1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:22,639 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: the podcast where which have mindset, self development and becoming 8 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to 13 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's 15 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life pass 16 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. Hello everybody, 17 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: Welcome back to the potty. 18 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 2: In today's episode, I'm answering your quick fire questions about journaling. 19 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 2: Journaling has honestly changed my life. It helps me get clear, 20 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 2: manifest my desires, and unpack anything that I am currently processing. 21 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 2: I also just find it super handy to get my 22 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 2: thoughts and problems down on paper because it feels like 23 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 2: it really has no power of me. Once I can 24 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 2: look at it and I can unpack it and read 25 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,479 Speaker 2: it it. Honestly, it has been one of the most 26 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: life changing tools and that's why I'm so passionate about it. 27 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: So today we are. 28 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 2: Chatting is journally important, the best ways to journal, how 29 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 2: to fit journaling into your routine, how to embody what 30 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: you're writing, and the best way to journal for manifestation guys. 31 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 2: Just a reminder our life happens for me. Manifesting Journals 32 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 2: are launching tonight at five pm Australian Eastern Standard time. 33 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 2: If you're listening in real time. 34 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: And they're bringing a friend along, so that a good friend, 35 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: it's a really good friend. 36 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: It's really it's a best friend, guys. The Manifesting with 37 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: Momentum Masterclass is also launching, and basically I just felt 38 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 2: really cooled to create this masterclass because we've had a 39 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: lot of conversations in the office and if you guys 40 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 2: know the project, my signature manifesting course, it's seven weeks long. 41 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,679 Speaker 2: We've had thousands of women do it. 42 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: It is so incredible. We have the most amazing testimonials. 43 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: And something that I've chatted to the girls about in 44 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: the office is how in the course, I give you 45 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: my ten step formula to manifesting, and I also give 46 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 1: that to you in the Life Happens for Me journals. 47 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: But I explained to the girls, like, I don't sit 48 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: there and write down the ten steps anymore because there's 49 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: gotten to a point in my manifesting journey where I 50 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: am able to basically collapse time and integrate my manifesting formula. 51 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: So it just feels second nature and I'm able to 52 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: like manifest things twenty four to seven. And they were 53 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: all like, you need to do a teaching on this, 54 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: because I sit there every time I'm doing that, you like, 55 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: help us please, And I was like, all right, let's 56 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: do it. And I it's so since I sat down 57 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: to work on this master class, I am just like, 58 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with the process of co creating with something 59 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: that is not you and being able to attract things 60 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: in your life and being able to share this with 61 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: you guys, because it has transformed my life. Is changed 62 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: my life, and it's really interesting because I was telling a. 63 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: Tear off air, Like I did a post the other 64 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 2: day about for my parents' sixtieth it. 65 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: Was so cute, so cute, So. 66 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 2: I fully organized and paid for their accommodation in New 67 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: Zealand and all of like our dinners and everything in 68 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 2: New Zealand, and then I surprised mom and Dad with 69 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 2: a private chef experience. 70 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: For their sixtieth and it was so special and such like. 71 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 2: A core memory for me because my parents absolutely did 72 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 2: everything for me growing up and gave me so much 73 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 2: love and so much support, and they literally the best 74 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: people and even though though maybe didn't give me the 75 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: greatest money beliefs, which I described in the post, because 76 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: it's funny. My mum literally said on that trip, she 77 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 2: finds it so funny that people think I came from 78 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 2: like a rich family or I've just like been given things, 79 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 2: because she's like, we have such a scarcity mindset with 80 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 2: money and they're so frugal and I'm like, obviously so 81 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: different now, yeah, but that's what I grew up with, 82 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 2: so she just she thinks it's like really hilarious. And 83 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: that's kind of what I'm saying in the post of 84 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 2: my favorite thing about being able to create this level 85 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 2: of abundance and wealth is things like this, like being 86 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 2: able to provide my parents with an experience they would 87 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: never pay for themselves, and being able to, yeah, like 88 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 2: just have experiences that you've you know, maybe always dreamed 89 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 2: and wanted but never been able to have. 90 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: And that's just my favorite part about manifestation. 91 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 2: And that's what I said in the post of I 92 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 2: used to have the same beliefs my parents did, and 93 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 2: that's you know why. 94 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: They have their certain reality. And I had to change 95 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 1: those beliefs and I had to block myself on all 96 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: the things of you know what I teach you guys 97 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: about manifestation, and now I have a completely different reality. 98 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 1: And it's so clear to me what can happen when 99 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: you do change your internal belief system and how much 100 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: it starts internally. Sometimes that's hard for people to comprehend 101 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 1: or even be okay with. And so that's like. 102 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 2: This is why I do the rise and Conquer side 103 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 2: of things, because I'm like, no, no, no, you can 104 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: like trust me, you can have it too, Like it 105 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 2: gets to be so amazing. Anyway, that was a bit 106 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 2: of a rent, But the master class is all about 107 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 2: integrating your manifestation practice. So basically you can manifest faster, 108 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 2: you can integrate things, and it become it can become 109 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 2: second nature, so you're always attracting exactly what you want 110 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 2: rather than manifesting feeling like I don't know, I feel 111 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: what we've gathered from the RNC group is like people 112 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 2: will be able to manifest something. 113 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 1: But then it's like they full off the bandwagon and 114 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 1: they're not able to consistently hold the habits and the 115 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: practices and exactly. 116 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 2: So that's what we're going through in this master class, 117 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: which I am so excited about. And just an FYI 118 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 2: because We've had a couple of questions about if I've 119 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 2: done the project, is it the same thing. It is 120 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 2: literally completely different in the way of I recorded the 121 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 2: project literally two or three years ago, so think of 122 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 2: like what I have learned and processed and been through 123 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 2: since then. And that's you know, what you're getting in 124 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 2: this masterclass. But also if you have never done the 125 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 2: project or even never done manifesting, you're still going to 126 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: find this so helpful because it's going to make sense 127 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: to you like I've made sure so yes, that is 128 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 2: all going live today at five pm. There is limited 129 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 2: journals and limited spots. So if it sounds like something 130 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 2: you're into, don't. 131 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: Wait, get on it, on it before we get into it. Yes, weekly, Rex, 132 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: what's yours? You're a person that I'll go. I was 133 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: gonna say working out in the morning. Oh my god, 134 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: are you working out in the morning? Tea? I went 135 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: to gym at five thirty this morning, pilarates. How good 136 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: is it? It's so good because it's like when I 137 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: get to go home, I'm done, Like I don't have 138 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: to worry about getting to the gym or anything. And 139 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: it's sometimes for me like it's just so early because 140 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: I had to get up at four but got to 141 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: pilates at five point thirty, and I kind of forgot 142 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: that I did it because it's like I'm half sleeping 143 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: on I don't know. I don't know if that's just 144 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 1: a me thing. But are you doing it close to 145 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: your house? No? I did it at Hustle. Oh my god, 146 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: what a vibe. I know, it was amazing. That's a 147 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: vibe oft shit I've ever got to go stand on 148 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: the beach after like it was. Yeah, this is why 149 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 1: you work at the Gold Coast. I know. I can't 150 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: believe make work out in the mornings. 151 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 2: Like I, it is beyond me how you can work 152 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: all day and then have the mental capacity and then 153 00:08:59,120 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 2: go work out. 154 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:03,319 Speaker 1: Well that was the thing. It was always such a battle. Always. 155 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: Now I get to just go home and chill, cook dinner. 156 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: My life's changed. I really love this for you. I'm 157 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: finally on the morning. How long have you been working 158 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: here for the podcast? Because I've been preaching this for 159 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: a very long time. I feel like Tim this time 160 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: last year. Oh my fucking god, are you ready for this? 161 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: Tim Goes. I know we're going on France. Yeah, but 162 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: they want to know. Tim Goes, Oh my god, I'm 163 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 1: reading this book and it's so or something. No, it's 164 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 1: it's the Way of the Superior Man. Oh I look. 165 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 2: So my coach was like Tim would love this book. 166 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 2: Get him to read it. And I said it to 167 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 2: him like six months ago. 168 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 1: And then his coach was like, You've got to read 169 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 1: this book. And I'm like, you realized that was the 170 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: book I recommended to you six months ago. He's like, 171 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: oh really, I'm like, oh, nothing annoys anymore, but sure, 172 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you have this one. My recommendation. I 173 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,199 Speaker 1: am currently loving. 174 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 2: I have a phone free zone when I get in bed. 175 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: So I used to be like very good of getting 176 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: off my phone at like seven seven thirty, but I 177 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 2: would still get in bed, go on for a little bit, 178 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 2: check my posts, and. 179 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: Then get off it. 180 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: But no, it's like, if I'm in bed, i cannot 181 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 2: be on social media. That's like a hard rule for 182 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 2: me right now. And it's so good. So I have 183 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 2: been reading my kindle. Love that I have a kindle, 184 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 2: by the way, That is my recommendation. 185 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: But I've also got the book. 186 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 2: Been reading books before bed, and the book that I 187 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 2: have just finished is called Buy Back Your Time by 188 00:10:55,559 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 2: Dan Martel, and it's basically how to utilize your time 189 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 2: better as a business owner. Oh it's very interesting, very niche, 190 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 2: very niche to me specifically, but look, if you want. 191 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: To, Yeah, is it kind of like how to use 192 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 1: people in your team and stuff to maximize your time? 193 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: Oh no, yeah, kind of. It's more about letting go control, 194 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: which was very helpful to me. Interesting because I struggle 195 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: with that. 196 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 2: But yeah, that is. It's a very niche recommendation. But 197 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 2: I have finished that, and I am currently reading another 198 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: book that's really really good. But I just want to 199 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 2: finish it and then I'll recommend it. Yeah, so look 200 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 2: out for the next recommendation. 201 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: All right, should we get into the episode. Yes, So 202 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: our first question is how to get started. For anyone 203 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: who hasn't journaled before and have no idea what to write, 204 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: how much to write, and when to journal? 205 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 2: Well, you bloody to get a Life Happens for Me journal. 206 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:05,719 Speaker 2: Literally answer all your questions in there. 207 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 1: And that's doesn't it. 208 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 2: Well, that's it is why we created the Life Happens 209 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 2: for Me journal because for me, journaling has been in 210 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 2: practice that I have done, you know, for the last 211 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 2: eight years, and it comes very naturally to me now, 212 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 2: but in saying that, it never used to. So we 213 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 2: created the Life Happens for Me Journal. So it's like, 214 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 2: let's actually make this a happen. Let's make this routine, 215 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 2: and in it we have you know, how do you start? 216 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 2: We have a Dear Future Me letter, We go through 217 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 2: a manifesting formula. We also have a prompt glossary. So 218 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 2: that's something I always. 219 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: Recommend for new journalis of just use prompts. It's going 220 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: to really help you have a structure, it's going to 221 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: help you have a process. And then you're going to 222 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: transcend that process and you're going to just naturally journal. 223 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: But I do find you need to start with something 224 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: that is actually going to give you those deeps else 225 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: And I think also a big thing with journaling is 226 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: people can think there's a right and wrong way, Yeah, 227 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: and there's not. It's really if you think about basically 228 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: the point of journaling is it's a tool to either 229 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:20,559 Speaker 1: help you unpack something, help you work through something, assist 230 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:25,959 Speaker 1: in your manifestation practice, assist in your gratitude practice. It's 231 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: a tool. 232 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,559 Speaker 2: And I think that's the big thing is like journaling 233 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 2: isn't the end goal. Journaling is something you use to 234 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 2: get the end goal. If that makes sense. 235 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 1: Yes it does. So is it sort of more about 236 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: when you're journaling, being clear, am I journaling right now 237 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: to release? Am I journaling right now for manifestation? Am 238 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 1: I journaling to unpack a trigger? And then using obviously 239 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: a fitting method for each thing, because if you're journaling 240 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 1: to release, you're not really going to need to look 241 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 1: back at it much. It's more about getting it out 242 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 1: of your body exactly. 243 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 2: And that's the thing is you're not going to always 244 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 2: journal for the exact same reason. So it might be 245 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 2: a simple of I need to get these thoughts out 246 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 2: of my head. I need to feel a release, so 247 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 2: that's why your journal or yeah, like I need to 248 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 2: manifest something, so I'm going to go through my manifestation process. 249 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 2: And it's really journaling is just the most beautiful tool 250 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 2: to connect to yourself. 251 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: It is. That's what I use it for. 252 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 2: Is really in those moments of how do I actually feel, 253 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 2: how do I want to be? 254 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: What do I want? You know, like all those things. 255 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 2: And it's funny because I actually did a story the 256 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: other day because I was doing some journaling on the beach, 257 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 2: and I sat on the beach and I was like 258 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 2: what do I want to journal about? And I just 259 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 2: kind of like intuitively was like, okay, what's going to 260 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 2: come to me? And obviously this again i'm longer in 261 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 2: my journaling practice. Yeah, and for me in that moment, 262 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 2: it was I actually just want to be clear on 263 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 2: what's working and what's not. 264 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: So I literally had two pages what's working, what's not. 265 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 2: I went through relationships, I went through you know, my boundaries, business, friendships, 266 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 2: all the things, and just like wrote some things and 267 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 2: I then looked at. 268 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 1: The paper and I was like, oh wow, this. 269 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 2: Is really cool evidence or like okay, cool, Now I 270 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: can use this to decide what's next. But a lot 271 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 2: of people have all these thoughts and feelings in their 272 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 2: head and they never get it down, so they can 273 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 2: never make like intention with moving forward. 274 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: If that makes sense. 275 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 2: It does so that I would call that probably like 276 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 2: refinement journaling. And I'm constantly refining because otherwise we're always 277 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 2: going to change and evolve no matter what. Yeah, and 278 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 2: I just like to be really intentional about that change. 279 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: I love that because it's almost that thing of you'll 280 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 1: be chatting to someone or thinking about something and you 281 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: have this really great aha moment and then you forget it. Yes, 282 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: but if you write it down, you'll, like I find 283 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: even when I write things down, I don't really need 284 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 1: to go back to look at it because I just 285 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: remember it because I wrote it down. 286 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 2: Yes, It's like it's almost like an integration process. 287 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a bit. What our next question is, how 288 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: can you stay consistent with journaling? Well, this is the 289 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: big thing, So I guess like it needs to become 290 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: a habit for you, and habits are just what is 291 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 1: important to you. 292 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, So is it more important to go on your 293 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 2: phone and scroll on social media at night before you 294 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 2: go to bed, or is it more important for you 295 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 2: to get your mindset and mental health right before you 296 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: go to bed? Do you mean and like actually asking 297 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 2: it that way rather than oh, do I want to 298 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 2: go on my phone or do I want to like 299 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 2: journal and deciding that I I guess like for me, 300 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 2: I have made things a habit and now it's just 301 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 2: like I just do those things because I know that, 302 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 2: you know, my future self is going to thank me, 303 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 2: or it. 304 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: Just feels good for me. 305 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think it's about having discipline. No, we 306 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 2: don't like that word having you know, discipline at the 307 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 2: start so you can. 308 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 1: See the results. Yeah. 309 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 2: So then you're like, oh, well, I know if I 310 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 2: go on my phone and scroll, I'm going to get 311 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 2: into this loop of comparison. 312 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: I then have a really shitty sleep. I then wake 313 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: up grumpy. I then have probably a shit day the 314 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: next day. But then I also know if I sit 315 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: here and I unpack things and I feel grateful and 316 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: I get clear on my desires, I wake up feeling 317 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 1: really good. But until you have that evidence, you're not 318 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: going to pick the better option. If that makes sense. 319 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 2: So it's about being disciplined enough to be like, Okay, 320 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 2: well i'm gonna set my alarm, I'm gonna journal, I'm 321 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 2: gonna do this for a week straight, and then I'm 322 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 2: gonna see how I feel. And usually you'll have so 323 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 2: much evidence that it feels good that you will just 324 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 2: choose that thing. And I think it's also just about 325 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 2: bringing some consciousness into your routine. 326 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: So are you just on this ever. 327 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 2: Ending loop of just oh, I just jump in bed 328 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,680 Speaker 2: and I get on my phone because it's like what 329 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 2: you do, it's just what I do, or and this 330 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 2: is something you can do of like auditing your routine 331 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:39,199 Speaker 2: every moment, like go to pick up your phone and 332 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 2: be like do I need to go on here? Am 333 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 2: I messaging my boss? Or you know, am I doing this? 334 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 2: Am I messaging? Am I looking at Ivy on the 335 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 2: baby camera? Like what am I actually doing. 336 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 1: On my phone? 337 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 2: And being conscious about that rather than being this like 338 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 2: it's kind of like you're a hamster on a wheel. 339 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 2: So just bringing some awareness and consciousness into your routine 340 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 2: and making the decision for your future self rather than 341 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:08,920 Speaker 2: that dopemin hit right now. 342 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 1: I love that it's kind of like living your life 343 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: and not watching other people live there. I know, I 344 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: always I think about that all the time and also think, guys, 345 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 1: is like I'm not saying social media is bad, Like, 346 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,400 Speaker 1: clearly love social media and I use it and it 347 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: can be a really great tool. But it's also about 348 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:32,679 Speaker 1: it's kind of like I've been really leaning into this 349 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 1: concept of mothering myself. So it's this is so side note, 350 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: but I've been going really into like the female archetypes 351 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 1: of like the maiden, the mother, the wild woman, the temptress, anyway, 352 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 1: a whole lot of things, but you know, the mother. 353 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 1: A way to step into your mother archetype is mothering yourself. Wow, 354 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: so kind of being like, you know, for example, if 355 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 1: your three year old was like, oh, I'm gonna scroll 356 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 1: my phone before bed, would you be like, yeah, honey, 357 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 1: sounds great, Like this is funny because this is what 358 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 1: my mom says to me. I still live. If you're 359 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 1: like a tea, just use your actual mom because that's perfect. 360 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: But if you're like me that your mom doesn't live 361 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 1: with you and. 362 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 2: You have a daughter, use yourself as your mother and 363 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:26,199 Speaker 2: be like, you know, to mother myself. Right now, what 364 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 2: would I actually do because your mom always wants the 365 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 2: best for you, the best for you and the highest 366 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 2: version of yourself. And that's even something really interesting I've 367 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 2: been doing. 368 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 1: Is like, oh, how could I actually mother myself right 369 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: now and make that choice? I love. I love that 370 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 1: shift in thought too. Yeah, that's really it. Kind of 371 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,679 Speaker 1: instead of being like I need to be disciplined, it 372 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: feels better of being like, oh, I'm actually being really 373 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: like nourishing to myself and it feels better. Wow, random, random, 374 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: ped I love it, but we love it. Our next question, 375 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 1: should you meditate before journaling or listen to music while journaling? Either? All? Either? Yeah? 376 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 1: Like that's what I mean, guys, is like there's actually 377 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 1: no right or wrong and it's just whatever you want 378 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: to do to get on the vibe. For example, if 379 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 1: you are feeling not really super scattered and not grounded, 380 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 1: I would meditate before journaling. You're probably going to get 381 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,919 Speaker 1: a lot more out of it, as like quite the mind, 382 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,639 Speaker 1: get into that spot. Yeah, and you're probably. 383 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,920 Speaker 2: Going to get a lot more out of your journaling practice. 384 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 2: I personally listen to really beautiful music when I journal 385 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 2: It's just like it's a bit of a vibe for me. 386 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 2: But really there's like I said, there's no right or wrong. 387 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: What do you like doing it to your I am, 388 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 1: I've been journaling before bed at the moment, so it'll 389 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 1: be once I've like set my alarm on my phone 390 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 1: because that's obviously the last thing I do on my 391 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 1: phone every night, pop non charge in that stays a 392 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 1: little bit further away from me. My journal sits on 393 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: my bedside table, and I'll get my journal out, I'll 394 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 1: light a little candle. I'll have like my cup of 395 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 1: tea or moon milk, so it's like just a very 396 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:15,160 Speaker 1: relaxing experience. I don't listen to music when I do, 397 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: because I just get so distracted and pulled into music 398 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 1: sometimes and I'll just like get stuck listening and I 399 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 1: won't actually be thinking. So for me to like mindfully journal, 400 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 1: I need silence. So it's just yeah, lights are off, 401 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,919 Speaker 1: just a candle and then I just journal. And sometimes 402 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:33,920 Speaker 1: I know this is like a bit of a tangent, 403 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 1: but sometimes even with my manifestation journaling, I'll just draw 404 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 1: a really bad picture of what I want, like oh 405 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 1: my God, instead of writing it, I just draw myself 406 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:48,879 Speaker 1: with the thief I'm just imagining, like linterly is, and 407 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: I do like big circles for hair and stuff, but 408 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: sometimes for me that's it. That's all I do when 409 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 1: I journal is draw a nice picture. I love that, 410 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: and I like write little labels. I'm like my car, 411 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: big house. Love that. Yeah, that's just sort of what 412 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 1: I found work for me. But that's like, that's the 413 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,880 Speaker 1: beauty of journalist. Is like, if that's the vibe you need, 414 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 1: someone finds my journal one day, someone clearly gave us 415 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 1: to their kids. That was funny. Our next question, has 416 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 1: journaling changed your life? 417 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, completely, Like I said, it has been 418 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 2: such a tool for me in so many different ways. 419 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 2: I it's interesting. I had a lot of journals growing up, 420 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 2: and they were very like I went to the beach 421 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 2: today and yeah. And then then it's really interesting because 422 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 2: I was always really interested in writing and journaling a bit. 423 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 2: Probably when I was like eleven or something, I kind 424 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 2: of stopped and obviously, you know, school gets more hectic, 425 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 2: and I remember then I didn't pick up journaling until 426 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 2: I was like twenty two or something, and then I. 427 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: Just fell back in love. 428 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 2: I've always loved books and reading, and so I love 429 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:33,239 Speaker 2: a place that I can put my words, i can 430 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 2: put my creativity. I can like I've I don't know, 431 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 2: I've just I've found it such a tool to connect 432 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:43,359 Speaker 2: to myself and it's just been such, yeah, a beautiful 433 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,719 Speaker 2: experience for me that has evolved. And I love journaling 434 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 2: because there's no expectation. Yeah, no one's reading this. I 435 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 2: don't even reread it. Sometimes it's something, you know, just 436 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 2: for me. And again, it's just like it's been a 437 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 2: really beautif thing to get my thoughts out into paper. 438 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 2: Like you know, I'm if sometimes I'm feeling super anxious 439 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 2: and then I put the thoughts out into paper and 440 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 2: I re read it and I'm like, oh, it's okay, Georgia, 441 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 2: you know. And then I'm I'm able to use it 442 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,239 Speaker 2: as a tool and then, you know, my favorite thing 443 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 2: to do is just like journal about what I'm manifesting 444 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 2: and like be and like embody that and be like 445 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 2: oh my god, and then this happens and I feel 446 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 2: like this and it like i feel like I'm going 447 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 2: to another place and it really helps me embody and 448 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,919 Speaker 2: get on the vibe of what I want to manifest. 449 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 2: And yeah, it's been such an incredible tool. And again 450 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 2: it's just there's something creative and like connecting about journaling 451 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 2: for me personally that I've I've just fallen in love 452 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 2: with and it's yeah, it's definitely changing my life. 453 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: What about you? Well, I was really similar Like growing up, 454 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: I had heaps of like books that I would write in, 455 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 1: but it was very like reflective of my day. And 456 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: I also was like the most paranoid little child ever 457 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: and didn't want my mom or my sister or my 458 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: dad reading any of it because sometimes I'd be mean 459 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 1: things about the do you ever have like one of 460 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: those little does the voice activated was in a lock. Look, 461 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 1: I was so paranoid. I had a journal that had 462 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: a lock on it. I kept the key on me 463 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 1: and I wrote in like invisible ink. Do you know 464 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: those pens? And they had the light on the back 465 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 1: and you had to shine to read writing enough, I 466 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 1: honestly don't know heelarious. So I also can't read any 467 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: of them back really tell you what's in there. But 468 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 1: I think now I've started to get into more more 469 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 1: into journaling and a block or weird thing that I 470 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: had that I've realized is like I used to love 471 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: doing like our course workbooks, but I never equated that 472 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: to journaling, but it is journaling. It's just prompted journaling. Yeah, 473 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 1: and so I think I'm very much still in the 474 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: phase of like doing very prompted journaling about things. Or 475 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 1: sometimes when I just have a really really strong feeling 476 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: that I just don't want to keep it inside anymore, 477 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,920 Speaker 1: I'll write it in my journal. And it's just interesting 478 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 1: sometimes to like go back to some of these pages 479 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 1: and go, oh, like really interesting that I was feeling 480 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,199 Speaker 1: that way about my friend that day or about my 481 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 1: body that day, and that's actually really negative and I 482 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:30,200 Speaker 1: shouldn't feel that way about things. And I am able 483 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: to almost Another thing that I like to do is 484 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 1: like when I write something really negative, leave space underneath 485 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 1: and I'll almost respond back to it on a different 486 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 1: day when I'm in a better headspace. And that's really 487 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: helped me. Yeah. 488 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,360 Speaker 2: I think it's also really beautiful seeing your evolution. 489 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy. I'll go through my journal from the 490 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,879 Speaker 1: start of the year and like just even seeing the 491 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,640 Speaker 1: mindset I was in about a certain topic and then 492 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: to now be where I am and be like, oh, wow, 493 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 1: that doesn't even bother me anymore. Yeah, I've fully integrated. 494 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 2: That or you know those moments. It's such a beautiful 495 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:08,120 Speaker 2: tool because I think sometimes we forget what we've been through, yeah, 496 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 2: and what has been in our head and what we 497 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 2: have moved through, and we can be like, oh, I'm 498 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 2: not evolving, I'm. 499 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,680 Speaker 1: Not you know, I'm stagnant. And then you go read 500 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 1: an old journal and and you're like, holy, she's a 501 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 1: long way. Yea. 502 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 2: Even when you go and read oh my favorite things. 503 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,360 Speaker 2: When you go read something it was, you know, your 504 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 2: manifestation and then you've manifested it, yeah, and you're like, oh, 505 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:34,160 Speaker 2: that's beautiful. 506 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: The next question is I love this one very interesting? 507 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 1: What's more productive a journal to dump all of your 508 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 1: bad feelings or a more positive manifesting approach. 509 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 2: I don't think journaling should have the outcome of being 510 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 2: productive interesting, And that's what and that's what I'm trying 511 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 2: to get at is if you're journaling from a oh 512 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 2: what can I be to be more productive? I don't 513 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 2: think you're going to enjoy it, and like, I think 514 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 2: you need to retract even that. 515 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: What's going to be more productive? Yeah, because journaling is a. 516 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 2: Tool that it's going to change time to time. So 517 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 2: you know, if we are talking what's more productive. One day, 518 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 2: it's going to be more productive to get out of 519 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,479 Speaker 2: the bad feelings because you're in a really low vibe. 520 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 1: And then the other day, you know, you're in a. 521 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 2: Neutral state and it's going to be better to talk 522 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 2: about your manifestations because it's going to put you into 523 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 2: a higher vibe. 524 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I. 525 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 2: Just I don't think there's any right or wrong with journaling. Yeah, 526 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 2: and I think be try and be a bit fluid. 527 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 2: Like if you're still at the prompts stage of journaling, 528 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 2: that's amazing. But even like you know, maybe you do 529 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 2: five days of prompts and then then maybe the next 530 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 2: day you're like, oh, I'm not going to use prompts. 531 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna see what happens, and you just try 532 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 2: and test different things. But like both of those approaches 533 00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 2: can be beautiful at different times. 534 00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I totally agree in one thing I love 535 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 1: about prompts and especially the life Happens for Me journal 536 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 1: There are so many that sometimes the prompts will lead 537 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: you to unpacking something and maybe going a bit deeper 538 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: and like talking about the bad things. But sometimes the 539 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 1: prompts are there to help you get high vibe so 540 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 1: I think it's less about whether it's unpacking bad things 541 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 1: or talking about good things and just looking at the 542 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: situation that you're in that you want to journal on 543 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: and then do what's best for that situation at that time. 544 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, So I'm going to read a couple from 545 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 2: the prompts and glossary just so you kind of if 546 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 2: you don't understand what we're saying by prompts. So you know, 547 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 2: like there's the titles of like knowing your next step, 548 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 2: and then there's about seven prompts underneath that manifesting your 549 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 2: every desire, and then there's seven prompts shifting into a 550 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 2: high vibe, tapping into your intuition, letting go of something, 551 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 2: stepping into your next level, self alignment, core beliefs, finding 552 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 2: your Why, daily prompts for beginners, surrendering, rewriting, limiting beliefs, 553 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 2: going deeper, and self reflection, healing and self love. There's 554 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 2: literally over a hundred prompts. There's once about grief, there's 555 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 2: ones about closure, and really just I would go through 556 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 2: to the prompt section and be like, what do I 557 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 2: need right now? Yeah, and pick that and go through 558 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 2: the questions. Also, another thing with journaling is I don't 559 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 2: know if you felt like there's a tear, but like, 560 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 2: sometimes if I'm doing prompts, there's a certain prompt and 561 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 2: I straight away I'm like, nah, don't want. 562 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: To do it. 563 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know what that means, guys, you have 564 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 2: to do it. 565 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 566 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 2: If you're feeling resistant towards a certain prompt, it's because 567 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 2: you're about to unpack something that you probably don't want 568 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 2: to unpack, or look at something you don't want to 569 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 2: look at. And so I highly recommend the you know, 570 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 2: even in the prompts glossary, you know, the prompt that 571 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 2: you're like, nah, I don't want to do it makes 572 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,000 Speaker 2: you do it, yeah, because that on it. That's like 573 00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 2: every time that I've felt that feeling and then done it, 574 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 2: I've been like, wow, life changing kind of thing. 575 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: And my thing with that too is sometimes like, especially 576 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 1: if you're journaling at the end of the day, you 577 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 1: might genuinely not have the time or capacity to unpack that, 578 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: but highlight it, write it down, and make sure you 579 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 1: do it that week, like it needs to be done soon. 580 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: But just knowing when and where is important. Yeah, Definitely. 581 00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: The next question I suffer from pretty severe anxiety, overthinking 582 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 1: and constantly have my mind racing full of thoughts. I 583 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 1: struggle to stop, slow down and actually think about where 584 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: to start. Any tips. I think getting it all out 585 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: would actually help me a lot. Definitely, start journaling. 586 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 2: It's going to be such a beautiful practice to calm 587 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 2: your mind. And like I said, that's personally what I 588 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 2: use journaling or for a very long time of just 589 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 2: getting thoughts. 590 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 1: Out so I could actually be like especially because I 591 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of the anxious thoughts that I 592 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: previously had they were very much about control. 593 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 2: So you know, it's often I'm feeling anxious about something 594 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 2: I can't even control. And I think that's a huge 595 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 2: realization that I used to have all the time of 596 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 2: like putting it down on paper and being like, I 597 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 2: literally can't control this thing. And also I know, coming 598 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 2: back to the why of like why do I feel 599 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 2: a need to control everything? And this is going on 600 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 2: a bit of a tangent, but personally in my journey, 601 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 2: any time that I'm in a sense of control, it's 602 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 2: because I don't feel safe within my body and myself. 603 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,240 Speaker 2: So any time that you're trying to control all the 604 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 2: external is and again I'm not a professional, but from 605 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 2: my experience is this thing of I don't feel safe 606 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 2: in myself, so I'm trying to grab onto control. 607 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:07,240 Speaker 1: I'm trying to. 608 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 2: Grab on to, you know, something external to make me 609 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 2: feel good and solid because I didn't feel solid in myself. 610 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 1: Yeah. So instead of like actually dealing with what's going 611 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,440 Speaker 1: on inside and taking control of yourself, you're just latching 612 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,280 Speaker 1: onto any other thing that you could control. 613 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, which makes you feel more anxious because you actually 614 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:32,240 Speaker 2: can't control anything. So I think that's what I'm saying 615 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 2: is I think what you'll actually start to find is 616 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,879 Speaker 2: when you put a practice like this in place, it's 617 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 2: less you feel less anxious because you're more connected to 618 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 2: yourself and personally. That's why I used to get anxiety 619 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 2: is when I was actually disconnected from myself and when 620 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 2: I didn't feel safe within myself, and so I had 621 00:34:56,520 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 2: to give myself that safety and then the anxiety left, 622 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 2: Yeah left? 623 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 1: Why? 624 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 2: But like that was That's what I mean is like 625 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 2: often it's not even the act of oh, I feel anxious, 626 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 2: let's unpack this. 627 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 1: It's the act of using a tool to connect to yourself, 628 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 1: which you can do through journaling, through meditation, like having 629 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: those moments with yourself. So that's why I'm like hugely 630 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 1: that's going to be so beneficial for you. So it's 631 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 1: not even kind of like it's not necessarily journaling on 632 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,399 Speaker 1: your anxiety or the thing that maybe stressing you out. 633 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,880 Speaker 1: Is just about getting to know yourself better. 634 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and having that practice where because that's another thing 635 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 2: is like I love journaling because you're actually giving time 636 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,320 Speaker 2: to yourself, which I think if a lot of people 637 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 2: audited their day, I think they would rarely give time 638 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 2: to theirselves. 639 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 1: Like when are you? 640 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,240 Speaker 2: And this is I'm you know, this comes from someone 641 00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 2: who's hugely scheduled, but it's like, where do you. 642 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 1: Have minutes to check in with yourself? Yeah? Be with yourself, 643 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 1: you know, connect to yourself. Be like connect to your body. Yeah, 644 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: like move in your body and like feel into yourself. 645 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 1: Like none of us do that unless you've got these 646 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 1: practices you do. And so that's just personally what I 647 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 1: used to find is I would say I'm a highly 648 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,840 Speaker 1: anxious person, but it's because I was so disconnected from myself. 649 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: You know, it's actually wild now that you say that. Yeah, 650 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:36,400 Speaker 1: I hadn't consistently journaled till I'd say maybe three weeks ago, 651 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:43,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like a whole new person. Really. Yeah, Like 652 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 1: before that, the things I would do to go to 653 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: bed was like check the calendar for work the next day, 654 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,360 Speaker 1: to make sure that I've i don't know, got everything 655 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: in my head that I need to have in my head, 656 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 1: and like little crazy things like that, or if it's 657 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,319 Speaker 1: the weekend, talk go on TikTok, or if it's like 658 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 1: Friday night, make sure that I'm not forgetting a catch 659 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 1: up that I've planned with someone the next day, and 660 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 1: just like very highly like I'm gonna forget. I'm stressed, 661 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 1: I got all these things. And now that I don't 662 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,400 Speaker 1: even do that, like it's not even part of my 663 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,839 Speaker 1: routine to check what's on the next day, I'm like, oh, 664 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 1: wake up and there'll be enough time for me to 665 00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:22,879 Speaker 1: sort anything out and I might maybe it's generally ed today, 666 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 1: Well I think it must be. 667 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 2: Well that's that's what I mean. Is like I would 668 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,319 Speaker 2: literally be having a look at your routine and be like, 669 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 2: you know what, I think this is really okay, I'm 670 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 2: gonna have a. 671 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: Huge stake here, Okay, I like. 672 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 2: Personally know people who call themselves highly anxious people and 673 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 2: every single night they're watching true crime documentaries. Do mess 674 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 2: Like if you are someone who feels anxious and you 675 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 2: actually look at your routine to see what you're doing 676 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 2: your day, like yeah, are you like are and you're 677 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 2: checking your calendar before you go to bed? 678 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 1: Yes? 679 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 2: Or like you know, I think we can put it 680 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 2: down to oh no, like I'm a healthy person, you know, 681 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 2: blah blah blah. 682 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like if you actually audited your routine 683 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 1: and like I said, do you even give yourself ten 684 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: minutes to connect to yourself to check in with how 685 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,920 Speaker 1: you feel and then that day decide what you're going 686 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,480 Speaker 1: to like give you to yourself or are you running 687 00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 1: on this like hamster wheel of like schedules and I 688 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 1: just do this and I'm not very conscious about what 689 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: I pick. And then you're like, oh, it's so weird. 690 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 1: I'm really anxious. I'm so surprised. 691 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,680 Speaker 2: And I really I say that with love because that 692 00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:43,480 Speaker 2: was me. I felt so anxious and I was like, 693 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,359 Speaker 2: it's so weird because I work out and I eat 694 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 2: all the healthy foods, but I did not have a 695 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:49,640 Speaker 2: mental health practice. 696 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 1: Wow. 697 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 2: And then that's when I introduced journaling and my whole 698 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 2: life change because I was like, holy shit, I was 699 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,400 Speaker 2: so disconnected from myself. I never checked in with myself. 700 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 1: Check in with yourself, guys, check in with this. Our 701 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: next question is any good journal prompts to work through 702 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 1: big feelings. I've got a book of them. 703 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 2: We have literally got a book of them. But I'm 704 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 2: going to give you some, all right, So from the 705 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 2: life happens for me journal? So the first one, what 706 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,800 Speaker 2: am I feeling right now? So name the emotion? 707 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 1: Give it a label. Is it stress? Is it anxiety? 708 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 1: Is it sadness? Is it anger, guilt? Shame? Then I 709 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:43,320 Speaker 1: want you to ask yourself, out of ten, how strong 710 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 1: is that emotion? 711 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 2: Also give it a number. Then I want you to 712 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:54,239 Speaker 2: have a think about what has caused me to feel 713 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:54,680 Speaker 2: this way? 714 00:39:58,360 --> 00:39:58,600 Speaker 3: Then? 715 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 1: Do I like that I'm feeling this way? 716 00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 3: Then? 717 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:10,959 Speaker 2: What was the trigger? What was the moment when your 718 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 2: frequency changed? Then I want you to journal on how 719 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:32,799 Speaker 2: do I want to react to this emotion. I want 720 00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:37,040 Speaker 2: you to then journal on the story that comes with 721 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 2: this emotion, because I guarantee you, if it is an 722 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,840 Speaker 2: emotion you feel all the time, there's usually a story attached. 723 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 2: And I say story because this does not have to 724 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 2: be your truth. It actually gets to be changed. And 725 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,719 Speaker 2: then the next journal prompt is do I want to 726 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,239 Speaker 2: play into this story or do I want to choose 727 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 2: a new one? Then I want you to take three 728 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 2: deep breaths and write down three things that. 729 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 1: You're grateful for. I love that you're welcome. Our next 730 00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 1: question is how to fit journaling. And if you're busy, oh, 731 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 1: we're ready for the tough love It's okay, Like it 732 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,680 Speaker 1: literally takes ten minutes. Yeah, I'm sure there's ten minutes 733 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:40,440 Speaker 1: in your day where you're fucking around. I personally like 734 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:44,840 Speaker 1: attach it to something else, so you know, are you 735 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,560 Speaker 1: like a tier. I've actually been journaling a lot at 736 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:50,240 Speaker 1: night to a tear, like when I Ivy's gone to bed, 737 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 1: and like kind of my routine is like Ivy goes 738 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 1: to bed, ME and Tim have dinner. I then have 739 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,360 Speaker 1: half an hour where I do look at my calendar, 740 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:02,040 Speaker 1: I pack my bag, I pack my lunch, I put 741 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 1: my tablets out, I put my like pre work out out, 742 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,839 Speaker 1: I get all sort of for the next day, and 743 00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 1: then I clean my teeth, I do like face and 744 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,600 Speaker 1: then I jump in bed again, put my phone on. 745 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,320 Speaker 2: Charge, put it away. I have it down on the floor, 746 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:21,279 Speaker 2: so it's like literally nowhere near me, and then I, yeah, walk, 747 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,520 Speaker 2: get out my journal and do that, or I'll have 748 00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 2: a good conversation with Tim. 749 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,799 Speaker 1: So I personally love doing it at night. 750 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,360 Speaker 2: I feel like you could easily just not be on 751 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 2: your phone or not watch TV and do journaling. 752 00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 1: Or like start even just going to bed ten minutes later, 753 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:37,680 Speaker 1: because you spend ten minutes journally. 754 00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:40,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like that's what I mean is you're clearly 755 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:41,640 Speaker 2: doing something before you go to sleep. 756 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:45,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. But also if the nighttime like you're just like drained, zap, 757 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 1: that's not the vibe. Do it first thing in the morning. 758 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, like attach it to making your coffee and then 759 00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 2: you do one page of journaling and again, this is 760 00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 2: not gonna take you more than ten minutes. Yeah, it's 761 00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,319 Speaker 2: just you have to decide if you want to make 762 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,840 Speaker 2: it a habit or not. There's no there's no secret formula. 763 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,520 Speaker 2: There's no secret to journaling. Again, that's why we created 764 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,759 Speaker 2: the Life Happens for Me journal If you are a 765 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:10,959 Speaker 2: beginner and you want prompts, but it's like you need 766 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,200 Speaker 2: to decide if this is something, like I said, like 767 00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,400 Speaker 2: this has changed my life. This is a habit that 768 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 2: has changed my life. If you're consistent with it, you're like, 769 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 2: it's gonna be beneficial for you. 770 00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,719 Speaker 1: You just need to decide if you want to put 771 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 1: in your routine or not. Yeah, you can find ten 772 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,360 Speaker 1: minutes exactly. And I feel like a lot of the 773 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,520 Speaker 1: time people get stuck on journaling because they think they 774 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,720 Speaker 1: need to write this profound essay of emotion and stuff 775 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,319 Speaker 1: and you really don't. Like I draw pictures sometimes, or 776 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,879 Speaker 1: I'll just write something that really annoyed me that day 777 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 1: and I don't have the capacity to unpack it, but 778 00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:44,120 Speaker 1: I do it a different day. 779 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:48,200 Speaker 2: I also just write lists sometimes. Yeah, I literally jot 780 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,000 Speaker 2: down list and like, if you were to read my journal, 781 00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:52,440 Speaker 2: you'd be like, what is she talking about? 782 00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it wouldn't actually make any sense to you. 783 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,880 Speaker 2: But in that moment, I'm just like listing things exactly, 784 00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 2: and that feels. 785 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,120 Speaker 1: Really good to me too. I always do like to 786 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:04,760 Speaker 1: end on affirmation so or gratitude, So I highly recommend 787 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:11,960 Speaker 1: that our next question how to embody what you're actually writing? 788 00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:16,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is a great question. See, this 789 00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 2: is the whole I think there's. 790 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:24,280 Speaker 1: Such a journey to journaling, and I think at the start, 791 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 1: if you're new. 792 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 2: To journaling, it's going to be hard to embody what 793 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,960 Speaker 2: you're journaling, Yeah, because I think you might be a 794 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 2: little bit disconnected from yourself. 795 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 1: And that's fine. 796 00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,120 Speaker 2: Like even if you kind of like write things down 797 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,160 Speaker 2: you're not feeling too much and you read it and 798 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,959 Speaker 2: you're like, I don't know. I want you to push 799 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:44,880 Speaker 2: through this, yeah, because it's just foreign to you. Connecting 800 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:49,279 Speaker 2: to yourself talking about your emotions, being in those emotions 801 00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,600 Speaker 2: is going to be foreign and uncomfortable for you. And 802 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,359 Speaker 2: I think that's a very normal state. And I've been 803 00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,719 Speaker 2: through that. I tear you've probably been through that. Go 804 00:44:58,000 --> 00:44:59,759 Speaker 2: through it, yeah, where you're just kind of like, I 805 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 2: don't I don't even if this is beneficial. Yeah, you 806 00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,719 Speaker 2: know that stage and then you're like, I do know 807 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 2: this is beneficial, and I've got to push through. 808 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 1: So I think that's very normal. 809 00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 2: You get to the stage of embodiment when this is 810 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:20,160 Speaker 2: a habit and a ritual that you have done many times. 811 00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:24,440 Speaker 2: So it embodiment just means it's like you can feel 812 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:28,480 Speaker 2: into something like for example, it's like maybe you're talking 813 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:32,400 Speaker 2: about sorry, writing what you're grateful for and like you 814 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 2: start to tear up because you're feeling so grateful. Yeah, 815 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:39,280 Speaker 2: that's what embodiment is. And I think I didn't embody 816 00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 2: what I wrote for a very long time. I had 817 00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 2: to make it a habit, I had to feel into it, 818 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 2: I had to be intuitive with it, and then came embodiment. 819 00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:55,200 Speaker 2: Whereas now I can jump into embodiment a lot quicker 820 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 2: because I've made. 821 00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,960 Speaker 1: It such a ritual in practice. I agree, because sometimes 822 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 1: I can embody, but it takes a lot of focus. 823 00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,960 Speaker 1: It's almost like meditating and trying to like really get 824 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,520 Speaker 1: on the vibe of what I'm writing. But something I 825 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:13,400 Speaker 1: noticed recently was when I was journaling on triggers or 826 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,800 Speaker 1: something negative, I felt it, like I felt that emotion 827 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,399 Speaker 1: so strong. But when I did the same for something 828 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:22,920 Speaker 1: I wanted to manifest or something positive or something I 829 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:27,239 Speaker 1: wanted to attract, that strength of feeling wasn't there, and 830 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:30,239 Speaker 1: I was. It just was interesting to me because I 831 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 1: just said, Okay, well, I clearly can do it because 832 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm doing it right now for the negatives, but I 833 00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 1: obviously need to work on reinforcing the positive emotions or 834 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 1: there's a limiting belief there as to why I can't 835 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:46,279 Speaker 1: feel that to the strength that I can for the 836 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:46,920 Speaker 1: other things. 837 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,520 Speaker 2: Yes, And I think also not making yourself wrong for 838 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,319 Speaker 2: that and not being like, oh well, clearly I've got 839 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,000 Speaker 2: a lot of negative emotions, so like, you know, like 840 00:46:57,160 --> 00:47:00,399 Speaker 2: making yourself wrong and being like, oh wow, that's really interesting. 841 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:04,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking about the moment. If anyone 842 00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 1: has any ideas, please tell me. The next question, what 843 00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 1: are the benefits of journaling everything? Life changing? 844 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:22,279 Speaker 2: Well, I think the connection to self. I think That's 845 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,600 Speaker 2: what I mean is I think a lot of people 846 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,880 Speaker 2: and again I'm not trying to put anyone in a 847 00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,840 Speaker 2: box or label someone, but you know, I think a 848 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 2: lot of people can really associate with being an anxious 849 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,399 Speaker 2: person or a stressed person and this. 850 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 1: But it's because they've got. 851 00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 2: All, you know, all these emotions in their body and 852 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 2: there's no release. And that's even like recently I've been 853 00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 2: doing anger releases on my runs where I think, as women, 854 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,760 Speaker 2: we don't release our anger. No, And it's really interesting 855 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 2: because men do, Like Tim does it, like literally he'll 856 00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 2: have anger release processes that he does, like within his 857 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 2: person development coaching, and they're really big on like releasing 858 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,480 Speaker 2: the emotion. And I thought about it and I was like, fuck, 859 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 2: we just we don't like as women, I feel like 860 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:15,440 Speaker 2: there's such this normalizing keeping everything in and finding everything in. 861 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,520 Speaker 2: But what you don't realize is like when you hold 862 00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,800 Speaker 2: the emotions in, where else. 863 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:20,440 Speaker 1: They're going to go. 864 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:24,359 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to feel them. So it's like normalizing 865 00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:28,520 Speaker 2: releasing emotions. So that could be through crying. I have 866 00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 2: been crying a lot lately and releasing and it's really 867 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:36,000 Speaker 2: interesting because I personally am not a big crier, probably 868 00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 2: because I was disconnected from myself. 869 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 1: For a very long time. But I'm not a big crier. 870 00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:44,800 Speaker 1: But when I cry nowt I can notice this whole 871 00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:48,319 Speaker 1: process of I feel like I'm gonna cry, and I 872 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,959 Speaker 1: feel embarrassment because I don't like crying, and I feel 873 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 1: embarrassment and I have to push through that and I 874 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 1: have to be like, no, you can cry, Georgia, Like 875 00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,160 Speaker 1: this is is like I've got you safe place. I 876 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,440 Speaker 1: then cry. It feels uncomfortable. 877 00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:06,960 Speaker 2: I then continue to cry and I feel into the 878 00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:14,359 Speaker 2: feeling and then the next emotion is it. Literally I'm like, oh, 879 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 2: it's gone, Like I don't feel. 880 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,960 Speaker 1: The feeling anymore. And it's because I've literally released. 881 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,520 Speaker 2: It through crying. Yeah, but it's this whole process of 882 00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 2: being like, oh, I don't want to cry, I feel 883 00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:28,640 Speaker 2: really shameful. Oh this is really uncomfortable. Oh I'm really sad. 884 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,799 Speaker 1: Oh I feel better. Yeah. And it's so interesting because 885 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 1: I had never noticed that journey of emotions because I 886 00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 1: had never been connected to myself. But now I'm more 887 00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 1: connected to myself. 888 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,520 Speaker 2: I can literally go through the journey and know that 889 00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,279 Speaker 2: it's like I'm about to release something. I also do 890 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:49,240 Speaker 2: this thing when I'm running and if I'm angry, I'll. 891 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 1: Go for a run. I feel that find that very therapeutic. 892 00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 1: I feel the anger and I hold it in my 893 00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,560 Speaker 1: body like almost kind of like Dragon ball Z style, like, 894 00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:05,080 Speaker 1: and then I run and I flick my hands and 895 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,279 Speaker 1: you let the anger out and I let the anger out, 896 00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:11,799 Speaker 1: and I'm like, and I visualize the anger releasing and 897 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,840 Speaker 1: I feel it in my body. 898 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:16,640 Speaker 2: It's the most amazing experience. And then after that run, 899 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:17,759 Speaker 2: I'm like, fuck, I. 900 00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:23,160 Speaker 1: Feel good, Wow, And I've like released it. That's amazing. 901 00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 2: And so that's also you know, with anxiety, Yeah, I 902 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:30,880 Speaker 2: can feel really stressed and really anxious and I write 903 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,239 Speaker 2: it down and then I look at the piece of 904 00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:36,279 Speaker 2: paper and I'm like, do I you. 905 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,240 Speaker 1: Know, is this something I should even be worried about? 906 00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,400 Speaker 1: Or more, is this something I can control? 907 00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,480 Speaker 2: And if it's not, it's like, well, there's no use 908 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,360 Speaker 2: of going through this anxiousness because I'll have to actually 909 00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,799 Speaker 2: go through it when it happens, so you know, like 910 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,840 Speaker 2: let and I'm like very logical about it. So again, 911 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:56,920 Speaker 2: I find journaling a release for that certain emotion. So 912 00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:01,200 Speaker 2: I think the biggest benefits I've found is it's really 913 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,799 Speaker 2: a tool to connect to yourself. So obviously that's gonna 914 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:09,400 Speaker 2: be a huge benefit because when you're connecting to yourself, 915 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:13,880 Speaker 2: you're able to receive downloads, You're able to be a 916 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:19,799 Speaker 2: clear channel for ideas, for creativity, You're able to like 917 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,480 Speaker 2: I even think of it as like when I journal 918 00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 2: and I work through stuff, I'm literally like clearing slodge, 919 00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:31,840 Speaker 2: like clearing shit out of myself and working through things 920 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,960 Speaker 2: so they're no longer stuck in my body and it 921 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,240 Speaker 2: feels lighter. 922 00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:38,160 Speaker 1: And you can make space for other things. I can 923 00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 1: make space for other things, I can manifest easier, I 924 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,759 Speaker 1: can move through life easier, and that's even Another thing 925 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:49,279 Speaker 1: is if you don't have any release for your emotions, 926 00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:52,880 Speaker 1: I guarantee you you're someone who gets triggered as fuck. 927 00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:57,520 Speaker 1: You would walk through life and get triggered by everything 928 00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,759 Speaker 1: someone says this, you know, like triggered. It's because you're 929 00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 1: you've got so much stories and slosh literally twirling around 930 00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:09,080 Speaker 1: inside you and you haven't released it. So you're basically 931 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:14,440 Speaker 1: living your day from your past. You're making decisions in 932 00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,279 Speaker 1: the future from your past because you haven't cleared it, 933 00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:21,400 Speaker 1: and it really keeps you in this cycle of feeling 934 00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:26,000 Speaker 1: like a victim, of feeling not good enough, constantly comparing yourself, 935 00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,920 Speaker 1: not feeling safe in your body. It's kind of like 936 00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:34,440 Speaker 1: if if your brain and body was like a piece 937 00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:40,000 Speaker 1: of machinery doing the maintenance. Yes, exactly, because I love 938 00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:41,359 Speaker 1: looking at it like that, Because if. 939 00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:44,799 Speaker 2: You think about it, like we all we're like every 940 00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 2: single day we go through emotions, we go through little 941 00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:52,680 Speaker 2: tea trauma. We're going through so much that it's like 942 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:56,120 Speaker 2: if you don't have an outlet, if you don't have 943 00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:00,080 Speaker 2: a release, if you don't have a way to clean. 944 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:01,919 Speaker 1: Your it's like brushing your teeth every night. 945 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:06,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you eat food, you're like you have the 946 00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,239 Speaker 2: air around you, like, you know, like you've got all 947 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,040 Speaker 2: this stuff happening in your mouth, so you brush it 948 00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:13,239 Speaker 2: and you clean it out. 949 00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like that's. 950 00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,719 Speaker 2: Just a practice so that you're good for the next day. 951 00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,880 Speaker 2: So that's why you should have a daily practice to 952 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 2: help your mental health, your emotional self. 953 00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 1: And that's kind of the way I see it. Wow, 954 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,799 Speaker 1: I love looking at it that way. Yeah, and like 955 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,040 Speaker 1: that's when you look at it that way, doesn't it 956 00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:34,920 Speaker 1: just make sense? Yeah, it's like, how can you not 957 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:36,919 Speaker 1: have time for that to do it every day? 958 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:39,919 Speaker 2: And I think also if you're someone who's never had 959 00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,560 Speaker 2: time for that or never done that, that's why the 960 00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:45,840 Speaker 2: start feels really hard because you're like, holy shit, this 961 00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:49,080 Speaker 2: is just oh this is stupid, it doesn't work, or yeah, 962 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:52,520 Speaker 2: it's pointless. But what you don't realize is you keep 963 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 2: doing it, you make it a habit, and then like 964 00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,280 Speaker 2: down the track you'll be like, wow. 965 00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:59,120 Speaker 1: No, this is life changing. Guys. 966 00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,960 Speaker 2: We're gonna end the episode there. We hope you enjoyed this. 967 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:03,920 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. 968 00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:11,720 Speaker 3: Bye, everyone, Thank you so much for listening to another 969 00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:14,239 Speaker 3: episode of the Rise and Conquer podcast. 970 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:17,279 Speaker 1: If you enjoyed it and want more, come connect with 971 00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:22,440 Speaker 1: us on Instagram at Riseinconquer dot podcast and join our 972 00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,759 Speaker 1: Facebook discussion group, a Rise and Concer podcast community. 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