1 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: There are some situations that arise where you feel like 2 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: you have to contact your ex. 3 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 2: It's desperate times, generally speaking, separate times you don't want to, 4 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: you know it's ended, even if it's ended really well, 5 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: you're just like that's I think that that's behind me 6 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: and we're both moving on with our lives. But every 7 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 2: now and then something happens and you're like, oh. 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: I have I have to contact them, potentially reopen the wound. 9 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 3: That doesn't it. But it doesn't need to be a 10 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 3: reopening of the wound. 11 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 4: That's the thing can be though scary, but it's not. 12 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 5: But it's like, you know, if it is like I 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 5: assume you're talking about purely mechanical messages, Well I think so, 14 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 5: but it. 15 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: Really can be anything. Thirteen one oh six five is 16 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: our number. I would love to know when did you 17 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: have to contact your ex? 18 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 4: Don't play that. I hate I love that song. I 19 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 4: hate that. That was a that was a trap. It 20 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 4: was a trap. I hate that. 21 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 3: I love that song. That's perfect for the topic as well. 22 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 4: Yeah it is perfect, but who does that again? 23 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: The Dixies, the pussy Cat does little mixed little mixes anyway, 24 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:12,479 Speaker 1: throw mix. 25 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 4: I hate it. 26 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 5: So I'm saying that it could be like where do 27 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 5: I you know, I hate to have to send you this, 28 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 5: but you know we've split over a pet. One of 29 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 5: the pets gone one way? What are the details for 30 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 5: the vet? 31 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 4: That would be a great example. We take that call bloody, 32 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 4: get right into it. 33 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: I once had to contact an ex because I realized 34 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: that I had my sunglasses were in I was like, 35 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 1: I looked everywhere for these sunglasses and I was like, 36 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 1: I think they're in our house. 37 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 4: They're definitely in our house. 38 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: And I think for both of us, it was just 39 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 1: like we've we've we've moved on, we've had a break 40 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: up kind of thing. And I remember at length, was 41 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: just like, it's probably not worth the seven eleven sunglasses 42 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: that I bought. 43 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 3: But there were seven elevens that was sheeven elevens. 44 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 4: Which sheep sunglass. 45 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 3: That's got to go. 46 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 4: It's got to be. 47 00:01:59,200 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: It's got to be. 48 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 5: It's got to be worth a thousand bucks. I reckon 49 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 5: for me, Well, yeah. 50 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 3: It's not that big bucks. It's just big bucks. It's 51 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 3: more bid. It's bad breakups, to be honest, that's more 52 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 3: what it is. I just don't like just the pain 53 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 3: of having to go back into their house and like that. 54 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 5: That is I'm sorry, but yeah, I think a lot 55 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 5: of people listening in the same thing. 56 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 3: I put a thousand dollars on that. 57 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 4: Well, I'm interested to even the interaction that. 58 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 3: I want to have in any single way. 59 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 4: Thirteen one oh six five. 60 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: What did you have to contact the X about and 61 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: was it under a thousand dollars of worth? 62 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 5: Like I podcast, what did you get. 63 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 3: With the big mix? 64 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 4: I don't like the song. I don't like that song. 65 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,559 Speaker 4: It's friggering. It's not triggering. 66 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: I find it very annoying in my drums anyway, thirteen 67 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: one o six five. It is appropriate for the phone 68 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 1: topic because why did you have to contact and X. 69 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,679 Speaker 1: I feel like, in most circumstances, that's something you don't 70 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: want to do. It's something that's in the past, but 71 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: there are reasons that you have to now. Amazinally, the 72 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: reason we're talking about this is because we had a 73 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: long form chat with Polling out of Master Chef fame. 74 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: If you want to get that chat, By the way, 75 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: it was fascinating. It's on Share my Mood. Just look 76 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: up Share my Mood wherever you get your podcasts from. 77 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: But She revealed that she actually regularly calls an ex 78 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 1: husband to like further dissect their relationship. 79 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 6: So sometimes we just get this bizarre phone call. He's 80 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 6: so lovely because it was like, puts me on speaker, 81 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 6: phans and he's in. Your partner knows it's nothing weird. 82 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 6: Oh sorry, it's a bit ruandom. You are right, it's like, 83 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 6: what are you doing? He goes, Oh, I'm just yeah, 84 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 6: chopping some wood whatever. 85 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 4: Was making that up? 86 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 6: And I go, so, I just did this thing today. 87 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 6: I took the mail out blah blah blah and lost 88 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 6: this thing. And I just know that if you were here, 89 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 6: I would have blamed her own. 90 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: Kind of nice, but also all the times she's a 91 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: fascinating woman post I don't get that chat. 92 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 5: That level of transparency awesome, and camaraderie with an ex 93 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 5: is something we can all aspire to, but for most 94 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 5: of us, they're horribly toxic relationships and it's the last 95 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 5: phone call you want to make. 96 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 1: So we've got Harriet in our Harriet, when did you 97 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: have to talk to an ex. 98 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 7: Every day? 99 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:25,679 Speaker 8: Not by choice? 100 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 4: So why every day? Harriet? 101 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 9: Because we work together? 102 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 7: Oh no, yeah, it's horrible. 103 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 5: Why do you have to talk like, what's your job? 104 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 5: Surely you just on the other side of the office. 105 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 9: Ah, Like we work in the same office. 106 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 3: But what's the like in a meeting or. 107 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 9: Or just for everything that I do. 108 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 8: He's the big boss, so I have to run it 109 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 8: past him. 110 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 10: But we're like, it's so awkward. 111 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 8: We don't communicate in person. 112 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 7: We walk past each other like we don't know each other. 113 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 9: And we don't exist. 114 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 10: And then we email and like call. 115 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 3: Oh, how long were you together for? 116 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 10: I like only six months? But still I wouldn't recommend 117 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 10: mixing work and personal together. 118 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 5: Do you ever, like do you talk about the relations 119 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 5: like does it ever come up with him? You talk like, oh, no, 120 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 5: it's okay, it's extremely professional. 121 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 3: And did you agree on that? Was that? Like okay, cool? 122 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 3: We got to keep waking together so you can never 123 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 3: be discussed ever again. 124 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 10: No, I really wanted to work on it and fix things, 125 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 10: but it was just instantly cut off and we it 126 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 10: was like we don't even know each other. 127 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 3: That's the same. 128 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 4: Thanks for the call, Harriet. Let's go to Grace hard situation. 129 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 4: I think if I'm harry and I'm probably quitting there, that's. 130 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 3: She might love it. 131 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 5: She loves her jobs. It's your boss, like that is 132 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 5: a film script to be hard? That is, I just can't. 133 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 4: It's the proposal Ryan Reynolds, is it? 134 00:05:57,839 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, the film script? 135 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, different, but you know, similar different, it's a bit different. 136 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 1: All what you've got to contact from? 137 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 3: Nutshell? 138 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,239 Speaker 4: Why do you have to contact your ex? Grace? 139 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 10: Hey, guys, I had to contact my ex because my 140 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 10: dog had killed a possum and I went to put 141 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 10: it in the bin but it was still alive and 142 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 10: I didn't know what to do, so I called. He 143 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 10: found out that he'd blocked me. 144 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 3: Oh grast, So what did you, Grace? Can I ask? 145 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 5: Because I'm not sure. I'm going to take a guess here, 146 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 5: just tell me if I'm nowhere. Did did you end 147 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 5: it with him? 148 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 8: No? 149 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 3: So he ended up with you and then he lived. 150 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 10: Down the road, which is why we called him. 151 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 5: Okay, so that's why he was your first. So there 152 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 5: was no Because this is the thing, obviously with all 153 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 5: of these phone calls, if you're calling your ex. As 154 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 5: soon as your ex gets a text or a call 155 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 5: from you, they're obviously questioning whether there's an ulterior motive. 156 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, right, So naturally you. 157 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 4: Think the export reckon you killed that possum just an excuse? 158 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 5: No, no, no, The ulterior motive is that they want 159 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 5: to hook up, all right, yeah, sorry, not that she 160 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 5: killed the pot. 161 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: I thought you were saying that she faked the whole 162 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: possum incident to get him on. 163 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 3: The Oh wow, yes exactly. 164 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 4: But no. 165 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 3: To grace. 166 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 5: Grace, did you feel like you had to convince him 167 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 5: that you didn't kill the possum? 168 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 4: Well? I never, he never, Deacon. Why do you have 169 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 4: to get in touch with your eggs? 170 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 9: So we had a pretty bad float up and he 171 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 9: left me on my birthday. But he he got me 172 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 9: this necklace for my birthday and took it with him, 173 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 9: and I wanted it back. 174 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, fair enough. So what happened? 175 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 9: So he packed up all his staff left and I 176 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 9: realized he had taken my necklace and I about a 177 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 9: month or two later, when he had a new girlfriend, 178 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 9: he had posted a photo with wearing it. 179 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 4: Wearing it and what did you do? 180 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 3: What did you do when you reached out to him? 181 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 9: Yeah, I was like, I want my necklace back, and 182 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 9: then he fully was like, I never got you anything. 183 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 9: It wasn't yours, like you know, and tried to tell 184 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 9: me that wasn't my neckclothes and. 185 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 3: Advocate is it? Is it your necklace? At that point 186 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 3: is her birthday baying on? But it did? She actually 187 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 3: did you actually receive the present? Teagan? Did you open 188 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 3: the box? Did you put it on? 189 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 9: Yeah? 190 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah. 191 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 9: He took me out to dinner in the city and 192 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 9: we had a full dinner. We came home and then 193 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 9: the next day he was like, no, I don't want 194 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 9: to do this anymore, and he took everything. 195 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 4: Tagan, where is the necklace at now? 196 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 9: We're probably on her next still, so she she still 197 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 9: has it, I assume. 198 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 4: So we need to get it back. I'm sorry, we 199 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 4: need to get it back. 200 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: Have you got his number? Tiagan? 201 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 9: I don't. 202 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 4: Okay, we'll find it. No, you'll find well, okay, well, 203 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 4: let's not get weird about it. Taking let's talk off there, 204 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 4: let's talk. 205 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 5: We are talking about stinky costumes your parents put together 206 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 5: for you. 207 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, just lazy. Really, well, I think five is the number. 208 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 3: Busy, it's probably, yeah. 209 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 5: I mean I can't fully relate yet as a parent. 210 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 5: But you know, Max had to do her little paper 211 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 5: plate for kinder recently. No, that when we write on 212 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 5: the paper and then make a plate out of it. 213 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 4: And what did you do? 214 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 11: Did you? 215 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 3: Was just too late? 216 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 5: We were too late, and I knew I didn't want 217 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 5: to embarrass her, so I just scriggled on a piece 218 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 5: of pate on her. 219 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 3: I did the plate for plate for it. 220 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: And that's another classic. I feel like I will start 221 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:55,839 Speaker 1: doing projects for my daughter. 222 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 4: My dad did that. 223 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 3: I just don want to embarrassed. I don't want you 224 00:09:58,200 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 3: to be embarrassed. I help you out here. What have 225 00:09:59,679 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 3: you got? 226 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: The most embarrassing thing, though, is when my dad would 227 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 1: do projects for me, he would get like seas and 228 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: then it would get to parent teacher interview and he'd 229 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: be quite defensive about the fact that we aren't talking 230 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: about just costumes and lazy costumes. Because Northwest performed at 231 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: this thirtieth anniversary Line King Concept special Shocking costume, Kim 232 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: obviously woke up and was like, Struth, we've got that 233 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 1: concept tonight. 234 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 4: I need to dress you up as Simba just. 235 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 3: A jump I think week. 236 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 5: I hope everyone's getting a refund for that gig. I 237 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 5: really do you've got your Lion King alumni out there? 238 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 4: He sh you should make that call tomorrow. That would 239 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 4: should be quite fun. 240 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 3: Who is that just cool? 241 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:35,959 Speaker 4: Do you ever put that on just so you want 242 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 4: a refund? 243 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: It's got to Alana here, Alana, you did you put 244 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 1: together the lazy costume or were you put in it? 245 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 7: Well it was a bit of both. But we had 246 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 7: book week and I had nothing. So my mum was like, 247 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 7: go to school in your pajamas and you're sleeping duty. 248 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 8: So I rocked up to school in my pajama. 249 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 4: Actually quite clever. 250 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: He's so lazy because through the laziness you get smart. 251 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 3: Have the intelligence there. 252 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,479 Speaker 1: But god, sleeping beauty, she's always sleeping where your pj's. 253 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 4: Everyone will get it. Although from memory sleeping beauty intelligence, 254 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 4: he gets a clever linked. The question for me one at. 255 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 3: School is going, oh my god, genius, it's so meta. 256 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 3: Nobody is doing that. Did you want to be going, Wow, 257 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 3: your mom sucks? 258 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 4: Did she wear pajamas? 259 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 3: She's sleeping in a dress. Well, that's she's sleeping in 260 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 3: the dress. 261 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 4: That's confusing. Why didn't she check some pjs. 262 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 3: On because she gets poison? 263 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 4: Good point. Let's go to Tunisia. 264 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: Now, Now, Tanisha, are you the parent in this situation 265 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 1: he created? 266 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 6: No? 267 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 8: No, my stepmom put me in this costume. 268 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 5: Okay, talk, I feel a little bit of a bit 269 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 5: of anger here, Tanisia. 270 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 4: As you said, stepmom, there go on what happened? 271 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 8: So basically, it was the last minute seeing I was 272 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 8: at a friend's house and she made me where she 273 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 8: got like a one of those kids, those what are 274 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 8: they called the no no cricket kid, like a first 275 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 8: aid kit. 276 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 3: It was on I had. 277 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 8: They had a fire blanket, one of those, yeah, and 278 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 8: she wrapped me in that and then got tomato sauce 279 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 8: and put it all over me and some bandages and 280 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 8: stuff and made me look like a car wreck incident 281 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 8: for Halloween. 282 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 3: That's very real. How did you feel about it, Tunisia? 283 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,079 Speaker 3: Like at the time, oh, I thought it was great. 284 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 8: I thought I looked phenomenal, and now there's photos looking 285 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 8: back on it. I was also wearing a Mexican hat 286 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:54,239 Speaker 8: for some reason, one of those one of those big hats. 287 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 8: I don't know. 288 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 3: I'm not sure what this is about Mexican drivers. I 289 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 3: don't know if she's I'm a good point there. 290 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:01,719 Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, I. 291 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 3: Know, right, as I said, smaller racist. 292 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 4: Let's go to Meghan from the step mum. Now, Meghan, 293 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 4: you're the parent here. 294 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: You put together a lazy costume for Yeah. 295 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 7: Absolutely. You know, I've got three children and as a 296 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 7: daughter and the daughter of a librarian, so you know, 297 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 7: book Week was a pretty big thing for us. But 298 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 7: for me with three kids and consecutive years at school, 299 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 7: I'd basically find something that we already had a costume for, 300 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 7: like a ladybug costume, and I would just google a 301 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 7: book image and print it off and then stick it 302 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 7: to the cover of a book we already had. 303 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 4: Make the costume first and attach it to a book. 304 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 5: How your vision did you just have like a few 305 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 5: costumes in rotation? 306 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 3: Meghan? 307 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 7: Oh, you could do anything. You could go part one year, 308 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 7: then ten another year, just whatever they had at the time, 309 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 7: you could recycle. Do you think that's Halloween as well? 310 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: Do you think there's a book about someone wearing a 311 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: sombrero who's been in a car accident. 312 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 7: Look, I do struggle with that be a Halloween one. 313 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, we'll look for it right now though, Woods 314 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 5: season two. Colin from Accounts is on Binge Best Show 315 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 5: last year stars Harriet Dyer and Patrick brawm All. 316 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 3: They joined us on Willing Were You right Now? 317 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:16,559 Speaker 12: We saw you when we were released in season one 318 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:17,079 Speaker 12: in Melbourne. 319 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, you're here with this. 320 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 13: You're bloody lovely and can I just can I just 321 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 13: go over what I told you guys when you were 322 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 13: in the studio truly, Season one of Colin from Accounts 323 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 13: was I think one of the best TV shows that 324 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 13: was made last year, and I truly truly mean. 325 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 12: That so much. 326 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: To know that season two is coming out makes me 327 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: just so so so excited. But since becoming such a 328 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: big fan of both of yours from Colin from Accounts, 329 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: I've obviously been following you guys on Instagram and whatnot, 330 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: and I've realized that, Harriet, you are a massive procrastinator 331 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: and this must be very hard to deal with. 332 00:14:58,440 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 14: Pat. 333 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: I've got some audio here of the two two of you, 334 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: I think collaborating on the script for season two. 335 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 11: One, So you couldn't start until I put that up. 336 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 6: Now, what are you doing. 337 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 12: Booking tap dancing class for next Tuesday night? 338 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 11: Okay, we're we're in the season. 339 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 3: Should we put that? 340 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 15: I told you I can't start till you fixed for 341 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 15: a second? Laight, bulb sort that ship out and tap 342 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 15: out here working away? 343 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: Should I be worried about what season two is going 344 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: to bring given that's been gone on. 345 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 11: There's no tap classes in it. 346 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 12: Honestly, there should be. 347 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 11: She did picture tap class? 348 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 12: I did. Honestly. It's hard to start. 349 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 15: I just want to say it was hard to start 350 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 15: season two because season one was. 351 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 11: So beloved working with someone who won't start. 352 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 15: If you never start, if you never start, it can 353 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 15: never be bad. 354 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 4: That's true. Great rule to live by. 355 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 12: Thank you. I remember that moment. 356 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 15: It was like, day, here we go, we got the 357 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 15: kid in daycare, left that, let's do it, and I 358 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 15: was just all over the shop. I think after that, 359 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 15: I said, we have to go to office works because 360 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 15: I want a new whiteboard. 361 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 12: And it's lunch. 362 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, where should go for lunch? 363 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 12: Do you have a drink? 364 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 11: Sure to coax a rabbit out of its hole? 365 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 5: It's obviously Wood and I work very closely together every day, 366 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 5: but we're not in a relationship. 367 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 3: With each other. That's you are public. 368 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 9: Pulic. 369 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. If we turn you guys off, my 370 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 3: stays with you. Please. 371 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 5: So an argument within work can affect our relationship away 372 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 5: from work, and an argument away from work can affect 373 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 5: our relationship within work. Yeah, being together, having a child, 374 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 5: being in a relationship, acting in a show, writing a 375 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 5: show together. For us, I know, the only solution is 376 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 5: just really radical transparency, because otherwise, if there's a flying 377 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 5: if there's a fly in the ointment or a tap 378 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 5: dancer on the whiteboard, then you've got an issue immediately. 379 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 3: How do you guys deal with that? 380 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 12: Look? 381 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 15: Patty said to me once in relationships that he's been 382 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 15: this is the most he's ever fought. 383 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 12: And I'm like, well, this is the least I've ever thought. 384 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 15: I guess I'm a crazy maker, but I think it's 385 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 15: important to. 386 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 12: Clean the pipes out, you know, get a little bit heated. 387 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 15: We actually had a mini fight yesterday because we were 388 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 15: nervous because the premiere was last night and we didn't 389 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 15: know what we're wearing, and we were so ratty and 390 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 15: jet lagged, and we were just being like snippy with 391 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 15: each other and it just started going up and up 392 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 15: and up, and I said, Patty, stop, we're just nervous, 393 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 15: and yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 394 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 12: That's it. We've got to do shortcuts. 395 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 15: I think if we had more time, we could have 396 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 15: done a big, big, old two hour blowout. 397 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 12: But who had the time. 398 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:45,400 Speaker 15: Yes, And also, we don't have this many this much 399 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,439 Speaker 15: time without our kid, like I wanted to just do 400 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:48,439 Speaker 15: the fight in two minutes. 401 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 11: We have a nice walk together, but also we don't 402 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 11: have like you say, like we got right, we parent, 403 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 11: we act blah blah, we don't care. Like there's no segmentation. 404 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:01,400 Speaker 11: It's all one big stew It's all in there. 405 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 406 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 4: And when you say it's all in there, Patrick, I know. 407 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:07,399 Speaker 1: Again talking with you guys about season one, you guys 408 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:10,640 Speaker 1: both said that you use inspiration from your real lives 409 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 1: for storylines of the show, and I'm just interested. Do 410 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: you ever have moments in your life though, where maybe Patrick, 411 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: you do something incredibly embarrassing and you just kind of 412 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 1: look at Harriet and go not for the TV show. 413 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 5: Oh that's a great question, hey, Patrick, for you answer, 414 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 5: We're going to go to a song here on Will 415 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 5: and Woody. I'll get your answer on the other side. 416 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 5: It's Willian Moody. You hope they have a great drive home. 417 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,479 Speaker 5: Don't forget. Season two of Colin from Accounts premieres today 418 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 5: on Binge. 419 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 3: You can go home, you can watch it. 420 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 13: It is. 421 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 5: I think you only get the first couple, or even 422 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 5: just the first today, because like all a hallmark of 423 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 5: all great shows is that it is released weekly. Oh yeah, 424 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 5: and you guys are on the weekly release, So it's 425 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 5: got to feel good. Patrick Bramla and Harriet Die on 426 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 5: your TV's again. Thanks for confirming that for me, Harriet, 427 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:53,400 Speaker 5: I love that confirmation in the background. 428 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:58,160 Speaker 15: Well, you know what last night at the premiere, the 429 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 15: head of ben Jalison Herbert burns. She goes and you know, 430 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 15: the first episode's coming out and then next week the 431 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 15: next one and said and Patty goes, yeah, and they're 432 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 15: not called binge anymore. 433 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 12: They're called regular television. 434 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, because that's that's how all the streamers are going. 435 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 11: It's like they finally figured out how monetize it. Let's 436 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 11: bring back in advertisment, let's drop it week. 437 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:19,159 Speaker 3: Haven't we done this before? 438 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 11: We mean, here are we still calling it streaming? 439 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,119 Speaker 4: It's all the feedback people are missing the ads. That 440 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 4: was the time to go and get to tell you 441 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:29,359 Speaker 4: bring the ads back. 442 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: But before the song there, I was asking you to that. Obviously, 443 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:37,239 Speaker 1: you use inspiration from your real lives and take those 444 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: stories and put them into the TV show. Are there 445 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: moments where embarrassing things happen and you have to look 446 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 1: at each other and go, no, that's not for the 447 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 1: TV show. 448 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 12: Honestly. 449 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 5: No. 450 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:48,959 Speaker 11: If it's funny enough, real enough, everything's up. Everything's up 451 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 11: for being on the show. Yeah, we had a few 452 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 11: things in season one. We've got a couple of things 453 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 11: this season. Maybe not as many, not as much. 454 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 15: Like silly physical comedy might be heartbreaking to here. 455 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 12: We do have just regular comedy. But that like the 456 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 12: pool out the window, the wing and the draw, the. 457 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 15: Dick pick and the tub like, they were real great 458 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 15: kind of ways to hook in an audience comedy. 459 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 11: Se what we. 460 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,360 Speaker 12: Haven't done yet is like projectile vomiting. 461 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 11: He's always hopefully, hopefully we'll just a good snot joke, maybe. 462 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 4: Like that. 463 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: There is a moment though, where Patrick, your character has 464 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 1: walked in on having private tons. 465 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,360 Speaker 4: Is that spial time? 466 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 12: Yeah, that was not from our life. 467 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 11: That actually wasn't, but you know it could could have been. 468 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:42,199 Speaker 5: You're clean skins. Patrick never never touched it down there 469 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 5: have you? 470 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 3: Military? Pretty early in the morning the cash man. 471 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 11: Alarm goes off. 472 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 4: That's what. 473 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 3: I got. Another question. 474 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: You also talk in this in this new season about 475 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: ways that you impress someone you know early in a relationship, 476 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 1: and obviously Harriet, your character in the first season went 477 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: for the old classic boob flash. 478 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 4: I'm just interested to feel comfortable. 479 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: Was there a moment between the two of you where 480 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:22,720 Speaker 1: one of you did something to impress the other in 481 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: your in your real life? 482 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 15: No, but literally, just yesterday I gave Patty a good 483 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 15: old double flash. 484 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 5: All right. 485 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 4: We're sitting at. 486 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 12: A pub in the Rocks. 487 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 15: Chatting huge a huge jet lag, and I just whipped 488 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 15: him out just to make him laugh. 489 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,160 Speaker 12: And the look in his face. 490 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 15: Was I haven't done that for years in the restaurant, 491 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,880 Speaker 15: just in a pub on the streets. 492 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 4: It fresh your famous, not be Pats Now. 493 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 12: I know I'm really dancing with the devil. 494 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 11: She loves it. She's never more alive than when she's start. 495 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 3: All right, guys, we're going to end things. There's going 496 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 3: that's hey, hey, hey. 497 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 5: Season two of Colin from Accounts premier today on Binge. 498 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,280 Speaker 5: Patrick Brammel, Harriett Dyer, it's so nice to speed you again. Congratulations, 499 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 5: not another series, hopefully see you again soon. 500 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 3: Congrats. 501 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 12: Women would Share Mind Mood. 502 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 5: That's right, We've got another season of Share My Mood 503 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 5: the podcast. Wherever you get your podcasts, just search Share 504 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:28,720 Speaker 5: my mood hugely important for us here on Will and Woody. 505 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 3: We think to talk about to share. 506 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 5: How you are going with personally, I think is one 507 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 5: of the best things you can do for your mental health. 508 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 5: With a long battle with depression, I know this to 509 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 5: be the truth. So we've got a whole bunch of 510 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 5: guests on Woods who are willing to talk about how 511 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 5: they get in touch with how they're feeling, how they 512 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,479 Speaker 5: express how they're feeling, so that their feelings don't fester 513 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 5: and doesn't lead to all those nasty things like rumination, anxiety, depression. 514 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 5: And I think the next guest for the podcast in 515 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 5: Kyle and Jackie O and you can get this wherever 516 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:56,160 Speaker 5: you get your podcasts. 517 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 3: We're gonna play a bit for you now. 518 00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 5: But this is a really important chat to have with 519 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 5: someone like San Lance, who is an alpha male. 520 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 3: He'd call himself that. 521 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 5: I think it is understood that alpha males traditionally don't 522 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 5: like sharing how they're feeling, and I personally think that 523 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 5: leads to a lot of issues with alpha males. They 524 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 5: get angry. And we touch on that with Kyle. You 525 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 5: can hear that in the full chat, and I think 526 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 5: it's interesting to hear him defend his position as well, 527 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 5: and you can take from that what you want. If 528 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 5: this is going to help you, if this is something 529 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 5: that you notice in yourself that maybe you're not doing. 530 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 5: Maybe you've got a partner who is like Kyle and 531 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 5: maybe they're okay, maybe they're going about it the right way. 532 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 3: There's no right or wrong answer for this. It is 533 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 3: whatever works for you. 534 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 1: Absolutely. What works for you is going to be very 535 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: different to me and you will. It's like we're all individuals. 536 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: And this is why this podcast is so fascinating. This 537 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: is why this chat with Kyle and Jackie Oh is 538 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,400 Speaker 1: so fascinating. And we are going to play an excerpt 539 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,879 Speaker 1: from the podcast right now. 540 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 16: Oh my god, can you get Kyle to talk about 541 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 16: his feeling mentally again? 542 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 3: It's one of those. 543 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 4: Guys that just likes to repress everything. 544 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 14: No, I'm what you call an alpha male. You guys 545 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 14: are beat a male. Anyway, We'll start when you're ready. 546 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: I feel now we've started, Kyle, I want to talk 547 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 1: to you. I reckon you've gained a little bit of 548 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 1: beta about yourself. No, what how how dare you because 549 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 1: you've got a little bit more emotional since having your child. 550 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 3: I don't. 551 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 14: Oh, that is true, you know. And I did say 552 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 14: this to Jackie. I said, did any of your ex husbands, 553 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 14: because there's quite a lot of them, did any of 554 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 14: them burst into tears when a duckling would charm up 555 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,399 Speaker 14: on the Kleenex commercial? Because before I could care less. Now, 556 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 14: every little every news story about kids or any suffering 557 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 14: of any child evokes me like some sort of demon. 558 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,480 Speaker 14: I just can't help I just burst into tears. It's 559 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 14: just a scary thing when you've got a child, right, It's. 560 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 4: Different totally, and it does it feel good for you. 561 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 14: To like, But it catch me a glimpse of myself 562 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 14: in the mirror because obviously there's mirrors all around my house. 563 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 14: You know, sexy guys have shit like that. Will you 564 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 14: probably have your mirrors covered over some the vampire problem. 565 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 14: But you know, no, I do like the fact that 566 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 14: more caring side's coming out. But yeah, I don't. 567 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 3: I don't. 568 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 14: I don't sit around the cafe with my mafia mates 569 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 14: bursting into tears and asking for deep dives on their emotions. 570 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,160 Speaker 14: I just my group of friends that we were avoids 571 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 14: of that behavior. 572 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 16: But Kyle feels uncomfortable though I think with talking about emotions, 573 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 16: and I think that's what makes him uncomfortable sometimes hearing yours, 574 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 16: because he's so the opposite of that. And I just 575 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 16: wondered if maybe, like while you've got him here in 576 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 16: the seat, you might be able to explain to him 577 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 16: why it is important to share some of that and 578 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:42,919 Speaker 16: talk about it. 579 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 3: Sometimes. What the hell are you doing, America? Which is 580 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 3: an ambush? 581 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 4: I would say, I'm sure you can agree with this. 582 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 11: It is. 583 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,040 Speaker 1: And speaking of releasing the hands, I feel like when 584 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,640 Speaker 1: you do show your emotions in little parts every now 585 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,239 Speaker 1: and then, it is releasing the pressure that builds up 586 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: inside you. And I think if you don't do that, 587 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 1: then the pressure builds up so much that you. 588 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 4: Might have an explosion. 589 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 16: Do you know? 590 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 14: See? 591 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 16: This is this is exactly what happens with Kyle, right, 592 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 16: And you're referring it to as a pressure cooker. 593 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 4: Is exactly right. 594 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 16: When you don't process and release those emotions, they come 595 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 16: out in other ways. 596 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:16,919 Speaker 3: I eat anger. 597 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,959 Speaker 16: So we watch Kyle get super angry over little tiny 598 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:21,880 Speaker 16: things that the rest. 599 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 3: Of us would be okay with. Ye, and he doesn't 600 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 3: understand that. 601 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 16: That's why he's so triggered because he's not releasing the 602 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 16: other stuff. 603 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 3: He's a work in progress, not even in progress. 604 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 16: Actually, we haven't even got to the program, haven't even 605 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,159 Speaker 16: got the permit from council Yetile do you get like 606 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 16: I saw the other day where you you lost it. 607 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 5: At someone and then I remember you watching about the 608 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 5: footage I saw on your Instagram and then you were 609 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 5: watching to make the footage. 610 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,400 Speaker 3: And you were like, oh shit, am I actually a dick? 611 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 3: Like you're watching it. Never I don't know whose show 612 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 3: you're watching. 613 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 4: I've never wondered if I was a. 614 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 5: Dick, because you were like, for the first time, I 615 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 5: think you said, for the first time in my life. 616 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 3: I'm looking at this thinking to myself, Oh my god, 617 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:00,040 Speaker 3: the thing. 618 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 14: I wondered if I was a dickad your words. 619 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:06,719 Speaker 12: This is so funny. 620 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 16: It's watching like two opposite men will. 621 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 3: What is it the world? 622 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,640 Speaker 16: And you've got the cars in there at the extreme 623 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 16: n You know. 624 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 14: You gotta ask yourself, which one are you taking home tonight? 625 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 3: I definitely will. And it's a package deal as well. 626 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 3: I forgot that. 627 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 5: I forgot what I was like, Wow, I want to 628 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 5: listen all right, Well, look, if you want to hear 629 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 5: the full thing, Head over to the podcast just search 630 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 5: Share my Mood. 631 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 3: Where you get your podcasts. That continues