WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Second Chances, A Cousin's Flirtatious Husband and Following Problematic Accounts 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:12.800 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:16.280 welcome back to another episode of Life on Cut. I'm Laura. 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:17.920 You sound like you forgot your name. 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:22.200 I'm Britney. Well you're like, I'm Lo. No, I know 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:22.640 who I am. 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:25.320 I'm too confident in that. Yeah, after thirty nine years 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:25.959 on this planet. 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:28.240 Funnily enough, because I've spent the last eighteen months not 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:29.960 knowing who I am. And I think that was evident 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:32.600 with my consistent hair changes every two months. 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:33.120 This is true. 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:35.839 We've been talking about what theme we should do for 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:39.680 your hens like that's got like a discussion recently, and 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:42.839 I haven't thrown this idea out into the group chat yet, 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:44.040 but I was going to say, why don't we just 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:46.040 dress up as like different versions of Britney. 0:00:46.159 --> 0:00:48.200 That is a brilliant idea. I was about to say, 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:50.200 we should put it out to the lifers to pick 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:51.480 a theme in the discussion group. 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:53.800 Everybody should be me. 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:56.080 I was like, Brittany's been so many different versions of 0:00:56.120 --> 0:00:58.080 Brittany over the past sort of five years of me 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:01.320 knowing you. There's been literally, there's been many different forms 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:02.680 of mental breakdowns that have occurred. 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:05.319 All of them have manifested in different hairstyles. 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:06.760 And also don't come for us and say we shouldn't 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:08.959 make light of mental breakdowns. We're not joking. I have 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:09.960 actually had them. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:12.960 Like, so before anyone comes for us, we giggle about it. 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:14.679 Peopel like you shouldn't joke about this. We're like, oh, 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:16.920 I wasn't clinically. 0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:18.399 What version would you come as the one that didn't 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:20.119 get out of bed? You could wrap a douner around 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:22.119 you and just come in a blanket. 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:25.000 Yeah, like hair I miss, I could come as the 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:27.039 one ice cream tub. 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:30.280 Yeah, the one where it's like late night Messina delivery 0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:33.200 and you're just yeah in bed, I know exactly. That 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:35.360 version was the COVID version as well, was my favorite, 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:37.160 where you couldn't get out of bed for two weeks. 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:39.920 That was fun. Or when you went through that period. 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:43.560 Where you cut your hair super short, right mate, all right, 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:45.560 and then two weeks later got hair extensions down to 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:48.560 your ass. It was real rapid change. It's like emotional 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:49.559 whiplash one day. 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:51.720 It's actually so funny. 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:54.360 You had like an aggressive bob. I don't know if 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:57.920 it was aggressive aggressive, it was blunt, blunt to the point. 0:01:58.000 --> 0:02:01.040 You're lucky I almost cut a fring into that bomb. 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:03.120 But I once did that and someone told me I 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:05.280 the like lego man, so I didn't go back there. 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:09.320 Park One, Yes, I looked, That's why I was channeling. 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:12.240 You could dress up as that. Probably Actually you could 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:14.239 dress up as a swamp donkey, as you so fondly 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:14.480 call me. 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:16.079 You could come a Shrek theme. I could be. 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:18.440 Loved Park one swamp donkey. 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:21.680 They could be a Shrek what else? 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:24.359 And I was just comeing a bikini with seventeen other 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:26.280 bikinis hanging off my fingers. 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:28.720 I don't think this is endearing anymore. 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:31.720 I could just wear my own clothes because now we 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:34.919 have morphed into the same person who owns the same things. 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:38.240 And last week Britt brought this brand new pair of 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.520 sunglasses and she was like, oh, I got this new 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:42.080 pair of sunnies and she went to put them on 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:43.480 her face and I was like, I bought these a 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:45.799 year ago, Ben bought them for Mekis. 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:46.880 She's like, I already owned those. 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:48.000 I used to copy you. 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.960 More, but I feel like now we're kind of evening. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:53.480 We are closed to even This is when you spend 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:55.480 too much time with someone and you start you start 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:58.000 to assimilate into like the way that they dress, or 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:59.840 like replicate the things that they do, or they're mad. 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:01.840 I love it. I think it's brilliant. 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:04.280 There could be something in that, and not because I 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:05.880 want you guys to dress with me, but because there 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.800 have been so many versions of me that it could 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:09.839 definitely be a thing. 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:13.120 Well for you, it's like for you, like for me, 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:15.079 there's been only two versions pregnant not pregnant. 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:16.200 It's been identical. 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:20.040 I don't change my hairstastes the same, my style of clothes, 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:22.160 stay the same, everything is consistent. 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:24.600 I'm I'm just a bigger version and a smaller version. 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:26.480 I was about to make a really bad joke that 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:28.440 you would find funny, but everyone else would think I'm 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.959 a bully, So to go, Ready, say I could. 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:37.760 Just wear a bald cap ah, you know that canceller. 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:40.480 I'm going to go. That's why I can make the joke. 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:42.560 I'm going to go with a canceled version of Britz. 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:45.960 So that'll be fun to sign on. This is canceled, 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:46.720 all right. 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:48.839 Well, look, there is something that we have been talking 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:51.120 about on every ask on cut for the last three weeks, 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:52.760 and it's really taken over this podcast. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:55.040 I feel really bad. You're not bald. That was just 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.400 it was funny in my hand. Oh, now you feel 0:03:57.400 --> 0:03:58.320 bad about it, don't you know? 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:00.920 Because sometimes I make jokes when it's there's an opportunity, 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:03.200 but then people think I'm serious, you're not bald, which 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:04.600 is why I can make it. But that was funny, 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:06.000 and I only said it because I have a bald 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:06.600 cap at home. 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:08.320 I think it's the opposite. I think you can make 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:09.400 the joke because I am baled. 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:12.680 Hang on a second, why I have a bald cap 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:14.560 just for fun? 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:19.200 I have one as well. I have a book. I 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:20.440 have two bald caps at home. 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:20.800 Yeah. 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:23.719 One time that night we had to create a skit 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.479 pretending that we were Jason Statham, and so we have 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:29.760 multiple balld caps at home. It is actually shocking how 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:33.560 much weird stuff we have in two separate costume boxes, 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:35.080 and not like sexy costume boxes. 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:36.880 Matt. It's got like an arrange, like. 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.760 A full assortment of wigs that he uses for all 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:42.240 of the skits he does. And like women's clothes which 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:44.279 were just my clothes that have somehow made it into 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:46.240 the costume box because he wears them and. 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:48.640 I think you're the only adults that I know with 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:49.720 a costume box. 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:51.680 Nah, I have a dress up, but I'm a dress 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:54.200 up pomp. I just pulled a muscle because I laughed 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:55.880 so hard at my own joke. I just pulled a 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:59.040 rib muscle. Okay, all right, let's get back on track. 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:01.559 The thing that we haveken about for the past three 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:05.320 weeks is how did chickens get fertilized? 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.479 How did the eggs of chickens get fertilized? 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:09.960 If you didn't listen to last week's ask gun cart 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:13.479 all the week before, basically once again, it was that 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:16.680 I had a very late realization in life that I've 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:19.960 came to the understanding that chicken eggs are fertilized because 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:22.039 chickens actually get down and you know, do the deed, 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:24.200 rather than just a big male chicken coming along and 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:26.120 fertilizing the egg afterwards. 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.600 Still shocking. I know, I know. 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:30.200 We've received so many messages because the call out that 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:33.320 we asked last week was what was the outrageous thing 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:35.359 that you discovered far too late in life? Like the 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:37.560 thing that you should know that you should have probably 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.840 discovered when you were a child. You found out when 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.280 you're in your twenties or your thirties, or maybe even today, 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:44.720 and we have received some truly shocking ones and you 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:46.400 should all be embarrassed by how dumb we all are. 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:50.440 Twenty three, my girlfriend learned that tigers and lions are 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:53.080 different species, not male and female. 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:56.880 To be fair, there are animals called a liger. Yeah, 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:58.080 so that. 0:05:57.960 --> 0:06:01.960 Has nothing to do with this and tigers and bears. 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:05.880 Oh my, okay, that this little piggy went to market 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:07.400 was actually getting slaughtered. 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:07.760 Yeah. 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:09.640 I actually didn't even think about that either. 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:12.279 This little piggy stayed home. This little piggy went to market, 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:13.240 and I just thought I. 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:15.039 Was going to get like the groceries for the week. 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:17.800 That's what most kids think. But no, that little piggy 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:19.200 was getting chopped up. 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:21.200 How is that a nursery rhyme? 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:24.800 I'm surekar nursery rhymes are actually particularly dark, you know, ring, 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:27.119 ring of rosies, like about the black plate or something. 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:29.000 It's about is it getting sick? Yeah? 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:31.159 Ring and ring a rosy, a part full of posies, 0:06:31.200 --> 0:06:33.080 a tissue with tissue, we all fall down, we're dead. 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:36.080 It's about it's about getting like an. 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:40.120 Awful thirty seven is the age that you learned that. 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:42.000 That's the thing that we've grown up singing. We used 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.400 to hold hands and go around in a circle. Yeah, 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:45.560 and then people would fall down. 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:46.800 Oh my god dead. 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:48.279 Okay, this is a good one. 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.680 This is upsetting because this is also Keisha's revelation that 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:54.799 thunder is actually the sound of lightning. 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:57.880 Keisha thought they were two separate No, she actually said, 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:00.440 I thought they were too completely separate weather events. 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:05.160 I said, whether they were independent weather events that sometimes 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:07.840 come incided. And I'm still confused because you guys are 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:09.960 talking about distance and that's how you can tell how 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:11.600 by the way the lightning is. And I was like, 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:14.240 but what about it when there's no lightning and you 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:14.880 just hear lighting? 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:17.480 Let me rumble far away. Okay, I've got another one 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:17.760 for you. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:21.560 That Africa was not actually a country and that there were, 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:25.400 in fact, lots of countries in Africa. That's just someone 0:07:25.400 --> 0:07:28.040 who did really bad at geography. Like that's someone who 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:28.920 needs a world map. 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.840 All right. Peanuts grow in the ground, not on a tree. 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:33.000 I'm not gonna lie. 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:35.760 If you asked me twenty minutes ago where a peanut grows, 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:36.760 I wouldn't have been able to tell you. 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:38.320 Yeah, they're in the ground like potatoes. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:40.800 I didn't know that. Yeah, but I didn't know. I 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:42.760 didn't think anything else. I just actually don't even know 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:43.680 where a peanut comes from. 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:45.920 All right, reindeeres are actually a real animal. 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:47.679 Yep, I've seen them. 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:51.320 And lastly, bacon and ham come from the same animal. 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:55.200 That's interesting as an adult to not have known that peaks. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:58.880 Are particularly like resourceful. They do pork belly, they do ham, 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:01.560 they do bacon. What can't they do prosrudo? They do 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:04.080 presudo bee shootero, they can't do beef. 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:07.640 Let's get into our lives and unsubscribes, Britt, what is 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:09.200 your vibe or unsubscribe for the week? 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:12.400 My unsubscribe is actually just it's something that's made me angry. 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:15.200 It's not something I'm literally unsubscribing from, which obviously is 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:18.160 the point of this discussion. But I have been looking 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:21.560 for a very long time at rentals rental properties, and 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:26.520 I am unsubscribing from the number of times you look 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:29.400 online and you're like, this is brilliant. Look how big 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:32.400 this space is. There's all these beautiful furniture in the photo. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.480 Then you turn up to the inspection and in fact 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:38.520 it is a shoe box that had superimposed furniture that 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.880 was like shrunk down. It's like a mini little house. 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:44.120 But in the pictures you think you're led to believe 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:45.920 that this is going to be the most beautiful property. 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:49.120 It has all this space. Look at the outlook. Sometimes 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:52.000 they photo shop like ocean in the background. Yeah, they 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.880 offer window and I'm like, hang on, this is in redfern, 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:56.520 Oh where's the ocean. 0:08:57.040 --> 0:08:57.920 It is very. 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:01.480 Confusing because it seems counterintuitive real estates do this because 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:03.599 you get there and you're just bitterly disappointed. 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:05.160 I remember we went to to be fair. 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:07.360 Though maybe they just think it's so dire that if 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:09.600 they get you in the door and you've got not 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:12.360 many other options, even if the house is so underwhelming, 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:14.240 you'll just at least apply for it, which. 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:16.839 Is so so so sad. But it is dire because 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:18.880 that's happened. You get there and there's still thirty other 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:20.400 people begging for the property. 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.480 Yeah, well we went to one. This is ages ago. 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:23.839 We went to one in Bronti and it's the house 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:25.600 we ended up living in. So we did apply for it. 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:29.040 But in pictures it looked ridiculously immaculate, had such a 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:32.000 beautiful green grass in the backyard and like, Matt, love's 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:34.199 a lawn. And then we got there to the inspection, 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:37.560 it was just dirt and it was because they photoshop 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:41.000 grass in. It was completely fake grass. And that was 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:43.320 the most disappointing thing for Matt. He couldn't get over it. 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.440 He still applied to it worked no. 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:47.160 Because for years he tried to grow the grass in 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:48.880 the backyard. Turns out you can't in that property. 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:52.199 Is I went to one that had an amazing garden, 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:55.520 like it was huge. The grass was also lushes loads 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:58.240 of plants, and I was like, perfect, obviously I have Delilah. 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:01.320 I get there and it's tiniest yard. It's like two 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:04.840 by two. It's like fake astrotope. Wait, what is your unsubscribed? 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:08.440 People faking rental listing? Just people faking like the photos 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:11.439 on rental listings. Just you're wasting so many people's time. 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:13.240 Let's just put up the real photos. Let's call a 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:15.880 spatu spade. If it's a two by two that doesn't 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:18.000 fit a dining room table, say it's a two by two, 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:21.560 don't shrink down the furniture and supermpose it into the picture. 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:24.400 All right, Kisha what is your viber unsubscribed? 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:27.120 My Vibe is a podcast that I have been listening 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:30.400 to for the past couple probably maybe four months, and 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:33.040 they release a bunch of different episodes under the one 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:35.480 podcast title, so it can be a little bit confusing. 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:39.520 I have recommended prof G pods before. Prof G stands 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:43.600 for Professor Scott Galloway. He's a professor of marketing and business, 0:10:44.240 --> 0:10:47.439 and he has a lot of different types of podcasts. 0:10:47.480 --> 0:10:49.560 He's a massive podcast during the US. 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:51.520 I think that last year they had like thirty eight 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:53.320 million downloads, just to give you a bit of an 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:56.200 idea of the scale of them. But he'll have, for example, 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:58.880 a podcast about politics, and he'll have one where he 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:00.920 kind of just talks about whatever he wants to talk about. 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.439 He'll have one where he interviews people, and this one 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:05.640 is Prof G Markets. 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:08.720 Now. I am not a finance. 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:11.560 Girlie, but I really realized towards the end of last 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:15.040 year that I actually had almost no literacy in that space. 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:17.840 Like I just I never understood the jargon, and I 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:22.040 really didn't have any idea what you know, financial reports 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:24.080 are talking about, or stocks or any of that kind 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.600 of thing. So I started listening to this podcast because 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:30.520 I find it quite easy to pay attention to, I 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:33.040 guess because they talk about things like the market of 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:36.080 the TikTok shutdown, and they talk about other things that 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:38.880 are happening in the pop culture space, but how that's 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:42.480 reflected in finance. So, for example, they spoke about a 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:45.480 couple of weeks ago, must have been maybe start of January, 0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:49.760 they spoke about how there has been this global downturn 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:53.439 in alcohol sales and that is reflective of the fact 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.080 that culturally we are starting to drink less, you know, 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:59.040 And so I find it really palatable in that sense. 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:01.200 And I'm not someone who who is like literate in 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:04.160 that space. So if you also are kind of interested 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:08.480 in how you know the TikTok shutdown could affect global markets, 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:11.320 I guess. He also did one on predictions for how 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:13.800 media was going to be affected in twenty twenty five, 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:16.760 so which I obviously found very interesting. So, yeah, if 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:18.800 you're into that kind of thing, or maybe you kind 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:20.680 of want to dip your toe in, I have found 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:23.800 this a really palatable way to kind of start increasing 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:26.560 my exposure to this, and I'm thinking that I will 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.480 just gradually get a little bit better at it as 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:32.600 I'm kind of absorbing more and more. So he does 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:35.120 it with a guy called ed Elson, and ed is 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:37.680 quite young and he's British. I think he's like twenty six, 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:39.840 whereas Scott would be I think he's fifty. 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:41.680 He had a fiftieth birthday recently. 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.520 So they have this really good like dichotomy of what 0:12:44.559 --> 0:12:47.400 they're interested in in their life experiences as well. So 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:50.440 he's quite progressive for someone who is as rich as 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:53.319 he is as wells, which I find nicer listen to, 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:56.120 sounds great. Yeah, so prof G markets All of the 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:58.920 PROFERG podcasts I do enjoy, but yeah, that one in particular, 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:00.960 if you want to get a little bit more financial literacy. 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:03.800 I have a clothing brand recommendation for you guys today, 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:05.920 and it is one that I'm not currently wearing, which 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:07.600 was silly, but I have been wearing it almost every 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:10.400 day and I've gotten so many questions about it. If 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:14.000 you are after like a cool oversized tea, or you 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.920 really like patent pants, or like just things that you 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.640 can wear on the reg every day and it looks 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:21.679 like you've put effort into what you're wearing, but actually 0:13:21.760 --> 0:13:24.240 you could have rolled out of your bed, which is 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:27.760 pretty much my style personified. 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And I feel like I've now 0:14:02.760 --> 0:14:06.000 purchased and have so many pieces from them, and particularly 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:08.680 from this new collection, and I think it's really hard 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:11.640 to find brands that are hard wearing. I mean, it's 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:13.920 not super expensive, but it's definitely not like on your cheap, 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:16.040 cheap side, But I would say that they're pieces that 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:17.560 you will get so much wear out and they wash 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:21.520 really well. So if you're after good quality printed teas, 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:24.000 the best, I have to have a look King Ascilla. 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:24.720 I've just googled. 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:28.400 Also Australian business which we love, female founded business as well. 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:32.360 I'm pretty sure. Anyway, let's get into these questions, all right. 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:35.000 Question number one, do I tell my husband about my 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:38.520 past dating life, including women? My husband and I are 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:40.960 happily married with kids. We've been together for about eight 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:43.760 years now. He's a pretty open guy generally speaking, but 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:46.560 we are from a conservative city, so I do sometimes 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:49.200 hear comments from him and his family to suggest otherwise. 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:52.480 I listened to your episode yesterday about talking about your 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:55.720 past relationships. My husband has never wanted to hear about 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:58.360 my past relationships, nor has he shared much about him. 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:02.360 So here's one thing. My past few years of relationships 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:05.200 before we got together were with women, one of which 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:08.160 I lived with. I have no issue with my sexuality, 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:10.360 but the years of not sharing these details with him 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:12.800 have made this into a bigger deal in my head, 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:15.240 and I feel like if you found out now, it 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:17.240 would be a bit of a shock to him. So 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:19.400 my question is, should I tell my husband I like 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:20.840 pussy or just leave it. 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:23.480 I think this is a I think this is an 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:26.440 interesting question because to me, this doesn't feel different to 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:29.520 the questions we've answered previously about do you have to 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:31.320 tell someone about your past? Like do you have to 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:34.400 tell a current partner about your past? I don't think 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:37.080 it matters so much if it's a woman or a man. 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:38.920 If you want to talk about it, talk about it. 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:40.280 If you don't want to talk about it, you don't 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:42.240 have to talk about it. If he doesn't want to 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.000 hear it, you don't have to force it upon him. 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:46.080 Yeah, if he's not inquiring, you don't have to give 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:46.640 him information. 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:50.680 Est I love pussy. It's like just to sit out 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:52.280 and pussy like. 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:54.680 You definitely don't have to do that, the same as 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:55.880 you don't go I need to tell you I have 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:58.040 suck some dick in the us, Like, you don't have 0:15:58.080 --> 0:16:02.120 to have those conversations unless it's something about you that 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:05.200 you genuinely want to discuss, like that part of your life. 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:08.120 Because I we've said this before, I'll say it again, 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:12.080 but I'll keep it brief. I like to talk about 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.520 my past with my partners, and I like to know 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:17.520 about their past. Not for any other reason then I'm curious, 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:19.680 but I also respect that Ben doesn't want to hear 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:22.000 about it. You don't have to feel this pressure to 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:23.880 talk about it just because it was a female and 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:25.280 a same sex relationship. 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:28.160 You must have been when you first started dating your husband. 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:31.240 There must have been some concern that maybe he would 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:33.280 judge you, or that there might not be a positive 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:36.560 reaction for you to have completely omitted those details, because 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:38.840 it's not like that's not like, oh, I just didn't 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:41.440 talk about my exes, like like that's a whole different 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:44.400 life that you just kind of were like, well, we'll 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:46.240