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Speaker 1: And Amanda gem.

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Speaker 2: Nation, the Jonesy Demander arms for the pub test. Men

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Speaker 2: paying on the first date? Does it pass the pub test?

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Speaker 2: This has been around for years.

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Speaker 3: But it's changing. This is what's so interesting. The Millennials

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Speaker 3: or Gen Wise they used to be called, said no,

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Speaker 3: So this is the guy. The guys and girls I

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Speaker 3: guess that are over thirty. Now that generation the men

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Speaker 3: said no. Well, to my reading, the men have said no,

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Speaker 3: it's fifty to fifty and the women agreed by and large.

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Speaker 3: Now we're getting Generation Z and it seems there's a

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Speaker 3: softening to this where men and women are expecting a

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Speaker 3: man to pay on the first date. Here's an interview

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Speaker 3: grab that was done with a group of university students.

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Speaker 4: Do you think men should pound the fascinator?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I think so, Yes they should.

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Speaker 1: Yes, not if it's that expensive percent Yes.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like because they asked me out, they

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Speaker 2: should like make the effort to pay as well. If

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Speaker 2: he asked me out and then doesn't pay, it is like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I've offended.

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Speaker 3: And yet the asking out is different these days. So

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Speaker 3: many people are matching online. There's no old school yeah

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Speaker 3: asking out, and people are going on multiple days a week,

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Speaker 3: multiple dates a week. How does a man afford to

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Speaker 3: do all of that?

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of Guzman and Gomes.

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Speaker 3: It certainly is. Let's ask you men paying on the

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Speaker 3: first date. Does it pass the pub test?

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Speaker 5: Look, I think generally they should pay on the first date.

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Speaker 5: But I suppose you just choose on the vibe. If

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Speaker 5: she's not vibing it and she's looking around the room,

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Speaker 5: maybe she can pay for her.

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Speaker 1: Look, I don't think it passes the pub test. I

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Speaker 1: think you should split the bill on the first date,

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Speaker 1: and there shouldn't be this expectation that one person should

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Speaker 1: But it's still romantic when someone offers. If I was

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Speaker 1: asked out and I'd had to pay, I'd be absolutely horrified.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if we're in the new generation.

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Speaker 4: I'm still old school.

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Speaker 1: So yes, men need to pay on the first date.

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Speaker 1: Yes it does.

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Speaker 5: I'm a baby boomer, and what I've found when I.

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Speaker 4: Was dating was that it was a very good barama

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Speaker 4: as to the interest of the other party. Only if

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Speaker 4: men want to pay on the first date. If a

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Speaker 4: woman wants to pay, she can pay. If they want

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Speaker 4: to split the bill fifty to fifty. Either way, I

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Speaker 4: think it's just amazing that people are going on first

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Speaker 4: dates and loving their lives.

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Speaker 3: Nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, nice,