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Speaker 1: It's the Will and Woody podcast.

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Speaker 2: We are about to be joined by someone that people

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Speaker 2: would definitely remember from Maths last season. Her name's Beck,

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Speaker 2: but you may also know her as the Sashole Beck.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hollo, guys.

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Speaker 4: How's it going very very good? Now?

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Speaker 2: Bet we can't give away too much, but yourself, Will

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Speaker 2: and I are all filming a TV show.

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Speaker 4: At the moment.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, and you and I off camera.

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Speaker 4: That's nice and cryptic, isn't it. That's juicy? I mean

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Speaker 4: that's good.

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Speaker 6: Year.

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Speaker 4: Heads are spinning. What are we doing? Is it a

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Speaker 4: NAT GEO special?

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Speaker 5: Or are we on maps even though we have partners?

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Speaker 4: Yes? Bloody hell are we?

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Speaker 2: Because you know, I know you were unsuccessful first round

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Speaker 2: of Maps, Sashole.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe round two? Who ever knows?

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Speaker 4: Boom boom.

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Speaker 2: The people are thinking, the minds are ticking. But off camera, Beck,

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Speaker 2: we were talking about paparat See, which I found pretty interesting,

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Speaker 2: and you were saying that you actually you have the

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Speaker 2: number of a few paps who communicate with you and

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Speaker 2: will ask you to attend certain things or like go

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Speaker 2: to the beach just so they can get photos of you,

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Speaker 2: and then that makes the money.

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Speaker 4: Is that right?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So obviously they found out I've gone into Sydney, so

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Speaker 3: I've had a lot of them talking my stories and going, oh, bugger,

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Speaker 3: I've just missed you. I'm in the area. Are you

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Speaker 3: going to the beach trying to, you know, get me

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Speaker 3: to go down and get some photos?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Right? Is it just a beach thing? Like they

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Speaker 4: just want the bikini shots.

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Speaker 3: Look, they're a sucker for a bikini shot right in

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Speaker 3: anywhere out at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Came for And do you know, Beck, how much they

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Speaker 2: how much they make off, for example, a paparazzi shot

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Speaker 2: of you on the beach.

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Speaker 3: Look, it really depends, like if they can get you

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Speaker 3: in a moment where they can make a good story

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Speaker 3: like let's I am on the phone looking really a

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Speaker 3: gross straight away, they can make a good story about

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Speaker 3: how maybe I was talking to you guys and I

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Speaker 3: was Philly mad or something.

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Speaker 4: Beck from Maths furious at Will and Woody on the phone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's buddy and sit anyway in this conversation

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Speaker 2: one well fight with you and me, I think tends

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Speaker 2: to bring it down. But if Sasol's involved, that's the cash.

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Speaker 2: But I beg I started getting jealous of the fact

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Speaker 2: that Will and I have never been paps before, and

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Speaker 2: it's just something fair enough that.

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Speaker 5: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think that's totally fair enough.

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Speaker 2: We host a radio show and maybe some people want

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Speaker 2: to see a picture of us on the on the

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Speaker 2: beach potentially, and I want to I want to put that.

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Speaker 2: I want to put that to the test. Beck, if

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Speaker 2: you're open to it, because I know you have the

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Speaker 2: number of a paparazzi in Sydney. Yeah, yeah, would you

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Speaker 2: be okay if you gave him a ring now, Beck?

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Speaker 2: And and don't say we're here, don't say you're on radio, okay,

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Speaker 2: and just say to him, I know where Will and

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Speaker 2: Woody are going to be, say this weekend, is there

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Speaker 2: any is there any interest in getting some snaps of

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Speaker 2: some snaps of the boys?

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Speaker 3: Wait, so I'm calling him up, so Steeve, if I

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Speaker 3: can get him to snaff you guys, yes, yes, okay?

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Speaker 6: And the test you you can't be involved on You

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Speaker 6: can't use yourself as bait here as either, because otherwise

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Speaker 6: you'll be like, yeah, for sure, if you're there, it's

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Speaker 6: just it's just us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So ultimately a photo of you guys, Will you be

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Speaker 3: willing to take shirts off be at the beach?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we can spike. We can spice it. We can

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Speaker 6: spike the broth. Say we're at the beach. Say the

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Speaker 6: boys will be at the beach.

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Speaker 4: Y you found out the boys about the beach?

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Speaker 5: Is that a good pap opportunity? You could ask him?

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Speaker 3: Mate, See, we can try.

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Speaker 6: Definitely okay this Yeah, I mean massive where you come from.

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Speaker 4: If this guy says no, it's huge. If this works out,

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Speaker 4: it's make break.

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Speaker 6: I mean it really is going to be publicly embarrassing

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Speaker 4: You and I have never been papped.

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Speaker 5: Before, yes, and it just it angers.

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Speaker 4: Us a little bit.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 2: We see each other as sort of you know, d

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Speaker 2: that hasn't been like a Daily Mail story of us

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Speaker 2: getting paped somewhere.

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Speaker 4: What is the story? What is the story there?

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Speaker 2: They make up the story, they get the photos, make

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 2: I know this because we are mates with Beck from

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Speaker 2: Maps aka the Sass Whole, who joins on the phone

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 5: Hello, Beck, I can't believe we're doing I can't let.

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Speaker 4: You agree to this. We can do it with Beck.

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Speaker 4: That's a guarantee. No, but I know, but Beck's the

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Speaker 4: drawer card there.

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Speaker 2: I want to test if you and me just hanging

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Speaker 2: out at a popular spot is enough of a raw

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Speaker 4: To take photos.

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Speaker 2: So Beck, you have the number of a local paparazzi

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Speaker 4: And what we'd love.

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Speaker 5: You to do right now is just give Ali a call.

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Speaker 2: Don't say you're on radio, don't say that you're here

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Speaker 2: with us, and effectively say I know where William, what

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Speaker 2: are you going to be this weekend?

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Speaker 4: Would you like to pap them?

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Speaker 3: Okay, guys, before I do this, no matter what the outcome,

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Speaker 3: I did try.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm not going to blame you.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to play at the end of it.

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Speaker 6: You know, even if he if he says yes, I

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Speaker 6: want to pap them, do you actually want to get papped?

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Speaker 4: Do you want to get okay?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 6: And if he says no, we just hang out, yeah

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Speaker 6: and we never speak about it again.

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Speaker 4: Okay, mate, good luck?

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hey are you expect from that? How are you

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Speaker 3: very good?

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Speaker 9: Good?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's good. You know, I'm obviously in Sydney at

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Speaker 3: the moment. But that's actually not why I'm cooling obviously.

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Speaker 3: You know I'm here for a TV shot at the moment,

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Speaker 3: But I have some hot news to you. Will and

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Speaker 3: Woody are actually going to be at the beach this weekend,

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Speaker 3: and I thought i'd give you the location if you

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Speaker 3: wanted to pat them. Who Will and Woody? You know

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Speaker 3: they have a radio show. Okay, is there anyone else

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Speaker 3: going to be there? Probably not, but I know that

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Speaker 3: they'll probably be shirtless, if that help. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 3: the only person from that show that is probably capable,

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Speaker 3: it's probably you, to be honest. Oh that's so lovely.

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Speaker 4: Please, there is no I can't believe the first thing

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Speaker 4: he said was Who's I couldn't have gone.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, thank you.

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Speaker 4: I really appreciate the effort. Yeah, I really appreciate the effort.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you boys, it's the podcast would throw amazing, amazing.

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Speaker 6: Footage in the news today of Jeff Bezos's new girlfriend

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Speaker 6: practically throwing herself at Leonardo DiCaprio.

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Speaker 4: Extraordinary footage. It's almost like it's almost like he she's

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Speaker 4: asking for him to spare her life.

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Speaker 6: You know those scenes in movies, but like, you know,

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Speaker 6: she's the poor woman, and then he's standing over with

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Speaker 6: the sword and she's going, oh my god, mercy, mercy please.

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Speaker 6: Just the way she looks up at him. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 6: exactly right. It's like you say, look, you look up.

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Speaker 6: He's either on a step yeah, yeah. Or Bezos and

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Speaker 6: his girlfriend of smurfs in disguise.

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Speaker 2: They're tiny, they look tiny, absolutely really emasculating for Bezovs

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Speaker 2: because he's donning next to his partner obviously.

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Speaker 6: Were they even hanging out like they're all just in this?

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Speaker 6: Is it just some events celebrating people who won capitalism?

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Speaker 4: In that room?

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Speaker 6: Is it just like an event you're gonna medal, You're

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Speaker 6: gonna medal?

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Speaker 4: Probably?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: How rich are you? How rich am I? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And in that respect, actually Bezos dominates, but yeah, he

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Speaker 2: was brought down to earth though, when when Leo walked

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Speaker 6: Yeah, But what I want to focus on is when

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Speaker 4: I think I think Jeff's figure Todd surely yes.

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Speaker 2: But again, to put myself in Lauren's shoes, there is

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Speaker 2: Mansion that night, yeah, hey, yeah, I finally they are

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Speaker 4: Well not if she wants to stay the.

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Speaker 5: Night exactly right. That conversation is never going to go well.

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Speaker 6: But the irony of that is that in every relationship

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Speaker 6: we're in, I'm pretty sure everybody can agree listening right now,

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Speaker 6: honesty is the thing that we say, we want, we

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Speaker 6: all say in a relationship, I just want you to

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Speaker 6: me the truth until they tell you the truth sometimes

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Speaker 6: and you go WHOA too much? I did not need

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Speaker 6: to know. That is their bounds to honesty? Like are

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Speaker 6: you being selfish in your relationship by oversharing sometimes? Do

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Speaker 6: you think that you need to put a limit on

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Speaker 6: how far your honesty goes in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: So if we can go back to this exact example again,

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Speaker 2: if you and your partner Sem are out at a party, yes,

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Speaker 2: and you find someone very attractive, Yeah, you get quite

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Speaker 2: enamored yeap with someone? Will you tell your partner after

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Speaker 2: the party? So purely not I get honesty, but yes,

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Speaker 2: it's just a piece of information that no one a

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Speaker 4: Or he needs to do. So we've got a different

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Speaker 4: setup to this.

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Speaker 5: Of course you do. Will' smutner is Dutch, by the way, everyone,

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Speaker 5: if you didn't.

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Speaker 6: Know, she is incredibly transparent. She's very Dutch, and honesty

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Speaker 6: for her is not just a pillar of a relationship.

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Speaker 4: Like that's her life. Yeah, sure, that's who she is.

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Speaker 6: And essentially we spoke about this a while ago and

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Speaker 6: the truth is that you're going to feel that way

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Speaker 6: about people. Yes, And the number one reason that people

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Speaker 6: cheat is because they feel as if their needs aren't

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Speaker 6: being met or they can't express to the person that

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Speaker 6: they're with that they're feeling things for other people. So

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Speaker 6: Sem and I made a deal, yeah a few years

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Speaker 6: that were yeah, we tell the other person.

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Speaker 6: It's like a little like it's like his movie Catch

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Speaker 2: Emma here on thirty one oh sixty five, Emma, what

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Speaker 3: I think so. I don't see what you get out

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Speaker 6: I reckon, I think I think the reason that you

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Speaker 5: Do you think it's possible to overshare with honesty with

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Speaker 7: No, you can't open it. But I've got some Dutch

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it's good. I think I think something

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Speaker 6: She showed you a niche butt, and then she came

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Speaker 6: He was like, your girlfriend just told me the Rankers story.

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Speaker 2: And she was so happy, she was so pumped that

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Speaker 4: In Sini Shellini.

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Speaker 6: Is there's such a thing as unnecessary honesty in a relationship?

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Speaker 6: If we got it down, you actually should be very

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Speaker 4: Right now, one of our absolute favorites.

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Speaker 9: Hey, guys, thank you for having me.

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Speaker 4: Mate, absolute pleasure. We bloody love you on this show,

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Speaker 4: We've got a little bit.

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Speaker 6: Of it before you have a listen, Phila Trusius. So, mate,

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Speaker 6: we're wondering, can you tell a Boody and I a

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Speaker 6: But if you can make a story, and then Woody

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Speaker 9: Okay, I'll give it. I'll tell you a couple all right,

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Speaker 9: all right? Is this true? While years ago? I was

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Speaker 4: You've crammed yourself in the Royal Box. That's what. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: That's the headline. There would go up.

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Speaker 4: Okay, great that story one and story two.

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Speaker 9: I was invited by Shu Hefner to watch a movie

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, what was What was the movie?

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Speaker 9: I can't remember. He loves old movies. He was like

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Speaker 6: And you and you went, You went and had a

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Speaker 9: Yeah. So you know when I thought about playoff mension,

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Speaker 4: I's got other things to do.

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Speaker 2: You would have thought, Sorry, Mark, we were a little

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Speaker 4: All right, story whizz tough.

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Speaker 6: Managing's like, mate, you've come on the night that the

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's just you and me watching and a little

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Speaker 2: And then we've got a royal giving the scud strawberries

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Speaker 4: In the Royal box? Is that on court? Mark?

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Speaker 9: Yeah? Court?

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Speaker 4: So they're they're center court. We know we played in

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Speaker 4: It's just you and Hugh Heffner watching a movie.

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Speaker 4: Now we've got a party. Now I reckon.

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Speaker 5: They're both true, as well, Mark, we reckon.

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Speaker 4: They're both true stories.

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Speaker 9: Only one is true.

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Speaker 2: Okay, the the I reckon, the strawberries and cream is the.

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Speaker 9: No, the mansion is real. I would never spell my

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Speaker 6: Guys. Wow, so you watched a movie with you NOA

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Speaker 9: He invited me. We just showed me around the house.

450
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Speaker 9: Who showed me everything, the animals and all that, and

451
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Speaker 9: then we ended up watching the movie some popcorn.

452
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Speaker 6: Wow.

453
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Speaker 9: But I never went back.

454
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Speaker 4: No, I'm trying to watch a movie with you again,

455
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,639
Speaker 4: old man, you.

456
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Speaker 9: Know, until he got something fun, I'm not coming back.

457
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Speaker 1: It's the Will and Woody podcast.

458
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Speaker 4: Well, let's talk about the Bebe. It's perfect.

459
00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:11,560
Speaker 2: Married to Hailey Hailey previously Baldwin, now Hailey Biber.

460
00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:12,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, Haley Beba.

461
00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,360
Speaker 6: Now they're talking today about the fact that their first

462
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Speaker 6: year of marriage was really tough.

463
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Speaker 2: This this came out last week to the point where

464
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Speaker 2: she was calling her mum to say, I actually don't

465
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,760
Speaker 2: think I can marry this guy. I don't think I

466
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:26,879
Speaker 2: can stay in this marriage because things are just so

467
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,000
Speaker 2: not good right now.

468
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, exactly right.

469
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Speaker 6: And it's a really tough thing being with someone when

470
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Speaker 6: they are depressed. And I think, you know, one of

471
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,680
Speaker 6: the parts of this show that I think is important

472
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:37,960
Speaker 6: is that you and I both pretty pretty transparent about

473
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 6: our mental health and how we're doing and stuff, so

474
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Speaker 6: I can I can empathize certainly with Justin. Obviously I

475
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,160
Speaker 6: get depressed and it's bloody tough. But I always say

476
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Speaker 6: that I think the harder position in and around this

477
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 6: mental health dichotomy is the person who has to live

478
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 6: with the person who is depressed. That's that's even harder

479
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 6: because you're not in the head, you can't fully empathize

480
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,440
Speaker 6: with what's going on, and yet you've still got to

481
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Speaker 6: live with this person who you love, who you oftentimes

482
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,399
Speaker 6: can't help, don't know how to help, don't know how

483
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 6: to reach out to, don't know how to connect to.

484
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,880
Speaker 6: And sometimes we'll be lied to and yet you know them.

485
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,119
Speaker 6: So I've got my partner Sem on the phone, who

486
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Speaker 6: joins us now reluctantly welcome Semmy very relucantly.

487
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,680
Speaker 7: I also done like halfway, half the halfway that conversation.

488
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Speaker 4: If you just out as well, but you've already zoned out.

489
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,719
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you for letting us know that our

490
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 2: show is not engaging at all.

491
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Speaker 4: You've zoned out. What are you doing? You can't say that, no,

492
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 4: because like.

493
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Speaker 7: I was obviously hearing all the things that you were

494
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 7: saying and I was like, oh yeah, and then I weren't.

495
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 7: Don't worry.

496
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Speaker 2: So semi well, we'll ask you the question though, So

497
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 2: what we wanted to know?

498
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 4: What we want from you? She's nervous. This is not

499
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 4: something that you normally like talking about very much.

500
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Speaker 7: No, But you know what's so funny because you said

501
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 7: that haleyby recall her mom. Yeah, like I also call

502
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:02,439
Speaker 7: my mom about that time. I'm depressed. But I think

503
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:06,679
Speaker 7: it's also the beautiful thing is that we're still together.

504
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 6: And obviously, yeah, I think we're together for a reason

505
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 6: because it's it is something that works and something that

506
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 6: does come up. But I've got to say, like one

507
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 6: of the things that I find most reassuring and something

508
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 6: that I've kind of had to surrender to is that.

509
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:25,880
Speaker 6: And I think this is the case for most things

510
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 6: in life. You don't know yourself as well as the

511
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 6: people that love you know you, and often it takes

512
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 6: someone that you're with that knows you better than you

513
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 6: know yourself to tell you what's going on. I know

514
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 6: there are some mornings and where you're the one that

515
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,120
Speaker 6: says to me, are you okay today? And I won't

516
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,360
Speaker 6: have even thought about the fact that I'm okay, So.

517
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Speaker 7: Right, yeah, totally. But I think it's also very much

518
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 7: trial and errors, like some things work done and yeah,

519
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 7: every every that's the other thing, like every time is different.

520
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, can I ask you, sir, like there are

521
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 2: obviously times where Will comes into work and sometimes we

522
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 2: actually won't do the show because you will in a

523
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 2: way where it's just not going to be good for

524
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,640
Speaker 2: you or good for anyone if you stay around.

525
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Speaker 4: And do the show.

526
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 2: I know with me, I'll talk to you as well,

527
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: Will and say are you okay? I know and you

528
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 2: probably find this too, Sam that Will you can struggle

529
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 2: to make decisions during that and it's almost like you

530
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 2: almost need to take control, which is actually usually the

531
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Speaker 2: opposite to our relationship, which I find always found it's.

532
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Speaker 4: The same with Sammy. Yeah, I call the shots with

533
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 4: Sam as well.

534
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Speaker 2: But I know Sam that at the end of the day,

535
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 2: I get to a point where I say to Will

536
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Speaker 2: mate go home.

537
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Speaker 11: Yeah.

538
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Speaker 2: And the only reason that I feel comfortable saying to

539
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 2: him go home is because I know that you are

540
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 2: going to be there at home, and I know he's

541
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Speaker 2: in good hands there. So it always feels to me

542
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 2: like I do handball to you.

543
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 4: A little bit, But you do well my parents and

544
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,120
Speaker 4: my babysitter.

545
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Speaker 10: When I'm de friends, you just pass the buck, don't you.

546
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 4: No, he's too hot to handle here, Get into work. No,

547
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 4: he's too hot at work. Getting back home.

548
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 2: But I'm interested, se what's your or how do you

549
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 2: react when Will comes home early from work?

550
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 4: Because there are days where we'll we'll.

551
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 2: Have a discussion and I'll be able to tell that

552
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 2: you're a bit off on a certain day and we'll

553
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: have that conversation. But Sammy, I'm always really buoyed to

554
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:26,200
Speaker 2: know that he's going home to you, and that gives

555
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 2: me a lot of comfort that for one of a

556
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 2: better word, I can sort of handball handball him onto

557
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 2: you a little bit, but I'd only feel comfortable doing

558
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 2: that knowing that you're at home. And I know we've

559
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 2: got to go to a song right now because we've

560
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 2: been talking for too long, But can you stick around

561
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 2: after the song, semming, because I just want to ask

562
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 2: you how you are in the situation where he comes

563
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 2: home early from work.

564
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Speaker 6: Yeah, just quick reminder as well before SEMMI, before we

565
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 6: get more with my partner Sam, just if you are

566
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Speaker 6: living with someone who you think is depressed, anxious, whatever

567
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 6: it is, you're just worried about them, maybe you can

568
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 6: call Lifeline.

569
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Speaker 4: On thirteen eleven fourteen. Obvious.

570
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Speaker 6: If you're struggling yourself, you can call Lifeline on thirteen

571
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 6: eleven fourteen. But they're there for you, guys. I know

572
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 6: there's lots of people out there who have to love

573
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 6: people who really struggle.

574
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 4: With their mental health. So hopefully more.

575
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,479
Speaker 6: Of this chat right up next for you, guys, Well

576
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 6: we're talking. Earlier last week, Hailey Beaber, who's obviously with

577
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 6: Justin Bieber, said that she had to call her mum

578
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 6: during their first year of marriage quite a lot because

579
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 6: Justin was depressed and immediately like I read this and

580
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 6: I get depressed. As something, we try and be as

581
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 6: transparent as we can about that on this show, just

582
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 6: to try and hopefully let you guys know that's a

583
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 6: very okay thing to admit happens to a lot of people.

584
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 6: But I always say that I think that the harder

585
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 6: role in the mental health crisis is the people that

586
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 6: have to live with the people that get depressed or

587
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:41,120
Speaker 6: anxious or whatever it is. But that's an incredibly hard

588
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 6: role to play when you don't understand what's going on,

589
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 6: when you're not going through it yourself. And that's something

590
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 6: you have to do with me at work, but my

591
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 6: partner Sam has to do when we're at home.

592
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

593
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 2: Absolutely, And Sammy, I do have a question to ask

594
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 2: you in particular, but so before before I do as

595
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 2: send that question, I think the word hard. I think

596
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 2: I used to see it as hard, but I think

597
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 2: I'm changing my tech now and not tact, but I

598
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 2: changed my view on it. It's not hard, it's just

599
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 2: that you don't know what to do. It's almost just

600
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:10,959
Speaker 2: like a lack of awareness or a lack of education

601
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: as to what to do. Once you figured that out,

602
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 2: it's no longer hard and you shouldn't see it as hard. Yeah,

603
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 2: but Sammy, I do want to ask you, in particular

604
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 2: about days where Will comes home early and doesn't actually

605
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 2: do the show.

606
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 4: What do you do?

607
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 7: I actually think that ninety five percent of the time

608
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 7: when he leaves for work, I already know that he's

609
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 7: not going.

610
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 9: To make it.

611
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 6: Yeah she does, Yeah she does. She gives you this

612
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 6: like look at the end and I'm going to work,

613
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 6: So are you going to work? And I'm like, yeah, yeah,

614
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 6: I'm going to work. I'm fine, and then she just

615
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 6: like starts to stop watching.

616
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 7: Odd day where you know he does go to work

617
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 7: and it works out well because something at work happened,

618
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 7: and that completely turns to you one evy. But yeah,

619
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Speaker 7: it often isn't. I'm often prepared when he comes home,

620
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 7: and I think, just for me, it's a normal YEA,

621
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 7: be there for him, love him and take care of him,

622
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 7: just make him feel loved.

623
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, so true, And it's not about and I don't know.

624
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 2: I fell into this trap a number of times early on,

625
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 2: where I would try so hard to figure out why

626
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: he's feeling that way, or like try and solve it

627
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 2: on the spot. But yeah, it's a shocking trap to

628
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 2: fall in, becau's all you want to do. You see

629
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 2: this person that you love that's struggling, and you're like,

630
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: I just want to fix this immediately, And then you

631
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 2: can get angry at yourself a little bit when you're like,

632
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: why can't I fix this? Well, I should be able

633
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 2: to fix this because I'm someone who's so close to him.

634
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 2: But I think for anyone listening right now, and obviously

635
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 2: we've gone through it through experience them, it's just like, hey,

636
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 2: I'm here, I love you.

637
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, but then almost stand back a little bit.

638
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 7: Yeah, and that's something that's so hard and also with

639
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 7: loving because you don't get it back sometimes yea, feel

640
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 7: loved to yourself?

641
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, but.

642
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 7: I also have to say, like everyone is different, and

643
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 7: everyone that goes through depression handles it very differently. But

644
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 7: I think the one overwriting or over arching thing is

645
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 7: always loved.

646
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, well said seriously.

647
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 4: It's true. It's true.

648
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 6: And I think when you are in that sort of

649
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 6: a state where you are anxious or depressed off and

650
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 6: you've got like quite quite brittle shields in place that

651
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 6: you'll use, so like a lot of the time I

652
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 6: can be like quite aggressive or dismissive or like distant,

653
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 6: and I think the key is to sort of just

654
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 6: persevere with the support and the unconditional love. And you're right,

655
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 6: because I'm not going to give it back. I actually

656
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 6: can't give it back. And then you start feeling awful

657
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 6: that you can't give it back because you're like I.

658
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 7: Remember when early on when you were dating, when you

659
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 7: were in those situations, I got really like I sort

660
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 7: of mimixed your behavior and was like, well, you're boying

661
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 7: and I can't do with this and that just works

662
00:28:58,560 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 7: so bad.

663
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because sometimes if he's not giving love.

664
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're so right.

665
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 2: If you knew it and then don't give love, then

666
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 2: it just adds to the entire thing.

667
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 6: Normally, in every relationship in your life, you can guarantee

668
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 6: and should guarantee on the fact that it's reciprocal. But

669
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Speaker 6: you can't in those times because they can't give it back,

670
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 6: and it's going to be really tough for you to

671
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 6: sort of And as you said at the start, Semi,

672
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 6: I mean and Hayley Baber's called her mum, I imagine

673
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 6: that's what you do. Sem You get to that point

674
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 6: where you call your mum and you're like, look, I'm

675
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 6: not getting anything back from Will.

676
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 4: Now it's been a few days.

677
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 6: It's really hard to keep dipping into the well and

678
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 6: just finding this love that you're meant to be giving me.

679
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 7: So thank you, thank you, You're welcome.

680
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 3: Sorry, it was a bit of.

681
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 4: A language barrier there. Thank you very much.

682
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 6: For anyone else that is really struggling to having got

683
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 6: someone to look after them or they haven't got or

684
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 6: if you are somebody's partner and you haven't got somebody

685
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 6: else to talk to about that you can call life

686
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 6: one or thirteen eleven fourteen. That it's not just for

687
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 6: the people that are struggling, that's for anyone. You can

688
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 6: call Lifeline about anything, Honestly. You can call them about

689
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 6: the fath that you're feeling lonely. You can call them

690
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 6: by the faith that you can't connect with your partner

691
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 6: because you think they are depressed. Thirteen eleven fourteen reached

692
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 6: them at anytime. Yeah, thanks that chat.

693
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 4: That was good.

694
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 6: I felt like a bit of a rat and a

695
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 6: lab Then you guys were just comparing notes.

696
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 2: We when we were just referring to you as we were,

697
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 2: we started telling you him you know when he does.

698
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 5: That is the second person.

699
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it actually would have been nice if you left

700
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 2: the room.

701
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 4: It would have been a lot smurther.

702
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: It's the Ry Woody podcast.

703
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 2: Well, this happened a while ago, but I think we

704
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 2: still need to address it because it's a bit of

705
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 2: a bee in my bonnet. We were playing our Monday

706
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 2: segment would he Believe it or not? We're effectively artists

707
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 2: say stuff and you say, if it's true, if I've

708
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 2: just made it up? Now, we were doing one particular

709
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 2: example of this where I was giving you restaurant names.

710
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 4: Yes, this is what happened, got.

711
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 2: Ninety nine problems and this food ain't one, ain't one.

712
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 4: Is that a real restaurant? Or is that a I

713
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 4: think it's fake? Yeah, that's fake.

714
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 2: Okay, that was fine. You picked me and I did

715
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 2: make up that restaurant. Now, but upon further discussion, you

716
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 2: said to me that the reason you knew it was

717
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 2: fake is because I told you it was a Mexican restaurant. Yes,

718
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 2: and you said the name Juan Juan Juan isn't a

719
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 2: common name in Mexico.

720
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 4: Yes, right, stand by that.

721
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 5: And this is where I have an issue, And this

722
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 5: is where I want to.

723
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 4: Prove me one famous Mexican called Juan.

724
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 5: I don't know a famous Mexican called Juan.

725
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 6: I'm not denying that it's as common as a Spanish

726
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 6: name Juan Carlos Ferreer, for example, the Spanish tennis player. Sure,

727
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 6: also a very good looking man. Sure, I think it

728
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 6: exists within Spanish. I think Juan is just John in Spanish, Okay,

729
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 6: But I don't think that it necessarily extends to the

730
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 6: country Mexico having lots of Huan's there.

731
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 5: And this is where I disagree, and right.

732
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 4: No foundational is for your disagreement. It's just my general

733
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 4: knowledge of Mexico. What else do you know about Mexico?

734
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 2: Not a huge amount, not a huge amount. To be fair,

735
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 2: I'm not well versed in my Mexican history.

736
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 6: I admit that you're taking issue with me for no

737
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 6: reason other than to take issue with me.

738
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: A big part of this is taking issue to take issues.

739
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,719
Speaker 4: There's no factual basis for your argument.

740
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 2: Well yes at this point, yes, but I'm about to

741
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: add fact to my argument because I want to call

742
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 2: Mexico effectively. I've got a random number in Mexico, and

743
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: I am I'm so sure that One is a common

744
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 2: name in Mexico that I can almost guarantee to you

745
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: that the person who picks up the phone will be

746
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 2: called one.

747
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 4: Okay, it's a little game that I'd like to call this.

748
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 4: I want to be the only one to phone you Mexico.

749
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 4: So today we're calling Mexico. Today we're calling.

750
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 2: Well, maybe put in the car before the horseting. I figure,

751
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 2: if we don't find a Huan today, then we just

752
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 2: call other countries until we find a Kuan.

753
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 4: But that's cart before then you've loved you. If there's

754
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 4: no que in Mexico, you lose this.

755
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 2: I definitely lose this. Yes, but then maybe we've got You've.

756
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 4: Already commissioned for a sequel before the feature has been backed.

757
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 6: Yes, that's I like it. It's ambitious. But this could

758
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 6: be over right now. So right up next, we're going

759
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 6: to be calling any place in Mexico. I get to

760
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 6: use the place then, fine, to ensure the randomness of this, Fine,

761
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 6: any place in any place in Mexico, and Juan has

762
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 6: to answer the phone.

763
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: Yes, I'll just say hey, is that Kuan speaking?

764
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 4: Wow?

765
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 6: And this is to prove to me how common the

766
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 6: name Kuan is in Mexico. Yes, and you don't know

767
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 6: at all, so this will just be a coincidence.

768
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 4: Then if a Quan answers no, no, no, how dare

769
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 4: you have a coincidence this?

770
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 6: Welcome to the most ridiculous thing that you've heard, not

771
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 6: just on the show on radio in general.

772
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 4: We're doing We're playing a game. It's called this. I

773
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 4: want to be the only Quan to phone Mexico. So, well,

774
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:17,839
Speaker 4: you and me are at loggerheads. We are so far logerheads.

775
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 6: Well, you and I would be at loggerheads over something

776
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 6: substantial that required a good conversation.

777
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 4: This is substantial.

778
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 2: You don't think Juan is a common name in Mexico,

779
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: So look to prove you wrong, because.

780
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 4: I know that is outrageous.

781
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: To prove you wrong, though, I am going to call

782
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 2: a random number. You've actually you've organized the random number.

783
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 4: I've organized the random number. Who am I calling? Well,

784
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 4: I actually got our button push of Joel to organize it.

785
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 4: What's the bar card we're calling Joel? It's called the

786
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 4: Hanky Panky cocktail bar whereabouts whereabouts in one of the

787
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 4: touristy spots there where there's lots of coronas. One of

788
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 4: the two. You also have obviously not been to Mexico.

789
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 4: I didn't have long to google this. I had three

790
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 4: minutes during all right.

791
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 6: Fair enough, hanky panky cocktail, said a guy called Juan

792
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 6: as to answer the phone.

793
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 4: For you to win this, yes, wow, And if it

794
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,919
Speaker 4: isn't a Juan, then you win. You win great. I'll

795
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 4: put down there. Tomorrow we're calling another country to find

796
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 4: That is my hope that we continue doing this. Now,

797
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 4: what are you going to go with? The start the

798
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:27,280
Speaker 4: chat because he's going to speak Spanish. Okay, esther, he nice, nice,

799
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 4: might say, one is not cheers? Go for it, mate.

800
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 4: Do you know what time? It doesn't?

801
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 8: Mix?

802
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 4: Is not cheers?

803
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 7: One?

804
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 8: This day?

805
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 4: Here? What time is it? He mixed?

806
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 9: Here?

807
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 4: I'm sure? Here we go. Come on, Juan, come on,

808
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 4: thank you, thank you.

809
00:35:49,960 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 2: Baron not chairs, it's not chairs. Juanes are here, Juan, No,

810
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 2: that is a shame.

811
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 4: Sorry, that's French. Do you speak English? Do you know

812
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 4: a Huan?

813
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 6: That's not the game.

814
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 4: She doesn't even know.

815
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: A qual?

816
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 4: She doesn't know. Sorry. What's your name?

817
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 9: Hi?

818
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 4: My name is Will.

819
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 6: This is my friend Woody. We're calling from a radio

820
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 6: station in Australia. Hi, we just wanted to see whether

821
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 6: or not Juan was a common name in Mexico.

822
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 4: So we thought we'd call your bar. She's gone. There

823
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 4: is no one. He's not at the place, and he's

824
00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 4: not an answer to the phone. He's not that. I

825
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 4: think she's a lonely woman. She doesn't know any people.

826
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think we need to get a second that she.

827
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 4: Didn't even know a Kuan. You bet the rules. Ajuan

828
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 4: didn't answer the phone. I'll say it again. She didn't

829
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 4: know a Kuan. She did not know a Huan. Yes,

830
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 4: I get all of that. These are all really good points. Okay,

831
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 4: what's your point here. She's a very lonely woman. She

832
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 4: doesn't know many people. You're imputing that.

833
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:26,240
Speaker 5: I'm still finishing my point. If you don't mind female now.

834
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 4: What Mexico is not segregated between men and women. I

835
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 4: think I need to call someone again, and guy I

836
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 4: needs is over said. It is my turn. I will

837
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 4: be calling Spain next time. You sound defeated.

838
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 2: I am defeated because you're playing a very harsh game.

839
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 2: I got to respect it fair enough.

840
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 4: I want to be the only one to Spain tomorrow.

841
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 4: One I thought it was a weekly bit villain, but

842
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 4: I'm not sure to be back