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Speaker 1: to whenever You're listening Today, This is Lisa and Russell's podcast.

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Speaker 2: Coming up on the podcast Adrian barratch Chat's about one

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Speaker 2: of his perth demons winning the Sandover Medal on Monday Night,

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Speaker 2: and another edition of his and Russell's parenting segment, Dad Chat.

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Speaker 3: Hollywood great Robert Redford has passed away at the age

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Speaker 3: of eighty nine.

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Speaker 2: We take calls on the number of languages you speak,

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Speaker 2: with Russell learning Spanish, which will be his second.

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Speaker 3: Barely, and we do the first The Life of Liz segment,

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Speaker 3: in which our producer Liz shares a bizarre story from

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Speaker 3: her bizarre life. We've quickly learned she has many to share.

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Speaker 3: Did my homework again last night? That bird?

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Speaker 4: Like you do that?

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Speaker 5: Senor?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, depends how old the bird is. Anyway, I'm

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Speaker 3: working on it. Yeah. We'll see how many languages you

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Speaker 3: can speak as I try to attempt my second one.

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Speaker 5: L Hello, how are you to that one?

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Speaker 2: That's the only thing I learned when I had to

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Speaker 2: go at Spanish from once. I gave that when I

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Speaker 2: couldn't roll my ars, that kind of.

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Speaker 3: And you should reply to me. I would hope.

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Speaker 2: Mayben yes, yes, just what is it? Is it always

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Speaker 2: moi bien? Can it ever be just be in okay,

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Speaker 2: can be be in that like?

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Speaker 3: But moy is very I want very good from you

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Speaker 3: this morning. I really want very good. We were talking

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Speaker 3: about the bird a little while ago, people, but what

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Speaker 3: what bird is that? Phar It's if you've got the

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Speaker 3: duo lingo app, which is hugely popular popular around the world.

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Speaker 3: This little bird is the icon and it just bugs

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Speaker 2: I thought you kept calling her a bird, and I

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Speaker 3: Well that's what you. You started it because.

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Speaker 5: I'm not a fan of it's their being called birds.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, beautiful plume, it's a little It is an actual bird.

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Speaker 3: It is an actual bird and a liter and it

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Speaker 3: bugs you all day until you've done your little fifteen

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Speaker 2: When you fit bit zaps you to tell you I

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Speaker 3: It's like really and it gets more and more. It's

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Look very wise, very wise, out sad looking one?

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Speaker 3: Well, the longer you leave it between lessons, it is yeah.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, that's my that's my That's what I'm putting

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm always terribly impressed by people that can speak

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Speaker 5: Some can because it's not learning another language is really

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Speaker 2: And you know these languages like that, you're doing Spanish

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Speaker 3: What is the word for that? Masculine and feminine?

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Speaker 2: And I don't know why, why do you need to

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Speaker 3: Are you allowed to now?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe language needs to be Now, well.

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Speaker 3: That's going to mess up. It's going to mess up

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Speaker 5: It is, isn't it. I wonder what the toughest.

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Speaker 2: I have often heard it, Well, I think some of

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Speaker 2: But I have heard it said that Hebrew is very

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Speaker 3: Larry David can do it, Male Brooks can do it.

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Speaker 6: We're talking about Barvin Hamler's earlier doing it for Barbara

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Speaker 6: streisand yes, so we want to know how many languages

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Speaker 5: Come on and we will be We will be requiring proof.

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Speaker 2: You can't just come and go I speak six fluid

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Speaker 3: Impress us, impress all of perth, impress everybody with your

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Speaker 5: Skills, with your skills, Paul and Savile.

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Speaker 2: Grove has to tell us I speak two languages, English

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Speaker 2: Marianne in Eastwee Park says, I'm learning Oslin.

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Speaker 3: Marion Num signed that in earlier.

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Speaker 5: Yes, a demographic.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing very very well? How many can you speak?

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Speaker 5: Three languages and.

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Speaker 2: Well, because I was talking about Hebrew before Arabics a same.

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Speaker 5: It is just so Yes, it's not. Is it a

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Speaker 3: Forgot lots of words. Still sounds right. And then I

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Speaker 3: And it's also the accent too, that really adds to it.

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Speaker 5: I love it's beautiful to listen to. I just love it.

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Speaker 2: An in Wande on the text says, I speak Portuguese,

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Speaker 3: Scam teenage grunt. That's that's a good one to get

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Speaker 5: That one, all right. Peter in Marangaro.

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Speaker 3: Impresses three languages. Yes, I'm impressed, English, Irish and a

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Speaker 1: So get all those.

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Speaker 5: It can't be hard to understand.

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Speaker 5: Definitely? Oh? Thank you, Peter, A.

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Speaker 3: Good have a good day, Okay, thank you? All right?

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Speaker 3: So you know, yeah, well, well we'll give it our

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Speaker 2: Well it's happening more and more, isn't it that we're

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Speaker 2: coming into news like this? Yes, not good news this morning.

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Speaker 2: Robert Redford has died. He was eighty nine. The actor,

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Speaker 2: who was also an Oscar winning director and the founder

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Speaker 2: in Provo, Utah. Surrounded by loved ones. Robert spent decades

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Speaker 2: as a leading actor in Hollywood, known for films like

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Speaker 2: The Sting, Three Days of the Condor, All the President's

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Speaker 2: Men and Butch Cassidy, and The Sundance Kid with Paul Newman,

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Speaker 2: Get Away from Me.

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Speaker 7: I want a fighter. He'll kill us.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you want to die? Do you all right? I'll

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Speaker 3: jump first, then you jump for it. Oh, I said,

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Speaker 3: what's the matter with you? I can't swim?

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Speaker 4: Why are you crazy?

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Speaker 1: The four will.

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Speaker 3: Probably kill you?

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Speaker 6: Such a good movie, Redford?

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Speaker 5: That's is that? What rain drops keep falling on my head?

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Speaker 2: Redford acted alongside Hollywood's favorite leading ladies, including Jane Fonder

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Speaker 2: and Barefoot in the Park, Barbara streisand In the Way

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Speaker 5: We know you leaving? Doesn't it matter to you that

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Speaker 5: I'm another man's wife.

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Speaker 3: No, what matters to me is that you try.

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Speaker 5: So what time tomorrow?

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Speaker 3: What time tomorrow?

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Speaker 2: He really was quite the leading man. As well as

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Speaker 2: those I just mentioned. There was also Indecent Proposal.

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Speaker 3: Which was a similar event to someone Else's Wife Yes.

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Speaker 2: Twenty seventeen's Our Souls at Night, where he teamed up

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Speaker 1: She was an unknown with nothing but ambition over here.

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Speaker 4: He was the professional who'd done it all.

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Speaker 5: You used to cover the White House.

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Speaker 3: You still get the coffee.

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Speaker 7: This is to tell me I have a lot to learn.

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Speaker 5: I already know that.

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Speaker 3: Wow what she needed to know.

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Speaker 4: She eats the lands.

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Speaker 8: He taught her.

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Speaker 4: We keep it loose, keep it open, and bring it

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Speaker 4: Lucky Gold.

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Speaker 5: Remember when all movie trailers sounded.

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Speaker 3: Like that guy, that guy, that voice, That guy did

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Speaker 5: That was a great.

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Speaker 3: Roberts list of awards and credentials is just endless. And

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Speaker 3: All the President's Men he is up.

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Speaker 5: All the President's Men is an insanely good movie. Barbara.

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Speaker 2: I mean he made a you know, we talked about

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Speaker 5: Who knows really won.

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Speaker 2: Barbra streisand is sharing her misty watercolor memories of her

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Speaker 2: that's from the song of her The Way We Were

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Speaker 2: co star in a post on Instagram, She's written, every

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Speaker 2: day on the set of the Way We Were was exciting, intense,

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Speaker 2: and Pure Joy.

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Speaker 5: We were such opposites. He was from the world of horses.

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Speaker 5: I was allergic to them.

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Speaker 2: Yet we kept trying to find out more about each other,

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Speaker 2: just like the characters in the movie. Redford also appeared

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Speaker 2: The Winter Soldier and Avengers Endgame, and he won an

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Speaker 5: Wonderful film.

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Speaker 2: He was also passionate about supporting filmmakers and artists and

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Speaker 3: but probably not the last time, it is time.

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Speaker 1: For the life of Liz.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Liz, Yes, there's a whole about your misadventures.

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Speaker 2: Misadventures you've been regaling us with stories recently of house

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Speaker 2: sithing and.

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Speaker 3: Into the microphone.

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Speaker 2: We've all house sat before, but never with the adventures

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Speaker 3: You seem to make it more difficult than it need

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Speaker 3: to be.

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Speaker 5: Yes, take us through what's happening at the moment.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So I'm a professional, almost professionally house sitting because

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Speaker 7: I'm trying to buy an apartment in this econdo.

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Speaker 1: Me. Yes, and.

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Speaker 7: Look, I have how sat for ever, like I've done

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Speaker 7: a lot of stuff. I've you know, I seem to

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Speaker 7: great with a cat dog too. Yeah, yeah, and you

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Speaker 7: know I've had to wipe a British bulldog's bum before.

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Speaker 7: But this that does not top the cat that I

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Speaker 7: just comes out of nowhere, comes out of nowhere, and

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Speaker 7: call me old fashioned. But I was on the impression

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Speaker 7: don't bite the hand that feeds exactly, and she is

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Speaker 7: just going absolutely psycho and you're doing to feed her,

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Speaker 7: like a couple of times I'm out and my parents

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Speaker 7: heavy duty gardening gloves.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I had a friend come over the other day and

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Speaker 7: thick cotton because you will get a.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, thick, a thick coiter. But yeah, So I'm terrified

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Speaker 7: every day dealing with her. And I guess I'm trying

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Speaker 5: I'll go, yeah, you're dealing with it from Chinky's level.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I was like, I've got to get inside the

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Speaker 7: mind of a deranged cat, geriatric cat.

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Speaker 3: Did you guys get off on the wrong foot or

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Speaker 3: the wrong paw as the case? Maybe did you do something?

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Speaker 3: Is there anything that you can think of that maybe

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Speaker 5: I think did you laugh at it? Or something?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Every Maybe about the name.

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Speaker 7: I've heard about Tinky for years and I never met

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Speaker 7: her because my parents would look after her for the

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Speaker 7: Like my dad's got that sort of old tissue paper

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Speaker 7: skin and yeah, he's like in ribbons and he'll be like, oh, Tinky, have.

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Speaker 5: You ever gone tinky.

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Speaker 1: Name?

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Speaker 3: It's such a silly name.

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Speaker 5: Maybe she's coming at you for that.

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Speaker 7: But I've heard, I've heard, like, I've heard the lore

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I am.

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Speaker 7: I'm terrified. I've actually meant to be sleeping there, but

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Speaker 7: I don't. I'm too scared, So I sleep at my

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Speaker 7: parents house next door.

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Speaker 3: Lock the door.

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Speaker 5: How much longer have you got to go?

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Speaker 7: I've got another three weeks and now, but a tink,

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Speaker 7: you think this is psychotic. She only drinks from a

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Speaker 5: To hold it for her.

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Speaker 3: Are we talking a high ball or a high.

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Speaker 5: Ball, like a high ball, like a long glass of water?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a tall glass of water, twist of lemon.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, she's moving. They're moving, her owners, moving to

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Speaker 7: retirement village. So Tinky is leaving the neighborhood in three weeks.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you want to get as much Tinky as you

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Speaker 3: Lots of people to attack and the retirement.

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Speaker 7: Sometimes you walk past and she's just staring herself in

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Speaker 5: Evil Jinky sounds awesome.

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Speaker 3: Cats are like that, though, aren't they. You know, they

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm sure she'll raise hell at the retirement village,

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Possible.

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Speaker 2: But we look forward to hearing more about the tales

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Speaker 2: of Tinky and whatever else is going on in your

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Speaker 2: life soon.

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Speaker 5: I'm thinking sooner rather than later.

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Speaker 7: Don't get me started on the dating. But anyway, I

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Speaker 7: don't worry.

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Speaker 5: We're saving that.

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Speaker 3: We know, we know there'll be more stories ahead. Don't

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Speaker 3: worry started this good Luck in Life Liz.

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Speaker 1: More of Lisa and Muscle's podcast.

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Speaker 4: It's on the.

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Speaker 8: Way suit morning mate, sort of just recovering from the

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Speaker 8: Sandover medal.

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Speaker 3: Still this works in.

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Speaker 5: With the parenting thing because you're like a proud papa. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Charlie Constable.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, charged over there and gave him a big hug

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Speaker 8: when his name was announced as a Sandover medalist.

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Speaker 5: That's fantastic.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, he's our co captain at Perth. Fantastic guy, great family.

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Speaker 8: He is a Victorian, but you know, don't hold that

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Speaker 4: Yes, and he's also a Sandover medallist.

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Speaker 8: So guess who stormed into the pent house after the

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Speaker 4: Celebrate with him.

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Speaker 8: Andy and Hamish of course, and his footy's equivalent of

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Speaker 4: That's what it was like. You know, they came and.

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Speaker 8: And Andy's bitty about the freeo mate and all that

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Speaker 4: Okay, so yesterday morning.

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Speaker 3: Are they still alongside with the Yeah? Where the oval?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and so they put your name down there. So

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Speaker 8: But because he's a teacher, what he does is if

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Speaker 8: It's like a humble brag as well as a he's

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Speaker 4: So I've got a bit of Brownlane news too. I

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Speaker 8: Brown Line met All which is next Monday night of

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Speaker 4: Carpet. Yeah, on the on the blue carpet called the

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Speaker 5: But yeah, brown carpet doesn't sound very appetizing.

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Speaker 4: Like hawthorns jumpers.

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Speaker 3: It's not a shag.

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Speaker 4: Hawthorns jumpers are called Pooh and Wi.

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Speaker 3: Primary school.

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Speaker 8: I don't know why I threw that in, but anyway,

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Speaker 8: But now I believe the AFL is saying, look, the

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Speaker 8: So you're only getting in if you're actually going to

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Speaker 4: Dress, exactly right.

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Speaker 8: Last year she wore a custom rose gold dress okay,

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Speaker 5: It and no one's going to keep Beck out of.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Chris, but this girl, Paris Bishop, I don't think

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Speaker 2: So does that mean they're going to have fewer people

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Speaker 8: No, same number, but just based on nothing to do

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Speaker 4: Or how good looking new girlfriend is.

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Speaker 2: Or whether I didn't based on anything other than how

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Speaker 3: Well no, well, see this is the thing.

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Speaker 2: How literally inviting people based on how good looking their

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Speaker 3: Going to say houses to affect the old Blue carpet

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Speaker 8: Some of the ugly did votes, the ugly fellows, they've

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Speaker 5: Their footballers they've got girl friends.

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Speaker 3: Can you imagine they might not be if they're not

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Speaker 8: Yeah, that's gonna that's going to make it hard think

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Speaker 8: about That's a big change, Paris Bishop. I think about her,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to spend a lot of time today thinking

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Speaker 3: There's no chance to go back to back for her,

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Speaker 4: Doesn't go in because her boyfriend couldn't kick straight anyway.

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Speaker 3: Chat with Russell and bar Bara's got some thoughts this

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Speaker 3: morning on a on a technique called gentle parenting.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well, just as we've been doing this segment, people

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Speaker 4: And I've never heard.

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Speaker 4: I didn't actually know.

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Speaker 8: Apparently it's all the rage basically means no yelling, no punishment,

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Speaker 4: And it's even with really young kids.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, after school care people have told me and teachers Darling,

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Speaker 4: It makes him sad. It makes him sad.

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Speaker 5: Don't run on the road in front.

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Speaker 2: Of that car.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you'll damp the bumper.

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Speaker 8: Well, even if you put your kid on a slippery

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Speaker 8: dip or something, you don't be careful.

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Speaker 4: You have to say what's your plan here?

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Speaker 3: And like I found this because I'm a bit like you,

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Speaker 3: I'd never really heard of it before. But demands not

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Speaker 3: to touch something can be communicated by saying things like,

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Speaker 3: let's use our gentle hands.

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Speaker 2: On gentle hands hands on that pot of boiling water

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Speaker 2: when we pull it down on.

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Speaker 8: Our hand, Yeah, that gets a big run. But when

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Speaker 8: a three year old bite someone at daycare, I reckon,

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Speaker 8: they go darling, how do you think Tommy felt when

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Speaker 8: you gnawed on his arm like a chicken wing.

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Speaker 4: That's actual true story, darling. How did you feel?

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Speaker 8: Okay, sweetheart, I know you're upset about not being able

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Speaker 8: to have ice cream for dinner, but let's unpack those feelings.

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Speaker 8: Let's unpack the who wants to do It's like hostage negotiations.

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you what. Put the iPad down. No one

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Speaker 4: needs to get hurt.

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Speaker 3: But see, this doesn't This doesn't prepare them for the

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Speaker 3: real world because you can sit there and do that

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Speaker 3: and you know we care about them. But then when

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Speaker 3: they go out into the real world and people who

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Speaker 3: don't care about them, when they get a job, or

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Speaker 3: when they go too high school or university, they're not

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Speaker 3: going to be prepared for it.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't, but I don't.

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Speaker 8: I think it's it's a wave that's sweeping the nation

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Speaker 8: and you're not you go to university now, they're not

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Speaker 8: allowed to speak to kids in any negative sense at all.

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Speaker 8: The professors are absolutely petrified about getting, you know, some

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Speaker 8: sort of charge against them.

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Speaker 5: It's the whole participation trophy thing.

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Speaker 2: Eventually life is going to hurt. You might as well

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Speaker 2: get prepared for it that you're not. Everyone wins every time.

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Speaker 8: So you reckon Channel liam N I will find you

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Speaker 8: go to bed now.

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Speaker 3: Just just leave the last bit out of what we've

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Speaker 3: got A.

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Speaker 2: Text from Steve and Miranda who wants to know, what

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Speaker 2: do you think kids need more of from their parents today? Well,

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Speaker 2: this is very much related to what you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: They maybe need a.

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Speaker 3: Bit more tough love. I exactly, discipline, but there's you know,

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Speaker 3: there's discipline, and then there's this. There have always been

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Speaker 3: parents who go too far and who are can be cruel,

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Speaker 3: So you don't want that more discipline.

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Speaker 8: And I would add more hugs as well, because that's

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Speaker 8: in my family.

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Speaker 4: Hugging wasn't a big thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's our generation.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and saying I love you seems to be the

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Speaker 8: hardest thing to say.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes also our generation.

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Speaker 8: I reckon, I reckon, you need to say that. Actually

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Speaker 8: I did hear from one of the gentle parenting people.

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Speaker 8: How is this is a classic. Mum told me the

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Speaker 8: other day, she said, you can't even say I'm so

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Speaker 8: proud of you, little Johnny. You got to say because

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Speaker 8: that focuses on the parent. You say, I'm so proud

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Speaker 8: of you.

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Speaker 4: You need to say.

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Speaker 8: Talking about the snowball. You need to say you should

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Speaker 8: be so proud. So you can't use the eye work.

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Speaker 5: They're pretty much proud enough. This new generation, I think themselves.

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Speaker 8: And you can't rush them. You can't say, hurry up,

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Speaker 8: we've got to leave. No, No, you got to sort

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Speaker 8: of negotiate. Are we almost ready to grab your shoes?

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Speaker 4: There?

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Speaker 3: Not in my house? Not in my house?

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Speaker 4: How late would you be exactly?

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Speaker 3: You'd never get there, you wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: And the school, And what about when they do have

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Speaker 2: to be somewhere on time? Exactly when this is?

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Speaker 4: This?

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Speaker 8: Is this where they learn exactly leaving the house and

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Speaker 8: getting somewhere quickly and going to bed, that would be

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Speaker 8: that's when gentle parenting really gets tested.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, we're going.

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Speaker 4: To leave in the shops.

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Speaker 3: What about when they have to start a job on timeatly?

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Speaker 4: What about? What about this?

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Speaker 8: Did you ever get this one? You guys, I can't

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Speaker 8: wait to get you in the car. When I get

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Speaker 8: you in the car, you're in so much trouble. Or

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Speaker 8: wait for the old one. The old school one was

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Speaker 8: wait till dad gets.

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Speaker 3: Wait till your father gets home.

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Speaker 8: Imagine the poor old dad having to come home and

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Speaker 8: discipline kids. I imagine you work hard. I mean women

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Speaker 8: do as well. I'm just saying in the old time,

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Speaker 8: dad comes Sam and Jesus, I'm tired. You've got to

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Speaker 8: go and discipline the kids that.

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Speaker 5: Wait till your father got home, and then ask your mother.

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Speaker 5: I never ending circle of confusion. I get that that

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Speaker 5: can go, but.

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Speaker 4: I'll be hopeless.

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Speaker 5: You know some boundary.

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Speaker 2: I was always told that kids actually do like to

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Speaker 2: have some sort of boundaries.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where you stand.

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Speaker 8: But yeah, you've got to negotiate with them and just

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Speaker 8: make sure you know their feelings.

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Speaker 3: That's only if you subscribe to gentle parenting, which I

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Speaker 3: think they must not.

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Speaker 5: Have a fastage situation.

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Speaker 4: You can't even give awards that I believe it after care.

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Speaker 8: You can't even give awards for the best kid of

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Speaker 8: the day because other kids miss out or someone's kid

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Speaker 8: hasn't got one, and the parents can plain, so they

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Speaker 8: have canned best Kid of the day.

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Speaker 3: At the end of the day, the world's gone mad.

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Speaker 3: The world's gone mad, all right, well, thank you both,

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Speaker 3: Thank you g. I don't think we're fully subscribed to

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Speaker 3: this gentle parenting thing.

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Speaker 4: We're changing the world.

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Speaker 2: And Russell ninety six FM