1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: Get a I'm Lola Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter, 2 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: and professional oversharer. This podcast is all about celebrating failure 3 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: because I believe it's a chance for us to learn, 4 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview 5 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as their lows, 6 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail. Heyboo, 7 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: hi boo. Hello listener, Hello listener. As you can hear, 8 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: this is not in normal Monday. Yep, we're doing a 9 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: love special. 10 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 2: A love special. 11 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: Well, I think everyone loves a little bit of love. 12 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 2: Everyone loves love. 13 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: My cards feel a little bit clunky here, don't they. 14 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 2: You're a bit twisted up. 15 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: Well, I've got my notes on my laptop, which I 16 00:00:54,720 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 1: don't usually do. I'm a handwriter. Yeah, you're very official today. 17 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: Yeah you look official, do I I don't feel like 18 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: I much prefer handwritten notes. But do you know what, 19 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: I had to do a bit of research for this episode, 20 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: and so it's all in one spot. So happy Valentine's Day, 21 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, fiance fiance, our first one together. 22 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 3: Wow. 23 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: No, So we decided that this Valentine's Day we kind 24 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: of wouldn't do anything because we've just come back from 25 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: a big trip in Australia, got to pay off democredit cards, 26 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: you know. But I still did get you something tiny. 27 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 3: Yes, you got me a very cute balloon that said 28 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 3: I'm looking at right now Valentine's Day and a little 29 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 3: pocketbook about. 30 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: Whiskey Sky tiny. We kept the preses tiny this year. 31 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 2: Well, I don't. I didn't get you anything. 32 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: No, but you told me what you are getting me. Oh, 33 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: that's actually not a tiny pressie? Yes, do you want 34 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: to share? I'm buying you a coffee machine, Yeah, proper 35 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: American likee drip coffee, because apparently it's good for my 36 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: cholesterol to change the way I have my coffee apparently. 37 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, apparently filtered coffee is better than unfiltered coffee. 38 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 2: When it comes to drip. 39 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: You can talk to our natural path Jad. 40 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, well Jad, anyway, we're gonna that's we still need 41 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 3: a bit more research because I want one on a timer. 42 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, we want to good We want to forever one, right, 43 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: I want a good one. 44 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, well maybe not a foreveryone, but maybe like a 45 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 3: two or three year one. We want one that like 46 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 3: you can set the time at seven am, it starts 47 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,399 Speaker 3: working and then we wake up to like the small 48 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 3: fresh coffee in the house. 49 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: But then will you stop having your cafe ti era 50 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: or no, I still. 51 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 3: Have it, but I'll have that and maybe that. 52 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: That's a lot of coffee, booth one. 53 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 3: But you know, I'm Italian. This man needs a This 54 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 3: man needs a bit of coffee. 55 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: Speaking of Italy and Italian things, I listened to a 56 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: podcast yesterday in preparation for this podcast about the history 57 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: of Valentine's staging, and you know much about it. 58 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 2: No Saint Valentine. 59 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: Well, there's two Saint Valentine's, but basically this all goes 60 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: back to third century ancient Rome, and basically there was 61 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: so there were two martyrs named Saint Valentine that we 62 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: think this is named after. But basically there was a 63 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: ruler in Rome that he would make any man that 64 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: wasn't married go to what become a soldier, because he believed, Wow, 65 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: if you've got a wife at home, we've got kiddos 66 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: at home, your heart's not really in the war, is it. 67 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:46,119 Speaker 1: You're worried about getting home, right, And so he had 68 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: this rule like if you're a single male, straight to war, 69 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: straight to war, straight to war. And so this Valentine 70 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: person found out about it. So he was performing secret 71 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: marriages to single men. Yeah, so that they didn't have 72 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: to go to war. 73 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: I don't seek like marriages for secret men. 74 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: No, so like secret marriages that aren't real, gotcha, so 75 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: that they would be married, gotcha, So didn't have to 76 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: go to war. 77 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 2: Gotcha, Like faking the paperwork kind of thing. 78 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: Correct. Now, this Roman emperor, I'm presuming back in those 79 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: days of what they're called, popped him in jail. Valentine, 80 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: he was like jail, straight to jail. He's like, you're 81 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: not no more of this monarchy. And when he was 82 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: in jail, basically backstory to this guy's he's pretty killed. Yeah, 83 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: he got he had he had helped a different ruler's 84 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 1: daughter who was blind. He was able to pray and 85 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 1: her vision came back. 86 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: Wow. 87 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: Anyway, and that and then he went on his way 88 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 1: and went to Rome, and that's when he was like giving. 89 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: So it's kind of like a good deader. A lot 90 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: of random acts are kindness going on with his Valentine 91 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: felt like he became a saint. Yeah. And then anyway, anyway, 92 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: so the rumor the ruler of Rome was like, no, 93 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: you're in jail. No more of this, right, So he 94 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: writes a letter to the girl who the vision he 95 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: brought back, and he wrote from your Valentine. Oh and 96 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: he was beheaded that day February or killed. 97 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 2: Wow. Okay, I didn't know any of this. 98 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: That's one of the stories. There's a few stories about it. 99 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: But yeah. And then there's also an ancient Roman story 100 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: around Roman festival called how can you say that word? 101 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 1: It's under number two there. It starts with our loop 102 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 1: loop loop, how do you say that wordalia? Lupa galia? 103 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: Is that good? So basically that's a mid February celebration 104 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 1: of fertility, and that's a Roman thing. You never heard 105 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: of it? No, just look at me teaching. You can 106 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 1: tell you. I bet your mum would know about it. 107 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 3: Probably. I think the Romans fucked up. Then, don't you 108 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 3: don't want to be fertile? And for fourteen now you 109 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 3: don't back then breed scorpios isn't that? 110 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 2: Isn't that the thing? It's like if you if you conceive. 111 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: I don't mind a scorpio though, I'm scorpio rising. I know, yeah, 112 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: I know, Lewis spicy, spicy personality when we first when 113 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: we first got to get this a little bit of 114 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: tm if when we first got together, if we ever 115 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: had a verbal altercation, Yeah, it's to say save that 116 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: spice for the bedroom. Do you remember to say that 117 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: to you? I did, and it would always. 118 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 3: Make you laugh, Not like altercation, like say, would say, 119 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 3: a passionate discussion about things. 120 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but if you're Scorpio rising, every listener knows that 121 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 1: you have a stinger and you can you can be cutting. 122 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 3: Well, I never never not tell the truth. Yeah, so 123 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 3: maybe maybe that's the cutting part of it. 124 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: May I share some more Valentine's stuffy? 125 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 2: Yes, I'm loving this. 126 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: Okay, So the oldest known Valentine still exists. The oldest 127 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: surviving Valentine's message was written in fourteen fifteen by Charles, 128 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: Duke of Orleans. But I'm sure it's Orleans to his 129 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London, 130 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: and that still exists from fourteen fifteen. 131 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 2: Well, how cool is that was to say what the 132 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 2: letter says? 133 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: I didn't I should have researched that. That's pretty cool, 134 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: you know, how Like Valentine's cards have usually got cupids 135 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: on them. That's a Greek thing. That's that's not Roman. Okay, 136 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: So after Christmas, Valentine's Day is the second largest cards 137 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: sending day of the year. That makes sense. And guess 138 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: who gets the most Valentine's Cards? Of all the occupations 139 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: in the world. 140 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 3: All the occupations in the world, who gets the most 141 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 3: Valentine's Cards? Don't know, I'm going to just do it 142 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 3: a random one. Is Is it random? No? 143 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: No, No, it's if you think about occupations, it's an 144 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: occupation where you're given a lot of gifts. 145 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 2: Jeez, I don't know. 146 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: Teachers, Okay, your brain go to somewhere else. 147 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 3: Just then, no, my brain went to like girls giving 148 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 3: their like nail tech. 149 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: Really, that's teachers. Teachers get the most. Okay, So do 150 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: you want to know why, Like, what's what's the thing 151 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: that you give on Valentine's Day? 152 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 2: Roses? 153 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 1: What color red? Correct? Do you want to know why? 154 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: There's like a whole reason behind, like traditional Roman mythology. 155 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: It's pretty cool this I like fully deep doved. Okay, Okay, okay, 156 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: there's like a Greek version and the Roman version of 157 00:08:56,160 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: this story, but it's pretty cool. Okay. One sec I've 158 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: got so many notes here. Okay, in Greek mythod Okay, 159 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: so we're gonna go Greek. In Greek mythology, the goddess 160 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: of love. Do you know who that is? 161 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 2: I want to say Venus. 162 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 1: No, that's Roman mythology. In Greek mythology, it's Aphrodity, Aphrodity. 163 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 2: Sorry, I did know that. 164 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: So Aphroditi fell in love with this like super handsome 165 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 1: hot af just like you, calm down, mortal hunter called Adonis. 166 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: Have you heard of Adonis before? Okay? So Adonnas was 167 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: a hunk, a real hunk, but mortal, and Adonis was 168 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: so handsome that even the goddess of the underworld, Persephone, 169 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: the sister to Medusa, Pacifony, Pacifony. Yeah, well, let me say. 170 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not good at saying that. I can't 171 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: say Persephone, Persephone. So Medusa had two sisters, Persephone is 172 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: one of them. I believe. So either that or Persephone 173 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: is Medusa's mum. But I'm pretty sure anyway, if you're 174 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: into Greek mythology, you'll get it. So here's the deal. 175 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: Aphrodite fell in love with this hottie, but so did Persephone. 176 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: Oh God to the point that Zeus is like, right, 177 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: this little hotty Adonis is going to spend half the 178 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: deal a year with Aphrodite and half the year with 179 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 1: this person Persephone. But remember we're talking Greek mythology here, 180 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: multiple husbands, multiple wives, that's like just the norm, right, 181 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: which I learned from reading my Greek mythology. Remember. Okay, 182 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: so there's this really big tragic hunt that goes on. 183 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 1: So apparently Aphrodite warned Adonis and was like, I don't 184 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 1: know about this hunt. May I don't think you should go? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 185 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: And Adonnis was like, no, I'm a hunter, I'm gonna 186 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: go anyway. He was killed by a wild boar. 187 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 2: Oh m hmm. 188 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: And then when Aphroditi found him dying, she ran over 189 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: to him like she was sprinting, right, yeah, and she 190 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: was running past white roses, but the thorns cut her. 191 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,199 Speaker 2: Oh and she got blood on them, and the. 192 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: Blood spat it onto the white roses, and that's what 193 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: they now. That's why the red so red roses are passionate, love, 194 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: baiddy and desire the pain that can come with love 195 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: because of the Adonna story, and love that survives even death. 196 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: So if you think about funerals. Usually that was white roses, 197 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: but maybe red is like a vibe. 198 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 2: Okay, well I want red at mine? 199 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: Do you don't you have that weird song you want 200 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: to play. 201 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 2: I don't really even want a funeral. Just pop me out. 202 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, boss. Okay, so it's not a weird song, 203 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 1: by the way, it's just I just don't have a 204 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: relationship with. 205 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 2: It that song. Yeah, okay, that's fine. 206 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 1: Go say it. Everyone wants to know now. 207 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 2: It King's it tomorrow? Finally, it's literally about dying. 208 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: Really, yeah, why why you connected to it? 209 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 3: It's like just like a classic dance song from like 210 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 3: twenty five thirty years ago. 211 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,559 Speaker 1: And it's a party song though, right, and you want 212 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: everyone to get up and party. 213 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 3: Why no, it is a party song. It's a very 214 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 3: like relaxed party song. It's not like a it's like 215 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 3: a classic, like a dance classic. Yeah, that's pretty spish. 216 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: That's very you. So, just so you know, the Greeks 217 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: viewed love as powerful and sometimes dangerous, something that could 218 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: bring joy and suffering, which we think love is. And then, 219 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: just so you know, when the Romans adopted this Greek mythology, 220 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: Aphrodite became Venus, which is what you tapped onto, and 221 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: the symbolism of the rose carried over over centuries. This 222 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 1: story helped shape the rose's status as the ultimate symbol 223 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: of romantic love, especially on Valentine's. 224 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 2: Oh we love that? 225 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:13,839 Speaker 1: Do you like that? 226 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 2: Spectacular? Yeah? 227 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: So, I just wanted to like talk a little bit 228 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: about like Valentine's because I think, like, you know, there's 229 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: two sides of it. There's a lot of people like 230 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: it's a capitalism holidayd up. But I was like, there's 231 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:31,199 Speaker 1: some pretty cool history about it. Yeah, like it, and 232 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: I like the like, you know, I'm going through a 233 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: real Greek mythology. Yes, but so is Venus. So is 234 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: Venus the Romans. 235 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 2: I don't I can't remember. I can't remember. 236 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 1: Okay, I love that. I presume all Italian. 237 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 3: I just I just pulled it out of the deep 238 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 3: recesses of my brain. I don't know where. You can't 239 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 3: ask me that, No. 240 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: Well, I want to know. Well, so, okay, I want 241 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 1: to know. We spent our Valentines a little different yesterday. 242 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 1: We actually went to celebrate a friend. 243 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, we did. 244 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:04,439 Speaker 1: Do you want to share a little bit. 245 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 2: About our Yes, so, our friend Craig. 246 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 3: Is very very dear friend of ours and he's actually 247 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 3: Australian finally enough, but he's lived in the US for 248 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 3: oh geez, what twenty. 249 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 2: Years no more? 250 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 1: I reckon. 251 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's a very very well known film editor, 252 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 3: done everything from Pirates of the Caribbean to Guard Galaxy 253 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 3: and he's something. And he's just had a new movie 254 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 3: come out that he worked on and it's called Good Luck, 255 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 3: Have Fun, Don't Die. 256 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 1: With Sam Rockwell Rockwell Temple. 257 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's very very cool. 258 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: Very cool. Actually, it's the kind of movie you want 259 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: to see again. 260 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 3: Absolutely, it's like a fun sci fi slash adventure, slash comedy, 261 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 3: slash I don't even know what else, like unhinged, funny. 262 00:14:58,720 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 2: It's really really cool. 263 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's and it's like it's also like there's parts 264 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: of that are quite uncomfortable because our future doesn't feel 265 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: too far away from it. Yeah, it's kind of like 266 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: if AI won, what the world would start to look like? 267 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: Is that right? How you would describe it? 268 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 269 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 3: And it's gor Verbinski, so and he's a pretty cool director. 270 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: So we went to see it because it came out 271 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: this weekend. We went to see it with Craig and 272 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 1: a bunch of their friends, and Craig and Eric and 273 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: a bunch of their friends, and then we went for 274 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: dinner after. So it was like a friend's Valentine's. 275 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:37,000 Speaker 2: Yes, it was very very nice. Is this so sweet? 276 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 3: Every year we usually do something small, you and I though, 277 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 3: or something like we usually go out to dinner or 278 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 3: you know, do a little picnic or do something little romantics. 279 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: Do you have any favorite Valentine's memories? Do you remember 280 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: the year I went all out and like got you 281 00:15:59,320 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: a million? 282 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? 283 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 3: I feel like at the start you you really went 284 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 3: a bit nuts, so all. 285 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: The like Gatsby glasses. Oh that's right, that little cocktail 286 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 1: maker Sam Brokey. 287 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: Listen. 288 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 3: Yeah that was twenty twenty one, was it? Yeah, we 289 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 3: just moved to Bangalow. We're in the Bangalow. 290 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, because then I went to America at March or 291 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: something or maybe twenty one. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 292 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: Oh that was a beautiful one. Yeah. And you got 293 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: me this like beautiful single stemros that I'm sure cost 294 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: a million and four dollars did from the Bangalow flower 295 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: room I did? 296 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 2: Yees, that's right. Did I buy you an outfit as well? 297 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 1: From Yeah ven Roy, not vn Roy, Rowei, no one fable. 298 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 1: Yeah that shop was that my Valentine's I'm pretty sure. 299 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was so good or maybe Rowe. 300 00:16:58,560 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: I don't remember one of the two I bought. 301 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 302 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, we definitely went very lax this year. But 303 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 1: we were just like, do you know what, we've just 304 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: got engaged, got to do something little. Yeah, maybe we 305 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 1: should make a little romantic dinner tonight. Yeah, we can 306 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: do that, something nice like, oh, you know how I'm 307 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: teaching yoga this afternoon. Why don't you drop me off 308 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 1: and then get some nice ingredients? 309 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 2: No? 310 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 1: Do you love that? I'm trying to like trick him 311 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 1: into doing Valentine's No, no, no, I'm. 312 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 2: Happy to drive. How would you like some slow braised pork? 313 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: No, no, not until I research what that does for cholesterol. Okay, 314 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 1: all right, okay, so one of just a few more 315 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: fun like little Valentiny hacks. Do you know, like chocolate 316 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 1: is like the most common given thing, right, So it's cards, chocolate, roses. 317 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:53,719 Speaker 1: They're the three big cahunas when it comes to Valentine's. 318 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: I know I got your helium balloon, but like that's 319 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 1: very Americana. I feel you don't really find them that much. 320 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 2: The beautiful So. 321 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: Chocolate has been known as an aphrodisiac for centuries. Yeah, 322 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: it's got this amino acid in it called phenylanlene. Yeah, 323 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: and that's like one of the love. It's not like oxytocin, 324 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 1: but it's like that thing where you fall in love 325 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: a little bit. So like chocolate has been known as 326 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: like a gift of love, but like also an aphrodisiac, 327 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: and it's got that chemical and it makes you feel 328 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: that chemical of like, oh, yes, I'm falling in love, 329 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 1: which is why. Yeah, people give chocolate and love chocolate 330 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: as well. 331 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 3: Maybe not so much like your Cabris favorites. So maybe 332 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 3: you want to get like a good quality cacoo chill. 333 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,679 Speaker 1: What I would love? You can't get them here, And 334 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 1: I think, oh a gillion Oh the shells, Oh yeah, 335 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 1: they we went through a little phase of them, I remember, yeah, yeah, 336 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: and then I did look at getting you Rafaeelo not Rafaelo's. 337 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 1: What's that one you like forls? Yeah, the goal, No rochets, 338 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: they're all sold out. Oh they're nice to We did 339 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 1: get given some chocolate yesterday. 340 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:14,199 Speaker 3: Yes, caramel from Australia too. They're like, well they are 341 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 3: fresh off the plane. 342 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 1: I know, I know exactly where they are in the cupboard. 343 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 1: So yeah, chocolate, little aphrodisiac. Have a little chocolate, have 344 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: a little oyster, have a little wine. Oh that sounds perfect. 345 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: I also like, you know how an X symbolizes a kiss. Yeah, 346 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:35,120 Speaker 1: so that dates back to the Middle Ages when people 347 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 1: would sign documents with an X to show sincerity. 348 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:44,159 Speaker 3: Okay, that's pretty cool. Yeah, that's cude. I love I 349 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 3: love these facts. Hey, I don't ask you what's what 350 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 3: was your favorite Valentine? Do you even do you remember? 351 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 2: I think I love that eight years of them? 352 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 1: I think I love the Actually, no, I know my 353 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 1: favorite one, our first year one. Yeah, and you remember 354 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 1: what you got me. You wanted me to You were 355 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 1: trying to help me with my creativity and you got me. 356 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:13,199 Speaker 1: It was so thoughtful. You got me like a whiteboard, 357 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:17,400 Speaker 1: get your whiteboard, yeah, and markers and so I could 358 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: like really do my like focus on my dreams and 359 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 1: all of that. 360 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 361 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,120 Speaker 1: I did love that. I kept that whiteboard for ages. 362 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 3: I think you also kept that bunch of flowers and 363 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 3: dried them. I did, and you had them probably up 364 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 3: until recently. 365 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 2: I've still got it idea. 366 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've got my dad to keep one little. 367 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 2: Box so funny. 368 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 1: Yeah I did. 369 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:38,679 Speaker 3: So. 370 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,679 Speaker 2: It's such a not like a non romantic present. But 371 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,880 Speaker 2: you loved it. The most witch I think is cute. 372 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, but we've definitely done. You've definitely organized, like really 373 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: cute dinners and stuff. You've I'm sure you've made me 374 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: a lins of tort. 375 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. Maybe in COVID, I probably made like a tart. 376 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 1: Matt went through such a baking phase. 377 00:20:59,160 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 2: I did. 378 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: It was a problem. I went through a tort phase 379 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: that was my favorite. And also then I went through 380 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: the cheesecake phase as well. Yeah, okay, but the cheesecake 381 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: is so dense and heavy, it's heart like. After you 382 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: have that one piece, you're kind of like spent, and 383 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 1: then you've got this whole cake. 384 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 3: Like what about the blueberry cheesecake? Though they're no bake 385 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 3: blueberry cheese cake. 386 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:28,120 Speaker 1: You know I'll never get to have them again. Lind'sa tort, 387 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 1: I probably can. It's not as fatty. Yeah, it's not 388 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 1: as fatty. I mean it's a little bit, isn't it. 389 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,199 Speaker 2: It's fine. It's fine. 390 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 1: When I talk about not being out having my cholester 391 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: roll is high. Okay, So I just wanted to like 392 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: do a little like ode to Valentine's. I also think, 393 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 1: and this is like stealing from acting school, but our 394 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: homework last week was to do three random acts of kindness, 395 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: and I want to put it out to the listener, 396 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 1: like maybe this week you just do one random act 397 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: of kindness as a like little lucky Valentine's energy. So 398 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: it could be like you can put money in a 399 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,120 Speaker 1: meter for someone else's parking. 400 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 2: That's cute. 401 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 1: You could I put when I teach you, I put 402 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 1: little notes in the student's shoes. 403 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 3: Nice, pay for someone's coffee behind you in line or something. 404 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a really good one. 405 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 3: You one. 406 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, just something little so that you're like putting love 407 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: out into the world. 408 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 2: Help an old lady carry her groceries to the car. 409 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen those tiktoks where like people are about 410 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 1: to go and pay for all their groceries and someone 411 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: leans across and does it. 412 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's pretty cool. You don't have to Also, you 413 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 3: don't have to spend money or it doesn't have to go. 414 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: You write the note. Yeah, put a little like flower. 415 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,400 Speaker 1: As someone said, last week acting school that they put 416 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: little bits of jasmine in their neighbors letterboxes. It smells nice. 417 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,679 Speaker 2: Oh that's nice when you pull. 418 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 1: Your letters out. 419 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's quite thoughtful, super thoughtful. Yeah. 420 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 3: I feel like, what was my random act of kindness 421 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 3: this week? Maybe giving some soup to our neighbor. 422 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 1: Oh that was cute. 423 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,640 Speaker 2: Maybe it's more like that. It makes me feel better. 424 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 1: That's okay though, Like that's still nice. Well, we put 425 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 1: a little little note, a little card in their door, 426 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 1: so they came home last night after the screening. Yeah, 427 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,880 Speaker 1: that we went to to a little congratulations, little note 428 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:39,359 Speaker 1: in the door. 429 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 430 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think. I think like being thoughtful. One thing 431 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,239 Speaker 1: I've learned is like, obviously I'm a giver, but like 432 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 1: you never regret giving someone something or thinking of someone 433 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,360 Speaker 1: like it never is a waste. 434 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 435 00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 1: I always think about that. I'm just like, yeah, I agree, yeah, yeah, 436 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: it never like never lead you astray, yeah never never. Yeah. 437 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 1: Ending on a little bit of romance. Oh okay, what 438 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 1: is something you love about me? 439 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 3: Hmm? Well, definitely your kindness really mm hmmm yeah, are 440 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 3: you very kind? Very caring? M I mean, there's a 441 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 3: lot of things could be here for a while. I 442 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 3: think that's probably like the main. 443 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 1: Kind and caring. 444 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and you're not You're not selfish, actually you 445 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 3: kind of are, but not in like not in like 446 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 3: a bad way, if that makes sense. 447 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, so not in a way that harms others, but 448 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: like in a driven career way. 449 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you're like you can be 450 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 3: very selfish is probably not a bad is a bad word, 451 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 3: but like your single focus, which I also love. 452 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,959 Speaker 1: Oh thanks boot, Okay, can I share yours? 453 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 2: Okay? Go? 454 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 1: I love your thoughtfulness, like the way you just described 455 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,479 Speaker 1: like you made lentils and you took some to the neighbor. Literally, 456 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 1: Matt's like, come out on your balcony, any handed over 457 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 1: some lentil soup over the balcony. So that's like the 458 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: thoughtfulness and like even today, I did yoga this morning. 459 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,640 Speaker 1: I caught up with a friend, but I hadn't eaten 460 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 1: and Matt by the time I walked in the door 461 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: and Matt had porridge waiting for me. I know I 462 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 1: asked for it, but it wasn't. Like you're very very thoughtful. 463 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: I also am having such fun watching you compose at 464 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 1: the moment. I really am love like I love watching 465 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:44,400 Speaker 1: you sit in your passion. So and what I love 466 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 1: is on the days you're not composing, I watch you 467 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: you compose. You're an artist much more than I'm an artist. 468 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, I think I'm like a business little go getter. 469 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:58,200 Speaker 1: You're an artist. I'm like, oh, I'm feeling that really 470 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 1: cool thing. Oh what else I do off the back 471 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,360 Speaker 1: of that? Oh what if those people want to work 472 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: with me? 473 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 2: Now? 474 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 1: Like I think like that, whereas you're like, oh, I 475 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 1: don't have any composing to day, oldest composed for myself. 476 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 2: Yeah. 477 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 3: Also like I'm I'm like constantly learning and training and 478 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 3: bettering myself for the day that you get a big call, 479 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 3: that you get the call and it's like you want 480 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 3: to be ready for that day. 481 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like I do that too with acting 482 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: school and stuff. But yeah, no you are, You're amazing. 483 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 3: But staying ready and staying sharp and staying yeah, got to. 484 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: Stay ready, got to stay sharp. 485 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 2: Readiness is all. Yeah, that's romantic. 486 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 1: It's actually a Hamlet quote about about death and being 487 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: ready to die. It's still romantic as well if you. 488 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 3: Think about it, like you should spend your life being 489 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:57,239 Speaker 3: ready to die, because like it means to live your 490 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 3: life to the fullest, you know, every day. 491 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, my acting teacher says, when you open my eyes 492 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 1: every morning, you think how lucky I've got another day. Yeah, 493 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: and I'm like, fuck, that's a really good way to 494 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: get because I can sometimes get in rots. Yeah, it's 495 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 1: a really good way to be. Okay, boo, I love you, 496 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:16,919 Speaker 1: I love you, I love you. We're going to do 497 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 1: a quick Valentine's hot seat but it's easy. 498 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 2: Okay, love you. 499 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always, 500 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,439 Speaker 1: thank you to our guests, and let's continue the conversation 501 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:38,360 Speaker 1: on Instagram. I'm at Yamo Lollerberry. This potty my work 502 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:43,160 Speaker 1: for podcast is available on all streaming platforms. 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