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Speaker 2: I heard so the Winter Olympics are on and there

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Speaker 2: is an Olympic winner that decided this is the time

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Speaker 2: to confess that he cheated on his partner. And I'm

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Speaker 2: very interesting, but it's also very ego driven. So what

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Speaker 2: he said is there's something I want to share as.

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Speaker 3: His one is when he's doing an interview with someone after.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, this is his like thank you, I reckon,

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Speaker 2: he's gone on the winner. Maybe she'll forgive me, you know,

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Speaker 2: like gold medalists, you might forgive. It's excellent thirteen one

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Speaker 2: sixty five call us should you forgive someone after an affair?

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Speaker 4: So this is what he said.

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Speaker 2: There is something I want to share with someone who

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Speaker 2: may not be watching today. She's not watching, d reckon,

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Speaker 2: you'll be watching. It's too fresh.

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Speaker 1: If someone had cheated on me and then I knew

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Speaker 1: they were competing, I probably wouldn't watch.

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Speaker 4: I don't know me neither. Oh maybe you would. I

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Speaker 4: don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, he said, I had the gold medal in life,

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Speaker 2: and I am sure there are many people who will

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Speaker 2: see things differently, but I only have eyes for her.

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Speaker 2: Sport has come second these last few days. Yes, I

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Speaker 2: wish I could share this with her, but he said, yes,

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Speaker 2: he made a mistake and cheated on her and told

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Speaker 2: her about a week ago, and this has been the

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Speaker 2: worst week of his life.

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Speaker 4: Blood. Yeah, so it's pretty intense, and it's pretty intense.

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Speaker 3: We have some audio of the of him this Listen.

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Speaker 5: You can get.

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Speaker 3: Glad you got that audio.

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Speaker 4: That's good.

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Speaker 6: You can believe.

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Speaker 3: We don't have to keep on speaking Norwegians. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I'm the Norwegians out there. They're pumped. They've finally got

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Speaker 3: a bit of Norwegian gear on the show. Yeah. I agree.

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Speaker 1: He's made that about himself, like he's almost tried to

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Speaker 1: play victim there, going like sure, I'm cheating on you,

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Speaker 1: but now I'm I feel.

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Speaker 4: Like this is the biggest red flag.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, it's at gold, you know, and then

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Speaker 2: going hey, it's like, well, I'm yeah, he's thinking that

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Speaker 2: might balance out.

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Speaker 1: He's almost like dedicating his gold medal to the person

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Speaker 1: he cheated on, which I think that, Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 1: wrong move. Having said that, having said that, I think

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Speaker 1: if he went about it a different way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like what like, I think if in a.

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Speaker 1: More private context, if he apologized and then worked with her,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure he had to.

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Speaker 2: Wervetly through if he's going to his public This is

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Speaker 2: like we're in Australia hearing about this Norwegian guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah true, But didn't he say in the thing though

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Speaker 1: that like I haven't spoken to her yet, or like

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Speaker 1: you're probably you're not.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's so embarrassing. What if she wanted to move on

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Speaker 2: and keep it silent. Oh yeah, that's that's even so

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Speaker 2: embarrassing everywhere they go.

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Speaker 1: Now I would again, I would say that, if done right,

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Speaker 1: I think you should. If the person who cheated puts

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Speaker 1: the work in, I think you should forgive them.

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Speaker 2: You know what else he said, I accept the consequences

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Speaker 2: of what I've done. I regret it with all my heart.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'm dumb as a rock. I'm a member of MENSA,

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Speaker 2: but I still do stupid things.

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Speaker 4: A huple brag.

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Speaker 2: I'm a member of MENSA, but you know I still

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Speaker 2: am dumb. Not not legally, not legally or any paperwork.

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Speaker 4: But just is it that ridiculous?

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Speaker 3: Do you do? You would?

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Speaker 4: You can?

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Speaker 6: He?

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Speaker 4: No one ever dates, no fancy he might be a

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Speaker 4: nice guy. I'm just reading into this one story.

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Speaker 3: But he's sexy. He's sexy guy.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't care for cheaters.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so would you would you forgive a Cheatah? No,

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Speaker 1: I couldn't. One time they cheat one.

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Speaker 4: I would never ever have sex with you again. No,

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Speaker 4: I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: No, I couldn't do it because I'd be worried about

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Speaker 2: what was it? Like I'm not then you and you're

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Speaker 2: always going to feel second best? Or I was like

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Speaker 2: you for all? Like I don't know it was her

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Speaker 4: Like ever, I can't. Yeah, yeah, I just can't. That's

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Speaker 3: Let's hear from some of the people. Sarah, you think

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Speaker 3: you should be forgiven.

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Speaker 7: Oh well I've forgiven a few few too many times.

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Speaker 4: Have you the same person?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: The same personal.

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Speaker 7: So I've been with my ex for six years.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we have three kids. Oh and he cheated on me.

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Speaker 7: I couldn't even count them all the times in my hands.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think when you've got kids it complicates everything,

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Speaker 4: It does. I'm so sorry, Sarah.

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Speaker 7: Well, we work up on Saturday, so it's all done now.

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Speaker 6: So I'm just going to traffick myself and move on

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Speaker 6: to my kids.

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Speaker 2: And you actually feel like it's you feel confident to

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Speaker 5: I have to.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, for my mind sake, mind's sake, I have to.

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Speaker 4: You won't know yourself, I'm not. It's so hard.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is hard.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, we'll be thinking of you like, yeah, thanks.

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Speaker 1: And you'll be fine, Sarah. You'll be absolutely fine. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure you'll kill it out there. You'll have some fun.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for sharing.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for going another Sarah, Sarah, what do you think.

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Speaker 8: Once it's never it's that first step. Once they've done

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Speaker 8: it once, that second leap is so much easier. Are

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Speaker 8: you from experience as Sarah can tell? Yeah, yes, and

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Speaker 8: that's what I've just said. No, like it was the

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Speaker 8: once and I just went now never again. I'm not

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Speaker 8: to stand up for myself and not let that happen.

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Speaker 8: So you just take them that one time.

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Speaker 3: So you did You did break up with someone after

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Speaker 3: they cheated once? Is that right?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 8: Yep, I know that that it happens again and again

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Speaker 4: Sarah, what advice would you give to the other Sarah

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Speaker 4: that you just head.

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Speaker 8: Look, you know what, two parents can bring up a

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Speaker 8: child up lovingly even if they're apart. So if you

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Speaker 8: have that love and just love the kids, but you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. It's so true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do agree with that. And it's funny.

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Speaker 1: I think there are some couples that like, they stay

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Speaker 1: together even though they've lost the love, and they stay

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Speaker 1: together for their kids. Kids can pick up on the

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Speaker 1: fact that you've lost the love. Yeah, and I think

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Speaker 1: that's more damaging than just breaking up and being honest

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Speaker 2: They so much involved like financial sometimes Yeah, Michelle, Michelle, Hello,

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Speaker 2: how are you going?

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Speaker 4: I'm good, dalling, how are you going?

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm okay, but I'm courage to confirm national radio

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Speaker 6: and I've cheat this. But you've got to look at that.

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Speaker 6: There's always two sides. Of course, you know, the reason

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Speaker 5: That want to cheat.

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Speaker 6: You would go there unless someone's put you in that situation.

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Speaker 6: Rand you're vulnerable. The person that you're meant to be

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Speaker 6: isn't isn't there to encourage you, to help you and

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Speaker 6: you find comfort in the arms of some But.

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Speaker 4: You couldn't end it first? Is it too hard to end?

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Speaker 4: At first?

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Speaker 6: It is easy to end it. But then if you've

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Speaker 6: They don't listen to them, and half the times you've

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Speaker 6: grown up and they don't want to think. To keep

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Speaker 6: putting an answer to the mat I've got this sort

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Speaker 6: of saying, you know someone, well, basically he learned the

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Speaker 3: Oh really, Michelle, could do you mind to you?

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Speaker 1: Just tell me?

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Speaker 3: Like only I feel comfortable shared who did you cheat with?

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Speaker 1: Was it?

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Speaker 3: It's just a total random I was just a.

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Speaker 6: Random here a long long time ago. Because WAT regret

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Speaker 6: so I don't. I don't look back on it and

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Speaker 6: I be trying to hear what actually happened, he was angry.

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Speaker 6: At the same time, I was trying to explain to

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Speaker 6: it's not just that, you know, I want to choose,

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Speaker 6: always to choose. But we tried to be into a

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Speaker 6: you try.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks for sharing, Michelle, Thanks for sure.

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Speaker 1: I think I think you've got to respect that he

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Speaker 1: can't get past as well. Let's go to Christie here, Christy,

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Speaker 1: we'll end on you.

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Speaker 3: You're in an open relationship, Christie. Yep, okay, So what

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Speaker 3: what was the cheating? Here?

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Speaker 7: Are our friend a mutual friend?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Okay?

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Speaker 1: And on hand he cheat on a mutual friend as in,

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Speaker 1: like one of you hooked up with a mutual friend

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Speaker 2: Is that right when they're not together? Because if they've

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Speaker 2: got to open relationship, isn't that okay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Christy?

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Speaker 4: Is the rule?

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Speaker 3: Is that not? Okay?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 7: Okay, So I don't know how to put this.

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Speaker 6: It's a bit risky.

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Speaker 1: Take it, take it to the non risky, and you

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Speaker 1: can you can you make it family friendly for us, Christie,

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Speaker 1: because I tend to hear.

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Speaker 7: So. So yeah, there were rules, like you had to

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Speaker 7: There was no friends, no friends, and no people we.

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Speaker 1: Knew, okay, okay, and it was.

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Speaker 7: No sleep overs. You had to come, you know and

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Speaker 7: get four four dislod Yeah, but yeah, because our kids

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Speaker 7: play sport together. So that's how it's a mutual friend.

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Speaker 7: And she left like her and her husband broke up,

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Speaker 7: and apparently we were having dramas and I found text messages.

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Speaker 4: Full of are they together now?

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Speaker 7: Yes? Yes, and he's just moved in with her.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, sorry, Chrissy, this is a painful segment.

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Speaker 4: Can we give her some Tim Tams?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can have yourself a Tim Tam price back.

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Speaker 1: Christy, I think all of them you can have some

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Speaker 1: tim Actually, everyone who was cheated on there to get

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Speaker 1: some Tim Tams.

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Speaker 3: Tim Tams for everybody. It's