WEBVTT - How to Break Stereotypes and Live Your Best Life 🤸🏻‍♀️ 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.600 The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the 0:00:04.720 --> 0:00:08.320 land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bay region. 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:13.360 We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:16.880 sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:20.920 past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:34.199 and terrestrid Islander peoples today. Hello and welcome back to 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:38.040 the Rising Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for ordinary 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:52.440 people who want to do extraordinary things. 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:55.240 It doesn't matter if you believe it or not. It's 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:58.280 going to be correct for you. So I'd rather believe 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:01.200 it and be like, oh my God, actually magic in 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:04.800 every single day. And yeah, it is crazy how many 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:08.120 things have happened in very unexpected ways. 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:16.520 Hello and welcome back to the Rise and Conker Podcast. 0:01:16.680 --> 0:01:21.399 It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, lawyer turned entrepreneur, business owner, 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:27.959 new mum all the things Today, we have a replay EPP. 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:31.880 This is from the podcast of Interest hosted by Kira 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:35.559 and Emily Guys. I had the best chat with Kira 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:38.319 and Emily and I really really wanted to share this 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:42.000 episode because I loved the questions that they asked me. 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:46.039 We chatted about manifest, the importance of stepping out of 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:49.440 the box that life puts us in, and honestly, so 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:52.280 much more. I really loved this episode. I really think 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:54.480 you guys are going to love it too. But before 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:57.520 we get into it, a quick little update on my wik. 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:00.960 Tell us about it, Georgie, what did you do on weekend? 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:05.280 So it was Ivy Girl's birthday and we had it 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:09.520 was Ivy's fairy first birthday party. 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:10.320 I love that. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:13.200 It was so sweet. So she was dressed up as 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:15.680 a sweet little fairy and it was kind of like 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:18.800 woodland themed and we had like we had these like 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:21.560 blow up creatures that we put in like the forest 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:24.959 beside us, so you'd like be on the balcony you'd 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:27.640 see the little cute creatures in the forest and it 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:31.200 was like purple themed and oh my god, it's tea. 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:34.360 Should have seen when we put her cake out. So 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:36.680 we did a smash cake. Do you know what this is? 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:39.600 Like the one with a hammer and chocolate. 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:42.360 No, So, a smash cake is when you make the 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:45.560 cake so the baby literally eats it, like you put 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:47.720 it in front of them and they eat it with 0:02:47.760 --> 0:02:51.720 their hair. So cum and she fully got the memo 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:54.360 because we hadn't even started singing Happy Birthday, and she 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:57.200 just straight away did it. You don't have to watch 0:02:57.240 --> 0:03:00.760 my stories because she's just so sweet. She's just loving 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:02.920 it the whole time. She had all this cake just 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:04.160 like smeared over her face. 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:05.240 Oh that's so cute. 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:07.480 Yeah, and she was so good too, because it started 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:10.720 at one pm and she usually has her second nap 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:12.680 at like two or three, and she made it two 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:13.440 four pm. 0:03:13.639 --> 0:03:14.120 Oh wow. 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:18.120 But then she's pretty beside herself. So but yeah, we 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:20.960 just had like both of me and Tim's immediate family, 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:23.040 so just like I had my brother's there and Tim 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:25.520 had his parents, and then we had friends. We didn't 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:28.520 want to do it too overly big, just because we 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:32.000 are seeing like the rest of the family for Christmas 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:34.280 in a couple of weeks. So yeah, it was a 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:37.440 bit smaller, but it was so precious and I just 0:03:37.440 --> 0:03:38.920 can't believe she's one, guys. 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:41.080 I know, I was like reading the intro and I'm like, 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:42.600 maybe we need to take out new mum. 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:46.920 I know, should we do a new intro for twenty 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:49.840 twenty three? Yeah, but I had the best weekend. I'm 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:54.360 not gonna lie though, I'm feeling quite exhausted just from 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.960 so much happening. I feel like we've had shit on 0:03:57.400 --> 0:04:00.560 every weekend and then we do now still have it 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:02.880 on until the rest of the year. Yeah. Literally, it's 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:05.320 like such the typical time of the year where you're like, Wow, 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:06.840 I just need. 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:10.000 I need a day. I need those five days off. 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:10.520 We're having it. 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:14.160 Qrist let me and a tear joked about that's just 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:18.000 going to magically refresh us. But yeah, no, it was amazing. 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:18.240 Oh. 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:21.920 Also, our Black Friday and H's Black Friday sale is 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:25.159 still going. This is the last couple of days, so 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:29.680 we extended the sale and it ends the first of December, 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:33.279 so everything is up to fifty percent off. Plus we 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:37.320 just announced the pink tickets, So if you listen to 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:41.520 our Black Friday strategy f you would know this already. 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:45.640 But there's pink tickets up for grabs. So every order, 0:04:45.880 --> 0:04:48.560 you go randomly in the drawer and we put a 0:04:48.640 --> 0:04:56.839 pink ticket in randomly. Yeah wow, and we puts it 0:04:57.000 --> 0:05:03.840 in and anyway, but there's heap surprises up for grabs, 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:09.600 like an iPhone, a MacBook, a Dyson. It's really good. 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:12.719 But I just want to stress too. We've been putting 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.320 these tickets in from the start of the sales, So 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:18.200 if you've already placed your order, don't want and hate gang. 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:20.640 We've got your back. You've already been in the drawer, 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:22.920 and I know a lot of a lot of people 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:24.960 have already got their pink tickets, which is really cool. 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:27.640 But there's so many more tickets up for grabs, so 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:32.000 get involved, very very excited. Wait a tear, how was 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:32.440 your week? 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:37.680 Look, I'm on the Ducky series train and I've just 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:39.440 been You can't. 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:40.480 Give us a recommendation. 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:42.480 That's like pretty much all I did all weekend? 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:47.279 And then I would also, this is a recommendation on 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:51.240 a Tuesday. But the NH Mystery Moon Milk flavor. If 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:53.960 you haven't nearly you. 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:55.000 Need to three quarters. 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:57.520 Yeah, it's so good? 0:05:57.760 --> 0:05:58.600 Is it your favorite? 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:02.320 Yes? Buy a long shot? And I was hardcore og 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:04.800 chocolate and I've tried all the others. 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:06.760 I know, but this is just like trumped it. Should 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:08.240 we just give them a hint of what it is? 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:10.320 No? 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:16.839 Think subway cookie? Oh sneaky, that's literally where the inspo 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:22.120 came from. Clever obsessed. Anyway, guys, let's get into this episode. 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.000 You're really going to love this. 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:31.479 Kia and I were talking actually before it was this. 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.279 When we first started this series at the beginning of 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:37.160 this year, you were our number one goal to have 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:40.119 at some point down the track. I don't think either 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.160 of us imagined that it would happen this year. 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.000 So yeah, it's an honor for us. 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:46.680 We've got girl crushes on you. 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:47.240 Gee. 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:50.720 We have followed you for years and we I like 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:53.640 put it in my little podcast planner at the start 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:55.440 and I wrote down all the people I wanted to 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:57.120 get on manifested it. 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:01.920 Oh, I love it. I bloody love it. No, I'm 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.800 so excited, you asked me. And don't you love when 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.720 just like things line up and they feel good and 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:11.280 they work out. So obviously we're on a similar vibration 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:13.080 for me to be like, yeah, let's do it. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:15.600 So yeah, I love it actly so good. 0:07:15.680 --> 0:07:19.040 As Kira said, we have followed you for quite a 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:20.760 while now, a number of years. 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:23.200 I don't know, just from following you, you really do 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:26.360 present yourself, so I don't know, just so holistically and 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:30.920 very very natural and even though you know influencer, I 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:34.520 saw you like do the quote unquote, you really are 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:37.800 just the natural influencer, and I feel like a lot 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:40.960 of different people can look up to the different avenues 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:44.400 and folk. That's why you reach such a wide audience, 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:47.600 because there's so many aspects that you do that people 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:48.280 can relate to. 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:53.960 I appreciate that. I think also sometimes we do try 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:56.600 to put ourselves in a box, like we think, oh, no, 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:59.400 I do natural supplements, so I should only do fitness 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:03.040 content and only talk about this. But I'm like, we're 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:06.520 like humans are meant to grow and evolve and have, 0:08:07.000 --> 0:08:09.760 you know, different hobbies and different interests, and I think 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:13.400 when you're honoring those things, like that's where the magic happens. 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:18.160 Definitely, yeah, for sure, and I definitely want to go 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.160 back to some of those things that you spoke about, 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:22.760 especially like putting yourself in that box and how you've 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:25.560 broken out of that. But before we do move on, 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:28.239 one question that we love to ask all of our guests, 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:28.880 and you. 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:31.640 Are clearly a big advocate for it. You spoke briefly. 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:34.920 They're a bit about self development and also self love. 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:37.199 So what is your favorite thing about yourself? 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:43.640 Oh gosh, you've you've called me off guard here, guys. 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:45.800 Such a great question, though, I love that you're asking this. 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:50.079 What I love about myself? I probably like my determination 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:54.480 and grit. I think I am someone when I have 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:58.160 a goal or when I set you know, my eyes 0:08:58.320 --> 0:09:02.040 on something, there's pretty much nothing that stops me from 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:06.080 getting there. And that's obviously something that has been a 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:09.120 tribute to you know, me achieving a lot of things. 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:12.720 And look, sometimes it's not exactly going to honor me 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:15.559 because then I do find I am such a person 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:18.679 who is go, go go, and it can lead you know, 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:22.160 burn out. But I very much love that about myself. 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:26.000 I you know, so determined to be like, you know, 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:29.040 the hardest worker in the room, and from a young 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.680 age that has really been instilled in me, and I 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:34.880 feel like is a really really great thing about myself 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:36.800 in most some times, I really. 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:41.640 Would you say that that's something that you has has 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:43.360 had a lot to do with the way you're raised 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:46.160 because obviously, like you mentioned there, you are the co 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:47.559 founder along with your brother. 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:51.319 So is that something that you see in each other maybe. 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:54.360 Oh one hundred percent. I mean Coopers like joke all 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:57.960 the time. But for example, in Queensland, the legal age 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:00.520 to work I think it's fourteen and nine Miles and 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:03.400 I remember me and Cooper got our first jobs when 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:07.040 we were thirteen, and my mom had to sign a 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:10.920 consent because me and Cooper are like and he actually 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:13.600 got the job first and then I got it maybe 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:16.439 six months after. But we like wanted to be out 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:18.280 there and we wanted to earn our own money. And 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:22.280 my parents they were amazing and they provided for us, 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:23.959 but they were very much of the view of, oh, 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:27.160 if you want something, you save up and you buy yourself, 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:30.800 you work towards it. So they stilled a really great 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:35.040 work ethics from a very young age. So even through 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:37.880 high school, you know, I worked at Kabart, I worked 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:40.000 at a fish and chip shop, I worked at Hogspread 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:43.160 through UNI, I would do my Instagram, I would work 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:46.480 in a law firm. I was doing all the things 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:48.960 all the time. And I think that has very much 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:50.880 come from a young age. And then I have two 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:54.240 older brothers as well as Cooper, and yeah, we're all 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:55.559 very much the same. 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:59.319 All type A personalities, so go go can be problematic, 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:03.080 but yeah, I was I was gonna ask. 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:04.839 How do you go about working with your brother? 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.800 Like you're so close and there's so many factors that 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:11.440 could interrupt, like running a whole entire business together. What's 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:11.800 that like? 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:15.960 Yeah, I think honestly, like we just have such a 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:19.240 great deal of respect for each other, and so we 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:22.640 kind of know, Like you know, Cooper, he's very he's 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:28.160 a numbers person, he's the logistics, he loves structure, and 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:31.760 even though I do love those things too, I'm more like, 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:35.800 what's the vibe. What do we have? He's like, let's 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:38.679 keep a certain figure, and I'm like, I just want 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:41.960 to feel this way, and I you know, it's very 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:44.679 much the Ying Yang energy. It's probably why we work 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:48.120 so well together. But then we are both very goal orientated. 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:53.200 And then I think also just we have such open communications. 0:11:53.280 --> 0:11:56.120 So for instance, in front of the team, we're such 0:11:56.120 --> 0:12:00.400 a united front. But for example, after if there was 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:03.840 something that happened, will have a meeting, he'll just be like, oh, look, 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.480 I didn't appreciate how you said this towards me or 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:09.640 blah blah blah, and vice versa, and we just keep 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:14.160 those communication channels open at all times because most of 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:17.320 the time it's something like I didn't even realize or 0:12:17.360 --> 0:12:20.440 he didn't realize, or we just need to know the 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:23.880 underlying why A bit more and then we're like, oh, yeah, 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:26.839 of course. But also I think it does really help 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:30.680 working with someone who you are so close with and yeah, 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:32.000 that you just have a lot of respect for. 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:35.200 Yeah, definitely, And I think that is one side of 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.560 the balance that I was really interested to hear your 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:39.880 thoughts on. But then also the other side you've meant 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:43.079 in your spiel just before about how much you've been 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:45.360 doing for so long, it really does sound like the 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:49.800 perfect recipe for burnout. So how important is balanced to 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.000 you and how do you achieve that? 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:53.880 Especially now being a new mum as well. 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:57.520 I can't believe I didn't mention that in my opening spill. So, guys, 0:12:57.760 --> 0:13:01.559 I have a ten month old bait a baby girl, Ivy. 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:05.079 She is the life of my life. And it has 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:10.200 been such a big transition becoming a mom because like 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:13.600 before your mom, I feel like everyone you're quite selfish, 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:15.640 Like you don't think you're that selfish, and then you 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:18.800 become a mom and you're like, oh, not so much 0:13:18.840 --> 0:13:21.360 selfish in a bad way, Like it's in a great way. 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.240 But you become a mom and like someone needs your 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:27.640 attention basically all the time, and you don't have a 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:29.400 lot of time for yourself, and I think you just 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:33.400 notice such a huge difference, especially because I'm an introvert, 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:36.320 so like I need my alone time to recharge. So, 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:41.160 for example, I used to work so ridiculously hard nights, 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:44.080 long days, but then I was I would do nothing 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:46.439 on the weekends and recharge and just be at home 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:49.680 by myself. Tim would go golfing, I'd meditate a journal 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:51.920 and go to the beach, and so I'd always recharge 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:54.640 and then go back to work. But when you're at 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:56.880 home and there's a baby there full time, you're like, oh, 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:59.000 this was not very relaxing. 0:13:59.080 --> 0:13:59.680 Oh you're down. 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:03.120 Time goes out the drain correct. And so this year 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:06.360 has been such a great like, holy shit, I need 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:08.840 boundaries for the first time in my life. And I 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:11.600 probably needed these years ago, but it has been such 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:14.720 a great thing to be like, oh no, you need these. 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:17.760 So it has just been a change with you know, 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:20.920 when I leave work at three pm, I start work 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:23.680 at seven thirty, I leave work at three pm. It's 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:27.920 I everyone knows not to contact me, basically unless it's 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:30.720 for nia circumstances. So if they do, cool, I know 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:34.560 to answer. On the weekends, I don't work, and really 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:39.120 I've had to rearrange my schedule because, let's be honest, 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:41.640 when before a baby, when you had all this time, 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:44.360 like I'd fuck around a lot because I'd be like, oh, 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.960 I just finished this on the weekend. You know, I 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:49.680 really I'm feeling this state that I need to go 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.680 journal in the sun right now, so I'd go do 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:54.160 that and then just work on the weekend. But when 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:57.080 you have these boundaries in place, it's almost like you 0:14:57.160 --> 0:15:00.560 need to be stricter on yourself and your productivity. So 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:03.040 this whole year has been like a bit of a 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:05.120 I don't want to say the word like shit show, 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:08.960 but it's been such a reality check of I didn't 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:12.080 have boundaries, and I didn't really have a schedule, and 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:15.360 I didn't really know how to juggle my time. So 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:18.080 this has been such a big learning curve for me 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:22.040 and something I'm not completely you know, all over to 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:26.520 be honest something else. It's kind of something I've been 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:30.120 talking about on my podcast. But also something I realized 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:32.520 this year is when you have like when you have 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:36.360 a business with a team, and even through my personal brand, 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:42.520 I organized basically the year ahead. So last year I 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:44.480 booked a lot of things in I figned a lot 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:47.480 of contracts with brand, deals with booking stuff in with 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.400 naked harvests and all the things, and I, you know, 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:55.160 I obviously did this while I was pregnant, and I 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:59.560 then played out this year and was like, oh wow, 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:02.920 I can't but I can't go at the speed that 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:05.920 I usually was going at. And it's not so much 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:09.320 I can't because I've clearly done this year and amazing 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:12.440 stuff has happened and I'm super proud. It's more like 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:15.480 I don't want to. I don't want to feel like 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:18.880 I'm constantly on this treadmill just trying to catch up. 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:21.600 I want to be present with my daughter and I 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:25.040 want to have family time and be able to live 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:28.000 my life and to be completely honest, like I have 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:31.440 been in Yang energy for so long that it's just 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:34.760 been like doing and doing and doing that. I can 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:39.240 go into my you know, yin energy and probably not 0:16:39.360 --> 0:16:42.440 do too much that and have a lot of results 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:45.160 because of how much I've been building the foundation for 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:49.040 eight years. But when you have been doing for so long, 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:52.560 it is so hard to step into the being because 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:55.400 like my nervous system, it's so used to being on 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:59.520 all the time. And so I have a great team. 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:02.840 I have so much support, Like I've got a you know, assistant, 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:05.640 I've got a partnerships manager. I have all the help 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:09.080 in the world. It's honestly me who needs to be 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:12.720 like boundaries, Dorger, you need to let people help you, 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.320 You need to be supported, You need to you know, 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:18.840 sit more in the stem and energy because it's honestly 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:22.280 going to you know, you need to reap the rewards 0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:28.120 almost And that's something I'm struggling with currently and trying 0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:31.640 to work out. So you know, it's a whole big thing, 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:33.000 and I wish I had a bit of a bit 0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:36.040 of answer, But isn't that life, Like life is a 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:39.720 journey and you go through seasons and you know, different 0:17:40.080 --> 0:17:43.000 different things. So that's just currently what I'm dealing with, 0:17:43.119 --> 0:17:45.560 and yeah, going through I guess. 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:48.480 I think it's so interesting you say all that because 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:51.280 it is one thing you obviously know it, like you 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:53.720 know you need to make those changes for yourself, but 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:56.400 then doing it is a whole other thing. And you're 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:58.720 obviously taking steps like we were going to ask you 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:01.720 about delegating, and is that hard for you? Being such 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:04.000 a go getter all the time? And I'm sure that 0:18:04.080 --> 0:18:07.560 would be such a big transition for you. But like 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:10.520 you said, with every stage of life. It's good that 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:13.120 you're saying that because a lot of our listeners are 0:18:13.200 --> 0:18:15.720 in their early twenties, and I feel like, I mean, 0:18:15.760 --> 0:18:18.240 EMM and I are definitely similar to you. We love 0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:21.639 just go, go going, and just with balancing UNI in 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:25.640 your twenties and going out and trying to just do everything, 0:18:25.640 --> 0:18:28.720 because I think twenties is, like you said, just such 0:18:28.800 --> 0:18:32.879 about growing and learning and all that. It's interesting how 0:18:33.119 --> 0:18:36.719 you can still be and succeeded all these things. But 0:18:36.840 --> 0:18:39.320 it's like, when do you learn to slow down? Can 0:18:39.440 --> 0:18:40.680 anyone ever slow down? 0:18:40.720 --> 0:18:44.080 It's interesting, oh, one hundred percent, And very much like 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:47.399 you said to it's like these are learned skills, and 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:50.280 I think everyone thinks you don't have to learn these 0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:54.280 skills because we are so we're taught. It's like the hustle, 0:18:54.400 --> 0:18:58.280 the grind. But it's like, no, it's actually an art 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:03.920 to slow down and also catch yourself before you burn out. 0:19:04.000 --> 0:19:08.440 Because there has been numerous times this year where I'm like, oh, wow, 0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:12.600 I really you know, didn't I kind of talk about 0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:15.680 it in the way of like previous Georgie. Didn't really 0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:19.200 think about future Georgie, and a lot of this year 0:19:19.240 --> 0:19:22.320 it has felt a little bit out of alignment and 0:19:22.359 --> 0:19:26.119 it hasn't felt amazing, and it's because I, yeah, wasn't 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:29.159 thinking about future Georgie. So that's even something that I 0:19:29.200 --> 0:19:32.480 do now when my decision making, it's like will this 0:19:32.560 --> 0:19:36.600 honor future Georgie rather than just being in the whim 0:19:36.720 --> 0:19:39.159 of the moment and thinking of what is the ego on? 0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:39.560 Yeah? 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:40.280 Completely? 0:19:40.440 --> 0:19:42.440 And you mentioned there that you do have a great 0:19:42.480 --> 0:19:45.240 team and a great network of support around you, But 0:19:45.960 --> 0:19:48.120 do you are you just waiting for the ball to drop? 0:19:48.160 --> 0:19:50.840 Do you ever have moments where it's like, shit, am 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:52.399 I am? I in over my head? 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:58.640 Oh my god, don't do that to me one hundred 0:19:58.640 --> 0:20:03.280 percent like e And recently me and Tim purchased our 0:20:03.359 --> 0:20:07.560 dream house and this house and like just I guess 0:20:07.560 --> 0:20:10.520 the level of it and what it means to us 0:20:10.720 --> 0:20:13.879 is something that has been on my you know, vision 0:20:13.880 --> 0:20:17.280 board and my goals for years and it very much 0:20:17.359 --> 0:20:20.320 felt like this, you know, was maybe something that would 0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:22.840 happen like when I was forty or you know, a 0:20:23.080 --> 0:20:25.560 very far ahead. Like that's how much like, yeah, I 0:20:25.560 --> 0:20:30.040 guess presence I had put onto and then what I 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:33.840 realized is obviously, you know, we have this house and 0:20:33.880 --> 0:20:36.960 it happened so fast, and that is because of alignment 0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:39.520 and the way they it. Like, the way that we 0:20:39.560 --> 0:20:42.879 attracted this house was just insane, like. 0:20:43.000 --> 0:20:45.199 We I listened to your I think you did a 0:20:45.240 --> 0:20:48.359 podcast on it, and I was like, as if like 0:20:48.480 --> 0:20:51.160 that is crazy, Oh my god, like crazy. 0:20:50.960 --> 0:20:53.159 As if like how it happened. I was just like, 0:20:53.200 --> 0:20:55.240 oh my god. So it was very much meant to be. 0:20:55.960 --> 0:20:59.600 But there was such in like an imposter syndrome kind 0:20:59.680 --> 0:21:02.600 of feeling where I was like, oh my god, who 0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:04.480 am I to have this house? Who am I to 0:21:04.560 --> 0:21:10.439 have this view? And levels and an elevator? Like just 0:21:11.080 --> 0:21:14.159 like ridiculous because I very much grew up in a 0:21:14.200 --> 0:21:17.600 household of you know, like we always had clothes and 0:21:17.640 --> 0:21:21.600