1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: And Amanda Jamny sit. 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 2: Down to the Jeronesy demand of Arms for the pub test. 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 2: The subject today the term body count, referring to the 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 2: number of sexual partners a person has had. Does that 5 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 2: pass the pub test? 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 3: It seems to be coming up a lot in socials, 7 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 3: and maybe it matters more to younger people. 8 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. 9 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 3: Is it a topic of conversation when you first go 10 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 3: out with someone? Does it matter? Does it tell you 11 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 3: things about them? And should you know those things about them? 12 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 2: Punching well love Wade In Australia, the Turks they have 13 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 2: fourteen point five. We have thirteen point three. 14 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 3: This sounds like a high number on average, but they've 15 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 3: averaged it out into the average number of lifetime sexual 16 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 3: partners they think is around nine. 17 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: The older you get, well you might not get more 18 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 2: because you might be in a long term marriage. We've 19 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 2: been married for a long time, you and I together, No, 20 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 2: but we've been married for a long time, so you 21 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 2: before Harley and Harley was married before you. 22 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 3: Yes, well that's right. But I was always interested in 23 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 3: how many serious relationships has had, not necessarily how many 24 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 3: partners they are, you know, sexual partners they had. 25 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 2: And it was because I remember, and it is triggering. 26 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 2: I remember mentioning to you that Harley's ex wife used 27 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 2: to make shoe pastry and she. 28 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 3: Used to make perferoles. 29 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, and one day we'll just ad a barbecue. And 30 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 2: I said, Darley, do you miss it? 31 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 3: You did this deliberately? 32 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 2: I don't. It's curious because she used to make it 33 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 2: all the time. I know, I just was, you know, 34 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 2: and I'm an inquisitive person. 35 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 3: I've been at restaurants with you where no one's eating dessert, 36 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,679 Speaker 3: and you said, I'll have the perferoles please. You know 37 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 3: that happened. 38 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 2: It's top of mind. 39 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 3: Why not to me, not to Harley, but to you. 40 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 3: Apparently body count does it pass the pub test? 41 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 4: I think body count is so ridiculous. I'm a single 42 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 4: woman and when I go on date, if a guy 43 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 4: said to me, what's your body count? Huge red flag? 44 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,559 Speaker 4: It's gross. It shouldn't matter, and everyone has a past, 45 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,559 Speaker 4: so I don't think that matters. When you're starting something new. 46 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: Well shed at a certain age, you've got the life experience. 47 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: So you get to a point where you don't ask, 48 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: you don't know, and what you don't know can't. 49 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 5: Hurt you, No, It doesn't pass the pub test. I 50 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 5: believe that body count is a personal thing and it 51 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 5: should be kept secret. However, if your partner does ask 52 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 5: in a private situation, I do believe you should tell 53 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 5: the truth on how many people you've been with, just 54 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 5: to I guess you could say peace of mind. I 55 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 5: don't think it does. 56 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 4: I think mind your business. Let people do what they 57 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 4: need to do. 58 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 5: And if you ask someone, I think it's a bit 59 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 5: of a red flag. 60 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's on a date, that would be Oh that's. 61 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 3: Not you know, that's no, no, no, not on a date. 62 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 3: You need to be longer into a relationship. If you're 63 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 3: every going to ask after the wedding, do you think yeah, 64 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 3: I don't even think you should ask the question. 65 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 2: Don't ask the question.