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Speaker 2: edition for me taking selfies off herself? So whoms for
Speaker 2: what we do not know? Boy?
Speaker 3: Not really my mum.
Speaker 2: Either way, you don't need to share your business, It's okay.
Speaker 3: But any opportunity I'm just waiting to get into a
Speaker 3: relationship so I can completely decimate it by sharing personal information.
Speaker 2: Oh will you?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh fantastic.
Speaker 3: We run out of material, flex, you know, I'm in
Speaker 3: the trenches. Always think, what do.
Speaker 2: You mean running out? You post ten stories a day,
Speaker 2: it's not even cracking the surface. But big questions we're
Speaker 2: asking today, when are you allowed to call someone your ex?
Speaker 2: In particular? What needs to happen? How long do you
Speaker 2: need to be interacting before it is fair, reasonable and
Speaker 2: sane Yes, to refer to someone as your ex.
Speaker 3: There's a lot of conditions that I believe need to
Speaker 3: be met before the X tag can come in. I've
Speaker 3: been burnt by someone saying calling me a nex after
Speaker 3: two dates, so I have a particular interest in abolishing
Speaker 3: this happening because it's triggering. Yeah, so let's get to it.
Speaker 1: This is Flex and frooms on CAD.
Speaker 3: I was in the toilet the other day. I won't
Speaker 3: tell you what I was doing, but you can use
Speaker 3: your imagination. It was number twos, so I was taking
Speaker 3: a little bit of time in There no foot elevation
Speaker 3: at the time, so there was a struggle.
Speaker 2: We need to figure out portable poopstools.
Speaker 3: I have one that was a little handle, but people
Speaker 3: aren't ready for that.
Speaker 2: But is it portable in the way that you're taking
Speaker 2: it out of the house location to location or.
Speaker 3: It's like a briefcase.
Speaker 2: Have you done that? No, exactly, I'm talking like pocket
Speaker 2: size phone size.
Speaker 3: But just know if you invite me over to your house,
Speaker 3: I will be rummaging in the cupboards looking for some
Speaker 3: sort of object. There's at least thirty centimeters high I
Speaker 3: can prop my feet onto. I digress. I was in
Speaker 3: the toilet of cater last week. I'm having a think.
Speaker 3: It's been a big day for us, and I go, oh,
Speaker 3: I've got a really good thought experiment. If I was
Speaker 3: to give you one hundred thousand dollars to do this,
Speaker 3: would you do it? Okay, we hook a wire up
Speaker 3: to your brain and we can tell every single thought
Speaker 3: that you've had for an entire day, every single thought,
Speaker 3: impulsive thoughts, intrusive thoughts you could snap at any time.
Speaker 2: I get a snapt I wouldn't do it for one
Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: No, okay, a million?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: Wait, do you get what I'm saying? Though?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if you would hook up some kind of
Speaker 2: machine to my brain that would be able to tell
Speaker 2: what I was thinking, when I was thinking it, and
Speaker 2: broadcast those thoughts to anyone who wanted access to them,
Speaker 2: My thoughts are priceless.
Speaker 3: Would you do any amount of money?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd do it for a billion dollars?
Speaker 3: What about five million?
Speaker 2: I do it for five million?
Speaker 3: Three?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll do for three.
Speaker 3: One million, I'll do for one okay, okay.
Speaker 2: One million cash and it's a gift, so I'm not
Speaker 2: getting taxed. Yeah, wow, will you wouldn't do it?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: What are you thinking?
Speaker 3: You don't want to know?
Speaker 2: One hundred thousand dollars is not enough for the chaos.
Speaker 2: It's gonna cause.
Speaker 3: Exactly a million.
Speaker 2: I don't mind.
Speaker 3: But like, this is gonna live on in perpetuity, so
Speaker 3: your children could wake up one day and like go
Speaker 3: back to the annals and say everything that you're thinking.
Speaker 2: Are we not only doing that now? I'm sharing my
Speaker 2: thoughts on the internet all the time. Yeah, but this
Speaker 2: is the next step, and it's for a day, and
Speaker 2: you're saying it in this environment. Yeah, I think a
Speaker 2: million dollars is enough to deal with the repercussions or
Speaker 2: any of the consequences. For example, if we were at
Speaker 2: cater for a whole day and you're paying me a
Speaker 2: million dollars have my thoughts broadcasted, it just gets a
Speaker 2: bit too hectic.
Speaker 3: I'll quit, like I'm quitting because through me is a
Speaker 3: bushpig and I hate it.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's less about my thoughts being shared,
Speaker 2: but the consequence of those thoughts. If I think some
Speaker 2: rowdy stuff and it can't just be brushed off as
Speaker 2: like a and it's chaotic, I'll just quit.
Speaker 3: Cool. Oh guess because you had a million dollars? Yeah,
Speaker 3: and just hide away. Fabulous?
Speaker 2: Would you do it?
Speaker 3: No thoughts are sacred. I have intrusive thoughts. You can't
Speaker 3: hear them.
Speaker 2: Knowing you you accidentally say them. Anyway, that was a
Speaker 2: nice thought experiment, and I will say for anybody who's
Speaker 2: interested in seeing how that would play out, you should
Speaker 2: watch the movie Chaos Walking with Spider Man. What's his name?
Speaker 2: Tom Holland Cool. It's about a time in history. It's
Speaker 2: still on Earth, but an alternate universe. Actually maybe it's
Speaker 2: another planet. But basically, the men in this place have
Speaker 2: all of their thoughts broadcasted and the women don't have
Speaker 2: the same affliction. And so you look at how society
Speaker 2: functions when men can't hide their thoughts, and how that
Speaker 2: impacts how masculinity is perceived. So no longer is physical
Speaker 2: strength or the inability to conceal emotions the most masculine
Speaker 2: thing you can do. But it's being, you know, traditionally
Speaker 2: masculine and being able to hide what you think, like
Speaker 2: shield your thoughts. It's fantastic, wrong, go watch it. It's
Speaker 2: also a book if you like reading. Okay, I love it.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Flexile.
Speaker 2: And we need to discuss this. It's very important. I
Speaker 2: feel like today we need to come to a consensus
Speaker 2: and then disseminate this information far and wide so we
Speaker 2: are all on the same page. Are you ready, all
Speaker 2: in favor? Say yes, flex yes, Flexi Freney. Please tell
Speaker 2: me when are you allowed to call someone your ex?
Speaker 2: And by that I mean after what dating experience with someone,
Speaker 2: are you entitled to continue to refer to them as
Speaker 2: your ex?
Speaker 3: Perhaps we need to go through all the stages.
Speaker 2: Great, I can do that.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: So is it appropriate to call somebody your ex after
Speaker 2: one date? No care? No, after one date with kissing
Speaker 2: and tongue. No, after a sexual encounter. Absolutely not after
Speaker 2: casually speaking for three months. No, after a situationship there's
Speaker 2: like dating, they're sleeping together, but it only happened for
Speaker 2: a month. No, damn, tough crowd, after you've been hooking
Speaker 2: up on and off for a year. Friends with benefits.
Speaker 3: It depends what context you're talking about the ex.
Speaker 2: I gave you the context.
Speaker 3: No, No, I like, who's asking me? Like, if I'm
Speaker 3: in a conversation with all of my girlfriends and I'm
Speaker 3: talking about the guy, I'm not going to call him
Speaker 3: my ex because they have all the background. Whereas if
Speaker 3: I'm meeting up with new friends and they're like, oh,
Speaker 3: we just you know, and I've just bumped into the guy,
Speaker 3: and then I go to the dinner with the new
Speaker 3: friends and like, oh, what's happened. I'm like, Oh, I
Speaker 3: just bumped into like my ex or this guy I dated.
Speaker 2: So you're saying that you use X as a term
Speaker 2: to summarize what somebody is to you to people who
Speaker 2: might not have all the context.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's easier than saying, oh, this guy that
Speaker 3: I like dated for a little bit and then didn't
Speaker 3: date and then we dated, is it really X? Okay? No,
Speaker 3: to be fair, I don't know who uses the term
Speaker 3: X anymore.
Speaker 2: We've abolished X Y wocab What do we call people.
Speaker 3: People are dated victims?
Speaker 4: Stop?
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I think that the reason why I've
Speaker 2: asked this question is because the more conversations I have
Speaker 2: about dating generally, the more I realize my approach can
Speaker 2: feel a bit like direct and binary, like things are
Speaker 2: or they are not. I was their girlfriend, I was
Speaker 2: not their girlfriend. We kissed, we did not kiss. But
Speaker 2: as I speak to other people, they have what I
Speaker 2: refer to as like a convoluted approach that is very confusing.
Speaker 2: The kind of people where they're like, oh, yeah, we
Speaker 2: hooked up and I'm like, oh, so you slept here
Speaker 2: They're like no, no, no, no, no, we kissed. Babes, use
Speaker 2: the right words to describe what you're saying. So in
Speaker 2: this particular instance, I was talking to somebody who had
Speaker 2: described somebody that they were talking to, like you know
Speaker 2: how people they do talking stages these days, sheesus somebody
Speaker 2: they were somebody they were flirting with frequently, virtually, that's
Speaker 2: what we want to call it, for a couple of
Speaker 2: months and they had said, oh, that's my ex. And
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you know, when did you date?
Speaker 2: When'd you go out? And they were like, oh, you know,
Speaker 2: it was a couple of months. A girls like, oh, like,
Speaker 2: tell me about it. Goes on to describe a talking situation.
Speaker 2: I said, babes, babes virgin behavior At this point, though,
Speaker 2: it feels slenderous because if anybody but the people that
Speaker 2: I had had an official boyfriend, girlfriend dynamic with referred
Speaker 2: to me as their ex, that's defamation.
Speaker 3: As I said, it's a very virgin all kind of
Speaker 3: thing to do in what way saying that you talk
Speaker 3: to someone and then call them the X.
Speaker 2: In some instances, I don't think I've ever had such
Speaker 2: a what's the word I'm looking for? Such and like
Speaker 2: an inslammatory connection with someone that I wasn't in an
Speaker 2: official relationship with. I've seen the way some people do
Speaker 2: situationships like someone you're flirting with virtually like people these days,
Speaker 2: especially on TikTok, often describe their situationships as being far
Speaker 2: more heartbreaking than their actual relationships. Something about the fantasy
Speaker 2: of almost having you know, this dynamic but not having it,
Speaker 2: and it feeling a lot more intimate because there was
Speaker 2: a lot more limitations. I get that. I totally get that.
Speaker 2: But words mean things. If we're going to start calling
Speaker 2: literally everyone we've interacted with in a romantic sense an ex,
Speaker 2: we need to add at a suffix an X.
Speaker 3: What explain this.
Speaker 2: Is my ex talking stage, This is my ex situationship, my.
Speaker 3: Ex, your ass, some ass was eat? If you ate
Speaker 3: an ass, you got an X.
Speaker 2: Okay, I will say, tell me.
Speaker 3: Oh, do certain things they're your X. Oh, okay, meet
Speaker 3: the parents, giveaway? Are you all for the first time? Okay,
Speaker 3: I haven't done it myself.
Speaker 2: Vaginal penetration is not exert that's child's play. Do other
Speaker 2: week pegging, pegging one finger, meeting friends for the first
Speaker 2: time when they've not been pegged before, meeting friends.
Speaker 3: Before you just loosen them up. Okay, this is one
Speaker 3: of the.
Speaker 2: Things you're gonna say made and then regret.
Speaker 1: You're not built that way for me.
Speaker 3: You know, I don't do it. I just want to
Speaker 3: pretend that.
Speaker 2: I do it. No, if you've met their friends under
Speaker 2: any circumstance, that's feels like it's verging on X to me,
Speaker 2: if you're being introduced in a romantic way.
Speaker 3: I could go on and on about this because meeting
Speaker 3: the friends, did you really, because.
Speaker 2: You haven't said he's stopped with Hanal and Peggy and
Speaker 2: give me this.
Speaker 3: On community Meeting the friends is crucial love bombing vibes. Yeah,
Speaker 3: nobody talks about this, but like I remember instances where
Speaker 3: like I was going on dates with this guy and
Speaker 3: I met his friend. He had a friend over one night,
Speaker 3: and the friend was so interested in me, asking all
Speaker 3: these questions. It's a fucking trap. And then two dates
Speaker 3: later we go to some house Shanghai, dumpling house eight
Speaker 3: twelve dumplings, go back to his house, never see him again.
Speaker 3: So but yeah, i'd met the friend, which made me
Speaker 3: think we're on here telling me all about his mum.
Speaker 3: Mom would love you going to his works and we've all.
Speaker 2: Fallen victim to it, because of course, why would your
Speaker 2: mom not love me? I'm very lovable me and like
Speaker 2: love bobbing isn't bad because I get why, Yes.
Speaker 3: But that's definitely a crucial part of love bobbing. But
Speaker 3: the whole ex thing, I don't call anyone my ex
Speaker 3: because I'd say ex boyfriend X feels like shady and
Speaker 3: like American, and I don't like it. He's my ex.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to complicate my digital footprints and nobody knows
Speaker 2: my business me moonlighting as a mysterious gal you wish
Speaker 2: and like, nobody is my ex. I want to feel
Speaker 2: like I just like incubated in a pod and then
Speaker 2: arrived on the planet as a twenty eight year old
Speaker 2: with no past, no fut vibes.
Speaker 3: Have you debuted only one boyfriend? Yeah? Because when I
Speaker 3: type in your name in flex mummy on.
Speaker 2: On TikTok, this we have to discuss. Okay, we won't
Speaker 2: do it this episode. But if you type in like
Speaker 2: like women influences on Instagram and I didn't even see
Speaker 2: this myself, Sally, my best friend, pointed out, She's like,
Speaker 2: why do Why is it when I go to search
Speaker 2: up women influences on TikTok, the first video that comes
Speaker 2: up is always them with their boyfriend. Of all the
Speaker 2: thousands of videos I've posted. Mine is like this cute
Speaker 2: little Valentine's Day with my ex boyfriend? What is that?
Speaker 2: Have I not gone viral? Have I not made a
Speaker 2: name for myself as a CrOx connoisseur And this random
Speaker 2: thirty K video is the one. That's also what we
Speaker 2: need to discuss is seeing the most searched terms for
Speaker 2: your name. I love mine is like flex mammy, network,
Speaker 2: flex mammy, boyfriend, fex, flexmamy ex boyfriend, it's bizarre.
Speaker 3: Mine's listener price, age, listener, price triplet. Can you do
Speaker 3: on TikTok?
Speaker 2: Should it quickly?
Speaker 3: Now? I don't know you could do this?
Speaker 2: Are you sure?
Speaker 3: Okay? Hold on?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And I don't know if it's
Speaker 2: because it's our own algorithm, so we're like confusing it
Speaker 2: a type in flex mammy. Here's what we've got, flex mammy, crocs,
Speaker 2: flex mummy, house tour, breakup boyfriend bar, which is a
Speaker 2: very interesting one. But there was a section when I
Speaker 2: was doing Socialize Era when I was recommending bars, jewelry, podcast, restaurant,
Speaker 2: Tinder and like tinder me no.
Speaker 3: Okay, mine mine is flex and froomes Froome's crypto frooms World,
Speaker 3: Flex and frooms bts god got a monopoly on my TikTok.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they really want the flex integration and I'm not surprised,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So we need to come
Speaker 2: to a consensus. I think it is only appropriate to
Speaker 2: call some of your ex if you were in an
Speaker 2: official dynamic.
Speaker 3: And or if you've eaten their ass.
Speaker 2: And third caveat is emotional damage happened?
Speaker 3: Yes, Oh but nah, I think that.
Speaker 2: It's fair because if you only had a situation whip
Speaker 2: for a week, but like really what you know, like
Speaker 2: you're still ragging on about it six months later, I
Speaker 2: think it's fair.
Speaker 1: This is flex and froomes on.
Speaker 2: I know it's really lame to talk about extreme weather,
Speaker 2: not in a climate change way, but just I feel
Speaker 2: like people think that's a conversational crutch. But when I
Speaker 2: find some really interesting information, I have to share. So
Speaker 2: if you've been keeping abreast of the news, then you
Speaker 2: know there's been extreme weathers all across the world, but
Speaker 2: in particular in the UK they're experiencing a heat wave
Speaker 2: currently with temperatures up to forty degrees and given their
Speaker 2: infrastructure and the way that they're not built for that
Speaker 2: kind of heat. I can imagine they're suffering. The tiktoks
Speaker 2: have been funny though. Did you know there was a
Speaker 2: runway like a plane runway that had melted so plans
Speaker 2: couldn't take off. This is serious stuff, Yeah, for real,
Speaker 2: it's hectic.
Speaker 3: See. I just imagine they're all winging.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but no, they're not winging. It's actually they're suffering,
Speaker 2: but so much so that unions in the UK are
Speaker 2: calling for a maximum UK workplace temperature. What they're currently
Speaker 2: saying is that it is inhumane to let people work
Speaker 2: in these conditions, and there should be it should be
Speaker 2: understood nationwide. When is it too hot for people to
Speaker 2: come into work and be allowed opportunities to work from
Speaker 2: home or to be given, you know, incentives to still
Speaker 2: come in or whatever. The GMB union is saying that
Speaker 2: the government should set a maximum temperature for workplaces of
Speaker 2: twenty five degrees, which I was like, wait a second,
Speaker 2: HoTT on.
Speaker 3: Only don't want to go to the beach. Literally.
Speaker 2: They're saying that they want employers to offer flexible working
Speaker 2: hours and travel arrangements, or give staff extra breaks or
Speaker 2: relaxed stress codes to accommodate for warm weather. So if
Speaker 2: you want the girl used to come in to the office,
Speaker 2: let the more spaghetti straps at the very be spaghetti straps. Yeah,
Speaker 2: a lot crocky or something. We can't be doing three
Speaker 2: piece suit when it's twenty five point five degrees be
Speaker 2: serious the top hatch. But interestingly enough, the approach to
Speaker 2: this discussion is not just people feel uncomfortable, therefore they
Speaker 2: should be allowed exceptions to the rule. But they were
Speaker 2: also talking about how like workplaces should be doing what
Speaker 2: is required for people to be as safe and as
Speaker 2: comfortable as possible. They do have a duty of care,
Speaker 2: and because the UK isn't used to extreme heat, they
Speaker 2: aren't like people don't know how to live and work
Speaker 2: in the best way possible. That we should create a
Speaker 2: system that prioritizes that. Like people are dying and like
Speaker 2: getting heat stroke and stuff because they don't know what
Speaker 2: to do. They're not keeping hydrated anyway. I don't know
Speaker 2: if they're going to be able to enforce the legal
Speaker 2: maximum temperature. But you need to have done wild stuff
Speaker 2: in the past. Who's to say this won't sparkle, you know,
Speaker 2: a global ripple effect.
Speaker 3: Do you know that'sorry about the unions in Australia. Some
Speaker 3: singer came to Australia. I want to say Frankie Valley,
Speaker 3: but oh, frank Sinatra I think in the seventies and
Speaker 3: he had these like really fudged like opinions on women
Speaker 3: and women in work. And he went did a show
Speaker 3: and like spouted some of these views. And this was
Speaker 3: deep in the feminism second wave era. So all these
Speaker 3: people revolted about it, and men and women too were like,
Speaker 3: this is crap. He's got to apologize. So then he
Speaker 3: said I'm not going to perform and he went to
Speaker 3: get on his jet. The unions of the aircrafts in
Speaker 3: Australia said no, we're grounding your flight. The people who
Speaker 3: gave the petrol say no, we're not giving you any petrol.
Speaker 3: So he was stuck in Australia. But he wouldn't apologize
Speaker 3: for what he said. So then Bob Hawk, who at
Speaker 3: the time wasn't the Prime Minister, he was the head
Speaker 3: of the unions, came and had a meeting with him.
Speaker 3: Brought a bottle of liquor. They finished the liquor and
Speaker 3: they came to an agreement that he would yeat away
Speaker 3: from Australia and never come back.
Speaker 2: Ooh facts, I like that story. Thank you for sharing them.
Speaker 3: I put so unions yes or no?
Speaker 1: Yeah, babe, slap you're listening to flex and Frooms on Kita.
Speaker 2: One thing I like to do is ask me questions.
Speaker 2: Some would say I am very curious. Not everybody is
Speaker 2: curious in the same way. Some people like asking questions.
Speaker 2: Some people like seeking out answers.
Speaker 3: Yes, I for one and both, and you're mostly questions.
Speaker 3: Are you often going to give me an answer? Find
Speaker 3: it deeply frustrating?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because when you start seeking out too many answers,
Speaker 2: people start looking for truth. And I'm not interested in
Speaker 2: one single truth. It's too limiting. I just like ideas,
Speaker 2: and one idea in particular. I wouldn't say it's been
Speaker 2: at the front of my mind, but somewhere in the
Speaker 2: back is what were we doing before toilet paper? Only
Speaker 2: because as a person who lives alone and has a
Speaker 2: toilet paper subscription, I was like, we've gone too far.
Speaker 2: We've progressed and modernized to a point where I I'm
Speaker 2: actually a bit concerned with how much money and how
Speaker 2: much of a system I've created around this thing that
Speaker 2: should just be number one free and number two delivered
Speaker 2: to my house, not at my expense. But listen to this.
Speaker 2: I typed in the phrase what did we do before
Speaker 2: toilet paper, hoping that something good would come up? We
Speaker 2: use leaves, sticks, moss, sand and water.
Speaker 3: Sand.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which doesn't sound bad to me because if you
Speaker 2: think about it, without getting too graphic, what happens when
Speaker 2: you put a bit of liquid on sand. It starts
Speaker 2: to congeal is not the right word, but creates, you know,
Speaker 2: little micro clumps. Yeah, use the sand to dust off
Speaker 2: the excess and exfolia at the same time. I find
Speaker 2: that to be a better option than moss. It's frank
Speaker 2: body scrub, don't without the costs. Don't do it, don't
Speaker 2: do it. I think that's far better than leaves and
Speaker 2: sticks and moss, sand and water are my preferred options.
Speaker 2: But yeah, once we developed agriculture, we had options like, hey,
Speaker 2: and corn husks, which again don't feel like the best tool.
Speaker 3: A corn husk the stuff that corn comes in. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 3: like that'd be nice, Yes, like grasp on it. You
Speaker 3: know what I think. In the very olden days, when
Speaker 3: we was the people's in the caves, chilling and vibing.
Speaker 3: We would just simply squat down, spread cheek as you
Speaker 3: would say, squat at an angle that it projected.
Speaker 2: Squat Is this all good?
Speaker 3: Squatting in a way that your bum cheeks are so
Speaker 3: spread that it doesn't touch anything around. It simply comes
Speaker 3: out in a perfect form, So it's not touching your hair,
Speaker 3: it's not touching anything because it's coming straight out. Plus,
Speaker 3: I don't reckon you get hemorrhoids or constipation because you're
Speaker 3: eating a fibrous food and very based diet.
Speaker 2: And I don't mean to leave with conspiracy, but I
Speaker 2: do think there's a correlation between toilets and bow issues. Yes,
Speaker 2: that position you're sitting in is not conducive to a
Speaker 2: healthy bower movement flex.
Speaker 3: FLEXI. I'm going to tell you how to do the
Speaker 3: absolute perfect nap. You don't strike me as a napper,
Speaker 3: but you do strike me as someone taking enormous sleeps.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm big on the twelve hour sleep, four hours sleep.
Speaker 2: I have tried to nap in my time, but I
Speaker 2: don't like the idea of not doing things fully. So
Speaker 2: for example, I don't necessarily want to snack. I just
Speaker 2: want to eat the meal and be done. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: don't want to nap. I want to sleep and dream
Speaker 2: and be comfortable and then wake up twelve hours later.
Speaker 2: But I'm open to hearing any suggestions. I would like
Speaker 2: to integrate napping into my routine.
Speaker 3: Well, this new thing that I want to do on
Speaker 3: kata is find how to do things purely on wiki how. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I've gone on to wiki how. It's a website where
Speaker 3: it tells you how to do very very simple things
Speaker 3: with illustrations. This one is called how to power an app.
Speaker 3: Let me read it out for you. A quick power
Speaker 3: nap can help you combat drowsiness and make you feel
Speaker 3: more and productive if you're in Allegedly, if you're in
Speaker 3: need of a power nap, make sure you do it
Speaker 3: right so you make up feeling refreshed and not goggy.
Speaker 3: These are the tips. Take a brief twenty minute nap
Speaker 3: so you can feel more arrested than alert when you
Speaker 3: wake up. Anything longer than thirty minutes may leave you
Speaker 3: feel groggy because at that stage you're entering into rem
Speaker 3: and if you break the rem when you're quick in,
Speaker 3: you're going to like dry mouth pipes. Drink a cup
Speaker 3: of coffee right before a power nap because it can
Speaker 3: actually make you feel more awake after the nap because
Speaker 3: the coffee takes a certain amount of time to be metabolized.
Speaker 2: Question, Miss, I'm not on the beans, So what alternative
Speaker 2: substance alternative sumptions is still you have to offer?
Speaker 3: I don't know, Like I don't know how the energy drinks.
Speaker 3: I feel like energy drinks would be oh, coke, cucka collar,
Speaker 3: but I don't know if. I don't know if like
Speaker 3: coc colar and stuff, because obviously into the list what
Speaker 3: else we got. Make sure it's not too warm or
Speaker 3: too cold. You want your napping to be comfortable, so
Speaker 3: look for a cool, comfortable place to nap. Most people
Speaker 3: sleep best at eighteenth degrees or for people like you,
Speaker 3: the boss bosses in the world, nap for two to
Speaker 3: five minutes. If you don't have much time but you're sleepy,
Speaker 3: you cannot continue on with whatever you're doing. A two
Speaker 3: to five minute nap is called a nano nap. I
Speaker 3: can help you deal with some of the sleepiness.
Speaker 2: I think we need to start making the distinction between
Speaker 2: just closing your eyes and doing nothing versus napping, because
Speaker 2: for me, that's portion of time between closing my eyes
Speaker 2: and being asleep. Is that technically a nap because I'm
Speaker 2: just eyes closed thinking napping for two to five minutes
Speaker 2: is like daydreaming to me.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know if you've ever done like a
Speaker 3: massive drive from Sydney to Melbourne, but there's you need
Speaker 3: to stop, o Parket.
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I haven't. I don't know if you've
Speaker 2: ever done a massive dry I'm sorry I haven't.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you just like curl up on the back seat
Speaker 3: if you're miss the next trail, cradling yourself for five minutes,
Speaker 3: and it does a lot does a lot for anyway,
Speaker 3: we don't talk about the car since somebody arsened it,
Speaker 3: so we're gonna continue on with cater I.
Speaker 2: Think we're rushing over that if we can briefly explain
Speaker 2: what happened. Rooms came back from a Bali trip not
Speaker 2: too long ago, opened up her car door was getting
Speaker 2: ready to come to Cata looked up at the ceiling
Speaker 2: of her car to realize it had been burnt to
Speaker 2: a crisp. The headsets have been melted. There were cigarettes
Speaker 2: on the ground. She told the polices that this had happened.
Speaker 2: They obviously did not find the culprit useless and then
Speaker 2: Frooms bought a new car. But it's actually a quite
Speaker 2: scary thing that we keep making jokes about.
Speaker 3: Yeah, police messaged me yesterday saying, hey, Listenda, we still
Speaker 3: haven't found any evidence.
Speaker 2: To which you replied, have you been looking?
Speaker 3: Literally?
Speaker 2: Well, I do want regular and frequent updates about that,
Speaker 2: because I do think that.
Speaker 3: You haven't got the insurance payouts. I'm waiting on a
Speaker 3: couple of thousand.
Speaker 2: I feel that it's a lot of information to give
Speaker 2: while the payou are still pending. Okay, somebody did say
Speaker 2: in the comments that they thought you were doing insurance fraud.
Speaker 3: My dad is organizing it.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 3: My dad's like doing it for me. He's like how
Speaker 3: do it? Because they're like, yeah, you did it yourself.
Speaker 3: It's like, how do you?
Speaker 2: I didn't do it myself.
Speaker 3: I'm a car dealer.
Speaker 1: This is flex and Frooms on Kada.
Speaker 3: I was on TikTok sat every single break with I
Speaker 3: was on TikTok.
Speaker 2: Free press out of this world, but also really happy
Speaker 2: for them. Imagine building a software that.
Speaker 3: No bucks joy and steal data. And I came across
Speaker 3: this TikTok Let's have a listen. The caption is fun
Speaker 3: Fact and it's a man wearing Sonny's inside a podcast studio.
Speaker 3: So he is our brethren.
Speaker 4: Your tongue knows what everything feels like. Look around the
Speaker 4: room right now and imagine what it would be like
Speaker 4: to lick that, and you'll know exactly what it feels like.
Speaker 4: And I'll never be the same ever since we.
Speaker 2: Just trust him.
Speaker 3: But try it.
Speaker 2: I'll try it before your tongue. I feel like what
Speaker 2: he means to say is your tonge can imagine what
Speaker 2: everything tastes like or feels like, not your tongue knows.
Speaker 3: Your tongue knows though, like I know what that would
Speaker 3: be like, but.
Speaker 2: You imagine, you know, like you're able to conjure up
Speaker 2: the sensation you don't. Yeah, So it's to know is
Speaker 2: to know. To be able. To experience is to know,
Speaker 2: to be able to be to imagine.
Speaker 3: To know is to imagine. To know is to imagine.
Speaker 3: And then if you did it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, to know is to do. Sometimes this is
Speaker 2: getting into like if a tree falls.
Speaker 3: Territory, but how crazy is that? And then I was
Speaker 3: reading the comments and apparently it's because your tongue and
Speaker 3: your fingers kind of like do the same thing. They're
Speaker 3: the same sense. You know, your fingers are more feely
Speaker 3: than here, like your fingers have more feelings.
Speaker 2: Your tongue and the tip of your finger.
Speaker 3: Has the same amount of feeling.
Speaker 2: But yeah, but your fingers have felt stuff.
Speaker 3: My tonguees felt stuff, more stuff than I can admit.
Speaker 2: What are you referring to? Nah week, you won't say.
Speaker 3: Seriously, if you're in your car right now, have a
Speaker 3: look around. If you lick the steering steering wheel, you
Speaker 3: would you would know what it tests.
Speaker 2: But I still stand by the fact that your tongue
Speaker 2: doesn't know, it can imagine, therefore it thinks it knows.
Speaker 2: But it's pretty cool that I can imagine for I am,
Speaker 2: so maybe you do know.
Speaker 3: I think tongues deserve way more credit. They heal so quickly,
Speaker 3: They bring you so much joy. They have you mummy,
Speaker 3: which is incredible. It's sprouted a whole new like scented shut.
Speaker 2: Up me for you enough tongue propaganda, because I'm not convinced.
Speaker 2: I'm on board, but I'm not convinced.
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