somehow. I mean

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Speaker 1: that that shows you the lengths of the intensity of

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Speaker 1: the kiss.

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Speaker 3: But I really think you need to go and see

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Speaker 3: this thing.

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Speaker 1: So go on social media wherever you get your social media,

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Speaker 1: look at Will and Woody and you'll see one of

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Speaker 1: the hottest kisses in town. Feel the comments here, will

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Speaker 1: bump Steph Claire Smith, who actually texted us both during.

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Speaker 3: The intense kiss.

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Speaker 1: My reaction was exactly the same in the carrame my

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Speaker 1: way home from work when I listened to this live

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Speaker 1: laugh face amazing. Norman says, that's not a French kiss anymore,

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Speaker 1: that's European kiss.

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Speaker 3: I never know what that means.

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Speaker 1: Kruger and I said, I enjoyed that more than some

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Speaker 1: of my Tinder date first kisses. Ariel, I had no

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Speaker 1: expectations for tongue and I couldn't be happier.

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Speaker 2: True kings, Well, it had to be a proper tongue kiss.

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Speaker 1: Well, and I don't want to talk about the level

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Speaker 1: of tongue, cause I feel like amongst all the comments

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Speaker 1: that this is received online, the tongue has come up

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Speaker 1: a lot. But before that, our audio producer, Tim, who

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Speaker 1: enjoys the kiss so much, has actually put the kiss

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Speaker 1: within a whole bunch of songs.

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Speaker 3: So I haven't heard these yet.

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Speaker 4: Listen to my.

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Speaker 2: First kiss when addle like.

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Speaker 5: This, Wow, is there another one there? Let's talk about

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Speaker 5: the tongue. Let's talk about the time.

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Speaker 1: The overwhelmingly that was the chat on the comments and

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Speaker 1: the question that we want to ask over on thirteen

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Speaker 3: Is there such a thing as too much tongue?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because, I mean one of the comments you missed

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Speaker 6: out on was your partner, Mimi's top comment here was

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Speaker 6: I don't even get that much tongue, and.

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Speaker 3: So that was jealousy. She's jealous. Think she was jealous

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Speaker 3: of the No, absolutely not. You weren't even close. I'm

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Speaker 3: sorry you were.

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Speaker 2: Surprisingly it's a professional answer.

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Speaker 6: I understand that, and I know that we're on obviously

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Speaker 6: a public broadcast system right now.

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Speaker 3: I actually think you were better at kissing than my partner.

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Speaker 2: You were shocked.

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Speaker 3: I was shocked at how good you were.

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Speaker 4: I know I'm a good kis just had a very

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Speaker 4: low expectation.

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Speaker 2: I know, I'm a good kisser.

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Speaker 3: I thought you'd be more aggressive.

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Speaker 2: Well, and I was. If I'm going to be honest

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Speaker 2: with you, you are too aggressive.

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Speaker 1: I was too aggressive, far too aggressive. Much tongue and

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Speaker 1: this is the question. So thirteen one oh sixty five again,

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Speaker 1: I had.

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Speaker 6: To close the gates on you at one stage, did you. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: you came in very hot.

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Speaker 3: Oh passionate.

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Speaker 2: You lathered me, You lathered me.

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Speaker 3: I wear my tongue on myst leaves.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I felt like I at the dentist with that

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Speaker 2: thing down in the back of my throat. That yeah, man,

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Speaker 2: that's how deep you were.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy Earth, And you don't like a lot of tongue.

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Speaker 1: You actually had a conversation with a previous partner about

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Speaker 1: too much tongue. You've got a delicate mouth.

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Speaker 6: Well, no, I just think that there's a measure of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, didn't You had a conversation there was a

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Speaker 1: former partner and knew had to say to her, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You're coming in too hot.

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Speaker 6: I'm a good kiss of woods and I know where

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Speaker 6: the line is, and I think where there's where, like

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Speaker 6: too much tongue is certainly it's an air And look,

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Speaker 6: you'll probably have to have a chat with Mim about.

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Speaker 4: This, But you think Mim wants to let me know

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Speaker 1: Think, so wow, this is I mean, this is an

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Speaker 1: interesting place to put this feedback live on radio. But

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Speaker 1: I'm putting too much tongue in there, I think, so okay,

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Speaker 1: Well I want to hear from more people. By the way,

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Speaker 1: thirteen one oh six five is the number. Have you

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Speaker 1: dated someone who put in far too much tongue? Is

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Speaker 1: there such a thing as too much tongue?

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Speaker 2: For us? Yesterday was the best day to get lucky

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Speaker 2: wild kiss.

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Speaker 3: I was the Mona. I was Mona Lisa.

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Speaker 2: There and you double handed me on the face.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely to still target anyway we are talking though

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Speaker 1: thirty one o six five The question is there such

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Speaker 1: a thing as too much tongue? Because there is, yes,

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Speaker 1: a video of that, go and get it where you

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Speaker 1: get your socials. Will and Woody just look that up.

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Speaker 1: But the discussion was basically around the tongue. No one

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Speaker 1: expected the tongue when we said we were going to

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Speaker 1: kiss in the studio. You're now saying I use too much.

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Speaker 2: Tongue where we agreed on a snog.

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Speaker 6: Yes, but I think the degree of tongue that you

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Speaker 6: I was like when you're kids, like you're in your jocks.

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Speaker 6: You're kissing in your jocks. That's what That's the sort

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Speaker 6: of tongue you were using, which.

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Speaker 2: I'm up for. At that stage, you hadn't even brought

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Speaker 2: me a drink.

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Speaker 1: No, that's that's fair. That's totally fair. That's a good

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Speaker 1: point a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: On a first date. My first date's gone really well.

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Speaker 4: I definitely would have kissed like that with Mim for

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Speaker 4: sure on the first date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 1: We got a little we went to a little nook

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Speaker 1: in a main street and absolutely we kissed like that.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: And we went back to a car and kissed like that.

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Speaker 4: That's all we did, though, I would like to stipulate

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Speaker 4: that because it was a.

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Speaker 1: First date, of course, William. So look, Kathy's gone on.

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Speaker 1: Let's get back on to Let's get back on Toby, Kathy.

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Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as too much tongue? This

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Speaker 1: is pretty confronting for me to hear that Will thinks

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Speaker 1: I use too much tongue.

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Speaker 3: What do you reckon?

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Speaker 7: We look, I don't mind a bit of tongue. I've got.

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Speaker 7: My first kiss went a little like this. The guy

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Speaker 7: stuck his tongue so far down my throat.

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Speaker 8: I checked on it.

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Speaker 3: Choked.

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 7: I am clearly not an expert. This is my first chist,

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Speaker 7: but I'm pretty sure I'm not first to check on

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Speaker 7: your tongue.

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Speaker 2: Oh how were you, Kath?

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Speaker 7: I was seventeen eighteen.

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Speaker 3: How was the feedback received?

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Speaker 1: So when he's told that he's he's putting tongue too

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Speaker 1: far down, how was it received?

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Speaker 7: It looks a little bit hurt, But to take it

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Speaker 7: on and here improved from then on.

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Speaker 6: Because there's no one telling you how to do these things, basically,

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Speaker 6: cold cat, there's no there's no playbook, No one says

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Speaker 6: to you, this is how you should kiss.

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Speaker 1: You've waited five days before telling me that I was

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Speaker 1: kissing too aggressively.

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Speaker 2: You can't tell on the spot. You would have been hurt.

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Speaker 2: You were annoyable. I had to spit after the kiss.

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Speaker 3: That was very offensive to spit in the binner.

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Speaker 6: Imagine if I had a spat in the bin and

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Speaker 6: then turned around and said, you tongued me too hard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that would have broken your heart.

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Speaker 1: I would have cried, let's go to Brennan here, Brennan.

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Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as too much tongue?

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Speaker 2: Mate?

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Speaker 10: Oh? There you going boys?

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Speaker 3: Good mate, We're very good, very good.

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Speaker 11: I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum. I mean,

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Speaker 11: I dated this this, this girl when I was a

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Speaker 11: bit younger for a little over a year, and I

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Speaker 11: basically had to adapt to just having no tongue ever

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Speaker 11: used at all. And I spent a year kicking this

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Speaker 11: girl where we were just opening our mouths and there

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Speaker 11: was no tongue. It was a bit like the suspense

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Speaker 11: of no Imagine you're trying to lick an ice cream,

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Speaker 11: but every time you try to stick your tongue out,

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Speaker 11: there's just nothing there.

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Speaker 2: Oh so, so, how long were you in the relationship

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Speaker 2: for a little over a year?

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Speaker 3: Oh bloody hell.

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Speaker 2: It was just it was tongueless. You didn't you never

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Speaker 1: Just giving CPR. It's effectively CPR every time you get

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Speaker 1: into it. So, Brendan, did it end? How did it end?

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Speaker 10: Oh? Well, she ended up.

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Speaker 11: She ended up moving on to bigger and better things.

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Speaker 11: But now she's just the tongueless wonder with some other

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Speaker 2: So it's not really the tongue was.

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Speaker 6: Me. She's like one of those clowns at the zoo

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Speaker 6: that you're trying to put the ball in there.

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Speaker 1: Yes, let's go to meet here mea what do you reckon?

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Speaker 1: Is there such a thing as too much tongue? We're

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry, but there is absolutely such I had a

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Speaker 7: guy wants to kiss me and it was like he

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Speaker 7: was trying to digest my chin. Oh he's gone much

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Speaker 7: open mouth, so much tongue was disgusting as.

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Speaker 4: He was getting tongue all around your mouth.

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Speaker 1: That's how people get pash rash when you have an

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Speaker 1: over Zella's tongue going around the math.

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Speaker 3: That's what he was doing.

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Speaker 7: Man, bloody had pash crash from it.

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Speaker 3: Ah, yeah, do you tongue?

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Speaker 2: Do you go the tongue though?

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Speaker 7: Mayre?

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Speaker 12: Oh?

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Speaker 6: I absolutely do.

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Speaker 2: But there's a did you see how do you see

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Speaker 7: I actually haven't out.

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Speaker 13: I think I have to see it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're going to have a watch.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, see I think we split down gender lines here

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Speaker 6: by the way. I feel like all the chicks are

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Speaker 6: saying there's definitely such a thing as too much tongue,

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Speaker 6: and all the blokes are saying.

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Speaker 3: Dil like the dog, more tongue, the better.

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Speaker 2: I'm definitely a woman in our relationship.

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Speaker 1: Oh that makes sense, So did I? I didn't get

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Speaker 1: around your mouth. I feel like my tongue was very

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Speaker 1: much within the playing ground.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you think I missed mouth.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you missed mouth. I really had to

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Speaker 2: like force you out, though I did.

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Speaker 3: I did feel that at the really really came into

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Speaker 3: the house. I felt a defense you did.

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Speaker 2: You were like goldilocks.

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Speaker 4: Let's go to Peter here, Peter, what are your thoughts?

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Speaker 2: Mate?

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Speaker 3: Is there such a thing all the way down?

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Speaker 2: I love it? No, Peter swam.

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Speaker 3: For the tongue.

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Speaker 6: Wow, wow, I'm not sure if you guys.

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Speaker 2: Peter kiss for yourselves? Oh my god?

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Speaker 10: It is?

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Speaker 1: The one thing I am pretty sure we all lie

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Speaker 3: I'm not great with all fruit toast to be honest.

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Speaker 3: And it happens. It happened on TikTok. Will there's this

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Speaker 1: Gluten is cossigns gluten his bag head. How can you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're one of these people that doesn't like people

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Speaker 2: No, no, don't don't you pay me with.

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Speaker 3: That ivory towel.

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Speaker 2: It's not livery tower. It's a tower made of yogurt.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'd love to be in there, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, No, it's I don't don't don't don't hate on me.

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Speaker 2: You know I've had to deal with your dietary so

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Speaker 1: Because it's a serious problem and you've seen the impact

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Speaker 6: This good job of saying to the waiter, you know

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Speaker 3: You know you've done. You're really good. And I think

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Speaker 1: The reason you're good is because you've seen the impact

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Speaker 2: Well, I have the impact button push of George he

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I ate far too many nuts.

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Speaker 1: And I'll put my hand up and say, are stuffed

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Speaker 6: Like, we could go out to dinner with our manager

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Speaker 2: The serve with that, and I'll be like, woods, you

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Speaker 4: I just try to look like the cool otherwise we're.

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Speaker 6: Gonna have to We'll bury the uber driver somewhere in

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Speaker 7: Again.

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Speaker 3: I've had to do that. I've killed three. That's a nightmare.

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Speaker 1: But the consequences are awful as well. So I lie

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Speaker 1: about ditches all the time. I went on a date

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Speaker 4: Anyway, she called the show and she said this, just.

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Speaker 8: That I've ever.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, we managed to go out the back, like if

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Speaker 2: absolutely into the backyard.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely.

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Speaker 4: I would love to know if there's anyone else there.

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Speaker 2: In the same suburb as you.

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Speaker 1: It was like a bugle or I just come over

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Speaker 1: to your house. Thirteen one h six five is the number?

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Speaker 1: Do you lie about your dietaries when you're on an

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Speaker 3: For starters? And then what were the consequences?

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Speaker 2: Oh, it must be tough, and is it.

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Speaker 3: Actually is really really hard?

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Speaker 2: No one else calls us here?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely wors do you lie about your dietary requirements on

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Speaker 1: I really hope I'm not the only one who does this.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like when you do go out to

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Speaker 1: list your dietaries.

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Speaker 3: You get judged.

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Speaker 2: It's just I think that's the cab Well.

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Speaker 1: It is a French guy on TikTok it goes on

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Speaker 1: any gluten. He walks out, doesn't even say goodbye to

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Speaker 3: And that's the fear.

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Speaker 2: But that's why dietary, that's why it's a TikTok story.

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Speaker 2: He's a French wanker. He's walked out in someone.

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Speaker 6: I don't think anyone ever sits because I don't have

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Speaker 6: I never ever sat at a table with someone and

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Speaker 2: I've never sat there and going like, oh jeez, I

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Speaker 6: Nobody I'll never do business with them again. Yeah, I'll

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Speaker 6: catch you later, onion, on onioned, I mean.

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Speaker 2: Whatever it is, I need in my head. I have

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Speaker 2: a great sledge in my head. It'll be hot. But

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Speaker 2: the point is that's insane.

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Speaker 3: It's insane.

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Speaker 2: You don't hate someone for not being able to eat

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Speaker 3: Of food, but hope not.

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Speaker 1: You just don't want to be like a hassle though,

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Speaker 2: That's what they used to.

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Speaker 6: Look, we're gonna hear from other people here. Kaylee is

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Speaker 6: called on thirty one and sixty five. Kaylee, you agree

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Speaker 2: Oh jesus, you agree with the French bloke.

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Speaker 4: You wouldn't You wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: Date a new one with dietares.

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Speaker 7: No, how annoying. I love to go to restaurants. It's

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Speaker 7: I can't have this, I'll be like finish the date,

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Speaker 1: You still can so like if we were dating, for example,

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Speaker 4: Butter and that's probably it, but you can still.

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Speaker 3: Order what you want.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I.

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Speaker 8: I would still stay with them.

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Speaker 7: But one of my.

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Speaker 8: Favorite things to do with my partner is we're.

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Speaker 7: Going to the restaurant and.

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Speaker 10: Sharing.

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Speaker 3: It just becomes very annoying me.

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Speaker 1: And when she was booking my dinner for my birthday,

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Speaker 3: She had to call these restaurants.

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Speaker 1: Do you allow for no one you know going It's

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Speaker 6: It's almost at the point with you where it becomes

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Speaker 4: Us, totally using to Kate here, Kate.

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Speaker 3: Do you like that?

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Speaker 2: Do you like.

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Speaker 7: Definitely? Definitely? I don't now, but at the beginning I

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Speaker 7: One of the worst things you can have when you

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Speaker 7: Domino's pizza. I'm going to have to do it a

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Speaker 7: saying that I had obviously had food poisoning from something

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Speaker 7: and apologized profusely for destroying their.

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Speaker 1: You destroyed the destroyed the bathroom, destroyed the family loose.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, that's how it gets. Now, that's pretty cold.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty high brow gag. Actually, don't you missed it?

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Speaker 3: And you just colon see him?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that is good high brow an astro andrologists

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Speaker 1: And that's a pretty bad example of a consequence of

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Speaker 1: line about your dietaries. But we do have our boss's

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Speaker 1: beautiful wife, Ash London, who joins us on the show

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Speaker 1: right now. Now, Ash, you have an example of our

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Speaker 1: boss Briani maybe not being so honest about his dietaries.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, before I tell the story, I do want to

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Speaker 8: say that late at night last night, lying in bed,

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Speaker 8: I did find myself just going over and over the

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Speaker 8: image in my mind of you two making out. I'm

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Speaker 8: not sure if I was disgusted or around both of them,

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Speaker 8: But well done boy.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, No, we appreciate that.

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Speaker 14: Hey, we're playing the kiss audioce.

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Speaker 6: Does he know that you that you were slightly turned

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Speaker 6: on by us making out?

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Speaker 8: Well, he was lying next to me and I didn't

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Speaker 7: Watching with the night hit across to that.

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Speaker 8: You're weird.

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Speaker 2: Don't go last week, London into your night last week.

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Speaker 3: Settled. Let's watch the boys makeout?

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Speaker 4: Sick baby number two?

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Speaker 8: How would I explain that the reason I got into

455
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Speaker 8: the mood to conceive our second shot watching guys work

456
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Speaker 8: for him make out on an Instagram video while he

457
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Speaker 8: was asleep?

458
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Speaker 4: That sorry, London, let's get back on track here.

459
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Speaker 3: You're you're so our boss baby. He's got he's got dietaries.

460
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Speaker 3: He lied to you. What was the consequence.

461
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Speaker 8: It's not that he lied to me, he just didn't

462
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Speaker 8: mention them to me, which I guess is the same thing.

463
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Speaker 8: So we had been long distance for the first kind

464
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Speaker 8: of two months of our relationships, and we booked a

465
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Speaker 8: trip together. It was a sailing trip in the Philippine Islands,

466
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Speaker 8: very remote, very kind of in the middle of nowhere.

467
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Speaker 8: And on the first night we're on this island, there's

468
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Speaker 8: no electricity, no running water, no toilets. It's like legit,

469
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Speaker 8: and we're having this huge kind of seafood banquet, right

470
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Speaker 8: that cooked. That was lots of curries, lots of glutens,

471
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Speaker 8: lots of seafood, lots of spice. Now I am just

472
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Speaker 8: like going help a leather right eating everything. I'm a machine.

473
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Speaker 8: I'm in the zions of happiness, not a.

474
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Speaker 10: In my life.

475
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Speaker 8: And I look around the table and adrians he's a world.

476
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Speaker 8: Don't know where he is. I keep eating for a while.

477
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Speaker 8: Fifteen minutes, I still kind of fine, went to find him.

478
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Speaker 8: He was back in our hut, crapping himself and vomiting

479
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Speaker 8: at the same time. He broken down to full sweat

480
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Speaker 8: and he was crying a little bit. He was crying

481
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Speaker 8: a little bit because he was so embarrassed but also

482
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Speaker 8: in so much pain, and he just kept saying, I'm

483
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,600
Speaker 8: so sorry, I'm so sorry, and we figured out that

484
00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:06,800
Speaker 8: he was pretty much alergic to everything and he wanted

485
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Speaker 8: to be cool on the holiday. Yes, that's yeah.

486
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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's leaking from everywhere.

487
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Speaker 8: Yeah, you go everywhere. Every orifice was with a ten

488
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Speaker 8: out of ten. But I had to then drag him

489
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Speaker 8: down to the ocean because there was no toilet facility

490
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Speaker 8: and just kind of like let the waves wash o

491
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Speaker 8: begin to wash all of the pooh.

492
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Speaker 10: And vomits.

493
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Speaker 3: Since the ocean.

494
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Speaker 6: There's a theory that we've been testing on this show

495
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Speaker 6: recently that says you are most likely to hop on

496
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Speaker 6: the good foot and do the bad thing with your other,

497
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Speaker 6: with your significant other, with your prospective other on a Thursday.

498
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 6: Thursday is the hot day. Apparently there's there's evidence to

499
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Speaker 6: support this. I can't go into this right now, but

500
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:06,639
Speaker 6: empirical evidence is always on this show. But the clincher,

501
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:09,399
Speaker 6: the absolute clincher for this, was that LJ, one of

502
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Speaker 6: our producers, called her partner Meg last Thursday, and I mean,

503
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Speaker 6: I'll let the audio do the talking.

504
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 2: I was thinking about Sunday and how nice it was

505
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 2: and everything. I was just like, I know we're not

506
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,680
Speaker 2: going to be together tonight, but just wanted to see what.

507
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 8: You thought about what baby, I'm computed.

508
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 2: Maybe do what used to do when we were apart.

509
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 13: Ah, some prime time, some phone time?

510
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 2: Okay baby, why not? All right?

511
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Speaker 4: So it's so hard to listen to cringe, pull.

512
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Speaker 6: Your head out of whatever bucket or other vessel you've

513
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Speaker 6: managed to find in your cars.

514
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Speaker 2: But the point was it was a success. Last day

515
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Speaker 2: the elger I.

516
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Speaker 6: Imagined she followed through with her promise last Thursday.

517
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Speaker 4: The phone was red hot born.

518
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 2: Oh there you go.

519
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Speaker 10: All right.

520
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 6: So but look, I think after much debate and a

521
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Speaker 6: number of people, what do you want to know.

522
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 3: Woulds well? I want to know.

523
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,640
Speaker 1: Well, I want to accuse us, unfortunately, of not doing

524
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: an appropriate scientific test.

525
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,440
Speaker 3: We never had a control. We never had a control.

526
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:18,120
Speaker 3: We went straight to a Thursday phone call.

527
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Speaker 6: So I went straight to a Thursday phone call, and

528
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Speaker 6: we also not and we also went to two women who,

529
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Speaker 6: let's be honest, I mean what yeah, use that.

530
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Speaker 2: I'm not right. I don't think anyone needs to say

531
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Speaker 2: anything more here.

532
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Speaker 6: All I'm just saying is is is if you sparked

533
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Speaker 6: a match around those two, there would be a bonfire

534
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Speaker 6: every time. It's exactly, it's not happening a lot of

535
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Speaker 6: the time, so I just don't think it was a

536
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Speaker 6: fair experiment. And as two scientists woulds as you said,

537
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 6: we need a control.

538
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,159
Speaker 1: So a good friend of mine, Gary, He's married with

539
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Speaker 1: four kids. So if l J and her partner are

540
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Speaker 1: a bonfire, he is the middle of antarctica. So I

541
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Speaker 1: think I think he is an appropriate subject to give

542
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: our control. So it's Wednesday today, So look, we're gonna

543
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: go to a song now, but then after the song,

544
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: we'll call Gary and we'll get him to make the

545
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 1: same phone call.

546
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Speaker 3: To his wife. Yes, okay, and see if she's up

547
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 3: for it tonight.

548
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: Yes, all right, Now, this is the first half of

549
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 1: the study, right, So we see how he goes tonight,

550
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: and then tomorrow.

551
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Speaker 3: We follow up to see if she's more horny on

552
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Speaker 3: a Thursday.

553
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Speaker 2: Wow, jeez, there, you've often and said it, right. Okay, Yeah,

554
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 2: that's right.

555
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 15: I've been really working around those words for the last

556
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 15: three and a half minutes, and you've just bludgeoned them. Perfect, perfect,

557
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 15: But yes, today carry tries once.

558
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 2: Yes, if it's on for him tonight.

559
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 6: The idea or the theory that people are more up

560
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Speaker 6: for it on a Thursday goes out the window.

561
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 2: But if he gets a rejection, gee whiz.

562
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 6: We've got ourselves lined up for a perfect grand final tomorrow,

563
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Speaker 6: which is, of course Thursday, to prove this theory.

564
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Speaker 2: Stay with us, woman, would he?

565
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Speaker 8: That's the more him just a bit.

566
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 6: Podcasts, there's this wild theory going around that people are

567
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Speaker 6: more likely to get some on a Thursday.

568
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 2: So look whether this is.

569
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Speaker 6: On Tinder, on Hinge or any of the other apps

570
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 6: that you used to frequent woods and I believe you

571
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 6: used the terminology before shooting fish in a barrel when

572
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 6: that was the case. Never for you. You used to

573
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Speaker 6: say Thursday was a hot piece as well. We're testing it,

574
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 6: we're trying to prove it right now. I know there's

575
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Speaker 6: lots of our listeners that are hinging their love life

576
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 6: on this advice. So like any great scientists, we're obviously

577
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Speaker 6: not just going to dive in on a Thursday and

578
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 6: test the thing.

579
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Speaker 2: As you said beforewards, we need.

580
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Speaker 1: To control absolutely So enter my good friend Gary, who

581
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,360
Speaker 1: was married to a beautiful lady called Jane.

582
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Speaker 3: He's got four children. He joins us on the phone

583
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Speaker 3: right now, Hello, Gaz, Hello, how do you do good?

584
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 3: Make good?

585
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 10: Now?

586
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: Gaz just to set the scene, like what sort of

587
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: and you know, tell me if this is too personal,

588
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: what sort of strike rate are we at right now

589
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: in your normal life?

590
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:56,360
Speaker 12: Oh?

591
00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 13: Look, i'd say once a week's nice to two. Two's

592
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 13: a good week. If I'm just it that week, I'm

593
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:03,639
Speaker 13: pretty flat.

594
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, thanks, appreciate your breaking it down.

595
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,360
Speaker 2: Once a week is pretty as an average though, Like, that's.

596
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 13: I'm happy with that.

597
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I think we all I think we'd all

598
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Speaker 2: take once a week.

599
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Speaker 6: Let's yeah, absolutely, Like l Joe's looking at me like

600
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 6: you guys are on chickens feet. Well look mate, we

601
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 6: don't all have the life that you and Meg live.

602
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 6: We've covered it, we know it's great. Congratulations.

603
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,160
Speaker 13: I'm probably not there, but I just think I am. Anyway,

604
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 13: moving on.

605
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, so now you've heard the theory Gazz that apparently

606
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: people are more up for it on a Thursday.

607
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Speaker 3: So I appreciate you getting involved in this study.

608
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: So if you're a call now, which it's a Wednesday,

609
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: technically she should be quite a hard target to nail down.

610
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, but we're going to put that to

611
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 1: the test right now. So are you okay to call

612
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 1: her and just sort of put.

613
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Speaker 3: It to it.

614
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm ready to go all beautiful, amazing.

615
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 6: First of all, I commend you. Everyone appreciates this. No

616
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 6: one wants to make this fun call. You're a buddy legend.

617
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: Good luck.

618
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm just almost of the school you

619
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 13: said I could back in the drive opens Yeah, yeah,

620
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 13: all right, good. I just I've had a few minutes

621
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 13: to think to myself. I'm just just checking. Yes, sorry,

622
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 13: so I don't maybe know. Yes, I'm on nom am.

623
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 13: I out for a shot tonight.

624
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 8: No, damn, well.

625
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 13: Look at those you know? All right, thank you, I appreciate,

626
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,439
Speaker 13: appreciate you can turn for me.

627
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 10: I think good.

628
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 13: All right, goodbye?

629
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 3: Ye hang out, guys, Is she gone?

630
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 13: I don't think so. How do we get rid of

631
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Speaker 13: it back?

632
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 7: Oh?

633
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 13: No, exactly as I thought.

634
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 3: I haven't heard a quicker rejection in my life.

635
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 13: Come on this ship. Yes now, No, I'm like it

636
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 13: could week.

637
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 3: Are you keen to try again tomorrow?

638
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 13: But I actually reckon, I'm in for a shot tonight

639
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 13: and I'll have to give you that result.

640
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 6: Really well, you're gonna have to Gary for the sake

641
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 6: of the experiment. I'm sorry to do this. I'm sorry

642
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 6: to cock block you. But yeah, you're gonna have.

643
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 2: To say no tonight. You're just gonna have to.

644
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 13: I'm just gonna have to. If I just get on

645
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 13: your phone or the laptop it's something really good, then.

646
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 2: I'm sure let's push through.

647
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 13: I'm sure I can go one more night.

648
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 6: I think you can, Mate. It sounds like you've waited

649
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 6: enough of them already. What's one more? What's one more

650
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 6: compared to the last two hundred and fifty?

651
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 10: Yeah?

652
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 2: Perfect, all right, I appreciate it.

653
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 3: Your dedication, guys.

654
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 6: Get the box out, whatever you need to do, whatever

655
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 6: you need to do, all right.

656
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 14: Perfect, perfect, Okayrow, It's Will and Woody.

657
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 2: Totally wild story out of Sydney last night.

658
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 12: There is a police operation right now underway at Taronga

659
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 12: Zoo in Sydney. There are reports that four lions have

660
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Speaker 12: escaped their enclosure.

661
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 2: Totally wild words.

662
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 6: Magnus, who was there last night when it happened with

663
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Speaker 6: his family, joins us right now, Magnus, what happened?

664
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Speaker 2: Mate?

665
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 10: We came the last night and we went for a

666
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Speaker 10: little night tour. They showed up the lions. They called

667
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Speaker 10: them cubs, but I would say they're fully gone lions, right,

668
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 10: fair enough, yeah, and then all hell broke loose. Just kidding.

669
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 3: What did happen? Though?

670
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Speaker 1: So you look at these lions, what's what's the moment

671
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: when you realize that they're on the loose?

672
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Speaker 10: Oh that was this morning. So last night we just

673
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 10: had a tour and had some dinner and went to bed,

674
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Speaker 10: and then about twenty to seven in the morning or

675
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Speaker 10: something like that, the alarm went off or on the

676
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Speaker 10: whole zoom and the szookeepers came down and screaming, it's

677
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 10: like code one COLDE one emergency.

678
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 2: Why the zoo keepers The zookeepers came down screaming.

679
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 10: Yeah. So they obviously had an alarm or an alert

680
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 10: on the on the radio, and we didn't know what

681
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 10: it was.

682
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 3: So where do you go?

683
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: So what do you what do you do? Is that

684
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 1: like running? Are you running somewhere?

685
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 3: The magnus uh.

686
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, kind of rushing. They wanted to make sure that

687
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 10: everyone got into this little cabin where you have the

688
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 10: showers and the toilets and stuff. Oh, and the got

689
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 10: us up in there. And my wife's didn't have time

690
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 10: to put their shoes on, so she was running their

691
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 10: foods up there. Oh my god, got in there. They

692
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 10: counted us, making sure that everyone was in there, and

693
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 10: they closed and locked the door. I still don't know

694
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 10: what's going on here, so we've kind of confused. And

695
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 10: then I heard they all had the radiosongs we could

696
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 10: hurt the communication going on, and someone said on the radio,

697
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 10: we can't find them, and it was like that. Then

698
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 10: we realized it was the lions.

699
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's like a Jurassic Park clever girl.

700
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you literally said, who are them?

701
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 8: Yeah?

702
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 6: And then he turned around and was like, the lions

703
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 6: are loose, mate.

704
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, And then there was blood everywhere.

705
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 4: So hell were you in there?

706
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 2: For?

707
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 3: The Magnus about an hour and a half.

708
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 10: But I must say that the zoo dealt put it

709
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 10: really well there. It's almost like a checklist. They knew

710
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 10: exactly what to do. No one was scared or freaked out.

711
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 10: If everyone was called. The school keepers were even singing

712
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 10: songs with the children in there and having fun. Then, Yeah,

713
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 10: they were great.

714
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 2: Songs with the children in the jungle. Wow, that's intense.

715
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 3: Do you reckon you'll roar and snore again?

716
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 10: Magnus Yeah, absolutely, as long as they let the lines out.

717
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 6: And finally Magnus when they did their head count, when

718
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 6: you went into the room, into the safe room. At

719
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 6: what point did they realize that you deliberately left a

720
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 6: child in your tent?

721
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 10: I actually realized that before they did. I ran back

722
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 10: to the tent and did.

723
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 14: You actually make this joking?

724
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 3: He's going to do us a few times now. He's

725
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 3: a dead man.

726
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 10: But my wife left her phone there, so I sent

727
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 10: one of my kids back to quickly.

728
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 3: You're a smaller to good move quickly.

729
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 6: Hey, thanks for joining us, Magnus really appreciate it.

730
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 2: That's okay, hell of a story mate. Cheers.

731
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 10: Thanks.

732
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 6: Wow, Yeah, sick man, it was sick made a lot

733
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 6: of death jokes getting bloodily murdered by lions. But anyway,

734
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 6: thanks so much for that man. Obviously no one was

735
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 6: hurting as he said. Dronga Zoo were incredibly professional about

736
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 6: the whole thing. But I want to focus on this

737
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 6: expression the lions are loose, because I think that is

738
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 6: the worst thing that you could possibly hear.

739
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 2: In a zoo.

740
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 3: Oh definitely, yea, one hundred percent.

741
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 2: It'll be up there, yeah, be out there.

742
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 3: What's is there a worse animal that could be on

743
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 3: the loose? Is lion lines? The top of the pyramid.

744
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 2: There isn't.

745
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 6: Oh, there's other things that you could say that would

746
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 6: still be a bit sick, Like you know, I've got

747
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 6: an otter up my ass or something like that. That'd

748
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 6: be trouble.

749
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 3: That is the dream? Are you king?

750
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: If I heard on my radio there's an otter up

751
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 1: my bum, I'm going get me to the otter enclosure

752
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:51,959
Speaker 1: immediately and bring the camera.

753
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 14: Bring everyone's, bring every bring the media. But the lines

754
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 14: are loose in the zoo game. Probably the worst thing

755
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 14: you can possibly hear. I think I want to hear.

756
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 14: What's the worst thing someone can say in your industry?

757
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 6: So I don't care what you're working. I used to

758
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 6: be a swim teacher. Yeah, yeah, I used to be

759
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 6: a swim teacher. If you heard the word code brown

760
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 6: in swim teaching, that was that was endgame.

761
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 4: A mean, I think everyone knows exactly what that means.

762
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 6: People leave a pool faster than code brown. I used

763
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 6: to just say it to get them out of the pool.

764
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 6: At the end of the day, you're wrapping up the pool,

765
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 6: smart code brown, fly out of there.

766
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 2: What do they do in.

767
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 3: A code Brown?

768
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 2: They have to fish it out?

769
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 3: But then play on.

770
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is sick.

771
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 6: There's a lot of chlorine in the water that is sick.

772
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 6: You run the pump for a bit anyway.

773
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: One six ' five.

774
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 6: What's the worst thing someone can say in your industry? Skydiving? Obviously,

775
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 6: parachute's broken, of course, of course, specific to your job.

776
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 6: What's the worst thing that you can hear? That's the

777
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 6: worst thing that you can hear in your industry? Early

778
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 6: this morning at Tronkazoo and Sydney, the Lions Will Loose

779
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 6: has yelled over the end ACoM and I reckon pretty

780
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 6: much the worst thing you could hear if you worked

781
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 6: in a zoom.

782
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Magnus heard it. We just heard from Magnus.

783
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: He was at the zoo at the time. He missed him,

784
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 1: get him on the podcast, sacrificed his children, Yeah, and

785
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: deliberately enjoyed it.

786
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 2: Sick man, deliberately. Chelsea's called Chelse.

787
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 6: Let's kick it off with, Hey, mate, let's kick it

788
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 6: off with what industry.

789
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 2: You work in? I'm commer teacher, teacher. Oh, let's let's

790
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 2: let's have a guess.

791
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 6: Sports teacher code Brown, I mean I was assuming teacher,

792
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 6: but can't be a code bound in the basketball court.

793
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 3: Brown sure, is just missing a kid? So you do

794
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 3: the do the head count.

795
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 2: Can't find someone?

796
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 3: I can't can't find the kid.

797
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 2: Forgot my forgot my forgot my sports clothes.

798
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 8: No, that's nothing.

799
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: Ye take him to the second hand and put him

800
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 1: in those cracking clothes. Chelse, what's the worst thing you

801
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: can hear as a sports teacher?

802
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 7: Miss, miss, my partner's not sitting on the bus.

803
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: Now, Yeah, how long have you lost a kid for?

804
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 3: Can I just ask?

805
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 8: I haven't lost a kid?

806
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 2: Sure, but you've lost it be lost before.

807
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 8: But there has been lost kids. And I think you

808
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:18,720
Speaker 8: get down the road, you get halfway back to school

809
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 8: from the footy grands and you're like, oh mate, to

810
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:22,479
Speaker 8: the bus triver mate, can.

811
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 11: You just turn around?

812
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 8: We are He's like, oh, I have you forgotten a kid?

813
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 8: And I said, oh no, look, we just we just

814
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 8: miscounted truth.

815
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 4: Almighty fun. Let's go to Claudia here, Claudes, let's kick

816
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 4: it off.

817
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 3: What industry do you work in?

818
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 7: I workeon the removals industry.

819
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 3: Removalist industry. Surely it's that couches in the wrong position.

820
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 6: No no, no, no, no no no, no, I reckon,

821
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 6: it's I reckon, it's it's not going to fit there.

822
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 4: No, what about what about the lifts broken?

823
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 3: So we're going to keep getting the lift's broken?

824
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 7: Said, No, that's not the worst. So I knew people internationally,

825
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,399
Speaker 7: so I made that personal effect internationally. And the worst

826
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 7: thing that could possibly be said is like, oh, so

827
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 7: your container's fallen off the ship.

828
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:21,240
Speaker 6: Oh yes, Oh my god, that's totally recurrible. Yeah, gee whiz,

829
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 6: thanks the call clauses that actually happened, though I told

830
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 6: us earlier when we thought she was in the removallest

831
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 6: furniture industry.

832
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,879
Speaker 2: Here, couch doesn't fit there.

833
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 6: I'm sure removalis That would be the worst thing you'd hear, though.

834
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 3: I reckon, the lift's broken.

835
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 4: That then you climbing stairs all day, baby, that would

836
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 4: be rich.

837
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 6: Yeah. If you get a crane out, you get like

838
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 6: a little winch out the side of the window.

839
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 2: They do that in Europe. That's true. I've been to

840
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 2: Europe a bit. You haven't.

841
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 3: I have partner's.

842
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 6: Dutch Dylan's called Dylan Dylan. What's the worst thing that

843
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 6: can be heard in your profession?

844
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 10: Guys?

845
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 9: It wasn't actually the worst thing I've heard. We'll do

846
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 9: a little lion story.

847
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we were I was with a.

848
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 9: Circus and we're all sitting around the ring having a drink,

849
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 9: and next minute somebody forgot to close the big door.

850
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 9: And after they fed him and the down come four

851
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 9: five lines. Well, well, circus lines are like little cats,

852
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 9: so that's all right, you know, but but they sort

853
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 9: of donald out and everybody sort of scattered, the caravans

854
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 9: and the guys who trained, and we all ended up

855
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 9: date lines ended up under the seating, and yeah, ended

856
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 9: up hurting him back a little while. But it was

857
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 9: a bit of a heart jumper, I'll tell you.

858
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, because line teams have been eaten before. Those two

859
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 1: famous blonde blonde guys, didn't one of them get eaten?

860
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 9: Dylan, that was a white tiger.

861
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 3: That was a white was a white tiger.

862
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 4: There was a white tiger, those famous showmans.

863
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 2: And then I feel like everything you said could have

864
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,720
Speaker 2: just been a lie. And you've just finished with that.

865
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 10: You can think that, but I know it happened.

866
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,720
Speaker 9: And the growing a thrown up like little cats.

867
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 11: You know, it's like a little dog actually, like a

868
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,760
Speaker 11: little dog that were there and nice scattered.

869
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 2: So the question was, what's the worst thing you heard

870
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 2: in your profession. What did they say to.

871
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 9: Well, it was only yes, it was not public in

872
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,399
Speaker 9: this so it was just like everybody sit skill and

873
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 9: you'll be right, pretty casual.

874
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: Finish your drinks, finish your drink and uh, we'll catch

875
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: these little dogs, these little.

876
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 3: Puppies, these little pups.

877
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 2: Basically cold dell willy ahead of water. If you fill

878
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 2: a bit fly and you're after a boost that litten

879
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 2: up to this tin bit baby, it's will do we

880
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 2: da man to health?

881
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 5: Did tid baby.

882
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 6: Baby?

883
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 2: Alright? He woulds.

884
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 6: Today I want to talk about there is a special word.

885
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:03,959
Speaker 6: There is one word that I'm going to talk about,

886
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 6: which I think is truly transformative.

887
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 2: But today's all about being or human being versus human doing.

888
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 6: So I can spend a lot of time and if

889
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 6: anyone else can empathize with this a lot of Sometimes

890
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 6: I can get home from the end of the day

891
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 6: and I feel like I've been running around.

892
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 2: I feel like I've.

893
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 6: Achieved nothing, but I feel like I've been constantly doing things.

894
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 6: I get home, I feel like I've given so much

895
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 6: to the day, but I've got nothing back, And I

896
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 6: can feel quite empty and tired, got.

897
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 4: Nothing back At as in got no satisfaction from.

898
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 2: What you were doing, as like a lack of fulfillment.

899
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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I feel like all I am doing is

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Speaker 1: doing there was no time to celebrate what you've done.

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Speaker 3: Sure yeah, sure.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, and moving on to the next thing and thinking

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Speaker 2: about what the next thing is.

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Speaker 3: Sure, sure, And that's.

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Speaker 6: Your controlling mind, that's you're doing that you can sort

906
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Speaker 6: of click in and there are lots of things that

907
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Speaker 6: can make you have that can turn on your doing mine.

908
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Speaker 6: You might be anxious, you might be trying to prove yourself,

909
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Speaker 6: you might be worried about other people might think of you.

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Speaker 2: You might get scared of what will happen if you

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Speaker 2: do stop doing things.

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Speaker 6: But it's a pretty classic trait to constantly be in

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Speaker 6: your mind thinking in your head, what next should I

914
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Speaker 6: be doing?

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Speaker 2: What else can I be doing? How else can I

916
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Speaker 2: be doing things? And it's something that you get very

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Speaker 2: addictive to, very very addicted to, very very easily.

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Speaker 6: And a lot of people experience this term burnout, which

919
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Speaker 6: is very common these days, which is when people actually

920
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Speaker 6: don't know what other gear there is other than human doing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Henry David Threw said most people spend their life fishing

923
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Speaker 2: without realizing it's not fish thereafter?

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Speaker 3: What are they after Henry?

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Speaker 2: I think it's a rhetorical question. Perfect doing mine God had.

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Speaker 3: When Henry does it in a rhetorical bastard, I've fallen

927
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Speaker 3: for it.

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Speaker 7: Again.

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Speaker 6: Doing mind is act evated when you're running around. As

930
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Speaker 6: I said, so how do you stop? That's the question?

931
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Speaker 2: How do you stop being in your doing mind?

932
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Speaker 3: Huh?

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Speaker 6: And this gets down to the word that I wanted

934
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Speaker 6: to talk about, which is pause. So one of my

935
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Speaker 6: favorite teachers is this woman called Tara Brack who you

936
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Speaker 6: know woods, And she has on her computer.

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Speaker 2: Screen, I know, and a little stick, you know, just

938
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Speaker 2: the word pause.

939
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Speaker 6: Because it's only in moments of pause that you transition

940
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Speaker 6: from doing something to being.

941
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Speaker 2: And it can be really, really simple.

942
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Speaker 6: So it doesn't need to be like, you know, sit

943
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Speaker 6: and actively stop for you know, a minute or two,

944
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Speaker 6: because that might be a bit confronting. But she talks

945
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Speaker 6: about other things that you can do, like pausing and

946
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Speaker 6: enjoying something. So sitting under a tree, lying under a tree,

947
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Speaker 6: looking up at a tree, if you've ever done that,

948
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Speaker 6: maybe not getting out of your car until you've finished

949
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 6: enjoying the song that you're listening to, Oh yeah, sure,

950
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Speaker 6: next time that you go and hug a friend, actually

951
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 6: hold them for a bit longer, actually hug them.

952
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Speaker 3: Or kiss them, or kiss them.

953
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Speaker 6: I know from experience they haven't got too much tongue involved,

954
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Speaker 6: but effectively, each one of them is trying to stop

955
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Speaker 6: you from transitioning too quickly into the next thing.

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Speaker 4: Come, I ask you when you are in that pause state.

957
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Speaker 1: I feel like a big fear of being in pause

958
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: state is that then all these thoughts that rushing in,

959
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: these negative thoughts that you've been distracting yourself from when

960
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 1: you're in how do you make them go away when

961
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: you're in pause?

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Speaker 6: I think the real trap is trying to think you

963
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 6: can make them go away by doing well, yeah, because

964
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Speaker 6: you're not going to stop them. They're still going to

965
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Speaker 6: be there. Yeah, You're still thinking. Even if you think

966
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Speaker 6: you're distracting yourself, you're still thinking. So particularly from subconscious,

967
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Speaker 6: really subversive, sort of degrading internal thoughts, they'll always be there. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: So trying to stop them is not the solution. And

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Speaker 6: a lot of people, and it's funny you mentioned sitting

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Speaker 6: down like meditation. I meditate a lot, and it's yeah,

971
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Speaker 6: for a lot of people, it's really scary. But something

972
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Speaker 6: I heard recently which I think is really important in

973
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Speaker 6: this is that there was a phrase with this woman

974
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Speaker 6: said put your tush on the cush and see what

975
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Speaker 6: comes up. Sure, for a lot of people, the idea

976
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Speaker 6: of meditating is distracting yourself from your thoughts or pushing

977
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Speaker 6: them away, but really it's just being with whatever there is,

978
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Speaker 6: And I think.

979
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Speaker 2: Meditating takes guts in that sense.

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Speaker 6: It's actually going like, nah, I'm just going to stop

981
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Speaker 6: and just see what happens here and listening to them

982
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Speaker 6: and actually, yeah, exactly. So it's the resistance with those

983
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Speaker 6: thoughts that will yeah, aggravate them effectively. So it just

984
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Speaker 6: final thought on this art of pausing in shamanick circles.

985
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Speaker 6: I was practicing that before shamanic circles, semantic circles involving shamans.

986
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Speaker 6: In many sharman circles, apparently, if if you came to

987
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Speaker 6: a medicine person or a sharman complaining of being disheartened, dispirited,

988
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Speaker 6: or depressed, they would ask you one of four questions.

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Speaker 6: When did you stop dancing? When did you stop singing?

990
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Speaker 6: When did you stop being enchanted by stories, And when

991
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Speaker 6: did you stop finding comfort in the sweet.

992
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Speaker 2: Territory of silence. What's the right answer, Well, if you've answered.

993
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Speaker 6: Yes to one of those things, then you've probably got

994
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Speaker 6: an issue because you're not stopping, you're not pausing, you're

995
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Speaker 6: not being each of those things, dancing, singing, and enchanted

996
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Speaker 6: by stories, you're listening, not doing, sitting in silence. And

997
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Speaker 6: that was always for them, the root of why someone

998
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Speaker 6: was dispirited, depressed, disheartened or anxious.

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Speaker 2: That's the tidbit for today. Like as well if you

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Speaker 2: can like it.