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Speaker 1: Get a.

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Speaker 2: I'm Lola Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter and professional oversharer.

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Speaker 2: This podcast is all about celebrating failure because I believe

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Speaker 2: it's a chance for us to learn, grow and face

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Speaker 2: our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview a different guest

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Speaker 2: about their highs.

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Speaker 1: As well as they're lows, all.

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Speaker 2: In a bid to inspire us to furiously fail. Hello,

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Speaker 2: their beautiful listener, and hello their beautiful guest.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to call this the Melbs wrap up.

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Speaker 3: I'm calling this the Melbourne Bed wrap Up.

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Speaker 2: I know you are in your boxer shorts. Haven't got up?

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Speaker 2: Have you even done a little morning bar bits yet?

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Speaker 2: No morning we Meanwhile, I've got up early, gone downstairs,

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Speaker 2: had a long black and of.

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Speaker 3: This episode, I feel like I've been a bit ambushed.

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Speaker 1: Here is absolute b.

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Speaker 3: You've brought me a coffee, You've won me over.

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Speaker 2: Now, we did pre discuss this, so we were going

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Speaker 2: to bring out an EP that was recorded in Melbs

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Speaker 2: last week. But we have kind of done so much

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Speaker 2: that we thought let's do a Melbourne wrap up episode Radio.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I want honest, so no filter with

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Speaker 2: any of these answers.

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Speaker 1: I want you to be real.

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Speaker 2: Three highlights, three low lights of Melbourne, the Melbourne part.

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Speaker 1: Of the trip.

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Speaker 3: That's hard. Three highlights, three low lights. I think definitely

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Speaker 3: the highlight has got to be seeing my nephews and niece.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, yes, okay, you have a fave or

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Speaker 1: you're not allowed to say no.

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Speaker 3: They're all they're also like individual and their own little

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Speaker 3: personalities and their own little people. I've got Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: sure you do. It's just I mean, yeah, it's been

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Speaker 3: a year since we've seen them, and realistically, you know,

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Speaker 3: I've had a FaceTime relationship with them for the last

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Speaker 3: four years, like I haven't.

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Speaker 1: Because we lived in Talks and then by.

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Speaker 3: And Byron and stuff, so you know, I only get

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Speaker 3: to really see them twice a year for the last

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Speaker 3: kind of four years. And yeah, this time was the

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Speaker 3: longest stint I went without going, And yeah it was.

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Speaker 3: It was really really special. And Christian, the oldest, is

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Speaker 3: like where going just stay. I was like, oh, fuck mate,

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Speaker 3: I've got I've got shipped today.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's just snuck a couple of lunches in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah we did.

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Speaker 1: And I reckon you saw them three times, those kiddos.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we did. Yeah, and yesterday it was a

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Speaker 3: little extra bonus bonus lunch. But yeah, so that was

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Speaker 3: definitely a highlight. Second highlight Melbourne coffee just in general,

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Speaker 3: haven't had a bad coffee yet.

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Speaker 2: Well, I just got you a Almond light a Miss

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Speaker 2: Parker downstairs from the Motley which is linked to the

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Speaker 2: Motley Hotel.

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Speaker 1: That was yummy. I had a long black down there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very, very nice, So I think, Yeah, coffee

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Speaker 3: is I mean, yeah, not a bad coffee here at all,

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Speaker 3: considering the ship we have to drink in America sometimes.

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Speaker 3: Third highlight hard one. I think just being back here

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Speaker 3: with you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not be real low lights.

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Speaker 3: Low lights doing too much. It just I think it's

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Speaker 3: just like done our head in just constantly having to

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Speaker 3: that way. And yeah, that's been pretty frustrating, to be honest.

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Speaker 3: Other low lights, I don't think there's that many low lights,

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Speaker 3: to be honest, just besides the fact that I feel

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Speaker 3: like we haven't had time to rest and relax yet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so any other ones, No, no, that's it.

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Speaker 1: May I share safe space.

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Speaker 3: Would you would you like to share your top three

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Speaker 3: and your highlights?

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Speaker 1: End lowlight first highlight.

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Speaker 2: And this is going to sound so selfish, but I

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Speaker 2: want to say it in the order of how important

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Speaker 2: and how much it helps me. Is I got to

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Speaker 2: see my therapist in real life, and you got to

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Speaker 2: meet him after all these years you've never met him before?

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Speaker 2: So that moment was real special for me because I've

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Speaker 2: been seeing my therapist for nine years now and so

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Speaker 2: highs lows all in between, and like seeing you to

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Speaker 2: meet was so nice. Family, and I would put that

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Speaker 2: broad like your family, my family, definite highlight. And then

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Speaker 2: I'm going to say my third one going to the

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Speaker 2: my and I said this I think on I think

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Speaker 2: I said on the diary pod. But he's like quite

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Speaker 2: a gentle go with the flow, calmish, yeah, soul, and

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Speaker 2: he turns into like the most passionate, doesn't mind, like

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Speaker 2: he won't curse, he won't swear, like, he won't use

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Speaker 2: rude words, but he'll curse.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 3: He just gets oh my godfather, he gets up, get up.

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Speaker 1: It's like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Like you've got a seven year contract, what are you

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Speaker 2: doing with that contract like he'll fall and he knows

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Speaker 2: all the weirdest facts. He befriended this person sitting next

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Speaker 2: to him that didn't even bar it for the Bombers.

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Speaker 2: Goes to Richmond and they're like literally dissecting last week's

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Speaker 2: just knows. He's like Bruce mcaveany, he just knows all

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Speaker 2: this and yeah, yeah, but he It was. That was

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Speaker 2: really fun. And then Uncle Peter also works at the MCG,

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Speaker 2: So I would say, yeah, therapy and new meeting my

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Speaker 2: incredible therapist Terry. Then I would say fambam in general.

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Speaker 2: And then the third one was being at the MCG

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Speaker 2: with Dad, which I didn't think would be a highlight.

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Speaker 2: I kind of thought this would be a cool memory.

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Speaker 2: We hadn't been for nine years. Yeah, but that was

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Speaker 2: actually with it and he's like smashes the jam donuts

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so funny, so funny, okay, and then three low lights.

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Speaker 2: I would say, I have a lot of guilt if

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Speaker 2: it hard to sleep and dah da dah, and it's

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Speaker 2: like this is now hometown anymore, Like we don't have

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Speaker 2: I am gonna be really honest as amazing as family

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Speaker 2: how did that one person say that one thing? And

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Speaker 2: and then I'm hamster wheeling it. Boss, I am on

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Speaker 2: that hamster with Even though I've done so much flipping

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Speaker 2: mental health work, it takes still at.

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Speaker 1: Least twenty four hours for me to process at least.

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Speaker 2: And then the third low light, I think it's that

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Speaker 2: feeling of running out of time. And no, my third

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Speaker 2: we hit record again, as I want it. Next time

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Speaker 2: little bit more financially set up because it is hard

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Speaker 2: to be in like let's hang mode, let's do dinners,

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Speaker 2: let's do venos, and be like in the back of

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Speaker 2: Like we're just booked an airbnb, like that is a cost.

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Speaker 2: So I think, like it's this trip has really inspired

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Speaker 2: we've got great things and exciting things on the horizon,

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Speaker 2: but to like hustle times a million, because I know

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean it is we're technically on holidays.

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Speaker 3: It's always so expensive, I know. But you know the

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Speaker 3: problem is that, yeah, we do have you know, mortgage

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Speaker 3: and we do have to be financially responsible, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think we have been pretty good with

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Speaker 2: I don't think we've gone mental.

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Speaker 1: So they would be the.

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Speaker 2: Three highlights and the three low lights for me, I

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Speaker 1: Been a bit of a wild ride and a lot

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Speaker 2: It doesn't feel like we've been here for ten days.

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Speaker 2: what have you learned from this trip that you want to,

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Speaker 3: Definitely just slowing down. Yeah, yeah, And obviously we have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a girl that loves a bit of ritual.

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Speaker 2: And also I think like, yes, it has great coffee,

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Speaker 2: Byron this Airbnb I've booked, and we actually have influencers

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Speaker 2: course we're staying in one of our favorite towns when

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Speaker 2: we moved to Byron, And it's this beautiful Hindland town.

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Speaker 2: Great food, great coffee, and I'm sure like first hour

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Speaker 2: the boys and whatnot. But then like the moment you

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Speaker 2: and I check into that airbnb, Yeah, relaxed.

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Speaker 1: Time, relax read, write.

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Speaker 3: Storm. Do you know how annoying that is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, finish on storm. I've got I've actually got two

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Speaker 2: pods in Byron Bay, and I want to like be

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Speaker 2: really nice and prepared for them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, good, Yeah, definitely relaxed time, beach, sand nature.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we're going to do some swims boot when

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Speaker 2: you get some like beach hangs. So give me your

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Speaker 2: little wish list of things we're going to do in

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Speaker 3: I love that coffee date.

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Speaker 1: Are you going to do a top Shop?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, I'm doing a top Shop.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to convince you let me have one more banana.

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Speaker 2: But I've got to say I've had some food highlights

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we actually haven't drank much this trip. I've drank there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we both picked Marma.

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Speaker 3: The chickens very very docile and they.

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Speaker 2: And we had fresh eggos straight from there, and we

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Speaker 3: I've got it right in front of me and really

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Speaker 2: blue Lotus heart opening Frankencense latte. Yeah, that was great. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's massively a hard city.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like that, like opportunities all around us kind

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a little reset. Yeah, and then yeah we can

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Speaker 3: next two weeks. It's proper holiday mode. No stress and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: Days, don't stay too long, really keep it quick.

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Speaker 1: Have the favor would you say?

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Speaker 3: Of course, I am have boundaries for sure. Say no.

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Speaker 3: If you can't do it, don't feel guilty, drop the guilt.

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Speaker 1: Which is what we just pulled a trigger. Like literally

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Speaker 3: Even Byron, we know a lot of people, so that that.

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Speaker 2: While we're at that airbnb, I'm going to be in

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I just need to like also some big

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Speaker 3: Totally, totally, yeah, So that would be okay, love that, boss,

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Speaker 3: I love you.

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Speaker 1: Love you anything you want to ask me?

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Speaker 3: How much do you love me? Out of ten six

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Speaker 2: Like it just came to you, didn't have to think. Also,

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Speaker 3: Trip you have.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about that?

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Speaker 3: Interesting? Interesting? Felt like I felt like it just really

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Speaker 2: No, No, I would agree. I think it's like I

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just like stay with fam for a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it has, especially last night we just stayed

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, quickly your favorite show we just finished it.

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Speaker 3: Zero Day Hero, fucking great show.

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Speaker 1: How Goods is acting?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's amazing, but I haven't really like loved a

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Speaker 1: Now we'll be back to Reacher.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll go back to Reach, which is a great

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Speaker 2: If that's more popcorn versus this is like makes you

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Speaker 2: it's like cryptic thinking almost and it's very would you

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Speaker 2: call that geo political? What do you call it? Or espionage?

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Speaker 2: What is what is the genre? He's looking at me

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Speaker 2: like I've just said something real dumb.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't. I don't know. You're like being like, yeah, espionage,

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Speaker 3: I would say, because there rosm and treason. Treason, Yeah, don't. Well,

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Speaker 1: Away, No, someone obviously does.

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Speaker 3: It's a it's a drama, it's.

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Speaker 2: A high stake political thriller drama and It's got your.

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Speaker 3: Faith Jesse Plemons. Yeah, he's very good in it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Was he. Yeah, Well, he's so fun to watch because

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Speaker 2: But I loved him in Backdraft back in the day

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Speaker 2: when he would have been like in his thirties.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, very good. Highly recommend. Let's get ready, I've got

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Speaker 2: a meeting. We're going to go head to the airport.

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Speaker 2: One last Melbourne feed and then head to the airport. Kuwait,

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Speaker 2: Love you boo boob, Love you boob.

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Speaker 1: Leg of the Adventure.

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Speaker 2: Thank you to the listener for tuning in to all

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Speaker 2: of our adventures and of course, long form pods on

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Speaker 2: Mondays still come back, but I do like this little.

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Speaker 1: Yeah checking while we're traveling around the globe.

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Speaker 2: Globetrotting, globe trotting Yeah, love you, love you bye byye.

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Speaker 2: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always,

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Speaker 2: thank you to our guests and let's continue the conversation

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